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Honestly, OP, your non-virginal GF was never a Unicorn. You put her on a pedestal, hamstering whenever she would engage with orbiters in order to further create this Unicorn illusion. The lack of vetting falls on you. Being in her Frame falls on you. I think you’re missing the Lesson here too, enjoying yourself a nice lengthy stop at the idea of “Women Lie” instead of evaluating your own inability to find an earnest partner.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/26 08:04 PM
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Read “The Rational Male” and Pook, if you want to know more about RP Theory. The expectation here is that you’ve read or at least have begun reading the Sidebar before posting here. Definitely shouldn’t be giving out advice, if you haven’t internalized the basics.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/26 08:04 PM
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Verm isn’t telling you to lose your shit when setting a boundary.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/26 07:46 PM
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Coming onto a post where someone is looking for help to just put them down is pretty lame.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/26 07:18 PM
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Honestly, I’m wondering what’s going on with your Emotional Regulation— how does something so insignificant create such an extreme, volatile reaction for yourself, dude? You can be chill and state your boundary, but whenever you bundle boundaries with emotional dysregulation you’ll kill attraction. Read WISNIFG and NMMNG. Let her know this bothered you, and move on with your day. There’s a lot of codependency in your Frame, OP— it’s the type of Frame that finds itself negotiating desire through …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/26 06:26 PM
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TRM, but read both honestly.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/26 04:53 PM
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Have you read Dale Carnegie?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/26 08:26 PM
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I can’t say I have ever spent much bandwidth on a post-wall woman’s beta orbiters, and honestly a woman with an abundance of beta orbiters vets herself for me— makes moving onto the next person super smooth.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/26 07:24 PM
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Whenever someone tells me that High N Count doesn’t matter, I have to tip my hat to them, as I’ll gladly applaud anyone who doesn’t feel utterly cucked by the Ghosts of Cocksmas Past. But I also have to wonder how often these folks fuck without Intention.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/26 06:48 PM
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You’ll improve your Social Skills more with practice & research than with a subreddit. Have you read Dale Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends and Influence People?” Solid read for Communications 101. What events do you have coming up where you are socializing?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/26 06:08 PM
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I’d use Amused Mastery and some A&A, reread WISNIFG, and move about my day honestly. Are you finding that you get Comfort Tested like this a lot?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/26 06:05 PM
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Tell about your current sex life. If you’re going to throw stones, then you may as well give us a tour of your glass house.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/26 06:08 PM
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Internalizing E. B. White’s theories on writing style would do you wonders, OP— pickup a copy of “The Elements of Style” by Strunk & White, if your goal is to clean up your writing. The world has plenty of books on style that can help you write better, and White is a solid starting point. I am stoked that you’re open to feedback and looking for it, as I usually avoid your write-ups for consistently being so verbose that your main points get consistently muddled and even lost. You could cut the w…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/26 03:33 PM
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I’d crack open WISNIFG & NMMNG, if we’re just going to default to insults and body shaming our girlfriend whenever conflict arises.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/26 05:44 PM
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How did the date go? Field Report?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/26 01:20 PM
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This feels like a regurgitation of Jim Collins’s work, specifically the Flywheel Effect & Doom Loop from “Good to Great.”
/r/TheRedPill23/06/26 07:42 PM
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The whole MRP Subreddit— albeit, I’d get the fundamentals down and read the core Sidebar Books (TRM, Pool, WISNIFG, and NMMNG) before hitting them up with questions.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/26 12:45 PM
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I’d get a gym membership, and start lifting heavy today, while hitting your protein goal (.8g-1g of protein x your body weight lbs). That’s one simple change that you can make immediately. Clean up your resume every day, and apply for jobs every day too. Why do you feel like you’re less than other people? Do you feel like you have a Mission?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/26 05:40 PM
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It seems silly that lifting consistently is listed in your Mission, but you aren’t doing that. I’d track your protein intake, if you want to build muscle too.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/26 08:27 PM
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What actions are you taking to ensure you are meditating consistently? What prevents you from meditating consistently? I’d also make sure you’re including your stats in your OYS: Sidebar material read, lifts, weight & BG%, Short Term Goals/Mission, etc— it helps set clearer intentions for pursuing your Mission.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/26 03:17 PM
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You should post a second OYS in the new thread with your stats and an update— keep pursuing your mission, dude. I’d love to see you talk about how going to parties and being more social has improved your Frame & Game in another OYS.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/26 07:09 PM
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What aspects of your Mindset cause you to lean into Passive Aggressive behavior instead of literally doing anything else?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/26 07:06 PM
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Focusing too much on Body Count is honestly a “majoring in the minors” type of thing— I’ve had successful relationships with High & Low N-count women, and anecdotally I can vouch for the sentiment that lower body count is more enjoyable for me. I’d be less focused on Body count, and more focused on developing your Frame, as you mentioned getting Oneitis here. There’s bigger fish to fry, but Body Count is still worth vetting for. If you want to work on improving your Frame, and your Grind then I’…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/26 05:16 PM
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Dude— mental wellness practices are so important. We can talk woowoo-woojoo style all day, but taking the time to actually do these practices shifts our Frame. You’re writing make it seems like you may be a bit more focused on Past Missed Opportunities instead of feeling Gratitude for the Present State & Journey— it’s all a balance, but don’t get so bogged down in what you missed or haven’t done that it starts feeling like a Scarcity Mentality. I think it’s worth including the Sidebar & RP Theor…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/26 04:55 PM
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I would start posting in the OYS Thread with your stats, if you really wanted to work on your grind. I think this is an “Attract what you are” or a “Men are the Containers, Women are the Liquid” type of thing. You don’t have Frame or a Mission, so you end up with a lass who is looking for a Man who values his Mission. The body shaming is wild to me. Nothing kills attraction with the same eloquent precision of shame and guilt. I’d imagine that if you were more focused on Lifting & your Mission th…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/26 02:07 PM
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The Untethered Soul is an excellent read— can’t talk this book up enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/26 03:48 PM
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OYS has been around this forum for two or so months— it’s newer, and I’m hoping that we get more folks coming back with consistent OYS posts, but so far it’s been transient guests stars dropping one post and peacing out. WISNIFG=When I Say No I Feel Guilty— start it during your next lifting session.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/26 07:56 PM
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Pook & NMMNG are fine spots to start. Pook is an excellent read, but if someone is struggling with Shit Tests, I’m always going to direct them towards WISNIFG. Seeing how you have a lot of areas that you want to improve, I’d suggest posting in the OYS thread. It’s a solid way to maintain accountability.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/26 07:30 PM
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> “Hi I recently spiraled into doom again "jerking 4-5 times a week". Junkfood in the system trying to grab external validation from social media by posting reels. How do I increase my smv to the absolute max” Lift heavy things. Log your protein & calorie intake. .8g of protein x your body weight lbs is a fine start for figuring out your Protein goal. I’m 211 lbs roughly, and have my protein goal set to 200g a day— super simple to hit once you’ve developed the habit. > “How do I remain calm and …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/26 07:22 PM
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This isn’t the Saggy Balls Wisdom that I come to MRP for.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/26 05:49 PM
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Thank you for all the insides you shared. My insides are always open for you, bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/26 11:09 PM
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OYS 6… Stats: Mid 30s, BF 18%, 6’ 2”, 211lbs LTR 2+ Years, No Kids Readings: TRM (all volumes), Pook, NMMNG, WISNIFG, The Sex God Method, The Way of the Superior Man, 48 Laws of Power Current Reading: Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck BP: 180lbs, 7 reps Squat: 245, 8 reps In my last OYS I intentionally focused on my relationship with my older Brother, as he stopped answering my calls for about three years, and I have no idea why. I leveraged lessons that I have been picking up in Manson’s book, de…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/26 11:00 PM
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Honestly— I had a lengthy period of time where I was hiding my booze from folks, and the realization came to me: “This isn’t normal. Normal people don’t hide their alcohol consumption from friends and family. That’s what an Alcoholic does.” I lived with that revelation for two or three years before even attempting to moderate my alcohol intake. I gave moderation a go à la Allen Carr, and even had some success before getting back into the binge drinking. I rolled the dice on AA, and found a lot o…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/26 07:03 PM
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This is the last time I’m mentioning alcohol as I’m over it, the sixpack wife bought is already catching dust in the cellar. I’m confident that I will never fall back into such self destructive behaviour. It’s cool that you aren’t mentioning alcohol, since you’re over it. He‘s a heavy wine drinker and expects me to keep him company and compliment his expensive $1k+ wines he offers. When we meet, we use to drink up to 6 bottles until deep into the morning. I thought you were over the alcohol. If …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/26 05:29 PM
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I remember a fellow telling me that a woman would crawl through a hallway covered in broken glass to suck Chris Evans off. While that’s a wild hyperbole, I definitely see the value, as a pregnant lass will still be down to have sex, if the value is there. In this metaphor the pregnancy is the broken glass naturally, and you aren’t actively trying to build muscle through strength training so there’s not really a Chris Evans or Man of Value to be found. Post your lifting stats, Body Fat %, Height,…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/26 03:53 PM
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NMMNG & WISNIFG go hand in hand— they do be the Shit Test playbooks imo.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/26 04:20 PM
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What actions are you taking to further your Mission and be a Leader, while your wife is pregnant? I think this is a solid example of how chore-play doesn’t lead to foreplay, and I’m getting a lot more information on your pregnant wife’s frame rather than your own. STFU is a great tool, but you really want a healthy DGAF Frame with a whole bag of tricks to pass Shit Tests— what techniques can you leverage from WISNIFG to pass your wife’s Shit Tests? How are your lifts?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/26 02:16 PM
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Stillness brings peace— on days where I begin my morning with Healing Tones & Meditation, the Universe consistently just feels like it’s working more in my favor. I know that isn’t the case scientifically, but it shifts my Frame enough where not giving a fuck flows with much more ease & grace. Personally, I wish Squash had a Time Machine, because this type of Crab behavior is something folks can vet for. I get that it’s not a helpful sentiment to Would’ve, Could’ve, Should’ve here. A helpful tho…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/26 05:22 PM
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I don’t think I’m the one raising or lowering anyone else’s value in this type of situation— Crab Wife, however, is lowering her own value with her actions. Personally, I struggle with emotional regulation sometimes, and it’s something I’m working on— if I’m being straight with you, I’d need to take a break from Crab Wife for a hot minute, before I could even calmly approach any type of conversation about this. I would have to take some time calming myself with meditation, exercise, music, mamma…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/26 03:17 PM
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I don’t know if I’d call my partner bringing home a Six Pack to tempt a relapse a Shit Test— as a recovered-ish alcoholic, I’d call this some royally fucked behavior. Squash’s Wife is a Crab in a Bucket, and who wants to fuck a Crab on a Bench?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/26 01:22 AM
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Honestly, I’d toss this in the AskTRP Megathread or post in the OYS about the pursuit of your Mission. It’s hard to deconstruct your entire relationship from a few sentences— I’m a believer that we live life in phases & seasons, but I also aim to have many mating seasons. What’s wrong with “no longer think[ing] about having crazy rabbit 🐇sex with her?” Are yinz less attractive now or something?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/26 09:58 PM
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Correct— in order to maximize your sexual strategy, it’s best to put your Mission & Growth in the forefront. Sidebar covered this eight years ago just as it does today. Feel free to check out my OYS’s, if you want to deconstruct my Mission.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/26 04:39 PM
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Bullet Journal: Make a list of Activities & Places you want to explore in the city. Go explore these places, and ask strangers on Online Dating sites, Friend Meetup groups, and hobby groups to join you— practice Vetting women for romance and men for friendship. If I was single in a new city, I’d be hitting up Raves and the Blues & Swing dance scenes, but that’s the type of stuff I’m into.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/26 10:34 PM
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Text if you want, friend— the way I see it, I only have so much Mental Bandwidth in a day to spend on what I want to do, and I’d rather be doing a lot of other things rather than texting folks. Texting Game can be a super useful tool, but with my Game I just set the expectation that I won’t be texting much as it’s not my thing— a worthwhile woman will respect this boundary/expectation. The natural Dread that comes from naturally not being a heavy texter is a sweet lil’ cherry to put on top of yo…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/26 08:14 PM
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Food for Thought: How would your inner circle of mates describe your Energy, your Personality? I ask because I wonder how you would describe your own energy, and if it’s something you are satisfied with. Living in the middle of nowhere isn’t for me— I taught for a year in SW AZ in the middle of bumfuck nowhere: Too few people and too much cousin fucking. I can see a limited boonie population limiting your dating pool, but beyond that there’s just so many wonderful places you can live.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/26 02:27 PM
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Go on Dates. Vet women. Do things you enjoy with women (and men) that you enjoy. Not trying to be mean, but your question is one of those things with an obvious answer— if you want a rotation, you have to go after it.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/26 02:21 PM
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The solution to not lifting heavy consistently is to lift heavy things consistently— the big shift for me was realizing that I Min-Max so many nerdy, inconsequential hobbies in my life: D&D character builds and Fantasy Football strategies for example. Now why wouldn’t I apply the same exacting discernment to building muscle? It seems silly to love a hobby more than my own body.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/26 02:13 PM
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Have you started using Dumb Bells yet? How did your first OYS go? I’m seeing a repeated flow where you say you’ll do something, and then you just don’t do the thing.
/r/askMRP23/05/26 12:36 PM
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Healing my relationship with my brother isn’t some outcome dependent, conditional contract for my sobriety— it’s the focus of my OYS, however, as it’s more important than a lot of the daily upkeep I have going on in my home and career. I’m not looking for external validation from my brother— I think on a fundamental level this whole thing created an abandonment wound that I’ve healed from, but I’ve been enjoying my life and pursuing sobriety well enough for the past three years without him. It’s…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/26 11:50 AM
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OYS 5… Stats: 35 yo, BF 18 %, 6’ 2”, 211lbs LTR 2+ Years, No Kids Readings: TRM (all volumes), Pook, NMMNG, WISNIFG, The Sex God Method, The Way of the Superior Man, 48 Laws of Power Current Reading: Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck BP: 180lbs, 7 reps Squat: 245, 8 reps I spent last week enjoying my mates Bachelor Party in Gatlinburg, TN— I still managed to get some lifting sessions & yoga flows in, but I cranked the tempo down since we were doing longer hikes. Lifting is still consistent. The on…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/26 09:18 PM
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Heard that, friend— thanks for the clarity. OP— I’ll give you a more substantial answer. I personally have met a lot of women doing social dancing: Blues, Swing, Waltz, Salsa, Tango. Plenty of different forms of dance to explore, and the Swing & Blues scene are typically chiller vibes, but yrmv as every city & scene is different. I’ve also met a lot of women at Raves & Shows, but I typically have a lot of women cold approach me at shows, since I know how to dance well.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/26 08:03 PM
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That makes sense: for clarity, General RP questions can get their own thread, while anything involving OP’s specific circumstances belong in the Megathread? Is that correct?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/26 05:49 PM
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What’s wrong with your Health? Post your stats/lifts in your OYS, if you want to focus on Health.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/26 03:33 PM
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I’d pop this question in the AskTRP Megathread. Hit the Sidebar too, dude.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/26 03:22 PM
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What’s your Mission? Why are you isolating yourself instead of leaving the home?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/26 07:39 PM
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What social situations have you put yourself in since you have posted this? I’m not sure what your stats are: What books have you read, how much do you lift, what’s you mission? What is your Mission, and how does a semi-uncomfortable situation help you further your Goals?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/26 04:13 PM
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Sidebar, dude— Looks, Game, Assets: Have at least two. Three is best. Rollo covers this in TRM. I always find that the dudes who feel fatalistic, because they are “chopped” usually don’t lift— their grooming usually leaves something to be desired too.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/26 04:11 PM
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Lifting isn’t an optional component to this. How has lifting Heavy with Dumbbells at Home been treating you this past week? If you haven’t done any heavy lifting this week, I’d get to a gym membership.
/r/askMRP19/05/26 02:27 PM
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How’s your lifting & diet been? I’ve found that I have substantially more energy when I lean into fine tuning my health.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/26 05:40 PM
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I’m confused— I asked you when was the last time you went lifting. You don’t have to start DEERing on my behalf, you can just give me the date of when you last lifted something heavy in a gym.
/r/askMRP11/05/26 11:10 AM
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Muscles apply Dread naturally. I’d start locking in with my own exercise, grooming, wardrobe & styling, diet. When was the last time you went lifting?
/r/askMRP09/05/26 09:30 PM
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Get yourself a copy of TRM, so you can understand hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/26 08:49 PM
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I don’t think Lifting is an optional component to this, but honestly you aren’t even doing any difficult exercise that could compare right now. Shoot— if a dude told me he didn’t want to lift, and was doing 3-4 Vinyasa Hot Yoga flows a week, I’d think that not lifting heavy is lame, but at least that dude is challenging his body, doing something hard. You can say all you want that you want to exercise more regularly, but if you really wanted to then you just would. Acta non verba, dude. You can …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/26 08:47 PM
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Calories are the problem— you are underweight and need to consume 300-500 calories above your maintenance calories to do a Clean Bulk. If you want to build muscle, then you need to hit your protein goal (.8g-1g x your body weight lbs). I like a classic PPL split personally, but there’s a million ways to skin this cat— Be consistent with your lifting sessions despite being “super busy with work and everything.” You can be busy, overloaded, and still hit the gym for a half hour or 45 minute sessio…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/26 08:45 PM
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I’ve listened to few things like that in the past— I specifically remember HornsOfApathy being one of the dudes reviewing OYS. Good call on reviewing something like that. My car rides are filled with The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, The Tao of Pooh, whatever fun novel I am reading, and EDM sets— I think I got the growth grind for car audiobooks flowing for a while. In terms of answering “What am I Doing?” I do feel like I’ve been tightening up how efficiently I get done small everyday errand…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/26 05:54 PM
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What’s stopping you from Counting your Calories & Macro’s? I’ll be honest with you dude— I locked in on my macros a wee over a year ago, and it felt like a cheat code. I’ve always enjoyed lifting, but never really built substantial muscle due to the lack of protein in my diet. Getting enough protein is vital. I’d include your Body Stats in your OYS— Weight, Body Fat Percentage, Bench & Squat Lifts, if you want to be more Responsible for your Body. Why aren’t you lifting consistently? You only ne…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/26 05:11 PM
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1.) This is on the Sidebar— Acts Non Verbal is always a fine reminder. 2.) Stop Negotiating Desire— “No” isn’t some hidden Womanese code. No means No when it comes to consent. If a woman had Genuine Desire for you OP, you wouldn’t have to do mental gymnastics to explain what No really means— “she will be interested enough in you, and have the desire enough, to know how to please you without you explaining it to her.” 3.) A lot of Men never fully develop the abundance mindset to properly vet wome…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/26 01:29 PM
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OYS 4… Stats: 35 yo, BF % ??? (Will measure & update), 6’ 2”, 211lbs LTR 2 Years, No Kids Readings: TRM (all volumes), Pook, NMMNG, WISNIFG, The Sex God Method, The Way of the Superior Man, 48 Laws of Power Current Reading: Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck— can’t say I dig folks who talk up Bukowski, but I am enjoying the different emotional flow for Detachment here. BP: 180lbs, 7 reps Squat: 245, 8 reps I started looking at the MRP Subreddit’s OYS Threads to help me better organize my thoughts. …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/26 10:01 PM
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I’d imagine eating out a lot is hindering your health & wellness goals too. What are you planning on Meal Prepping this weekend for the work week?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/26 05:04 PM
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“I am just very rigidly goal focused in life…” Journey before destination, Han Brolo. You can keep on Grinding, while feeling a fulfilling Gratitude for the life you’ve built. I only make $62k, and definitely want more for myself fiscally, but I also feel a lot of gratitude for the work of art I’ve crafted my Body & Soul into. It’s a spectrum, a balancing act between feeling so self-satisfied that you never Grow AND feeling such self-critical judgments that you feed a Scarcity Mindset. I’m 35, b…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/26 04:57 PM
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I feel like the Feminist Imperative wants us to spread the anecdotal aphorism that Crazy Gurls make Crazy Good Sex to add perceived value to lazy mental health practices. I wouldn’t write off a woman for having a mental health issue like anxiety, depression or BPD personally, but she’s definitely vetting herself for me if she isn’t going to do the work to heal & grow.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/26 03:10 PM
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You’re treating Women like the Prize instead of being the Prize yourself— keep going down the path of tackling your insecurities, and you’ll foster more of a IDGAF attitude. A lot of your insecurities remind me of my Frame prior to admitting I was an alcoholic. I knew I was an alcoholic, but I also knew that I was being a bitch by not admitting this to myself, as labeling myself as an alcoholic would lower my perceived SMV amongst folks. Glad to see you’re shifting your focus towards addressing …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/26 04:19 PM
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For a while I felt what you’re feeling OP— I wouldn’t say swallowing the pill killed my ability to fall in love, but it definitely can feel that way. After a while I realized that I was still building emotional connection, but much more slowly, which really came from developing my vetting acumen. I feel peace in that awareness, and growing that skill. I think when Men see Truth, or a lack of Truth, they often have these volatile existential reactions à la Heart of Darkness or Apocalypse Now— tot…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/26 03:00 PM
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Just read some of his old posts— the post he had on dating black women had too many racist generalizations for my tastes. Edit: Listening to a clip from an Interview at the moment where GLO talks about Foucault. As a Foucault expert, it seems like he hasn’t read Foucault. It really surprised me to hear Foucault described as a postmodern left philosopher— I’m being nitpicky, but Foucault didn’t like being called a philosopher, and his theory is post-structuralist in nature. Similar to postmoderni…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/26 07:02 PM
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I missed the GLO era of RP, especially his criticisms of Rollo. What was his deal, and why was he banned? He always came off as angry and political to me.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/26 06:08 PM
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48 Laws of Power is dense, but I flippin’ love the structure of each chapter. The little anecdotes that Greene uses are sublime, and it’s a dense text that’s always worth revisiting. Definitely the type of Book that you can juggle with other texts— you can step away from it and come back without any issue.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/26 06:02 PM
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I think you should read TRM— it will answer your basic questions about RP Theory.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/26 03:49 PM
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Plenty of resources out there for Performance Anxiety— I’d definitely dig into using your reading & study time to research medical solutions, and consider consulting your GCP as I want to recommend ‘The Sex God Method’ by Daniel Rose, but I’d want you to have more confidence before diving into that read. Honestly, dude— I treat premature ejaculation & erectile dysfunctionality as normal occurrences from the Universe. You can use a lot of techniques to pass Shit Tests to demonstrate confidence he…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/26 02:47 PM
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Whatever happened to GLO?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/26 01:22 PM
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I would say there’s greater value in reviewing 48 Laws of Power & grounding yourself in your own Frame than refreshing Dark Triad information.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/26 11:55 AM
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I am seeing a more ungrounded Frame in this post— it feels like you’re using external pressure and oppositional forces to define your Frame, instead of grounding your Paradigm based on internal goals & values. The oppositional vibe to Boomers, “globohomo” culture, and political focus just feels like venting— a reactive Frame, rather than one that leads.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/26 11:55 AM
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I’m here so I can have a better sex life— I’m not here for any type of hate. Rollo states that RP Theory’s goal is to maximize sexual strategy. Give TRM a review. You’ve been around for at least a decade, and still haven’t internalized the foundational theory. No beef with you, dude— I’m not writing this to try and put you down. Steel sharpens steel, and I’m here to uplift other fellows. The world doesn’t care if you’ve internalized RP Theory. This is basic stuff. Review the Sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/26 07:59 PM
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Yikes. Chill with the antisemitism— it’s not going to maximize your sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/26 07:27 PM
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I mean, I wouldn’t say I am kicking ass dude. I was on a PIP last year and didn’t get fired, which makes me feel like a unicorn— albeit with a bent fucking horn. I am not kicking ass at my job. Yet. The big goal I have is to try and have Zero Projects causing me anxiety by my next OYS— this focus has shifted my priorities to tackling projects that seem less vital, but are truly landmines if they don’t get taken care of. It’s probably three or four hours of uninterrupted work total, but the compe…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/26 11:16 PM
2

OYS 3… Readings: TRM (all volumes), Pook, NMMNG, WISNIFG, The Sex God Method, The Way of the Superior Man, 48 Laws of Power Body & Lifts… Barbell BP: 180lbs, 7 reps— DB BP: 70lbs 8 reps— Plated Chest Press Machine— 260lbs, 7 reps Barbell Squat: 225, 8 reps I’ve been stoked to have a more normal week of consistent lifting. I had an extra day to lift, while getting one of my pups groomed. Ended up just catching up on Chest, Shoulder, Ab volume— hit my legs again too. Finally found a gym with a Lat…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/26 08:53 PM
1

What are you doing for your shoulder to help with recovery? I’d slap some castor oil on it, and use a red light if you have access. I’m a big proponent of shifting to machines when my joints need a breather— need to use the shoulder less for stabilizing on chest machines. You’ve mentioned your insecurities for the past 3 OYS— you’re not your thoughts. Some thoughts & feelings are random, chaotic impulses that pass through us, but you are not your insecurities.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/26 03:39 PM
3

Thank you— seeing AI posts allowed was disheartening.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/26 12:42 PM
1

