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| – | "I see far more attractive women than men" shows that beauty standards for women are not highDressing up is different from brushing your hair and putting on clothes that match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Looking at "Simon biles dilemma" should be enough for men to know the main problem in datingThey’re different sports with different career trajectories. Almost all gymnasts retire in their early-mid 20s because of the nature of the sport, while swimmers may not even be at their peak at that age. Saying that Simone Biles is to gymnastics what Michael Phelps is to swimming just means that they were both the indisputable GOAT in their sport, not that their careers are literally identical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Looking at "Simon biles dilemma" should be enough for men to know the main problem in datingAnd what evidence do you have for this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Looking at "Simon biles dilemma" should be enough for men to know the main problem in datingDifferent sports have different competition structures. Gymnastics has much fewer categories to compete in, and therefore earn medals in. Also, women’s gymnastics is one of the few sports that’s more popular than men’s gymnastics, and they’re totally different sports not just easier and harder versions of each other. Male gymnastics couldn’t do half the stuff women do and vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Looking at "Simon biles dilemma" should be enough for men to know the main problem in datingShe’s built like any other high level gymnast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 01:14 AM |
| 8 | Looking at "Simon biles dilemma" should be enough for men to know the main problem in datingBecause she’s arguably the greatest gymnast of all time, and definitely the most decorated one. She’s to gymnastics what Michael Phelps is to swimming or Usain Bolt is to sprinting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 01:13 AM |
| 4 | Looking at "Simon biles dilemma" should be enough for men to know the main problem in datingSimone isn’t just a professional gymnast. She’s the most decorated of all time and has multiple moves named after her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 01:12 AM |
| 8 | Looking at "Simon biles dilemma" should be enough for men to know the main problem in datingSimone is absolutely on the same level as Michael Phelps. Both are the most decorated athletes in their sport. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 01:08 AM |
| 3 | I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight.No, I’m saying that you’re likely to see more couples with a heavier woman/thin man for those reasons. Most of those couples were probably similar BMIs when they got together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 08:25 PM |
| 0 | I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight.Many women gain significant weight in pregnancy and then struggle to lose it while their male partner never experiences anything that makes them put on significant weight. More men than women also work physically demanding jobs like construction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 07:12 PM |
| 3 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?Maybe because of the expectation that they’ll want to start a family and take maternity leave soon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 01:55 PM |
| 2 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)I think this has something to do with many women gaining a ton of weight in pregnancy and struggling to lose it. The men never experience something that makes them put on weight so they stay skinny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 06:19 PM |
| 1 | It seems like American women under 30 are increasingly splitting into two major categories (with some outliers, of course)Just responding to your cope 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 09:14 AM |
| 1 | It seems like American women under 30 are increasingly splitting into two major categories (with some outliers, of course)A 5’4 woman is more likely to carry weight in desirable areas. A man with a BMI of 30 will almost certainly carry most of it in his gut. A woman with a BMI of 30 might carry most of the weight in her boobs and butt and just come off as a little chubby and “thicc”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 03:40 PM |
| 7 | The best possible option for highly educated, high earning, healthy weight men in the west is to passport bro.And the average American man is 5’9/200 lbs. Same exact borderline obese BMI of 29. What’s your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 11:53 AM |
| 9 | 30+ year old women can be just as attractive as a 21 year oldMany women prefer to work out in group fitness classes rather than by themselves on the machines/free weights. Go to any pilates, cycling, yoga, or HIIT class (like OrangeTheory or F45) and your gender ratio will be flipped. There are also designated women’s areas in the majority of gyms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:12 AM |
| 5 | The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debateA 5'4 man is 5 inches shorter than average (5'9). A 5'2 woman is 2 inches shorter than average. He's the equivalent of a 4'11 woman in terms of relative height and how common they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 02:05 PM |
| 7 | Q4A At what body fat percentage is a woman's dating life hindered?Obviously college aged women will be thinner on average than a sample size that includes women of all ages. Most people gain weight as they get older, especially women after childbirth and menopause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful?It depends on the type of cheater: Serial cheaters who cheat in every relationship they have and seem to not be cut out for monogamy? They'll always have a wandering eye and feel stifled when expected to be faithful to one person; some may not act on it, but those with poor impulse control or a lack of respect for their partner will. People who've cheated in one relationship and never again. These are the people who are tempted to cheat because of issues in their particular relationship, or thos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 09:13 PM |
