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Question for RedPilljkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 11:08 PM
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jkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:16 PM
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Discussionjkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:18 AM
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Alljkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 01:58 AM
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Q4Wjkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:37 PM
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Question for Red Pilljkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 08:49 PM
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jkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 11:05 PM
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OFF TOPICjkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 11:14 AM
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CMVjkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:35 PM
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Question for RedPilljkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 03:02 AM
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CMVjkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 03:07 AM
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jkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 09:05 PM
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Question For Menjkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:45 AM
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jkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 10:25 PM
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Question for RedPilljkonrad/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 08:36 AM
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It’s true right up to the point before you fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:03 AM
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We don’t. We can’t relate, any more than they can relate to our challenges as men. What we do is hold them when they need to be held, kiss away their tears and help them up. Knowing why they suffer is not required. Just be an oak. An oak doesn’t talk. It’s just there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:38 AM
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Vague signals from women? It’s like searching for a lost vessel. Any signal is enough to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:56 AM
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Timidity usually finds some overlap among man groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:42 AM
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It’s not that they’re necessarily unattractive, it’s that they won’t pursue or seduce a woman. Also they are oftentimes oblivious to when a woman wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:03 AM
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Jesus. Just re-subbed and I had forgotten how these displays of mewling self-pity are so gross. Partly why I left, come to think of it. This post should be removed and the poster banned, they’ve nothing useful to contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:25 PM
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Easy. Women are naturally monogamous. Men are not. Ergo, women will desire monogamous relationships more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:19 PM
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BP strategies only work if you’re already a bit Red Pilled. Even if one doesn’t realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:02 PM
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Well no shit. When one is led by emotion instead of principle, everything is fluid. There’s nothing solid to stand on. No boundaries and no limits. It’s postmodernism of the soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 08:41 AM
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Ah, gotcha. Thanks for your work here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 02:01 PM
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It was posted only 3 hours ago. Perhaps they’re taking a nap...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 01:47 PM
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Crazy isn’t always obvious. Crazy can be fun. Crazy can be good in the sack.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 02:07 PM
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When you fuck a lot of women you’re more likely to stick your dick in crazy. The basement loser is far less likely to encounter this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 07:57 PM
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Ignored?! How can we ignore it, female insecurity is on full display wherever one looks. See feminism, intersectionality, wokeness, grievance culture, et al. The emotion-based approach the left have adopted has its roots in the feminine nature. Feelings are paramount. Hurt feelings is violence. Outrage is argument. I know I took it in another direction than the relationship angle but it’s a far better demonstration of feminine insecurity run amuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 03:31 AM
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An air of mystery can help. Worked for me when I was younger. Didn’t feel mysterious, lol, but that’s what girls saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 02:18 PM
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My Chilton manuals are dog-eared.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 10:17 AM
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That’s pretty much what all emotionally mature adults do naturally, we just don’t need technology to help us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 05:25 PM
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Wasn’t always like this. The further you go back in time, the more you’ll see men taking pride in their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 02:04 AM
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If you want to fix marriage, fix loser men. Hence TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:34 PM
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At least the “virgin” Mary didn’t accuse Joseph of rape. She only cheated on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 05:52 PM
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Well, we know woman were more happy then than they are now, so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 03:06 PM
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Experience. I know and see plenty of good, proper dudes with less than stellar looks who have no problems having relationships and getting laid. Pointing me to a couple losers isn’t a very good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:10 PM
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Different things matter in different contexts. Dick size is pretty important in certain situations, too. But not all situations. And what’s the one thing that allows a below-average looking man to get with attractive women? Personality. So personally trumps looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:54 PM
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We will need an infinite number of new terms, since apparently there’s an infinite number of genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:50 PM
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Trumps everything but personality. And RP teaches you how to improve your personality. So RP wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:32 PM
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80 years ago both FDS and RP would’ve been completely normal and unremarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:31 AM
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Suicidepill is the ultimate. Blackpill is one step below that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:47 AM
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Heh. “Sexual socialism.” I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 10:27 PM
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Low count women are likely to have better impulse control.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 10:21 PM
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Trading up. Men do it out of practicality, women because evo-psych.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:32 AM
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It’s a reactionary position, not a positive, declarative one. It’s a bunch of weak men identifying how women treat weak men and working to improve the situation, by both explaining and calling out this reaction by women, and teaching men to be strong and masculine. They are reacting to an epidemic of weak men we have in the US. If these weak men (“betas,” as they call themselves) didn’t exist, neither would TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 07:16 PM
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Some, but not all, or even most. Some of their “thought leaders” are, like GLO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:44 PM
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Why did you leave RPW? Sounds right up your alley, especially considering your criticisms of FDS. Not that RPW is perfect, but it’s better than nothing if a healthy feminine community is what you’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 11:05 PM
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Women can do what they want. Being a man, I’m not in a position to understand the emotional import of sex and romance to them. Even though I understand women more than most, I still don’t really understand. I’ll never feel or perceive things how they do. Nor do I spend any time fantasizing about the sex she’s had with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 05:31 PM
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What’s the logic of irresponsible single mothers who had babies out of wedlock? If you want to talk about responsibility, start with taking responsibility for what goes into and out of your vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 04:24 PM
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CMV- Most dating advice in this sub and other subs are more depressing and anxiety inducing than helpful to men and they should seek answers somewhere else. And... Everytime I see dating advice here, or in Theredpill or in Seduction, I get anxious, depressed and end up angry. Make up your mind. It it depressing for the men, or for you? I believe this is what’s called “projecting”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:06 AM
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This seems black pillish...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 06:53 AM
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Heh. Caught me. But it turns out my first instincts were correct. This line of hers says it all: If we’re looking for an LTR, we want to know that we can be friends first. Friendship is not the basis of a healthy romantic relationship. It’s not “Friendship Plus.” Romantic relationships arise from the feminine/masculine polarity. It’s the dominant/submissive dynamic. A woman’s attraction isn’t based on enjoying the same video games, it’s based on my manly attributes, and her feminine ones. The au…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 05:28 PM
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women treat their casual sexual partners better than they treat their long term relationship partners. They what now? That’s ridiculous. Obviously you’ve never seen a woman in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 06:39 AM
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It’s those power and domination attributes that builds nations and reshapes the physical world to our benefit and is responsible for all the nice things you have. It is because of our dominion over this earth that we even survive as a species. So to put it bluntly, your theory is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:13 PM
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This sub is not representative of general polite society. God help us if it was, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:22 AM
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“Men are not visual creatures,” she tells herself, as she puts on her push-up bra and makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 11:08 PM
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Your answer is literally in the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 10:26 PM
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How dare you imply that weak men have anything to do with how women treat them. Next thing you’ll tell us is that weak men can’t attract quality women because they’re weak. As if it’s the guy’s fault that women become less attracted the more they get to know him. Just outrageous. You’re blaming the victim, here. These poor men are the victim of widespread Weakism, and you are perpetrating violence upon them with your words. #WeakMenMatter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 01:08 PM
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All right, fair enough. I think if you think hard about it, you’re not going about it in an efficient way. If you have some positive, useful advice to give, start posting in TRP to help them out. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 04:05 PM
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Read the success stories. Lots of guys do exactly what you described. You’re focusing on the losers and bashing them for some reason, but everyone has to start somewhere. Would you rather have the basement dwelling autists continue in their misery, or at least have some chance of coming out of that lifestyle by hanging out at TRP? Lots of men will never make it out. But at least with RP concepts they have a chance. Where else would they get this kind of info and influence if they haven’t gotten …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 03:59 PM
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Right. Then what’s the problem? You can see how weak-minded RP men are. How they display few of those virtues. Isn’t it valuable that TRP (or anyone else) is helping weak men become more masculine? To be better men all around? I don’t get what your issue is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 03:52 PM
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Looking for specific characteristics. What is the male role?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 03:39 PM
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How would you define masculinity? How is it essential for the lives and mental health of men? It sounds like you have no idea what it is or how important it is, so you have no idea what TRP is trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 03:28 PM
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Depends on how you define “abusive”. By the current definition, it’s vastly understated. In fact I’m probably being abusive right now just by writing this, depending on how the reader feels after reading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 04:04 AM
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AWALT is also a generalization. Again, you’ll need to learn how generalizations work if you’re to even understand concepts like AWALT. Cheers. I’ll give you the last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 04:40 PM
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You’ll need to learn how generalizations work in order to have useful conversations here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 04:33 PM
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Are you seriously claiming the scenario as I described it is untrue for every woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 04:23 PM
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It’s a generalization, as all of these things are. Obviously not every woman is the same. Women are naturally monogamous to the extent that her sex and emotions are intertwined. When a woman is deeply in love with her man, she is consumed by it. He is her world. There’s simply no room for that same level of affection to be felt for multiple men simultaneously. Now if she’s not completely in love, her eyes might stray. But if she’s thoroughly emotionally invested, she’s in a state of natural mono…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 04:11 PM
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Except women are naturally monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 01:13 PM
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Sure. For successful people who have worked to accomplished something significant in their life, having a legacy could be very important. If you’re just some loser, well, you probably don’t care about much of anything. Instead of just listening to what people say and taking it at face value, think to yourself why they might be saying what they’re saying. Ask yourself, what type of person says those kinds of things?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:53 PM
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Agreed. People’s standards are just rising, as they always are. For both men and women. There are always people right on the line of “acceptable attractiveness” who are left behind when their personal standards don’t keep up with the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 10:02 PM
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Shhhhh! Feminists are more likely to avoid us if they think all that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 03:46 AM
