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I recommend joining a local group of the book. The only way to improve is through practice.
/r/seduction24/06/15 07:07 PM
1

This goes for Latin girls as well.
/r/seduction10/06/15 12:11 AM
6

Depends in what you are comfortable with, but you should make the first move. There are no wrong answers here.
/r/seduction25/05/15 12:07 AM
55

You just need step 10 really. Ask, yes no. OK continue your life.
/r/seduction24/05/15 05:09 PM
1

It is simple, invest more in yourself. Create better opportunities for yourself, go and do more things for your life. There is such a thing as too much investment, meaning you are obsessed with every action that she does. Once you are busy with your own life it will balance out.
/r/seduction21/05/15 02:26 PM
1

At the very end, with any relationship you have to put yourself out there. Also, it is a lot easier to make male friends if you have similar hobbies.
/r/seduction09/03/15 02:45 PM
6

Everyone is insecure about something.
/r/seduction03/01/15 11:22 PM
2

Don't be outcome dependent?
/r/seduction27/11/14 09:35 PM
1

Bear mode forever.
/r/seduction28/08/14 08:01 PM
1

It will play into a factor but the whole point of this is to break that barrier. Don't let that stop you.
/r/seduction18/08/14 05:47 AM
1

I only have to say this, the only difference between you and your former self is action. You took action on your life and moved forward, keep going. There is no end of the line, continue to improve.
/r/seduction14/08/14 05:08 PM
8

This is pretty much the 4chan version of no more Mr nice guy.
/r/seduction06/08/14 06:59 PM
8

Sign up on meetup.com, meet different groups for volunteering or interest. Profit.
/r/seduction06/07/14 10:17 PM
2

If you were a good friend and went into benefits.. It pretty much means one side will get hurt. Tell her you don't have any resentment for bringing other guys home.
/r/seduction08/05/14 03:15 PM
1

I would make the situation happen, say go to the dog park and strike a convo with her. Ask her out for coffee. Don't wait around.
/r/seduction06/03/14 04:48 PM
1

That is more of a personality trait than self discovery.
/r/seduction06/02/14 09:42 PM
1

This was as bad as the 'one weird trick your trainer doesn't want you to know about.'
/r/seduction28/01/14 06:31 PM
18

"You can tell the greatness of a man by what makes him angry." Abraham Lincoln
/r/seduction23/12/13 03:29 PM
29

Or you know, maybe she doesn't really care. Don't over think it, if she doesn't text back move on.
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:27 AM
18

I always say this, there is the nice guy and there is the good guy. Nice guy most of the time just uses niceness to try and get what they want. While good guy does good deeds to better the world. There are a lot of discussions out there on why a lot of nice guys are mostly selfish assholes to begin with. The I do A for you, so you must return B to me. This is also the type that cry foul play when they don't get B.
/r/seduction02/09/13 09:24 PM
1

This, no woman can say no to a man that dances well. Ball room, line, hip pop. All of the guys I know who are successful with women are all good dancers.
/r/seduction20/08/13 03:54 PM
8

Not to mention a lot of women in NYC are very career driven, and very competitive. If you see a girl living in manhattan by herself, chances are she is doing well and very business oriented in nature.
/r/seduction16/08/13 04:10 PM
1

A lot of times confidence is ego, they go hand in hand.
/r/seduction05/05/13 06:10 AM
3

It is funny because it is how you approach the situation, a fried of mine is quite comfortable with his female friends. So sometimes he will just slap their asses for fun and joke about it. And they always thought it is pretty funny because that is how he acts with them. It
/r/seduction04/05/13 04:27 PM
8

For me that is most of the cases.
/r/seduction04/05/13 04:24 PM
2

Time for me to read it again.
/r/seduction11/04/13 04:45 AM
1

It is supposed to have her wanting more, usually subtle and slow does the job well.
/r/seduction13/02/13 05:34 AM
6

There are actually many articles about how this is not the way, just like you shouldn't buy girls drinks at the bar just for them to talk to you. Attraction is just that, attraction. The improvement should be to the point that people WILL want to do stuff for you because they know you are just.. simply superior. Haven't you ever met that guy who is so interesting that you wish you are him? the person that lived many experiences that you wouldn't mind sitting there listening while he part his wis…
/r/seduction23/12/12 06:55 PM
1

Saw this in a movie once, didn't work.
/r/seduction07/12/12 02:48 PM
1

This, view it as one source of meeting people but not the sole source.
/r/seduction06/12/12 05:11 AM
7

I believe this applies to all friends actually. I have a friend who is more sociable than me, in the past year I have grown to carry on the conversation better and now all of the sudden he doesn't feel like he has that advantage over me anymore. But it doesn't matter, they either have to accept or don't. “A man with no enemies is a man with no character.” -Paul Newman
/r/seduction24/11/12 06:59 AM
5