| 0 | Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos?Wow it's crazy that women with lots of disposable income who's job is literally to look good/interesting naked would have lots of tattoos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:19 PM |
| 12 | Men are shamed for wanting women equally or less attractive than them and acting frustrated when these women act like they are out of their league, yet women act entitled to men far more attractive than them all the timeHave you ever considered that maybe those two "plain loser" women were taken, not attracted to men, not looking to date/sleep around, or you're just not their type? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 07:51 PM |
| 0 | CMV: the TRP adage "don't listen to women" actually shows that TRPers have too few women in their lifeBecause you enjoy their company? As a bisexual woman this mindset has always been very weird to me because I would say I’m physically attracted to the majority of my friends, male or female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?She may not be your type but you can’t tell me that Kim K isn’t objectively above average looking for a woman her age (not just compared to other celebrities). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 04:46 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?Ah, the classic “Kim K is ugly” Reddit delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 10:16 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?Yeah I knew truerateme was BS when I posted there out of curiosity and was told I had to be below average looking because I have a bigger nose and forehead and wide set eyes. Not to sound super conceited but I get complimented on my looks regularly and have been asked to model multiple times (I’m too short and don’t have the right body type to do it professionally). I’ve also been hired for jobs that are known to only hire attractive girls. I KNOW there’s no way those things can be true if I’m a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?Wait are you arguing that Billie Eilish is ugly or that people dislike her and will rate her lower than she deserves because of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 03:58 PM |
| 3 | The reason women appear to be hypergamous is because the average (young) woman is more attractive than the average (young) manFew people are naturally very good looking, that’s pretty much the point of this post. Most people are pretty average and unremarkable looking with some visible flaws but it’s easier for women to mask this than men with the right makeup, hairstyle, skincare, etc. (the later are just as applicable to men but are much more commonly practiced by women). This makes the average woman who takes care of herself better looking than the average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 07:22 PM |
| 2 | The reason women appear to be hypergamous is because the average (young) woman is more attractive than the average (young) manOh agreed! I mentioned at the beginning of my post that most heterosexual couples I know are either fairly evenly matched or the girl is more attractive. The point of this post was to try to explain how that’s the case when women seem to find the majority of men unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | The reason women appear to be hypergamous is because the average (young) woman is more attractive than the average (young) manMen may face more rigid standards for their appearance but in my experience, women don’t tend to value physical attractiveness in their partners to the same extent as men do. Women may think that the average guy isn’t physically attractive (upon first glance) but it doesn’t mean that they won’t be attracted to him for a number of other reasons - confidence, sense of humour, style/aesthetic, intelligence, charisma, talent, what have you. See: how many women openly list average looking/unconventio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 05:25 PM |
| 2 | The reason women appear to be hypergamous is because the average (young) woman is more attractive than the average (young) manExactly this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 01:49 AM |
| 14 | The reason women appear to be hypergamous is because the average (young) woman is more attractive than the average (young) manFor what it’s worth, I say this as a technically bisexual woman who’s only dated and been romantically attracted to men! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobOk my statement was hyperbolic, of course I know that not every STEM major is inept in other ways and grad schools make an effort to look for well-rounded students rather than those who are only strong in math and science (hence the GRE scores). My point was that being a STEM major or having the strengths to succeed in STEM (aka being good at math and science) doesn’t make one more intelligent by default than students who go into humanities. Being good at math/science is just one of the many thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 10:17 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobI’m not sure what your point is. I mentioned living in Toronto because COL here is some of the highest in North America and really only lower than/comparable to a few other cities like NYC, the Bay area, Vancouver and LA - all big, coastal cities with massive job markets and housing crises. Even here, a middle class income starts at around 100k/year for a family of four, not a single person. Most people don’t live in cities as expensive as Toronto so claiming that $100-$130k