jjakot Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
106	Where are all the good women?		jjakot	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	30/07/21 08:06 AM
58	Surely that’s a record at 23, maybe they’re triplets	Entitlement Princess	jjakot	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	01/05/21 02:40 PM
14	Feminism and TRP		jjakot	/r/askTRP	22/04/21 01:28 PM
5	Comfort tests		jjakot	/r/askTRP	12/06/21 01:43 PM
4	LMR?	Conversation	jjakot	/r/seduction	08/08/21 10:29 AM
2	Second date		jjakot	/r/askTRP	13/05/21 02:08 PM
1	Looking for orbiters or unicorn?		jjakot	/r/askTRP	24/05/21 04:36 PM
1	Feeld app bio	Resources	jjakot	/r/seduction	04/07/21 03:30 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I like girls with meaty labias i think there’s some truth in the idea that people have niche preferences and that you shouldn’t take rejection too personally. But I think this argument overlooks how strongly female attraction is shaped by social validation and group consensus, especially compared to men. Men’s preferences tend to be more individually driven eg a guy might like something that most other men don’t, and he’ll still pursue it without caring what other men think. But women’s attraction is often more socially media…	/r/seduction	05/03/26 10:42 PM
3	The ONLY post you need to read to attract girls Nah I’m actually crying 😂	/r/seduction	04/07/25 03:04 AM
3	Answers to the "What do you do for a living ?" question ‘I work in a strip club’	/r/seduction	06/03/24 03:06 PM
1	I can’t pick-up girls without antidepressants. If he didn’t I did, so thank you!	/r/seduction	25/05/22 06:54 AM
2	How can I go up to a guy at a party that I wanna fuck? What tf has happened to this sub?	/r/seduction	24/05/22 10:14 PM
13	There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want to Blank slate equalism, men and women are not the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 08:01 AM
1	CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless. I don’t think they took two seconds to genuinely think about that statement	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 10:17 AM
1	Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you? it's subjective though. The richest guy in my class at school was not deemed as high value by women and conversely the guy that was the most sought after was close to the poorest but he demonstrated high value/status through popularity (and good looks tbf). I personally think that the older a man/woman gets then there is a greater importance on money in what derives a high value male, a 45 yo woman at a yacht club will determine that money is a greater factor to her than a 21 year instagram mode…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 09:24 AM
2	Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you? Thank you! Say it louder for those in the back	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/21 12:03 PM
1	Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you? Being upper class and high value are not equivalent though, having money could be defined as a trait of being a high value male, it doesn’t encompass it solely	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/21 12:00 PM
1	Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you? Wdym what difference does that make, you literally said ‘outside of her pursuit of a high value man’, I’m willing to wager there is a significantly larger proportion of high value men that are non-monogamous, therefore at the very least their actions are not in line with your opinion. It also means 80% of men don’t have options, in my experience men are only as loyal as their options. How often is a woman in a relationship with a male who’s less attractive rather than vice versa? Because she kno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/21 10:26 AM
0	Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you? And that’s where you back up my point, statistically 20% of men are having sex with 80% of women (look it up), especially in this social media age, women are chasing men who are not their counterparts in sexual market value therefore trying to get a man to commit who has a ton of options is generally saddled with the woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/21 10:08 AM
0	Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you? Well that’s a strawman, you’ve created a scenario to demonstrate against a point I wasn’t making. I’m not saying males don’t value intimate bonds with women, but think to yourself, why is it generally the girl that holds the key to sex and men the key to the relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/21 09:58 AM