Te least alpha thing would be staying with a girl after she cheated on you. The most? Act like it doesn't matter while it kills you inside.
/r/seduction22/11/12 05:48 PM
2

If you are in NYC you see white/asian all of the time, I think asian women are just tired of asian guys here.
/r/seduction07/10/12 06:55 PM
24

Look at it this way, you are way better off than you were a week ago. And look at this bigger picture, are you dying right now? did you lose a finger? no. In the grand picture of things, nothing BAD happened, you posted your report and people gave you feedbacks. Next time try something different.
/r/seduction16/09/12 04:36 PM
1

This is classic outcome independence, not very odd.
/r/seduction07/09/12 06:40 PM
2

This felt like it came straight from "how to make friends and influence people." Dale Carnegie couldn't stress these points enough.
/r/seduction10/08/12 06:19 PM
0

No, most of the stuff on seduction are personal experiences. Just like people posting their own experiences on nofap. Your mileage might vary.
/r/seduction03/07/12 12:00 AM
5

I used to think this way too, but assholes have friends too. Most of us think being friendly build friendships, in reality it is how much you are as a person. Some people are just naturally charming and magnetic and it is easy for them to build friendships even they are not very nice underneath. A lot of my thought process changed after reading mr. no more nice guy.
/r/seduction02/07/12 11:58 PM
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Read the FAQ in nofap, the videos by the professors are all scientific. Your brain works in a reward system via dopamine, high dosage are required the more you watch hence you cannot get the same high as before.
/r/seduction02/07/12 08:55 PM
0

This is typical with everyone, I am sure most of us thought "if I was on the plane during 911 I would have stopped the hijackers", or "I would beat the crap out of the guy if he tried his bullshit on me." The feeling of invincibility or superiority is a very typical coping response. We are almost all "average" in a grand scale, most of us would not like to think that way tho.
/r/seduction02/07/12 08:50 PM
1

I thought trout is usually someone who is old looking to land a younger women, with financial means.
/r/seduction02/07/12 08:42 PM
7

My mother always said to be nice to women, now I just interpret it as she wanted me to be nice to her. Nice gets you nowhere.
/r/seduction02/07/12 08:40 PM
2

It is funny because it might be 50% for some and 5% for others.
/r/seduction29/06/12 09:48 PM
45

Social proof wins again. And sounds like this chad should be your new wingman.
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:51 PM
1

You should respond by letting her know she should make it up to you by canceling. I have sent something along the line of "how are you going to make it up to me by canceling :)" dont apologize because she should be the one making it up to you.
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:47 PM
1

To see how it feels
/r/seduction27/06/12 08:37 PM
1

Good work man, everything was by the book.
/r/seduction27/06/12 06:28 AM
1

Great book btw, if you are anything like me you will find some things worth looking into.
/r/seduction21/06/12 09:49 PM
2

Build comfort level, it is much easier to get her to talk about herself even if it bores the crap out of you. You wouldn't believe how many times I pretended to be interested in something when in reality I had zero interest on the subject at hand.
/r/seduction18/06/12 08:44 PM
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I grip with the same strength, sometimes they like that sometimes they go ouch. But either way they like it because they see it as a sign of respect. I wouldn't go softer just because you are shaking with a girl. And in a professional settings I have encountered some ladies with very firm shakes, you will just look masculine then.
/r/seduction18/06/12 08:41 PM
3

Not sure why this is douchy, obviously OP made advances to a certain type of women he found attractive. Why wouldn't the females react the same way. This is very natural. Now if you have enough game to overcome that, good for you. But it does come easier if you are good looking.
/r/seduction18/06/12 04:44 AM
8

Not even gameface, it is part of you now. The difference between natural and faking it.
/r/seduction14/06/12 10:24 PM
0

Eh, I don't know about this, if you don't have the alpha personality you will just come off as douchey. OP if he is as alpha as you said he would have made a move already, I think you just like this person way too much to see clearly. IF you are really alpha you make a move and take the rejection like a man if it is a no. That is REAL alpha.
/r/seduction13/06/12 03:42 PM
2

I think you are pretty brave for admitting the past, most of us would rather just bury it. I have a similar situation, father always cheated and non existent. Mother ended up bitter and uncompromising, I grew up over valuing women on a higher regard because of this. But you are an adult now, you can either blame everyone else for your problem, or solve the problem yourself. If what you said made her leave, so be it. The most important thing is to be honest with yourself and HOLD what you believe…
/r/seduction12/06/12 10:58 PM
2