I’d start posting in the OYS thread, dude. If you feel like your wrists and forearms need work, I’d slip some wrist curls into one of your lifting days. You’re going to work your forearms whenever you grip the bar, and while I have also had pretty smol wrists throughout my entire life, the pump I get from my Pull days is noticeable, and I’ve seen substantial growth since I locked in with my Macros & Lifting. I can’t help with the premature ejaculation as it’s hit or miss for me— our dicks have m…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/26 05:30 PM
2

The lengthy breaks for lifting was less about my body and more about emotional regulation for me— on days where I lift, Shit Tests and challenges are just way simpler. I’m trying to not just load my days with useless calories, so while I know I can hit my calorie goal with some chocolate at the end of the night, I’d rather get some more nutrient dense calories in me. Mangos & Avocados are going to be in my lineup here soon, and I’m really looking forward to spending some extra time learning dope…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/26 05:20 PM
1

5HTP is a solid night time supplement that’ll make you slightly sleepy. Are you drinking enough to mess up your sleep— what’s actually going on with your sleep?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/26 05:13 PM
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Hey, dude— I’m not sure why you are trying to insult me professionally here. That’s weird and lame— gives me the vibe that you treat Shit Tests with the same passive aggressiveness. You were unemployed when you met your current girlfriend, a recovering meth addict who abandoned her child. Don’t throw stones from a glass house. I find more success in improving my Frame, my Mindset, rather than spending resources pretending to be blue pill. The Way of the Superior Man gave me a lot of inspiration …
/r/askMRP17/04/26 07:16 PM
6

I don’t like pretending to be someone else unless it’s for a show I’m doing.
/r/askMRP17/04/26 06:17 PM
2

OYS 2… Readings: TRM (all volumes), Pook, NMMNG, WISNIFG, The Sex God Method, The Way of the Superior Man, 48 Laws of Power I’m not currently reading anything of value— I’m down for a new text to read to help me grow. Body & Lifts… Barbell BP: 180lbs, 7 reps— DB BP: 70lbs 8 reps Barbell Squat: 225, 8 reps Some dingus mistook my beat up 2013 Chevy Sonic for a Chevy Impala on my street that needed repo’d— when the tow truck attempted to tow my vehicle, he cracked my vehicle’s radiator. Took a hiat…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/26 05:34 PM
7

It’s not that deep, dude— I just like Drug Safety.
/r/seduction15/04/26 07:41 PM
7

What did he even OD on? Edit: Read somewhere that it was GHB— can someone confirm?
/r/seduction15/04/26 05:47 PM
20

“Looks. Assets. Game. Have two. Three is best, but if you only have one, Game is the most essential.” -Rollo Tomassi
/r/TheRedPill15/04/26 04:20 PM
1

How’s the lifting been lately? What night supplements/vitamins do you take?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/26 06:16 PM
2

Stocked to see you posting here again, dude— I love seeing you focus on the grind. Why aren’t you counting calories? What are your insecurities? How would you describe the relationship you have with yourself?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/26 05:29 PM
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I’d ask her how she’s going to teach her son to not be a rapist personally— If she wants to teach Men to not be Rapists, asking how makes sense to me. It sounds like she wants to be emotionally dysregulated and is just looking for something, instead of actually improving the world.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/26 03:09 PM
1

Who is the narrator of the videos?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/26 02:48 PM
5

Listened to the first few minutes— it felt like a pretty informative, cookie cutter voice regurgitating the Sidebar Material. Not really sure what the Intention of the 4 hour long video is.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/26 02:44 PM
1

Why do you think you need to quit? Do you actually want to quit?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/26 02:11 PM
2

Thank you for the correct wording— I was trying to remember the phrasing, but all I had was “Women are like Soup. Men are bowls” and other donkey similarities.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/26 01:18 PM
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What’s up with your Squat being lower than your bench? Do you have some type of knee injury? I’d be curious to what you’d find out if you tracked your weekly volume per muscle group, and if you haven’t it’s a good habit to get into to better target your muscles. Weekly Working Volume per muscle group is a sweet metric to have in your back pocket. Have you started tracking Macros & Calories or are you just guesstimating? I never thought I needed a food scale, but it did change the Gains game for …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/26 01:23 PM
5

Women are liquid. Men are the containers that hold the liquid.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/26 01:06 PM
2

What made you not do the thing? Was it undesirable or annoying to do or something?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/26 07:07 PM
5

OYS #1 Readings: TRM (all volumes), Pook, NMMNG, WISNIFG, The Sex God Method, The Way of the Superior Man, 48 Laws of Power I’m not currently reading anything of value— I’m down for recommendations to help me grow. I have some texts in my backlog that I need to take some time to dig into. Body & Lifts… Barbell BP: 180lbs, 8 reps— DB BP: 70lbs 8 reps Barbell Squat: 225, 8 reps Been using machines more for Press & Squat, but my Planet Fitness got some barbells recently, so I am building back up wi…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/26 07:04 PM
1

What do you do to emotional regulate yourself when your temper comes out? Do you do any Journaling or Meditation? I’ve done therapy specifically examining my own anger towards injustices, and while it didn’t solve my anger management issues, it definitely allowed me to develop enough of an awareness where I could actually start addressing the core causes to my own anger. There’s a Rollo Iron Rule about not hitting up your ex. I’m going to guess that it’s #9 off of the top of my head. My exfiance…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/26 06:56 PM
2

What makes you say you need to cut down on your drinking? How does drinking benefit your life? I quit booze, and it’s been so rad, dude.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/26 06:44 PM
1

What makes you say that you have been smoking too much weed lately? How does weed enrich your life? How does weed detriment your life? How much weed are you smoking daily?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/26 06:43 PM
1

When I Say No I Feel Guilty right after NMMNG imo. Pook & Rollo first.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/26 12:08 PM
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Do I do anything special when I play my tiny violin for the men with white hoods?
/r/MensRights14/03/26 03:34 PM
2

Yep— that’s the show. Every time I see it, I have a good cry.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 02:28 PM
2

That’s a lame response to someone sharing their physical abuse.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 02:27 PM
1

Try listening to some tunes and spending some time in nature— everyone enjoys trees and music.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 02:03 PM
1

Boxing is rad, but know that Studies do be showing us that punching a pillow amplifies anger. I have found more success in pursuing hobbies and passions that I enjoy like lifting & hot yoga & EDM.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 01:55 PM
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Lean into the things you love— do that instead of punching a wall, bro.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 02:55 AM
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Nothing breeds anger better than witnessing injustices— it’s a good reason to teach yourself solid mental wellness tricks too. Sometimes when I think about stuff like this I need to listen to some GRiZ, and go lift or walk or something— it’s good to learn what helps you zen. Part of being an MRA is being better than double standards, and I’m proud of you for recognizing these things dude. Edit: I added the GRiZ link to the comment, but think I lost the part where I asked you about self-love acti…
/r/MensRights12/03/26 12:20 AM
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Two Years for causing this much damage is an injustice, and while I cannot change the anger we all feel over this, I definitely want to encourage everyone in this community to check out a 90’s musical, “Parade.” It’s about a Jewish fellow who is falsely accused of murdering a young lass in the factory he manages. My ex-wife falsely accused me of Domestic Violence after giving me a black eye. Seeing “Parade” was healing— I highly recommend every man check it out.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 12:04 AM
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What have you been doing to better process your emotions? Meditation, Bullet Journaling, and physical activity all help me— especially Lifting & Hot Yoga.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 01:07 PM
2

It’s just the Feminist Imperative at play.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 08:33 PM
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The Age Gap being a double standard is something that benefits a woman’s sexual strategy— only real reason it’s encouraged for women, but discouraged for men.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 06:19 PM
1

You’ve lost the plot— we’re talking about uplifting Men in Education.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 06:16 PM
1

As the only one between the two of us who has ever taught professionally, I understand that you are unable to provide a solution that helps uplift Men. That’s okay— you don’t have to.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 05:18 PM
1

Women think MGTOW works against their sexual strategy, so they villainize it.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 04:13 PM
0

OP’s Thread is asking for Solution— Big Brother programs are rad and men’s peer to peer mentor programs both have proven effectiveness. Pretty straightforward to put into place as we’ve seen others do this. I’d honestly want to do a deep dive into a country’s educational system that produces better educated men, and see what effective policies we could mimic. I also just like encouraging fellows to actively be engaged in learning— it’s their lives after all.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 01:00 PM
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I mean, a lot of concept creep affects the Manosphere like anything else. I always thought Rollo popularized the term, but credit is given to Ian Asher for that.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 12:52 PM
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I mean, the Manosphere is nothing more than a Cultural Lens like Marxism, Feminism, Post-Structuralism, Modernism, etc. It’s an amoral, apolitical tool for maximizing sexual strategy— nothing more.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 07:15 PM
1

I mean, part of that advocacy was Alice Paul being force fed with tubes during her hunger strike in jail— it’s not a suffering contest. Folks should just have their basic human rights protected.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 02:51 PM
1

I embrace my feminine energy by listening to musicals, while targeting my glutes aggressively on Leg Days— I think I’m good here honestly.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 02:43 PM
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Just saw “Suffs” recently— one thing I think MRAs and Feminist have in common is the in fighting. Always forget how badly southern suffragettes shat on black women fighting for the same thing.
/r/MensRights08/03/26 02:01 PM
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I gotta let the depictions of masculinity in Common Side Effects simmer in back of my mind— I’m planning a rewatch soon, and while I can’t say I felt strongly about the way masculinity was depicted in that show, one way or another— King of the Hill also has diverse depictions of the masculine condition when you pair Hank, Bill, Boomhauer, and Dale as foils. I’ll consider how men are depicted in Common Side Effects with a more critical eye on my next watching of the show though— planning on doing…
/r/MensRights08/03/26 01:55 PM
1

Being committed to maintaining & developing my physical & mental wellness is a big thing for me as a MRA. I don’t really have much to give lads struggling with mental wellness, if I don’t have my own wellness in order. I prefer to look for one on one moments with young lads to help uplift them, as I don’t teach or direct youth theater, but those were great ways for me to be a positive influence for young lads.
/r/MensRights08/03/26 01:49 PM
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“Ha Ha, You Clowns” & “Ted Lasso” come to mind for more recent shows with dope examples of positive masculinity. “The Choir of Men” was a recent staged show I caught that felt like a step in the right direction— more of a cabaret. I’m always recommending folks watch “Parade” too— great musical from the 90s about a man being falsely accused. If I’m going towards literature, I’m going to point fellows to the Cosmere for solid depictions of manhood.
/r/MensRights08/03/26 01:28 PM
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Y’know— I haven’t compared my own aging to other women’s, but I’ve found that lifting consistently & hitting my protein goal has put me way ahead of other fellows in their 30s.
/r/MensRights07/03/26 02:22 PM
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As a Yogi, I’d personally jump in on the Yoga flow if it wasn’t marketed as a women’s only class, but I like breaking up my workdays with lifting & yoga. A lot of those classes are donations based, which is always a bonus. In the meantime, I’d grab some noise cancelling earbuds, and find something to block your vision from these distracting lasses so you can focus on the grind. I’m not sure what your company’s HR and the facility management group can do, but that’s a solid point of contact to st…
/r/MensRights06/03/26 05:18 PM
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Women can’t code the Masculine experience— the prerequisite is a dick.
/r/MensRights06/03/26 02:15 PM
1

Hey, dude— what happened to the advice I gave you the past two times I responded to your posts?
/r/MensRights06/03/26 01:34 AM
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I mean ‘Parade’ was a musical written in the 90’s about a false accusation in the 1910s. Pretending false accusations are only a more recent thing is weird— your ignorance is a great example of systemic misandry though.
/r/MensRights05/03/26 02:44 PM
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I just don’t talk to folks who invalidate my experience.
/r/MensRights04/03/26 09:58 PM
1

She/Her Count: 16 times in 12 sentences— you are in her frame. STFU would have been a better way to pass this Shit Test, but it sounds like you’re struggling just being emotionally regulated enough to STFU, which makes sense to me. When our hearts get all twisted up in knot during an argument, a Shit Testing Ninja will seize those emotions and twist them against you to further evaluate your worth. Giving less fucks helps. Liking your Frame helps. Going forward, I’d check out “When I Say No I Fee…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/26 06:31 PM
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Neither woman was attracted to you, and didn’t feel like telling you. It’s lame, but simple enough. A woman who liked you wouldn’t do these things.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 02:02 PM
1

What type of Yoga & Meditation do you do? How have they improved your mental health?
/r/MensRights03/03/26 11:32 AM
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I don’t know honestly— I’m more concerned about healing myself rather than punishing my false accuser at this point. I gotta live with myself every day, and I don’t want my ex-wife falsely accusing me to have tainted me so much that jt hinders my ability relish in all the beauty that the world has to offer. I just want to be more healed. That’s all. A good punishment would be more my false accuser to realize on a fundamental soul level just how fucked falsely accusing someone is, but the cogniti…
/r/MensRights03/03/26 07:44 AM
2

Not everyone has a Show Love, Spread Love type of vibe.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 07:37 AM
2

Hyped to hear that you’ve been improving your mental health. What have you done to improve it?
/r/MensRights02/03/26 09:40 PM
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On one hand I talk about vetting, but on the other hand my ex-fiancé once mentioned how she could remove consent and accuse me of Rape, because we both had sex while tripping during the breakup. Vetting for someone who won’t retroactively revoke consent is wildly difficult.
/r/MensRights02/03/26 07:13 PM
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Color me interested, friend— how do I join?
/r/MensRights02/03/26 06:57 PM
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Mental Blocks are rough. I’m a recoveredish Alcoholic, and sometimes we really do get trapped in our own stubborn emotional dysregulations. I’ve found a lot of success with Bullet Journaling, Meditation w/ Healing Sounds, Hot Yoga, and Lifting for improving my mental health, and I highly recommend incorporating meditation on some level. Sometimes you have to just be Still to create a reprieve or sit with your discomfort to expand your emotional awareness. It helps. As for how to sexually handle …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/26 06:51 PM
13

As Activists what can we do to help with Male Education? I could see myself volunteering some time to tutor lads, but I’m already spreading myself thin with volunteer work.
/r/MensRights02/03/26 06:30 PM
13

Small Towns are bonkers, and I feel like a smaller panoptic mechanism has folks forgetting the all moral perception of their actions. Stoked she isn’t in power anymore— didn’t see any details about the conviction in the article. I hope the son and father and daughter all heal.
/r/MensRights02/03/26 06:28 PM
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If a lass wants to out herself as lacking empathy, I’m alright with that— I honestly consider it a vetting blessing.
/r/MensRights02/03/26 06:22 PM
1

Love the image they used for this thumbnail— very fetch.
/r/MensRights02/03/26 04:49 PM
1

It really depends on the CEO— I don’t think we can make broad unfounded generalizations, and I prefer to avoid those since feminists lean on them so heavily. Gallup Data does in fact report that there are more Male managers than female currently— they report that the majority of CEOs are male. Is there something wrong with me giving you a solid resource to use for workplace data & reporting? I just want to make sure other MRAs are operating with accurate information so we can be better uplift me…
/r/MensRights02/03/26 04:22 PM
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I feel like the claim that “the [majority] of the time the manager or CEO is a woman” isn’t aligned with Gallup data currently. I’d imagine that the downloadable full report at that link will have CEO by Gender breakdowns, and if not I can help you find it when I have more downtime— should be an easy find. This doesn’t invalidate anything you are saying about gender bias, OP— I just think it’s useful data to review and use when talking about gender bias in the workplace.
/r/MensRights02/03/26 04:11 PM
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Honestly— I just avoid sex with folks while enjoying party favors unless we have some type of ongoing, already established sexual relationship. It’s always a good practice to protect yourself.
/r/MensRights02/03/26 04:05 PM
1

I mean, you are the media you consume. If you don’t select that media with intention, someone else will. If I ever catch myself doom scrolling, I look for something to do with my hands and listen to some tunes— better than consuming someone putting folks down.
/r/MensRights02/03/26 12:40 PM
1

Are you able to connect the Male Loneliness Epidemic and Only Fans back to all sex being transactional OR how the these things disprove key points Pook & Rollo have made? I’m not seeing the connection or the fleshed out, rational points backing up what you’re saying. No beef with you, dude— but per RP Theory transactional sex is lame. Gotta build genuine desire.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/26 07:40 PM
2

The interesting thing about RP Theory are the number of lads who larp it. I just saw a video where Tate couldn’t even bench 225lbs. No beef, but when lifting is one of the key things in RP Theory, you better be coming correct with the health & wellness. Too many folks involved in RP communities don’t know or read the material.
/r/MensRights01/03/26 06:41 PM
1

I’d be happy to hear a more nuanced response on what from TRM & Pook you believe to be outdated— pairing it up with some of your field reports would be helpful too. Acting as if all sex is transactional feels like a cope for not being able to build genuine attraction, if you ask me personally.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/26 06:38 PM
1

What’s wrong with using Rollo’s works & Pook’s work to maximize sexual strategy? 48 Laws of Power? Dale Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends & Influence People”? Daniel Rose’s “Sex God Method”? “When I Say No I Feel Guilty”? “No More Mr. Nice Guy”? “Way of the Superior Man?” As far as I can tell, by writing off books for just being before 2012, you’re ignoring majority the sidebar— it just seems like you’re missing out on a lot of valuable information & nuance, and really hurting your own sexual strat…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/26 03:34 PM
1

Sounds a lot like negotiating desire— having transactional sex reminds me of covert contracts & scarcity thoughts. I’d rather have women genuinely desire me. Also, dude— it’s weird that you gotta through out insults about people’s age. We’re here to talk about Men’s Sexual Strategy— not to slap fight.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/26 02:59 PM
1

I’m surprised that none of us are reaching out to the university. Seems like an easy enough thing to do.
/r/MensRights01/03/26 02:40 PM
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So as Activists, what do we do here?
/r/MensRights28/02/26 03:08 PM
4

I’d like to see more fellows here embody that desire to uplift each other— sending good vibes, OP.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 02:56 PM
3

Peaceful & Zen— been with the same person for a few years now, and we’re looking to get engaged this year. It’s probably the healthiest relationship I have ever been in— aligned in all the right ways. It may be worth it to just pick things you want to do for First dates a la “The Book of Pook.” You can tell a lot about a person based on how they react to your interests. It could be worth it to take a break and just focus on dating yourself for a bit— kind of like a deload week for lifting, but w…
/r/MensRights27/02/26 07:01 PM
3

This is some plain Jane binary type of thinking. Attraction is more nuanced than “10s should date 10s, and a 7 shouldn’t date a 9.” People contain multitudes. How’s your dating life been going lately, OP?
/r/MensRights27/02/26 05:53 PM
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Women use social media to inflate their perceived Sexual Value to the point where they no longer maintain an accurate understanding of their own physical appearance, inflating their self-perceived valued. Women are hypergamous, and being a handsome, muscular man makes you more desirable to them. OP— it may be worth picking up a copy of The Rational Male, and see if you vibe with Rollo or not.
/r/MensRights27/02/26 05:39 PM
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The fact that my ex-wife could have stuck me with her debt was problematic and lame.
/r/MensRights27/02/26 03:57 PM
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I’d be interested to hear what Canadians think should go in their Men’s Mental Health Strategies. This is a solid start, and I’m hopeful that the survey doesn’t receive a lukewarm response.
/r/MensRights27/02/26 02:45 PM
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I lift, because I enjoy having bigger muscles. Living longer is rad too, but women are a non-factor for my health & wellness journey. Life is better when you practice self-love.
/r/MensRights27/02/26 01:22 PM
1

It’d be cool if you and me could foster a deeper curiosity in those boys given how the system actively works against them. I think we should uplift these boys— don’t you?
/r/MensRights27/02/26 01:13 PM
1

I don’t know what your intention here is, dude— I just really like learning and think we should encourage it.
/r/MensRights27/02/26 12:07 AM
1

I think you’re losing the plot— I’m on the same team, dude. I see a flawed system that needs improved. I see Men that also have a responsibility to own their learning. It’s really alright to want Men to actively be more engaged in their learning, while improving the flawed system.
/r/MensRights26/02/26 11:13 PM
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I’m not reducing Men’s Education to just “read, bro”— I fully acknowledge that the modern educational system is stacked against me. I just want to see more men interested in learning regardless of a system stacked against them, and I think that’s okay honestly. Why can’t we advocate for a better educational system and for men taking ownership of their own education? What’s wrong with advocating for both? I’m saying do both.
/r/MensRights26/02/26 10:19 PM
1

Nah— I’m going to keep encouraging Men to take ownership of their education. You can want a better educational system for men, while also encouraging men to own their learning. Well learned men make better educational systems, just as better educational systems make well learned men. I’m not going to act like being more like Frederick Douglas is a bad thing. That dude was rad.
/r/MensRights26/02/26 09:50 PM
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My talking point is to advocate for more curious men. I want to see more men actively pursuing formal and informal education, learning however possible. I’d also enjoy free school lunches for all kids n’at. No one is saying to not try to improve the educational system. I’m just saying that I’d love to see more curious men, and I love fostering a healthy curiosity in other men. It sounds like you are just looking to argue with someone, and I’m not sure I’m the guy. I just like men pursuing educat…
/r/MensRights26/02/26 08:36 PM
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I’m being genuine— I think more men should focus on learning. It’s bettered my life. I just like that Frederick Douglass taught himself to read despite the system being rigged against him— when I consider learning, that’s the type of Self-Reliance & Masculinity I want to embody. I like using my undergraduate studies in Education to foster that type of relentless curiosity in the men I encounter. It’d be wonderful if the educational system naturally addressed core issues with how young men are pe…
/r/MensRights26/02/26 07:20 PM
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The Responsibility falls on ourselves to pursue education, as individuals, despite the world’s circumstances. I can’t change the current state of the world as easily, as I can pick up a book and do some learning
/r/MensRights26/02/26 02:09 PM
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Why are we engaging with folks who want to minimize your negative emotions to nothing more than a political gotcha point? Just don’t hang out with these folks.
/r/MensRights26/02/26 02:04 PM
2

Life isn’t like a video game. Growth in life is so much more nuanced than videogames. Take lifting for example— you have so much that goes into muscle development: mind muscle connection, diet, health, emotions, did you bring your headphones to the gym, and so on. It’s why folks say that increasing weight for lifts is a symptom of muscle development instead of saying that muscle growth is a symptom of progressive overload. We definitely have to take accurate stock of who we are: strengths & weak…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/26 06:05 PM
10

It’s important to take care of yourself before taking care of others.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 05:02 PM
7

Yeah. Rollo Tomassi this over a decade ago in The Rational Male.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 01:09 PM
10

OP— I’m wholeheartedly one of those guys that’ll never sleep with a woman I meet at my gym. There’s no amount or quality of sex that’s worth messing up my Third Space for me. The Rational Male covers Alpha-ness being contextual super well. Surprised you missed that OP, but it’s always good to review the basics.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/26 02:28 PM
8

Dawwwww shucks— thanks, dude. It’s important to let folks know that you’re proud of them. I don’t think I ever heard it as much as I wanted to in the past, and I like to look for moments where I can uplift someone around me. Try telling some of your bro’s that you’re proud of him for some cool thing he does, and just watch him beam like a ray of sunshine.
/r/MensRights24/02/26 02:16 PM
78

This isn’t a Men vs Women thing— it’s more of a “let’s help male victims type of thing.”
/r/MensRights24/02/26 02:13 AM
5

I’m not following, friend— is there something wrong with helping folks out when I want to?
/r/MensRights24/02/26 12:40 AM
15

I still help out strangers too when I can and feel like it. I respect your Masculine Autonomy and your choice to not help a stranger, but it’s just not the type of Man I want to be. This type of Cognitive Diversity is important so we can avoid becoming an Echo Chamber, and your vibe, while not something for me, is totally alright too. Do what makes you feel good, dude. I like helping strangers too, but there’s no point in helping someone out if it makes you feel used or bad. Sending you good vib…
/r/MensRights24/02/26 12:39 AM
11

Frame is everything.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/26 07:20 PM
4

I’m just a Millennial who enjoys fucking.
/r/MensRights23/02/26 06:52 PM
-1

Yeah— I get what you’re saying. I just enjoy helping strangers, and to me it’s like giving a homeless dude at my gas station money. It’s cool if you want to & can, but no one is going to throw shade at you if you don’t. Do it, if you want to— don’t do it, if you don’t want to. Embrace your Masculine Autonomy.
/r/MensRights23/02/26 06:46 PM
0

I disagree— while muscles & radiate skin do make you more beautiful, it’s not just about the physical/external. When a man takes care of his body, it galvanizes the internal development of spiritual virtues that folks are naturally drawn to: Consistency, Self-Worth, Confidence. Most folks are emotionally intelligent enough to pick up on all of that Internal Love & Healing— people are drawn to that. Plus, I just enjoy feeling good about myself. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/MensRights23/02/26 06:43 PM
0

Geeze— you really don’t want OP to lift or wash his face. Weird hill to die on, but you do you. What’s so bad about OP lifting and improving his skin care routine?
/r/MensRights23/02/26 05:52 PM
41

Eh— I don’t need to be unkind, because of Misandry. It seems petty for me to not brush off my girlfriend’s car when I have a few extra minutes, and she gets up early to brew coffee for us every morning. I like Kindness. It’s contagious.
/r/MensRights23/02/26 05:01 PM
0

