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1	Redpill is tribalism Fair point. I see what you’re saying now. But you can consume RP content without allowing it to set the desire for you, so I still don’t totally agree. I think it just gives you the knowledge to pick what you want. “If she did x, then she’s more likely to y.” “Here are the stats on x.” Etc. You can choose for yourself if that’s something you want or not, but RP is meant to educate. At least, that’s how I relate to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 07:19 AM
–	Sexual compatibility isn't a real thing. Someone with an extremely high sex drive and someone else with a very low sex drive aren’t sexually compatible. In this case, You can negotiate and come to an agreement about how often sex will occur, the low sex drive person can let the person with the high sex drive have sex with other people, or the couple can break up. If you don’t do one of those three things, either the high sex drive person will likely begin cheating, or they may get unhappy in the relationship leading to its deterioratio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/25 01:01 AM
1	What people fantasize about and realistically want will always be different. Im ignoring all of your incoherent rambling	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 11:24 AM
1	Redpill is tribalism RP is an individualist/rationalist/egoist philosophy on dating. When consuming RP content, if you’re thinking about other men (friend or foe… wingman or competition), you’re thinking about it wrong. It’s about what YOU need to be doing for yourself — not other dudes. RP is not us against them. It’s you vs. you. Know more, get better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 06:51 AM
1	Men obsess over achieving a variety of women, to their own detriment I don’t disagree with that. Still proves the point I’m making though. Women want the perfect man, and once they have him, won’t cheat. Men can have the perfect woman and still feel a strong temptation to cheat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 02:50 AM
1	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" lol no they aren't Being 5’8 can be a bit limiting, but it’s definitely not an absolute deal breaker for most women. Many Women will look past it. I’d imagine if you haven’t had success with women there are several other critical issues going on — sorry mate. I don’t know enough about you, but being short is not the death sentence obnoxious online men and women claim it to be. Have you tried lowering your standards? Even a little bit. Once you have some experience with women, you might be able to build up more con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 02:23 AM
2	What people fantasize about and realistically want will always be different. He said if he catches himself fantasizing about an unrealistic baddie, he says no and tempers his expectations. You said men don’t do this. And yes, men do this all the time. I know I’m never going to date Margot Robbie or someone that looks like her, so I don’t even think about it. That’s how almost everyone operates. But I also don’t settle for obese women either. There is a massive MIDDLE ground that everyone likes to pretend doesn’t exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 01:31 AM
1	Redpill is tribalism At its core, RP is fundamentally about understanding female nature and emphasising self-improvement/dating strategies. It’s basically independent learning. Like taking a course online on nutrition and how to maintain a healthy diet. Its only relational focus is on the subject and his current/future/desired partner(s). It Has nothing to do with tribalism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 01:22 AM
2	What people fantasize about and realistically want will always be different. A lot of RP men are idiots. A lot of feminists are idiots. But both ideologies have some merit if you actually look to their beliefs, instead of just their most obnoxious followers. RP is just about: understanding female nature (no, women are not inherently bad, ALL people are bound by biology and influenced by evolutionary psychology); and focussing on self-improvement and dating strategies to increase successful outcomes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 12:48 AM
2	What people fantasize about and realistically want will always be different. Not settling for an obese woman does not mean you will only want a 10/10 video game baddie lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 12:39 AM
1	What people fantasize about and realistically want will always be different. Taking a small subset of gamer men who complain about stupid things and saying this is what all men want is such a cherry picked example. I’m honoured you used my quote btw. Except you technically misquoted me hahaha. I never said women don’t say they have a type. Most women I know tell me they have certain phenotypes/styles that they like. Most men would prefer a girl next door cutie over a “sex doll” bimbo. We like cute - and cute comes in many varieties— especially for women. The Cute slim As…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 12:34 AM
0	Men are completely delusional about who their "equals" are. Essentially, no man genuinely believes Margot Robbie is mid. Fact. Some men have unrealistic standards. Fact. Some women do have conflated egos due to OLD. Fact. Most men want, and end up in a relationship with, a woman with a similar SMV. Fact. You’re acting like the depressed and delusional weirdos online make up a majority of men. Bad take. Calm down before you post such nonsense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 11:58 PM
