jjjjjjamesbaxter Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	You can see women as equals and do well What is a toxic manlet?	/r/seduction	16/06/26 02:21 PM
12	Some tips with regards to sexual health? Rubber + cleaning up, taking a piss right after. You'll be alright	/r/seduction	24/05/26 06:34 AM
5	Does fucking 4s or below help you in any way with getting 5s and up? Gives you xp in laying pipe	/r/seduction	30/03/26 05:30 AM
2	Great first date, kissing, positive texts… then she ghosted after I asked for a second date. Now she texted again. How should I respond? Either straight for the come over or you are playing yourself	/r/seduction	10/03/26 06:02 AM
16	When a girl asks for your Instagram while texting, is that a shit test? Not always man. People are fucking off of ig every damn day	/r/seduction	28/02/26 06:42 AM
1	Is casual sex or relationships easier to find as a man? Casual sex in the active pursuit of a relationship is probably the easiest	/r/seduction	08/02/26 06:52 AM
34	Hardest and easiest country to get lucky or game in your experience? How about ppl do whatever tf they want?	/r/seduction	07/02/26 06:57 AM
7	How to get physical at home? Gen z is struggling fr 😢	/r/seduction	03/01/26 02:43 PM
5	It really isn't that hard once you've done it Nice example of the Dunning Kruger effect.	/r/seduction	15/12/25 07:21 AM
2	My Experiences in Bangalore, India Indirectly in section 3 and in your 'overall' section. If you don't have qualms about it then maybe I misinterpreted those parts in the sections I mentioned. Thanks for clearing that up.	/r/seduction	07/12/25 01:21 PM
6	My Experiences in Bangalore, India You're 37 and have qualms about sleeping with 22 year olds? Seems like you're virtue signaling for strangers on the internet..	/r/seduction	07/12/25 12:43 PM
1	I tried mode 1 on a college campus today Yes, guy seems autistic. He doesn't understand why such a dry, 2 question, approach with girls half his age didn't work.	/r/seduction	18/11/25 06:52 AM
2	I tried mode 1 on a college campus today Answer to number one is probably because he wants to fuck college aged women..	/r/seduction	18/11/25 06:45 AM
19	Never tell her you’ll cancel prior commitments to have sex with her The real point is you shouldn't be telling a girl who isn't your gf your fucking plans. Stop the bs chit chatting. If you're talking to her it should be either spitting game or setting up a meeting, much more emphasis on the latter. You're not her pen pal.	/r/seduction	30/10/25 03:21 AM
16	Never tell her you’ll cancel prior commitments to have sex with her Everyone has different priorities..get off your high horse lil bro	/r/seduction	30/10/25 03:17 AM
53	Do you feel guilty for approaching college girls when you’re older? Bro just live your life to the fullest extent. Do what makes you happy. When you die there is no gold star waiting on you for not banging college girls in your 30s. Fuck whatever your friends are talking about. They don't have to live with your life experiences, or lack thereof, when you're 40, 50, 60.. SEND IT	/r/seduction	28/10/25 03:18 AM
1	Why I stopped being the guy who just reacts to stories You can slide into literally anyone's dm..	/r/seduction	22/10/25 02:13 PM
2	Why I stopped being the guy who just reacts to stories Time swiping can get out of hand. Irl is all about the now	/r/seduction	22/10/25 02:10 PM
1	Men who get one-night stands, how do you do it? Embrace your desire then escalate hers.	/r/seduction	13/10/25 01:49 AM
16	Is a female “friend” ever convertible in a girlfriend? Man fuuuuuuuuuck the friendship. Shoot your shot	/r/seduction	23/09/25 11:16 PM
22	Women on this sub - Why if you go on a first date with a guy and there is no spark. Its over and there's nothing the guy can do about it Sure. 3 examples: Don't just be agreeable with everything she says. If she says something questionable, dig a little deeper to tease out her little quirks. Tease her on those. Bonus if you can make inside jokes throughout the night. Kinda like themes of little jokes you two now share. Change between jokes and moments when you get more strict in your voice delivery. Like if she tries to cross a boundary then just be strict about it. You're a chill guy but not everything is a joke ya know. So if t…	/r/seduction	18/09/25 03:04 AM
13	Women on this sub - Why if you go on a first date with a guy and there is no spark. Its over and there's nothing the guy can do about it Create tension. Lot of ways to do it.	/r/seduction	18/09/25 01:50 AM
37	What would be the best phrases to talk to a woman? Corny af. Might work.	/r/seduction	17/09/25 06:33 AM