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No such thing. For example, a feminist might tell you that violence is a part of toxic masculinity. When you ask her what she thinks about her man violently defending her and their children, her eyes will glaze over. Ask her if she would honor his memory as a hero if he died violently protecting his family, or if she would claim he died of “toxic masculinity”. Watch her face. If she has any humanity left at all she will begin to weep and rethink her life. Every supposedly “toxic” behavior is a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 03:21 AM
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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 Boy Scouts https://www.scouting.org/ How to Keep a Diary https://www.skillsyouneed.com/ps/diary-journal.html
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 11:59 PM
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It’s odd to me how there is never a discussion Well as it turns out, this very thing is discussed at great length in TRP. You might want to familiarize yourself with basic RP principles before posting in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 01:23 PM
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Ahh the latest entry in the long-running multi-part multi-user narrative entitled Why Am I Failing: A Substitute for Action. Always great reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:33 PM
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Integrity. Honor. Pride. The usual things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:20 PM
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In time a harem singularity will form.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:31 PM
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Nobody said it was fucking easy. Why are you so concerned with “easy”? There’s a word for people who always look for the easy: “Lazy.” (Speaking generally, not you personally)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:13 PM
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Fuck confidence. You don’t have confidence as a child. You have curiosity, perseverance, an adventuresome spirit, bravery and other virtues. Confidence comes later, as a result of more fundamental virtues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:58 PM
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They won’t, but you will. Since you’ll never know for sure, you will always suspect that you don’t measure up to the other men she’s been with. You’ll continue to live in fear until you fix the self-confidence issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:49 PM
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Only the cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:43 PM
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Harems here, harems there, Chad harems everywhere! There are so many harems that they’ve even started their own MMA league, where the winning harem gets some group time with the reigning Chaddiest Chad McChadster. I actually had to form a harem just to manage all my other harems. Harems can be more work than you might think, so be careful what you wish for. YouTube has some videos if you’re interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:46 PM
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It already is mainstream. Or was. Masculinity is nothing new. TRP exists for those men who never got the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:38 AM
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Nonsense. Girls learn quickly the kind of guy they should avoid, yet keep coming back for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 12:50 AM
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It’s curious how little you understand women when you claim to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:33 PM
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They hold themselves and other women to this high standard of beauty and behavior but they have very low standards when it comes to men. Because... men and women are different. Are you unaware of this fact? Concepts like “beauty” doesn’t mean the same thing to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:32 PM
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The women who do it themselves certainly don’t have a problem with it. Many women who fuck players and get dumped don’t seem to mind either, as they keep doing it. So no, lots of women don’t have any issues with it whatsoever. But I don’t think that’s even preached by TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 01:09 PM
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Most women don’t have a problem with TRP principles when explained in a reasonable, non-autistic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 12:29 AM
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I think it’s pretty easy to make a million dollars these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 11:21 PM
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Dated one for a bit back in the day. Fascinating creatures. If people really grasped what narcissism is, they wouldn’t be so surprised at any of Trump’s bizarre behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:38 AM
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If they were narcissists, they would have already been getting laid. The problem is that TRPers need to be more narcissistic to fix some of their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:26 AM
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My experience says you’re lying. I’ve never ever ever heard this pathetic, self-pitying sentiment expressed in real life. Then again, I don’t spend any time around pathetic, self-pitying people. Besides which, it doesn’t even pass the smell test. Logistically, how would you even know the complete sexual history if some chick you’ve known for a few weeks? How would you come by the knowledge that she’s “holding out on you” somehow? Naw. This is a concern that exists online, to the kind of resentfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 09:38 PM
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I wouldn’t worry about it. When you start having sex, you’ll just be happy to be getting laid. You’re working yourself all up over nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 07:58 PM
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It was a CMV attempt, and I was correct. They were not arguing in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 03:08 PM
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What an odd fear to have. What specifically do you think chicks did with other guys that they are not doing with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 11:53 PM
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Ah, being open makes more sense. I like it. I could see how it could indeed feel liberating and allow people to more easily express their kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:40 PM
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Interesting approach. Care to share the pros and cons?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:13 PM
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Every dude with a social life knows a 5 that’s scored with online dating. Get out more. But ya know, they’re 5s who don’t go online and whine about their lives, searching for pity from strangers, so there’s that...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 07:04 AM
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Weak men can give good advice to other weak men, because they understand each other. In fact, the only kind of guys who gets off on “leading” a bunch of weak men are, you guessed it, weak men. Only weak men can handle hearing all the weak-ass shit that comes out of weak men’s mouths. When a proper man reads TRP his reaction is “Ewwww.” A loser probably won’t be able to process subtle or advanced advice about life. He needs more basic, fundamental information. And the people who know best what he…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 01:26 AM
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He’s basically asking women to a) stop being women, and b) magically comprehend what life is like as a man, and finally, pathetically, c) feel sorry for the supposedly awful plights of life that all men suffer through. All this time and he still hasn’t learned anything about women. And he’s still searching for pity from strangers on the internet. I wish this poor man the best but I fear the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:10 PM
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Understand monogamy is hard for men it’s difficult for me to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:44 PM
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I can’t count the number of times I’ve told an incel who was complaining about looks-matching—or wtf they call it—to go to a mall. Seriously. They’d see all different kinds of looks and shapes and sizes and colors and varieties all dating each other. They’d notice that all the ugly guys with cute chicks had one thing in common: personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:27 PM
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Agree. The normal, healthy dude who is active in a couple social circles will get laid even if he’s not trying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 12:40 PM
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If you’re a player, you’re always a player. Only the field might change.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:07 PM
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It’s not women’s responsibility to mold you into a man. Nor is it society’s. That’s your job. You’re failing at being a man because you keep waiting for other people to do it for you. Doesn’t work like that, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:17 PM
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The guys complaining about being fooled aren’t quite telling you the full story. They’re not angry that society lied to them... they’re mad because nobody took them by the hand and walked them through how to be a man and patted them on the head when they done good. What they don’t understand is that nobody gets a Masculinity Manual at 18. We all had to figure it out on our own. Those that were up for the task, that is. Those that were strong enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 08:43 PM
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The ones complaining about women are the ones not getting laid. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:12 PM
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We can’t cover every situation here. In general, just listen. Hold her. Flirt. Fuck her. Show her that you think she’s attractive and worth your time, through your time together. Through your actions. Talk is cheap, and usually way too specific and requires too much guess-work. Say the wrong thing, guess incorrectly, and not only could you be insulting, but now with your misdiagnosis she might feel that you don’t even know her. If you’re her man, and you’re a proper man, she will be somewhat com…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:58 AM
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Don’t offer unsolicited advice, or as in this case, unsolicited comfort. It’s annoying (to be kind) in general society, and it’s also fucking annoying in personal relationships. Maybe moreso. As you know from when people give you unsolicited advice, they can come across as condescending, judgmental, insulting, oblivious, and just plain rude. Is that what you want her to feel? If she comes to you for comfort, take the cue. Otherwise, she’s a grown adult. Don’t presume to know what she needs. Espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:41 AM
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This is likely your problem. You think of yourself as a creep. Improve your attractiveness and social skills and get that shit out of your head. If you don’t see yourself as a sexual being, neither will they.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:17 PM
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For one thing, women are naturally monogamous. Marriage is a natural progression if they find a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:55 AM
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You’re doing fine. But be aware you’re referring to a bunch of guys who despite their protestations would date a brick wall if it would let them fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:32 PM
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You’re dealing with a bunch of weak men. So of course they are going to be cheated on more, branch swung away from more, left for better men more, lose their attractiveness more, be more disposable, be disrespected more, and so on. Put a bunch of similar people in a room and trends will emerge. Some of those trends made it into TRP parlance. That said, TRP is correct about most everything. It’s just that low quality men (“betas” as they call themselves) are going to suffer inevitable consequence…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 04:16 AM
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Not sure what land ownership in Italy has to do with anything, but knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 12:58 AM
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I see incels talking This is where you erred.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 10:35 PM
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Huh? It’s because they’re inferior to other men their age. Men don’t compete with women for women. Except lesbians I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 10:22 PM
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A lot more guys have found ways to use TRP principles as excuses rather than the intended inspiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 02:37 AM
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I’ve been soberly propositioned for threesomes or whatever a few times, but most overt sexual attention from women occurs when they’re high on something. Really strong IOIs are more their style, which is all a normal guy needs...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:07 PM
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C’mon, leave the poor kid alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:04 PM
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Most normal, healthy middle-class and above dudes I know are somewhere in a long string of girlfriends. This is how it’s always been. It’s probably how it will always be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 03:44 AM
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Sooo 84% of men are getting laid like usual, and 16% are getting laid less than usual? Doesn’t sound so terrible. I’ve always thought the whiners were a small but vocal group, this pretty much proves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 04:49 AM
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It used to be a guy who could get casual sex. It’s turned into anyone who can get sex who is not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:15 PM
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It’s true enough to be useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:04 PM
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Women are naturally monogamous, ergo they will cheat less.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 12:34 PM
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Word.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:02 AM
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If we reduce things even further to first principles, stepping back and looking at humans surviving and flourishing on this barely hospitable rock, battling Mother Nature all the while... What are mankind’s cardinal virtues in this context? Strength. Aggression. Power. Ambition. Productivity. Intelligence. Ingenuity. Creativity. These are all predominantly masculine qualities. Women have the reproduction and child-rearing part covered. It’s really apples and oranges. There’s no logical way to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:54 AM
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60% less prison time for the same crimes. Less accountability for bad behavior just makes it more likely they'll not learn from their mistake and repeat it. This is good? can literally turn 18, make an onlyfans account and bring in thousands of dollars a month with no training, talent, skills or abilities. Men don't like charity. We prefer to earn our way. And those women are very likely to never develop talents, skills or abilities since they have it so "easy". This is good? men literally givin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 11:36 PM
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Still doesn’t work. Being weaker and submissive and judged primarily based on looks which they have limited control over? No real man sees those things and thinks to himself, “I want that! Life would be so much easier if I wasn’t a strong, dominate and accomplished man!” The only men who think women have it easier are feminine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 10:03 PM
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It’s both. Two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 08:21 PM
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Someone had to fucking say it. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 08:20 PM
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Well said. I would go even further: you couldn’t care about the advantages of being a man not just because they’re unimportant, but because you can’t even relate to what it means to be man. Nor I a woman. And to the extent that you would understand what it means to be masculine directly correlates to how masculine—how UNfeminine—you are. Men who envy women are just showing their feminine side. And while I looove femininity, it’s disturbing seeing it in men. Some in the TRP cohort hazily understa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 08:11 PM
1

