jjbarr19 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Confirm time for date tomorrow? She’s not flaky? You’re making a lot of assumptions here. I only said she’s forgetful. I never said she’s flaked on me multiple times in the past. Maybe like only once within the last 4-5 months? That’s not flaky at all. I only ask because usually we have a date and time. This time there was no definite time. Jesus man, like I know what you’re saying but you’re trying to mold a story that isn’t true	/r/seduction	15/11/19 09:05 PM
1	Confirm time for date tomorrow? No no, I said I should send something sweet. As in they convinced me to. And I’m going to have to disagree with you. Like many others, my time is valuable. I canceled other people’s plans to make time for this one. That’s why I don’t bode well with anyone who cancels on me. Unless I know it’s a legitimate excuse, I don’t fancy the action. If you’re unsure, tell me you’re unsure. But don’t say yes and be fickle. I texted her something short like what you said. We’ll see what she says.	/r/seduction	15/11/19 08:09 PM
2	Confirm time for date tomorrow? Trueee	/r/seduction	15/11/19 07:03 PM
1	Hooking up with a girl on Saturday, how to build attraction and not get needy? Ok, hopefully it goes in your favor. Let us know what happens.	/r/seduction	26/09/19 06:07 AM
1	Hooking up with a girl on Saturday, how to build attraction and not get needy? So don’t text her lmao. You’re actions are not congruent to what you’re trying to avoid. If you were the last one to text, leave it at that.	/r/seduction	26/09/19 05:39 AM
1	Hooking up with a girl on Saturday, how to build attraction and not get needy? My gut feeling is saying, she just wanted to flirt. Probably had no intention of seeing you. So when shit got real, she ✌🏼 At this point, there’s not much YOU can do. It’s been if you leave contact, for now. You asked her a question, right? If you text her back to change the conversation you’ll look like a sap. She’s obviously thinking out it. Who knows, Saturday isn’t for another few days so she could text you later on. Maybe even on Saturday. But do not text her until then. You’ll come across …	/r/seduction	26/09/19 04:45 AM
2	How often do girls initiate first contact compared to guys? Very rarely. In my experience probably around 10-15% of the time. But that’s the first move, correct? I feel like that’s fine. You’re the man. Make the move. Direct. Lead. And have fun. After that, you shouldn’t be initiating as often. She should. Or at least, she wants to. Usually the girls that have shown me the most interest or really liked me would initiate conversation almost all the time. Now, of course don’t have her make contact ALL the time. What are you? A pussy? No. Text her whenever …	/r/seduction	26/09/19 04:38 AM
1	What do you do on dates if a girl starts trying to talk to you about her problems? Well, listen. If you like her, you’ll care. If you don’t, you’ll want her to shut up. However you feel should directly translate to whether or not you’ll continue seeing her.	/r/seduction	26/09/19 04:34 AM
1	Girl sends paragraph apologizing after cancelling a date, attention whore or legit It’s not the end of the world. Be understanding when you see her tomorrow, and plan for another date. What you did isn’t too bad, she now knows that bailing isn’t cool, and it doesn’t fly with you. Just forgive and forget. If it happens a second time in a row though, drop her.	/r/seduction	26/09/19 04:31 AM
1	Introducing myself at college bar You could play it a few different ways. I personally never pick up girls at bars, mainly because I’m old fashion and like to take the girls I like out but I know a few pointers. Don’t be on the mindset that you HAVE to get a girl. You’re probably going with your friends, so have fun with them. Laugh with them. Get drunk with them. Girls notice guys more when they’re having fun with themselves - not the guys who roam around the room looking for pussy. Let’s say you spot a girl that you really lik…	/r/seduction	26/09/19 04:29 AM
1	So she acts like she likes me but says she doesn’t actually like me. Explain? I’m guessing you’re in high school right? Here’s a lesson for you. Pick up the subtle hints and don’t embarrass yourself, as in don’t force yourself into the friend zone. If you want to be with a girl, you need to make your intentions known from the start. Not explicitly, but flirt with her, ask her out, etc. To her, your behavior was simply friendly. So of course she’s going to see you as a friend. So when you magically come out and say, hey bitch I loveeee you, she gonna be like, nigha what. D…	/r/seduction	26/09/19 04:21 AM