a year PER PERSON is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobI’m not sure what your point is. I mentioned living in Toronto because COL here is some of the highest in North America and really only lower than/comparable to a few other cities like NYC, the Bay area, Vancouver and LA - all big, coastal cities with massive job markets and housing crises. Even here, a middle class income starts at around 100k/year for a family of four, not a single person. Most people don’t live in cities as expensive as Toronto so claiming that $100-$130k a year PER PERSON is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobI’m not sure what your point is. I mentioned living in Toronto because COL here is some of the highest in North America and really only lower than/comparable to a few other cities like NYC, the Bay area, Vancouver and LA - all big, coastal cities with massive job markets and housing crises. Even here, a middle class income starts at around 100k/year for a family of four, not a single person. Most people don’t live in cities as expensive as Toronto so claiming that $100-$130k a year PER PERSON is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 09:46 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobI honestly think the entire concept of intelligence is flawed because it’s really just a broad term used for someone having an aptitude for certain specific skillsets. Like, is intelligence a matter of how well someone learns and retains information? Their logic and reasoning? Their critical thinking skills? How well they communicate and express their ideas? Natural curiosity? How creative they are? Problem solving ability? I could go on. I think being good at math and becoming a good writer com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 10:36 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobDepends where. Here in Canada we still have schools with overall better reputations than others or that are more internationally renowned but some of our best and most competitive programs are at schools that are otherwise considered anywhere from ‘good but not the best’ to ‘will accept anyone’. Schulich, the business school at York University, is ranked higher and is harder to get into than Rotman, the business school at U of T, but aside from this program and a few others York is generally peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 04:56 AM |
| 4 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobI’m guessing this is because many people in high-paying fields grew up relatively wealthy and with parents who pushed them to be overachievers. These parents tend to enroll their kids in a variety of extracurricular activities, many of which are somewhat artistic - dance, art classes, instrument or singing lessons, acting classes, what have you. It makes sense that in a lot of these kids at least one of these interests sticks and they get pretty good at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 04:43 AM |
| 10 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobCan we stop with the STEM circlejerk? Not everyone is naturally good at math or science and that doesn’t make them any less intelligent or hard-working. They just have different strengths; look at all the STEM kids who struggle to write a basic essay or lack social/emotional intelligence. Or maybe some people really just want to be teachers. Not everyone aspires to be as rich as possible; for many, stable employment with a comfortable salary, summers off and great benefits, plus the opportunity … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 04:33 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobLmao what? Middle class starts at 100k? Since when? I could definitely agree that it should be in high COL areas and some reports put up numbers in that range for where I live (Toronto) but that figure is a) in Canadian dollars, 123k USD is about 96k CAD b) much higher than the Canadian or American average. Middle class income is lower almost anywhere that isn’t also a big city on the coast with a lot of jobs and an overpriced housing market. The middle-class income for Dallas, for example, is 6… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do.Nah, some dudes definitely have mommy issues or are desperate but some are just attracted to the experience, confidence, and maturity they associate with older women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 01:32 AM |
| 6 | Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do.No but MILFs are a huge things and are preferred by many young guys to girls their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 12:41 AM |
| 6 | If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage.So you’re saying every single mother got pregnant from a one night stand/casual hookup? What about all the couples who have a child while together and the relationship ends afterwards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Do y’all like women?Criminality is heavily correlated with socioeconomic status. Any family living off a single income is more likely to be poor and already poor women are more likely to become single mothers. There’s also the issue of those with a single parent being less supervised as kids/teens because the only available parent’s time is stretched thinner. Has nothing to do with being raised by a woman specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 05:10 PM |
| 5 | Are most people who can only imagine fucking young girls (18-24) around the same age bracket?Yeah I’ve always wondered how true the whole “guys are only attracted to women under 25/30 thing” was. I’m a girl in my early 20s and almost every single one of my guy friends and exes have told me that they love older women and have milf fantasies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Its perfectly reasonable not to date someone because of their pastBeing more sexually attracted to a certain race and being more likely to date people of that race as a result is different from flat out saying that you wouldn’t date someone of a certain race. That’s when it goes from being a harmless preference to prejudice imo. Think of it this way. I tend to be most attracted to men with dark hair and most of my exes have had dark hair as a result. Does that mean I would flat out refuse to date a blonde? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/20 12:41 AM |
