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DATING ADVICEjkgal/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 08:24 AM
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CMVjkgal/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 08:56 PM
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... you think opinions based on experience are more useful than others... I am putting out my personal experience, but that opinion based on experience is wrong because of (??)... This is getting more ridiculous by the minute... Do you ever read what you post?
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/19 02:30 PM
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That's what a discussion is about... Sharing ideas... Getting more information... Not shutting someone down because they are 5 years too young to talk about something. Don't you see how ridiculous you sound?
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/19 08:19 AM
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Hey, it's your life do what you want. 10-15 years ago it was relatively acceptable to not have a smart phone, it really isn't anymore and I can't imagine how it will be in 10-15 years. Teenagers are pretty shitty, I wouldn't want to put my child in the situation to get bullied. If they would really want a smartphone that's fine even if it is to fit in, if you disagree with them having smartphones they will have to work to buy their smartphones. Doesn't mean if they have a phone you all of the su…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/19 08:03 AM
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Excactly, so I still remember whats going on. And gate keeping is pretty shitty. Like young people cant have insight into this... Could be I studied child psychology and am actually an authority on the matter ;)
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/19 07:48 AM
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I'm a 22 y/o girl who isn't widowed and I feel excactly the same... I know a lot of people who feel similar, although some do 'waste time' on casual relationship while looking for a long term partner. Most know very soon if they want a serious relationship with someone, definitely before date 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 02:32 PM
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If I don't see a guy as potential husband material on the first date why would I want a second date? Seems like a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 02:13 PM
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How old are you? I didn't have facebook until 2014 or something and people thought I was really weird for it, but that was by my own choice and I didn't care. You don't want your child to be the weird one because of you, they will resent you immensely. They will become rebelious, stop communicating, trusting and respecting you and get a secret phone if they want a phone. You cannot control your teenage kids, it will blow up in your face.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/19 02:07 PM
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Do you want your child to be ostracized by their peers?
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/19 01:38 PM
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That rating sub is kinda bullshit. They give weird looking 'model' types high numbers and soft, feminine looking girls 5s and 6s. I think it's mostly incel trolling.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/19 07:59 AM
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It's not about having trouble walking, it could really really help with how much energy you spend every day. https://www.healthline.com/health/how-a-wheelchair-changed-my-life I also have some health problems but I'm going to a reintegration clinic to help with how I can manage my energy levels etc. That could also be something you can look into :) Accepting your condition is very hard but it will get easier with time! 😁
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/19 09:06 PM
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I kinda feel for your friend... Hope she'll find someone else soon
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/19 02:44 PM
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Maybe in 10 years when you guys are both adults and done growing up. I know very few 16 year old boys who would make good husbands, focus on getting into a good college to snatch up a future lawyer ;)
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/19 09:47 AM
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Isn't venting how women bond with other women tho?
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/19 09:31 AM
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I think it might be a good idea to lower your expectations of your self. You're ill, there is basically nothing you can do about that. You won't be able to do the things that everyone else does or you did in the past. It's shitty but you need to accept that. Chronic pain, illness and fatigue are the cards you are dealt in this life, unfortunately. This might mean you do need a caregiver, idk your symptoms or how much you can do in life but it doesn't mean that should be your bf. This doesn't mea…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/19 08:55 AM
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I think you're making quite a leap there...
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/19 04:56 PM
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r/cursedcomments
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 09:29 PM
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I have
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/19 01:07 PM
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Look at you! Killing the party vibe going on... Very edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 10:01 PM
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BEER BREWING IS NOW A FEMININE HOBBY IN MY BOOK! Thanks for that OP ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 04:34 PM
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I think that if you have a positive outlook without deluding yourself it will be a 100% fine! He seems to like you. If that's good for you now then who cares. If you want exclusivity then tell him that, he most likely would want it too based on what you say. :) Just keep your eyes open if this could potentially be your future hubby Edit: just read you guys are exclusive so JUST CALM DOWN. If you don't see any red flags it will be totally fine. (Also don't go imagining red flags)
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/19 04:15 PM
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But it was a post by Whisper! The all knowing!
