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Just because statistically the odds are stacked against women in SA, doesn't mean the small percentage of men who are raped become meaningless or should be ignored. In the case of consentual sex, I just don't get her argument at all - it takes 2, 2 should be accountable.
/r/MensRights11/11/11 10:52 AM
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EXACTLY! Women are told all the time that if we are molested or raped and experience physical pleasure, its ok - its just a physical response, it doesn't mean it wasn't rape. How the same doesn't apply to men is beyond me!
/r/MensRights10/11/11 02:02 PM
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No problem, I should have been clearer :-)
/r/MensRights10/11/11 01:05 PM
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This is about South Africa but go right ahead and compile that list for Aus. I'd do the same for my country but I don't think there'd be anyone left to vote for.... #anarchism
/r/MensRights10/11/11 12:24 PM
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We do actually exist you know (i.e. women that recognise that all the so-called systems of oppression against women are equally oppressive against men and this whole gender system is a fuck up for us all; and women who recognise that mensrights are increasingly being trampled on in the legal and social structures of society; and women who get irritated with extreme feminists and girls who "play girly" etc etc).
/r/MensRights08/06/11 10:25 AM
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I dont think this poster in anyway contradicts what you are saying - it doesn't provide a reason for why things are this way, it just states how things are - a situation that is unfair on both genders, and especially transgendered people.
/r/MensRights12/04/11 08:14 AM
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i (f) lurk here mostly to laugh at the over-thought out tactics here... seriously, i'd far rather have your approach than half the shit spouted here... and i've said to to people before - cut the crap, tel the person they're hot, and ask them if they want to fuck / date depending on what you're looking for.
/r/seduction19/01/11 11:34 AM
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i wish my father had been this smart. my step mom started cheating on him (he is in no way the perfect partner, so this was not at all the first problem, but rather a symptom of many more) and at the time of him discovering all this there were a few altercations - but she hit him a few times and her son hit him (with a friggin hammer). he tries therapy, says hes committed to fixing the marriage, but she doesn't want to give up her lover, so he files for divorce. she retaliates by laying a charge…
/r/MensRights14/01/11 11:08 AM
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If you're good at writing, why don't you join a book club or creative writing group etc? These environments offer a structured opportunity to engage with other people and you don't need to have personal stories or jokes to share, you discuss the topics/themes at hand. This way you will get practice at social interaction, and maybe make some friends too. i must agree with many others here though - you are convinced you have nothing to offer (everyone has /something/ to offer) and this negative at…
/r/seduction14/01/11 08:15 AM
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o dam there was such a cute thing posted a while back with messages between neighbours - each day the one leaving a funny/romantic card/object in front of the others' door... wouldn't know what to search for though to find the link. anyway, im for more of a direct approach than most here on seddit - simply go over introduce yourself and ask her out.
/r/seduction12/01/11 11:54 AM
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If its about personal development and not manipulation, you should be able to talk freely about it...
/r/seduction07/12/10 08:52 AM
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People who try to commit suicide, especially women, no, I think its just all people who try to commit suicide.
/r/MensRights29/11/10 12:16 PM
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he and I have one thing in common and thats it. We are both alcoholics. Except he is sober and I am not. I got hammered at this party and blacked out and called him. ever think maybe he wants to avoid you because he's scared he'll drink with you?
/r/seduction09/11/10 09:22 AM
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The weekend is here and as usual I'm analyzing my approach trying to find areas I need to improve. I've decided this week I'm going to focus on my verbal flirting. I need to slow it down and relax.
/r/seduction05/11/10 09:21 AM
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sometimes they help to show the tone of the sms - a wink or a smiley can go a long way
/r/seduction03/11/10 10:44 AM
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real mom or not this is out of line. Tell her you have a right to privacy and that includes what underwear you find most comfortable. Say this calmly, in front of your dad and be sure to look at him in the eyes when you're done, so he knows you're serious and either he'll add support then and there, or at the very least if she does it again you can say that you've already expressed your needs here and if he thought it was unreasonable he should have said so then and there.
/r/MensRights22/10/10 11:04 AM
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South Africa
/r/MensRights15/10/10 07:47 AM
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As an African I take huge offence to how lightly you seem to take this issue.
/r/MensRights15/10/10 07:28 AM
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Diamonds are a product of war. How fucking pretty and sweet is war? I agree that there's no wrong or right way, thats why I said you can have a big romantic proposal. Diamonds are not a necessary ingredient for that, though.
/r/MensRights15/10/10 07:07 AM
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1) Even if you do want a romantic proposal, no need for a diamond. 2) My husband proposed to me after eating pizza with friends when we were just climbing into bed. I don't describe it as "meh" in any way - we love each other, life together works, very well, - those are the important things and the fact that he could fit a proposal so easily into our ordinary every day lives and be like "it should be just like this, forever" is far more romantic than making a big splash.
/r/MensRights15/10/10 06:45 AM
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Its not clear whether the teacher is a woman or a man -- you've jumped to the conclusion that it is a woman, which it might be, but men are also susceptable to subscribing to gender-based steroetypes, including about their own gender.
/r/MensRights07/09/10 10:22 AM
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Its rediculous. Approach people in a non-threatening way, with a smile, in public... if they run away screaming and crying harassment, they're fucked up, not you. Go have fun - I promise, not all girls are like that!