Hey, man— I’m not really looking to argue with a stranger about SkinCare & Lifting. If you want to have some fatalistic, nihilistic belief that men shouldn’t take care of their health, then that’s something you gotta work on. I’m here to uplift men, not put them down. Women love my muscles & skin care, and I love how good I feel with my self love practices. No beef with you, dude— any fellow who tells me that having muscles is overcompensating sounds like a fellow who doesn’t lift.
/r/MensRights23/02/26 04:49 PM
0

Dollar Store Face Cleanser & Moisturizer will do wonders for clearing up OP’e acne— CeraVe is my go to recommendation, but everyone’s skin is different. Targeting the right muscle groups with a solid lifting split will help OP develop that Dorito shape that women love— specifically talking about OP’s shoulders & lats.
/r/MensRights23/02/26 04:39 PM
2

Wrong subreddit. Work on your facial skin care. Clean your face at night. Moisturize. Lift heavy things. Hit your protein goal.
/r/MensRights23/02/26 04:14 PM
23

Why would you be around someone saying that they hate men? Protect your energy, dude.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 01:15 PM
7

I used to do a lot of Swing & Blues dancing. A plate of mine was in the scene, and a lot of solid dancers stopped dancing with me when that plate broke. I personally file folks in the dancing scene under “Don’t Shit Where I Eat,” but that’s just me. I’ve seen a lot of hamstering over partner dancing, and it’s always a reflection of your own mindset. I think if you more deeply solidified the belief that you were the prize that you wouldn’t be hamstering at all— lifting helps, bettering your finan…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/26 05:10 PM
3

Women like muscles, and raves are a solid place to show them off.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/26 05:05 PM
2

Too many fucks given— it’s okay to not want to talk to a woman about your past. But, on the other hand, how long can you go before she wants/needs to know? 6 months? A year? Eventually, for me & my frame, the honest truth has to come to the table— I prefer being open about why I split with my ex. Helps me vet my partner better by gauging her reaction.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/26 03:43 PM
2

I’d bullet journal a bit more about what you want in a sexual, romantic partner, while also taking some time to write down your Frame & Mission. You’ll find more success with vetting women when you have a Mission. I don’t want to tell you to just get good at vetting women, because I think when you know your Mission, you’ll know who aligns with it and you is a cloven hooved misandric hag.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/26 03:40 PM
3

A woman would crawl through broken glass to suck off Chris Evans. Interest can change— but it’s low interest currently. Vas’ advice is golden here, dude. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/26 03:34 PM
29

I feel like forcing dread this way has not typically worked out for me, as it came off as insincere. I found more success honestly when I just had substantial hobbies in my life that naturally built abundance for me. A love for lifting will add abundance to your frame, while building dread. I go to a lot of raves & festivals solo, and while it’s because I just have a passion for EDM, it’s also a hobby that naturally fosters dread. Dread feels more like a symptom of an Abundant Frame to me, and I…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/26 03:31 PM
1

Why aren’t you as excited about stuff nowadays? I could never get into Resident Evil— controls feel clunky and horror wasn’t my thing until I was older. I respect the genre though. I was telling my mate the other day that I never got into a Doom Shooter, and then I started playing High on Life, which do be one of those. As for the physical hobby, dude— do anything. Take up Blues or Swing dancing, if you want. Kayaking. Weird calisthenics always look rad to me, but I’m on my own muscle building j…
/r/MensRights18/02/26 11:39 PM
3

What’s wrong with Lifting & Body Building?
/r/MensRights18/02/26 08:21 PM
2

That’s a solid deadlift— I used to deadlift religiously, but I’ve been getting a lot out of my pull days with Cable Rows, Lat Pull Downs, and Assisted Pullups. Hex bar or straight? I love the gym, and it’s my hobby. It may be worth dating yourself and finding some new Physical Hobbies. Explore some weird fitness things that you haven’t tried. I got a Rave on Saturday that I’m stoked for— scheduling things that build excitement for you is a clutch move for masculine mental wellness.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:40 PM
15

I don’t think we need to deconstruct Prince William or UK Misandry to recognize male suicide rates as a huge issue.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 04:52 PM
9

Lifting is fun. How’s your lifting been, dude? Any goals for the year that you’re chasing? I’m chasing the 1Rep x 225lbs Barbell Bench and 3 x 8 pull-ups for this year. Progress has been solid here, and I am at about 180lbs (3 set, 8 reps) for Barbell Bench Press. I usually use dumb bells or the machine where you load plates & lay down— so I think once I get some more reps in, develop my mind-muscle connection with the lift, I’ll be able to pull it off. Hope your lifting journey has been dope, d…
/r/MensRights18/02/26 04:43 PM
-1

Noem and Bondi are the worrrrrrrst.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 03:03 PM
1

Isn’t that another Men’s sub that instabans you for talking about RP theory?
/r/MensRights18/02/26 03:01 PM
1

It may be worth considering other countries— the world is your oyster, dude.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 02:59 PM
2

I’ll never trust a white woman who appropriates voodoo culture.
/r/MensRights17/02/26 04:33 PM
2

I’d be down to see a thread where folks here attempt to define Masculinity.
/r/MensRights17/02/26 02:32 PM
0

Yeah, dude— I don’t cycle so I don’t have to worry about the dick tuck. I definitely avoid wearing Gray Sweatpants without any type of workout shorts under when I am lifting. I have more respect for folks than to show off my dick print when I am pumping iron. Was there something about that article that you wanted to talk about?
/r/MensRights17/02/26 02:26 PM
6

When was the last time you went to the gym?
/r/MensRights16/02/26 05:40 PM
6

Give “When I Say No I Feel Guilty” a read, and “No More Mr. Nice Guy” afterwards. I definitely get caring about what your MIL has to say, but if someone wants to constantly put me down I just ignore them. I don’t have to respond to anyone being rude or disrespectful— if your MIL is emotionally dysregulated, then that’s her problem. You don’t have to engage in any of her negativity— you can just not have conversations with people. It’s totally okay.
/r/MensRights16/02/26 05:38 PM
1

I just treat folks how I imagine they want to be treated, and move about my day.
/r/MensRights16/02/26 01:56 PM
3

If I remember anything about the Suffragist movement, it’s Ida B Wells telling Alice Paul to go shit in a hat for ordering the black women to march in the back— women have always fought each other.
/r/MensRights16/02/26 01:53 PM
1

What are some things you feel Gratitude for?
/r/MensRights16/02/26 01:49 PM
2

Life is awesome— I just saw one of my favorite EDM DJs last week, and I’m still reeling. Took a rest day from lifting yesterday to do Hot Yoga, and watched my nephews. I love my life, and despite all the troubles we have with the current state of the world I still make sure I’m taking time everyday to enjoy one of God’s beautiful creations. I’m going to lift here shortly, and take my time since I’m off. Then I’m going to unwind with an edibles and keep playing through High on Life or I’ll spin P…
/r/MensRights16/02/26 01:47 PM
14

This thread has me wondering who here lifts again. I tend to focus on myself when I’m lifting alone, but I’ve had a lass film me once when lifting. The cable I grabbed for Lat Raises was directly facing where she was squatting, and that was enough for her to assume ill intent. During my first set she leaned her phone up against the wall, directly facing me, camera pointed at me. Told the Front Desk about it after my second set, an employee went over to speak with her, and she was gone by the tim…
/r/MensRights16/02/26 12:27 PM
8

I can’t say the way women or men dress bothers me one way or another— if something like a pair of yoga pants bothers me, I’d personally look at where I need to heal. But I also do Hot Yoga & go to raves/music festivals— seeing skin just doesn’t bother me one way or another.
/r/MensRights15/02/26 07:33 PM
8

I’d go for flowers at a grocery store over Target.
/r/MensRights13/02/26 08:10 PM
2

Hypergamy exists.
/r/MensRights13/02/26 03:29 PM
3

I’m not sure if I need someone to prove that I don’t feel like punching a guy more after a good wank. I can just go jerk off, and check myself.
/r/MensRights12/02/26 09:12 PM
9

What is your intention here, OP? I don’t see how this helps Men with their mental health issues.
/r/MensRights12/02/26 06:44 PM
8

I’ll be honest— I never paid much mind to the N Count research, as I haven’t seen enough folks recreate it, and I also just never empirically experienced it until dating a woman recently with a very low N count. Honestly, the difference is baffling. Connection is just easier to foster. Edit: Anyone know the specific study that Rollo uses when talking about N Count in TRM?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/26 03:25 PM
7

I’m don’t think we should be looking to Cosmopolitan for insight on Masculinity.
/r/MensRights12/02/26 03:04 PM
2

Oh yeah— she suuuuuuuuuuuuuucks.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 11:53 PM
4

No idea— I don’t think the majority of the lads even read the article based on comments.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 11:13 PM
31

If a woman makes me feel Used, then I am not dating her. No point in putting myself in a situation where I feel like I am being used.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 09:53 PM
1

It’s not a competition, but “Parade” did win the Tony for Best Musical back in ‘99 & Best Revival just a few years back.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 09:32 PM
7

I just hired a cleaner instead— I’m not trying to get poisoned here.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 08:53 PM
1

It’s always trippy to consider how isolating technology can be, yet it can give us the illusion of closeness. Interesting read— thanks for the food for thought, OP. Make sure yinz tell your online gaming Bro’s that you love them today.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 03:52 PM
46

That’s a good reminder to focus on uplifting other Men.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 03:16 PM
-4

I’m not looking to an Alt-Right Woman when it comes to coding what I should or shouldn’t do with my masculinity.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 02:53 PM
30

I’m not too bothered by what strangers make of me when I go out. If a radical feminist has beef with how I look, that’s really not my problem.
/r/MensRights09/02/26 08:09 PM
25

I’d start with The Rational Male & When I Say No I Feel Guilty.
/r/MensRights09/02/26 08:07 PM
-13

Nah— fuck bootlickers. Vance is learning that the energy you put out into the world does in fact come back to you.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/02/26 05:18 PM
1

Hey, dude— I don’t use ChatGPT. Hit me up, if you need help telling the difference between a former ELA teacher who enjoys using hyphens and AI writing. I’m fine doing Hot Yoga— I enjoy it, and find that whenever someone tried bothering me for just being a man who lingers at the studio, since I volunteer there, that the employees and other regulars always had my back. And honestly I think just putting out Kind & Joyful energy at the studio, one of my third spaces, has really helped me slip more …
/r/MensRights06/02/26 07:59 PM
-1

Thanks for the compliment— I do enjoy my vibe. My ex-wife gave me a black eye, and I was arrested for a false accusation of DV actually. Super familiar with being falsely accused, and it’d feel silly to me to not enjoy Hot Yoga out of a fear that some random woman is going to make another false accusation— I’m a fan of the whole Dalinar Kholin “You cannot have my pain” philosophy, and it served me well in my healing journey. It’s my pain, and while trauma does trickle into my daily life— loud no…
/r/MensRights06/02/26 07:06 PM
2

I’ve had success with both men & women therapists when it came to healing from my ex-wife abusing me.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 05:14 PM
1

Plenty of jacked dudes nowadays watch anime— in a world with the likes of Deandre Swift, Stephen Colbert, Joe Manganiell I don’t really think anyone has beef with you liking anime It’s not that deep. It’s okay to like things as a Man.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 03:42 PM
1

I’d rather improve myself rather than lower my standards.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/26 03:12 PM
-2

I don’t need to convince anyone that I’m not a threat— I know I move through the world with kindness, and if someone wants to misread my immaculate vibe, then that’s their missed opportunity.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 03:06 PM
1

I don’t use ChatGPT to write— just picked this up off of Emily Dickinson when I was younger. One of my undergraduate degrees is in Secondary English Education. Let’s try to uplift other men, instead of setting an intention to put them down.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 02:59 AM
8

I’m not going to isolate myself from things that I enjoy in life, because it just so happens to be a female dominated space— I’d be missing out on Hot Yoga, if I did that. A stranger’s emotions aren’t my responsibility— I move through the world with kindness, so it’s not like anyone worthwhile is going to bother me.
/r/MensRights05/02/26 07:43 PM
6

The texts got sexual mid July after the student graduated per the article.
/r/MensRights05/02/26 02:36 PM
1

A Rose by any other name, y’know?
/r/MensRights05/02/26 02:33 AM
1

The Panopticon was originally designed by Jeremy Bentham (1700s), the father of Utilitarianism, and then popularized by French theorist, Foucault who used it as a metaphor to explain cultural Power Dynamics.
/r/MensRights03/02/26 01:49 PM
7

Report what the Professor said to Administration— If you see the professor, it’s okay to let her know how her words put you down. Some folks trick themselves into thinking they get more from putting other down.
/r/MensRights03/02/26 01:45 PM
29

Plates break.
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:54 PM
1

I had a woman talk to me recently about how the pAtrIaRcHy doesn’t want women to have muscles, which just feels daft to me. I asked her to show me the influential Man saying that women shouldn’t lift— I only heard crickets. It’s a lot of women emotionally dysregulating themselves over a boogey man that doesn’t really exist.
/r/MensRights02/02/26 08:23 PM
2

I’d check out the Cosmere— Stormlight Archives has some great examples of men working through mental health issues (PTSD, Addiction, Alcoholism) in a fantasy setting.
/r/MensRights02/02/26 08:18 PM
1

I’d like to know how literate the parents are for literacy lacking lads— as a former ELA teacher, we have plenty of misandry in the educational system, but it’s not like parents don’t exist either. More literate fathers make for more literate sons. If a man wants to read, then he can always pick up a book. No one can really stop him. Hell— Frederick Douglass taught himself how to read, while people were trying to stop him.
/r/MensRights02/02/26 07:15 PM
10

I listened to the scrims. For a bunch of ladies that are just there for the vibes, they are super low vibration.
/r/MensRights21/01/26 07:50 PM
2

Focus on your own Frame— block out the white noise. I usually lean into Negative Inquiry whenever someone criticizes me. I want to hear the person repeat their criticism, and think about it more carefully— demonstrates confidence to use negative inquiry with ease.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/26 07:32 PM
42

Making fun of someone else at the Gym will always be one of the lamest things a person can do. I’d put a little bit more IDGAF into your preworkout for next time, and keep doing your thing. Focus on your Mission, your Frame, your Grind. Ignore any haters. I’m gad you have an abundance of fucks to give, but you don’t need to be giving any fucks to the crabs in the bucket.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/26 07:04 PM
2

This comes off as sketch & lame— negotiating attraction isn’t how I want to live life.
/r/seduction16/01/26 02:24 PM
27

Boundaries ought to always be respected when it comes to Sex & Kink Play. Full Stop. I also wonder if OP there just dated women who smelled bad based on his experience, but we can’t get to the nitty gritty when we’re emasculating and shaming the dude for practicing self-love.
/r/MensRights09/01/26 03:26 PM
19

I know it’s just anecdotal, but I’ve only had a White Woman give me a black eye— never had a Man do that to me.
/r/MensRights09/01/26 03:12 PM
72

Yeah. My exfiance tried doing this to me once. We were both enjoying party favors on a camping trip— everything was consensual as usual. After the fact during a fight she said to me that she could spin that as rape. Same woman who lied to me about Birth Control— she stopped taking it without telling me, and her pregnancy & abortion was trauma that the both of us just never needed to experience.
/r/MensRights07/01/26 09:29 PM
2

I remember Dale Carnegie being on one of the RP Sidebar’s— great book for picking up some basic rhetorical techniques and improving communication.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/25 02:41 PM
3

Jerr’s statements put Women directly in the spotlight— in one breathe the guy says “Hold Frame,” but the next breathe is “To Get Female to Do X.” And yeah— Frame is everything, but the way Jerr’s Frame reads isn’t Sex is a symptom of a dope frame like Daniel Rose or Pook or GLO, but rather ‘If dude holds Frame, no matter the frames quality, then sex.” That’s really licking the pill while holding a covert contract. I like focusing on myself, and my own growing journey instead of doing something j…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/25 05:24 PM
1

I also think your wisdom is banging. Merry Christmas, dude.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/25 07:13 AM
2

Jerr is super duper transactional with how he acts too.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/25 07:12 AM
3

Love the classics— GLO popping off with criticism of Rollo was also spicy, and while I don’t agree with GLO, all of his shit is worth reading. Even as a guy who didn’t agree with everything GLO was saying, he made you think & grow. I don’t think Daniel Rose is doing anything recently, but I’ll give him a shoutout for The Sex God Method.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/25 04:38 AM
3

Never felt like my Masculine Sexuality was being attacked by trans folks.
/r/MensRights17/12/25 06:41 PM
4

Lifting weights isn’t a bad start.
/r/MensRights17/12/25 02:57 PM
2

Whoooooooosh.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 10:30 PM
0

Show them a picture of a circumcised penis, and tell them it’s immoral.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 09:07 PM
3

It’s like I could have read WISNIFG and NMMNG instead of Low Effort AI Slop.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/25 06:57 PM
1

Reddit did a number on snuffing out Red Pill Communities. TheRedPill subredidit has devolved as men no longer take basic accountability to read the Sidebar or educate themselves on RP Theory. No More Mr. Nice Guy & When I Say No I Feel Guilty used to be required reading, and now we have guys that will watch a dog defecate on their rug and ask, “Is this a Shit Test?” The lack of accountability towards growth is a real shame, and Reddit just ain’t the place to study RP theory unless you are learni…
/r/MensRights12/12/25 03:19 PM
-5

I think it’s weird to call yourself a traditional guy, because you sleep with women who have a dead starfish as their spirit animal.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 02:44 PM
3

Friendly Reminder— We’re here to uplift Men.
/r/MensRights10/12/25 05:46 PM
1

If you’re married and want to unfuck your brain, I’d toss yourself into the deep end of the pool, committing to participate in weekly posts in the Married Red Pill’s subreddit’s OYS. It seems like the best resource to leverage in your scenario. Good vibes & luck, dude.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/25 03:17 PM
5

I liked your last post a lot too, dude— you’re a genuine, earnest fellow. And while I definitely don’t agree with everything you say, you definitely have an inherent kindness that you carry with you, and you’re the first to admit that you don’t have the answers to everything. I really appreciate your stories, and I’m glad Wolfie has a mate like you. That Cult you grew up with is wild & asinine— how do you think those experiences have affected your Frame & Mission?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/25 05:41 PM
1

Same, dude.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/25 03:12 PM
15

I feel like a guy demanding apologies from BP dudes is larping RP theory, instead of actually living it.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 07:47 PM
1

Frame is everything.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/25 05:11 PM
5

I never had a Black Man give me a black eye, but a white woman absolutely has.
/r/MensRights21/11/25 09:35 PM
13

Thanks, homie— how’s the data look year over year? Wondering if we see any spikes or trends.
/r/MensRights20/11/25 02:56 PM
5

If this woman truly represented the entirety of Western Dating, then I’d never fuck— I’d next that gremlin, and wish her the best. I really do hope good things happen to the gremlin in the, but her individual experience, which isn’t a Man’s experience, doesn’t & cannot represent the entirety of Western dating. What are you trying to say or ask about dating, OP? How’s dating going for you? What’s your own individual, masculine experience?
/r/MensRights20/11/25 02:54 PM
50

Okay— let’s swap the genders in the story. 27 year old Man kills his 5 year old and 4 year old daughters after is elderly wife passes away. How is that Man perceived differently than Vanessa Colias? Is it still a tragedy about a Broken human, or is the societal narrative written differently?
/r/MensRights18/11/25 05:54 PM
5

I feel like if Edward Elric can figure out how to love himself then other short men can figure it out.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 08:14 PM
3

I see a lot of folks approach lifting with a “I have to Lift” frame instead of a “I get to Lift” frame. Approaching lifting like any other passion or hobby really shifts how we think about it, and those little moments where you improve your form & habits add up. I’ve been at a caloric deficit and hitting my protein goal for about six months, and the consistency in the Gym with lifting heavy has vastly improved my life. The change in how I feel and move is awesome, but it’s just rad seeing folks …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/25 03:10 PM
0

Why are the older women & men frustrated and angry?
/r/MensRights14/11/25 08:35 PM
2

What’s the job? What is the workplace conflict?
/r/MensRights14/11/25 06:55 PM
10

First time I had a finger up my butt was a surprise. I always have this lingering thought of, “Yo— a heads up there would have been fucking kind,” yknow?
/r/MensRights14/11/25 03:11 PM
3

Why was this stranger yelling at you in the gym? I’m not following. I was filmed doing Cable Lat Raises at a gym about a month ago. Wicked uncomfortable. I was directly facing a woman doing an exercise, and just minding my own business, but she must have thought I was doing Lat Raises in front of her to sexualize her instead of increasing the muscle mass in my Side Delts. I said something to the front desk, and moved on. Gym is my safe space— I don’t need to waste time with strangers sexualizing…
/r/MensRights12/11/25 06:40 PM
1

Hey— let’s avoid the vagueness here. What’s a good amount of strength to you? If folks were telling you that you don’t lift when you did consistently something has to be off— ignoring certain muscle groups, not hitting the protein goal, not training to failure. It sounds like you were inconsistent. Where were you dropping the ball before you quit? What led you to quit, and stop improving?
/r/MensRights21/10/25 06:23 PM
0

I’m wondering what substantial progress you have made in the gym OP. As someone who just finished month six of counting macros & calories, along with staying consistent in my PPL split, I find it challenging to not feel gratitude when your body makes substantial progress in the gym. Will I get some body dysmorphic thoughts? Sure. My brain isn’t changing as fast as my body, I suppose. How has your gym progress been lately? What milestones have you hit in your fitness journey?
/r/MensRights21/10/25 01:31 PM
1

Life before Death.
/r/MensRights17/10/25 07:06 PM
8

What complaints do you have about your marriage? Sending you good vibes, dude.
/r/MensRights17/10/25 12:49 AM
4

Yep— the entire Sidebar is worth it. I’d definitely read this, and just keep progressing through the Sidebar RP texts.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/25 09:48 PM
2

Everyone keeps saying you lost Frame here. I’m wondering if you ever had Frame here. I don’t see any dream girl being fumbled. I think a Man who knew his Frame & mission better would have skipped past the 15 minute voice note. Your dream girl would have hung out with you before the trip too. https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/amp/
/r/TheRedPill08/10/25 12:05 PM
1

You’re stopping yourself from developing muscles. Are you also stopping yourself from reading the Sidebar too?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/25 03:06 PM
80

What’s stopping you from becoming muscular? How’s your fitness journey flowing?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/25 02:20 PM
9

The moralization that the nameless author uses seems silly to me. RP Theory is amoral— its primary focus is effective dating strategies. Great analysis— would love to see you break down some primary RP texts.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/25 02:03 PM
2

Pook: Masculinity is about action, creation, and vitality. Rollo: Masculinity is sovereignty, mission, and strength in sexual strategy. Daniel Rose: Masculinity is about presence, grounded sexual energy, and leading with intent. Plenty of Men can define Masculinity— The Sidebar defines Masculinity pretty darn well in fact. I get that we have a lot of men struggle defining Masculinity due to the Feminist Imperative & societal conditioning, but as Men we get to define Masculinity. Multiple men do …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/25 06:12 PM
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I’m hard pressed to not consider Femininity & Masculinity when it comes to SMV, especially when it comes to the DEVI model.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/25 04:54 PM
2

Your dish is a mountain of parsley. Too much redundant figurative language that just beats the same idea into the ground instead of developing the point. Beyond that Sexual Market Value isn’t about peasants vs elites. SMV is about game, health, wealth, femininity/masculinity, and frame— This stuff is in the Sidebar. Hardship can shape character, but women from every class still select for the same universal cues— strength, status, confidence, and masculine polarity. The moment we blame a caste s…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/25 02:45 PM
3

Rad— direct your research towards your goal, and pursue it, dude.
/r/MensRights02/10/25 03:22 PM
3

Take your time and research places— hit some Passbort Bro’s up, and ask folks about these places. Do some traveling. You matter, dude. Don’t let oppressive systems make you feel otherwise. Where are some places you want to travel, and what are some things you want to do?
/r/MensRights02/10/25 02:02 PM
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From a purely data standpoint, totally true what you’re saying. From an RP lens you are exemplifying a scarcity mindset. No beef, dude— but I find more success with women when I’m not worried about low value women that I am not even remotely interested in.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/25 06:22 PM
1

I mean, if a woman has expectations that don’t align with my vibe, then she is just disqualifying herself from dating me. I don’t need to worry about the expectations of women I’m not interested in. Why do you? Wouldn’t your mental bandwidth be better spent on things you enjoy, or focusing on your Lifts & grind?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/25 06:13 PM
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How do simps make dating harder for you? Feels like made up problems to me, but I don’t want to be unempathetic.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/25 04:24 PM
4

https://youtu.be/waXboEeJ5c4?si=zHiJ0Qvhit3dLBuf There’s probably better versions of “The Book of Pook” out there. Start with Pook, if you want to improve your Game. Start with “The Rational Male,” if you want to improve your theory. Folks like GLO have criticized Rollo for being a hack or whatever, but he defines aspects of RP theory better than anyone else.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/25 07:50 PM
4

You are not exposing a paradox. You are only exposing that you haven’t done the work— you’d rather larp lawyer, mentally masturbating with your own thoughts. What we’re telling you isn’t invention— it’s women’s biology, and mocking RP theory won’t change the fact that women already sort men by it every day. You can argue semantics forever, but until you Lift, build yourself, and actually internalize this stuff, you’ll keep spinning your wheels, failing shit tests and wondering why whatever probl…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/25 04:04 PM
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Women aren’t into Men who sabotage other Men. All of the RP information is out there for you to use, and you actively aren’t doing that. Lift. STFU. Sidebar. Start with Rollo and the Book of Pook. There’s no paradox here. Just a lad who wants to LARP RP instead of doing the work— TRM answers your question already.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/25 12:21 PM
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I think the long answer is that across all cultures, we hate traitors. Men tearing down other men is Ugly, and won’t find you success in the sexual market place. The short answer is Lift, STFU, and read the Sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/25 10:51 PM
2