1	Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you? Because they’ve tried having that much sex and realised a solid stream of sex requires less effort so forego sexual variety	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/21 09:54 AM
1	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? Any tips on your profile/text game?	/r/seduction	19/10/21 07:33 AM
2	LMR? Thanks for the response. Yeah I did start stroking her arms and she didn’t back off so I guess I should have escalated further, good to know though for future	/r/seduction	08/08/21 10:49 AM
7	Where are all the good women? Thanks, I can’t disagree with anything you’ve mentioned but it’s certainly given me a different perspective on the outcome of that evening, especially what was within my control, I appreciate you writing this as it’s hard to point the mirror at yourself sometimes but I needed to read this	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	30/07/21 04:09 PM
1	My Ex-Girlfriend and I cannot seem to let each other go? How do I get what I want? Bro, leave this one. Been there, it’s hard to walk away granted but from what I’ve read she already sees you as an orbiter, once you allow yourself to compromise on your morals the relationship will never go back to what it was. It sucks but life moves forwards, maybe you think she’s the one, I can’t say that for you but whatever it is you think she provides to you, however special a bond you think is there, it was only temporary. Last thing, if she’s willingly hooked up with you whilst being ev…	/r/seduction	30/07/21 12:04 PM
6	Where are all the good women? A hundred percent this, have no problem getting sex but if I did a serious cost analysis escorts probably win this one	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	30/07/21 11:54 AM
10	Where are all the good women? Appreciate the advice bro, and yeah I generally like to split but if a girl is willing to get the drinks after the first bar I’ll get the first round for example. Yeah I couldn’t go full mgtow, I have a high libido, I also think it’s healthy to have sex regularly but there is so little value in the current dating market after you remove sex. We’re expected to lead the initial interaction, organise the date, carry the conversation and then certain women think they can get away with not even payin…	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	30/07/21 10:10 AM
6	Where are all the good women? I agree, and all the examples you’ve listed I’ve actually witnessed in real life. I think my choice of wording when relaying my thoughts is misplaced, what I believe though is that the only way this will change is if men stop pandering to vagina, at least it seems clearly that currently women are not self reflective enough to see their flaws so maybe some tough love will at least get them to address said issues.	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	30/07/21 09:42 AM
30	You ever wonder what happens to the heavily tatted girls, with drug problems, who are involuntarily stuck on the cc and who refuse to grow up? Well they end up like this. She is finally ready to start dating without the games and the bs. It's finally your turn! There is absolutely nothing about this woman’s physique or face that says she was at any point in her life even remotely close to an 8	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/07/21 11:27 AM
6	[deleted by user] Yeah advice ive seen is generally avoid cold approaching in gyms unless there are very obvious choosing signals, I mean no harm here but some girls have genuinely never returned to gyms before after being cold approached	/r/seduction	09/07/21 06:02 PM
55	25 year old virgin here. Been with people a couple times but have never gone all the way. Have a date tonight and then Netflix and chill. Any advice? Anything is appreciated. Just to tag on to this, probably too late but in future learn how to give her head before doing anything else, if you can make her orgasm/cum before you stick your dick inside her she’ll be more likely to cum from penetration, also take your time giving head and make sure she’s aware you’re willing to take your time by vocalising this (ie by literally saying to her: take your time) women can feel like guys aren’t necessarily doing this cause they enjoy it so they’ll feel pressured to come quickl…	/r/seduction	07/07/21 08:40 PM
11	I did my first cold approach ever! Firstly, I wouldn’t consider acknowledging this statement as code for ‘let’s have sex’ as game. Secondly, she never said you were wrong, she offered an alternative opinion based on her own experiences as a woman, whether she ‘knows game’ or not is irrelevant in this particular instance	/r/seduction	07/07/21 07:26 AM