| 1 | When women talk about what they want in men they are (unintentionally?) only talking about men who are already physically attractiveI’m not taking it as an insult and there’s no need to be patronizing about statistics and standard deviations. She may be a 5 by HOLLYWOOD standards but is she really below/just average compared to the majority of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 03:59 PM |
| 1 | When women talk about what they want in men they are (unintentionally?) only talking about men who are already physically attractiveHer not being your type doesn’t make her objectively below average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Today’s “slut culture” isn’t caused by a lack of slut shaming. It exists BECAUSE of slut shaming.So what if she gets tested and she’s clean? What if she went through a promiscuous phase but is now ready to settle down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 02:31 PM |
| 2 | When women talk about what they want in men they are (unintentionally?) only talking about men who are already physically attractiveAre you seriously trying to argue that this woman is a 4/10? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?21 year old white girl here, grew up in one of the most diverse cities in the world so my views are probably a little swayed by my upbringing. I really don’t think I have a racial preference at all. The guy I’m currently dating is white (Eastern European background), the one before him was black, the one before that was hispanic. I’ve found men of probably every race attractive and race really doesn’t factor into it at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Women’s attraction to tall men: social or biological?Why is everyone so surprised by this? Being tall is an attractive trait in men and, all other things being equal, the taller twin will be considered the better looking one. If the average man met twin sisters with equally attractive faces but one was flat chested and the other had amazing tits, or one was a little chubby and the other was in perfect shape, tell me most wouldn’t flock to the slightly hotter one. Same exact case as this and that’s not even taking into the account the novelty facto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Ending Child Support and Special Welfare Benefits Fixes the SMPFirst stat: how much of that 30% aren’t miserable incels but are just single and not into one night stands? I’m a young woman and I’ve also gone over a year without sex just because I was single and don’t enjoy random hookups. It sucked but I didn’t explode and plenty of my female friends have experienced the same thing. That 30% also includes men who are saving themselves for marriage, busy and focusing on school or their careers over relationships, asexual etc. Second stat: I’m sure you’ve hea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Men and women of PPD: what’s your “type”?21 year old girl here. I don’t consciously think I have a type but I tend to go for guys who are average height, in decent shape but not super built (think goes to the gym but only a few times a week and likes the odd pizza and beer body type), my age or maybe 3 years older max, and are either latino, black, asian, mixed race, or Mediterranean white. I’m not against dating white guys but I live in a pretty multicultural area and am mostly friends with people who aren’t white so I think it just w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 04:45 PM |
| 1 | What would disqualify a potential LTR or spouse in your opinionHow does that imply in any way that they're not attracted to black men? I truly don't have a racial preference and have found men of every race attractive but I've only actually dated two men in my life, one being white and one being hispanic. Does that mean I'm only attracted to white and hispanic guys? Not at all! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 09:47 AM |
| 4 | The people on here are hypocritical when they say women only want chadIsn’t that mostly chubby chasers and feeders at that point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?Kate Upton is a pretty accurate description, maybe a little more fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: If you were friendzoned, would you still stay friends with the person who rejected you or would you leave the friendship?Serious question: have you never gradually developed feelings for someone? Maybe men and women are different but there have been plenty of guys who I initially wasn’t interested in romantically who slowly became SUPER attractive to me as we grew closer, discovered more in common, and as I learned more about them. There are plenty of reasons to reject someone initially and later develop feelings for them other than ‘you weren’t good enough then but now my standards are lower/I’m more desperate’. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Waiting for sex: research agrees with FDS women that it is associated with better LTR outcomes.Religion is one thing, but someone who simply values marriage, monogamy and a traditional life more than the average person in 2019 is more likely to settle down in a relationship that may not be working and avoid leaving if there are problems. Their relationships may seem better on paper if you’re only taking into account breakup/divorce rates but these relationships may be toxic, the couple may be in a dead bedroom, they could have serious incompatibilities regarding lifestyle or money, they c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 05:24 AM |