Indeed. What happened? When the fuck did it become acceptable for men to whine and snivel and feel sorry for themselves and infect everything with their self-pity? To just throw one’s cowardice out there like it’s something to be proud of. Just fucking classless. Imagine hearing some of this shit coming out of someone’s mouth in public. Think of the kind of people who talk like that. There’s a reason why the kind of man RP men aspire to be are disgusted by what they see in TRP. There’s just no f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:47 PM
2

It’s not terrible. Sounds kind of Slavic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:37 PM
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Fuck that. I love being a man and enjoy all the benefits of masculinity. Keep in mind, these comments are usually in the context of sexual options. Losers who can’t get laid resent those who have an easier time with it. Women are the obvious targets of their jealousy, but these types of boys also resent normal dudes who get action. “Chads” as they call them. Bottom line is it’s retarded to compare the two sexes, especially in the area of sexuality where we are complete opposites! That kind of ir…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:30 PM
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Not bad. Got all that covered but the dairy cut. It’s an immutable Natural Law that eating a brownie must be followed by a glass of milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:22 PM
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I’m open to all health tips. Whatcha got?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 08:42 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:53 AM
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• Have you ever been voluntarily celibate? Yes. • For how long? The last three hours. • Why? What were the circumstances? I’d rather be fucking but am choosing to do this paperwork instead. • Did it change your view at all on sex as a "need?" It always strengthens that view.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:55 PM
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Basic standards have risen, as they inexorably do, but once one meets the basic requirements it’s still a wild free-for-all. Same as it’s ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:56 PM
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You do know that just because you’re being shit tested doesn’t mean you’re not full of shit, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:12 AM
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Nonsense. You’ve spent a few recent posts wondering aloud why some men you know are still single. You can’t figure out why they stop approaching. I’ve given you an explanation. Or rather, you provided one yourself: they quit. They give up after a few failures. That’s a significant difference between the guys who get girls and guys who do not. You’ve already answered the question you’ve been musing about and you don’t even realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:06 PM
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Let’s use your words but change the context a little. “The reason why Bill will not have a fulfilling career is because he had negative past experiences. He has tried several times and failed which makes him even less reluctant to make the next move. I firmly believe this explains why Bill doesn’t have a career.” Let’s try another. “The reason why Tom can’t play an instrument is because he had negative past experiences. He has tried several times and failed which makes him even less reluctant to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:40 PM
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Eh. Seems mostly about not dating losers and not giving it up so quickly. Needless to say, loser men aren’t going to like that advice very much. My concern would be that they don’t seem to emphasize femininity very much. Big red flag, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:27 AM
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You’re not a girl. Why are you expecting people to treat you like one?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:42 PM
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So many loser men. Did they try to correlate the sexless dudes with hours per week spent in front of a screen? PC, games, phone, whatever. That shit socially stunts people. Men especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:57 PM
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Why are you disposable? Can you think of some things you could do to make yourself more useful?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 09:02 PM
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I’m more conservative and in more conservative circles but socially have a foot planted firmly on both sides of the isle and I concur: the libs get laid more easily and often and with hotter chicks than my conservative friends. They’re just more... at ease. Less insecure, more relaxed with themselves. Less fear. Less trying to fit in. More creative, which itself shows a mastery of at least some aspect of the world. Waaay more fun to be around. Less bitter, less anger, less resentment. Less carin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:44 AM
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Their “anger phase” isn’t directed at women. They are angry at themselves, but being immature they like to place the blame on others. As adults, their failures are their own and nobody else’s. Not Disney, not their mommies, but themselves. Being “Mad At The World,” while a great Christian dark synth-pop band in the 80’s, isn’t a rational way to deal with reality. Impotent rage is pathetic. And since we are in PPD... it’s also highly unattractive. That’s how adulthood works. You hit it, then imme…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 11:26 PM
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The guys who say men are disposable are disposable, or at least consider themselves disposable. That’s sad, but who am I to argue with them? If they think they’re useless then they probably are. It’s up to them if they wish to remain so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:32 PM
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Would you give unsolicited advice to a stranger? To a peer at work? To a bank teller? You don’t because it’s rude, right? So why be rude to your SO?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:30 AM
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Women can be turned on by guys that handle their shit. Pun not intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:00 PM
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There’s a polite way to reject someone and there are not polite ways to reject someone. One might react calmly to a rejection but bristle if it’s delivered rudely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 09:26 PM
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Judging from the mix at TRP, it does appear that conservatives are having a lot harder time getting laid than libs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:26 PM
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Just be strong in the bedroom. If she’s debating the merits of staying with you, it will be a factor. I mean it’s always a factor obviously, but for some more than others. It can help make up for other shortcomings if it comes down to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:45 AM
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True. But where we are different we’re not just different, we are complete opposites. I’m referring of course to sexual selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 04:48 AM
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Men don’t care. Boys care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:03 AM
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We have it too easy. Men become men by putting the work in. Men don’t need to put the work in to survive today so they don’t and play video games instead and end up pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 01:04 AM
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you’re basically discussing a guy who’s inherently superior to you. Answered your own question. It’s the inferior men who talk about Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:57 AM
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Big time. Submissiveness irks the very molecular structure of my being. I couldn’t even imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 09:45 PM
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Not all men bash hypergamy. Some of us quite enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 09:33 PM
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All one needs is the drive to pursue women. That drive can exist in any class or category of man. Every man with that gets laid. Also, I believe you’re erring by giving too many people too much credit. The serial complainers, whiners and self-pitying types have all but stopped trying. If you’ve got game and a libido, that’s a certain lifestyle. You’re in for life. And something that you live and breath will not be consistently complained about to a bunch of strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:59 AM
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Not difference. Opposite. There is one dynamic that is the source of all our confusion, all of our pain. If it were just a difference, we would not be so unbelievably clueless when it comes to the other gender’s daily mental life. It’s not just different, or elsewhere on the spectrum. No... fundamentally, we sexually select for diametrically opposite traits: domination, and submissiveness. If it’s fiendishly difficult to map a psychological trait on someone only a few slots down on the spectrum,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:35 AM
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Most of the adult RPers get laid. Even some of the kids and weirdos do. It’s not hard to get laid, especially in this day and age. If you can’t get any action with the tools RP gives you then you’re fucking hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 12:30 PM
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This arose from the self-pity crowd. It’s an attempt to get points just for trying. From what I’ve seen of Cooper he just parrots what he’s read on TRP or wherever, same as they all do. Not an original thought from the lot of them. And I don’t want to slag on the guy, he seems earnest and if he’s spreading the good word then more power to him, but his lack of mastery is apparent here. This meme he mentions is zero percent sexual strategy and 100% feeeellings. And not good feelings. There is a he…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:31 AM
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Because sex is work, stress and pressure with a very minor reward balanced against an enormous risk. Jesus. Sex should not be any of that. Hell, I've had jobs I didn't even like that were not any of that. I can see why you prefer jerking off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:29 PM
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Poor Chad. They've made him into a bogeyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:14 PM
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What are we not supposed to ask people who subconsciously project their failings in every other post?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:18 PM
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No, it’s way too much work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 04:31 AM
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Yeah, you don’t count. Is there anyone else? I kid. I knew you would be one with a serious answer. It didn’t disappoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 04:42 AM
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Men. Not even close. Anyone who says different will take a big hit to their to their credibility. Women are naturally monogamous. Men, less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:29 AM
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You’re saying you gave him a permit with a set limit that if reached would give him the higher N count?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 09:34 AM
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Easy, tiger. The guy too scared to talk to women loses his standing to comment on anyone else's social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:58 AM
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We’re good, thanks. We also understand agency and accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 03:52 AM
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I’ll do you one better, but it could end up worsening your disappointment. This is the rub, an obvious truth easily forgotten: when pre-coitus, we don’t even have the option of choosing the emotional impact of the impending coitus. That’s post-coitus territory. It’s why there are multiple terms for post-coitus symptoms but not a single Google hit for a word describing pre-coitus problems. All the more reason to use good judgement and vetting when selecting your partners. Mostly just listen to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:48 PM
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Jesus Christ dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:05 PM
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Sounds like TRP needs a refresher course on relationship game. Who is on point for LTRs over there after TFA left? The current userbase is especially weak. If left to their own devices they’ll get “No LTRs” on the fricken masthead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:48 AM
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Men can have both kinds of sex. Frivolous or bonding. Pretty sure lots of women can, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 03:45 AM
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I meant a rotation of 3-ways. So that’s at minimum 3 pairs of 2 girls for 6 total. Who mostly all know about each other. Good luck. A tip of the hat to anyone who works that for any length of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 01:45 AM
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Agreed. Outside of multi and poly whatever arrangements, it’s not easy. Most girls who are insta-down for 3ways are insta-slutty. I’ve had my share and the good ones just happened naturally, or I would luck into it. 3-way plate game would be hella work, and I can’t see any kind of consistent quality there. We’re entering pimp territory now. And if you got that kind of rotation you may as well just turn them out. I kid, I kid. But yeah. 3-ways are a bonus, not a lifestyle. When going solo. Arrang…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:25 PM
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Gotcha. I will mention that one good thing about men’s dread game is that it encourages the man to see himself as a prize, and if he takes a look and he ain’t no prize, to get his fucking shit together. Jealousy is a natural part of any relationship, in moments at least, and I’m not a huge fan of utilizing it via dread game... but it’s undeniable that it’s actually a lot of hard work to make someone naturally jealous. You have to become good at something. If you want someone to be jealous of you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:13 PM
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Indeed. Did you mean “people” when you said “women” in your initial post? I take your point, There are vast swaths of areas where the sexes are the same or similar. It’s also easy to errantly zero-sum things. Like, for all the talk of men and our aggressiveness and dominant natures... that’s not to say that women don’t share these traits with men... they sure fucking do... every healthy person male or female is somewhere on the spectrum of aggressiveness and dominance as well as the myriad other…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:34 PM
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Close. It was an assless chaps Uncle Sam costume in my version.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:48 PM
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Of course men can dread the thought of losing a good woman. It only seems gendered here because we discuss the genders separately, and because there are too many whiny bitchass men around these parts. Women can run “dread game” on men, too. And do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:41 AM
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Absolutely correct. Every interaction with women is sexual (romantic/flirting/whatever). It’s what defines and separates and attracts and fascinates us and is omnipresent. I speak to women with a different tone of voice. Instinctively. Because... it is different. Different than speaking to another man. It’s advice I’ve given to men in the past: You are a sexual creature. Act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:32 AM
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As well she should, seeing as how she married you. Good men have built-in dread. Women dread losing a good man, without being prompted. Keep in mind that while there are some great RP ideas worth knowing, the denizens of RPworld typically are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:16 AM
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Still doesn't make sense. But then... yeah... why start now I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:47 AM
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RP would call that "preselection", not dread, and yes, all things being equal, it should at least increase her respect for you, if not her attraction. But probably only nominally, if at all. At the end of the day, respect/attraction from others is usually complimentary. A good thing. It's a datapoint in your favor. That's assuming you're a normal, healthy man. If she thinks you're a fucking loser and is legit shocked that there are women who think differently, well, you have bigger problems than…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:35 AM
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Found two. Urban dict says "Just For Laughs." Second was a Reddit link to an incel sub: "Just Fucking lol". Neither one fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:28 AM
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This answer is so obvious that I fear I have mistaken the question, since you have essentially answered it yourself. A common male fantasy is to be the man who is dominant, with multiple women, at once, whenever and however he pleases. To own a room of young hot willing women and everyone goes to town. To satiate his every carnal need. And I'm being literal, here. How many guys would put "Have a threesome" at or near the top of their sexual "To Do" list? A majority, I'd reckon. And of those who …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:19 AM
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There sure have been a lot of posts recently that pose good, well thought-out and articulated questions and points (for PPD). And a lot have been from women. Anyone else notice this trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:08 AM
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Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 11:56 PM
1