1	I sent a message, but the girl just liked it and didn't respond, what should I do? Block her	/r/seduction	16/09/25 11:01 AM
2	5 Rules For Day-game. When you apprach you are literally focusing all on her for a few mins. So this is bs. You're not there to warm up lol you're there to talk to girls and meet someone. Not suddenly be mr. Sociable. This is softstepping to a max. Bro, you're not a teenager. You can most definitely be serious. Girls like directness and boldness. Your way seems pick me af. You're not a comedian. I don't really know what this means.	/r/seduction	10/09/25 11:35 AM
3	Do you think slightly older women (30-40s) are generally less picky about men's height? In the US at least. Probably less picky about a lot of things	/r/seduction	10/09/25 05:29 AM
0	5 Rules For Day-game. This is so weak. Rule 1: find something you want. Rule 2: go find out what she's about and if you still want her after getting a taste of her personality. Rule 3: be strict about your frame but be polite and easy going. Be like a mix between a strict parent and a perfect gentleman. Rule 4: if you like her always be setting up the next move. E.g. "give me your number and maybe we can get some (coffee, tacos, drinks) (later today, tomorrow, Thursday night) - depending on info from the approach. Be…	/r/seduction	10/09/25 04:13 AM
1	What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting? Go in for the big hug unless they unequivocally stop you and hit you with a handshake. If so, go for the handshake but with a small coy laugh like you're willing to play along with the formality despite knowing things will likely escalate.	/r/seduction	04/09/25 02:46 PM
0	Insta for flirting Hateful for no reason 🤦🏻‍♂️	/r/seduction	04/09/25 07:47 AM
10	Insta for flirting Might do better to tell them you don't have social media. Sets you apart	/r/seduction	04/09/25 07:47 AM
4	What are some good openers/approaches in grocery store Be quiet	/r/seduction	04/09/25 07:11 AM
0	Normalize having neutral conversations with women Idk either for you, but when I've tried to help friends in real life that have told me similar issues, it usually comes down to 2 things: first the person is not escalating enough to turn them on. you need to be physically escalating. second, they are usually too agreeable. for some reason, That kind of turns girls off in a weird way. I am not saying be completely disagreeable on purpose but really just listen to what they are saying and if you don't Agree with it Say so and explain your point. …	/r/seduction	22/08/25 11:44 PM
0	Normalize having neutral conversations with women It just comes down to being a guy they'd want to have sex with. If you're that guy, they'll want to have sex with you whether you're friends, co workers, peers in school, boss/employee, etc.	/r/seduction	22/08/25 11:23 PM
1	Normalize having neutral conversations with women Ha no. Definitely pursue, but for the rest of the girls you can't pursue for whatever reason then just be your best and attract.	/r/seduction	22/08/25 08:14 PM
3	Normalize having neutral conversations with women These are not girls you're actively pursuing. For example, co workers. It might be problematic for you to pursue. So, you just be a real one but keep them as friends. If the job situation changes they will pursue you. They might even do it while you work together but you'd probably stop it. I am not saying do a cold approach on some friend shi. In that situation, make your intentions very clear. I mean in situations where you come into contact with several girls. In that situation, just be a rea…	/r/seduction	22/08/25 08:04 PM
1	Normalize having neutral conversations with women Yep. When you interact neutrally with a ton of girls and then over time they kinda start setting themselves up for you to smash. Feels like you didn't even do any work for it.	/r/seduction	22/08/25 06:18 PM
2	Normalize having neutral conversations with women If you have your shi together, these neutral conversations can lead to women just wanting you in general. Much easier to cast a wide net.	/r/seduction	22/08/25 05:28 PM
42	Have any of you ever pulled an influencer? How did you do it? Yes- 250k+ She tried out a niche sport that I happen to be like top 1% in. Status is a helluva drug for women. Fellas, become competent and then strive to become good af at things. It will pay insane dividends.	/r/seduction	01/05/25 04:40 AM
1	Women have become the bane of my existence Break that shi into 4 paragraphs bruh pls	/r/seduction	27/03/25 03:53 AM
