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6

Yeah, we as human beings should be above such language.
/r/seduction11/09/13 06:40 PM
11

"They make us fall for them" because women have no control over their destiny, right guys? No wonder the women's rights movement seems to be regressing at times...
/r/seduction03/08/13 05:42 PM
2

If you haven't tried and/or she hasn't wanted to take it offline (actual dates), then it's probably not going to happen. Does she know you're interested in her?
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:20 PM
3

I feel like everything said in this video has been said before, and much more succinctly and with much more clarity. I mean, good on OP or the video's creator for wanting to help, but there's probably better resources out there to help people out.
/r/seduction26/07/13 04:58 PM
3

You misunderstood me. I wear shoes without socks all summer.
/r/seduction25/07/13 03:14 AM
13

I haven't worn socks in these shoes all summer, and my feet are neither damp nor smelly at the end of the day. YMMV of course, but the Gold Bond powder is the secret ingredient.
/r/seduction24/07/13 06:43 PM
2

Sounds like you're getting over some nice guy expectations of something in return for kindness, and are already moving on. Good for you.
/r/seduction25/05/13 02:59 PM
10

Dude, one night she wasn't available. Don't throw her under the bus. I mean, she's already been previously into you, at least for the FWB aspect of it, so why not give her the benefit of the doubt for a night?!
/r/seduction24/05/13 09:45 PM
2

I've gone through a similar phase myself: hung up (despite knowing better) on a particular girl, went out with another because she was obviously responding to my harmless drunk flirting, but she made it really obvious she wanted to go out with me, and the last three weeks I've found someone I'm getting along with a lot better than the original crush. Lately though she's responded positively in a similar matter, first trying to stir up drama as these two girls are friends, then just paying more a…
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:29 PM
5

I read it as SPLOOSH and it still made sense in context!
/r/seduction13/02/13 10:19 PM
13

If you come to these comments to see if you should read this article, click back into it and read it. I at first was repulsed by the horrible design of that page, but ctrl+scrollwheel zoom that page in so you don't see the horrible background, or copy/paste it into a word doc or something, and read it. TL;DR: Webpage sucks, article doesn't.
/r/seduction05/02/13 06:22 PM
2

/r/amiugly /r/AmISexy /r/malefashionadvice /r/malehairadvice Hotornot.com I get the feeling this is far from the ideal place to ask this, especially when a lot of the platitudes to be learned here emphasize the importance of who you are, not what you are.
/r/seduction16/01/13 10:25 PM
1

Because people are scandalous... so depending on how scandalous OP feels, go for it.
/r/seduction15/01/13 08:08 PM
0

The misogyny is strong with these two...
/r/seduction11/01/13 10:16 PM
1

I don't mind WoW and girls who play WoW. I only cringe when they (inevitably) say "Alliance!". Your post is inspiring, though! I love shooting pool, and while it's usually a guy's game in the bars I hang out in, getting the occasional girl to play is a great way to start conversation! /For the Horde!
/r/seduction24/12/12 07:44 PM
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I'm glad this was posted as well. That Glengarry Glen Ross speech is epic, and it's worth the price of bandwidth alone. The junk-bouncing "singer", on the other hand...
/r/seduction17/12/12 07:43 PM
2

That's being kind, not "nice" ("nice" in quotes to denote that I'm going by the book's definition of it). Sounds like you have a good grasp on it and if you can't attribute the book's psycho-analysis to your situation, then maybe you're right and it doesn't all apply to you. Cherry-pick the best parts out of it.
/r/seduction14/12/12 02:16 PM
3

Be kind, not nice. Meaning, be a good-hearted, kind person. Help someone out if you respect them and are willing to help them. Expect nothing in return; the joy you get in being able to help someone is its own reward. You don't hold him or her to any debt. You don't expect any favors in return. You smile because you've made a positive effect on someone's life. Don't be "nice". Don't do things and keep a tally, or expect favors in return. If you've ever said "Well I gave you a ride last week, so …
/r/seduction13/12/12 04:38 PM
2

