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Social media has changed things a lot
/r/askTRP26/07/20 04:21 PM
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Definitely different for less attractive girls who sometimes have to compensate, but yeah I'm talking about attractive girls
/r/askTRP26/07/20 04:21 PM
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Yeah that's what I'm thinking, TRP can make such a big difference
/r/askTRP26/07/20 04:20 PM
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Ahaha yeah it's pretty crazy
/r/askTRP26/07/20 04:20 PM
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There's so many guys answering this thread who are clearly butthurt and not getting laid, it's actually sad. Having female friends can allow you to: - Get good feedback on your style, haircuts, etc. - Get introduced to their hot female friends (i can't count how many hot girls I've hooked up with because they were introduced to me by one of my female friends) - Learn more about female psychology and see what types of guys they go for, etc. - Have free social proof when going to any kind of party…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 12:46 PM
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Nofap / noporn is terrible for being able to last longer. Back when I tried nofap, my sex skills when to complete shit, and I would cum fast like a retard - and that's from someone banging new girls consistently. What I recommend is using a Fleshlight to masturbate which simulates a real pussy and can allow you to practice lasting longer. Try using a Fleshlight for 10min+, at first you won't be able to last longer than 1 minute. It will train you to last longer + desensitize you to sex which wil…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:13 PM
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I can't decide whether all the basic red pill mistakes you've made here are sad or funny. Lemme list a few: - Going on Facetime dates??? What the hell is this, you're not her phone buddy - you're trying to GET LAID. Can't fuck over the phone as far as I know, maybe I'm just too old school. I would only ever do Facetime dates occasionally with a committed LTR. - Going on 4 dates and having sex on the 4th (technically 6th with Facetime)? How much time did you spend with this girl, do you even have…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 09:47 PM
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"getting to know multiple people at once isn’t my thing." You're breaking a basic law of life and business - the person who has the least options / is the most dependent on something or someone will ALMOST ALWAYS LOSE. This is why you don't rely on a single source of income for example - because the chances of having issues are massive compared to someone who has 5 sources of income. This is why you should not depend on a job and have other ways of making money. And it's the same reason why you …
/r/askTRP22/07/20 09:26 PM
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You went bankrupt and you're still thinking about a GIRL? I don't care if she's your girlfriend, a wife of 20 years, or even your frigging best friend. If I was bankrupt, I'd be working 18h a day until I was making bank, and disregard everything else except maybe my health. Switch up your mindset OP, you haven't swallowed the red pill
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:30 PM
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It's because muscle mass is only a small element of the "looks" part of your SMV. Your looks are determined by: Your facial features (symmetry and masculinity), your height (6' being neutral, anything under a negative, anything over a positive), your hygiene and sense of style, and finally your body. For younger girls (22 and under), height and facial features matter a lot more than muscles. For girls from 22 to 27, your body is probably 25-30% of the looks equation. In surveys, researchers cons…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 09:37 AM
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It's mostly been my experience as well, only with attractive girls tho. A lot of the plating advice on TRP applies well to girls in the HB5-7 range, but HB8s+ are a lot harder to plate (it's usually either ONS or relationship kinda thing). It's just the way the sexual marketplace works There's a few girls (usually very confident ones, who know their value extends beyond sex) who are down to be casual (i.e plates) for several months, but those are only like 10-20%. Most of the time, you can bang …
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:48 AM
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Yeah there's also a lot of dating advice for girls that has popped up online. Just like guys' profiles in general have gotten significantly better (pictures, bios, etc.), women have become increasingly strategic on these apps (whether it's getting IG followers, getting free orbiters or finding a boyfriend). Just gotta sort through the crap
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:23 AM
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Yeah man I run Tinder pretty heavily as well, I think what's happened is most girls on there were "scammed" (I say that jokingly ofc) by a guy at some point (i.e they were plated and banged for 3-9 months but the guy never committed), so they're a bit more suspicious now. Key is finding girls who like you enough to not give a shit whether you commit in my experience
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:59 AM
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Dude instead of talking to some random chick for 2-3h a day, at 17 you should be working towards becoming successful - learning about business or whatever field of interest you wanna be involved in, learning about how the world works (psychology, design, history, economics, etc.), starting projects to gain experience and possibly a side hustle, learning to cold approach women effectively, working out and learning about good gym routines, etc. There are SO MANY better things you can do right now …
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:51 AM
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Dude you're breaking so many basic red pill laws here, it's like being a judge trying to explain to a guy why he's going to jail after kiling 30 people while doing insider trading and leading a bank robbery being high on cocaine and heroin
/r/askTRP20/07/20 11:31 PM