2	conflicted between desire to keep going and religious upbringing Your religious upbringing is just a story you were told.	/r/seduction	17/03/25 08:17 AM
1	Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me? This is what I would do. Definitely would not just leave it like this.. Assuming there is some time for the notes to be useful. "Hey, want to meet at [insert nearby coffee spot, or even yours or her house if you got it like that] on [insert convenient date and time] so I can check out the notes?" Keep it logistics only. Nothing witty. No more games. If she agrees to meet, you're in there. Even if her tone is dry. Who knows what other games she is following so don't read into the tone of her text…	/r/seduction	04/03/25 05:46 AM
7	How long will it take for a girl to respond to an Instagram dm? Send a similar message to another 50 girls. See who replies, look for a pattern in the ones that get replies, do it again. You can't just sit and focus on one message on one girl. There could be 100 reasons why she will not reply.	/r/seduction	26/02/25 10:48 PM
35	Shot my shot at a lifeguard,Took an L. Do I look bad now? The awkward part is how indirect you were. If you're going to shoot your shot, don't be so timid about. After some rapport, just be like "let me get your number and maybe we can go do X" If she turns you down then "ok, nice to meet you" 0 shame in that, but often times that soft stepping can come off a lil creepy.	/r/seduction	26/02/25 09:39 PM
2	No sex in the first day though sexualization was good I think you went too hard trying to talk your way in there rather than escalating physically. Logical brain vs emotional brain.	/r/seduction	17/02/25 08:15 PM
-1	Is a big concert a good idea for a third date? Ha you sound like I've hit a nerve.	/r/seduction	17/02/25 10:21 AM
-8	Is a big concert a good idea for a third date? Invite her wherever you want, man. But all I'm saying is none of my gfs have ever seen me jump around excited to see some other guys on stage singing along to their music..	/r/seduction	17/02/25 06:26 AM
-10	Is a big concert a good idea for a third date? The whole fandom of wanting to see musicians live is weak af. I think it's worse as a man going to see other men live. The designed dynamic of the stage and everyone looking up at the performers is crazy.	/r/seduction	17/02/25 06:18 AM
38	Guys… you can be a caveman you know Here is a little free game: while kissing just pick them up and take them to your bed.	/r/seduction	14/02/25 05:51 AM
90	I Used to Overthink Every Text. Here's How I Fixed It. Long fucking ad 🤦🏻‍♂️	/r/seduction	05/02/25 05:37 AM
3	How would you approach winning back a girl that had a crush on you at first but you ruined it by being too needy? Make legit plans with some friends and invite her. If she comes, she comes. If she does though, make your fucking move.	/r/seduction	05/02/25 05:15 AM
14	M 30. When you dance with your ass on a guy at the club, what should he do? Go as far as she will allow you to. Simple as that.	/r/seduction	12/01/25 06:07 AM
31	Did I fuck up? Not everything has to be a fucking line. I would wait until the day before the sauna was supposed to happen and say "we hitting the sauna tomorrow or wha?" If she doesn't reply, delete her number and move on. Logistics don't always gotta be witty. Learn to take the yes Edit: spelling of until	/r/seduction	01/01/25 07:13 AM
21	College Campus is still a gold mine. 34yr old back after five years Day Game Oh no, not make fun	/r/seduction	12/09/24 04:42 AM
10	College Campus is still a gold mine. 34yr old back after five years Day Game And you're here to stand up for all the girls he's hitting on? Calm down, buddy.	/r/seduction	12/09/24 04:40 AM
3	Any average dudes here managed to score a threesome through straight gaming? I would say bi-curious. If they're not open to the idea, I would plant the seed that it's a possibility with you, and move on to find a girl who is open to the idea. Good luck, man!	/r/seduction	06/08/24 04:42 PM
7	Any average dudes here managed to score a threesome through straight gaming? Yes, a few times. I am a bit taller than you but I wouldn't say handsome face. This is how I approach it when I'm single. Step 1: have a girl you're having sex with and lay it down proper. Step 2: "have you ever had a 3sum?" "Have you ever wanted to have a 3sum?" (Repeat this step until you find a girl who says yes) Step 3: "do you think any of these girls are cute?" "Maybe we can all hang out one day." Step 4: "Having some drinks tonight. Want to me to see if X (one of pre-selected girls) wants…	/r/seduction	06/08/24 06:02 AM