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/19 04:11 PM
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I also thought I was in the clear after being intimate for the first time... 🙃 My advice would be too not worry too much. It's most likely going to be fine.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/19 10:27 PM
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You know how women are we like too delude ourselves. Be a good man. Let her find someone who does want to marry her. Don't be the kind of guy who ruins women for other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 10:52 AM
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You shouldn't date RP men anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 10:01 AM
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Totally agree. It's just that women have a bit of a time frame to have children but if you don't want children there also really isn't a reason to marry young when you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 09:50 AM
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Guess this person is blind ...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 09:43 AM
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Dude, be kind and dump her. Stringing someone along is not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 09:42 AM
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That's what people do when they are young, dumb and in love. They form a bond for years until they finally face the fact they weren't compatible in the first place. Young people are almost by definition unwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 09:40 AM
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Excactly, so if a woman's goal is to get married why date in an age bracket where the potential partners they aren't marriage minded at all...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 09:37 AM
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What. Are you seriously comparing men who are single over 30 to single moms????? Girl... Also, where are those statistic trends. We can all make up scenarios. Show at least some data.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 09:33 AM
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O shit... I almost took your advice kinda seriously on my thread 🤔 Look, you know nothing at twenty. I'm only two years older and I learned soooooo much in those two years. Things like, the man I want is probably not the man I want in his early 20s. I have heard plenty of times that I take relationships way too seriously from 20-24 year olds. I don't think having marriage as a goal is being way too serious. Men over 30 fucked up before and now are "really serious" about relationship too, that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 09:24 AM
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That's the complete opposite of my personal experience. I also want children in a couple of years (the sooner the better), you think men in their early to mid twenties are ready for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 09:11 AM
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And if you don't put out men will look for another gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 05:32 PM
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I really don't want a terp. I'm talking only about RPW, where it is also very much encouraged to have a low body count but also said that you should put out in a reasonable time frame. It's basically very contradictory advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:57 AM
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If you're going by trp it doesn't matter if that 1+ n is because of a ONS or a 3 month relationship. So, slowly I'm worth less because of my failed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 11:05 PM
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Finding a man who fit so well with me, doing everything right and still it not working out is pretty much a failure imo. And this isn't the only case, it's a pattern. So, it had worked 0% of the time for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:59 PM
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Can you just believe what I'm saying? If I wouldn't be pretty I would say so... If I wouldn't be pleseant I would say so... So what could the problem be?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:45 PM
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What could be the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:38 PM
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I might agree with you a little bit... 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:35 PM
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He didn't have the time for a relationship, we also lived pretty far away from eachother (about 1hr).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:32 PM
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Yes, because I went for men who specifically wanted what I want and who I am very compatible with. Being a kind and feminine woman is apparently so rare that men don't find them often. So basically being nice is all you need to do to keep a man. That's what RPW says.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:30 PM
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I'm a very attractive young girl. Can't really change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:27 PM
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I was specifically told it wasn't because of my health.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:27 PM
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Ofcourse!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:26 PM
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... do you mean sex? I can get all the sex I want bb
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:24 PM
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I'm in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:23 PM
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Rpw does. That's what I'm talking about, not your personal opinion. Just be pretty and be nice. O, and cook and give blowies. Should definitely be married by now if those are the pointers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:22 PM
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Keeping a home tidy is not a huge amount of work if you have good systems. Thing I am worried about is bearing and raising kids... That seems like it would take A LOT of energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:20 PM
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I'm at least two points hotter than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:17 PM
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Then why do they continue with it while I tell them before the first date? Honestly, guys (good ones, which I go for) are surprisingly ok with it. So, there is something else going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:16 PM
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Where is my ring, buddy? I also don't count dating between 3/4 months as a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:11 PM
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Between 8 and 12 years older. So quite a bit older.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:08 PM
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I really don't know, ask him...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:07 PM
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Well, because I'm less active I eat less. Sooooo, that's already saving some money 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:07 PM
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I try to date more dominant men :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:04 PM
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I do date a bit older, late 20s early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:04 PM
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3 and some real short ones. Last one was because he was 'too busy', the one before didn't see me as wife material and the one before that send me a whole wall of text without really saying anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:02 PM
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Well, according to RPW it doesn't really matter if you're pretty enough. Don't think I would even get a second or third date if I was that useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 09:58 PM
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I read a bit of that but imo it's basically the excact same thing as the surrendered wife, at least the base principles. Edit: RPW women has changed drastically. It's a dating advice sub now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 09:57 PM
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O trust me, I'm not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 09:56 PM
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They do kina tend to smell after a whils, so put some baby powder on your feet before you put em on and they will stay fresh
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 07:17 PM
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So, it's basically a lose/lose situation. Wait for sex and he won't bother, have sex and watch your body count rise hoping this one will stick.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 05:15 PM
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The last guy I dated I waited for us to be exclusive... I mean, what else can I do. Wait till marriage, I don't think I want that.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 05:11 PM
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That's great and all but I've been following all advice to 'not switch partners' here for quite a while and one hasn't stuck yet... So, if I would follow this advice (just have sex whenever you think you found a good one, be a good girl and he will commit) would quickly turn me into a slut. So idk what to do, dude...