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I've had dermal fillers done to make my face more masculine, the results have been absolutely incredible. I get compliments about being handsome, etc. all the time now, less resistance for escalation, etc.. Height is 6'2 tho so that's a big advantage. Also FYI to the guys in the comments saying "5'11 isn't short", for dating top 9s-10s casually, 5'11 is indeed short. The standards for casual sex with really hot girls are insane - and I'm saying this as someone who "made the cut" so to speak. Doe…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 01:18 PM
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Most of the comments of guys on here talking about money - money is terrible for getting casual sex / lust. Status and looks are what you should really focus on
/r/askTRP19/07/20 09:49 PM
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Getting lots of attractive women to have casual sex with you consistently is not "realistic" either. Most great things in life are not "realistic", and most people will never get them (money, success, happiness, success with women, etc.). At least there's a path to get there, I just outlined it above
/r/askTRP19/07/20 05:19 PM
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It's good that you're realistic, ignore the guys saying "it's all in your head". Now that you know and have accepted the reality, there's no point dwelling on it - you can build a plan based on that. As an ugly guy, you will need to massively compensate to get the same attractive girls a hot guy can get. Your first step should obviously to get in EPIC shape (we're talking perfect muscular body, 6-pack, etc.). You should also focus on becoming a millionaire within the next 5-10 years by building …
/r/askTRP19/07/20 09:55 AM
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Yeah that's my thinking, the ROI of seeing a hot girl as a FWB for 6 months is very good, even with having to do 5 dates upfront
/r/askTRP16/07/20 09:10 PM
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True true, gotta watch out for those
/r/askTRP16/07/20 09:10 PM
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I understand the idea, but I'd rather be a "beta provider" who bangs a hot girl every week for 6 months than an "alpha male" who bangs hot girls within 3h but sees them for 2 weeks lol
/r/askTRP16/07/20 09:09 PM
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My typical response is the "getting along / interested" and exaggeration frame, which is quite hilarious and informative at the same time - and then afterwards doing a similar thing myself. In practice, I'll be like "oh damn, do you think this guy has a big dick?", or "Wow, I wish guys like this were hitting on me too", or genuinely seeming interested in the guy "What is he studying", etc. "I'm sure he'd make a great boyfriend" is a good line too. After doing that, either I'll show her a text I …
/r/askTRP16/07/20 08:07 PM
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I get almost all the girls I date on Tinder - what guys don't understand is that it's basically a number's game. First you have to get a profile in the top 5-10% of male Tinder users (be low-body fat, jacked, with pro pictures), and then you run boosts a few times a week. Ideally with that you get like 50-200 matches per week, and out of those depending on how picky you are you can get 2 to 20 dates per week. Girls not responding is fairly normal, especially more attractive ones. Just gotta play…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 04:37 PM
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That's a super lame excuse lol, I've been with loads of girls escalating agressively, never had any issue. If they say no it just means no, that's all you need to know
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:36 PM
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I see 2 possible cases here: You've already banged a lot of quality girls before (30-50+), and feel like right now girls are not needed for you and you wanna focus on other things - totally fair. One of my buddies is high SMV and could bang girls but chooses not to to focus on his career right now - after 6 months, he's tripled his income. It works lol You haven't been with enough girls before, and in this case your post is mostly a big rationalization, and you need to start pursuing women aggre…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 10:48 AM
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Just do a hair transplant man it's pretty common nowadays. Unless you have crazy defined facial features and are in amazing shape (i.e The Rock, etc.), it's almost impossible to pull off being bald and hot. You need a very strong jawline and cheekbones to do that, which most guys absolutely don't have
/r/askTRP14/07/20 10:09 PM
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I agree, although I don't really see how the hobbies part would get more girls aha but the cold approach thing makes sense. What I will say tho is that from what I've observed, guys who do a lot of cold approach definitely get girls, but they're typically not very attractive girls. Might be due to low SMV tho
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:29 PM
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I agree, finding a girl who is really hot and LTR material in the under-22 age range is really tough though. Needle in a haystack kind of problem
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:27 PM
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Damn solid advice and straight to the point. Yeah I definitely don't really use game anymore and typically get away with it. A buddy of mine does daygame regularly so I'll go out with him, gotta get back on that cold approach train
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:26 PM
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Sex is usually very good, might need to make it even better lol. I do wonder if retaining plates and seeing them often is really doable when they're really hot tho
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:24 PM
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Never said my cock was magic lol. In that case my issue is probably plate management, because I've rarely been able to have an attractive girl as a non-exclusive plate see me weekly, or only for very brief periods of time and then they lose interest. I've considered getting an LTR before, most hot girls in the 18-20 age range are a legit wreck tho (I'm 22)
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:39 PM