Electronic Dance Music— it’s a large bucket that covers a wide variety of subgenres. Dubstep is going to feel different than House, which is different from Techno, which is different from Future Bass, which is different from Brostep, which is different from House Bass. I’m really into EDM, and if I can only recommend you one DJ, it’d be GRiZ. He does funky soulful dubstep.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/25 02:50 PM
2

Patience takes practice. I’ve been working on it for years, but getting 10k steps a day and meditating helps with that. The 10k steps forces me to get away from my desk, pop in my headphones, and walk around my block. I can’t talk up meditating enough— TripleFlame app is a good place to start. As for your physical looks, I can give you feedback on diet & muscle growth, as I’m into strength training. It’s hard to tell from these pics, but a caloric deficit, while hitting your protein goal, and do…
/r/MensRights25/09/25 02:14 PM
18

Someone else already touched on AWALT transcending historical context— I just want to know what festivals you’ve been to.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/25 10:50 PM
1

I’d just make “Parade” into a film, and call it a day.
/r/MensRights24/09/25 02:38 PM
4

“A woman is the one who sets the tone.” I interpret this as not Leading— this post reeks of supplication.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/25 02:05 PM
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It’s more important to operate within your own Frame. If folks want to match your energy, and enjoy whatever fun adventures you want to do, then cool. Matching her energy makes me wonder whose Frame we’re operating under. Sounds like you’re following her, instead of leading her.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/25 04:40 AM
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Point 1 read like it was written by someone who can’t define their Frame, existing in the frames of women in hypothetical scenarios.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/25 01:54 AM
1

Doesn’t the Sidebar cover “Money increases SMV?” Sounds like OP isn’t writing with Intention honestly.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/25 03:18 PM
0

Charlie Kirk was lame. I don’t need to spend my time carefully considering Kirk’s anti-Empathy or how Kirk trolled college students. Kirk was the antithesis of “Show Love— Spread Love.” Dude consistently failed the vibe check, practically begging God to smite him for his callous approach to victims of gun violence.
/r/MensRights19/09/25 03:05 PM
6

I wonder what the Dad & Son are going through, and I hope they heal. Telling the son flat out “You ruined my life” is wild to me.
/r/MensRights16/09/25 05:31 PM
2

I dunno how seriously I’d be able to take an undergraduate leadership course. Industrial Organizational Psych on the other hand is pretty rad.
/r/MensRights08/09/25 05:02 PM
2

I enjoy having an abundance mentality within my own Frame.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/25 07:15 PM
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God loves all his creatures— just keep spreading good vibes and enjoying life. I just can’t really fathom that a God who created Football, Sorbet, Yoga, and Top Gun hates more than he loves. But yknow— I ride that woowoo—Choo Choo. Sending good vibes, dude.
/r/MensRights03/09/25 12:51 AM
1

I like sharing my connection to the divine masculine with a lass who is connected to her divine feminine— transactional relations disconnect us from both.
/r/MensRights25/08/25 11:42 PM
3

Your weak analogy is like a tick feeding on a cur: It sucks.
/r/MensRights22/08/25 03:02 PM
1

Was this the comment that got you permabanned from this sub or was it something else?
/r/MensRights09/08/25 05:49 PM
1

How do you want to react to the Boyfriend?
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/25 03:04 PM
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I haven’t look at your shit before, but I dig the gold here. In an Hypergamous AWALT world, women are always receiving attention from someone, somewhere. OP— what has you reflecting on this?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/25 02:42 PM
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That’s fair honestly, and I may be using Concept Creep here, but I’m also hard pressed to believe that a coked up alcoholic dragging a man down the stairs to choke him isn’t protected by systemic misandry. I mean— she didn’t go to jail, and it eventually killed him. But on an individual level— her motives could be whatever. It’s not like she went “Systemic Misandry is why I have to kill you,” but oh boy— did Systemic Misandry get him killed here.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 06:14 PM
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Misandry kills.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 05:37 PM
5

The comma goes inside the quotation marks there. Don’t throw stones from your glass house, lad.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 10:23 PM
3

Did we forget 7th Iron Rule of Tomassi? OP— You talk about the gym and cutting back on cardio. Did you get fat and lose muscle? You and her are down. Your LTR downgraded herself for you— Why are you in her Frame instead of your own? Can you even describe your Frame?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/25 03:27 PM
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This do be a weak analogy from a weak person— the conclusion follows the premise about as well as Hellen Keller would follow Usain Bolt in a race.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 04:55 AM
2

Mmhmm.
/r/MensRights20/07/25 01:48 PM
1

Your Alt account posted another post from OP on IncelTears, my guy.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 11:48 PM
1

Hey— I saw another account cross post this with full usernames in IncelTears. The other account is from CBus too, and has the same writing style as you a la mad comma splicing.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 10:24 PM
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We have no evidence. We weren’t there. What’s up with me seeing this same comment thread on the IncelTears subreddit? Was that posted by your alt account or something?
/r/MensRights18/07/25 08:59 PM
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Yeah— I’m seeing what the other user said. It’s not enough information to accuse him of Sexual Harassment honestly. The thread reads like you’re accusing someone just because you don’t like them.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 02:54 PM
1

I don’t see what lines you’re reading between— mind sharing what they are, friend?
/r/MensRights18/07/25 12:07 AM
1

I was listening to the “Parade” soundtrack today, and I think you should give some of those songs a listen. Beautiful show, but it’s always a tough watch for me, especially after being falsely accused of Domestic Violence. I’m confused by your Goal here. Veg is telling us about his lived experience with a False Accusation, and your first reaction, your knee jerk reaction is that this stranger is lying about the interaction, and that Veg must be some Creepy sexual predator. I’m always bothered by…
/r/MensRights17/07/25 12:05 AM
1

How would the prose read without CoPilot? Would it be any less legible than “The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night?”
/r/MensRights16/07/25 02:52 PM
1

You’re right— while physical prowess is a rad part of masculinity to explore, we have so many other traits of the Divine Masculine to admire such as Growth and I’d even say Whimsy per Pook and, more importantly, Deida. I wouldn’t say that Child Me would most admire my physical strength— muscles are just cool, and he’d agree with that sentiment. I’m crafting a body that can kick ass at dodgeball, and tag, and all those fun reindeer games I used to play. Child Me would appreciate that, but I think…
/r/MensRights15/07/25 04:10 PM
3

I freaking love DHT, bruh— almost as much as I love Hunting & Gathering.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 02:39 PM
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I know I’ve been deepening my connection with the Masculine by lifting and exercising— been strength training for ages, but now that I’m tracking macro’s I’m finally seeing progress. Honestly, developing my mind-muscle connection has done more for me feeling a deep connection to the divine masculine than most other things recently, and I’m seeing the physical wellness/masculinity trickle into my mental wellness and spiritual wellness. Most fellows I encounter still struggle to define masculinity…
/r/MensRights15/07/25 02:09 PM
0

It’s not that deep— talking to your trans friends is a good way to get your question answered. That’s all, lad.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 12:52 PM
0

Just go ask your trans friends.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 02:28 AM
0

I think that’s a great question, and I’d ask your trans friends. :3 Great way to do some learning, bro.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 12:22 AM
1

Hey, dude— I am sending you Good Vibes, and hope you are doing better than you were earlier this year.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 08:41 PM
2

I get your analogy, friend. Context here is a bit different. My buddy and I were talking about the experience of Trans Man, and he said, “Acceptance comes before Understanding.” And it resonated with me. I think folks can really close the Empathy Gap by accepting that some folks feel and think a certain, different way— doesn’t make that way right or wrong by any means, but the Acceptance deepens one’s capacity to understand the Human Condition. We see a lot of folks expanding the Empathy Gap by …
/r/MensRights14/07/25 05:58 PM
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Someone once said Acceptance comes before Understanding. Good vibes, homie.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 12:13 PM
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Putting other Men down is lame. Men should uplift one another, son.
/r/MensRights11/07/25 05:33 PM
2

I always appreciate your insight, dude. Even when I disagree with it— can’t say I disagree here, but I just wanted you to know that your insight helps folks.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 04:07 PM
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Yeah— it sucks to experience these types things. I’d file a formal complaint with corporate, and advise the manager who spoke with you that you’d like to speak directly to his supervisor.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 11:58 PM
1

I’d imagine someone would eventually bring up “The Day of Absence,” which is a dope play honestly. Anyone remember the 2017 Evergreen State College protests with this? Folks wanted to do a Reverse Day of Absence where White folks were asked to not attend class, rather than Black people volunteering to not attend like the play. I remember that one Jewish prof getting absolutely blasted by students for objecting— really weird example of cancel culture, but worth examining.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 08:58 PM
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I’d be remiss, if I didn’t drop the link below. The Guy Cry founder, Joe Traux, is not in the best place mentally himself, struggling meth addict with too much trouble with violent crimes. https://archive.is/2023.01.07-074417/https://medium.com/@whoisjoetruax/who-is-joe-truax-d6ddb2d0bb39 Joe Traux also claims to have 22 doctorates, but I don’t even think the fellow has an undergraduate degree. https://medium.com/@legaciesofmen/i-dr-joe-truax-present-my-22-completed-and-54-in-progress-doctoral-e…
/r/MensRights01/07/25 05:29 PM
1

I’m just here to bring visibility to Mr. Traux’s crash out on GuyCry. It’s worth checking out, Fit. Here’s an archived article about him too. https://archive.is/2023.01.07-074417/https://medium.com/@whoisjoetruax/who-is-joe-truax-d6ddb2d0bb39 Hope you’re doing well, Fit.
/r/MensRights30/06/25 07:55 PM
2

Love the Night of the Living Dead films. What makes the 1990 film misandrist? Butch Barbara pewing her pews at the end feels so forced, and I get that it’s the antithesis of the original Barbara, but I dunno. Just feels like a waste of a character still.
/r/MensRights30/06/25 03:14 PM
2

The 48 Laws of Power sounds up your alley, OP. What do you do for a living, OP?
/r/MensRights28/06/25 01:25 PM
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I can’t say I kick it with men who make fun of other men.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 05:44 PM
1

My DMs are available, especially for anyone who uses comma splices. lol xD
/r/MensRights27/06/25 03:57 PM
2

Dyslexic kids can improve their writing. I’ve literally seen this happen in my own classroom.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 03:20 PM
2

AI is a fine learning tool, but it doesn’t replace actual reading & writing. Gotta practice to improve.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 03:10 PM
2

What’s your lifting split then?
/r/MensRights27/06/25 02:06 PM
2

Who is blowing up your phone? Feel free to DM me, dude. We’re all in this together.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 01:58 PM
1

Why? I’ve been skipping lately, but I am focused on targeting upper body muscles, as my legs do be built like a Grecian statue. I’m doing a Leg Day today for maintenance, and to see how my new protein rich eating affects my leg lifts.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 01:57 PM
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I’m actually planning out my leg day now— it’s jammed pack, but nothing beats those Friday’s after work, where I smoke a bowl with my pups, before hitting the gym for my pump. Below is my leg day… -Squat -Leg Press w/Calf Raise superset. -Leg Extension & Curls -Glute Kickbacks -Hip Abductions
/r/MensRights27/06/25 01:50 PM
2

I think you should practice writing without AI to better develop & train the skill. Lean into learning how to write well.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 01:41 PM
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I never told you to use AI. I think you should stop using AI, and take some time with E. B. White, while trying to improve your writing. I think EB White did the “Elements of Style.” That’s a great start point for you to read.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 01:19 PM
7

Look, Simba. Everything the light touches is our kingdom.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 02:10 PM
1

Rad— DM with any questions about basic RP books and Muscle Building questions. I got your back.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/25 03:05 PM
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I’d like to read the Article, but from the Husband’s Point of View instead.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 02:19 PM
1

How can you tell me that you are eating balanced when you can’t tell me the grams of Protein, Carbs, and Fat in your last meal? If you want to gain muscles, then count your protein and strength train— if you don’t consume enough protein, you won’t get gains. 1 gram of protein per pound is a good starting point. Read “The Book of Pook” too. It’s a good starting point in your RP journey.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/25 01:18 PM
7

Are you counting your Protein & Calorie intake? What are your physical goals? What’s your workout routine look like? How do you feel about Pook?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/25 12:12 PM
2

Samesies, dude. https://open.spotify.com/track/1rWsptBBp2NnpCfvfO4w1k?si=b0U0G4eITKOWXdFuPCXUyA
/r/MensRights24/06/25 01:52 PM
4

I’m not sure if your guidance to feel more fatalistic and depressed helps with Men’s Mental Health. I can’t really make a good argument to Give Up, get fired from my job, become depressed. I love my life, despite systemic misandry. My Heart’s Purpose is to be a Healed & Healing person, and being more depressed actively against that. Honestly? I see beauty in maintaining my Good Vibes despite a misandric system, and telling Men to lean into depression just feels emasculating to me— very Anti-Pook…
/r/MensRights24/06/25 11:49 AM
2

How do you make friends without putting yourself out there?
/r/MensRights23/06/25 04:41 PM
3

Man— I thought Wizards of Waverly place was more successful. Gomez’s career must have really went downhill, if she’s selling herself for this cheap.
/r/MensRights22/06/25 06:24 PM
5

Where do you want to draw the line? What are you asking MRAs to do about obscene music videos?
/r/MensRights20/06/25 08:10 PM
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Art and Life reflect each other. I see bigger fish to fry in the MRA movement— trying to censor booty bouncing ain’t my vibe. Especially with all the works I have been putting into my glutes on leg day.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 03:14 PM
15

My muscles are all about Positive Masculinity & Good Vibes.
/r/MensRights12/06/25 05:23 PM
9

I don’t think anyone told me DV was generational— just that Men are always the abusers. If any Men have been falsely accused of DV, please DM me. I don’t have all the answers, but I know how to feel less bitter about Society screwing you over a false allegation.
/r/MensRights12/06/25 11:12 AM
1

This is awesome! I’d like to see more things like this happen in the states. Remember to bring sunscreen and stay hydrated!
/r/MensRights11/06/25 11:50 AM
2

Digital Communication dampening in person camaraderie has come up a lot in my journaling lately. I couldn’t agree more when you point out how easy it is to not just cut someone off through digital communication, but you can avoid communication all together by YTing the solution to whatever problem you’d normally need to link up with someone knowledgeable IRL to fix. Good vibes, W3.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 03:23 PM
1

We talking book recommendations? Hell yeah, brother. The Way of the Superior Man— it’s more poetic than logical. Think of the Emerson instead of Russell. The Heart’s Purpose is discussed in great detail, and it can quickly help develop your connection to the divine masculine. When I Say No I Feel Guilty— You want to navigate manipulation? Here’s the playbook. The Rational Male— Too many folks talk about Red Pill theory without even reading a single RP text. Hate RP theory? Love RP theory? I’m fi…
/r/MensRights10/06/25 03:21 PM
5

I think a Masculine Third Space is better than both— I facilitate a men’s bible study, and the fellows there have uplifted me a lot during really tough times. Third Spaces are a dying thing due to digital communication, and the feminist imperative has snuffed out a lot of masculine third spaces.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 03:10 PM
2

ICE has detained Citizens many times. Enough times for me to worry about the Spanish speaking men on my block. Idiot or Not— I’m here to support all Men, which includes you. I’d love to volunteer at a Men’s March too, but I don’t see anyone organizing these types of events for the MRA movement. If you know of any coming up in the Northeast US, it’d be a fun day or weekend trip. Good vibes, dude.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 01:38 PM
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You can totally check in on me in a year or so— rest assured, I’ll be okay. More importantly, I’d really like to see some Men’s Marches for us to participate in. I really don’t see IRL activism in the MRA Movement, and I’d love to volunteer in person.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 12:57 PM
2

I don’t know the details of Puerto Rican Visas— I just don’t like the idea of ICE or any fascists harassing my Spanish speaking neighbors. I had a real swell peaceful Protest, my dude. Absolutely no Violence or Rioting, as Love & Peace are my vibe. I’d like to see someone organize a Men’s Rights March— why doesn’t someone organize one?
/r/MensRights10/06/25 01:45 AM
3

I’ll be protesting today to support the Puerto Rican men in my local community. Ice Melts, brothers.
/r/MensRights09/06/25 09:49 PM
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I’ve seen this happen a lot with how we treat ADD & ADHD in boys vs girls.
/r/MensRights09/06/25 07:13 PM
18

Sounds like the Empathy Gap to me.
/r/MensRights09/06/25 06:15 PM
2

I’d listen to a Man give a TedTalk at an MRA event about any Men’s Issue or watch a guy sing or perform whatever like a Pride Rally. It feels like something in person is the next steps, but liiike— I’m too chicken shit to organize and at my mental bandwidth with life in general to organize something like this. I’d definitely volunteer at an event like this.
/r/MensRights09/06/25 05:45 PM
1

We have in person Pride events in most major US cities— so you have the social optics of folks posting pictures on social media. Some of it’s virtue signaling, and some of it is just folks wanting to show that they had a solid time at a Pride event. Pride Rallies & Parades have always been enjoyable in my area, and MRA’s don’t have any in-person Parades, Festivals or Rallies, and well— I don’t like to imagine what’d happen if we had IRL events, but I keep coming to the conclusion that In Person …
/r/MensRights09/06/25 05:37 PM
-1

Do you put more effort into dating than you do with your mental health?
/r/MensRights08/06/25 01:16 PM
1

I find more value in focusing on the development of my own Emotional Dominion, rather than how many fucks someone does or doesn’t give.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 12:13 PM
3

I’d call the Stigma a Paradox. “Talk about your mental health, until it no longer serves me. Once it no longer serves me. Stop.” Mixed signals. Fortunately, I’ve never had a fellow Man in recent years belittle me for my emotions, and that’s progress. I’m proud of yinz for encouraging being open about tackling our mental health issues.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 06:33 PM
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Yeah— the Female Privilege of always being the Victim and never the Abuser is quite real. I remember the arresting officer telling me that he absolutely knew I beat my ex-wife, when I was arrested for her false accusations of Domestic violence. Folks don’t take you seriously when you talk about your abuse, if you’re a man.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 05:41 PM
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And we have the Paradox of being culturally conditioned to be open with our emotions, but are dismissed when we discuss our trauma or abuse. Makes having an open heart chakra tough. Raven— I still haven’t watched that Billy & Mandy Episode, dude. But it’s on my backlog.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 03:23 PM
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I couldn’t agree more— Women do not get to code the Male experience.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 01:52 PM
2

Cool— I was thinking you’d draw a connection like that, but just wanted to make sure I wasn’t missing your point.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 11:56 AM
3

The bar for writing better than AI is pretty easy to transcend, and I believe empowering and educating young lads will help prevent this, friend. What’s your solution to this problem?
/r/MensRights05/06/25 09:49 PM
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While I respectfully disagree, as I’ve met some wonderful female MRA allies, I definitely can understand why you feel that way, given how much misandric rhetoric is sprinkled into cultural rhetoric. What makes you feel that way, friend?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/25 07:32 PM
1

Hey, Brotato— can you explain to me the connection between hypergamy and men not getting jobs? Or just better flesh out what you’re saying? I think I’m missing your point, and I’d love to hear it, dude.
/r/MensRights05/06/25 06:29 PM
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Women moralize aesthetic preferences as a means of control. If men aren’t allowed to have preferences, then their hyperygamous playing field expands. It’s a giant middle finger to self-love & body positivity. If you really believe you’re a Bad Baddie, then what do you care if I don’t want to “play cards” with you. There’s more self-love and peace in accepting the amoral aesthetic preferences that folks have.
/r/MensRights05/06/25 06:27 PM
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Yeah— it’s weird when women normalize lacking empathy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/25 06:08 PM
3

What primary text in the Manosphere actually encourages Men to not pursue higher education? What’s your educational background OP? What’s your bachelor’s in?
/r/MensRights05/06/25 04:24 PM
1

Being choked out by a woman is rough. I’m still healing spiritually from when my ex-wife attempted to choke me out.
/r/MensRights05/06/25 03:08 PM
16

I appreciate the sentiment to avoid generalizations, but I would say that Current Finding is more so commenting on cultural misandry rather than making a claim about what all women believe. I really do appreciate the desire to avoid generalizations, as they are heavily used to minimize our value, while increasing the empathy gap.
/r/MensRights05/06/25 03:05 PM
3

Empathy Gap exemplified here.
/r/MensRights05/06/25 01:20 PM
2

The first part assumes that having a connection to the Divine Masculine requires you to “exist as an emotionless being without autonomy,” which I can’t buy into per “The Way of the Superior Man.” Great text— men ought to feel their emotions deeply with awareness and clarity.
/r/MensRights05/06/25 01:12 PM
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It’s really bad, my guy. I tried having a conversation with someone recently about the democratic party’s lack of appeal to young lads. When I called out the person for not acknowledging a single man’s concern with any verbal empathy, they began saying, “it sounds like you’re asking me to be every young man’s therapist.” The empathy gap is wild, and breaks my heart.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/25 12:53 PM
2

How would you describe your writing style? Just starting Ch1.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/25 12:16 AM
2

“The Way of the Superior Man”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/25 03:01 PM
1

I should learn more about Australia— just saw Dom Dolla and Odd Mob last weekend at a festival, and that’s where I learned Odd Mob was Australian. I’d imagine Pride Month is in November in Australia due to the warmer weather— do yinz get a lot of Pride events in November like we do in the US in May?
/r/MensRights04/06/25 02:14 PM
1

“As if they were doing it deliberately to undermine men’s mental health.” For clarity— That’s the exact phrase that made me think you were implying that Pride Month being in June is some attack on Men’s Mental Health. Good vibes. Appreciate your clarification that you aren’t implying this at all.
/r/MensRights04/06/25 02:04 PM
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I don’t think the Queer Illuminati said, “Yo— let’s make Pride Month June to fuck with Men.” It’s not like there is this Legion of Gay Doom that is sitting in an Evil Lair intentionally planning to directly attack men. The Summer weather is a better time for Pride Events/Festivals— I bet you could find some rad folks at a Pride event to talk to about Men’s Mental Health too.
/r/MensRights04/06/25 01:55 PM
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Yep— feel free to DM, dude.
/r/MensRights04/06/25 12:04 PM
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Happy Men’s Mental Health Month, dude! I remember showing you kindness when I DM’d ya, and being told to “Fuck Off” in the messages. No hard feelings. I genuinely hope you’re doing well, and am wishing you luck in your healing journey— Yoga, Music, Lifting, and Reading have all been wildly helpful in my own healing journey, and I encourage you to find pursuits that enrich your life and heal your soul. Find Healing Hobbies— they help. Good vibes. I’ll link a GRiZ song to share some extra good vib…
/r/MensRights04/06/25 02:08 AM
1

I can’t look at the suffragettes and agree with that sentiment, but it’s splitting hairs when we both want a better quality of life for all men. If you want to flesh out your point more to do me some learning, I’m down. Also, how’s your Tuesday flowing, dude?
/r/MensRights03/06/25 07:04 PM
2

Exactly— the irony is that I’m just happy for folks in happy relationships or folks that are happily single. I just want folks to be happy and vibe.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 07:02 PM
1

Hey, bro— if you need to vent here about your coworkers, go for it. I got your back.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 06:33 PM
3

Just got back from a short EDM festival yesterday, and trying to stay on top of my health & wellness— taking vitamins and eating clean. Nothing too crazy. Also learned that it’s masseur instead of masseuse for men. :3 I appreciate the data clarity, dude. Thanks for providing us with dope contributions to learn from.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 12:10 AM
1

Wished this show didn’t get cancelled :c
/r/MensRights02/06/25 11:17 PM
1

I didn’t know that— thanks, friend!
/r/MensRights02/06/25 10:42 PM
1

You’re in the right spot— my apologies for using less accessible language. When I say Panopticon, I’m not referring to Jeremey Bentham’s (Father of Utilitarian Ethics) prison design, but I am referring to Foucault’s post structuralist theory. Foucault claims that we can be observed at any time, and this adjusts our behavior. We may not be surveyed in every moment, but we are aware that we always can be potentially observed. Foucault uses Bentham’s Pantopticon design to illustrate this. https://w…
/r/MensRights02/06/25 10:34 PM
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I like how “The Way of the Superior Man” encourages us to feel our emotions deeply, while developing awareness of our emotions— beautiful way to encourage having dominion over one’s emotions. You have to work just as hard at your mental health as you do with your physical health.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 10:02 PM
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Clutch find, brother— appreciate the way you logic’d this. Hope life has been treating you well too, dude.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 09:22 PM
3

I hear that you think I am naive for wanting young lads to pursue their dreams without fear of false accusations. I’d like to add that I also wish for lads to have a deeper understanding of false accusation power dynamics, and how our current cultural panopticon contributes to false accusations, as I was falsely accused of DV in 2019/2020, after my ex-wife gave me a black eye. I’d love to start a dialogue in good faith. I was accused of DV in 2019, and arrested after my ex wife gave me a black e…
/r/MensRights02/06/25 08:59 PM
0