Could you describe a situation where he communicated with dance?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 10:51 PM
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First time you mentioned the interpretive dancing I thought you were joking. Now I’m not so sure. How the fuck did that work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 10:34 PM
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Point #1 is a good one. This one time we came together but since I needed a break and she was still “on” she got up, ran right over and fucked our neighbor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:02 PM
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Wuuut? A man’s looks matters far less than a woman’s. We can offset looks by lots of other things. Women don’t have that luxury. We can actually screw off with video games and even fall into poor shape and do just fine with hot women. Go read the TRP sidebar before trying to represent their view again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:34 AM
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You missed the “whose shit is on point” bit. Normal, healthy men don’t have these problems because they have their program, their life has structure. They know who they are and where they’re going. Their journey will be interesting and from it a personality arises. They don’t necessarily need to “understand women” because they understand themselves, and all else being equal, women are able to enjoy being a part of such a man’s life. Women yearn to make a man her entire world, but cannot do so un…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:26 PM
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Weak men are disgusting. It’s a visceral thing. They’re in the right place and hearing the right things and I wish them the best, but as a group they’re unbearable. Virtually all “RP men” are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:32 PM
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All things equal it probably lowers their attractiveness. Gaming is mostly a frivolous waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:36 PM
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RP isn’t a reaction to women, it’s a reaction to pussified men. It’s written by, and for, weak men. Betas, as they call themselves. And mostly American men, where our quality of life causes many men to be soft... or more like, never become men in the first place. Women have always been women. They have always been attracted to masculine men whose shit is on point. Normal, healthy men don’t have the same problems with them as the RP cohort. It’s the drop in masculinity that prompted RP, not some …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:03 PM
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Experienced men acknowledge it because it’s.... obviously true. Or true enough. Inexperienced RP/MGTOW losers are a different matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:51 AM
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Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:11 AM
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Don’t know what that is, but if it were that easy then TRP wouldn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:39 AM
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Wrong. The point of TRP is to have sex, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:37 AM
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What I seem to be hearing is that there were a lot of missed or ignored red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 02:18 PM
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Sounds like more than the usual keeping the peace milieu...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 12:53 PM
1

Sounds like it could’ve been one of the easier break-ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 12:50 PM
1

Truer words...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 12:49 PM
1

What does that mean exactly? He wouldn’t support you emotionally, or he wouldn’t reveal himself to you, or?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:25 PM
1

What kind of actions are we talking about? Just irresponsible shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:23 PM
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Perfect age to start popping out some rugrats though... did he want lots of kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:19 PM
1

Did you lose respect and with it your love, or it was more a practical decision with not a lot of emotions in play?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:17 PM
2

Yeah pretty weird, the together bit, unless you were also pretty depressed...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:14 PM
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Appreciate it?? They’ve fucking ramped it up so hard they have society bending over backwards so that women don’t even have to feel bad, including about doing stupid shit. We gave them an inch and now they have society trained and eating out of their hand. So yeah, I’d say they appreciate it. They’ve worked very hard to cement into the zeitgeist that whatever hardships men have had to endure as they have carved out careers and lives, well, women aren’t going to put up with any of that hardship B…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 10:02 PM
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Weird. They’re not cunts to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 08:14 PM
0

Is that a symptom or a cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:17 PM
1

Unattractive looking or unattractive in other ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 12:28 AM
0

Have a personality Have a social life so you're always around girls ... Sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 10:35 AM
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Dude. They’re a different sex. We can’t possibly imagine what life is like as a woman any more than they can know what it’s like as a man. And then you expect them to understand some nuance in the process of a boy becoming a man? As if you’d have a clue if they explained some nuance that’s unique to a woman’s experience. And finally... why should they care? These days I can barely summon any sympathy for failing men and I’m a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 03:01 PM
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Yep. Go walk around a mall [in the US] for a couple hours. Variety everywhere. The Chad archetype used to be something to aspire to, but sadly for many it’s become an excuse to not even try. Personality goes a long ways. Even Bill the cat knew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:14 AM
1

Go make your bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 06:49 AM
1

Nice try. Those aren’t the reasons women end up having to treat you like a child. The reason women feel you’re a child is because you behave like a child. Irresponsible Lack of integrity Lack of emotional control Immaturity No mission Lazy Stupid Any of those ring a bell? Oh, they all do? Well cut down on that shit and women will start treating you like the adult you could become.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 12:08 AM
1

I have experience, I don’t need Vice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 06:20 AM
1

Because women are naturally monogamous and prefer their partners are too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 02:09 AM
1

No, incels working on getting laid are just men. Incels who whine on the internet are pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:44 AM
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First off, this isn’t the place to complain about your failures. Just on a practical level, we don’t know you and therefore cannot even assess your statements. Second, think about what you’re doing: you are trying to make people feel bad. That’s what happens when you read about something bad—you feel bad. People can resent active attempts to make them feel bad. That’s the anger you’re noticing. No internet stranger gives enough of a shit about your life to feel anything about it at all. They’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:51 PM
1

Women don't respect men me. They don't possess positive emotions for men me. It's almost universally hate, jealousy, or disgust. Fixed your post. Now you have somewhere to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:05 PM
1

You have it backwards. People who look for self-pity are expressing shame. They are shaming themselves. They are announcing to the world, "Look how I failed. See how ashamed I feel. Feel sorry for me, like I feel sorry for myself." They are not saying, look at my success and celebrate it with me. They are not even saying, look how I failed, but I learned something and am still at it. They are saying, look how I failed, and I've given up. Don't offer me help, it doesn't matter. They are literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:18 PM
1

Seems like half the problem is guys don’t know what to do with a woman once they have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 05:34 PM
1

Understand that as men have learned more about womens sexuality, partially thanks to places like TRP, women have also been learning about men’s sexuality. And just as some men are surprised to learn of hypergamy and the rest, it’s been likewise startling for women to learn things like yes, her second husband does actually want to fuck his teen stepdaughter, and the rest. Add all that kind of shit to what women already know of men from being the object of their attention, and their view of men ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 11:16 PM
1

I agree, it sounds like you’re pretty fucked. What are you doing about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:50 PM
1

In almost every situation she is settling, because you aren’t Brad Pitt or whoever her main crush is. In almost every situation he is settling because she is not Taylor Swift or whoever. One learns to get the best one is able to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 09:04 PM
1

No, naive TRPers would.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:45 PM
1

I think I’ve seen posts asking that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:23 AM
1

Could you explain what that is so I don’t have to go look it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:21 AM
1

That’s some cloud to live under.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:06 AM
1

Why did her cheating only reduce your attraction over time and not immediately?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:26 PM
1

Gotcha. Is depression of any significance a dealbreaker now, or would you let something progress but with caution and clear expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:17 PM
1

He doesn’t sound very alphachad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 02:18 PM
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I think it’s extraordinarily rude to pass gas in the same space with other people. Sometimes it can’t be avoided and accidents happen and always exceptions but I leave the area when possible. I’ve always been a little puzzled why this isn’t expected social behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:57 PM
1

Interesting. Why do you suppose he withheld it like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:38 PM
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I don’t know. I’ve only seen one case. He’s normally not violent or aggressive although no pushover. He was very passive-aggressive when manic, not direct, and I don’t believe he ever escalated to violence. My impression is that it came from a place of arrogance, not anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:27 AM
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Well, to provide a little context, people can seem to change a little, after extended periods of medication. I would presume that in many cases it was not that way it first and it happened over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 05:19 AM
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That alone caused your lack of attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 05:14 AM
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I’ve had significant experience with a manic person. A full manic episode would be impossible to hide. Even 50% level. At 10% they can come off as just being an asshole, especially since it’s common to self-medicate with alcohol when they’re in that mode. Just to keep a buzz going, it seems to help relax them. In a fascinating little twist, this means it can easily be mistaken for them just being a “mean drunk”. No, the alcohol didn’t cause the asshole. In fact it’s probably reducing it, the man…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 05:08 AM
1

Authenticity can be so refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 04:56 AM
1

That’s a bit. Lost home, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 04:53 AM
1

I hear you five by five on those brother. I’ve dated pampered UC and poor China, the kind of ‘girl visits relatives over summer and after returning when inquires about missing family dog is informed they had to eat that dog’ poor. It’s remarkable how differently they viewed the value of a dollar. My greatest offense to China for a long time was when I paid for a drink with a takeout burrito on the way to a place with free soda. I wasn’t poor, but that I would just waste money like that was an ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 04:42 AM
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If you don’t me me asking, was it just general level of ambition or something more specific? Was she highly accomplished? If not, did you ever get a sense of why she felt entitled to hold you to such a standard? Or was it an offensive ploy of some kind, ie psych warfare
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 04:17 AM
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Whatever it is you’re describing, it’s a stretch to call them “men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:51 PM
1

Orthopedic surgeries. Fusing a few vertebrae together creates a backbone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:46 PM
1

What does that have to do with masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:44 AM
1

Everyone is missing the most important part. Taryn Burke, a 28-year-old Brooklyn-based research scientist with a master’s degree, is engaged to a Long Island barbershop owner. “I always tended to go for the ‘man’s man,’ which I just wasn’t finding at college,” says Burke, who’s been with her fiancé for nearly seven years since they met at a barbershop. Masculinity trumps all. Be a fucking man. Poor man, rich man, doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:24 AM
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It’s just all part of game. There’s loser game, jock game, fuckboy game, alpha game, homeless game, beta game, and all kinds of other game. Whatever your lifestyle there are always ways to utilize it to get laid. That is if you’re a normal, healthy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 03:20 PM
2

There is a word for men who don’t need women: homosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 03:36 PM
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Because for men addicted to self-pity, any excuse will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 04:56 PM
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The guys who are out doing shit, outside, which almost necessarily entails some sort of social life. The ones spending lots of time indoors in front of screens are having less sex. I would bet there’s a correlation between screen time and n-count, over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 09:06 PM
1

I explored a tangent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 05:04 PM
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Here’s an idea. If she’s consistently giving starfish sex then he’s probably not much of a man. He should take these opportunities to practice his fucking, which he probably isn’t much good at in the first place. So go town, throw her is some weird positions. Practice being masculine and dominant. Solving two problems with one fuck. That’s how an efficient man does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:33 PM
5