I was just thinking about this, since attraction is based on some rules (social proof, kino.. Etc.) if you do all of the opposite would that work? Lol.
/r/seduction12/06/12 06:45 PM
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Yeah this, since most of them are career women at this stage all of them are very professional. Also they know consequences of crazy behavior which might affect their future they tend to tone down on bad bahavior by a lot. But crazy is still crazy sometimes, can't avoid it.
/r/seduction12/06/12 06:43 PM
1

And then she stop taking the pills, don't do stupid shit twice.
/r/seduction12/06/12 06:39 PM
0

I think it comes down to social responsibility, manipulation is just a word people use to make a bad connotation about seduction in general. So far all I learned from seduction is to have balls open sets, escalate and understanding women in general. Now using what works is called strategy, and we are all adults here.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:59 PM
1

But it is also because of these white knights that we can be different, yin and yang.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:49 PM
4

This is my approach in life as well, life is much larger than trying to open sets every week. I believe that once you are happy with yourself (mentally, physically and socially) life will come together for you as a person.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:47 PM
4

Mental masturbation is the worst.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:37 PM
1

I know the feeling, constantly worried over what people will think about you. I suggest reading "no more mr. Nice guy" and follow up on the break free activities. It is not something you could be free of in a day, in one reddit post or probably not even in a year. But it is a good first step.
/r/seduction05/06/12 03:09 PM
1

What? Just straight up ask her if she wants to be in a relationship, what is all this pussy footing, it sounds like you are so scared of losing her so you are avoiding asking for what you want. Don't put it on her plate!
/r/seduction05/06/12 03:03 PM
1

I think it is good you tried several more times. Why live with regrets? I would rather try 3 times and failed than try once and give up.
/r/seduction05/06/12 02:57 PM
2

I am going to be frank here, I have been there and your approaches are all wrong, you are asking these questions about her that you have no control over. All these questions you are askinh are about what SHE wants, you DON'T have control over her actions! Beyond seduction you have to realize you have to really man up and say I either give it my all and try this one more time, or just let me go for good and not care about the next Harry, Charlie or John or whatever. This Harry guy is NOT going to…
/r/seduction05/06/12 02:52 PM
3

The possibility of one-itis is probably unavoidable. I don't understand why dudes try to hit up their long time friends instead of hitting on new girls.
/r/seduction04/06/12 06:19 PM
1

Friendzone, pretty sure you are in it. Next time stand next to her but leave and hit on other girls, DONT get attached at the hip.
/r/seduction03/06/12 10:24 PM
2

Yes, get rid of outcome dependency. Don't second guess yourself.
/r/seduction02/06/12 05:11 AM
1

Look over DiCarlo's escalation ladder. Just like approaches you will have to go and just do it, there is really no art into touch a shoulder while laughing, gentle nudge...etc.
/r/seduction01/06/12 06:07 AM
2

There are numerous posts or even studies about how you shouldn't use one mindset after meeting a girl. She might be drunk, she might be having a good day, maybe she was just happy at the party. That doesn't mean anything a day later or even 2 hours later. I wouldn't even bother if it has been 3 days, maybe just one more text so you could ease your mind but this sounds like a goner.
/r/seduction01/06/12 06:04 AM
1

Self improvement, tons is it. You have to be able to withstand yourself first before you can withstand others. Pursuit your passions, make friends.. If you feel alone you are not doing enough for yourself. Women should be the icing in your life, not an ingrident of your cake.
/r/seduction31/05/12 03:00 PM
1

This, being good looking might be a handicap for some. It is proven that good looking people don't have to try as hard. For you I think you should strive to be as best as possible, don't waste your 'gifts.'
/r/seduction29/05/12 05:36 AM
1

I read the DiCarlo's escalation ladder before but never paid much attention to it, going to re-read it again. Also, what happens if a girl rejects you on say at a class II? you just try more class Is and then a class II again?
/r/seduction29/05/12 05:31 AM
2

I am having trouble understanding outcome dependence. By definition, he should have tried as much as possible so he could say "I did the best I could have under this circumstance" so there are no regrets?
/r/seduction29/05/12 05:18 AM
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The only reason why this was so popular because a lot of us felt the same way before. You never sat next to a hot girl and didn't ask her about some random BS? I find it hard to believe.
/r/seduction26/05/12 06:23 AM
2

Could you explain a little about demonstrating high value? High value as in full transparency of the other women you are with? Money? Status? Or just having great interactions?
/r/seduction26/05/12 12:54 AM
1

