| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Paying for women on the First Dates is and has been for a very long time... Dumb.True, but I also have the option to complain about said conditions- which I’m very happy to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Spamming Cold Approaches is a dumb dating strategy.Instead of cold approaching, most guys just need to work on having genuine conversations with strangers. And then eventually one of them will be an attractive woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 11:40 AM |
| – | CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than peopleWhat a load of nonsense 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 01:22 AM |
| 14 | Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do.Extremely myopic take. Staggering, honestly. Women are never truly single. Most women- even the mids- have tons of options. Whether it’s social media or dating apps women are never at a lack for some type of validation from the opposite sex. If she wants a romantic need met? There’s a simp for that. If she want a a sexual need met? There’s a Chad for that. Even just the likes on Instagram feed into her ego and creates hoeflation. The male single experience is the exact opposite. Now, I do think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:59 AM |
| -6 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsThis would be a reasonable take if it wasn't being communicated by women of similarly low quality. Women think that getting pumped and dumped by Chad places them above their male counterparts, and they GENUINELY believe they'll be chosen, but no, that anti-depressant use just continues to climb. And I don't think most guys really expect reciprocation at this point. I see guys comfortably checked while highlighting absurdities and delusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:27 AM |
| 11 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsWomen are the gatekeepers of sex. They choose the men that they reward with children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 01:40 AM |
| 0 | Why don't unattractive men want to completely eradicate their libido?The libido is a part of human biology. And there are many reasons why someone would want a libido: Masterbation feels good, Emotional wellbeing (since sexual desire is tied into hormones and brain chemistry ), motivation to actually find a partner one day. Sexuality is a normal part of human identity even if enjoyed alone. Why in the actual Fuck would I take mediations and risk side effects? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:27 AM |
| 4 | Why don't unattractive men want to completely eradicate their libido?How would I “eradicate my libido”? You sound like a complete idiot, no offense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:04 AM |
| – | Men are more shallow than women and you know itYou are are extremely disingenuous with your arguments, and I’m not engaging further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 11:52 PM |
| – | Men are more shallow than women and you know itHuh? 99 percent of men would marry Margot Robbie in two seconds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 11:25 PM |
| – | Men are more shallow than women and you know itI’ve never heard of a man getting the “Ick”, so there is not really an argument here. Women love making lists of things they want and disqualify men based on “Red Flags”. Men have a much wider variety of women that they would date based on both looks and personality. Just be kind, somewhat pretty, and easygoing. Thats it. Also, the height thing is rightfully called out because it is irrational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.I’m here to tell you that you’re wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.So there is some truth in the fact that true romantic desire usually manifests pretty quickly. Most married men I know had sex with their now wives very early on- within the first few dates (unless they abstained for religious reasons). However, that doesn’t mean that these guys are porn-brained or engaged in hookup culture. The guys I know who found fulfilling relationships had barely any sexual experience at all upon meeting their partners. Maybe one or two trial runs before their relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 02:27 PM |
| 0 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.Men want sex. But I would wager that the VAST majority of men want it exclusively and consistently with one woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 01:46 PM |
| 7 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.Untrue. Men don’t associate porn with real life romantic pursuits, unless they are the type of guys that want to “hook up”. But this doesn’t apply to the majority of guys in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 12:20 PM |
| 4 | Most women have someone.I’m about as average as they come lil bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 05:50 PM |
| 14 | Most women have someone.Profoundly untrue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 01:13 PM |
| 1 | What unique value do you think men provide to society, that can't be provided by women?I’d argue that the amount of work a man has to do in order to attract a woman in the first place is at least akin to the stress of childbirth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Being single is different for men and women.What types of guys are you picking, exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 04:58 AM |
| 77 | Being single is different for men and women.I’ve never seen a woman think about things from our perspective before. I know the bar is in hell, but thank you for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Why should women care that men don't have partners?I never got the impression that women did care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 12:17 AM |
| 14 | Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for.I never understood the big deal about settling. What’s wrong with “good enough”? Most of the time the “good enough” option will make you far happier than the ideal option. Perfection is the enemy of good, as they say. To me, settling would be forcing yourself to be with someone you absolutely don’t want. The “good enough” option is not that- it’s just being realistic about what you can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Straight men aren’t actually straightYou’re trying too hard, buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:55 PM |
| 1 | If you think there’s inherent moral injustice in you not getting sex or relationships then you are entitledI see nothing wrong with feeling entitled to something. If I’m not getting some that I want, other people are going to hear about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:25 PM |
| – | The lower birth rate in places like Sweden is good. Psychologically unhealthy individuals shouldn't have children.I’ve never heard so much talk about “natural selection” in my life- and it’s usually the dumbest people on the planet spouting off about “natural selection”. If women were truly selecting the right genes, there wouldn’t be so many bums and normies getting action- and there certainly wouldn’t be so many single mothers. Also, who decides what the “good” genes are? Women? No, I don’t trust their judgment. It’s entirely subjective what genes are worthy of being passed down. Just because we’ve decide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 05:18 AM |
| -2 | Is there a way to make dating fair for men ethically - without reducing the rights of women, or challenging the autonomy of others?Probably some version of arranged marriage or familial matchmaking, along with a shift in values and incentives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 03:41 AM |
| -3 | Is there a way to make dating fair for men ethically - without reducing the rights of women, or challenging the autonomy of others?If a large portion of society is going without, then no, it’s not a fair system and something must be done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 07:48 PM |
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