1	Men obsess over achieving a variety of women, to their own detriment In general, men and women cheat for different reasons. I’d actually say usually women do cheat to destroy a relationship- even just subconsciously, she’s likely unhappy. Exceptionally few women would cheat (or even have any desire to cheat) on the perfect man - he satisfies her and provides for her. Attractive and a great husband/father. The vast majority of women wouldn’t even really fantasise about cheating on this Man. The vast majority of men have a desire for variety. They can adore their w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 11:41 PM
1	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" lol no they aren't Also, most women in their 20s ARE attractive. Most men in their 20s aren’t. It’s way easier to be attractive as a woman and Women are the fairer sex. This isn’t a bad thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 11:00 PM
1	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" lol no they aren't Honestly, mid women usually end up with mid men that did something to stand out to her. Maybe she likes his phenotype, maybe she liked him more after working with him and seeing his leadership, maybe he just was just a charming and likeable guy. I swear I’m not some amazing looking guy and I also swear I’ve had no issue dating cute girls. You don’t have to believe me but it’s true. And it’s true of most of my friends too. We’re all kinda average but have good social skills and the drive to date …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 10:54 PM
1	Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like. Coders are probably one of the positions most likely to lose their jobs soon lol. AI is exceptionally good at that type of thing. Yes, AI will cause unemployment and probably a lot of suffering in the near future. However, it’s possible in a couple generations from now, AI will be able to cure all diseases and bring us to a post-scarcity state. It’s probably going to be horrible for us, but it will be great for our grandchildren. I’m pro progress and technological development, but it really does…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 12:07 PM
1	Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like. Okay fair point. I wouldn’t say trash though, I’d say we’re all just kinda bound to our biology and we’re different. And if your view of humanity is so pessimistic, shouldn’t you be the type that loves AI? Lol. But yes, AI probably shouldn’t be used as a concluding point. It was getting annoying to argue with OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 11:06 AM
1	Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like. Have you ever heard of “wisdom of the majority”? There are several fascinating examples. I’d encourage you to look into it. Not always correct, but worth mentioning! And I’ll take ChatGPT over a random internet user any day. The context I used it in matters too. Her argument was “you’re still wrong. And men are more selfish than women.” With no real evidence. Pretty much just a bitter and unfounded take. You think that’s a better argument than chats reply? Read the entire thread before you cherr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 10:56 AM
1	Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like. It’s well-rounded and considers both sides of any argument. It has no personal goals or preferences that interfere with its answers. It isn’t perfect, but it checks me all the time. If you feed it prompts like “don’t blindly agree with me, challenge any idea or thought I have where necessary” for example, it won’t just validate your opinions. However, I do tend to think that it will, more often than not, agree with and promote the ideas supported by the zeitgeist. So, I agree with you there. Fro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 08:23 AM
1	Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like. I mean, I reckon feminists have a pretty large online presence too. But aside from that point, actually read what it said. Does that sound like incel bullshit to you? Sounds like a grounded and reasonable take. Men and women aren’t better or worse from each other, we’re just different. That seems extremely fair, rational, and truthful to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 05:51 AM
–	"Used goods" vs "reviewed product", thoughts ? They likely did care. Wanting to pass down your genetic material is instinctive, and the primary reason living things even exist. Mate guarding is observed in many different animals. In prehistoric tribes, I’m sure jealousy and mate guarding would’ve been common. I’m just curious, what if you had a child, and then the hospital mixed up your baby, and gave you the wrong one. Years later you discover this information and you also found out, your real child died shortly after being born. So, you do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 09:37 AM
1	Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like. AI = Artificial Intelligence. ChatGPT is able to give unbiased answers by accessing information online. Imagine reading 1000s of articles and comments, and then being able to summarise them with clinical efficiency. It’s able to do that using language prediction models - fascinating stuff! If you’re unfamiliar with ChatGPT, I highly recommend using it. It CAN and DOES get some things wrong, but generally, it will give better, more well-rounded advice and answers than 99% of people. And yes, you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 04:08 AM
