jjwondor Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	A girl invited me to visit her city. How do I escalate?	Conversation	jjwondor	/r/seduction	01/10/21 06:02 PM

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2	Curious, what was your easiest lay? From being friends with some ladies. Multiple of them have said how if they go out and want to get laid, it’s easy for them.	/r/seduction	14/12/25 02:54 PM
2	How to deal with shit tests about age differences ? I feel like we project our own thoughts. When I was 20, I wasn’t even into having friends in their 30’s let alone older. Now at about 40, I kind of assume everyone younger has that same attitude, which isn’t accurate. But yes, own up to your age, I like what the one poster said about making a joke, or calling yourself the old uncle, it playfully sets the stage so the actual age isn’t as surprising.	/r/seduction	01/05/24 10:26 PM
-1	Had a night out with a girl and things were perfect but.. Text her with: perfection doesn’t wait forever.	/r/seduction	13/09/22 03:32 PM
8	How do I meet girls and make friends as a loner? This is a lot about playing to your strengths. If you feel comfortable and confident at a club then go there and be that. Do your thing and let your confidence show thru.	/r/seduction	30/08/22 12:42 AM
2	36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner. Thanks for your willingness to help out us guys who (sometimes) can be clueless. Sorry that people are being mean. I’d love to hear more examples of cool approaches/ways to approach. :)	/r/seduction	26/08/22 04:30 AM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” If it came to spending my life w one person (not necessarily romantically - just in general) you’d be a better bet than a woman who would reject someone like that.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 06:22 PM
3	What are your second date ideas? Been wondering about this myself. Want to do something that’s more than just sitting and talking. A festival could work. An activity followed by food? I like getting to sit next to each other to make it easier to break the touch barrier too	/r/seduction	08/08/22 10:00 PM
1	Man I’m so tired of wimping out on approaches… It’s hard to take the leap of faith. Thought about saying that I wish I could be there to give you a kick to go do it, even before I read that part of your post. I always wish I had that for me when I was younger. Maybe try a mall where the people there won’t know you? So even if they do see, they won’t know who you are. Or choose an event with a lot going on where everyone is distracted w their own thing	/r/seduction	28/05/22 07:08 AM
1	Sending a text after several months. I’ve been debating off and on to text a girl I dated at the end of last year. I kind of abruptly cut her off (coulda gone better - coulda gone worse) so I keep telling myself that she would likely ignore me. But…. I don’t know if I don’t try. Maybe she’d be open to it. Same goes for you. Don’t think you need to explain everything to her in the first (or any) text - your main goal is to see if she’s even going to respond, and if yes, maybe give her an sense of what happened and that you’d like to…	/r/seduction	02/05/22 11:35 AM
2	[deleted by user] Yeah sure! Why not? Unless I’m looking for a relationship only, and if that being the case I’d have a conversation with her a date or two in just to gauge whether or not we’re going in the same direction	/r/seduction	08/02/22 01:44 PM
1	My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40. Just start by saying hi to people and smiling (when you’re outside and don’t need masks or something)	/r/seduction	31/10/21 01:36 AM
35	Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals??? So weird, right? I’ve always found it easier to banter with women I’m not interested in, but I still tried to awkwardly talk to the ones I liked. I’ve also wondered if a girl saying “my friend things you’re cute” is a tease to kind of egg the guy on to doing something when the friend may not have actually been interested	/r/seduction	07/10/21 06:22 PM
1	A girl invited me to visit her city. How do I escalate? Lol getting to that	/r/seduction	02/10/21 12:08 AM
1	A girl invited me to visit her city. How do I escalate? So if she doesn’t get too close, what would you do? Like say “come here” and kiss her? If she sat down next to me on the couch and looked into my eyes, sure that’s easy But how do I go for the kiss if she’s not making it that easy?	/r/seduction	02/10/21 12:03 AM
1	A girl invited me to visit her city. How do I escalate? Yeah I have - as best as I know how - to flirting and touching. She’s not really reciprocating much.	/r/seduction	01/10/21 11:47 PM
1	A girl invited me to visit her city. How do I escalate? I’m at her place rn. But like I’m not getting any inclination that she wants to…	/r/seduction	01/10/21 11:27 PM
1	A girl invited me to visit her city. How do I escalate? Cool, thanks! The sense that I’m getting is that she is cool either way, but I’m wondering what I can do to try to see if I can move things a little forward Edit. And by cool either way I get the sense she likes the company but isn’t being too obvious. Not sitting too close to me. We shared her bed but she kept to her side so I dunno. I want to just make a move, but it’s always helpful if there’s more of a signal that she wants me to. I have little problem kissing girls when I sense these things…	/r/seduction	01/10/21 09:36 PM
1	Seduction and being short - my personal experience and advice Well by “doing daygame” I mean that I will occasionally talk to a cool girl when I see her and have a decent opportunity to do so. I did get a date out of it last week. Thanks for the recommendation! I wish I had a good wingman in the area to practice going out and talking to hot girls with…	/r/seduction	29/09/21 04:28 AM
10	Seduction and being short - my personal experience and advice Cool response to a cool post. I’ve been shy and have had social anxiety for most of my life and it’s definitely held me back. One way to combat that is to join regularly scheduled events to become more comfortable around people and get to know them better from there. Regular day game? I think it helps me a lot.	/r/seduction	28/09/21 03:31 PM
1	Turn down sex and watch her go crazy I feel like at the same time, some girls would just be done with you at this point. I guess if you’re adequately conveying your sexual interest and able to keep her wanting more, she will retain interest.	/r/seduction	26/09/21 10:58 PM
1	Got a girls number at the covid vaccination clinic I’m trying to get better at talking to women, but like someone said, having a reason to always makes it much easier for me! And sitting in line with someone? So easy! It doesn’t even really matter how you phrase it, but having 5+ minutes where you’re going to be together allows you to not concern yourself with interrupting her. You both have to be there so why not chat!?	/r/seduction	13/09/21 05:38 PM
3	[deleted by user] Seems like there is a balance of comments saying that you did the right thing and that you shoulda got her number. Which is right? 🤷‍♀️ I think what it comes down to is that she’s either into you or not. And regardless of whether you get her number or give her yours, the outcome is likely the same. If she’s not into you, she’s not gonna text you or text you back. So what’s the difference? But good for you for asking her! I think it’s well delivered. And I also feel that there’s a cool aspect to …	/r/seduction	01/07/21 07:55 PM
6	Overconfidence works more than being nice, especially over text More examples, please! And thanks for this post!	/r/seduction	29/06/21 07:38 AM
0	I accidently hit on a 16 year old today I totally support your defense here - so many people automatically judge someone to be a creep and call you such based on a small snipped of your life that you willingly shared with us! Reading through your post doesn’t make you seem to be a creep. And really, no harm here. You got a cool embarrassing story, but you know what will happen if you go out to a girl and ask her out. Good for you for trying. I often think about trying to find some ways to ask a girl out like that and rarely follow thr…	/r/seduction	16/06/21 03:02 PM