Right the problem is with control, no one will appreciate your efforts if they know you are within their beck and call. The problem is not about keeping her, the problem lies within how easily you let her control your life. Remember you have to put yourself first, if you want respect you have to respect yourself first. You have to look much further down the road, and see that you already landed a girl like her, someone just hot or even hotter will come along. Don't let her run your life.
/r/seduction25/05/12 07:03 PM
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This is the same shit answer as I like video games, star wars and basketball. They are just saying this to gather fans. Do you really want to hear, I like to drink, do cocaine and date actors? Lol. Image is everything. This is also why people are so shocked when they discover some famous teen star banging guys and doing drugs, it is all a facade. Edit - spelling
/r/seduction25/05/12 02:31 PM
1

The problem is, why are you taking her back? That is the real problem. Not manly at all.
/r/seduction25/05/12 04:12 AM
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I don't believe in being a 'nice guy' I believe in being a 'good person'. I just realized recently that they are two totally different things. Don't be a nice guy, be a good person. Women should be icing, not the cake.
/r/seduction23/05/12 04:22 AM
1

Give meetup a try, get into a group setting and meet with strangers in general. Go with a friend who might be interested in doing the same thing. I think you need someone to show you the ropes. At the end it is all about trying, I feel much better about myself after trying and failed than not trying at all.
/r/seduction22/05/12 08:37 PM
1

I think with anxiety this severe you should look at self improvement first, I suggest working out, lots, train yourself like your life depends on it. Believe it or not body image does tie in with self confidence. Recently my friends started to ask me for nutritional advice and work out tips, it shows. Find your passion in life, what do you want to do and be good at it. Stop playing video games or whatever that kills your time. Remember you are not going on a seduction "diet", this is a lifestyle…
/r/seduction22/05/12 07:17 PM
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Someone shared this with me over the weekend, from dr. Glover. Life is like a cake, a woman should never be one of the main ingredients, she should be icing on your cake. She is their to provide great flavors in your life, but not part of you. If your cake lacks certain things it is up to you to make your cake better. I don't think you can get more alpha than this.
/r/seduction22/05/12 04:10 PM
1

Because w is tofutofu.
/r/seduction22/05/12 04:04 PM
2

The best way would be using these knowing it would not work and open with them anyways.
/r/seduction22/05/12 03:59 PM
1

I wonder if we are going to see another post about a guy who stole this HB underneath him after driving her for 2 hours. Lol.
/r/seduction22/05/12 03:56 PM
3

So, confident, social proof and transparency. I find negging and teasing very hard to distinguish, girls will sometimes say you are mean to me! With a laughter. Not sure if I am doing it correctly.
/r/seduction22/05/12 03:48 PM
1

Shrug, you answered your own questions there. You are sleeping with your ex, she is still emotionally attached. That is the end of the story, chuck it up as payment to have sex with her. You done deed, now you pay the price.
/r/seduction21/05/12 04:59 AM
3

Time for you to find a girl for the summer. Maybe it will be different when the summer is over and school starts in fall, but don't worry about her if she is going to act like a child.
/r/seduction21/05/12 04:54 AM
1

This, if you read any of the self help books... all of them require you to love yourself first and foremost. I think a lot of us here, especially some are trying to better ourselves are problem avoidance, give more than take types. At the end you have to realize people are attracted to confidence, energy and experience, not I gave you this so you should give me, being overly nice to people who doesn't deserve it or avoiding problems. Once you start to be more selfish, go and get what you want an…
/r/seduction20/05/12 07:18 AM
1

Hit pubs and lounges, not everyone is into clubs. But I guess when you are younger that is where all of the crowd is at.
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:20 PM
1

Humor is probably the best approach. Sometimes you can say one thing but your face shows differently.
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:18 PM
1

Answer at a snail pace, every several hours and never faster than her. She doesn't know your schedule and some people just txt slower. Don't read too much into it, some are really good first line baits such as "I saw something that reminded me of you today." Stuff like that with openers.
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:31 AM
1

I've been working out and I wore a tighter tshirt today, I noticed girls playing their hair a lot while looking at me. Either way don't worry about things you can't change at that moment, just own it and be it as it may.
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:23 AM
1

Most people are flakey with things that aren't important to them. I find very little difference between "busy" and "flakey", usually if they are really busy they will offer alternatives. If you are really interested try again, if not move on.
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:22 AM
1

I find listening more is usually more effective, like what dale Carnegie said, no one is more interesting than one's self. Ask appropriate questions to get them talk about themselves passionately, kino it up and don't be a chicken. Keep pushing.
/r/seduction16/05/12 06:18 PM
1

Right you don't know the circumstances, she could be a very social girl having a bad day, you interrupting her complaining about her best friend or just a snob in general. Use your friend and try to involve her. But a lot of girls do have their bitch shield up with strangers, a lot of guys are the same.
/r/seduction16/05/12 06:15 PM
1