1	Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like. Unbiased, uncorrupted AI. It’s over. Neither are better or worse, more or less selfish — only different. For biological reasons. Which is exactly what RP discusses. For future reference, try to find stats or research to back up your claims. If you cannot, probably better to keep your opinions to yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 02:19 AM
1	Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like. <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 02:16 AM
2	Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like. If I copy/pasted this ill-considered little rant and just reversed the genders by switching women/men and wive/husband and reposted it, TONS of men (mostly idiots) would agree with this garbage. Your whole post is just a biased rambling that is no different than RP brain-rot ‘woman = bad’ post. Argue with statistics, logic, analogies, and critical thought — not with what feminist propaganda teaches you. I reject many RP ideas if they cannot be backed by statistics or some kind of proof. The trut…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 01:37 AM
1	“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. What are you going off about? Holy incoherent thoughts. Women go on fresh and fit too, doesn’t make them RP content creators. I honestly have no clue what you mean about the criminals. Also, I never said RP put the same energy towards deadbeat dads — just that men need to take accountability in a general sense including being a father. It’s not content that’s made to talk about deadbeat dads. It would be like feminists using all their energy to talk about male suicide rates. Men do things wrong …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 11:23 AM
1	“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. It’s not a fallacy. It’s ChatGPT Hahahahah. With an unbiased take and access to more information than you and I could ever comprehend. You sent me a music video. Of a guy singing a song. To prove a point. About Red pillers. When I couldn’t even find any evidence the singer is ever a RP content creator. This is it. I can’t get through to you. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 11:06 AM
1	“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. Chat, an unbiased word generator, has access to articles across the internet and reddit — that’s what it’s observed and analyzed. Next question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 10:54 AM
1	“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. https://preview.redd.it/79g53n5sbfcf1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9b4aa80591d3553ec0e02ee781af4de463a27fc7	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 10:52 AM
1	“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. https://preview.redd.it/c5vusq9qbfcf1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d7ec96c031a22bd1adca61573e3fbd9abc7b2ec3	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 10:52 AM
1	Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like. You can’t be this stupid. You didn’t understand one thing about the points I was making hahaha. Your numbers don’t make any sense. I’ll keep it really simple for you and explain it to you like you’re 5. 100 divorces occur. 70 initiated by women. 30 initiated by men. 20 male adulterers, so 50 UNEXCUSED divorces initiated by women. 13 female adulterers, so 17 unexcused divorced initiated by men. Of the 100 divorces, men initiated 17 divorces not involving cheating. Women initiated 50 divorces not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 10:43 AM
4	Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like. You can’t be this stupid. You didn’t probably understand one thing about the points I was making hahaha. Your numbers don’t make any sense. I’ll keep it really simple for you and explain it to you like you’re 5. 100 divorces occur. 70 initiated by women. 30 initiated by men. 20 male adulterers, so 50 UNEXCUSED divorces initiated by women. 13 female adulterers, so 17 unexcused divorced initiated by men. Of the 100 divorces, men initiated 17 divorces not involving cheating. Women initiated 50 divo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 10:42 AM
1	“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. “Don’t be a dead beat dad!” Every major RP content creator. Also, RP advocates for using protection, only having children with a woman that’s been properly vetted, and not having children until in a secure position with a trustworthy woman. What? An actual abortion isn’t about sidestepping accountability — it’s about the mother protecting her own interests, as is her rights. A financial abortion isn’t about sidestepping accountability — it’s about the father protecting his interests, as should b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 10:19 AM
0	Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like. If you’re going to try to correct me, at least try to get objective numbers right. At a cheating rate at 20% men and 13% women, Men are 35% (NOT 50%) more likely to cheat. As 70% of divorces are initiated by women, women are ~235% more likely to initiate divorce than men. If we assume infidelity leads to divorce (which is the inference you’re making) and we excused/negated ALL divorces cause by male infidelity, women still initiate divorce TWICE as often as men. Therefore, women are more likely …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 09:33 AM
