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It's hard to tell, but I think she's interested in hearing what you've been up to. Not a power play, just normal human interaction.
/r/seduction19/12/17 07:49 PM
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Good on you going for it! And great response when she said she was married. I'm terrible at thinking of decent responses off the cuff like that
/r/seduction11/12/17 08:38 PM
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Dude, if you really believe that you're "not worth to be loved and called important by any woman in this planet" or that there's a reason, you're absolutely wrong. There's no big conspiracy or single reason why you don't have dates. It's each individual woman's choice, and they may all have the same reason or they may all have different reasons. Wanting a relationship doesn't mean you'll get one. Not having a relationship doesn't mean you're not loved or important. What are you doing to demonstr…
/r/seduction08/12/17 06:27 PM
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Not really. Lots of people don't have cars and are fine. Sounds like a personal issue. Do you feel like it's a lack of independence or that you're missing status compared to others with cars?
/r/seduction08/12/17 05:21 PM
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It doesn't have to be a major issue. If you're recognizing the same cycle, that's the first step to changing it.
/r/seduction06/12/17 07:05 PM
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There's a difference between caring and guilt. You can care that you might have come off poorly, but carrying that around as guilt doesn't benefit anyone. Meanwhile, you're missing out on some potential friendships and even relationships because of the fear of guilt. You can keep talking to girls who have boyfriends. Having platonic friendships with women is totally possible and absolutely beneficial for you to develop your conversational skills. You're not the only one left single. Singleness h…
/r/seduction06/12/17 02:46 AM
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The way to overcome experience is to practice. Yeah, you might mess up and make some of them uncomfortable with you, but you'll learn. Mistakes are okay. You don't have to win every time. Refuse to take it on as guilt and learn from it. As you get better, so will the interactions.
/r/seduction05/12/17 10:00 PM
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Do you have any general education coursework available to you? In my experience, humanities and arts classes are majority women. You could fulfill a university requirement and meet women while you're there. But in terms of getting more comfortable initiating chats, I think the best way is to start by talking more to people who you're not interested in. There's less tension because they're just a person, not an interest, and there's no sadness if they turn you down. I try to chat with strangers e…
/r/seduction05/12/17 09:33 PM
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If you feel like you're in a good place, the next step would be to just put yourself out there. It's hard to meet someone for a relationship. The problem is that in places like bars and clubs where it's easy to meet people, they're not good places to get to know someone to see if there's compatibility for a relationship, they're more focused on hookups. What I am seeing though is that many of your hobbies and even your career seem to be things that tend to be more male-dominated. So it would be …
/r/seduction05/12/17 08:21 PM
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This comment is full of desperation. He has a pervasive belief that if only he had a relationship, his life would have meaning and purpose. That's absolutely false. If that guy got in a relationship today, he might be happier initially, but it wouldn't last. You can't expect another person to give you meaning and purpose. A girlfriend won't keep away the despair or depression. It's like the picture "I was depressed so they told me to travel; now I'm depressed in Egypt." People often live in the …
/r/seduction05/12/17 07:07 PM
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Recovery first
/r/seduction13/11/17 08:29 PM
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Generally, if you invite someone out and it's a date, you pay. If I just met you and we hit it off and decide to go out to lunch and I'm paying for myself, I'm going to assume we're just friends. Offering to pay is a huge signal there's something more than friendship going on. So yeah, let her know you want her to pay for her own lunch. Maybe you're poor, maybe you just want to be friends. Just know that you're making a strong negative impression right off the bat. Don't be surprised if she's no…
/r/seduction08/06/15 06:20 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction08/06/15 04:28 AM
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Okay!
/r/seduction31/05/15 09:34 PM
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I can be sorry for you if I want, and there's no way you can realistically tell me how I feel.
/r/seduction29/05/15 06:24 PM
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Oh, right. You're the expert on me and what I feel. No, really. I feel sorry for you and I'm sorry you've turned out the way you have.
/r/seduction28/05/15 05:34 AM
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Ok. I'm sorry you feel this way, and I hope you get over it soon.
/r/seduction27/05/15 02:24 AM
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This sounds like a ton of work... You say that women need to work for your approval, but your post says that you put in tons of thought, hours of learning strategies, and attention to detail. Seriously, it's not as hard as you're making it. Do yourself a favor and just go have normal human relationships instead of weird, over-thought dramas. If you keep playing games like this, you'll only end up attracting women who like playing games.
/r/seduction25/05/15 05:55 PM
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I was once painfully socially awkward, and I got over the nerves by powering through them. It was weird the first few times, and definitely uncomfortable, but once you realize that nobody cares but you, it's easier to let go. I wish I could tell you that there was a tip or trick to make it easier. Unfortunately, it was a sudden revelation that changed my social awkwardness.