How is that a wingman? Isn't that the exact opposite? Should call him cockblock next time. Talk to him about it, if he is still being a douche after I am sorry, you need to make better friends.
/r/seduction16/05/12 05:56 PM
1

Another redditor is probably going to post the male perspective on here soon.
/r/seduction13/05/12 09:07 PM
1

I have seen this done, guy will just keep trying after a minute of dancing with one girl. Really prevelant at 2am when everyone was buzzed. This was at a college campus too, I am way too old for college but don't ask me why.
/r/seduction11/05/12 05:14 PM
1

Or she doesn't care what you think, she like lawyers and that is the end of it.
/r/seduction11/05/12 02:10 AM
0

Keep the ones you want to keep and make new ones. Pretty simple.
/r/seduction10/05/12 05:47 PM
1

If you know your issue, start fixing it. Join clubs, meetups, anything. It will be very hard in the beginning. Read books on being an introvert, discuss your issue with someone close.. If you see yourself like your dad maybe speak about it with your mother.
/r/seduction10/05/12 05:44 PM
2

All I got was, you are so funny. I still have work to do.
/r/seduction08/05/12 08:24 PM
2

Keep the silence, she is probably just as weirded out as your are. Women tend to talk more so it is harder for them to keep silent for long periods of time. Unless something funny happens at where you are.
/r/seduction06/05/12 09:06 PM
2

I think there are several approaches, some as straight out ask in a funny way. Some turns kino into one, depending on the situation. i think if a girl kept looking at your lips it might be a good sign. Pay attention to her body language.
/r/seduction04/05/12 06:03 PM
1

Ask -> listen -> make funny comments
/r/seduction04/05/12 05:39 PM
10

There is no spoon. Trying this tomorrow.
/r/seduction04/05/12 05:37 PM
2

I say shit test your women, the best defense is a good offense. But I can see this can be very tiring for a man.
/r/seduction04/05/12 05:35 PM
1

I am not sure if I should trust you, or several people who actually wrote books about this.
/r/seduction03/05/12 01:16 AM
1

You only care about one night stands anyways, that should be the least of your concerns. You sound very not alpha to me. Even "alphas" have their own downfalls and issues, we are only humans after all. Next time focus on your positives.
/r/seduction02/05/12 06:13 PM
12

I actually read this in another self help book, don't flash your smiles eagerly when you just meet someone. Pause, slowly smile like you meant it. It looks more genuine.
/r/seduction02/05/12 05:45 PM
2

Jamea Bond would hold purse from one girl while chatting up another.
/r/seduction02/05/12 01:19 PM
2

Yeah first several encounters are all about fun and intrigue, deep philosophical stuff should be left for later. IF you are dating someone who is into that. Yes it is very superficial. Just like how find how hot a girl is just by her looks, once you understand this it is really simple.
/r/seduction02/05/12 12:00 AM
2

Classic neg.
/r/seduction01/05/12 05:42 PM
2

Why do guys get one-itis with girls that they never dated? There are other girls out there. And dont friendzone yourself either when she rejects you again. Seriously.
/r/seduction01/05/12 05:40 PM
2

When people say don't give a shit, it is about don't give a shit about what the OTHER person thinks, and do whatever your heart desires without any fear. The art is about increasing your negotiation abilities so that they will do what you want them to do and be more successful at it. For me it is about achieving better negotiations at everything, whether in dates, work, even buying groceries.
/r/seduction01/05/12 03:28 PM
1

Either testing or she is starting or rethinking about another guy. But if she was overly daily probably more about testing. Push up your game and maybe do a bit more romantic stuff.
/r/seduction01/05/12 03:21 PM
5

I actually started to notice how many guys do solo at the bars and clubs. Before I was just either checking out girls or hanging with friends when I am out, after thinking about solo gaming for awhile I started to see guys just standing solo for a long periods of time. Might give it a shot this weekend.
/r/seduction01/05/12 03:17 PM
1

It goes both ways, usually if a girl lets you pay she is interested, if she insists on paying or split usually that is that. If you want to cheap out just don't do dinner dates. You could force the issue is splitting, unless the girl is already interested it will be harder to game her. I am older so it is usually even more set in this way.
/r/seduction30/04/12 08:33 PM
2

Practice, did you pay attention of what you friend was saying? What were the topics? I think the fear of disclosing ourselves is usually the problem. Let it all hang out. Also approach more, draw up random conversations with strangers. Not just girls in general.
/r/seduction30/04/12 08:25 PM
1

No one said anything about lying or deceiving, I just said let her fall gently instead of abrupt. It is not 'bullshit' when you are the one who was sleeping with the girl, just because you tell everything as is does not give you the right to be a dick. I find that with a lot of self righteous mindsets.
/r/seduction29/04/12 01:25 AM
3