12	I did my first cold approach ever! She’s a woman, she’s saying she doesn’t need to validate her anecdotal experiences with the amount of people she’s slept with and I’d agree	/r/seduction	07/07/21 07:15 AM
1	Feeld app bio Cheers bud	/r/seduction	05/07/21 05:40 PM
37	[deleted by user] A girl will always text you if she’s interested, girls feel more comfortable this way cause at least if she isn’t into you you don’t now have her contact details and she’s not at risk of being hounded by a guy she was just entertaining	/r/seduction	01/07/21 05:33 PM
1	Whats ur routine for first 3 dates? that's what's up hahahah	/r/askTRP	13/06/21 10:10 AM
1	Looking for orbiters or unicorn? I love this advice, I think a lot of my text game where I tried to establish comfort/rapport might have led to this so I’ll hold back and see what happens but this is solid advice yet again from the community, much love man	/r/askTRP	24/05/21 06:14 PM
1	Looking for orbiters or unicorn? Thing I don’t get is, there is no reason to sleep with me just because you’re at my house, surely she is capable of saying no if that is what she really wants, just put me off her totally tbh. And she’s mildly interesting, pretty hot in a girl next door kinda way, I’d probably arrange a third date if I thought it was actually leading towards anything. Haha must admit I was having blue balls, I’ve got a fwb back in the city now so she’s less appealing	/r/askTRP	24/05/21 06:11 PM
1	Looking for orbiters or unicorn? Thanks for the response, I mean she seemed attracted throughout the date, like a lot of iois, and without sounding too arrogant I’m a pretty good looking guy, at least comparatively anyway. Part of me thinks she’s apprehensive about sleeping with guys too soon which is why she sees the invitation to mine as a means for this to occur, however you could be on the money and she just wants the attention/validation	/r/askTRP	24/05/21 06:03 PM
1	Looking for orbiters or unicorn? I mean I’ve been on one date with her, not sure what gave her this impression either as we split the bill and I don’t think I exhibited other beta bux traits but I don’t discount this as a possibility, happy to hear why though	/r/askTRP	24/05/21 05:36 PM
7	Frauding to my girlfriend of 1 year This isn’t simp behaviour. Having a wide social circle is the biggest form of social proof, whether he is looking to form friendships to ‘impress’ the girl or not is irrelevant IMO as whether he keeps this one around or not, the next one will be similarly curious and there will come a point where it’ll affect their perception of his smv, it’s the equivalent of a red flag for guys.	/r/askTRP	21/05/21 09:23 AM
1	Second date That’s a very interesting take that no ones seemed to mention so far, but I think this makes the most sense out of all the responses. I don’t want to make assumptions but I presume you’re female, nice to have a balanced view if that’s the case and I appreciate the input 🙏🏿	/r/askTRP	13/05/21 05:49 PM
2	Second date Hahaha thanks I’ll definitely take it into account	/r/askTRP	13/05/21 04:12 PM
1	Second date Considered this initially but after hearing anecdotes of similar first dates that lead to being plates I’m tempted to try again, more so because I think it could be valuable experience whether anything comes from it or not and I’m arranging other dates in the mean time anyway so it’s no biggie really	/r/askTRP	13/05/21 03:07 PM
1	Second date This is great advice bro. I guess that’s the confusing thing, we’d established sexual chemistry via texting in the lead up to the first date and she’s initiated more suggestive texting since, so I’m confused why there was so little in our actual interaction but this is exactly what I needed to hear, gonna lay down the gauntlet	/r/askTRP	13/05/21 03:01 PM
2	Second date The book of pook? On it. I’ve watched a reasonable amount of old pua vids from Tyler etc and read a bit as well as just generally picking up tips from seddit/trp, you can always learn more but I feel I at least have the basics down but thanks for the recommendation	/r/askTRP	13/05/21 02:58 PM
3	Second date Yeah someone did mention it could be she has aspergers e.g. but fully aware it could be my skill set. Was just strange cause there were so many iois but nothing physically. Appreciate the response and I’ll see what I can improve before going out again	/r/askTRP	13/05/21 02:54 PM
2	Second date Yeah I didn’t want to regurgitate my previous post but I appreciate what you’ve mentioned. Not as a highlight, I was using it more of an example that it seemed like there was that lack of attraction, so it surprised me that she HMU the next day. I still have a lot to learn and I’ll be going through the sidebar but I appreciate the response and your perspective 🙏🏿	/r/askTRP	13/05/21 02:51 PM