Heh. Probably the most salient comment on this post. Since when did all this stop being fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:25 PM
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They care but only as a curiosity. First impressions fade. Ultimately they will judge you for you. Make them feel good and you’re good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:27 PM
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Most of them don’t make it to ‘getting hurt’, they get stuck obsessing (without evidence) over how they are out-classed by her previous lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 06:24 PM
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It’s more an issue of trying to learn how to date by wrote. It’s a lot of guys with little experience trying to theorize what works and what doesn’t. So on paper, according to some TRP generalities, low n-count is essential. In real life not so much, but it’s the ‘in real life’ bit that they’re missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 05:56 PM
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Sure, but I’m fucking other girls, and good luck holding my attention in the meantime. But it’s happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 08:58 PM
2

An outlier at 10. Who woulda thunk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 08:50 PM
2

Liar! Girls always go for alphachad!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 08:03 PM
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Jesus. The adults just let this happen? That just seems wrong for all the kids. Except you. And maybe your first pick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:45 AM
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Hypergamy is awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:49 AM
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Starting from a young age, there’s guys who fuck and there’s guys who don’t. Guys who fuck p&d because it’s just part of the game, it’s a byproduct of the lifestyle. It’s barely even a “thing”. Being a chad is irrelevant, most guys who fuck aren’t chads, they’re just centered on fucking so it happens. It’s not even a class thing. Who and how they fuck depends on the context of the life they lead, but whatever their life is, they’re fucking. And dumping. All this thinking and naming shit and anal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 09:16 PM
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Depends on the age and maturity of the girl. Grown adults do this all the time, for business or personal reasons. Edit oh you said young women. Then no on all accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:36 PM
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Listen up, I'm going to learn you something important, so you can start spreading the word. Men have (at least) two bright lines of demarcation that they do not cross. They are: 1) Initiating violence against women, and 2) Rape Assuming we're talking about first world countries and not some undiscovered Amazon tribe... most men fall in the first group. They won't strike a woman except in self-defense, and even then only when they are absolutely forced. Line 1. Then we have guys who see no proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 09:44 PM
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That still happens for normal, healthy men who are not socially stunted and are part of multiple ever-shifting social circles. REAL fucking social circles not this online bullshit No not for every guy but it’s still common enough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:05 AM
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We need a caste system in the US. It would solve a lot of this confusion. Do identity politics the right way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:41 AM
2

Hehe fairer as in prettier, not more equitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 08:23 AM
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high-d girls in general don't want super masculine guys. They do and they have no choice in the matter. One cannot choose the type one is attracted to. A high-d girl simply cannot be submissive to anyone but a high-d man. If there is to be a dominant/submissive polarity—and there has to be—then this is the only way it will exist. At least this is what I’ve learned by experience. I’m never super-comfortable making grand pronouncements about the fairer sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 08:05 AM
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I don’t know about that. There are limits to how far fake-it-til-you-make-it will take you. A dude may be able to fake the kind of masculinity high-d girls desire for a night, maybe, but it’s too profound of a thing for them to even know how to fake it that will pass anything beyond a girl’s cursory observations. Maybe we should ask /u/Atlas_B_Shruggin. How quickly would you sniff out a poseur?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 07:44 AM
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It doesn’t contradict AWALT, or any RP concepts. It fits perfectly and is a fine addition. That’s why I was so surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 07:33 AM
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I used “girl” because I knew she’d get a laugh out of it lol You might be right about RP women. Maybe I should introduce the concept there. Ironically, when I first ran across TRP I posted about the female d spectrum. It’s my own observation, I’ve never seen it discussed (although it may be in scientific literature). My first post to TRP, and it got me banned. To be fair, all they have to go on is their experience and there are exactly 0 men who have adopted the RP label who could handle a high-…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 07:18 AM
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Who the fuck else? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:46 AM
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Kinda. All women are somewhere on a dominance spectrum. If you need an example, PPD has our very own high-d girl....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:37 AM
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A stalker. I could give a shit if some girl grabs and oooh’s my bicep, it’s usually cute and funny. Nothing cute or funny about an obsessed stalker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 05:23 AM
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Do men lie to women to get sex? The smart ones do, although probably not the lies you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:11 AM
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You should be asking how masculine he looks, not how attractive. Is there a site for that? (Besides PPD lol. Is it time for another user pics post?)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:49 PM
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It’s why RP often veers into self-improvement territory. Guys should get their internal shit in order before anything else, and certainly before hoping to enjoy a healthy sexual relationship with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 08:59 PM
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No amount of sex can overcome an inferiority complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 08:33 PM
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It’s projection by people with an inferiority complex. Same deal with dudes that worry about her former partners. They’ve never seen or met her former lovers yet still feels inferior to them, like they don’t measure up, because.... well just because. Same deal with so-called alpha widows. TRP dude she’s fucking now learns she once dated “chad” and instead of the normal reaction of feeling he’s better than chad, since after all she’s fucking him and not chad and doesn’t want to fuck her old chad,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 01:45 AM
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"Have" as in just fuck, or date? For a majority of men probably the former if she's physically mature and doesn't look like a child. Get into a relationship? Unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:36 PM
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It's how they were raised, particularly what kind of example their father provided. Both UC and LC can be taught the value of a dollar, proper manners, self-awareness and -accountability, and all the essential values and virtues. As a high n-count UC dude I've seen all mixtures from both sides of the tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 10:47 PM
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No shit. “Would you date a woman with a larger than average middle toe on one foot? What about both feet?”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 02:29 AM
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TRP is where weak men go to get help. It is interesting that it’s predominantly conservative, but then I’ve always noticed the same IRL. Most left/liberal guys I know have lives, personalities and no problems getting laid etc. Most the clueless men I come across are conservative. So we have the right having all kinds of social-sexual and interpersonal issues, plus we have all these mass shooters from the right. WTF is happening over there??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 07:59 PM
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I really don't think that's even a common male fantasy but who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 09:42 PM
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Dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 08:21 PM
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There is internal validation, and external validation. We all need a combination of the two, but there must be a healthy balance. An over-reliance on external validation and you can end up with things like failing college students killing themselves because they disappointed their parents. It can also result in what you described. If such a man gets in a relationship, he's getting so much external validation that his personal compass can become muted and his internal standards drop. I know it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 08:48 AM
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For me (n=hundreds) it was a practical concern. I'm fortunate in that I knew my mission very early in life, and it takes up most of my life (read: time and focus) fulfilling it. Bitch management logistics becomes untenable for many reasons, including things like heavy travel. This is true even though I spend zero time pursuing or wooing, zero time with drama, pretty much zero time with anything other than logistics and fucking. It's a distraction, I don't like it and it takes me off my life game…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:41 AM
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Scrap the idea of “vulnerable”, it’s the wrong way to think about it. This is about success and failure. Good and bad. Everything about you of any significance is one of the two. Call this Consideration #1. Sharing personal details will affect both you, and her. This is Consideration #2. Let’s consider the impact to HER when you share something bad. Some failure or running issue. She will feel bad. This is a simple truth and easy to forget, but it’s important. How bad and in what way will vary, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:43 PM
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Assuming you are male... This is key: at least once a month do something that elicits a positive excited response. Something fun, or funny. She must laugh uncontrollably or scream or some such. These are emotional imprints. We always point out how emotional women are in negative way, but emotions are an important way you connect with them, and it’s how they bond with you. It’s how they feel good about you, by how you made them feel. I don’t think I’m explaining it well. Here’s a story. (Sorry, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 08:46 PM
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Women are naturally agreeable. It’s actually mentally vexing for them to say no. It can be so stressful in fact that sometimes they’ll actually let a guy fuck them instead of having to repeat it. Think about that. Now think about it a little more. Think of all the ramifications of that. And let’s be honest... if all these women just said “No” you’d still get bent out of shape. And now I’m headed out to eat, your username made me hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:39 PM
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Those are over-rated. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:03 PM
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I try. Facts can be pesky things so I try to make them as easy to ingest as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 11:53 AM
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Good eye. I changed a word to avoid anyone else getting triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 03:07 AM
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I suspect you don’t really know what alcoholism is. Not everyone that drinks regularly is an alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 07:57 PM
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If you're a real man, you can be nice. You can also be magnanimous and generous, all without losing an ounce of masculinity. But you must be masculine to begin with. Incidentally, this is how to tell the men from boys, or alpha/beta. Strong men face different challenges than weak men. For instance, masculine men have to tone down their aggressive nature. They never have to remind themselves to be masciline, they will never momentarily lose their masculine dominant nature, a la RP men losing “fra…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 08:33 AM
1

You pick weird hills to die on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 07:34 AM
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They almost always bring it up on their own, I've never asked. And I'm barely concerned about it, I'm not the type to feel inferior to men I've never even met. Anyways, largely irrelevant. With a little experience it's pretty easy to have a rough idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 07:32 PM
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Sure I might "wait" but not how you're thinking. I'm not getting into any kind of relationship with a girl I'm not fucking, obviously. I might continue to see her, but I'm fucking other girls all the while. This means she brings a lot to the table other than sex. She would have to maintain my attention for hours with things other than sex, and that's not a small ask at all, by any stretch of the imagination. So am I "waiting" for sex? Not really. I'm interested in her for more reasons than just …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:13 PM
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Not my homes, nor the homes of any friends. In fact, of the many many LTR'd men I know who have designed and built their own estates, only one had the wife that took the lead on everything and ended up with an overly "feminized" design. Home designing and building has typically been a man's role. Homemaking is the women's. I spend all my time in multi-million dollar homes and maybe 1 in 10 could be identified as even close to "feminized in its structure, aesthetic identity, and management." Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 12:52 AM
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Always glad to help out a nice guy. Empathy ftw!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 12:23 AM
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One cannot have empathy for someone one does understand. Hence the lack of empathy for women in TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 12:17 AM
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Awww, you poor thing. There. Feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 12:15 AM
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When you've been here a little longer you'll start noticing certain topics will begin infesting almost every thread, no matter the subject. That's what the mods are dealing with. It doesn't help that most topics that go meme-mode are based in self-pity, making them even more pathetic and disturbing for the normal, healthy readers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 12:12 AM
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Because it’s really fucking hard to imagine how another sex operates minute by minute. Because TRP/PPD is filled with the inexperienced and the failures in the SMP. Both. Take your pick. (And frankly you’ve been around too long to be asking these kinds of questions. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:25 AM
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Because while TRPers have been told how women behave, they still don’t know how they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:45 PM
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You can also tell a lot about a person by the kind of person they attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 10:06 PM
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Passive? Not sure. You can be magnanimous and generous, both from a position of strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:07 AM
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“Despise” is a little overwrought. Not being attracted != hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:55 PM
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Approaching randoms will result in meeting people of varying intellect and interests. You should be in at least a couple large social circles by now, start pulling from those. As for conversations, it sounds like you need to get better at them. Why do you keep waiting for her to lead? If you’re the superior intellect then lead the conversation, find some common ground or just be interesting talking about yourself. Or stop picking low class girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:44 PM
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Uh more like take notes men. TRP hive-mind thinks women in thrall behave like single women. That’s a nice way of saying they don’t experience it very often. One cannot see a woman truly in love and reject the notion that they are naturally monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:16 AM
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How many did he explicitly lay out and how many did you just pick up from his signs of disapproval?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:09 AM
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That attempt was... poor. But in fairness, you’re trying to apply Briffault in the case of a woman being turned down in spite of (or due to?) her advantage laid out by Briffault. A tall task even for the gifted writer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 10:56 PM
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It made it easier to train women, that much is certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 02:39 AM
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Did we lose our journal?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:56 PM
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They will be fine as long as their anger does not manifest as self pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 05:52 AM
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Most socially adjusted people can and do. Autists have a harder time. Non-masculine autists have the worst time. See TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 04:32 AM
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The least successful will be the most vocal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 07:44 PM
1