We could encourage /r/askseddit for questions, but even then stress that most of these questions have been asked before, and are covered in the sidebar of /r/seddit.
/r/seduction06/12/12 03:21 PM
1

Fuck this 144 point list. Alpha guidelines Redux: 1) Be Attractive 2) Don't be Unattractive 1 - Be attractive. You can't do anything about your comically large nose or widely-spaced pupils (without prohibitive costs in surgery, at least). But what you CAN do something about is your turkey neck, your spare tire, your FUPA. You can get and style your hair to look like Brad Pitt or Matthew McCoughnanny. You can wear well-fitting clothes like Daniel Craig in Skyfall. Be attractive. 2 - At first you …
/r/seduction28/11/12 03:43 PM
2

Only if you're fat. Muscular guys in wifebeaters is a classic look. But then again, the two rules that matter are 1) Be attractive and 2) Don't be unattractive. Source: fat guy who wears wifebeaters or undershirts every day.
/r/seduction28/11/12 03:31 PM
1

Really? I frequent MFA and I get the feeling that a fit (read: snug) v-neck undershirt is a staple when wearing OCBDs or dress shirts. It prevents staining from perspiration.
/r/seduction28/11/12 03:29 PM
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This guy sells charisma. Which, really, is what you should be doing with women, right? It's like the people selling you a book that tells you how to get rich quick. You pay him a shitload of money, get your book, crack it open, and read "How to get rich quick 101: Start selling this book for more than you paid for it".
/r/seduction27/11/12 10:06 PM
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Canes can be so cool! I don't know how easy it is to walk with a cane w/o a leg (the most exposure I have to a cane is watching House, and he even used it incorrectly) but the classical homage to Fred Astaire can really set you apart, and unlike the people who get chided for wearing fedoras, no one can say you're holding a cane in any sad ironic attempt at "fashion"!
/r/seduction21/11/12 04:18 PM
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I think adding more humor to his approach will be definitely beneficial. He's definitely capable, I mean, the picture proves he can do stand up! I was playing cards with a guy I didn't know (Magic the Gathering, nothing as sexy as Casino Royale, I'm afraid). His left arm was missing below the elbow. He held his hand of cards in the crook of his elbow, was in general pretty good about using it. So, being the socially awkward/awesome penguin that I am, I confidently asked him about his arm. He dea…
/r/seduction21/11/12 04:05 PM
2

http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/136q03/i_walked_around_an_empty_outdoor_shopping_mall_at/
/r/seduction14/11/12 11:07 PM
2

There's a whole thread in /r/askreddit right now with TONS of tested first dates.
/r/seduction14/11/12 10:55 PM
2

heh, I'm going to remember that. "Kind" vs "Nice". Maybe that will help me explain to a couple of my friends why they fail all the time...
/r/seduction02/11/12 11:13 PM
1

quick tip about bras: most back-clasp bras are easily removed by a finger-snapping motion, your thumb on one side of the clasp and your middle-finger on the other, while she's facing you (during makeouts). Don't pinch her skin, but as you bring your fingers together, lift the bra off her skin at the same time and the clasp should separate. Unfortunately, I have no such simple tips for those pesky front-clasp bras, but in my opinion, those are WAYYYY sexier when the women takes them off and revea…
/r/seduction20/10/12 02:33 PM
2

This reminds me of that John Waters quote about if you go to a person's home and they don't have books, don't fuck them.
/r/seduction19/10/12 05:22 PM
11

Holy shit, this is like watching Obi-Wan and Anakin getting their asses kicked by Count Dooku, then in walks Yoda and he goes balls out!
/r/seduction17/10/12 10:39 PM
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That's how I see it, and I'm a guy who bought 85% of his wardrobe at concerts, and not until a years ago started wearing pants that aren't 4 sizes too large. Hear, hear! I'm much the same way. Plug for /r/malefashionadvice, a very good resource!
/r/seduction17/10/12 03:07 PM
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I think the part of it that is important is a particular detail that you can pick out specific to that day. I just texted a girl that I enjoyed how her scarf framed her smile last night, and she's absolutely glowing right now (texted me multiple consecutive responses about how it made her day and how she's smiling now). If it's general ("I like your hair today") I can see it casting doubt on your yesterday or your tomorrow. But if I said "I like how you styled your bangs down today, it really co…
/r/seduction17/10/12 03:06 PM
1