What specifically am I overthinking? Gathering data on false accusations is a challenge, and worth acknowledging to help set up improvements for men. I’m thinking a Lad who really wants Whatever Job— let’s use Masseuse as an example. If a lad really wants to become a Masseuse, if it’s their goal/dream, it’d be a shame if the existence of false accusations stopped them from pursuing their dream.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 08:40 PM
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I don’t really think we have (or reasonably can) gather enough data to say, “This job has a hire rate of false accusations than another job.” However, I definitely trust the warning to male Uber drivers, and think a DashCam “should” be protection enough. Gathering false accusation data is difficult as you lean into police data, which contains cultural inaccuracies for unreported false accusations, or you are leaning into surveys/questionnaires (which are good enough for Gallup, but often cast as…
/r/MensRights02/06/25 08:16 PM
1

Where can we find her documentary, Brother?
/r/MensRights02/06/25 07:15 PM
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“Everyone I talk to has never had a fulfilling relationship with a woman, and yet they claim to be experts on gender relations anyways, including me.” I mean, I thought you were single, because you said as much. If anyone else thought this, I’d wager it has to do with how you come off as patronizing, and throw petty insults around.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 05:03 PM
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“Not hating men is great! I love not hating things— Love is free, dude. I hear you hate the Patriarchy. What’s the Patriarchy, and why do we hate it?” I’m less Profess, and more Pro-Wonder. Using Negative Inquiry from “When I Say No I Feel Guilty” has helped me be more open to when folks say something that can drive conflict. It’s okay to ask folks how and why they think a certain way— it expands empathy, and allows folks to really flesh out their points. I already know how I think and feel, but…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/25 03:57 PM
1

This.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 03:43 PM
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It sounds like you are here to insult and put folks down, which is just really lame. Beyond that, trying to bring up the length of your relationship as a means to put someone else down is just weird. Show your partner that piece specifically— the part where you say, “I’m better than other people due to my relationship’s length.” I don’t feel any need to measure my self worth based on my relationship— it ought to be healthy & fulfilling, and while I feel great about it, it’d be weird if I said, “…
/r/MensRights02/06/25 02:40 PM
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Put down’s and personal attack are whack— fails the vibe check. If you want to have a conversation, without any lame sarcasm about how you are in or aren’t in a relationship, a conversation in good faith, let me know. It sounds like you just want to put folks down and argue— not sure about what even, as your writing lacks clarity.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 02:05 PM
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I’m sorry you never had a fulfilling relationship with a woman. I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you. It sounds like you’re missing basic Red Pill foundational knowledge, as you aren’t able to see that Rollo or Pook are biased. Both authors are a good start for learning about the basics of RP theory. I’d start with Pook since you haven’t had a fulfilling relationship ever. Lots of poetic language in Pook’s stuff, but it lights a fire for physical and mental wellness. Let me know if you need help…
/r/MensRights02/06/25 01:49 PM
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You could say, “Ugh. I have to go to the gym and workout.” Or you could say, “Dude— I’m stoked that I get to go to the gym and lift. Super hyped for it.” Growth is rad and exciting. We’re blessed to have opportunities to do so.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 01:41 PM
1

Feminism stopped being about equality during the Fourth Wave.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 11:55 AM
1

What was the silly story that landed you in the round table discussion? Ever read Robert Greene?
/r/MensRights02/06/25 11:52 AM
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I’ve had this happen in most relationships at least once for whatever reason— the typical reaction is for the partner to assume something is wrong, projecting insecurity instead of understanding. The worst was when I was once with a casual partner, and they ignored our agreed upon safeword during a kink scenario— really wanted to press charges, but after being falsely accused of assaulting my ex-wife, I figured I should protect myself as much as I can. I just had this wild fear that pressing cha…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 03:55 PM
2

I love my Positive Masculinity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/25 03:30 PM
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That’s a hot take that lacks compassion & empathy for the men who didn’t elect this government.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 03:10 PM
2

Two wives at the same time is rad.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 02:56 PM
2

Emotional Regulation is the best skill to learn. :3 Hit me up, if you ever feel really angry or sad and need help with regulating. It can be tough, dude.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 05:13 AM
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I understand “The Residence” is your breaking point. Plenty of shows on Netflix have blatant misandry When I look at all the Misandry on Netflix, “The Residence” doesn’t come to mind, and I’m not seeing a single person in this thread provide specific examples from the show itself to say otherwise. I’d like to see someone list specific examples of Misandry in “The Residence” instead of generalized statements. There’s so much misandry in the world. This ain’t it.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 03:22 AM
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I gotta’ agree, dude. “The Residence”is a rad Murder Mystery, and I’m not really seeing any evidence from the primary text/show or in OP’s post to support “The Residence” being man-hating slop. You got “Dead to Me” on this same streaming service— so much Misandry in that show. Netflix has no shortage of misandric shows to analyze and breakdown— “The Residence” isn’t one of them. I could see someone claiming Randal Park’s character is a “joke,” but it’s not as if Uzo’s character is going— “Ah. Yo…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 01:01 AM
1

I too love “Dead Poet’s Society”— great work for analyzing how society attempts to stifle the Divine Masculine and American Romanticism.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 12:31 AM
1

This writing feels generic to me— like AI persuasive writing. I definitely see a lack of actionable in person MRA events, and I don’t think enough of us really deconstruct why that is. I live in an almost average size major city (sightly smaller), and I don’t have any in person MRA events near me. Has anyone seen any IRL MRA events?
/r/MensRights29/05/25 12:16 AM
2

Did she cheat on you?
/r/MensRights28/05/25 08:12 PM
1

How has this Hostile Coworker mistreated you specifically? What has she done in the past?
/r/MensRights28/05/25 07:52 PM
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I thought the whoosh was from a plane flying overhead. My bad, dude. What was your marriage like?
/r/MensRights28/05/25 07:50 PM
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I’m not too worried about what a random woman has to say about my Body— her words won’t help me grow muscles or skin/beard care routines. I do get anxious dancing at House sets however. I can’t remember the last time I’ve danced at a House set without having someone grab my ass. At least Gay men are bold about it— they make eye contact, and give me the “Let’s Fuck” look, and I can say, “Hey, dude— totally not cool, and leave me alone. I don’t consent.” Most apologize or bugger away. Whenever it’…
/r/MensRights28/05/25 07:44 PM
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I never actually did any jail time aside from waiting for the judge’s arraignment or whatever— just that one night. No booze for me either, as I think alcoholism greatly enabled me to dim my connection to the divine masculine during that entire marriage. Love hearing a good jail story though. Someone that hated my ex wife sat in a cell with me for a while, as he was arrested for spitting in someone’s face. Small word.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 07:35 PM
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I was at a severe disadvantage when my ex-wife falsely accused me of assault. Societal conditioning when it comes to DV was so strong that the arresting officer said that he “absolutely knew” I was the abuser in the situation. It’s trippy getting arrested for an assault I never did, after a woman gave me a black eye. If you want to open your heart, and participate in good faith, then welcome. Misandrist trolling on the other hand isn’t welcomed here.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 05:54 PM
1

You could always Lift Heavy Things, and go on a pilgrimage to figure out what you love doing. Who knows? You may even find a way to love yourself. I like when Men complain with efficiency. “This is a bad situation— how did I get here? What is within my power to change? Do I need to detach myself from the consequent of specific outcomes?” You’ve been complaining all year— what improvements are you actively trying to make in your life? It sounds like you’re in the same state that you were in this …
/r/MensRights28/05/25 05:28 PM
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Well, I would— actually, hold on a second. Puts on his Red Pill hat. A shit test is a shit test. I’d use techniques from When I Say No I Feel Guilty & No More Mr. Nice Guy to handle this. Stay emotionally regulated during these conversations, and reflect on what specifically emotionally dysregulates so you can develop stronger masculine dominion/awareness over your emotions.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 05:14 PM
1

Yes, yes— you’re welcome in the concepts of Inclusion & Diversity. You do actually get to have a voice contrary to what misandrists may have fed you.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 04:49 PM
1

Focusing on your Connection to the Divine Masculine>Talking online to Misandric Femcels
/r/MensRights28/05/25 04:05 PM
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Hah. I got a story from when I used to be married. Outside of PGH, there’s this banging Pizza place that has some top tier wings. Perfect amount of crispiness. Lovely sauces. My ex-wife had a thing for home made ranch, acting like it’s God’s Gift to Man. Ranch is fiiine, but the ceiling on how good Homemade Ranch is can only be so high. One night, we opt to order wings. We get the home made ranch, as we always do. Order arrives, and I bring it in— check the food. I see that the cup of ranch spil…
/r/MensRights28/05/25 04:04 PM
1

How do YOU feel about having kids? What are YOUR goals? My partner and I both want kids— we practice Safe sex, and have discussions about changes in Birth Control. My previous partner lied to me about not taking birth control, and it led to an abortion that was really damaging to that previous relationship. This makes Honesty when it comes to Birth Control even more important. We’ve had discussions about our selected route in an unexpected pregnancy, and we have that well fleshed out, but know w…
/r/MensRights28/05/25 03:24 PM
2

As an Attractive Man, I’d like to recommend you read The Rationale Male— this topic is covered a great deal. I also don’t look at myself in the mirror each morning and say, “Hey— you’re handsome. Let’s go treat Women like shit.” Not into generalizations. Check out TRM.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 04:28 PM
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I’m not into exclusionary things, but that’s just me— big into Inclusion & Diversity.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 04:25 PM
2

Dude— please do, and DM me. I’m plugging “mouse holes” to deal with a “mouse problem” atm. This is a fun, easy project for me, once I get the mic & recording software together. Pook needs to be read in a Man’s voice.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 09:10 PM
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All I am hearing is that we need a Man to re-record “The Book of Pook,” right? Let me setup my Snowball Mic and get to it. You got the written text somewhere I can reference?
/r/MensRights23/05/25 09:07 PM
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Preaching Masculine Self Hate is Whack. When someone tells me I ought to hate myself more for just existing, I know— with no doubt— that they are unhealed. I don’t need to buy into the Toxic Masculinity of hating myself for another man’s actions, and I won’t be complicit in anything that feels like the opposite of uplifting my fellow Man. I wish you the best on your healing journey— but I ain’t got time to listen to a Man telling me to Hate myself for what someone I don’t know did in a place tha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 08:43 PM
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Reading through that Misandry rotted my soul a bit. “Hey, Guys— don’t discriminate. Unless it’s against Men. That’s cool and trendy to do now.” They fail the Vibe Check hard. OP, Protect your Energy. No need to engage with hateful folks.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/05/25 06:47 PM
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I’d say I feel Neutral about feminism— I’d rather empathize with a person and see them for who they are, rather than argue or try to be right or whatever. Your comments feel performative and argumentative, minimizing the emotions I felt for experiencing misandry when doing good. I’m only accountable for my own actions— so yeah, I’d say it’s pretty lame to use generalizations about Men to code how I ought to think or feel.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 06:18 PM
1

Well, I gotta ask— how are you and your cousins doing? Yinz vibe? Or do yinz not like each other?
/r/MensRights23/05/25 06:08 PM
1

I am Northern Gothic— grew up on the north side of Gothland, where my daddy sold potion brewing tools to hags & witches, and my mommy did basic book-keeping for a monster hunter.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 05:52 PM
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Try showing up to an abortion rally, watching a woman litter, picking up said litter, and hearing a woman say, “I don’t trust Any Man.” Like— Hey. Man here. At the rally. Being an activist for your rights. Helping you. Throwing away trash from a woman who can’t be trusted to find a trash can.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 05:48 PM
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Corby only has 4.5 years after ruining a man’s physical body for a lifetime.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/05/25 05:46 PM
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“Don’t miss the show, unless you are a Man.” There’s a DJ in my area that I’ve been following for a hot minute— does a lot of local shows, and I’ve been rooting for her to blow up, as her music got that nasty bass that makes me feel like a piece of seaweed in the ocean. She’s doing an “All Girls Rave.” Love all the DJs there, but I’m not touching that event with a 10’ pole. I don’t need a bunch of tripping and rolling women telling me I am not welcome at an event that should embody PLUR. It happ…
/r/MensRights23/05/25 05:43 PM
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If a Man is lonesome, he ought to find a way to foster community & develop connections with folks— I don’t think we need a 9 Step Solution.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 05:38 PM
1

OP is a woman. Read the post at least, before attacking strangers on the interwebs.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 05:35 PM
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I was Silver Bullet Divorced in 2019/2020. I’m here for support. DM me. u/Vegetable_Ad1732 can direct you to a solid Divorced Men’s support group, and provide solid insights too.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 04:23 PM
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I just learned a few days that Copilot is Microsoft’s ChatGPT. Here I was thinking you started wearing sunglasses during the day with a leather jacket, smoking a cigarette while doing a kick flip off of a rail, while your copilot holds up a pizza and yells, “Cowabunga.” AI is less cool, but I like that you use it to grow.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 04:05 PM
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That MANifesto! Your writing is improving, and I love how more dudes in the sub are uplifting you, Dracula. You got too many things in Bold— bold less, and pick the really really really important points to be bold. Also, better organization with your thoughts. Consider how the order of your points are received by your audience— I think in one of your Manifestos you started by talking about the Trans & LGBT community. I’m a bleeding heart liberal and a huge ally, but that’s a different fish to fr…
/r/MensRights23/05/25 03:10 PM
4

Corbie can make scones in Prison.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 03:06 PM
4

4.5 years minimum— Parole can happen at that time.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/25 03:03 PM
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I mean, Mansophere & Feminist theorists never really needed a background in Gender Studies to be considered credible.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 02:51 PM
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I wonder what this data unintentionally coincides with :3
/r/MensRights21/05/25 07:57 PM
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I’d like to see women calling out False Accuser Abusers, but that entails acknowledging systemic misandry.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 06:23 PM
1

Mr. Tomassi likes to say, “Looks, Game, Money. Have at least two. Three is best.”
/r/MensRights21/05/25 03:32 PM
6

The anger after the Silver Bullet Divorce was the thing I wish more people would have told me about. I never realized how much angrier injustices would make me feel, and even as I write these words they don’t capture the visceral amplified rage I felt afterwards.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 02:59 PM
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Misandric violence is disgusting— this man can’t properly feel the sun on his skin now, and you want to use his pain to make a point or be right.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 01:21 PM
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Masculine Body Positivity can be a powerful thing— a simple “Nice Shirt” can shift the emotional vibe of an entire person’s day, and that’s something beautiful.
/r/MensRights20/05/25 11:03 PM
5

I’m not really into pissing contests, especially when the base line for winning is being worse than “genociding Armenians.”
/r/MensRights20/05/25 10:42 PM
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Hey— if you want to have thoughtful discussions about any texts, let me know. I’d be more than happy to discuss The Book of Pook with you further, once you’ve read it. I’m recommending Pook as he’s aligned with positive masculinity and self-improvement.
/r/MensRights19/05/25 01:50 PM
2

Alright, Goose— hit ‘em with the Manifesto.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 02:42 AM
1

I feel like the Barthes allusion went over your head. If you want to do poetry comparisons between the eras, DM me. I won’t be able to do prose comparisons unless we ground ourselves in short stories.
/r/MensRights15/05/25 09:23 PM
1

I just floated here on the wind to say that folks with epilepsy can enjoy raves, if they take the right precautions.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/05/25 08:26 PM
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Poetic & Prose structure do not vastly differ. You can take any other two eras, and the differences in writing structure would be much more readily recognizable. And yes— it’s very important to know that Jane Austen was bitchy during the Regency era, instead of the Victorian era, but I’m also a huge fan of the whole “author is dead” thing. So I’m not too worried about how structuralist theory applies to the Regency era.
/r/MensRights15/05/25 08:12 PM
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Heard that! The writing styles from the Regency era aren’t that different than the Victorian era. I mean, look at Keats & Byron against later Victorian Romantics— super similar. Solid & True “but actually” from you. Thanks, friend :3 Austen’s writing is not Victorian & Bitchy— it’s Regency-ish & Bitchy.
/r/MensRights15/05/25 07:25 PM
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Raver here. Men’s Festival Fashion sometimes feels as elusive as Defining Masculinity, but that’s a good point to start. I love wearing a good pashmina, but have received derpy criticisms for wearing them when I’m lounging around. Try things. See what you like. Be yourself. Uplift Men. Don’t free all in Grey Sweat pants. Grow. Create.
/r/MensRights15/05/25 04:15 PM
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Please stop following my comments, and harassing me.
/r/MensRights15/05/25 04:00 PM
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“Tell me more. Tell me more.”
/r/MensRights15/05/25 03:54 PM
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I’m going to infer that this is sarcasm, and reiterate that Sarcasm is mean rhetoric for folks that lack clever thoughts. It sounds like you aren’t here in Good Faith. I think OP’s references are dope, and I’m proud to see his writing embody clarity and concision.
/r/MensRights15/05/25 03:46 PM
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Someone just uploaded a remastered version of “The Book of Pook.” Peak Positive Masculinity in PUAs honestly. Pook wants you to develop your charm, be fun, and lift heavy things— all good things to do. I think The Rationale Man is a solid text for giving you a basic for Red Pill Theory and the Manosphere. A lot of dinguses allow things that have nothing to do with RP Theory creeping into the how they define RP Theory, and it’s very simply and clearly defined in this text. Love or Hate Rollo, RP …
/r/MensRights15/05/25 03:40 PM
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I’m sure Sun Tzu or Robert Greene have some rules about knowing your enemy— I know we all get burnt out and tired, and your mental wellness & joy comes first, but you totally have it in you to tolerate some feminist malarkey to help guide other lads. Dudes are always bringing up The Manipulated Man— it if I wasn’t doing The Untethered Soul to work on my own healing, I’d probably be tackling this text next.
/r/MensRights15/05/25 03:37 PM
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I love reminding folks how upper class Victorian women were put on a pedestal— the writing is an excellent example of this, but I usually look towards the etiquette at social gatherings to reflect this. I finally got caught up on the Fantasy series, and I’m about to start going through works commonly taught in MS/HS curricula. Austen is actually on my list, as I never read one of her full texts completely in college, despite studying Secondary English Education. I remember for the Praxis II Exam…
/r/MensRights15/05/25 02:40 PM
0

Not autistic here, but I am also scared of those hand dryers. So much bacteria. You’re lad is smort.
/r/MensRights15/05/25 01:18 PM
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I have Pretty Privilege, so take what I say with a grain of salt, but I’ve never had personal issues with Western Beauty standards affecting my relationships, aside from the occasional Not Actually Body Positive Lass. I’m a really Body Positive dude— our bodies are vessels for our souls, and we ought to love them by taking ample care of them, feeling gratitude for what they are capable of. I see huge gaps in Body Positivity marketing for Men, but love seeing those gaps filled.
/r/MensRights15/05/25 10:51 AM
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Well, while we’re on the topic of Providing Safety to others through Positive Masculine Activism, I’d love to regale you with anecdote. Opted to hit up a rally downtown for Abortion rights with my mates to show my support. My partner at the time had three abortions at various points, and it’s a right I believe in. I could talk about how folks Silence Men when it comes to abortion talk or Parental Rights. I could talk about the general emotional rage in the air. I could talk about the lasses behi…
/r/MensRights14/05/25 07:39 PM
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Dude— being invalidated after experiences like this is maddening. A spiritually tenacious person can strike out when being gaslit like this, and I know I’ll always remember the fascist cop who told me that he knew I assaulted my ex-wife, after I was falsely accused for assaulting her. He looked me straight in the face— looked right at the black eye she gave me and said it. I enjoy dancing— did a lot of Blues & Swing dancing at a younger point in my life, but I mostly stick with EDM festivals to …
/r/MensRights14/05/25 06:23 PM
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The Mental Load of being the sole provider can be a heavy weight— even in the healthiest of situations.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 05:42 PM
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Can we get a breakdown of this by age as well? I’d imagine that Male cases of SA involve more children than adult victims, but I won’t know until I see the data.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/25 05:30 PM
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I wouldn’t say you’re being dismissive btw!
/r/MensRights14/05/25 03:11 PM
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Exactly— I’d rather learn from a diverse pool of Men, gleaning wisdom from different masculine experiences, as opposed to have a feminist code how I need to think or feel. I feel like folks who call this place an echo chamber are really missing out on the cognitive diversity you see within men’s groups.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 03:02 PM
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I’m less into winning arguments and more into uplifting Men.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 02:53 PM
2

What don’t you believe?
/r/MensRights14/05/25 02:39 PM
1

What was your Master’s in? When was the last time you wrote a VLookup?
/r/MensRights12/05/25 11:07 PM
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Hey— I’m not going to respond to all your pseudo-intellectual points, as you are not coming here in Good Faith. At the end of the day, you are a Woman trying to code how Men should feel about false accusations. That’s misandry. We don’t need to have a discussion about data when you’re trying to code how we should feel. Women don’t get to code how Men feel. We can talk about data still. I’m always down to talk to folks who with open heart chakras, but I see a lot of pseudo-intellectual posturing …
/r/MensRights12/05/25 09:25 PM
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I’d definitely ask a Divorce Support Group instead of us goons— I think you’ll get more focused answers. Our “Call to Action” here is really to just advocate for more Men to collect evidence & gather data like yourself, instead of imploding and emotionally spiraling out. It sounds like you’re doing all the right things here, but really lean into Divorce support groups and subreddits for help. I know I wasn’t wise enough to do this when I caught ex fiancé using Ashley Madison— she deleted her acc…
/r/MensRights12/05/25 06:58 PM
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Well, it’s on par with the Unabomber’s Manifesto in terms of style & formatting, which I genuinely mean as a compliment this time. Unabomber’s writing was average— nothing special, a bit emotionally unfocused— but it was distinct enough to get him caught. The dude had a distinct voice: style. What’s the most important bullet point in your Manifesto?
/r/MensRights12/05/25 05:10 PM
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Ahhhhh! I love “The Book of Pook.” Can’t talk this book up enough. It’s been a hot minute since I’ve read it— what did remastering the audio entail? Same or new narrator for the audiobook?
/r/MensRights12/05/25 03:41 PM
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I don’t really worry too much about folks who disrespect me, or what others have to say about my value. I also see no need to spiral out creating the perfect reaction for someone shit testing me— not worth the mental bandwidth.
/r/MensRights12/05/25 01:40 PM
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I’d imagine stating the relationship could potentially out the child’s identity. However, I can’t justify glossing over the incest aspect of the story. Wish the kid all the best in their healing journey.
/r/MensRights11/05/25 02:30 PM
2

Yes, yes. Online Masters degree. You did not speak to how changes in the denominator or rate would affect the numerator here, Troll.
/r/MensRights11/05/25 01:29 PM
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Going Rambo on a single mom feels a lot like yelling at the off brand Doritos at Aldi’s.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/25 10:26 PM
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Y’know— it’s hella refreshing to not only see someone actually introduce the link they are posting, but it’s rad to see someone do it with poetic clarity and concision.
/r/MensRights10/05/25 06:48 PM
3

9 people were involved in this incident? Horrible.
/r/MensRights10/05/25 06:25 PM
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Professional Data Analyst here— I’d like to talk you about data, but as a fellow who loves tapping into the Divine Masculine, I always gotta ask myself: “This thing someone is saying— where is that person actually coming from?” I’m a person with an a pretty open Heart chakra, and sometimes I forget to simply take what someone says with a grain of salt. I do this a lot with Yoga too, but I really like to think just looking at who the Speaker actually is helps— I’ll take Rodney Yee’s advice all da…
/r/MensRights10/05/25 06:10 PM
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Maybe it’s Kismet. Keep writing, Lad. You can hear the heart in your words. Feel free to DM me, if you ever need help with essays for school too. I used to teach HS/MS ELA.
/r/MensRights09/05/25 11:23 PM
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I want to have a Family— My family. I want to raise a child with a loving wife who can reminds me to breathe deep, and take in all the Beauty the world has to offer. I want to see how my child grows to spread love & joy in a chaotic world— I want to leverage my deep connection to the Divine Masculine. I survived a Silver Bullet divorce without putting a silver bullet through my own skull. Had another woman I thought I was also going to marry lie about Birth Control become pregnant. I’ve been thr…
/r/MensRights09/05/25 10:22 PM
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Sick— you thinking about studying Philosophy? My one degree is Analytic Philosophy (philosophy of math/science, predicate logic, symbolic logic). If you’re ever looking to get into some basic philosophers, let me know.
/r/MensRights09/05/25 08:04 PM
1

Is English your second language, broheim? Ever consider letters locally?
/r/MensRights09/05/25 07:51 PM
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Formatting & Structure need tightened up. What’s up with everyone bastardizing the hyphen? Is this some new TikTok trend, or an AI thing? Content is crisp & clean, aside from lacking any data or resources, but I don’t really think this is the type of text that warrants that. You sending this letter out OP? If so, good work, dude— I’m proud of you.
/r/MensRights09/05/25 07:04 PM
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I was waiting for someone else to point this out to OP. Thanks, dude.
/r/MensRights09/05/25 06:33 PM
2