So technically you could have a MGTOW who spins plates?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 04:42 PM
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I don't know dude. Just about every animal I've ever seen shows a desire to fuck, humans included. Gays included for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 04:07 AM
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Sure. But they've all probably had something wrong with them. Giving up on the pussy hunt is not natural. I'm sure evolution mentions that somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:50 AM
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It’s a generalization. Otherwise we wouldn’t have women being murdered. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 06:07 PM
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Don’t confuse normal men with online men. It’s still acceptable to buy a woman a drink by way of introduction, at least in polite society. Only in an autists mind is it some complicated, loaded act, full of danger and suspense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 05:58 PM
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I just met my first MGTOW in person, though he has no idea of the greater movement. He’s not online. He’s his own man. I have to admit, it surprised me. His problems are that he’s a little short, and not very smart. About 5’8”, joined the military during Vietnam and wasn’t even sent over, they kept him state-side working in the back of the kitchen his entire time in. That’s what they do with guys who score low coming in. You can tell sometimes when he’ll be perplexed in contexts he shouldn’t be.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 08:52 AM
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I haven't had that many sexual experiences You don’t say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:34 PM
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There’s ample evidence for both. This is usually the case when there’s some dispute about women’s nature by different men. But then acknowledging this places the onus on you to explain why you end up on the side that you do. And that’s a lot less fun than blithely making blanket statements in an area you’re a likely failure. (Not you personally.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 09:15 PM
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I didn’t claim men have a monopoly on solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 07:13 PM
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Slightly ironic, but then I never believed most dudes who claim to not want an LTR. Most of them naturally want one, they just realized they’re never going to attract a viable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 06:57 PM
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I think MRP feels like what TRP used to be. Zero tolerance for whining and self-pity, guys actually turning their lives around. And since MRP men are actually in relationships the incel/MGTOW contingent either doesn’t exist or stays nice and quiet. In TRP there will be a post about women, and all the conversation is about how it explains their failures, not how it can be used to be successful. Don’t see that shit in MRP thank god E: and as a spectator, seeing guys manage relationships is way mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 06:49 PM
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Not weird. He’s imagining what he would do if he was a girl, then assuming that’s how actual girls think. Common mistake around these parts. Amusingly, it’s solipsism, that thing they hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:11 AM
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Sexual Market Place
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 08:49 PM
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From what I’ve seen, BPs are more successful in the SMP than RPers, that is if RPers are to be believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 08:25 PM
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Yeah, nothing against Rubin or his voice. But Jones’ proto-masculine voice gives it an extra air of authority, which helps him sell his bullshit. Or at least that’s my theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 07:07 PM
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You’ll get whiny and self-pitying answers from TRPers and MGTOW who don’t understand and try to use every excuse they can to explain their failure. The real reason is simple and pragmatic: because we can only control ourselves. I can’t control my girl, I can’t make her behave or think in a certain way. I can’t make her change or improve, any more than the girl can change her man. All I can do is improve myself, so that’s what TRP encourages. All the others reasons given are self-serving nonsense…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 06:57 PM
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Heh. Our short conversation demonstrates why you’re failing in the SMP a lot more than your post does. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 05:43 AM
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Cute, but you’re just not worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 03:26 AM
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This is all projection. Your experiences do not represent anything except your experiences. They do not represent my experiences, or anyone else’s. Just yours. Stop making grand pronouncements about shit, especially shit where you are failing. You don’t get to normalize your failure by claiming everyone’s experience is the same as yours. Just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 02:41 AM
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Not unique; masculine. Low, raspy, growling. Dave Rubin could say the same stupid shit Alex does and it would have like 1/10th the effect. Hell it might even have the opposite effect lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:07 AM
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I’ve always thought that Alex Jones wouldn’t have nearly the following he has if it wasn’t for his voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 06:34 AM
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Why is it always the failures who feel compelled to write screeds on how to be successful. You can’t learn social/sexual skills, or how to just be a fucking man, by wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 10:42 PM
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You’re missing the context here. Kapow is just telling us about his life, nothing more. Here’s a little trick that’s useful: when people here make grand pronouncements about women, for every “all women”, substitute “the women I can attract” or “the women of my class.” This is especially necessary for inexperienced/unsuccessful men, who have the added temptation of trying to make their experiences representative of all men in order to avoid responsibility for their failure. Solipsism is a helluva…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:25 AM
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Odd question. Most anyone with a normal, healthy social life interacts with women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:18 PM
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Self-pity is like a drug for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 01:53 AM
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Soon as I saw the title I knew the author lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:39 AM
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How do you point out negative behavior by women without sounding... negative? TRP principles sounds anti-woman because it formed largely as a reactionary movement, which is just a shorter way of saying that you're likely to read more posts about the short-comings of women than about the efficacy of men, in regards to the SMP. Notably, this feature of TRP praxeology is also what enables many men to use it not as a guide for success, but as a show of cause in their personal SMP post-mortem. This s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 10:46 PM
2

This raises an interesting question. Did the murders committed by incels get them more attention from women than they had seen before?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 05:04 AM
1

RP principles “work” on all girls, it’s just that RP men are usually only interested in promiscuous girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 11:28 PM
2

“Chad” used to be a goal, now it’s become an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:22 PM
1

That’s okay. Most men are unaware how exactly men’s attraction works. See TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 03:48 PM
1

Yes, the same as how men have no idea what it is like for women. But we’re not talking about walking a mile in their shoes, just basic attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 03:01 PM
5

Prenups work. Estate planning works. Having money before marriage works. You need to understand, the RP contingent is full of guys who realize they’re not qualified for LTRs. That they cannot sustain the attraction of quality women, if they can even attract one in the first place. If you read TRP or track the manosphere at all, you’d see this struggle is very real for these men. It’s weak men becoming a little self-aware and acknowledging women don’t want weak men. Most of the anti-LTR sentiment…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 02:40 PM
3

That was a very logical thing to do. I wonder how common it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 05:54 AM
0

I don’t want to get into that here. Probably said too much already.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 05:54 PM
1

Where is your pride man. This person is purposefully disrespecting you in public. Even my enemies don't pull that shit. And if they did I would beat them unconscious with my bare hands, situation permitting. You chose to complain about it to me. Must not be that important to you. Did it not occur to you that maybe you should break up with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 04:07 AM
-2

Naw. Women can give consent at any time, same as how they can withdraw consent at any time. We're not talking a dark alley type of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 02:55 AM
1

In a dressing room? She didn't scream or yell? People just a few feet away were unaware there was a rape occuring? No audible indications of protest? No sounds of a struggle? GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 01:47 AM
2

She will be more likely to date an ugly guy. She won't lose her attraction for Brad Pitt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 09:11 AM
1

Practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 09:05 AM
1

You are way too serious for the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:51 AM
6

Just because you didn't figure it out doesn't mean nobody else did. Dangerously close to solipsism my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:40 AM
4

You write with a lot of passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:37 AM
2

It is at first, like most things, but also like most things, it gets easier the more you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 02:21 AM
6

Heh. Maybe the odd one... but most women are aware that men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 02:18 AM
3

A trophy is useless I need gold, last one you bought me has almost run out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 12:11 AM
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I'll cut y'all in on another secret: when a female acquaintance says "just be yourself", what she means is, "I see how confident and charming you are when comfortable around friends. Be like that with girls." She is NOT saying "Be your normal shy and insecure self when talking to girls." It's a compliment to be told that, they're not trying to trick you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 11:52 PM
2

"want to teach me how to fuck them" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 11:46 PM
3

Don't know how that will help you attract better women but for your sake I'm willing to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 06:45 PM
2

Seems we attract different types.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 06:02 PM
3

It's bullshit. What, did people suddenly stop dating people around their own SMV? 5-6s with 5-6s, etc. Allllllllll the women only have eyes for the, what are we at now.... top 90%? C'mon. Go to a mall. Here's how the 80/20 could work... If it's true of your class. So the 7s will generally favor the top 20% of the 7s group. But even that doesn't work. Because lower 7s will get with other lower 7s. Utter nonsense. I can only handle the internet in small pieces. You encounter such concentrated dose…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 06:48 AM
1

Why discuss your flaws and insecurities to the person you wish to remain attracted to you? Those are your own issues to deal with. Why burden her? If you must tell her, put whatever it is in the context that it's something you've mostly conquered. I just don't understand this desire to share the worst parts of oneself. Just on general principle it seems like a bad idea every which way. So yes... therapist. You can share A (singular) problem with a close friend, like a you're crying problem, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 01:40 AM
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No offense, but don't you get tired of repeating the same thing over and over again? And it doesn't help your cause. When people keep beating the same horse, it doesn't give the impression that they've accepted a "truth". It gives the impression that they've either not accepted it, or more likely, they're trying very hard to convince themselves of it. Just sayin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 09:45 PM
8

Sure, but who cares about them. When I'm selecting, say, fruit to buy, I spend zero time thinking about all the bruised and lesser fruits I'm not interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:56 PM
1

You probably missed my edit, but I couldn't give a.number. Best bet is to.get into the social circles that contain these women. They seem to travel in herds, so to speak. Are you the type to attract these women? Alpha qualities but would still be seen as good father or LTR material? All your shit is on point? Like, all of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:42 PM
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They're mostly in the UC/UMC. Women with good careers are more likely to take care of themselves as well... some career fields more than others I suppose... While it's true that the average woman's weight is up, it's also true that a percentage of women are more fit than ever. I couldn't really offer a number. Also, healthy women are more likely hang around other healthy women. So if you get in that social circle, and extended circle, it will be good pickings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:20 PM
3

TRP's reply: You're all outliers. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 07:54 PM
6