Yup, me too. Been hit on by a dude, probably didn't handle it well at first, but upon retrospection, I realized it was no big deal. Last weekend went to a gay club with a couple of friends, enjoyed seeing the go-go dancers (better women than the strip club) and even accepted the few looks I got from the guys there as an ego boost.
/r/seduction28/09/12 09:51 PM
4

As horrible an idea it is, I like the idea of leaving "Egon" in black marker and drawing the rest in the black-light reactive marker, so the face itself doesn't show up until the black lights click on!
/r/seduction19/09/12 02:22 PM
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This fellow's YouTube videos are a good start. I haven't (and won't) buy any DVD sets he might be selling, but what he has out for free contains quite a bit of helpful tips and a few moves that will get you started.
/r/seduction06/09/12 02:26 PM
2

What in particular did you first work on, and how did it specifically effect the situation? I'm having a hard time understanding if this means one should not speak so much with their hands (Bill Clinton vs. Real Housewives of New Jersey) or if I'm misreading what you and OP means.
/r/seduction06/09/12 02:11 PM
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Indeed. I've spent the better part of the past year doing this, after languishing in a year of self-pity and depression following a breakup. It's really true: if you can't love yourself, how can you expect anybody else to love you? That piece of advice, along with two others (She's just another human being with her own hangups and insecurities, and nobody owes you anything) form the perfect philosophy for my new life.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:26 PM
1

More of them.
/r/seduction13/07/12 04:00 PM
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Agent Archer in Archer and Tony Stark in Iron Man are two recent pieces of pop culture that are worth modeling your attitude after. Edit: Another entry in confidence, personality, and wittiness is the entire cast of Lucky Number Slevin.
/r/seduction13/07/12 01:17 PM
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The telephone scene stands out very well as what NOT to do. If anybody sees that train wreck and takes it as any sort of advice... well, god help them.
/r/seduction13/07/12 01:16 PM
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What do you mean about that? Do you mean specifically that you as a man are expected to approach the woman, and not the other way around? I mean, sure, you could go over to /r/MensRights and depress the shit out of yourself more with gender inequality, double standards, blah blah blah, but in this context, I think you're slightly mistaken. In my 8 years of bar-hopping, I've seen women approach men as often as the other way around. If a person is attractive, others will be attracted to them. Attr…
/r/seduction05/07/12 10:39 PM
5

Technically, there's no expiration limit on someone's loving, dating, or relationship abilities. I mean, sure, after you get old enough, you're not shooting the most virile of sperm anymore, but even then you can freeze some for later these days. But I think what the people that say this are getting at is the romantic Hollywood ideal that you'll be a down-on-your-luck loser for a long time and just when you've given up on it, someone will walk into your life and help you save yourself. Know what…
/r/seduction05/07/12 10:18 PM
1

Fuck your TL;DR! If someone wants to learn this stuff, he's not going anywhere with shortcuts! Plus, You got Tony Stark pretty right-on and it would be a shame if anybody misses it! GJ, and thanks!
/r/seduction03/07/12 08:01 PM
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Hint: he wasn't.
/r/seduction02/07/12 09:08 PM
2

By the title, I thought you picked up a bartender by giving her an old cigar!
/r/seduction26/06/12 07:45 PM
3

Awesome read. It's probably the most catalytic article for me, sparking the serious desire to actually practice what I'm reading, for once. I'm insecure about being overweight, and I still want to fix a few things about my body, but that doesn't mean that I need to give a shit about what other people think about it right now!
/r/seduction26/06/12 03:44 PM
1