| 7 | Waiting for sex: research agrees with FDS women that it is associated with better LTR outcomes.I think it’s more than having a high n count is probably correlated with a few different things that can all lead to lower LTR success. High n count = possibly insecure, attention seeking, and/or impulsive behaviour (bad for LTRs) High n count = less likely to be religious or just conservative in general, less likely to value marriage the same way and be as against divorce or raising a kid on their own High n count = probably more attractive and/or confident - easier to find someone to leave the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?By apple body I mean like I have big boobs with narrower hips. I don’t have a stomach. Idk why people are so hesitant to believe others when they say they look a certain way, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?I guess now it’s hypergamy to not want to date someone you think is creepy or unattractive? I’m not claiming to be an incel, just that I’m a decently attractive girl who has trouble with dating and finding relationships and doesn’t constantly have men throwing themselves at her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?I never said I don’t get approached at bars? I said when I do get approached it’s either by sleazy old men. drunk guys that just want to follow me on instagram or get my number but don’t end up messaging me, guys that want me to suck their dick in the bar bathroom or go home with them 3 minutes into meeting, or guys that I’m really not attracted to. My standards are reasonable but I’m allowed to have some I think. My point is that just getting approached at bars and being able to get Tinder matc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?I think that’s honestly it. I’ve literally thought to myself that I “don’t know how to girl” before and I’m aware that I can close myself off and have a resting bitch face. I was bullied pretty badly as a kid and had severe acne all throughout my teens which was just a one two punch on the ole self esteem and I think, while I’m pretty confident in my appearance now, the self esteem issues still manifest in the way I interact with people and go about my day. Any advice beyond smiling? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?I think you’re actually on to something. I have a bit of a baby face but also a resting bitch face and it probably does give off a prudish/stuck up impression. Do you have any advice on specific things you did to change your body language? I feel weird walking around smiling all day but I really do want to work on looking friendlier and more approachable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 05:16 AM |
| 4 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?Yup, body dysmorphia and disordered eating are a bitch. I have put on more muscle and lost around 5lbs since then though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?I’m white and come from a Russian/Jewish background. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:23 AM |
| 16 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?Hi I’m OP. I’m 5’6 and 135lbs. Bmi of 22 and wear a size 4. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?That’s interesting because I’m probably less attracted to white guys than guys of any other race. Your unsubstantiated presumptions are hilarious though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?Haha not the area I’m from, we have a big hookup culture around here, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?I’m from the Toronto area but live in a mid-sized college town in Southern Ontario! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 12:15 AM |
| 4 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?🤷🏻♀️ maybe I’m not, I’m going by the fact that I get complimented on my looks semi-regularly and got a pretty high rating when I posted on truerateme. Even if I’m average looking, RP logic should apply to average looking girls as well right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 10:58 PM |
| 5 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?Pretty much all the men in my social circle are either gay, already in a relationship, or I know enough about them to know that they wouldn’t make a good partners (history of cheating, ghosting, being flakey, whatever), which I’m sure is part of my problem. I feel like the girls who are always in relationships have also always had big groups of guy friends surrounding them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 10:53 PM |
| 4 | Has the shift in average been affected by the rapid rise in obesity among women?Ok by naturally skinny I didn’t mean “can literally eat 5000 calories a day while sitting on their ass and not gain weight”, I meant “has a lifestyle or appetite that allows them to eat the right amount to maintain their low weight without being conscious about it.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 10:30 PM |
| 6 | Has the shift in average been affected by the rapid rise in obesity among women?I think the stat probably has to do with a) more men than women being naturally skinny because of all the tall lanky guys with mega metabolisms and active jobs, b) more women than men being in the slightly overweight range because of all the women who gain weight with pregnancy, plus most women have lower daily calorie expenditures than men which makes it easier to overeat. I feel like once you get into the obese range the rates even out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Has the shift in average been affected by the rapid rise in obesity among women?Do you seriously think you can’t get organic food at regular American grocery stores? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 09:28 PM |
| 6 | Has the shift in average been affected by the rapid rise in obesity among women?Most basic bitches aren’t drinking frappuccinos lol. They’re drinking skinny vanilla lattes and diet coke and La Croix and getting drunk off White Claws. Frappuccinos are for 13 year olds and obese people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 09:26 PM |