Women are Violent Too.
/r/MensRights09/05/25 05:58 PM
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I mean, it’s in the past now— I’m quite lucky. I don’t think the hardest part was the event itself, but more so my obliviousness. I didn’t really understand that I needed to heal from the abuse. My logic was essentially, “I was the Victim— what the fuck do I need to change about myself?” I stagnated for a few years, simmering in the anger that only a gross injustice can cause. Therapy, Manifesting, Meditations, Yoga, Lifting, Journaling, Music Festivals— all the healing activities helped. Thanks…
/r/MensRights09/05/25 05:49 PM
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PFA’s (Protection From Abuse Orders) have the lowest burden of proof in all of US Law. This means that a judge only needs to believe in that it is more likely (51%) to have committed the crime. I was falsely accused of DV by my ex-wife, after multiple beatings from her. I was literally arrested with a black eye that she gave me. She wanted that silver bullet divorce. With PFAs having such a low burden of proof and the powerful cultural paradigm shifts that followed fourth wave feminism, women ca…
/r/MensRights09/05/25 05:15 PM
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I feel like one of the most important lessons a lad can learn is to be able to transcend this white noise nonsense by protecting their own individual vibe. It’s tough to protect your energy in those moments, but it’s like when you’re at a social gathering and hear some feminist spouting misandry. It’s okay to calmly say that you don’t like something or something bothers you. Tough with parents— no one triggers you quite like parents. Protect your vibe. Eat Elote.
/r/MensRights09/05/25 03:02 PM
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Don’t sweat it— feel free to DM me, if you need some more explanations. I studied Lit Crit in college pre-fourth wave feminism— feminism was covered hardcore in the curricula.
/r/MensRights08/05/25 02:56 PM
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The running away from a dead body example really hit home for me. I’m running away from dead bodies all the time and getting accused of murder. I like your writing structure— you outline these issues with clarity & concision. False accusation psychology needs to be further explored.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 10:30 PM
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Dessert too! Can’t be a Borntday without dessert! I ended up buying my own birthday dinner last year, and paid for someone else too. Twas quite lame.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 10:15 PM
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I get what you’re saying, but I think a fucked up reaction may come out of a fucked up situation. I’m not sure we need to moralize whatever the Dad’s reaction turns out to be— It’s going to be brutal to heal from that.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 10:12 PM
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I feel like when referencing data, you ought to talk more about where it comes from. I’d like to look at these resources to educate myself— can you put the links to the studies and data you’re referencing in your post?
/r/MensRights06/05/25 10:09 PM
1

You sound like you’d do a roundhouse kick in a pool or something.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 12:33 PM
1

Never saw Thinking Ape mentioned as a resource around the RP subreddits when I was active. He may be worth posting about. How does he align with Rollo?
/r/MensRights06/05/25 12:32 PM
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This.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 10:47 AM
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What book do you think helped you the most?
/r/MensRights06/05/25 10:41 AM
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Yeah— I stopped reading RP texts and staying as modernly up to date on every book listed on the Sidebar maybe 2020/2021ish. Tate never made it to the Sidebar material. Sometimes I forget about how badly everyone concept creeps RP theory.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 10:38 AM
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Interesting— I’m always a fan of less hate. Do they have a subreddit or something? For anyone reading, RP Theorists would group Purple, White, Black, and Blue pill all together.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 08:39 PM
0

Really? RP has always been very clearly defined in every RP book. Mind giving me a few different definitions that show RP is vaguely defined from a few RP authors?
/r/MensRights05/05/25 08:36 PM
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I dunno, dude. Rollo uses a pretty different definition for RP in TRM.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 07:50 PM
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I got you. PurplePillDebate is probably the first subreddit I’ve seen use the term. Non-RP folks will define Purple Pill as being some hybrid mix of BP/RP philosophies, while RP RAW per primary texts would argue that Purple Pill doesn’t exist, as it’s just another Beta/BP mindset. RP folks would call it licking the pill instead of swallowing it. Does that definition help?
/r/MensRights05/05/25 07:46 PM
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Thanks, dude. Is that in the article? Did I completely miss that, dude?
/r/MensRights05/05/25 07:41 PM
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This writing is just so horribly boring. How can someone make not helping someone claiming to be poisoned downright boring?
/r/MensRights05/05/25 06:47 PM
4

What is White Pill?
/r/MensRights05/05/25 06:02 PM
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My ex wife went for a Silver Bullet Divorce. The last year of our marriage felt off— too much arguing, too little intimacy— just a lot wrong all together. I started lifting again, and eventually stumbled upon Rollo Tomassi and the RP Sidebar texts. Aside from the original primary RP texts like the Rationale Male series, When I Say No I Feel Guilty, and Pook, I haven’t touched much more recent (post COVID) Manosphere publications.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 04:33 PM
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Freaking horrendous— feel like I am missing some pieces. What happened to the Other Man? Because it’d be wild if that was a False Accusation.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 03:20 PM
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Imma DM you. I got like a million questions and good vibes.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 02:20 PM
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Third Wave Feminism has been over for about a decade. Fourth Wave Feminism is the current thing. https://www.history.com/articles/feminism-four-waves
/r/MensRights05/05/25 01:17 PM
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How is talking about writing mechanics triggering? I love talking about writing. I use a lot of hyphens too— taught Dickens actually who used hyphens nonstop. I simply thought you’d be able to speak to your writing without being so defensive. Your format had an unnecessary space in front of the hyphen. What’s causing that, and what’s its purpose? The extra spacing makes it look like a weird autoformatting setting— can’t see someone naturally adding the extra space in front of the hyphen. It’s re…
/r/MensRights05/05/25 01:13 PM
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What’s up with the hyphen spacing in your post?
/r/MensRights03/05/25 08:28 PM
0

What are you saying? Your statement doesn’t have a coherent flow.
/r/MensRights03/05/25 02:56 PM
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Didn’t my pot brain do the same exact thing to you once, Veg? I feel like I did. Have a kick ass weekend.
/r/MensRights03/05/25 02:55 PM
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I wasn’t responding to you, donkey. I was responding to DaJosuave. Enjoy your Friday though, bro. Drink water. Hope you’re doing well, dude.
/r/MensRights03/05/25 03:27 AM
2

You ever record your own Manifestations with your voice and listen to them?
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 08:54 PM
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I meditate and do manifestations— so many different methods and apps, but repeatedly telling myself that I am What I Want to Become helped rewire my brain with manifestations. It sets the tone for my day, and I can tell a difference between days started with manifestations vs the ones without.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 08:28 PM
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MGTOW may not be my cup of tea, but I definitely can’t say it’s not helpful for some folks. Your generalizations aren’t very rational or manly, dude :/
/r/MensRights02/05/25 08:07 PM
1

I’m not capable of taking someone seriously who argues against leveraging critical analyses of fiction for cultural insight— full stop.
/r/MensRights02/05/25 04:54 PM
1

I’m surprised you read my comment and thought, “This guy doesn’t know what “You” is.” I like my rule of thumb on genital mutilation— folks who do it fail the vibe check.
/r/MensRights02/05/25 04:41 PM
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I like your comment, because it touches on a universal reaction to unethical acts. A person does something Unethical. Therefore they are removed from the realm of ends per basic deontology, and are subhuman, meaning we can do whatever we fancy to them, despite how wildly cruel or unnecessary it may be.
/r/MensRights02/05/25 03:44 PM
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DO NOT FUCKING SAY A SINGLE THING TO THE POLICE. The police aren’t your friend. Lawyer up, my friend. My ex wife gave me a black eye and falsely accused me of beating her. I was arrested, while I still had the black eye. I’ll always remember the arresting officer telling me that he knows I’ve beat the shit out of my wife.
/r/MensRights02/05/25 03:35 PM
2

Have you ever considered publishing a text on this?
/r/MensRights02/05/25 03:27 PM
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Where did OP come from, and why is his writing so goooooood?!?!?! OP— you should tell us more about your experience as a therapist and how it’s affected your perception of Men’s Rights. This writing is powerful.
/r/MensRights02/05/25 03:00 PM
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Came here to eat a sock. In one moment I want to defend OP, and then I see him say some donkey level stuff in another thread. Sending good vibes.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 07:48 PM
1

Is Dawn White/Donna White a member of the teacher’s Union?
/r/MensRights30/04/25 04:23 PM
3

Not a Gun Owner, but big fan of folks with Gun Pride who educate others on gun safety— thanks, dude.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 04:18 PM
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I’m surprised you missed the point. OP noted that the image used in the article is not aligned with men’s death rates, which is a fine example of overlooked misandry.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 02:42 PM
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Uplifting Men is Manly. Putting down Men is Lame.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 01:51 PM
0

https://writing.upenn.edu/~taransky/Barthes.pdf Roland Barthes is usually where I tell folks to start with post-structuralism. It’s a Critical Theory focused on imploding binaries (past/present, good/evil), deconstructing assumptions made during the modernist era of lit theory. Foucault’s Panopticon is the other piece I’d recommend.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 01:12 PM
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I’m a post structuralist who thinks jokes that putting others down are lame.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 12:06 PM
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I don’t get that vibe from OP.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 11:57 AM
3

You’re the dyslexic dude who dresses like Dracula, right? Righteous.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 01:21 AM
1

I think linking your modest 10 percent estimate to actual data would be rad— regardless, you speak to data well, and it’s appreciated.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 08:25 PM
0

Your post has generalizations, friend.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 08:20 PM
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Not knowing isn’t an excuse.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 05:22 PM
0

Throwing money at gaps in education doesn’t magically fix things.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 04:04 PM
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Male Only Scholarships don’t improve academic performance as much as they reward already solid academic performance— it helps the cream rises further to the top, rather than helping out the bottom of the barrel. Still a positive, fo sho.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 03:58 PM
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I’m just meandering by to remind my fellow men that generalizations are a not a Gentleman’s Game.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 03:48 PM
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I’ll be honest— I’ve never found myself in a conversation like this, and I can’t imagine engaging in the conversation. What do I have to gain from a conversation like this?
/r/MensRights28/04/25 03:45 PM
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Link me the report, and I’ll read it & give OP the helpful details. Men uplift Men— so drop that link. :3
/r/MensRights25/04/25 10:08 PM
0

Starting an after school study group for young men seems to be a more fruitful endeavor to me. Still not sure what your goal is, but keep on focusing on improving your lessons and educating young lads.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 09:41 PM
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What is your actual goal here? Because I’m not sure posting on a feminist subreddit is the silver bullet you’re looking for. If you want to help young lads, I go to the young lads as opposed to the feminists. Plenty of ways to help them academically as an educator.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 09:17 PM
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Rad— I used to work in education. Surprised about the lack of Action Plan here given your teaching experience, but I’m glad you are being a part of the solution. I’ll be transparent and say that I see the same post on here over and over: “I posted on a feminist subreddit and they said feminist things.” And that type of internet slap fighting doesn’t really accomplish anything or further the MRA movement. Your previous post is giving me this vibe as opposed to a substantial action plan. Men strug…
/r/MensRights25/04/25 08:47 PM
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Your posts seemed like they were about the educational system— I’d recommend volunteering at schools, if you want to help out.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 08:36 PM
2

I’ll say Matthew Broderick’s character in most things are a good example.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 07:49 PM
2

Former Educator here— Taught ELA MS & HS in US & Europe. Taught in an Alternative Education environment. I’d recommend creating a paper trail via email, recap all conversations with brief sparknotes and send it to the corresponding parties through email. Ensure that you have documented via email the reasoning for the reassignment. I’d request your school’s HR Rep’s contact information from Admin during these conversations, and follow-up with HR stating that you disagree with a class room reassig…
/r/MensRights25/04/25 06:46 PM
3

When someone puts down another Man or uses generalizations, I am going to take whatever they have to say about Masculinity with the fattest grain of salt. The Divine Masculine is rational— avoid generalizations. Putting others down feels lame and destructive— Men create.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 04:52 PM
1

Don’t listen to my advice without talking to someone more savvy in Mexican Law— DM me, if you want a buddy to talk to when you’re healing. Don’t rush the healing part.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 01:47 PM
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Leave your Abuser & Report the Abuse to the police. What country are you in?
/r/MensRights23/04/25 09:46 PM
2

Am I the only one that thinks Mean Girls had some bangers? I swear, y’all be sleeping on musicals.
/r/MensRights23/04/25 05:49 PM
1

I don’t think formulaic rhetoric, preaching that manliness is grounded in Provided & Protecting is the grift that I need to code masculinity. Anyone can Provide or Protect. Self reflect before you preach.
/r/MensRights23/04/25 04:22 PM
2

You’re a rad man making dope points.
/r/MensRights23/04/25 04:18 PM
1

What films?
/r/MensRights23/04/25 04:00 PM
1

Eh— I read it. I still love my life, and feel gratitude for being born. Comment Sections aren’t my arena.
/r/MensRights21/04/25 07:43 PM
1

ChatGPT asked me about my mental health and why I was making these statements, instead of taking a stance one way or another. I just feel like there’s bigger fish to fry than ChatGPT being sexist, but that’s just me.
/r/MensRights21/04/25 05:00 PM
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Name a text that has a character sacrificing their life for the Greater Good. How many are female? How many are male? Banging topic to explore.
/r/MensRights21/04/25 04:48 PM
3

Friendly reminder that the Burden of Proof for protection orders is the lowest in the entirety of the American legal system. Quite the accomplishment, OP. Congratulations.
/r/MensRights21/04/25 04:47 PM
1

I mean, how ugly is this trail?
/r/MensRights21/04/25 03:06 PM
4

Let’s look at probability: You have a 100% of missing the mark when it comes to empathy. Weird vibe.
/r/MensRights21/04/25 02:57 PM
2

When you talked to the men who it affected, what did they say?
/r/MensRights21/04/25 02:54 PM
1

Your generalizations did nothing for me when I was assaulted by my ex wife.
/r/MensRights21/04/25 02:13 PM
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I’m surprised that no one in this thread is pointing out that the vast majority of Feminists are actually condemning the women flying to space with a dick shaped vessel. I’ve yet to really find many folks adulating this publicity stunt, if I’m being earnest. Here Women are ultimately exemplifying their failure to uplift each other here— repeatedly. Yesterday my TikTok feed was woman after woman after woman criticizing this publicity stunt. And Even Gale’s response to critics was a wildly out of …
/r/MensRights17/04/25 09:49 PM
1

I’m just counting on God and the Universe to let very few pedophiles become pediatricians.
/r/MensRights17/04/25 09:35 PM
3

OP— I think a kink community is a better place to discuss safety & wellness practices for CNC. Any kink can be damaging when implemented poorly. CNC is no different.
/r/MensRights17/04/25 09:31 PM
1

Use some Clarity & Concision, my guy. E. B. White & Stephen King have some good texts out there about clarity & concision— I can point you in their direction, if you want. I’m not really sure where you are at culturally— where do you actually live? I think trying to tap into the Divine Masculine is rad, and you can definitely do it wearing a whatever froufrou fit you want. Just be yourself, and enjoy the ride.
/r/MensRights17/04/25 09:28 PM
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The Divine Masculine embodies Logic & Rationality. Your generalizations and whole, “imma kick sand on them, since they kicked sand on me” isn’t rational— beyond that, it isn’t leadership. It’s following.
/r/MensRights17/04/25 11:50 AM
1

“The Way of the Superior Male” is a dope read. Improve your skin care routine. Workout. Kick it in nature.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 04:36 PM
1

What’s the soap?
/r/MensRights16/04/25 02:33 PM
1

It’s not the show— it’s Chris himself really,
/r/MensRights16/04/25 07:05 AM
1

Con Man— like the protagonist of Shucked or the Music Man.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 07:04 AM
1

DM me— it’s late here, and I’d have to do some digging. A lot of it is fiscal management of his company— empty promises. Can’t remember the details, but a quick Google search should yield the answers, and if you can’t find it, I’ll help you tomorrow. I gotta catch my Z’s.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 07:02 AM
0

Friendly reminder— while Hansen is probably right here about the differences between female pedophiles, he’s still a grifter.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 06:59 AM
1

Nope.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 06:39 AM
4

I can’t imagine you think very hard about how people are portrayed in literature.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 06:34 AM
3

Great book. Dana survives and lives. Now I’m trying to think of a female protagonist who sacrifices her life for the greater good. Y’know— like Edna. Also like Edna, Dana’s…survival rather than suicide is for herself. For her agency. It’s not for a greater good. Take your time and really think hard about it. Like really really hard. In the meantime, remember Wayne from Mistborn? What a finale?!?!
/r/MensRights16/04/25 06:26 AM
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I’m trying to refer to a tale where a woman sacrifices herself for the greater good. I was going to say Harry Potter, but the messianic figure was a man. And then I was like, “Maybe the Awakening?” But Edna killed herself after ignoring her family. I just for the life of me can’t name a female protagonist who sacrifices herself for the greater good, and would really like some help.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 06:09 AM
1

I saw Parade this year— it’s a musical from the 90s. Fucked me up right good. Quite healing.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 12:03 AM
1

My attorney for the Divorce and DV accusation was Boomer Badass— I gained every inch possible in my case, and that’s fine. I’m not trying to undo the charge itself. It’s just the humanity of it all. I had another Man look me in the eye and say, “I’ve been doing this a long time, and I know you beat your wife.” And then another man say, “You’re lucky to get off so lightly.” Some days I feel stuck in the Hatred of it all, and that’s not who I am or want to be. Like this guy the other day— posts ab…
/r/MensRights16/04/25 12:02 AM
2

I think we’re jumping the gun here— I really appreciate the dialogue you’re creating here OP. False Accusations can be difficult to legally prove. I’d actually like to see the recorded Rate of False Accusations Increase. Plenty of Men are falsely accused without any legal documentation confirming this. More judges and courts confirming that a Man was falsely accused comes before harsher punishments for false accusations. I was falsely accused of beating my ex wife. Recently I’ve been thinking ab…
/r/MensRights15/04/25 11:25 PM
9

Food for Thought: Can any of us name a story where a Female Character gives up her own life for the Greater Good? I can’t think of any, but I can list a million where it’s a male character.
/r/MensRights15/04/25 10:11 PM
8

Read. Exercise. Uplift Men.
/r/MensRights15/04/25 08:34 PM
1

I’m excited to hear more of S’ story, and hope the wind is at his back for his healing journey.
/r/MensRights15/04/25 07:49 PM
2

Thanks, dude— I clench my jaw a lot and forget to breath when I go too long without doing any Yoga. I’m doing a vinyasa flow after work, but I really do need the reminder. Have fun Surfing the Net. Cowabunga.
/r/MensRights15/04/25 12:08 PM
4

I’m missing the point— are you trying to say Moral Relativism benefits the MRA movement?
/r/MensRights15/04/25 11:58 AM
3

What’s good for me?
/r/MensRights15/04/25 03:24 AM
5

I appreciate that you keep trying. If you want to hop on a call, I’ll help you refine your thoughts and write something worthwhile. DM me. You even read Dracula?
/r/MensRights15/04/25 01:44 AM
1

AI wrote something good enough for me. A few comments ago. When I posted it.
/r/MensRights15/04/25 12:26 AM
2

I don’t think saying “I used AI to write this” is the silver bullet you think it is.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 11:13 PM
1

It’s not the AI— it’s just your writing.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 10:50 PM
2

Really? Because when I copypasta your post into Chat GPT with the small ask of “fixing your grammar & style,” this is what I got. Male Fashion and Cultural Change: Why It Matters More Than You Think I already know this post might get dismissed with snarky comments or cheap shots—probably something like “wow, what a run-on sentence,” or “here comes the dyslexic guy again.” But for those willing to actually listen, I want to talk about something that matters: how male fashion reflects cultural shi…
/r/MensRights14/04/25 10:49 PM
2

How well did you vet your attorney? I’m not an attorney, but I remember my ex-wife refusing to testify at the PFA hearing from falsely accusing me of DV, because my attorney brought someone to record/transcribe her testimony. The PFA was dropped— didn’t do much to help, but didn’t hurt.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 10:42 PM
3

I’m a Poet. I’m not taking aesthetic advice from someone who dresses like a Victorian Gentleman, but writes like a Victorian Orphan.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 10:02 PM
1

I’m all for addressing issues with the Working Class, but it’s not a catch all for Men’s Issues that are often ignored.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/25 05:38 PM
1

Music is super healing— it’s why I love going to raves and festivals.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 05:11 PM
3

Les Mis.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 04:34 PM
2

New Outsiders musical is tits on glass rad. Highly recommend.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 04:30 PM
2

If I do a Leg Day, I get a Baldur’s Gate 3 day.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 04:26 PM
0

I’ll order you some food off of UberEats or DoorDash, if you can link me a Tradcon saying Boxer is a hero. Dope allusion, dude.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 04:25 PM
3

Just down right tragic.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 04:21 PM
3

I’d rather focus on leveraging my divine masculine to uplift folks in their body positivity journey, rather than how the feminist imperative has hindered body positivity.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 04:15 PM
2

Holy run on sentence. Nope. I can’t do it. Fix your writing.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 03:30 PM
3

Weird take on a lad wondering if most men rape women.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 03:12 PM
3

Dude, thank you for this comment. OP— Has your nephew been evaluated? Definitely think it’s worth considering this.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 03:10 PM
8

Definitely think Men’s Fashion is important— Pretty Privilege is real, and studies show that wearing a better outfit uplift your mood (aiding in mental health). I don’t think Men’s Fashion is the silver bullet that you believe it to be, OP. Also— dude— come on. Don’t put the word “poet” in a run on sentence. Geeze. Tighten up your writing.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 03:07 PM
1

False Accusations are brutal. I still remember getting arrested for assaulting my ex wife, while having a black eye. Start by focusing on your mental wellness— what are you doing for that?
/r/MensRights11/04/25 10:47 PM
1

OP— What’s your definition of Traditional Masculinity? It feels weird to talk about without defining.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 10:08 PM
4

I can definitely vibe with that. Creation remains a key aspect of the Divine Masculine, so it makes more sense to uplift a fellow man in need rather than put him down.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 06:35 PM
2

Your linguistic insecurity matches your passive voice.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 03:16 PM
1

What’s your field?
/r/MensRights11/04/25 02:53 PM
1

“I don’t care about statistics. This isn’t a video game.” Potent rhetoric, dude. Digging it.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 02:38 PM
2

I don’t think we have a “perfect” Masculine Role model— we’re all flawed, but it’s important for men to pursue Growth & Creation as these help men tap into the Divine Masculine. Dalinar Kholin is a great role model.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 12:25 AM
1

I’m not sure if I fully agree, but I also don’t completely disagree either. You gave me some good food for thought, and I appreciate ya.
/r/MensRights08/04/25 11:20 PM
1

I love conversations about defining Masculinity, as we are coming from a cultural spot where a lot of Men struggle to define Masculinity. I mean, even OP doesn’t provide us with a definition of Masculinity in his post. It’s a tough thing for a lot of Men to define. I think back to how a lot of Men within the RP community fail to define their Frame and Mission— it’s another nebulous thing for Men. I’d put aspects of Creation & Action within my definition of the Divine Masculine, but even I am sit…
/r/MensRights07/04/25 08:13 PM
1

I like how you fleshed this out, and I want to ask more about Production vs Creation— is there a difference? More importantly— let’s say we have a Man, not elderly, not a child— this Man doesn’t Produce more than he Consumes. Does that make him not masculine or effeminate?
/r/MensRights07/04/25 08:08 PM
1

If I Consume more than I Produce, am I no longer Masculine?
/r/MensRights07/04/25 07:56 PM
2

Some men just have 1 ball and a stick. Other men have no balls and a stick. Other men have no balls and no stick.
/r/MensRights07/04/25 06:55 PM
1

Seeing how “When I Say No I Feel Guilty” is a Primary RP text, I think it’s fair to bring up.
/r/MensRights07/04/25 03:57 PM
0

https://a.co/d/cpBUCBy This text should be a solid start to improve your writing, allowing you to build enough confidence to be original with your writing.
/r/MensRights07/04/25 02:59 PM
1

I prefer the actual text over SparkNotes. If you need help with writing with clarity & concision on a broad topic, let me know— I used to teach writing.
/r/MensRights07/04/25 12:00 PM
1

Men’s Writing>AI Writing
/r/MensRights04/04/25 08:46 PM
0

Don’t be the statistic of lads struggling to excel academically. Write.
/r/MensRights04/04/25 07:10 PM
2

I tend to get crotchety when folks who have never taught talk about the educational system, but I’ll share a tale. I interviewed during my last semester studying to teach Secondary English with a “decent” school in AZ. Showed up on time, and talked about how my cooperating teacher was going through Chemo, and that I took up the mantle of ensuring her classes were still engaging & helping students. At the time, I essentially took over the class for the cooperating teacher, which just shouldn’t ha…
/r/MensRights04/04/25 06:40 PM
1

What’s your goal here? I’m confused why you have to comment on every single one of my comments? What’s up?
/r/MensRights04/04/25 02:35 PM
1

I can’t say why he’d do that, but I can say that it makes him less sympathetic. Maybe he’d be more sympathetic making the same choices with a gender swap? Who knows?
/r/MensRights04/04/25 02:26 PM
36

Reynolds participated in these shenanigans, if I remember the gossip right.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 09:41 PM
5

The gender of the writers, while helpful and good to know, isn’t a criticism shield.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 08:59 PM
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I used to be a barista at this coffee shop. The owners owned bars in the area, and were hiring— so I inquired about working there, as I am also Cicerone certified. I was told that they were looking to hire hot women to bartend, and that they weren’t interested in interviewing me for any of the bartending jobs. I went on to manage a craft beer bar for a bit— the misandry and misogyny on that one was trippy.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 08:47 PM
5

Misandrists have been using the classics to further push the Feminist Imperative for ages. Adolescence being considered as an educational tool by folks without pedagogical acumen is not the biggest fish to fry with Men’s Issues & Rights in Education.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 08:28 PM
2