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Just because I'm having some success doesn't mean I can't do better. Lying on here would be pathetic
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:38 PM
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I've had periods in the past where I railed through like 5 HB5-6s per week, and honestly it just doesn't feel good if I'm not super attracted to the girls I bang. Obviously I can still get physically hard lol, but I'm sure there's a way to get more girls who are still hot
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:05 PM
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I see. There are 2 things that come to mind: In a social circle, your status within that social circle is the name of the game. You need to be the leader / top dog - and if you're not, I would recommend starting to organize stuff yourself (events, meetups, parties, etc.) to basically "take over". If that doesn't work / not an option, I would literally create your own new social circle where you'll be the top dog by default. This should help you attract and close these hotter girls. In a cold app…
/r/askTRP13/07/20 06:57 PM
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How do you meet these girls? Cold approach (daygame/nightgame?)? Online dating? Social circle? To estimate your actual SMV, can you tell us your financial / work situation (any kind of status you might have)? Do people tell you you're handsome / good-looking or not? Do you use Instagram? And how old are you? Based on that I'll be able to tell you the missing link in your SMV, or if there aren't any have a few guesses as to what is going wrong.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:54 PM
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Dammit, so my mom lied when she said I was good-looking? :(
/r/askTRP13/07/20 01:10 PM
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Fair, scale is slightly different in that case. But most guys are massive losers and thirst over 6s on any kind of scale lol, so not sure that's a good way to calculate it
/r/askTRP13/07/20 01:09 PM
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I would defo fuck that girl btw, just wouldn't date her or probably even not plate her unless she has an amazing personality or very smart too
/r/askTRP13/07/20 01:02 PM
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I've been very picky my whole life, which is both a curse and a blessing aha. A 9-10 for me is a girl like Madison Beer or a young Megan Fox. Nowadays it's pretty much impossible for a girl to be a 9-10 without some sort of filler or surgery. Keep in mind a 9-10 girl is like 1 in a 1000, so it's very rare
/r/askTRP13/07/20 01:02 PM
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As I said, I'd rate her a 7 with makeup on a good night out. Probably 6-6.5 ish without makeup and high heels. If this girl is a 9, I have a rotation of 5 different 10s right now lol, but let's not delude ourselves into thinking we date hotter girls than we really are. Being objective about this helps to stay humble and get hotter girls long term
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:55 PM
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I'm just being specific here because I'm kinda sick of guys bragging they date 9s and 10s when they're dating 6s and 7s lol
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:52 PM
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A 9 is a legitimate signed model or a girl who could make a career out of her looks. That girl is clearly under 175 (5'8) (meaning she's short), doesn't have high cheekbones, her chin is small and retracted, her eyes are drooping, her lips are small and non-prominent her hairline is retracted, the tip of her nose is slightly crooked. Only thing she has is a nice jawline, above average forward growth and decent facial symmetry. She's a 7 at best with makeup on a good night out
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:51 PM
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If that girl is an HB9, my grandmother is an HB10
/r/askTRP13/07/20 09:49 AM
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I've been in your shoes man, first thing to realize is about 20-60% of the time (depending on your looks and escalation "smoothness"), it has nothing to do with you. Maybe the girl just banged a guy who never called her back so she had a big "realization". Maybe her friend told her it's not good to hook up with a guy before a relationship. Maybe she's not ovulating so she's looking for a provider. These things are outside your control. Here's what you can control: Do everything you can to become…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 02:01 PM
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Most problems like that come from poor brain chemistry. Look into improving your diet - try out a paleo-style diet, or a plant-based diet, but basically get in more "green" stuff and high-quality protein in your diet, makes a big difference for mood/focus. Go to the gym 3x per week and do some cardio or sprints 2-3x per week, also has a massive impact on your mood, anxiety, etc. Make sure you hang out with friends (not just girls you wanna bang) at least 1-2x per week doing fun stuff. Lastly, wa…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:34 AM
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There are tons of things to learn from them - for example, it's super rare to see a "hot" guy who is above 14% body fat. They also generally have a unique style that brands them into a "niche" (the business guy, the skater guy, the gym guy, etc.). They're generally above average in muscularity (tho generally not "huge" either). And again, they have some sort of status (the CEO, the social media influencer, the musician, the nightclub promoter, etc.). All these are things you can replicate if you…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:29 AM
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It's mostly bullshit, the way guys with seemingly lower SMV get hot girls is because they've known them for a long time, and are perceived as "cool" within their small social circle. Happens a lot in high school / early college. But in the "real world" (i.e adults over 19-20), SMV is king and if you see an average guy with a super hot girl he's typically a provider (i.e either has money or provides emotional comfort) - or most often he's not dating her in the first place. Keep in mind that if th…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:18 AM
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