| 14 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?Lmao that’s my favourite non satirical piece of satire ever written. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 09:21 PM |
| 7 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?Maybe I’m not, but doesn’t TRP extend this logic to basically every woman that isn’t fat, old or hideous? Even if you change the word ‘attractive’ to ‘not ugly’ my argument still applies. I admit I go through antisocial phases when I get busy with school/work but there are times when I’m very social. Last summer I was going out a couple times a week and always meeting new people and I had the same experience. By very unattractive, I mean like he’s obese or smells terrible or is way shorter than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: How would you feel if your partner told you they had plastic surgery done?How is a nose job any different from getting braces if you’re insecure about your teeth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity.She still wouldn’t be fat or seriously chubby as long as she wasn’t super short. If she’s 5’4ish, 140 is the upper end of the healthy weight range. That’s pretty much the exact point where most people look average/like they could lose 10-15lbs but aren’t fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 07:19 PM |
| 6 | Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity.You’re acting like 170cm is unbelievably tall for a woman, it’s 5’7. Well within the range of ‘normal’ height. I’m a little shorter than that and around 135 lbs and I don’t think I would qualify anywhere close to chubby. I wear a size 4 and have a flat stomach with visible definition. Most people would describe me as thin to average/fit. I was chubby when I was 160lbs and borderline overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 07:10 PM |
| 7 | Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity.Lmao dude 140 isn’t fat unless she’s like 5’2 or shorter. It’s average to a little chubby, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 07:02 PM |
| 25 | Crazy levels of infidelity from women in my experience. Stats just can't be accurate2/8 is a 1/4 of your guy friends dude and this a small selection of people that I’m assuming you consider not to be awful human beings. Now think about all the women those 8 friends have dated or married between them. How likely is it that most of them have come across at least one cheater in their years of dating? Pretty damn likely. As a girl, I hear about all the shitty cheaters my female friends encounter and as a guy you hear about all the shitty cheaters your male friends encounter. It’s n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 08:10 PM |
| 45 | Crazy levels of infidelity from women in my experience. Stats just can't be accurateYou could literally change women to men in every sentence and your point would be just as valid. I’m younger so I’m not talking about divorce yet but most of my female friends have either been cheated on or found out that a guy they were seeing was cheating with them and lying about being single. Cheating is hugely common in general and, while I don’t doubt that women may cheat a little more frequently because it‘s simply easier for them to find someone to actually cheat with, it’s not a gendere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 07:41 PM |
| 2 | are women uninteresting?It’s really the same for guys too. I’m a girl and my friends and I have a running joke that our type is exclusively mediocre looking guys because they’re the only ones that actually have personalities. I really think it’s just that people who’ve been good looking their whole lives rarely felt the same pressure as us normies do to work on their personalities - whether it’s through becoming funnier, more interesting, more social, friendlier, whatever - because they got attention and praise for the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Like cars, women depreciate with age, but unlike cars, they don't think that they depreciateDepends where you live. $70k can be anywhere from a great to a terrible salary and OP probably lives somewhere where $70k is average while $33k is borderline poverty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Are guys more attracted to above average but still ‘normal’ looking girls over mega hotties?Only chose her because I feel like she’s less of a controversial choice on a forum like this one that has some uh racially opinionated people than a darker skinned girl or one with less Eurocentric features. That’s not saying that I find her more attractive than girls that are fully black. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Are guys more attracted to above average but still ‘normal’ looking girls over mega hotties?Those are all obviously in that category as well! I mentioned those specific celebrities because they’re all completely different types and aren’t all ‘mature’ hot like your examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 07:07 AM |