3	Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like. If you’re going to try to correct me, at least try to get objective numbers right. At a cheating rate at 20% men and 13% women, Men are 35% (NOT 50%) more likely to cheat. As 70% of divorces are initiated by women, women are ~235% more likely to initiate divorce than men. If we assume infidelity leads to divorce (which is the inference you’re making) and we excused/negated ALL divorces cause by male infidelity, women still initiate divorce TWICE as often as men. Therefore, women are more likely …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 09:32 AM
5	Being more blue-pilled can set you apart from the vast majority of men who are now red-pilled Everyone knows charm and humour are important. But I do think you make a point that isn’t talked about enough — being the right kind of nice is overlooked in the male dating advice community. You have to toe the line and be assertive in some circumstances, but being a gentlemen or surprising her with a small gift is usually a good idea. If you actually “lose” a girl cause you did a couple nice things, she was never interested in the first place. You can’t be a total simp, and you MUST give her s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 07:39 AM
1	Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like. Lots of arguments, some valid points. In general, most RP commenters are hypocritical idiots. It’s okay to debate and discuss, but any RPer that just whines in comment sections or says “men are victims” doesn’t truly understand RP. But most RP ideas you quoted are based in truth. I’ll take a stab at each quote for fun. Q1. Men dominate fields that require logical analysis - STEM, so I don’t think it’s unreasonable to believe men tend to be a bit more logical. Also, a small percentage of men get …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 04:17 AM
1	Women getting “compensated” for “duty sex” is totally fair. Buying flowers is trivial. Opening the door for your partner is trivial. Those are examples of mutual consideration. “No woman should be doing be doing anything that’s… uncomfortable (sexually).” I AGREE. So, why are you advocating for tolerating being penetrated like a sex doll for later compensation? That sounds pretty uncomfortable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 02:16 AM
1	Women getting “compensated” for “duty sex” is totally fair. Mutual consideration is best suited for trivial matters. Sex isn’t trivial. It’s usually the defining factor that separates a friendship and a romantic relationship. Healthy mutual consideration: A woman buys her man a six pack of beer and cooks him dinner on football Sunday and he later remembers that and gets her flowers. That’s good. Unhealthy mutual consideration: A woman tolerates her man “penetrating her like a sex doll” for some later goods. That sounds prostitution. If duty sex is super …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 02:01 AM
1	Women getting “compensated” for “duty sex” is totally fair. Maybe not incompatible, but If “duty sex” is a common enough occurrence for you that you felt you should make a reddit post about being compensated for it, your guy is doing something wrong. Sex should be enjoyed by both parties. Like going on a date should be enjoyed by both parties. Don’t get me wrong, I think your partner should also do nice things for you too - like flowers, dates, making you breakfast in bed, but it shouldn’t be to “compensate” you for using your body. That’s kinda disgusti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 01:04 AM
1	Men want women to work for them for free I’m not really talking about part time recreational/optional secretary jobs or fun bartending jobs in your 20s. I’m talking either high paid trades or professional or management - jobs that earn enough to afford a house. Way more demanding/stressful than domestic chores.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 12:09 AM
1	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" lol no they aren't Yeah, but you gotta think about where the stats are being taken. Context is everything. This is from research before online dating was even popular — maybe you’re too young for this but online dating 10+ years ago was for weirdos that aren’t entirely reflective of the overall population. And that’s probably still true today. Many attractive men are in relationships and not using OLD. If I walk into a public place with a ton of old men, I might be the best looking or most desirable in that specif…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 11:47 PM
4	Women getting “compensated” for “duty sex” is totally fair. Couldn’t you just not have sex if you don’t want too? Having sex with a woman who isn’t even really enjoying it is lame anyways, and you can usually tell if it’s boring duty sex. If your sex drives aren’t compatible maybe breaking up would be better… or allowing him to be in an open relationship if he wants sex a lot and you don’t. I don’t know, but I reckon most real men wouldn’t even like sex with a women whose not feeling it. Maybe it’s just me but it feels kinda gross and weird. Imagine a da…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 11:24 PM
4	Men want women to work for them for free If you work full time, I respect that… but acting like domestic responsibilities are as time consuming and stressful as most professions/careers is silliness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 04:26 PM
2	Men want women to work for them for free Work under an employment contract is fundamentally different than recreational/optional work/chores. If I cut my girlfriend’s hair, I’m having fun with it, listening to music, and enjoying myself. I’m done after 30 minutes or soo. If I’m a barber working at a shop I’m there for hours, in their uniform or dress code, under strict policy, and have to serve anyone who comes in and listen to my bosses demands. Employment work is FUNDAMENTALLY different than recreational work or chores. How is that h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 04:18 PM