How about "stop projecting."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 07:44 PM
13

lol they're all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 07:40 PM
1

Fuck turning the other cheek, or giving them my jacket, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 06:45 PM
0

Usually when I'm about to fuck a girl already in a relationship I'll double check for her benefit. "You really want to do this?" Haven't had a "No" yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 11:56 PM
1

Uh-huh. I don't blame you for not going there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 07:17 AM
1

You can't pressure* women into unwanted sex. If they had sex, they wanted to have sex. *Not referring to violence or threats of violence. Pressure != force.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:07 AM
1

Stop being obtuse. I'm talking about pressure, not violence or the threat thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 06:36 PM
1

Seems like it. Is pressure rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 09:21 AM
0

You can't pressure women into unwanted sex. If they had sex, they wanted to have sex. Just clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 07:54 AM
1

Sorry the dick was for the other guy, who haha replied "Yes" when I used "could you". So you were going to explain how society reasonably blames you for some thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 07:18 AM
1

Could you give me an example of a societal ill that everyone blames on you? Or however you put it. But first, are you a dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 05:06 PM
1

Sure sure, but you're on your way to overcoming. The other guys gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 03:10 PM
2

I just did. Since it's a retarded idea you ignore it, or interact with other parts of society that are not insane. I blame you for the death of my cat. What will you do now???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 03:08 PM
1

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 11:09 AM
1

That's fine, you'll survive it, even overcome most of it, and be better for it in time. Godspeed. But every once in a while somebody stupidly wonders, "Why didn't society help me?" then "Well they should have," then "This is all their fault" then "If I decide to go it's only fair I take some of them with me."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 09:13 AM
1

Your anger is at yourself, and don't forget it. Nobody conspired to make you lonely. Nobody behaved unethically to give you a late start. Anger can be useful but only if assigned and used correctly. Start blaming society for your difficulties at your peril. The problem is, society can't accept responsibility for your problems, so your anger becomes impotent and cancerous. We've seen where some of those people end up, and what they end up doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 11:52 PM
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It's obviously a coping mechanism, telling themselves they're emulating what "high quality men" do. Nevermind that "high quality men" have options so not getting laid on a single date won't put a crimp in his love life. Always be suspicious when they start throwing around what a "high quality man" would do. It's their equivalent of an appeal to a higher power.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 07:18 PM
3

N count is not what blackoutfast was talking about, though. He was worried about being inferior to her previous partner(s). Very different problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:53 PM
1

You've got the wrong impression. TRP is a big proponent of first date sex for a few reasons. The main reason is that the sub is literally about sexual strategy, so the sooner the sex happens, the better. Another is experience. These are the guys who women become less attracted to over time, not more. If that's all you've ever experienced, there's no reason to imagine the second or third dates would get better. Then there is their lack of game and experience, making seduction all but impossible. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:37 PM
2

You can tell a lot about a man by the kinds of women he attracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 10:20 AM
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Somehow you made the shredded guy getting his dick sucked... a victim. Well done. You guys are getting sophisticated. Would you be able to get over the fact that she wasn't very attracted to you at first How would I know? How would she know? What does "very" mean? She was attracted to you enough to fuck you. Isn't that enough? Next you're going to bring up how she was probably super-into someone else, at some point, just adding insult to injury, you poor thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 05:43 PM
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Stupid. Fucking. Question. Who cares how the other sex has it. Now you're going to set off the self-pity crowd, dammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 02:37 PM
1

You observer her relationship to money, in whatever context and form it takes. At a certain income, the whole "provider" issue is fairly moot and morphs into 'status'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:32 PM
1

Sex within the purview of a relationship seems reasonable territory to explore for a group concerned with sexual strategy. But there is the little problem of most TRP men not being ready for relationships, so it often veers into normal self-help territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:28 PM
1

You are what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 07:00 AM
1

TRP does stick to "how to get sex." It's the TRP adherents who take it in other directions, just due to need.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 05:27 AM
0

If flirting results in humiliation and rejection, you're doing it wrong. Or likely with the wrong people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:52 AM
3

Where do you live? Around here flirting is alive and well. Remember, a lot of "internet people" aren't the normal, socially adjusted people you might assume them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 09:03 PM
3

random, high-pitched squeals and shrieks Before you start, watch some Japanese porn and then do about 1/20th of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 07:04 AM
1

Yeah TFA was cool. Living it, with wife and kids too. That's a full life. Only to get trolled by the kind of dude who still works at a gym and has a gf. And TFA was more right than wrong in the "BP" debate. The key is that betas will misinterpret some alpha behavior as beta, when it's not. TFA was less purple than you might think. And his detractors less red.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 10:36 AM
6

You don't realize just how much projecting goes on here. (Also known as solipsism but shhhh). When guys make their grand pronouncements about the world's females, they're just describing the class of women they attract. They're describing their life, not the world. Mentally append "I attract" after every mention of "women" and everything will make more sense. Most TRP guys are lacking similiar social skills in similiar ways, and if you notice another common behavior, it's no surprise a lot of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 09:57 AM
3

Nice. Now you have people judging a conference they’ve never attended. The only people who can judge if it's valuable and worth it are the attendees. As for the RP men you're encountering, well, it's just par for the course. There's a bit of a catch-22 with these discussions. The man who ambitiously leads a full, self-possessed life... doesn't talk about leading a full, self-possessed life. Type-A, alpha types don't get together and discuss their alphaness. Successful men don't talk about the id…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 12:05 AM
2

Way to be optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 11:46 AM
6

Women are naturally monogamous. Generally, they can only be "in love" with one dude at a time. So you don't have to be concerned so much with her being tempted by every hot guy she sees (like men are tempted by every hot chick) and competing with all of them during your LTR. She chose you. She's fucking you. That should be all the confidence booster you need. Now live a full and interesting life and let her come along for the ride. Make sure you do something exciting at least once a month, prefe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 07:01 AM
1

I think I read something about how it's not a good idea to fashion your entire romantic enterprise based on an internet comment, but don't quote me. You'll just have to cross your fingers and hope you don't happen to become intimate with the girl who wrote that. And you didn't answer the question. How do girls find out if you're not telling them? And if you're telling them, why? Or is it really that obvious? It shouldn't be that obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 03:07 AM
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None of those were critical of the man, they were all practical concerns--good sex, more likely to get clingy, etc. NONE of the women said ANYTHING about the dude. Not even the banal "Something must be wrong with him if he's a virgin." And ALL of those minor concerns would be easily overcome if she were attracted to you. If she wants to fuck you, trifles such as those are not going to stand in the way, not even close. So keep your virginhood to your damn self and it won't be an issue at all. E: …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:14 AM
1

All the money in my pockets says you're a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:08 AM
1

Wild guess: you're a dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:07 AM
1

You're looking for a rational explanation. There isn't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 04:47 AM
5

Riiiight. Theirs is a principled, objective stand on morality, not bitterness. C'mon. How could you hang around these parts for so long and not understand what makes these guys tick? Stop assuming these are normal, healthy, mature individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 05:32 PM
5

Context. RP men are the losers in the SMP. That’s how they see themselves. When a woman has other options, the RP man assumes from experience that he will lose out to the other guy. So why go through all that again? Better to just go with the sure thing. It’s not about morality, it’s about practicality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 04:55 PM
1

Hypergamy works out great for some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 10:15 PM
2

Be a man, raise masculinity sons. That's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 03:29 AM
1

Lol the men around these parts are theoretically against sluts and high n-counts. On paper. Sounds good. Has a ring to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 01:11 AM
1

Just means they are dominant in a female manner. Which is to say, they are not submissive and feminine in all the different spheres of life that a normal, feminine woman might be. Which is not to say they are masculine. Nor do they have problems being submissive with their man... But it will take a real man, in full. They couldn't be with a lesser man even if they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 06:57 AM
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Looks/fitness, cool personality, status, talent, and any display of dominance over the physical universe. Which could be something as simple as changing a tire (I've happened to change two tires while out with newish girls and both remarked that it was kind of a turn-on) or as complex as building a vast conglomerate from nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 08:39 PM
1

It's kind of a side point since the study didn't address it... but I'd add a correlation that became unmistakable over time: women high on the dominance spectrum are much more likely to be able to have regular casual sex in a healthy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 07:28 PM
2

Well yes, class matters more to those who have it, and those who do not will not really understand why this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 03:48 AM
3

"Generally not attracted to" != "Looks down on" "Doesn't want to date" != "Thinks is a loser" Indifference != Hatred for
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 07:20 PM
1

Groups typically don't focus too much on their own member's failings. TRP is going to focus on calling out bad behavior by men about as enthusiastically as feminists focus on calling out bad behavior by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 10:54 AM
2

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 12:51 AM
0

Could be. I think it will always be trending that way. It’s just the math. Out of the X number of new arrivals to these parts, the losers will always outnumber the normies. Plus the losers will post more, of course...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:47 PM
2

I was referring to you. So wrapped up in self-pity that you’ll even invent circumstances for a third party just so you can feel like a victim by proxy. That sweet elixir of victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:30 PM
0

What’s ridiculous is that after all this time on PPD you are still replying to low class losers as if they are normal, intelligent people. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:15 PM
1

The victimhood is strong in this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:04 PM
1

according to ppd TRP simply dating a rich man makes you a golddigger
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 06:58 PM
5

He’s not high status, he’s a low class grifter. She just couldn’t tell the difference. Neither can you, judging from your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 06:55 PM
1

You’re probably not smart enough. (I kid, I kid...)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 08:10 PM
7

You’re too smart to paint with such a broad brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 04:17 AM
4

It’s not just from women, they want everyone to pity them, because then it excuses them. People who got dealt a shitty hand but are doing the best they can with it don’t make self-pity posts on anonymous Internet forums. It’s people the people who have given up, or at lest aren’t trying as hard as they should, who make these posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 07:12 AM
1

There's no such thing, it never survives first contact--and once gone never returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 07:45 AM
1

(No automod?) Of course it doesn't. Now stop caring what a bunch of losers tell you. Don't waste another second on this stupid shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 08:00 PM
0

Don't worry about it. Only idiots compare themselves to the opposite sex. Only complete idiots actually become jealous of the opposite sex. It's TRP's version of "white privilege."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 07:55 PM
0

Huh? Since when do men have problems having men friends? Maybe the autists or those with other mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 09:37 PM
2

I suppose he can't even post under a new identity--too easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 06:34 AM
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He wrote up a nice thorough explanation of how different parts of society had tricked him but I guess his account is gone. Maybe a Reddit history machine? It was an OP, probably at least 18 months back. I can't look from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 05:28 AM
3