| 7 | Are guys more attracted to above average but still ‘normal’ looking girls over mega hotties?TIL: I just don’t find Anna Kendrick as attractive as everyone else seems to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Are guys more attracted to above average but still ‘normal’ looking girls over mega hotties?Admittedly Zendaya might be a bit of a stretch, how about Naomi Campbell in her prime instead? I think the distinction is that Anna Kendrick posting on Instagram as a regular girl wouldn’t get any sort of benefit from her looks alone, while a ‘mega hottie’ would be rolling in brand sponsorships and getting flown out by celebrities and professional athletes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Are guys more attracted to above average but still ‘normal’ looking girls over mega hotties?I would consider someone like Megan Fox in her prime to be a mega hottie, but since I know I’ll get 10 replies saying that she’s not even that hot I just want to emphasis that type plays a HUGE role in bringing someone up to this level for an individual. Really into tall blondes? Blake Lively. Really into petite brunettes? Ariana Grande. Really into black girls? Zendaya. Really into the porn star look? Kate Upton. All of these women would fit into my mega hottie classification because they stand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Are guys more attracted to above average but still ‘normal’ looking girls over mega hotties?The kind of woman that stands out for her looks and is way better looking than the girls you see out and about on a regular basis. Who that is is obviously very dependent on type, which is why I hesitate to name any specific celebrities as examples, but these girls are the type that could make money off their looks alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 06:04 AM |
| 6 | Are guys more attracted to above average but still ‘normal’ looking girls over mega hotties?I’m wondering if it’s because they genuinely find the ‘cute but nothing special’ girls more attractive than the really hot girls or if they’re subconsciously affected by their own insecurities and beliefs about what kind of girls they can get. I know this is a anecdotal but I know a girl who’s REALLY hot - like, bottle girl at a top club in a big city and regularly getting hit on by celebrities and professional athletes hot - yet both her and her friends say that she almost never gets hit on by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Personality v.s. Look(isms) of men?I’m a 21 year old decently attractive girl and I’m definitely much more of a sucker for personality, although the big caveat is that I can’t find them ugly. There have been completely average looking guys that I’ve found myself super attracted to because they were funny, charismatic and we had good chemistry. Meanwhile, a guy can be 6’2 with an 8 pack and model face but I’d get turned off if he was an idiot, couldn’t make conversation or was openly rude. The guy I was most attracted to in my lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Trade-off question to women: would you rather have as LT partner a really attractive guy who makes less than you and is not super confident or an average looking one who outearns you and has a confident personality?I don’t care that much about earnings but if we’re talking about the average looking guy having a better personality overall (funnier, more intelligent, more confident, treats me better etc.) then I’d pick the average looking guy every time. The only time I would go out of my way to go for the most attractive guy possible is if all I want is sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Slut-shaming is not only factually correct, because overwhelming evidences shows a woman's N count is inversely correlated to her future marriage stability and happiness, but it is also healthy.Hi, I’m a 21 year old above average looking girl who’s only had sex three times because those were the only times I wasn’t too shy/awkward to take advantage of opportunities to hook up. When I was younger and 20lbs heavier with bad acne and terrible makeup/hair skills I never had the opportunity to hook up at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Slut-shaming is not only factually correct, because overwhelming evidences shows a woman's N count is inversely correlated to her future marriage stability and happiness, but it is also healthy.Nothing wrong with video games but if a guy is playing them in excess to the detriment of his health and relationship with his wife then it’s a problem. A couple playing video games together because it’s a shared interest is different from a guy locking himself in his room all night to play video games alone while not paying attention to his wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/19 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Slut-shaming is not only factually correct, because overwhelming evidences shows a woman's N count is inversely correlated to her future marriage stability and happiness, but it is also healthy.I’m a 21 year old woman so no I haven’t, but even I can tell you that you’re pretty naive if you think it’s only women that change after getting married. Maybe women wouldn’t be tempted to cheat either if their partners didn’t gain a ton of weight and spend all night drinking beer, playing video games and watching porn while ignoring them? My point is, people in general are driven to cheat when they’re not happy in their relationships. Some people are just assholes who shouldn’t be in monogamous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/19 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Slut-shaming is not only factually correct, because overwhelming evidences shows a woman's N count is inversely correlated to her future marriage stability and happiness, but it is also healthy.The problem with these studies is that they don’t take into account anything besides partner count itself, which really doesn’t say much about someone’s actual habits or attitude towards relationships. Did they have the sex in committed relationships or during night stands? Is their partner count higher because they cheated? Did they go through a slutty phase years ago that they’ve moved past completely? Did they have one or two partners per year consistently over the last 20 years or 20 partner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/19 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Slut-shaming is not only factually correct, because overwhelming evidences shows a woman's N count is inversely correlated to her future marriage stability and happiness, but it is also healthy.How do you explain the huge number of men that cheat then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/19 04:10 PM |
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