Nick Fury agrees.
/r/seduction25/06/12 03:07 PM
2

Whenever you get a girl laughing, saying something like "This is so fun!" work in the phrase "It's always fun and games until..." and then just stare at them deadpan. Own it! It's a battle scar! It's an interesting life story that you can use to create conversation! Make up some insane story about how you fought off a boatload of Somali pirates while you were on vacation or working for Doctors Without Borders or something! Just make sure you sell it as an over-the-top joke, and then tell the rea…
/r/seduction25/06/12 03:05 PM
5

I've successfully received free drinks for women before, though I wasn't able to follow up on it. I still try it every once in a while, sometimes just saying "Hey, how bout I let you buy me a drink?"
/r/seduction12/06/12 07:14 PM
1

Wait, did anybody actually read this article? I don't think there's nothing wrong with it, except maybe those women who judge the value of men based on fiscal irresponsibility. Not wanting to pick up after a man (being his mother) or going after the idiots who dress in trendy crap like Affliction seem perfectly fine to me.
/r/MensRights10/06/12 09:13 PM
2

If you can make a call to your grandfather, ask how he did it back in his day. Take this opportunity to treat a girl like they did in the good ol' days before technology and Facebook and all that shit!
/r/seduction10/06/12 05:52 PM
1

It is very interesting to see a perspective from another side. I know the AFC side. I've read here about the PUA side. But a perspective of a woman who may have been played and how she's trying to deal with it is pretty cool. Now if only we could get an AMA...
/r/seduction05/06/12 04:31 PM
3

While I don't immediately agree to this poster's analysis of the situation, I am in awe and admiration of his "old oversized hoodie and ugly fuzzy socks she puts on in private to [eat] chocolate ice cream and watch that terrible Cameron Diaz movie..." line. That, my friend, deserves upvotes, even if I'm not entirely certain that your opinion is the most plausible one.
/r/seduction05/06/12 04:24 PM
3

While I think the accusations of rape and other exaggerated silliness from your post was over the top and ridiculous to read, your answer here has tipped me over from "sympathetic" to "he's just playing the victim now." It's just how this particular post reads. There's nothing wrong with oral sex between consenting adults, and I don't mean to devalue your posts or positions, so don't get me wrong. I just believe that you allowed your emotions to spill over in this one post and they got the best …
/r/MensRights01/06/12 04:59 PM
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I almost want to apologize to the girls who received the guilt-ridden AFC letters I would write, but they are all in the past and moved on and such and the only thing I can do now is make not the same mistakes in the future.
/r/seduction31/05/12 03:13 PM
5

Oh gosh, to think that I've written things like this (or worse) in a bid to start or save relationships...
/r/seduction31/05/12 03:05 PM
5

Just in case you're serious, he means the motions a DJ uses when he scratches a record. These motions are very similar to the motions a woman might use while she masturbates.
/r/seduction30/05/12 07:57 PM
7

You might think that getting your dick wet is more important, but trust me, your order of priority should be: 1) Sex with new women 2) Masturbation 3) Cold, harsh, soul-crushing celibacy 4) Sex with an ex.
/r/seduction24/05/12 10:32 PM
2

Maybe find a wingman, someone who can talk to other people, and who will gently ease you out of the awkward silent friend mode. Discuss what you need him to do to help make you feel comfortable in a situation. He can do things like steer the conversation to movies, then ask you "Hey FBISurveillanceVan, which Avenger character was the most well-done to you?" At that point you're answering your friend, not talking to a stranger, but you're still talking out loud in a conversation with someone you …
/r/seduction22/05/12 04:56 PM
6

I pray I never find myself a girl or woman who thinks this is ok. I almost had to confront a softball team mate (men's team) for doing a "cup check" the other night. I didn't, because 1) we were on the way to the field, and 2) I had a cup so I wasn't hurt. A women who thinks it's OK though, as in OP's situation, sounds horribly dreadful and also the sort of person who wouldn't easily understand how mens' rights are important.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 08:57 PM
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Relevant advice from Cockpuncher! He's an expert in the field!
/r/MensRights17/05/12 08:53 PM
1

I must disagree. On the contrary, XKCD as a whole has more to offer than some other web comics I frequent, and this particular comic not only has a positive message but it celebrates a strong female character.
/r/seduction17/05/12 08:12 PM
1