4	Men want women to work for them for free You’re incorrect 2 bedroom apartment— decent size, but if I owned a 4 bedroom house I wouldn’t be complaining on reddit right now, I’d be poppin’ a bottle. (I live in an extremely expensive city haha). My point is a finite space is a finite space. You accomplish it and you’re done for the day. Work is endless… you finally finished a file on X? Great, now start on A, B, and C.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 04:12 PM
2	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" lol no they aren't Tell me… What exactly is this golden stat. 80% of men are unattractive eh? Men over 18 I assume? But is there an age limit on that stat? So…. What percentage of men are over like 35 — maybe 65% or more? How many are super old? Take a moment to think about it. Most 25 year old guys that aren’t obese or noticeably ugly are probably close to making it into that golden 20% range based off age alone. If you’re average but young — Download tinder. Upload good pictures. Talk to women. Have some fun. It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 04:05 PM
1	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" lol no they aren't Maybe 6.5 or less if you factor my height. Idk, in some circumstances I’d probably be a 7 (an airport) and in others a 4 (bars at Gold Coast Australia on Friday). I don’t think confidence is everything, but it does matter if you’re not super attractive or super ugly. Not sure how that’s Hard to understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 03:56 PM
6	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" lol no they aren't White, 30, and I’ve been in 4 med - long relationships since 20, so I don’t have a crazy amount of time being single, but Body count is 34 if that’s what you wanna know. I’d say 25 of them were objectively attractive (like the type you’d be more than happy to go home with) and maybe about 10 that were kinda cute to me but wouldn’t turn heads on a college campus or something. None overweight or outright ugly. Is it really that hard for you? My other friends that I think are just kinda average lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 02:08 PM
27	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" lol no they aren't I doubt that stat. I don’t think I’m in the top 20% and I’ve honestly never struggled to go on dates with or hook up with cute girls. I’m 5’8 with an aesthetic physique and okay face and can find a date on tinder or bumble within a week of deciding I want one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 01:07 PM
172	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" lol no they aren't Really ugly/low quality men will be universally disliked. Really attractive/high quality men will be universally liked. Everything in the middle will vary and depend on a woman’s preference. Women absolutely do have a type - the type is usually tall and handsome but sometimes there will be other variants (dark bad boy, nerd, lumberjack etc.). Their taste probably is a bit unique, but in general, yes, handsome is handsome and ugly is ugly. It’s Similar to men, we know when a woman is attractive i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 12:44 PM
9	Men want women to work for them for free And it’s different if you’re not getting paid for it. If you’re actually a chef or a gardener you’re expected to be doing that for 8 hours a day at a certain time for dozens, if not hundreds of people - not just for your family. It’s not the same. When I cook a meal for me and my girlfriend I’m not a line cook working the grill in a small sweaty ass kitchen… I’m cooking what I want to eat in the comfort of my home. Again, not comparable	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 12:03 PM
6	Men want women to work for them for free It may be more difficult with children, but it would also be more rewarding and meaningful. I’m just saying 2-3 hours of domestic chores a day then getting to play with miniature versions of yourself seems like a much better deal than breaking your back at work or staring at numbers or words on a computer screen all day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 11:42 AM
15	Men want women to work for them for free I can’t speak to raising children yet… but Why does everyone act like the other domestic responsibilities are so draining or comparable to actual work? I took on the stay-at-home boyfriend role during most of my education in my twenties, and found it to be super manageable even during law school. I would drive my girl to work and pick her up, do laundry, walk the dog, grocery shopping, set up ikea furniture, cooking (yes real recipes), schedule the dates and trips, cleaning, and pretty much ever…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 11:30 AM
1	A lot of men on here underrate the importance of personality Physical appearance (looks) matters greatly to most women. You don’t have to be a male model, but in general, if she finds you ugly or you’re not at all her type, she won’t be excited to date you or aroused by you. Provision (money) matters greatly to most women. You don’t have to be extremely wealthy, but in general, if you don’t have a decent paying job and you live with your folks or in an apartment in your late 30s, she won’t want to be with you long-term. She might look past it at first (es…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 10:47 AM