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 12:17 PM
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Oef... Prepare to be barked at when he marries you 😬
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/19 02:49 PM
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I would say basic sewing and cooking skills are just adulting. Are you going to throw out a shirt when it looses a button? And are you going to always order food? That sound really wasteful...
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/19 02:42 PM
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No, it doesn't.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 07:57 PM
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That sounds pretty great! I have some good friends who visit me sometimes, maybe they know someone who could be a good match for me. I'll bring it up :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 03:40 PM
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I would say since you can't fix your condition you should focus on making sure the next guy you have is easily accessible. Yeah, that would be a good idea...
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 02:24 PM
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It's an emoji, calm down...
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 02:16 PM
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Lately I only date guys who want a long term relationship, it was the plan with this guy. The men in my social circles aren't really compatible with me... I live in a pretty religious town and I'm not religious at all :/
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 02:14 PM
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General support system, good at resolving conflict, keeping a tidy house and feeding everybody. Low drama. Just basically someone who makes the husbands life more comfortable.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 02:08 PM
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Well, to that second part. The best thing about me is that I'm very emotionally mature for my age and that I'm a very caring person. I think that is why I come so far in dating these guys but something is missing to make me wife material. It could be that I'm not 100% healthy but I have been told that's not it. So, I think there is something I'm missing but I don't really know what. I feel like I'm being excactly how a 'good wife' should be...
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 01:55 PM
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You can be a kind, compassionate partner while having lower energy...
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 01:46 PM
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As honest and objective as I can be I think we were on a level playing field. And both of us are just good people, which helps.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 01:28 PM
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That already helps 😊
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 01:26 PM
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I have been in and out of doctors offices for almost two years now and they really don't know. I'm going to revalidation clinic next month, I'm getting a diagnosis there for insurance reason (most likely something like CFS). I cannot live a functional life at the moment and I am dating guys who are understanding of that, I'm REALLY careful in vetting for that. It could be they change their minds suddenly after a few months but they tell me it has nothing to do with my health (this guy was very r…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 01:22 PM
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She's wearing clothes... Hard to tell 'how old' a body looks when they are wearing clothes. She looks pretty youthful.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 12:35 PM
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😭
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 12:18 PM
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I bring it up on the first date, it's a very big part of who I am and what I can do. If I bring it up after a while and hide it I would feel like I'm lying. Making it seem like a 'better deal' than it is.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 12:18 PM
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I'm quite pretty and I'm 22. The latest one thought I was very beautiful. I don't know if it's genetic, I don't even have a diagnosis. He could still have biological children, if it is a genetic illness. Or just have them, I'm happy even though I'm ill. And I basically only use Okcupid I don't think the latest one was much better than me, we were about the same level of attractiveness. Maybe I'm slightly more good-looking then him but we both got hit on a few times when we went out and the other…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 12:16 PM
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Yep, it sucks
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 10:31 AM
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I did very well with this one on these points, we had a really cute relationship. I think this was mostly a logistical break up, still sucks tho. And I'll try to not get too down and defeated. I'm also still in the crying it out phase, hopefully I just need some time 😅
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 10:31 AM
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