/r/MensRights04/08/10 02:48 PM
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I'm not sure why you're getting downvoted :-(
/r/MensRights28/07/10 07:02 AM
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Thats great!! What programme will you volunteer through? Do you know which area specifically you would be placed in? We are VERY diverse and the area makes a big difference to the advice I would give. generally, the programmes for foreign volunteers will give you all the training and support you need - we have a lot of foreign people working in our communities, and many stay for much longer than originally intended. I am a female who comes from a more upper-middle income background, white & engl…
/r/MensRights28/07/10 07:01 AM
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Well, we have feminism for sure. I guess we just have bigger issues to worry about - a lot of feminist groups focus on poverty and safety of women, for example, not tit-for-tat comparison of services. I'm pretty sure our local feminists would recongise the value of having their partners, brothers, sons, breadwinners etc (or even they're extreme "their potential rapists") tested and treated for HIV and TB.
/r/MensRights27/07/10 01:41 PM
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A clinic's role is to heal people, not change society. I say the health system administrators took the right decision, since the alternative would be to let men die. You are right - the clinic is reporting amazing stats in terms of men coming in for first-time testing for HIV. We all know too well how such an initiative would be received, if it was proposed in modern western countries. For the record, cape town is pretty modern, we just have high inequality. I'm curious about this statement of y…
/r/MensRights27/07/10 01:17 PM
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Hey fellow captonian :-) See you did an iama - sorry i missed it, would have been fun to chip in :-)
/r/MensRights27/07/10 12:22 PM
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=D
/r/MensRights27/07/10 10:29 AM
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Not much to say, but your post inspired me to tell this story
/r/MensRights27/07/10 09:38 AM
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Comedians use humour to highlight social and political issues. They do this for issues affecting different genders, sexualities, races, religions, political views etc. I don't think this clip is any different.
/r/MensRights16/04/10 10:28 AM
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yup, female, 25.
/r/MensRights06/04/10 11:12 AM
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I don't get the fuss about rings, either. What I meant by petty was the whole "what do I get in exchange" part --- if you're marrying someone, you shouldn't be so petty about "dollar-for-dollar" spending.... if you don't like her values, then why marry her in the first place... etc
/r/MensRights19/03/10 02:30 PM
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How about ... her parents are paying for the wedding, which often costs a lot more than the ring?? sigh I don't agree with fancy rings or weddings (did the sign papers in court thing myself), but really.... if you this damned petty, its amazing you can find a woman who wants to marry you in the first place...
/r/MensRights19/03/10 12:03 PM
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WTF I am a woman and I totally disagree with the author. Contraception is something that should be discussed between partners. If they agree it is the woman's or the man's responsibility, it is expected that that person meet what was agreed to.
/r/MensRights19/02/10 01:55 PM
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mhm -- no need to be calling the police on each other -- we just found our "roles" -- i cook and do the shopping and most household admin (pay bills, sort stuff out to do with body corporate in our block of flats, make sure cars are serviced etc), he does dishes, maintains our household media/ICT systems. We both do laundry, we both clean up before guests come, and when unusual things pop up (e.g. someone must be home to let someone while we're both at work) it gets decided based on who has the …
/r/MensRights08/02/10 02:51 PM
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Friggin pisses me off (and I'm a woman). Seen it recently -- couple were married 2 years, no kids, both were employed before they got married & had jobs the whole time, signed a pre-nup that his assets were his, hers were hers. SHE has an affair. SHE gets to stay in the house (100% HIS - its in the pre-nup) during the divorce (11 months). During that time she SELLS (i.e. steals) most his furniture, TVs, appliances etc. Still, HE has to pay HER a settlement and the stolen goods are treated as a s…
/r/MensRights27/11/09 01:54 PM
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You are applying a western credit-card swiping stereotype to non-western women...it fails on all accounts. When I was studying sociology a few years back we had a reading to do on a study into expenditure patterns of men vs women. It was startling - female expenditure was dominated by food, clothing, education, while male expenditure was dominated by alcohol, cigarettes and prostitution. There are socio-historical reasons for this, but it doesn't make it any less true.
/r/MensRights08/09/09 12:05 PM
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Ever heard of the feminisation of poverty? In rural areas it is the women who are materially the poorest. Thats why they get the most micr-finance today. Also, in rural/poor areas women are seen as more "reliable" etc due to their tendency to group together and e.g. build houses, form "stokvels" (informal savings schemes), work together on communal gardents etc while the men...well... many are either absent or alcoholics etc (Yes there are socio-historical reasons for this, so its not like a "me…
/r/MensRights08/09/09 12:02 PM
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This is a logical approach... as a woman I must say I don't think I'd agree to 4. I do see how this is problematic (i.e. why are my body rights greater than a man's rights to protect his (future?) offspring etc...). All the rest, sure. Just another reason to be safe!
/r/MensRights07/09/09 09:12 AM
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or, put a condom on.
/r/MensRights07/09/09 09:00 AM
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Relationships = expectations. It sounds like she knows what your expectations are, if not spell them out for her. You expect of a partner xyz in terms of financial contributions, household responsibilities, intellectual stimulation, etc etc. She can similarly share her expectations. If the two sets are irreconcilable, one or both will need to adjust expectations. If they are not irreconcilable, but one of you is not willing to meet a certain expectation, again compromise is needed. If neither ca…
/r/MensRights29/06/09 11:58 AM
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