Yeah this is one way to the HR department for you. OP is already at a bad situation, I say be less upfront and more tactful, develop distance slowly so she is let down gently. I don't believe in the hard cut in this situation. And yeah stay off company property from now on.
/r/seduction28/04/12 09:26 PM
3

This is very prevelant in NYC, a ton of girls worked hard and partied hard in their 20s and now can't find their ideal mate in their 30s. These women are all successful at what they do and want someone even better as a partner. Unfortunately those guys all want girls in their 20s who are still partying. Ontop of the high female ratio you have a bunch of girls desperate to compete with the next girl... Which is a pretty good situation for me to be in.. Hahah.
/r/seduction28/04/12 09:10 PM
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There is no point focusing on why you are NOT being a team player, you should focus on the positives you bring to the team. It is about presentation, don't get into a flame war with her that will just make you look bad. Also ask her politely on why she thinks you are not, and again state either the work you are doing for her and how that is not being positive.
/r/seduction26/04/12 06:52 PM
1

No more mr nice guy. Read getting more after how to make friends and influence people. Life is about negotiation and it teaches you on the way others think (that you might not realize.)
/r/seduction26/04/12 02:14 PM
2

Just ask yourself this question, do you see yourself approach poorly dressed women?
/r/seduction26/04/12 02:10 PM
1

Classic game theory.
/r/seduction26/04/12 05:18 AM
2

It is about integration of who you are to your future self. The baseline you will always there but you should improve to your maximum potential.
/r/seduction26/04/12 05:13 AM
2

I see problems already "talking for hours and hours..." You are her doormat, sorry to say. Besides i don't think you can handle this girl even if she is interested. I am just being frank here. Trust me of she is interested she won't tell you she has that many guys she sleeps with. I think you should just become one of the f buddies and move on.
/r/seduction24/04/12 07:56 PM
1

I know one extremely well, lawyer, self employed and pretty crazy. But she is onto you if you can develop your time with her. Usually this type they are looking for beta or someone who is even more successful. To be frank your time is better spent elsewhere. They are usually not afraid to post threats if you end the relationship badly.
/r/seduction23/04/12 09:49 PM
1

Yes you were born with less than ideal height, something that you cannot change. Work harder at your game, your finances your body an be the baddest 5'4 you could ever be. Or you could just complain why women like tall guys.
/r/seduction19/04/12 02:03 PM
2

Read how to make friends and influence people. A classic that will change your perception.
/r/seduction19/04/12 07:19 AM
1

Go and have a good time, dont plan on spending the prom at attempts to make her happy. Trust me because she is not planning to, have a back up plan incase she flakes during prom (which I am pretty sure will happen.)
/r/seduction19/04/12 07:16 AM
1

Once the candles come out and lights dimmed it is pretty much a sealed deal. A girl who agreed to come over is already 90% sure something should happen.
/r/seduction19/04/12 07:05 AM
4

Right OPs reactions were all a byproduct of her emotions while he remains emotionless. I don't see this as a good way to deal with the situation if you really did not want her to go out but played it like you cared. I fail to see how this could work in the long run if she remained as a child while you play the parent.
/r/seduction19/04/12 07:00 AM
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I think different situation calls for different responses, but I can see where you are coming from. The point is to buy only if you want to, don't let her force you into a situation that you don't like.
/r/seduction19/04/12 12:09 AM
1

My female cousin did the exact same thing and now she is married to a doctor. Just to show ya.
/r/seduction18/04/12 09:15 PM
1

You are already stronger, 5 is much much greater than zero. Most PUA tried thousands.
/r/seduction18/04/12 09:12 PM
2

This is called making a tip at waitressing. Next time pay attention to her with other patrons and you shall see if she pulls this with everyone who gave her an opening.
/r/seduction18/04/12 07:14 PM
9

Essentially acting like a fun outgoing guy and not a douche.
/r/seduction18/04/12 05:29 PM
20

No it is still up to you if you don't want to don't buy it, the point is you decide if you should buy it or not.
/r/seduction18/04/12 05:21 PM
1

This is genius, I am going to try this even when i am out with friends.
/r/seduction18/04/12 02:42 PM
1

"you are a machine"
/r/seduction18/04/12 02:35 PM
1

Find other girls, you are now just stalking her. She is not the only cute girl on Facebook.
/r/seduction18/04/12 02:32 PM
5

Somehow I pictured you as bill Murray in groundhogs day, where he was at the party after his decision to transform.
/r/seduction18/04/12 02:17 PM
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Never buy a girl drinks if she asks. If you speak with her for awhile and she doesn't have one, offer to buy her one. Take charge of the situation instead of letting her demand.
/r/seduction18/04/12 02:15 PM
2