Gender Studies are already deeply engrained within ELA curricula already— certain works are impossible to teach without addressing gender dynamics, such as Taming of the Shrew and literary all of Chopin’s work. Adolescence isn’t being taught in schools. I’d be more worried about how the Misandrist teaches the Wife of Bath’s tale— that’s already happened. It’s been happening for ages.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 08:25 PM
2

Cool— just wanted to make it explicitly clear that we don’t have any records of secondary schools actually using Adolescence in their curricula.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 07:04 PM
-3

How exactly is the UK using Adolescence in MS/HS curricula, and what specific school has used it?
/r/MensRights02/04/25 05:29 PM
3

Can someone link me an article about the specific school using this in their curricula?
/r/MensRights02/04/25 04:49 PM
20

Baby Reindeer is worth a watch, but I’d go for another work to do a more in-depth gendered analysis of men suffering abuse within relationships. No beef with Baby Reindeer, but I think something like Gone Girl or Misery. I think Baby Reindeer is more mild about blaming the stalker due to Narrative Structure— we see the Lad’s enabling & encouraging the stalking at certain points, which makes him less sympathetic. But you are absolutely right— the blame with Baby Reindeer’s Stalker is pretty mild.…
/r/MensRights02/04/25 04:48 PM
9

I saw this article, and it leaves far too many unanswered questions for me to really comment on the resources or curricula. I need to see the resources and curricula before I can analyze it. What are these resources?
/r/MensRights02/04/25 04:42 PM
1

Taking pleasure from another person’s suffering shows your lack of empathy. I hope you heal.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 02:54 PM
0

Big dick. Small dick. Fat dick. Thin dick. All dicks deserve love.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 02:38 PM
2

I’m sorry people say “Its Men Hurting Men” to trivialize my trauma.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 02:32 PM
3

Oddly enough, it wasn’t a Man who gave me a black eye and falsely accused me of DV.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 02:27 PM
1

Don’t sweat it. Feel free to DM me if you need help, I used to teach MS/HS English. Lit Theory definitely comes up in more advance curricula— it’s really hard to teach a work like Invisible Man or Kate Chopin without going into the respective theories. Without knowing what you’re studying, I can’t give you any substantial feedback on the curricula design.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 02:24 PM
-1

Are you reading a certain book where this is coming up? What is your current Unit in your English class covering?
/r/MensRights31/03/25 07:43 PM
1

What’s even your goal here? I’m not sure how you are helping Men here.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 05:28 PM
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Whole Foods is an interesting example— I think about the Whole Foods closest to me, nestled in a shopping area that has an Alo, Athleta (builds Men’s Exclusion into the marketing), Pilates Studio, the Yoga Studio I volunteer at. It’s a lot of spots that aren’t marketed towards Men at all. So it’d make sense to me to see mostly Women at the Whole Foods closest to me— none of the nearby shops are actually marketed towards men. I’m not sure if you’d see much difference at another place.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 04:36 PM
-18

To say that Female Representation ruined the MCU instead of weak writing Post-End Game is ludicrous. If you want a Male Only Space for your hobby, then create one. I facilitate a Men’s Bible Study. Ain’t hard.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 11:39 PM
2

$4.6k Bail for being what I imagine to be a drunk woo girl seems extreme, right?
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/25 08:32 PM
2

I’d say you sound like you’re fun at parties, but that’d be a lie.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 04:58 PM
1

Report her to HR.
/r/MensRights24/03/25 10:08 PM
1

I feel like your last paragraph tells us that you let the world dictate your Frame, instead of YOU deciding what your frame ought to be. You did all these things to grow supposedly, but y’know— if only you had attention from women…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/25 05:43 PM
5

Facts. PFAs have the lowest burden of proof.
/r/MensRights21/03/25 07:33 PM
5

I try to avoid claiming a bias exists when actionable data doesn’t exist. But what do I know? I’m just a guy with a logic degree who works as a data analyst.
/r/MensRights21/03/25 07:08 PM
10

Where was the availability heuristic when I was falsely accused of beating my ex wife?
/r/MensRights21/03/25 06:46 PM
0

The “Socratic Problem”— We don’t have any documents showing Socrates exists aside from Plato’s works. Socrates may have actually existed. Socrates could also have just been Plato’s fan fiction. I’d call that a Phil 101 Socrates fact. Homosexuality was normalized for men in Greek culture— super common historically for them.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 11:49 PM
-1

Who is calling writing Gay in 2025? Also, Socrates may not have even existed, but assuming Socrates isn’t just Plato’s fan fiction, then he probably sucked a few dicks in his day. No hard evidence exists for it, but historically speaking, I just find it hard to believe he didn’t when it was normalized in Greek culture.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 08:45 PM
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I don’t think there’s a Magical Wand Wave of a solution here. You keep on truckin’, being a Good Man. Be the type of Man that young lads can look up to. Anyone who’s going to label you as a misogynist irrationally, probably isn’t someone you want to play a game of Croquet with.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 05:18 PM
6

“Brittany Fortinberry, after being arrested, attributed her alleged criminal actions to the fact that she had lost 150 pounds, implying that her weight loss somehow influenced her behaviour.” Ugh.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 07:52 PM
5

As someone with a background in Lit Criticism & Theory, dope analysis of rad show. Speaking of Applegate— You ever watch Dead to Me? That show deserves your gender analyses.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 07:41 PM
2

Are lonesome when it comes to Platonic relationships too, or just romance? How often do you kick it with mates?
/r/MensRights12/03/25 05:00 PM
2

Never in my life will my goal be to work 18 hours a day. No way OP does this. I have enough esoteric and poorly defined Mental Fortitude to know that an 18 hour work day won’t help me align with the Divine Masculine. Work hard. Rest hard.
/r/MensRights11/03/25 05:04 PM
1

Reviewing Genders by Job Role/Job Title is a solid base for analyzing this— it sounds like you prefer examining anecdotes over data.
/r/MensRights11/03/25 04:23 PM
-2

I feel like you’re latching onto the emotionally charged part of his comment instead of the part about gathering reliable data on hiring bias. How do you gather reliable data on Hiring Bias?
/r/MensRights11/03/25 01:35 PM
2

Four Waves of Feminism are traditionally taught on the collegiate level (and probably some HS’s).
/r/MensRights10/03/25 05:36 PM
1

Welp, it’s a dog eat dog world.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/03/25 05:26 PM
3

I mean— how does one gather reliable data on Suicide Attempts? An actually suicide can be measurable— person dies. Measuring Suicide Attempts is more nebulous— what’s the method we’re using?
/r/MensRights10/03/25 02:33 PM
36

A formal study of comments on Reddit just sounds asinine to me.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 03:45 PM
15

That’s awful. I’d report the company to the BBB and also write a 1 Star Review on Google.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 10:49 PM
2

What are you doing to love yourself?
/r/MensRights26/02/25 01:19 AM
1

I am asking what you are doing for your mental and physical health now— the answer seems to be nada.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 12:38 AM
0

While I can’t help much with Australian Law, I can definitely help with Healing. What are you doing for your mental and physical wellness?
/r/MensRights24/02/25 09:27 PM
0

I’m calling bullshit on this one, Quixote.
/r/MensRights24/02/25 06:03 PM
6

You always have to consider the Who is the Speaker whenever you are reading or listening to something. How healed is that woman posting on TwoXChromosomes? If I don’t think someone is healed, then I’m not going to really worry about what they have to say.
/r/MensRights24/02/25 03:51 PM
3

The last time I checked, no man forced my ex-wife to make my life harder by giving me a black eye and falsely accusing me of assault.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 09:40 PM
1

Who?
/r/MensRights19/02/25 03:24 AM
5

Men create. That includes art.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 02:33 AM
1

Criticizing a retelling of Huckleberry Finn through Jim’s POV for focusing on racial politics, satire, and political commentary, while using sentence fragments makes me feel like you missed a lot of what the original text focused on. I’d clean up your writing before tackling Lit Theory & Criticism— the sentence fragments and structural errors in your writing makes it sound uneducated.
/r/MensRights07/02/25 09:31 PM
1

I’d read this post, but I’m a good Vorin man.
/r/MensRights07/02/25 08:27 PM
0

When was the last time you have revamped your Online Dating profile? I’d consider reviewing and editing it, if you want greater success— I like to think of this analogous to updating a resume template too. Update the pics with something fresh & flattering, and some more details on what you want & what you’re looking for. While online dating has its challenges, challenges can also galvanize growth. DM me if you have any Red Pill questions too.
/r/MensRights07/02/25 08:24 PM
1

Taunting another man who is recovering from alcoholism with alcohol is weird. I hope you heal.
/r/MensRights29/01/25 07:26 PM
1

Yes— huge difference between a glass of kombucha and ten glasses of whisky. Kombucha had about as much alcohol as NA Beer. Some folks in AA suggested against it, due to the potential for triggering relapses and others encouraged it so you can better develop psychological mechanisms to combat said triggers. Fortunately, kombucha hasn’t hurt me on my healing journey. Sending good vibes, dude. Thanks for the friendly reminder.
/r/MensRights29/01/25 01:13 AM
1

I like Kombucha. It’s helped me quit alcohol.
/r/MensRights29/01/25 01:09 AM
27

I’m with your wife— let us know when you figure out what you want.
/r/askMRP28/01/25 11:15 PM
0

-Kombucha
/r/MensRights28/01/25 05:05 PM
3

Quit putting down my friend.
/r/MensRights28/01/25 12:33 PM
1

Just the rules really— reread them, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/25 06:38 PM
2

Heard— I’ll reread the rules and sidebar myself.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/25 06:34 PM
2

The Defense attorney can probably have Date Stamps & Time Stamps of when the CP was accessed/downloaded— I’d reach out to his defense attorney.
/r/MensRights13/01/25 07:45 PM
198

I see a lot of women fetishizing the suffering of Men, and I’d rather see Men uplifting Men.
/r/MensRights08/01/25 06:21 AM
1

What text did they publish?
/r/MensRights07/01/25 11:06 PM
5

Who in the Manosphere coined this phrase?
/r/MensRights07/01/25 10:14 PM
10

File a PFA.
/r/MensRights07/01/25 08:32 PM
3

Take a deep breath in. Slowly exhale, bro. Repeat after me. “I am allowed to take up space with my Divine Masculine Energy.”
/r/MensRights03/01/25 05:53 PM
1

It’s a shame to hear that you have no motivations, and enjoy being miserable. Feel free to DM me whenever you want to change or grow— I’m all for uplifting Men who want to create a better state for themselves.
/r/MensRights23/12/24 10:38 PM
1

Do you enjoy being unhappy?
/r/MensRights23/12/24 06:06 PM
1

What’s something you want to do or be?
/r/MensRights21/12/24 03:58 PM
1

What have you done today to take care of your body? What do you do proactively to minimize the back pain?
/r/MensRights20/12/24 10:59 PM
5

Go read The Book of Pook— he talks about Action Dates. Do dudes just post on here without touching the Sidebar?
/r/askMRP28/07/23 03:23 PM
2

Sidebar. Do we no longer read it?
/r/askMRP28/07/23 02:48 PM
1

You’re confusing answering any question with DEERing, which makes me wonder a lot about your lack of frame.
/r/askMRP28/07/23 02:31 PM
1

Sidebar.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 07:24 PM
1

We hamstering about plates now?
/r/askMRP26/07/23 05:48 PM
3

Sidebar. STFU.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 05:46 PM
1

I don’t drink, but I also don’t need to DEER about it. Sidebar. Read WISNIFG and NMMNG.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 05:42 PM
2

Only read the first two sentences. All requests for sex must be made two weeks in advance. Sidebar.
/r/askMRP19/07/23 05:34 PM
4

First you need to admit your are Abusing Alcohol, which is a problem. Then you fucking get help. Start giving zero fucks about anything that doesn’t involve you handling your Alcohol Abuse Problem.
/r/askMRP17/07/23 04:58 PM
11

Hello, I’m jjj2576, and I’m an Alcoholic. Had a 74 day streak recently— I relapsed, and I am back at Day 4. During my 74 day streak of not drinking, I started to focus on my drinking in Therapy, but decided against AA and outpatient therapy with a Drug & Alcohol Abuse Counselor/Expert. I relapsed recently, and am back to Day 4 of not drinking— I regret allowing the Alcohol to convince me that, “I got this under control without all of the resources available.” Alcohol is a powerful force— plenty …
/r/askMRP17/07/23 04:17 PM
1

Read “The Sex God Method.”
/r/askMRP17/07/23 02:13 PM
1

Sidebar.
/r/askMRP17/07/23 02:07 PM
1

You’re in her Frame.
/r/askMRP17/07/23 02:04 PM
11

Sidebar. Therapy.
/r/askMRP17/07/23 02:18 AM
1

This story is why everyone should check out “When I Say No I Feel Guilty.”
/r/MensRights13/07/23 08:06 PM
1

I’d read “When I Say No I Feel Guilty,” and refrain from engaging in conversation with folks you don’t like.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 10:22 PM
7

A Full Blow Restraining Order is more likely to show up than a PFA— so that makes sense. My misdemeanors never showed up on background checks when I taught in PA & AZ. I’m skeptical about that— feel free to DM me though, and I can check with my current network to see if that’d pop up for a coaching gig in your state. False Accusations are rough. I’m sending good vibes regardless.
/r/MensRights02/07/23 02:56 PM
1

Your wife is Abusing you. Your wife is Abusive. Your wife is your Abuser. Hitting people isn’t normal. Putting your partner down for the sake of a joke isn’t normal. Leave now. Record everything. Always be recording now.
/r/MensRights02/07/23 01:21 PM
3

What did your partner’s DV charge get knocked down too? My false DV charge was knocked down to a Harassment Misdemeanor, and it hasn’t prevented me from getting any new jobs. Is your partner going for a job with a normal/general background check? Or is he pursuing something that would have a more intense background check such as teaching?
/r/MensRights02/07/23 01:10 PM
2

You’re LARPing like an RP Guru, but you just used a digital tool to bash another man’s perceived SMV. I won’t call that Beta behavior, because that’s honestly the type of stuff Women do to each other— Rollo talks about this, but you have to read the primary RP texts to actually know the theory.
/r/MensRights02/07/23 01:07 PM
1

Sidebar covers this question.
/r/askMRP27/06/23 08:52 PM
1

How have attorneys advised you?
/r/MensRights23/06/23 06:59 PM
1

You are here to argue and insult others. You aren’t here to empathize. Trauma isn’t a valid reason to ignore Men & Men’s Issues.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 10:26 PM
5

Ignoring Men means you are ignoring Men’s Issues.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 10:18 PM
11

If you are asking in good faith how the claim “Trauma justifies ignoring Men’s Issues” perpetuates your contribution to systemic misandry, then feel free to DM me.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 10:00 PM
13

I’ve seen you say that trauma is a valid reason for systemic misandry.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 09:29 PM
55

Congrats! It’s awesome to see MRAs stop abusive misandry.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 07:16 PM
1

Yes. Corrected. Thanks.
/r/MensRights12/06/23 05:37 PM
6

Are We Dating the Same Guy is a tool for women to digitally devalue other men’s perceived SMV while attempting to increase their own perceived SMV. On the other hand, Are We Dating the Same Girl is a reaction to this.
/r/MensRights12/06/23 05:04 PM
2

Solid insight.
/r/MensRights12/06/23 01:19 PM
2

How many women think false allegations against men are acceptable?
/r/MensRights12/06/23 01:17 PM
6

If you’re interested in learning about masculine dating then I can’t think of a better place to start than the Book of Pook, but the Rationale Male is good starting place too.
/r/MensRights12/06/23 01:03 PM
25

Dominique Jones sent a text to her brothers asking them to “shoot [Rudolph’s] shit up.” Dominique Jones is on camera, assaulting the Victim. And this Abuser is still not in jail. Watching the challenge attitude of this abusers makes my skin crawl.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 08:58 PM
5

While I am sure that Racism doesn’t help the Climate, I’m also wagering that the HVAC in Fonda’s home doesn’t help the Climate either.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 08:34 PM
1

I am friends with a bunch of feminists who aren’t misandrists. As long as you aren’t hateful, you are welcome to kick it with me. I think it’s important to see people for who they truly are, as opposed to merely writing someone off for a political belief— the latter seems bigoted to me, and is typical of misandrists who yearn to generalize a whole group.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 07:09 PM
219

$20 seems low for child support— I imagine that’s the joke.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 07:02 PM
5

Rest easy, Mr. McDermid. I’m sure your kindness touched many souls.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 07:00 PM
3

What can feminism do to help me navigate my ex-wife’s false allegation of assault? To be clear, I am asking what can feminism do to help me navigate my ex-wife’s false allegation of assault?
/r/MensRights30/05/23 05:33 PM
4

What can feminism do about my Ex-Wife giving me a black eye, and falsely accusing me of assault?
/r/MensRights30/05/23 04:50 PM
2

The Supreme Court hasn’t been only Men for a hot minute. Check yourself.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 04:45 PM
9

Concept Creep do be the culprit.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 04:41 PM
2

Using Gallup Data, eh? I see a Man of Culture here.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 08:15 PM
1

Reverse the roles. Find the double standard.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 08:11 PM
1

“Your last statement is a fine example of Misandry. Misandrist Generalizations are not okay.” Use Fogging & Broken Record here. Disengage from conversations where she exemplifies Misandry and ignore them. No need to engage in Misandry.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 07:48 PM
11

You don’t have to teach her, but you have an obligation as an MRA to set a healthy boundary that Misandrist Generalizations are not acceptable. What happened when you told your sister that Misandrist Generalizations are unacceptable around you?
/r/MensRights25/05/23 09:21 PM
1

What type of advice are you looking for that an attorney cannot provide you with?
/r/MensRights25/05/23 04:21 PM
5

OP— What did you think of the podcast referenced in the link you gave us?
/r/MensRights25/05/23 04:16 PM
1

It sounds like your friends are women who are trying to code what it means to be a man. Men bond over shared activities & hobbies. Your friends bond over being women coding what it means to be a man.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 02:22 PM
1

Say the False Accusers name.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 02:18 PM
1

Just ask the person saying “Fuck the Patriarchy” what they mean, and enjoy the hilarity that ensues.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 02:12 PM
52

To be fair, the majority of Rosin’s economic data is misused to claim “Women properly won the gEnDeR wAr,” but that data actually reveals systemic misandry in a pre-fourth wave feminist society. Rosin’s recent comments about how wOmEn dIdN’t aCtUaLlY wIn tHe GeNdEr WaR, illustrates how even she doesn’t think her writing stands the test of time.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 01:02 AM
13

Nope. I like to piss standing up.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 12:59 AM
1

Yeah— Superstore is very okay. Some parts are good, and others are meh. It’s another Office/Parks & Rec copycat. I stuck with it for a while, but the Jonah/Amy relationship is a really weak “will they/won’t they.” I would’ve guessed Abbot Elementary until you started talking about CEOs and management.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 10:39 PM
2

What show is it?
/r/MensRights23/05/23 10:27 PM
3

How old is this theory? Pre or Post 4th Wave Feminism?
/r/MensRights23/05/23 09:18 PM
22

Your first response to this post was demonizing the MRA movement. You are the problem.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 08:57 PM
5

What’s the theory of intersectionality?
/r/MensRights23/05/23 08:44 PM
1

Oof. “Hamstering” is what I meant— phone auto corrected. Hamstering is a form of codependent overthinking. Rollo does a fine job describing it. https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/27/the-beta-hamster/amp/
/r/MensRights23/05/23 08:39 PM
1

Legit Question: When I research Circumcision vs Not Being Circumcised, I’m not seeing a true general consensus on which is healthier/more ethical/better. Can someone explain to me why not circumcising is better, or shoot me a DM with some sources?
/r/MensRights23/05/23 08:29 PM
17

I mean, people claiming to be for “women’s rights” have murdered people.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 08:20 PM
0

Grow & Develop yourself. Hamstering over an ex is a waste of time. Edit: Spelling
/r/MensRights23/05/23 08:18 PM
22

The “thumbs up” upsets bad drivers more than any middle finger ever could.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 08:16 PM
5

The Hag fucked around and found out.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 08:12 PM
4

The Irony of OP’s low effort post barely doing enough to get by, and the article talking about lads wanting to put in less effort— this Irony is clutch.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 07:06 PM
1

I’d totally be down to help, if you weren’t a transphobic grifter who writes like that annoying student who is trying to sound smarter than everyone else.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 06:39 PM
2

Instead of being really wordy about saying, “this data is prolly alright,” you could just use data from an actual study.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 06:32 PM
2

I feel like calling the original Survey a “study” is misleading.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 04:36 PM
1

1.) Alpha/Beta is a spectrum and does a fine job for measuring attraction. 2.) Hypergamy doesn’t care if you believe in it. 3.) Rollo addressed this in the text itself. 5.) Rollo doesn’t state this— albeit, Rollo would affirm that men with lower SMV are more likely to be accused through a lack of “enthusiastic consent.” 6.) False Accusations are not rare. Neither of us can produce actual data on this, but both of us have been accused of things falsely.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 12:53 AM
2

I could be mistaken, but I can’t think of a lot of phrases that uplift lads and encourage them to grow. Language shapes the ways we are capable of thinking, and while creating an uplifting trope/phrase for young lads may seem inconsequential, it has potential to reshape the ways they think— that could lead to less mental health issues in Boys & Men.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 12:05 AM
237

I’m only an amateur fortune teller. Can someone with more experience in divination tell me when doxing false accusers becomes law?
/r/MensRights11/05/23 10:29 PM
2

I’d rather fuck the matriarchy.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 10:28 PM
15

I’d imagine that the sexual abuse of young boys is under reported in Western countries too.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 10:05 PM
3

This.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 09:38 PM
3

Check out “The Rationale Male” by Rollo Tomassi— he talks about this in the text. Here’s the excerpt on Consent. https://therationalmale.com/tag/sexual-consent/ You were falsely accused of Sexually Assault.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 06:21 PM
1

Sir, this is a Wendy’s.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 04:29 PM
24

Irina Walker “ate somebody’s ass before, but that’s only because they wanted it.” N-Count of 20 at 17 years old? Oof. Thanks, dude. This young abuser is horrible.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 03:18 PM
2

“The Book of Pook” is free on YouTube— add that to your list too.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 03:07 PM
1

The Misandrist Victim Fetish perpetuates systemic misandry, while systemic misogyny has decreased substantially over the years.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 03:05 PM
1

I’m hopeful that we can change things for the better over time.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 03:00 PM
-7

OP is the transphobe using the MRA movement to plug his own work. :/
/r/MensRights11/05/23 02:59 PM
2

Hit up an attorney. Follow their guidance.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 02:57 PM
39

I hope Araiza’s mental health is solid— this type of abuse can weigh heavy on the soul.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 02:57 PM
8

And jAnE dOe the Abuser’s friends testified against her.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 02:56 PM
24

No— hoping for every hour.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 02:49 PM
34

I can’t find the False Accusers name in any publication— why are we protecting the abuser?
/r/MensRights11/05/23 02:49 PM
12

Rest in peace, David— if Heaven is your cup of tea, then enjoy one with Brian.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 02:48 PM
7

Women Bosses are less likely to give their female subordinates the benefit of the doubt? I wonder how women will blame men for this one.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 02:43 PM
4

How did the Lass claim that you abused her?
/r/MensRights11/05/23 02:38 PM
2

Rollo talks about N Count in The Rationale Male, and briefly mentions a study that claimed Women with higher N-Counts have a develop emotionally bonds less quickly (& weaker bonds) than Women with lower N-Counts. I haven’t found this study myself, but I’d be down to look over a few.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 02:33 PM
3

This advice is solid. I think it’s tough to expect a teenager to be able to confidently assert & defend themselves like this— I mean, I can’t say I’d expect young me to have the same wisdom I have now. I hope to become a father who can lead his son to have the confidence and wisdom to navigate these types of situations. I’m wondering how OP’s parents reacted to all of this.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 01:16 PM
19

Yeah— the source should be included in the original post.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 12:58 PM
1

You are the transphobe trying to use MRA issues to plug your content.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 12:47 PM
-13

This guy knows what’s up.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 02:40 AM
1

Companies are Legal Entities, but ownership for Beneficial Owners are typically calculated during Equitable Distribution.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 01:09 AM
15

NMMNG is a banger of a read. It’s probably going to be about time for me to revisit some excerpts from it. I definitely recommend pairing it with “When I Say No I Feel Guilty.” While both texts are on the RP Sidebar & considered primary RP texts, they definitely hold value for non-RP folks as well. WISNIFG is about asserting yourself in a positive manner— it gives you a bag of tricks to approach conflict that doesn’t involve escalation, insults, or put-down’s.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 06:30 PM
3

Check out the AWDTSGisToxic subreddit, and also go with the copyright report route.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 04:13 PM
13

I can’t say I know any fellows who pay for OF, but I also suppose that’s not something worth admitting.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 03:02 PM
403

Just wait until this Lass figures out the gender bias regarding child support.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 02:59 PM
1

The Study answers a lot of your questions, and I always encourage lads to read the primary text for themselves so they can better interpret it. It’s hard to analyze a study without reading it— trust me. I’ve tried. Let us know what you think, once you’ve read the study!
/r/MensRights10/05/23 02:54 PM
9

Gender Double Standards are Misandry’s Bastards.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 02:19 PM
1