1	Attachment, alphas and betas, red pill and a blue pill This post is so apt for me right now	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/21 10:46 PM
1	Feminism and TRP thank you, I didn't have the time to dissect this as perfectly as you have here	/r/askTRP	22/04/21 11:40 PM
2	Feminism and TRP I mean you're not wrong, my dad was a chad who just moves countries impregnating women and then leaving them with children so maybe not ball-less by the strict definition but I was then raised by my mother and we all know how that turns out. However, it's pretty clear red pill philosophy is becoming a lot more mainstream, whether it's enough to counteract the simps buying girl's onlyfans, only time will tell.	/r/askTRP	22/04/21 02:16 PM
2	Feminism and TRP I was sexting this girl who didn't hesitate to tell me she's a feminist very early, as soon as we're finished she said 'you know I consider myself a strong feminist, but when you called me a good girl I genuinely melted' man, females really are backwards sometimes	/r/askTRP	22/04/21 02:03 PM
2	Feminism and TRP hahahahahaha thanks for that last paragraph, I needed the laugh. I can't believe I never saw it for the shit test that it is, every girl that I've been with who's been a feminist has had no problem asking me to slap or choke them in our first sexual interaction and I've only just pulled up on this link after seeing how many feminists my friends are plating, and most of my social circle are either red-pilled or natural 'alpha's'	/r/askTRP	22/04/21 01:59 PM
3	Feminism and TRP I fully agree, however what strikes me the most is that a lot of popular media throughout history has generally been controlled by men, I wonder why this nice guy persona has been so prominently pedalled. And I relate with that guy, when you've internalized blue pill for so long having to immerse yourself into redpill ideology AND outwardly project this in day to day interactions can almost feel like you're being an imposter but you hit the nail on the head, the dual strategy influences even fem…	/r/askTRP	22/04/21 01:51 PM
7	Knowing women gets you more women. FR Dropping too many gems on me this evening, I think the place I need to improve most is linguistics, I still get approach anxiety and this sometimes hinders my conversation initially but I’m always the guy that’s talking to random strangers on nights out so I’m comfortable in groups and when alone with a girl, but trying to keep the interest of a set of girls without obviously isolating one (which generally leads to the others feeling less valued and leaving) is something I could definitely work …	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/21 06:57 PM
8	Knowing women gets you more women. FR Thank you so much for the detailed reply! This is such useful information, fuck it I’m going out tonight, main intent will be chatting to the bar staff to build rapport but will also try and find a group of girls to chat with, thanks for the inspiration dude, really appreciate it!	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/21 06:04 PM
19	Knowing women gets you more women. FR Op, love your writing style for one and great story. Question, do you go to bars on your own? I’ve got one literally behind my flat that lots of girls and guys go to so convenient but also not sure of the best way to approach a set if I’m by myself. Do you let the girls you’re talking to know you’re by yourself? And when you say ‘being social’ has improved your game, do you mean the act of actually going out or do you mean picking up activities that increase your social circle?	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/21 03:04 PM
1	Simp to pimp I hate that I know this all works but this takes some next level fuckery to internalise when you’ve been blue pilled your whole life. Saving.	/r/TheRedPill	14/04/21 02:27 PM
2	The problem is not and was never your "niceness". It was/is every other unattractive trait you selectively choose to ignore so you can play the victim Actually cracked tf up laughing at this just now, thank you	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/20 06:03 AM
3	no pussy in your 20s but a lot of pussy in 30s? I need to know how in 5 years you fucked over 150 women,doing the math that’s roughly 30 a year, for argument sake let’s say a year has 60 weeks in it, every two weeks a new chick.... hmm actually feasible when you lay it out but fuck me that seems like you went out a lot, my friends don’t like to go out like that did you just go by yourself?	/r/askTRP	24/07/20 05:19 PM
9	The types of girls I attract & why is it these ones I attract the most? Exact same reaction	/r/askTRP	08/07/20 07:52 PM