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| 30 | Do not let men smother your voice or your opinions, stay strong FDS sisters 💕This is something I'm learning now that I wish my parents knew to teach me growing up. A lot of toxic men want to manage you instead of be a partner, but they are smart enough to try to deny that and instead of falling for their attempts to make you JADE, spin the work back on them with calm questions. If you do the exhausting work of answering these questions for them they'll never see the extent of their own toxicity, but if you make them answer these questions themselves and repeat the toxic … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 09:45 AM |
| 16 | Drink Dates: Don’t Do Them if You’re Looking for a RelationshipYeah, but note that the guy should be suggesting these (he should show that he can plan and knows the fun spots in your city because he enjoys going out).... I've had guys take me mini-golfing at a couple of different fun spots -- one was an indoor mini-golf spot connected to a bar so we could drink and play, the other was at a scenic outdoors area next to food trucks and a wine bar truck. I've had guys take me to a few different arcades -- one was outdoors on a boardwalk with other fun activiti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 06:51 AM |
| 7 | Demand accountabilityThere's so much greed in their eyes. I realized that any guy that needs to bring up finances in any way (even if they think they're being low-key and indirect about it) the first time you meet them has financial insecurities of some sort. They are not in a place to provide for a life partner. I have to see their place before I will bring them to mine. First, it sets the precedent that I expect them to be a good host, and I can see how they live. If they pass that step they can see my place, but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 09:18 PM |
| 20 | Drink Dates: Don’t Do Them if You’re Looking for a RelationshipA few guys I matched with would make a concerned comment on the cost of my order (also a couple made concerned comments on the cost of their own order, too). Each time it'd be something between $20-30, but they'd always exclaim "that's expensive" yet insist on paying. When that was a new issue, I was confused. But it's just rude and makes them seem really financially irresponsible imo. I make sure to find something within the average range the first time I meet someone, even if it's not what I'm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 09:04 AM |
| 34 | Drink Dates: Don’t Do Them if You’re Looking for a RelationshipIt could help to choose places where the focus isn't solely on the drinks (plan to order some light fare), and where there's plenty of fun things-to-do in the vicinity (that requires him spending more) to continue the date. If you go to a lively tapas restaurant (small plates), sushi place, pop-up restaurant, afternoon tea spot, memorable hotel bar or even a high-end pastry shop you could get light dainty classy food with a glass of champagne or whatever your drink of choice is. I've met some gu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 06:56 AM |
| 12 | SEX GOALS: Receive Oral Sex TWICE As Much As You Give itI have them fully read "She Comes First" for tips. They have to buy their own copy. I also send them the Nina Hartley w/ Sunny Lane video. I haven't had anyone be aggressive with my clit, fortunately. Before they go down on you, if they are a new lover I ask first if they've ever gotten a woman off from eating her out and grill them asking how long it took them and what techniques they used, and how often, etc. This helps to weed out the liars, since a lot of guys try to bs. I'm mostly scared of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/19 03:09 AM |
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