Ass wollff?! That's not a very nice thing to call him! :P
/r/seduction17/05/12 07:59 PM
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It's divorce stories like these that build my fear of ever getting married.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 03:49 PM
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:( C-C-C-C-COMBO BREAKER!
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:12 PM
2

Done, done, and still doing! I've seen rock bottom in some posts coughForeverAlonecough and I reject that lifestyle! I hope my posts here help do the same thing for others!
/r/seduction15/05/12 09:30 PM
2

This post helps define my own relationship with a female friend of mine. She is in a relationship, has been for a while now. Her and I both have feelings for each other to some extent, and openly talk about it at times; we'd be dating each other if we could be right now, I believe. However, her kids finally have a stable family with her current relationship, as well as stable finances and a home. So while the relationship has its horrible moments (and some she'll very readily admit to), she's no…
/r/seduction15/05/12 09:01 PM
2

Mother (check) I'd Like to Fuck (check). Seems congruent to me!
/r/seduction04/05/12 05:20 PM
1

young, like 19 to my 21. But technically a milf, as she had a son.
/r/seduction04/05/12 12:21 AM
1

My first MILF was disappointing: a troubled young girl who laid there and did none of the work. I can't wait for my first cougar. Hopefully she'll make up for the MILF!
/r/seduction03/05/12 09:41 PM
6

From my experience on Seddit and in real life, a woman holds you in the friendzone because you stay there. She uses you as a Yes-Man so when she flirts, you respond, and it she gains value and confidence. She has no intention on acting on it, she doesn't need to, she already got out of you what she needs: validation. And that's why Seddit avoids oneitis, lest something like this develops.
/r/seduction02/05/12 02:09 PM
0

And this is where you lost it. You attack Pater for attacking your grammar then proceed to launch into ad hominem attacks against him. Despite your disagreement, Pater's opinions on marital rape are in fact founded in cited law from our nation's past. He just proposed them to find out how others feel about them. In that regard, allow the rest of my post to be a response to him. I understand how marital rape could have traditionally been considered a lesser crime, if a crime at all. But look at t…
/r/MensRights26/04/12 03:28 PM
4

I can hold eye contact with the best of them... until it's my turn to speak. When I'm telling a tale, my eyes flit all around, mindlessly glancing at anything as my brain composes the words I'm about to speak. It's a horrible habit and makes me feel awkward. As soon as I'm done speaking, my eyes are concrete on the other persons while I listen.
/r/seduction23/04/12 04:36 PM
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I had an interesting conversation with someone who might fit into this description. It was late at night in my bed after running into her at a bar. She's gorgeous, has done modeling, one could never tell she's had a kid. I've known her for years, known her son's father (she hesitated to say "boyfriend" at the time) for just as long. So she was crashing at my place but I wasn't going to try to escalate. Instead we were just on my bed, chit-chatting and what not, and we talked about this guy I saw…
/r/seduction23/04/12 03:45 PM
-1

Women are such poor at parking because they are constantly lied to about what 8 inches is!
/r/seduction17/04/12 02:45 PM
1

People who cheat are low-life cowards. Those that do it while their significant other are deployed have a reserved level of hell just for them. You sound like you have a world of experience and interesting stories to tell! Don't ask a girl out, just talk to people, tell stories, hell, I'm sure you could keep me enthralled for hours and I'd end up buying you beers for it, and I'm a dude! Your confidence on the field of battle is the same as with people. Just remember, the women in the bars and cl…
/r/seduction16/04/12 06:48 PM
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Holy shit. I know you're not generalizing all women here, but man, you sure make a lot of people feel like shit with this post: guys who are ashamed at allowing this to happen in the past (myself in the past, current friends in relationships now), and you make women seem cold, calculating, controlling. Let's clarify for everyone whose undies will be a bit rustled by this post: the OP is definitely saying that there are great women out there who will provide such a fantastic LTR and marriage! The…
/r/seduction15/04/12 03:41 PM
1