I think the biggest problem is this black and white ideal with women. A lot of times when people explain a girl she is either a total bitch, or the nicest girl. Personally I think even the nicest girl will take advantage when the situation is right, it is up TO YOU to not take the bullshit. A lot of times the goal should be molding yourself into a person she can depend on, an alpha that can turn a bitch into a pussycat. Someone who she respects so that she knows you will not take unreasonable ta…
/r/seduction16/04/12 09:17 PM
1

If you want to dig deeper into this subject, read "no more mr. Nice guy." it has changed my perception about life.
/r/seduction16/04/12 09:10 PM
1

I thought drinking dos Equis was enough, I guess I have much to learn.
/r/seduction16/04/12 07:14 PM
2

I thinks girls in general have even more self awareness issues in bed. You think you are having a bad time, lol. This is why I think as guys we should take charge and bring out what is fun for them. Of course there are alot of freaks out there as well...
/r/seduction28/03/12 05:39 AM
3

She is not interested, move on. You are being overly eager by calling way too many times, should've just called once and left a message. Or text once and leave it at that.
/r/seduction28/03/12 05:26 AM
2

I agree maybe ask who the real owner is or the type Of breed and go from there, or maybe saying you are looking for a dog such as this. Don't approach and just talk to her only, talk to the whole group.
/r/seduction28/03/12 05:23 AM
3

Wait for it...
/r/seduction28/03/12 05:18 AM
1

Once you realize rejection is better than not approaching at all, you are golden.
/r/seduction27/03/12 07:31 PM
3

Just like everything in life some girls will get turned off by it and some won't. But being confident about it is the most important part of dating anyways.
/r/seduction20/03/12 01:48 AM
2

If that is the case I say search online and watch videos. You could learn a lot from that if you are inexperienced. But either or, nothing beats real practice.
/r/seduction17/03/12 02:50 AM
3

You have to know how to dance, dancing is an art. If you just straight grind without moves they will get bored rather quickly. If you want to be good at it you will have to learn how to dance, that can't be just taught with few paragraphs on here. Take classes, watch latin dancing videos on youtube..etc.
/r/seduction17/03/12 01:16 AM
2

Only because I been there, an ex said to me once.. "I can't stand sick people" during my cancer scare. I self reflected a lot of shitty thing she said.
/r/seduction16/03/12 07:18 PM
1

She is probably out with some guy right now, live your own life.
/r/seduction16/03/12 02:39 PM
2

No one stays healthy forever, she saved you the time to find someone who will be there for you when you are at your lowest. Consider yourself lucky.
/r/seduction16/03/12 02:29 PM
1

Approach is not just about gaming while you are at bars, you should try and do it during day time, park and in your case classes. It should be an everyday activity. If you feel drown out take a break, 3 weeks without talking to females is all the motivation you will need lol.
/r/seduction27/02/12 05:48 PM
0

I think a lot of us think being nice = attraction. But in reality it is the exact opposite. The problem I have with this is thread is hat the actual objectification of women is HELPing them, we no longer treat them as someone we should look up to just because they happened to be the opposite sex. If the girl is smart she would be PLAYING you instead. At the end this is like blaming someone who is successful because of his methods, I don't know ANY successtul business that is not built on some le…
/r/seduction27/02/12 05:38 PM
1

And most of the times it is asian women marrying caucasian men. This is prevalent in NYC as well.
/r/seduction19/02/12 11:25 PM
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You approach asian women the same way you approach any woman, don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction18/02/12 07:07 PM
1

I think if anything, seddit taught us to.. brush off the haters and rejections, move on to the next one. I think this can be applied here.
/r/seduction27/01/12 04:02 AM
2

She is not giving it up easily, just proceed as normal and relationship will form.
/r/seduction25/01/12 11:55 PM
2

Up the ante, 200 dollars with 10 dollars back.
/r/seduction23/01/12 01:35 AM
5

She taught me a lesson in life today, RIP.
/r/seduction15/01/12 09:18 PM
2

Good job, part of anything in life is trying. You took your step and succeeded, now you probably walk with a little more swag.
/r/seduction14/01/12 09:04 AM
1

Different women different strokes my friend, don't generalize them all into one group because you dated a few that cared less.
/r/seduction11/01/12 12:15 AM
4

Yeah dinner date is your first mistake. Best bet for a first date is to find a crowded bar for a drink or two (so both of you will have to stand up and face each other.) The smaller the bar the better. Still, I'd like to get to the point where I can choose to interest someone even if they don't interest me. The best way to interest someone is for them to talk about themselves. Check out Dale Carnegie.
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:31 AM
2

Wow, I didn't know santacon was such a hit. I should have hit it up.
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:01 AM
1