Is Jess still sexually abusing and assaulting you?
/r/MensRights10/05/23 01:24 PM
11

A woman fucks a bunch of people— she’s adulated as “empowered.” A man fucks a bunch of people— he’s belittled as a “fuck boy.”
/r/MensRights10/05/23 01:21 PM
6

Common Core Standards and No Child Left Behind were pretty massive changes.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 01:18 PM
6

Go with the copyright report route, and hope for the best.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 01:15 PM
2

What’s Reeves’s writing style like? Is “Of Boys and Men” worth reading? If Reeves doesn’t mention Steinbeck in that text, it’s a missed opportunity.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 01:14 PM
5

While I’m not familiar with the study that sounds about right— Confirmation Bias is taught in the majority of Intro to Logic courses.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 01:09 PM
14

Have you done the copyright reporting?
/r/MensRights10/05/23 12:34 AM
2

Make sure you are being kind to yourself. It sounds like you truly pushing yourself to become an exemplary leader for your family. My hobbies always help with my mental health, and it may be a good time to look back at some of your old hobbies, or even find a new one.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 11:55 PM
3

The “Joy Luck Club” begs to differ.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 11:45 PM
1

That’s rough, buddy. The Feminist Narrative pushes a lot of toxic tropes that have detrimentally affected our legal system, and that type of pain can weigh heavily on a man. What are you doing to take care of your physical and mental health?
/r/MensRights09/05/23 10:53 PM
1

Swapping Genders reveals Misandry.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 10:34 PM
6

I’ll upvote you, but only because I hope you pushed up your glasses and said, “but actually,” while typing this out. I appreciate the additional knowledge you dropped, Han BroLo.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 10:16 PM
11

That’s rough, buddy. I get your jest about the folder being useless— it didn’t do anything for me, but it made me feel better. I lost that folder in the divorce— oddly enough. Feel free to DM me, if you want to share war stories from abusive ex’s.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 10:14 PM
30

As someone whose ex-wife once pointed a knife at him for a half hour, while calling my coworker a fat fucking cunt, it helped me out.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 08:46 PM
47

Oh, right. The pedophile. The pedophile known as Shannon Parsons. The pedophile specifically known as Shannon Parsons. That pedophile.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 08:33 PM
118

I’m a big fan of “If I wind up kidnapped or dead, then here are my thoughts/suspects” folders.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 08:22 PM
76

I imagine it’s probably Men’s fault that she doesn’t own a Shower Cap or vet hotels.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 08:19 PM
0

I am sending you good vibes, and hope you pursue self-growth and self-love. Feel free to DM me with any questions about Positive Masculinity that you have.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 08:16 PM
0

A Man improving his Mind, Body, and Soul is an excellent way for him to advocate for himself. Slapfighting on the internet and trying to brigade another subreddit isn’t self-advocacy.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 08:05 PM
1

If you wanted to keep men down, you’d tell them to spend more time growing themselves?
/r/MensRights09/05/23 07:03 PM
89

This is where progress is made— pick the best candidates regardless of gender. I mean, sure— the study gives us some excellent points regarding the costs to send Men vs Women, but it’s worth spending money to have a successful space mission.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 06:56 PM
161

The fact that Letecis Stauch taught children is mind boggling. I’m sure some misandrists would love to spin this as, “I wonder what the Boy/Father did wrong.”
/r/MensRights09/05/23 06:53 PM
1

Defining Masculinity is important. I do not feel any shame towards dedicating my time on such an endeavor. I do appreciate that you also agree with my sentiment of slapfighting to be a waste of masculine energy. Sarcasm, by definition, is meant to put others down. I’d avoid using sarcasm, if shaming Men is a concern of yours.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 03:41 PM
1

What makes you say I am not an MRA? I’m all about Positive Masculinity, and working towards a world where Men suffer less. Is something wrong with that?
/r/MensRights09/05/23 03:33 PM
0

“A real man would” That’s a good example of Misandry there. What’s wrong with encouraging a man to not slap fight on the internet, and to pursue more productive endeavors?
/r/MensRights09/05/23 03:27 PM
-3

I’m just a Man who enjoys lifting heaving things and reading. If I were really to define masculinity, I’d just use Deida’s definition from “The Way of the Superior Man.” This type of Masculinitiy is “purposeful, confident, and directed, living his chosen way of life with deep integrity and humor—and he is sensitive, spontaneous, and spiritually alive, with a heart-commitment to discovering and living his deepest truth.” You should read his work. It’s good stuff— Deida defines Positive Masculinit…
/r/MensRights09/05/23 03:23 PM
-3

From the Sidebar: “Linking a comment to a Thread in which you are a part of encourages brigading and is not allowed.” Spend less time slapfighting on the internet with strangers, and more time growing yourself.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 03:10 PM
-1

Sir_Vendetta writes dope poetry. My previous comment regarding poetry is directed at him— not you.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 02:26 PM
-8

Hit up the Sidebar and check out the rules on Cross Posting. Slap Fighting on the internet is a waste of time, and definitely unmanly.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 02:25 PM
4

Legal Positivism died with Roe v Wade being overturned, and while I agree with you— it’s totally written that way, I am also hesitant. We’ve seen the Feminist Narrative manipulate the legal system to encourage false allegations, despite the gender neutral language within the laws. So I mean, I’m holding my breathe.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 02:23 PM
-4

Slap Fighting on the internet isn’t manly. Doing is Manly. Writing poetry is Manly. You are wasting your time that could be better spent growing yourself and your art, and your art is dope.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 02:21 PM
13

Yeah— the emotional weight of being in Prison has to be brutal.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 02:07 PM
3

I can’t say much for post-movie seasons— I haven’t seen those.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 01:06 PM
57

Geeze. 29 Years is a lifetime for some folks.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:35 PM
8

As a fake lawyer, I’d recommend doing it. You could talk to a real lawyer, but they’ll probably just give you actual legal advice or something silly like that.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:35 PM
23

The Feminist Narrative always will blame Men in order to maintain a woman’s perceived SMV in a group.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:33 PM
22

I can’t say “Femcell Fucks” is the news story that I am interested in.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:32 PM
8

This is one of those subtler forms of misandry that folks will enable by claiming “it’s not thaaaaat big of a deal.”
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:27 PM
3

I’d just read the primary feminist theorist’s in each wave, and call it a day.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:23 PM
3

I taught a lot of Mormons back in the day— lots of suicide in that community.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:07 PM
6

If I wanted to see a pissing contest, I’d buy two male chinchillas and put their cages next to each other.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:07 PM
2

On a side note, I’d be hella down for a Mormon or Ex-Mormon to break down men’s issues within the church itself.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 11:59 AM
20

No idea, honestly. I’m just playing Mad Libs here.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 02:55 AM
150

The Underage False Accuser asked Men at the party to fuck her, and then called them pussies when they didn’t. I hope Araiza is okay— this stress has to weigh heavy on the soul and mind.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 01:48 AM
19

Shit-Zen-Giggles will probably post resources for you shortly. I’d go with the copyright report option. You don’t need to tell the Lass why you aren’t interested, and you don’t have enough rapport with her to get her to help you out. Stay in your Frame.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:24 AM
12

In the earlier seasons he was, but Homer became less empathetic over time (after earlier season to movie).
/r/MensRights08/05/23 09:14 PM
63

Peppa Pig’s dad is playing on the “dumb obese dad trope” a la Homer Simpson & Peter Griffin.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 05:34 PM
2

The DEVI Model is from Daniel Rose’s “The Sex God Method.” It’s been out of print for a hot minute— since at least 2020 when I first read it. You can find a free PDF for it pretty easily online though. Rose claims that Sex has 4 key components (Dominance, Emotion, Variety, and Immersion), and that quality sex leverages these components. It’s a solid read that you could definitely use.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 05:33 PM
3

Yeah— I’ve seen this guy try to plug his pop-philosophy content on this sub before. It’s the type of writing that tries to sound esoteric intentionally, in order to sound smarter. Plus this guy is the MRA version of a TERF.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 03:17 PM
3

“I’m” “seeing” “a” “lot” of “writing errors” “in this text.”
/r/MensRights08/05/23 03:12 PM
2

-insert shocked Pikachu face- No point in arguing with Misandrists.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 02:15 PM
3

Did you read the study? The study makes these same points and address them. :/ What’s with folks commenting without reading the study/article in the Original Post?
/r/MensRights08/05/23 02:10 PM
0

OP— I’m wondering what you think about the DEVI model for sex.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 02:05 PM
9

Grifters gonna grift.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 01:47 PM
1

I am proud of the men asking, “Why the fuck haven’t you told your wife yet?” Lead with Honesty & Integrity— no need for the Captain to lie to his First Mate.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 12:22 AM
3

I see a great deal of callousness towards Men whose partner’s had abortions. Most people only pay attention to trauma that women suffer, and ignore the Man’s experience here.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 10:39 PM
0

Men don’t need to use social media for Hypergamy.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 10:35 PM
7

Yet he have more homeless Men than Women :/
/r/MensRights07/05/23 08:29 PM
9

I mean— Hypergamy has always been a thing.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 06:38 PM
1

Women use social media to inflate their perceived SMV, while deflating the SMV of others.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 06:38 PM
22

Rest easy now, Baiju.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 06:08 PM
6

She mocks you? Yeah. I’m super not into put down’s. That’s a deal breaker for me. Take some extra time to ensure you are organized and protecting yourself during the break up.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 06:02 PM
3

What was the point where you knew you were going to break up with her?
/r/MensRights07/05/23 05:11 PM
6

Film & Media glorify bad mothers and condemn normal fathers.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 05:07 PM
1

False Accusations are an MRA Issue.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 09:34 PM
2

You didn’t ask the askmrp subreddit. Sidebar.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 05:45 PM
10

I have a broad definition of “shitting where you eat,” and I consider where I study to also be a place I eat. But that’s just me— I always encourage Masculine Autonomy, and you have to decide what YOU want for yourself. Take this mishap as a lesson— you need to vet people better. You should have picked a helpful lab partner, instead of this Lass. It’s naturally for folks to want a smart lab partner— you should have done the same.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 04:21 PM
11

I wonder when we’ll see the trope of “Woman Immorally Weaponizing the Law” in film & television, as opposed to seeing the “you go girl” hymn being sung.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 02:52 PM
8

Ignore the male bashing, and focus on your own goals.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 02:48 PM
1

Feminists have TERFs. We get you apparently.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 02:46 PM
9

You did not sexually assault this woman. Block this woman on all social media. Block her phone number as well. I’d recommend changing both of your phone numbers as well.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 02:01 PM
9

Putting down Men is not very Manly.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 01:59 PM
0

Focus on yourself, and continue pursuing your goals. Use your standards to vet women. If you don’t like a Lass who makes too many assumptions, then don’t date her.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 01:55 PM
2

The decreasing work force is due to Boomer’s retiring.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 01:54 PM
1

The decreasing work force is due to Boomer’s retiring.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 01:54 PM
1

The Body Positivity Movement has excluded Men for a while.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 01:27 PM
1

An abuser changes their song & dance, when they know that they are being observed.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 01:14 PM
2

While it’s rarer to see body positivity apply to Men, it always warms the soul to see it.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 01:12 PM
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Discouraging Men to report abuse perpetuates abuse. I’m not into fatalistic masculinity, but I empathize with your sentiment.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 10:38 PM
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Anne Coulter already did. Fortunately, you can get past the paywall by deleting your cookies and/or browser history— you can Google how to do this too, in case you forget.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 10:03 PM
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I have no idea what YikYak is, but is the woman anonymous? If not, then it’s definitely worth reporting this sexual harassment.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 09:37 PM
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Read the article, and decide for yourself. Anne Coulter provided a link to the NYT article, and it’s easy enough to find with a Google search. This article has been posted a lot recently on this sub.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 09:32 PM
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The parenting plan states that you will pay for her car insurance? Oof. You gotta go through your attorney then.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 07:38 PM
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I use the DEVI model to evaluate Good vs Bad sex per “The Sex God Method,” and Emotions are 25% of what makes up good sex. You miss out on that with prostitutes. Plus that puts your sexual health at risk. Read Pook, dude.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 07:36 PM
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Changing the external environment doesn’t change your Game. Improve your Game, Looks, and Assets, in order to improve your SMV. Check out Seduction and PUA communities, to see if their guidance is for you. I highly recommend reading “The Book of Pook.” It’s all on YouTube, the last time I checked.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 07:11 PM
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What does your divorce agreement state about your car insurance? If it states nothing, then I would have her removed. You do not need her permission to do this. Why did you two divorce?
/r/MensRights04/05/23 07:08 PM
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I’m wondering why you didn’t include removing your ex-wife from your car insurance in your original divorce.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 05:52 PM
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The NYT article that Ann Coulter is attempting to criticize tells us that Jack killed himself within the first two paragraphs. I appreciate OP giving us an example of a trash woman using a young man’s tragedy to selfishly advance her own agenda.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 04:32 PM
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This is a spicy resource— thank you for sharing.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 02:09 PM
1

Are you genuinely asking why I want to marry to deepen your understanding, or are you looking to argue?
/r/MensRights04/05/23 02:07 PM
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Putting others down is lame. Patronizing others is not manly.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 01:01 PM
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I see a post title that talks about video games & porn, then I see a post that doesn’t mention either.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 12:55 PM
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This is mind blowing to me— I’m a post-structuralist, so I often skip over the author’s background history, unless I am really jazzed by their work. Chomsky was someone I studied in Lit Theory too. What’s Pol Pot?
/r/MensRights04/05/23 12:31 PM
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I’m glad I was able to provide you with accurate and reliable data— here’s some feedback, as I have no interest in being right or slapfighting on this subreddit. “As I said” comes off passive aggressive. It sounds similar to “per my previous email,” which we all know sounds super bitchy. I’m a data analyst. When you are talking about what goes into a metric, you need to specify. “Percentage of Population” doesn’t specify that the denominator is race specific, but to be even more lucid— I’m using…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 12:28 PM
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I was using FBI data from 2016, which shows .07% of white men being prosecuted with rape when you use only white men as the denominator. When you use only black men as the denominator, the percentage of black men prosecuted is .23%. The racial aggregations show that more White Men are prosecuted, while Black Men are prosecuted at a higher rate when you use only arrested black men as the denominator— we can fortunately both pull these metrics from the source below. https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-th…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 11:14 AM
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Mind sending me some links? I only know about Said’s Critical Theories. I can’t say I have ever studied much about his actual life.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 02:33 AM
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I’m open to feedback— what did I do wrong? Do you think encouraging accountability and stronger work ethics is wrong?
/r/MensRights03/05/23 10:48 PM
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You are dope— good vibes.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 10:38 PM
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Y’know— while I disagree with you, I still think it’s a “conversation,” meaning that actually discussing whether or not to call a police is worthwhile. It’s not like there’s a clear cut better option given the circumstances. I personally fucking hate pigs, but I also don’t personally hate your suggestion to “emphasize that OP is witnessing the woman be the abuser.” The more OP emphasizes this to the police, the better the abused’s outcome will be. I’m conflicted about whether or not to tell the …
/r/MensRights03/05/23 10:24 PM
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I would do the following… -Don’t let your wife know what you know, until you are ready. -Record information. Gather information. Screenshot the texts and messages, and send them to yourself. You can take pics and videos of these on your own phone, or use another clever way to gather this information without your emotionally cheating wife knowing. -Don’t let your wife know what you know, until you are ready. -Confide in your support system regarding your situation. Use this time to reflect on wha…
/r/MensRights03/05/23 10:09 PM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/MensRights03/05/23 10:00 PM
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I’m confused. Why do gender specific poker tournaments?
/r/MensRights03/05/23 08:50 PM
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You are definitely welcome to be an ally!
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:14 PM
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Just spouting, “Hey— I saw you were abused” without rapport is more likely to cause the fellow to isolate himself from you, while simultaneously putting a target on your back for the Abusive Hag to toss false accusations at.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:12 PM
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I was wondering about the Lad’s rapport with the teacher too.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:09 PM
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Positive Masculinity encourages Male Autonomy. Marriage, MGTOW, Polygamy, Monogamy without Marriage— they are all just options that each Man must evaluate and pick for themselves. Each option is fine, and I don’t plan on harshly judging a Man for picking one over the other, just as I don’t judge a man for being Gay or Bi or whatever. Saying “just don’t marry” discourages Masculine Autonomy.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:08 PM
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I appreciate u/shit-zen-giggles for not suggesting to get the police involved, as the woman is likely to make a false allegation to the police. I’m on the fence about involving the police. I know being falsely accused of DV, after my ex-wife gave me a black eye, changed my paradigm deeply, but I also got really lucky with the legal proceedings and had a banger of an attorney. On the other hand, getting the police involved will eventually remove him from the abusive relationship— I’m just not sur…
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:05 PM
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Folks have already pointed out some of the data behind Race & Rape, and the data shows that more White Men are prosecuted for Rape than Black Men. When we specify the denominator to be race specific, however, we see that black men are arrested at higher rates. For clarity, my denominator is the number of arrested men based on specific race. Regardless, Harper Lee didn’t write a banger of a novel for no damn reason. And it sounds like you are looking for the cultural explanation of this. So Black…
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:01 PM
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An eye for an eye, and everyone ends up discriminating based on gender apparently.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 12:02 PM
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Oh right. The rapist. The rapist known as Stephanie Peterson. The rapist specifically known as Stephanie Peterson. Stephanie Peterson the rapist. That rapist.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 12:00 PM
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Solid insight.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 11:58 AM
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Does Scotland have any other type of trials that are juryless? I assume that they do not, but I’d like to double check.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 11:53 AM
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I respect the MGTOW lifestyle/not-getting-married as much as Buddhism or Judaism or Islam— it’s a respectable way to live life, but I can’t say it’s for me. I’m always down for presenting additional options to Men— it encourages masculine autonomy.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 12:36 AM
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Prenups can’t work if they don’t exist. I definitely understand the unfavorable data on prenups, as a wee bit under 50% are overturned. Prenups are overturned for a wide variety of reasons, such as improper motorization, hidden assets, coercion, late promulgation, incorrect formatting, and so on. Without any of us seeing the actual prenup, it’s tough for us to speculate whether or not it was truly a solid prenup. I get your fatalistic masculinity regarding prenups— abut discouraging men from fil…
/r/MensRights02/05/23 10:43 PM
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Were there any witnesses (that you have good rapport with) at the events where you were falsely accused ? It’s bonkers to me that a teacher would abuse their position of power to falsely accuse you— super scummy.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 09:21 PM
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This type of legal defense would never go well for a Man.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 09:15 PM
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“But why she I wait to experience motherhood because men don’t want to be with me long enough to contemplate having a family?” You are blaming Men for your Current State.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 08:09 PM
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Dalinar Kholin from the Cosmere is a great example.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 02:56 PM
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I imagine Hypergamy contributes to the empathy gap in a few ways.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 02:55 PM
2

I’m not a lawyer, but based on my experiences in PA and OH, a Temporary PFA (Protection from Abuse— name varies with each state) wouldn’t appear on clearance/background checks.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 11:41 AM
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Pre-nups are a form of self-love for both parties.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 11:37 AM
1

Your second paragraph resonates me— we could use better MRA theorists for sure.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 03:50 AM
1

I feel that. How do MRAs and allies accomplish this?
/r/MensRights02/05/23 01:24 AM
0

Great Point: The majority of RP Theory/Manopshere Theory is descriptive rather than prescriptive.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 06:45 PM
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Great Point: The majority of RP Theory/Manopshere Theory is descriptive rather than prescriptive.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 06:45 PM
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Do you have an article that isn’t behind a paywall? Trying to find more information on this crime. Edit… https://news.sky.com/story/amp/mother-of-murdered-teen-speaks-out-after-killers-trial-took-22-months-to-get-to-court-after-delays-from-covid-and-strikes-12868744 This is the first article I found. Note the gender biased rhetoric, as the focus is on the flawed court system on a macro level, as opposed to the abuse that the male victim received.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 06:39 PM
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I understand your emotional sentiment with apologizing— you sound like a considerate lad, and wanting to ensure you did nothing hurtful is a dope virtue. Unfortunately, this apology will likely be considered an admission of guilt, if it was via text.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 06:21 PM
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I always recommend texting for logistics only. Research shows that textual communication is more likely to create escalated situations than in-person communication. Texting your niece escalated the situation. You have a deep consideration for your Mother’s & Sister’s (and even your Niece’s mindset), but what about your own Mind? Your focus is on others, and not yourself. The Feminist Narrative encourages Men to prioritize women’s feelings over your own emotions. What are you doing to improve and…
/r/MensRights01/05/23 02:03 PM
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Willingness to carefully consider different critical theories is an invaluable trait that is much appreciated.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 01:49 PM
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A Man can admit when he is wrong, and consider the feedback with stoic grace.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 01:35 PM
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My greater concern is with the “policy changes” themselves— some feel like a luke warm response, while others have a great deal of potential. Typically, just doing some mental wellness workshops/trainings and tossing money at a few donation funds seems like external forms of supplication for the community. On the other hand, the school spent an inordinate amount of money on investigating this. Hiring a law firm to interview 45 students, and subpoena over 100 emails is well over $20k of legal wor…
/r/MensRights01/05/23 01:32 PM
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I respect when a Man holds another Man to a higher standard— this lad should have read the article before commenting. Hard Work and Self-Reliant Growth should be masculine traits that are encouraged.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 01:28 PM
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Yeah— calling Springer a Misandrist leverages Concept Creep to put him on the same level as a TwoX Femcell that hates all men.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 01:04 PM
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You definitely need to talk to a lawyer. Prenups are something to plan in advance, as opposed to doing it last minute imo— you have some work to do. Congrats on the marriage too!
/r/MensRights01/05/23 02:02 AM
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Love Bombing will be the latest Concept Creep victim.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 10:36 PM
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This dude’s writing is just -chef’s kiss-.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 09:56 PM
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https://youtu.be/Isj4AQCegP0
/r/MensRights30/04/23 06:10 PM
1

I also enjoy garbage television like “Love is Blind.” This isn’t really an MRA Issue— beyond this, the majority of fans found the way that Vanessa conducted herself to be tasteless.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 06:09 PM
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Women who code how Men ought to act & think are using tropes from the Feminist Narrative to benefit themselves without any regard for Men’s wellbeing.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 05:37 PM
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I want to see lads develop a deeper understanding of positive masculinity’s
/r/MensRights30/04/23 05:35 PM
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TwoX loves misandry.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 05:34 PM
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A preference is a sign of insecurity for men, but not women.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 07:06 PM
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Y’know— this topic doesn’t interest me. When I think about Trump, I don’t think of Positive Masculinity. Having liberal/conservative slap fights over whether or not Donald Trump sexually assaulted a woman in the 90s seems like a small fish to fry when lads are committing suicide due to mental health issues.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 04:22 PM
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This type of story makes me think of the Sinking Boat Metaphor: “Women and Children first,” y’know? I can’t help but hear the misandrist echo of, “the fellow should have Man’d up and raised the child who isn’t his.” OP— Post your insights instead of just tossing a random link at us.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 04:11 PM
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I mean, this will have an impact on the individual’s careers. Careers that demand higher degrees of professionalism, such as education, would never hire someone who has previously had an OF. Secondly, we can see the logical trail that the Feminist Narrative is pushing to further encourage more open forms of cuckoldry. Folks will say, “well the fellow is just insecure/controlling/can’t handle a strong woman with an OF,” as opposed to saying, “Having an OF can potentially make you less attractive …
/r/MensRights28/04/23 04:03 PM
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Sharp eye. I’d imagine that it could also be a risk practice to prevent revealing the child’s identity. I can’t say it’s as egregious as the gender biased language we see when Adult Men & Women sexually assault someone.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 01:39 PM
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I enjoyed it— you should keep writing poetry.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 02:32 AM
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Hypergamy is a hard Truth to swallow. Brutal.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 02:31 AM
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So I see a lot of these stories on here— with a lot of the same comments. What I’d love to see? I’d love to see someone break down for me what compels an adult woman to pedophilic behavior psychologically. I just don’t get it.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 02:29 AM
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https://www.thejimenezlawfirm.com/why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/ Bingo bongo.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 02:25 AM
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The Lad’s information was released in December. The Lad killed himself in March. I can’t imagine what he went through in those months. Rest in peace, lad.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 02:17 AM
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That’s what I figured— I’d ask her what the next steps are.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 09:19 PM
1

Concept Creep at its worst.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 09:19 PM
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Is this meant to be Spoken Word/Slam? How long does the reading/performance of it run?
/r/MensRights26/04/23 08:45 PM
4

Baller writing honestly.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 08:44 PM
1

What do you mean by “to hold [you?]”
/r/MensRights26/04/23 08:42 PM
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Your advice isn’t bad at all, and fortunately it sounds like OP’s Husband is super comfortable with firearms. I’d like to point out, however, that it is complete bullshit that the Feminist Narrative is pressuring OP to own a gun. I can’t help but consider a man who isn’t as comfortable with a firearm being pressured like this.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 08:39 PM
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Coworkers can be really dope or really shitty— I’m always going to file a coworker that doxes my partner under “Shitty Human Being.”
/r/MensRights26/04/23 08:31 PM
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Anything else? Or just that? I wonder what your attorney’s gameplan here would be.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 07:01 PM
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I always appreciate how you post this valuable information on posts like this. The copyright reporting is always great advice when it comes to a picture.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 06:51 PM
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