I know the feeling, buddy! I've done nothing but count some calories but I've slimmed down a bit, especially in my face, neck, and shoulders, and when the rare person actually says something about it, I feel amazing! The parking ramp attendant at an office I haven't visited in two months said something just yesterday, in fact, and I'm still beaming! Keep at it, pal, it's an addicting feeling!
/r/seduction13/04/12 08:39 PM
1

I used to hide the fact that I play Magic: The Gathering. But now that I've played it for 18 of my 28 years, I realized that this game has given me so much enjoyment that I don't care who knows I play it. If someone never wants to learn how my friends and I take road trips to PTQs and other tournaments, spend hours practicing and playing our new deck ideas, making new friends wherever we play, then screw them because they don't get to learn a big part of what makes me, me! But once I started adm…
/r/seduction10/04/12 02:45 PM
0

Wow, I walk away for a day and this turns into a huge event. My only thoughts is maybe I'm still too wet behind the ears to be championing Seddit, but I did my best. Also, maybe /r/FAImprovement would have been a better target.
/r/seduction08/04/12 05:13 PM
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So I printed these out and highlighted which ones on each sheet I felt applied to me. I didn't highlight it unless the entire statement fit. As expected, there were a vast majority of entries that were highlighted in only one column - the opposite column being the opposite of that entry. However, there were a surprising number that were highlighted in both columns, and a few that were highlighted in neither. Now, I'm not a psychologist or anything, but I'm going to spend quite a bit of time anal…
/r/seduction06/04/12 09:02 PM
3

My step father was very stern about not crying unless physically hurt. It wasn't until after his father passed away that he apologized for it through tearful eyes.
/r/MensRights06/04/12 05:24 PM
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And the point goes to dicipres, with an assist to CheapCheepChirp! What an amazing way to start the game. Mitch, would you care to take us on a play-by-play replay of that wonderfully one-sided exchange?
/r/MensRights05/04/12 10:15 PM
2

This (the full post) was a very entertaining read and even if it wasn't about this subject matter, I still would enjoy reading your writing. Well done, A++++ Would read again!
/r/seduction05/04/12 06:55 PM
2

I would suggest you steer the visit towards your goal: sexual partner, not friendly houseguest. Keep the texts sexual, let her know what you expect through flirtation, so if she still drives all that way, you know you're in.
/r/seduction30/03/12 06:25 PM
0

Four: Mace
/r/seduction29/03/12 07:09 PM
2

(can't leave a man hanging) ...cuz I'm shipping you a big load of "dary"!
/r/seduction28/03/12 08:24 PM
2

Good job, man! I wish I could go somewhere where I haven't already become a known entity! The only club in my town has been my "Cheers" for about 4 years now, I know everybody there, and almost all of the regulars. Years of being an AFC in one spot makes it harder to operate, nevermind that I'm just a beginner and I'm also out of weight (working on both of those things though)! I need to get out of town, get a hotel nearby a few clubs, and just go out without the pressure of ever seeing any of t…
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:27 PM
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That's why I love fucking Chyna Wait...
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:21 PM
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I'm not anyone in any position to be giving advice, but it seems like you just saved yourself a boatload in booze and eventually food costs. Sounds like she was just trying to milk you for everything you got. There's a fine line, probably, between attraction to you and attraction to your money, and you already posted how she may have picked up on your status. Inviting more and more friends and asking for a ride (and maybe even expecting you to pay for a cab home) were red flags to me.
/r/seduction25/03/12 05:55 PM
1

This is just a bait-and-switch headline meant to chastise the seddit community with undertones and accusations of chauvinism.
/r/seduction23/03/12 04:02 PM
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Meaning, of course it's not your fault that it happened! You ever read the typical rape response of "she was asking for it by the way she dressed"? If you can understand how ridiculously wrong that is, then you can maybe equate it to how ridiculously wrong your statement is. You are a victim. You read about that other rape victim and commiserated, but perhaps you don't consider yourself as much a victim as he was. Guess what, you are. And that is actually empowering. You cannot pursue legal acti…
/r/MensRights23/12/11 03:03 PM
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