I think this girl is probably just semi interested in going out with you, since a) she rejected you from closing, b) she talked about herself non stop instead of trying to get to know you. If you are still interested in her, I say take her to some place where she can't talk so much while you can perform kinos, like a dance club or movies. Problem with this type of conversation is that you will have to PRETEND you are interested in her topics, pick out ones that she seems most interested in and a…
/r/seduction16/11/11 03:42 PM
1

This should be cross posted to /r/getmotivated
/r/seduction08/11/11 07:56 PM
1

Part of the game is knowing when to walk away, be her friend and hit on her friends. But I say don't try too much harder, not even the best of PUAs are 100% of the time.. heck more like 50%.
/r/seduction23/10/11 06:41 PM
1

That is playing the natural tendency of thinking he could get better girls than you, hence not trying. We all want what we can't have. I think the most important part of any risk is the ability to accept the fact that you could walk away from it, that itself makes it attractive.
/r/seduction09/10/11 06:39 AM
1

She already made up her mind, don't worry about it.
/r/seduction09/10/11 06:34 AM
1

I think studying the material itself is important, I've been reading "how to make friends and influence people" and it helped me a lot on human nature, psychology and communication. I think the goal for all of us is not to just try and get better at just talking to girls, but to try our best at becoming a better communicator. Being able to understand how to talk to a person is going to help you a ton more than just being able to say hi to 10 girls a day. But of course all this talk is useless un…
/r/seduction07/10/11 10:10 PM
1

Unfortunately the only way is to get over shyness is to talk to even more girls and do what everyone else said. Since you work out, it should be easy for you to understand how hard it is to push past a plateau. It is the same way with mental boundaries, use it.
/r/seduction07/10/11 10:01 PM
1

I agree with this, ask her if she wants to accompany you to a more comfortable reading place at a (insert coffee place here) while you chat her up about the book, about life.. about anything. Even if she rejects you, get her name first and keep saying hi to her. There is nothing wrong on being friendly.
/r/seduction07/10/11 09:57 PM
1

Even 1% is greater than 0%, good job dude.
/r/seduction07/10/11 09:53 PM
2

Good job man.
/r/seduction07/10/11 09:47 PM
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“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” -Aristotle
/r/seduction04/10/11 07:03 AM
1

So he practiced on another guy first, not a bad way to start.
/r/seduction01/10/11 05:59 PM
4

Or maybe she just think you are not smart enough? It goes both ways.
/r/seduction01/10/11 05:57 PM
1

98% George Clooney, 2% smirk.
/r/seduction01/10/11 06:47 AM
6

Problem is, if the woman chases you.. you are doing something wrong. You should be chasing the ones that you can't get. Aim higher. I am now fixing my attitude of just settle with girls who are so so and into me, if this happens to you.. you can do better.
/r/seduction01/10/11 06:41 AM
3

What the F am I reading, all I see are lol and more lol.
/r/seduction01/10/11 06:39 AM
1

This will only work if you are george clooney.
/r/seduction30/09/11 06:27 AM
1

Great advice, this is easier than looking into her eyes or maybe stoke her hair into a lean in.
/r/seduction30/09/11 06:24 AM
2

The only one-itis you should have is with yourself.
/r/seduction30/09/11 06:11 AM
11

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." -Aristotle
/r/seduction30/09/11 06:06 AM
1

Techniques are just tools, every person will wield it differently. Core concepts will always stay the same, be confident, practice and apply your lessons.
/r/seduction26/09/11 05:36 PM
5

I think when most people say "just be yourself" they meant not to be someone you are not for the short duration of a date. I think I would change if the advice is sound, even if it was from some girl. The ability is admit you are not perfect and have bad habits is the first step to get better.
/r/seduction26/09/11 05:12 PM
1

Unfortunately in this world, being a douch is better than not. If you can't be confident about yourself, how can someone else be confident about you?
/r/seduction25/09/11 09:04 AM
1

If a girl chases you, you are wasting your potentials.
/r/seduction25/09/11 08:53 AM
2

Reading your last paragraph, and then read the second to last again. Who caers about her writing somewhere about you? Don't bother with it.
/r/seduction25/09/11 08:52 AM
8

No, every guy who spends money on a girl and didn't get any is a chump. It is even worse when she expects you to pay everytime. A nicer girl will take you out if she is fair. It doesn't have to be sex, if you kissed or held hands within couple of dates she is interested for sure. But with every date you should push the boundary.
/r/seduction02/09/11 01:30 AM
2

I hope you didn't pay full price for the car.
/r/seduction30/08/11 04:12 AM
1

We get short end of the stick everywhere.
/r/seduction10/08/11 04:45 AM
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