/r/seduction01/03/15 11:43 PM
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Are you serious? When you compliment a girl, how do you hope she responds? If she's approaching you, she already wants to give you her number or to get yours. You don't have to manipulate the situation like you would if you're going in cold. You're right about one thing- your response was socially awkward and probably killed any interest she had in you. You don't have to generate her interest, you don't have to work to get her number, you just have to learn how to talk to people like they're nor…
/r/seduction01/03/15 12:28 AM
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Here's the thing: before (most) girls go out to the club, they spend quite a bit of time with makeup, Spanx, etc making themselves look great. They know what they look like without makeup and all the extras, and they're not necessarily looking to get someone hotter than they are. Many girls prefer to be the good looking one in a couple, so while a hot boyfriend may give her some status with other girls, she loses out on self esteem. Think of it like college admissions. If you're a 6/10, you'll w…
/r/seduction20/01/15 01:21 AM
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From reading the women's subs, it seems like most of their worries in a club are getting drugged and being raped when drunk. They tend to group men into three categories: attractive, average, and creeps. Sure, everyone wants to get with someone attractive, but here's an important point: girls have vastly different standards of attraction than men. You don't have to be on the Chris Hemsworth standard for a girl to find you attractive.
/r/seduction17/01/15 05:54 PM
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Here's an easy, often overlooked solution: Create your own tests. Too many guys complain about the tests girls give, but you can use them to your advantage. Create situations that show her you can pass this test. If you're that serious about her, offer to get her off with oral first- no reciprocation needed. You're not using her, you're giving her pleasure. Of course, that sort of non mutual arrangement can't last long, but it can be a solid piece of evidence that you're not going to use her and…
/r/seduction17/01/15 05:50 PM
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Here's my take. Sometimes it's religious. Not much you can do about that. But other times it's because she's had a bad experience with sex, had men bail after their first time together, been told she's too easy, etc. If that's the case, if you can find the reason, you can counter it. She had a bad experience? You'll give her a good one. Men bail on her? You're not like other men. She's worried about her reputation? Tell her you'll respect her choices.
/r/seduction17/01/15 05:44 AM
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Do you know what girls do when they don't want to be approached? They have takeout and watch Netflix with their friends. When girls just want to talk, they have a wine night at someone's house. Clubs are for approaching. Nobody goes to a club so they can just dance alone. She's going to expect to be approached, want to be approached, feel bad if she doesn't get approached. Next time, just go for it. If a girl approaches you, don't back off.
/r/seduction17/01/15 05:36 AM
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Maybe she really is busy, maybe she isn't valuing you. Either way, if her method of communicating isn't working for you, you have two choices: confront her and see if she'll change for you or let her go.
/r/seduction17/01/15 05:22 AM
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If it's your second date and she just called you a friend, she was probably into you at first but then after a few dates the interest faded. She was letting you know she's not into you anymore. You're just a friend. In real life, women don't test men with something that obvious. The test was earlier and guess what, you failed.
/r/seduction11/01/15 04:38 AM
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WOW this tutorial is dumb. Do these guys seriously believe what they're saying? I can't believe men would think that this pile of shit would work. Does anyone actually think women think this way? I feel dumber for having heard this crap.
/r/seduction10/01/15 01:57 AM
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Well if she went on a date with you and liked it, you could probably be a bit more forward. If she asks you a personal question, try answering it and then turning it around- less weird than just asking her personal stuff out of the blue, and if she wants to get to know you she probably also wants you to get to know her.
/r/seduction29/12/14 12:15 AM
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One thing men don't seem to understand is that it's not really a numbers game. It doesn't matter how many others are messaging her- if she's interested in you, she's interested in you. But there are different kings of "interested". She might be interested in getting to know you, or in trying out a date with you, or just in texting you, or in having sex.
/r/seduction28/12/14 05:07 AM
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This happens to me too. When my phone is charging, it automatically stays connected to the internet, which shows that I'm on facebook. It also shows that I've seen all the messages that come in. I found out about this from one of my friends who got mad that I wasn't responding while it showed I was online. That's one possibility. The other possibility is that she sees your message and just doesn't respond- talking to someone else, watching a show, or just that she doesn't want to talk to you at …
/r/seduction28/12/14 04:04 AM
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As a girl who does this, let me explain my reasoning: My smartphone doesn't fit in my pockets. I can't check it during work and I prefer not to have it out on my counters around food or water. For these reasons, I usually end up checking it about twice a day, in the morning and at night, and sometimes once or twice in the afternoon. I keep responding because I want to continue the conversation- even if it's twelve hours later. I'm not going to ignore it just because I'm late in responding. I'm a…
/r/seduction25/12/14 08:54 PM
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If you lead with shallow topics, she's not going to think of you as the kind of person who wants to talk about deep things. If you're looking for a longer, deeper relationship then you have to start off more seriously.
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:15 PM
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Women give different advice based on what they think they want. If they actually got a guy like they say they want, they will most likely be disappointed. They say they want a guy who's in touch with his feelings and willing to talk, but they wouldn't date that kind of guy over an alpha man.
/r/seduction29/08/12 01:11 AM
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If all your conversations are about sex, you can't really expect her to see you as someone she wants to get to know. You're essentially pigeonholing yourself as someone to have one night stands with, not someone to get to know and connect with.
/r/seduction29/08/12 01:07 AM
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This! I wish more guys understood this!
/r/seduction29/08/12 12:58 AM
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As a woman in college, I can attest that girls don't find it strange to be asked out on dates even though you just met.
/r/seduction17/08/12 12:25 AM
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