You'll see this a lot. Imagine how a guy might answer the question, "If you suddenly turned into a girl what's the first thing you would do?" "Play with my tits," would be a common choice. Too often here, men imagine women's inner life not as women, but as how it would be as a man in a woman's body. This is only natural. It's difficult to think like the opposite sex because while many of our experiences are similar some are pointedly dissimilar and it's difficult to imagine the life ramification…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 11:11 PM
3

Most important is to just fuck the shit out of her. Choke her when face to face and staring into her eyes. Get in her mind, know her particular turn-ons and use and twist and expand them, be dark and powerful and ravish her. The goal--other than good sex--is to make lasting mental impressions. Do things she will remember. This goes a long ways towards replacing Chad memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 10:42 PM
1

You're complaining that women pick other guys than you. The entitlement bit is just an excuse to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 01:09 PM
7

She can get over him. But not with you. (Not you personally.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 01:00 PM
1

Don't bother, it's just manufactured grievance from the self-pity crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 12:44 PM
2

Wellll girls often try but then after guys keep catching feels they start to stay away...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 09:42 AM
1

My experiences differ so we'll have to disagree. Agree that many women can't always explicitly identify what is attracting them, and big agree with last sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 08:12 AM
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I'm always amused when I hear that idea. Women will tell you eeeeverything about everything. They'll even give a frank and honest opinion of themselves in unflattering terms and own their bad behaviour, too. But they aren't going to share, say, their deep sexually fantasies with some guy they perceive to be sexually inexperienced. Or how to seduce her. This is easily demonstrated by observing how men do the same. Would you be comfortable sharing the different flavors of porn you watch with just …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 07:30 AM
2

They already are. All else being equal, the man who has his shit together, is productive, makes good money, has a nice, well-decorated home, and interesting life... These accomplishments alone will result in attraction, because they are masculine traits. Not as powerful as the physical, but it's there. It's easy to think it's different if you listen to internet people, especially the RP cohort. But these men are just figuring out how to be masculine in the first place, so there's a bright demarc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 06:29 AM
1

Just met one at the Airbnb I'm at. Meticulously organized, beautifully decorated home where he just added a pimp sun-room on the back. Nice lawn. Likes to hike. Productive and interesting. Stays active, no video games. Shorter but strong, broad-shouldered, good enough looking. 65 but passes for much younger. He's MGTOW without ever hearing of it. I'll be analysing him more during stay and trying to get him out of his shell. And there are plenty of girls around here. I was only audience for late …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:56 PM
2

RPers favor promiscuous girls, then wonder why they can't attract any quality girls. Then they LTR a promiscuous girl they were "plating" and wonder why it doesn't work out and "AWALT!" and all the rest. The key to interpreting this behavior is to remember that they are after quantity, not quality. "Quantity" in this context usually means "more than zero." They may or may not ever get to the level of attracting quality. For now, they are stuck with their RMV, which is worlds harder to improve th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 08:12 PM
1

Girls are intimidated by short guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:49 PM
1

Discussion for another time. I’m referring to the times it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 01:59 AM
0

Try to stay focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 10:12 PM
5

Or priests, or anyone else who abstains for whatever reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 08:25 PM
1

Context, kiddo. I’ve called a woman a slut and she responded, “I know, right?” I called a different woman a slut and she tried to pour her drink on me. Can you figure out why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 09:07 PM
1

Low quality men are affected by female hypergamy more than normal, healthy men. TRP is almost completely comprised of low quality men. Not even men, really...boys learning how to become men. Hence you will hear more about hypergamy around these parts than you will out in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 05:20 PM
1

You work to learn the reason behind your dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 04:45 AM
1

Who else can fix your dysfunction but you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 03:12 AM
1

As an adult, you own your own dysfunction. No blaming it on mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 03:07 AM
2

A 7 with no personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 01:07 PM
4

Oh, give them time. They’ll get around to forming an argument how they are victimized by people raising children. Right now they’re a little stuck on the correct verbiage to explain how they are victimized by women’s alleged lack of pity for their plight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 12:41 AM
2

Men are generally the pursuers, the initiators, the hunters. If elk kills are down, do we look towards the elk for an explanation? Or are the elk going to continue doing what elk do, what elk have always done, and we should look elsewhere for an explanation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:43 PM
1

What you’re missing is that this porn problem is self reported. In other words, it’s not outside ‘experts’ who are speculating about the undersexed and this is the best they could come up with. We know porn is partially responsible because the undersexed cohort tell us it is. Outside experts didn’t start NoFap, either. We know porn is a problem because the dudes who have found it to be a problem told us it’s a problem. So your quarrel is with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:47 AM
1

Of course. Obviously the 15-year old girl would know all about the social ladder. Women aren't stoopid. While over in TRP we have men twice her age blaming their failures on Disney movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 10:34 AM
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Most RP men don't even qualify as low value, their problems go deeper than that. They can only theorize about how a normal man's life is, which is why they get it wrong so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 10:23 AM
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The guys with revenge fantasies usually won't get to play them out, for obvious reasons. It's pretty difficult to formulate a grand unified theory of attraction and bonding. Because there are some fucking weirdos out there, and the theory needs to explain all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 01:55 PM
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Related: https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8gbob9/q4rp_what_was_the_weakness_in_the_i_showed/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 09:29 AM
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You don't know these people, their education, intelligence or class. You really don't know what kind of people they are at all. You don't know what kind of relationship they had, either. In these times, when you don't know anything about the people or the relationship, it's best not to draw any conclusions, about anything. Trying to make moral judgements without knowing the full context is futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 06:50 AM
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Quite right, let's not get too optimistic here, people. Surely his independence is just a phase and he'll be a simpering wimp in no time. How long will it last?? Jesus. You told us more in 5 words than some do with thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:54 PM
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Wouldn’t be offended and wouldn’t take test unless she had a valid reason to be concerned. Her whims don’t write my calendar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:30 PM
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I mean this kindly, but you are probably living a second-rate life. You probably agree. When a man is prospering and experiencing abundance in the key areas he is able to be magnanimous and even benevolent. His charitableness isn’t a response to someone else’s power, it’s the result of his own powers having been realized.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:36 PM
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Oral is fine. And TRPs are all betas. You didn’t know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 01:35 AM
1

It encourages men to take better care of themselves, dress better, etc. Who cares if it's a little off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 03:38 PM
1

Time and quality. It takes too much time to keep a rotation, and regardless, the highest quality women only do LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 08:18 AM
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It's not sexist to reject someone because of a sexual history, it's just naive. But probably a good precaution all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 02:28 PM
1

You think they're referring to society? I'm pretty sure they just mean that their life sucks. And even if they actually do mean that society is in decline, they're still just saying that their life sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 08:25 AM
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I theorize a couple things that could contribute: 1) If it's a numbers game, waiting ain't gonna cut it. Slackers get lost. Gotta cull the herd, nobody got time for this shit. First date rule? How about a first HOUR rule? 2) TRPers aren't so good at social interactions, especially reading women, and super especially reading romantic attraction if it's not explicit. And even when it is... still have problems. So while a normal, healthy man can amiably traverse whatever courting or feeling out or …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 05:48 AM
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How do you know whether she has made other guys wait? How do you know whether she performed other sex acts with other men? How do you know you don't come up short in some other, hitherto unknown area? How do you know any of this? Because that's quite a bit of fairly high level data that would be difficult to surreptitiously gather. And if you come right out and tell her, that can't go well. You and the others I've seen post similar sentiments sound pretty serious. Like it's a deal-breaker type t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 05:32 AM
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This isn’t why you’re having women problems...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 07:23 PM
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Interesting. The single mother theory has been discussed before, most recently in MRP following GLO’s little outburst about TFA not being swole enough. It was thought that GLO was raised without a father, and we wondered if there was some correlation with validation issues that might explain the standard TRP psych profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 08:21 AM
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"Men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 12:57 AM
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I'm not even going to read the thread you referenced but I bet if I did, it wouldn't be the genetics or social skills that were resented. So your premise is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 12:44 AM
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“And the man ran away in tears.” Is that how the story ends in your imagination? It didn’t take much confidence to talk to a woman, but it might take some now, to deal with her disapproval. Confidence does not mean to run away at the first sign of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:51 PM
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Not quite. Sympathising.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 09:25 PM
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The guys whining about this are the ones whose cocks are not on the carousel. Poor things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 09:38 AM
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How weird. Must just be bad luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 10:04 PM
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Women want to have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:22 AM
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What? This isn't a choice or something. I couldn't "turn it off" if I tried, it's just part of who I am. It wasn't taught. TRP is concerned with the SMP, so RP men are trying to be masculine as a means to that end, since masculine traits are generally more attractive to women. But yeah, you don't even understand what masculinity is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 11:21 PM
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I wouldn't care. There are normal, healthy men who agree with TRP fundamentals, although they probably aren't the ones posting. If I had to form an opinion about the guy it would be from a personal appraisal, not what club he's in. It's okay to NOT have an opinion. I think people forget that nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 07:28 AM
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TRP is about getting laid. Fuck character.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 11:11 PM
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Welcome to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:42 AM
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Please don’t encourage guys here to imagine what they would do as men in a woman’s body. They do that enough already when comically trying to understand how women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:57 PM
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Yes, they do not want to hear about your hurt feelings. If you can make a coherent argument for idea X then you’ve done enough and shouldn’t feel bad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:33 AM
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I would think his vetting process needs work. If it’s that important to him then he should be finding out before entering a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 04:39 PM
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It does, but RP men will need to at least get to ground zero of being a self-possessed man before they start worrying about things such as magnanimity and generosity. Until they establish their own life, they won't be able to help others in a healthy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 07:19 PM
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It can't be dishonest if everyone knows about makeup. For an action to be "dishonest" there must be deceit involved. Where is the deceit in wearing makeup if everyone knows about makeup and its purpose? By that logic, wearing clothes is also dishonest since you're "hiding" your body. Also, nobody is obligated to share personal details, so it's not a "lie of omission" or some such.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:25 PM
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Talk about it after the fact, when you were victorious in overcoming it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 10:08 PM
1

This has minimal effect for normal, healthy men. Weak men will suffer. This theory is demonstrably supported by groups such as RP, MGTOW, incels and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 05:00 PM
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The only opinion that matters here is Jeff’s. Everything else is wasted thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 07:52 AM
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Why would I shame women for something that works in my favor?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:44 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:05 PM
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It’s not a derogatory term, at least not when I’ve heard it used (edit: by women) irl. Not sure how it’s used by Internet People. (Not implying that you are one.) IPs are people with limited or abnormal experience in a certain area who get online and begin to think their experiences are normal or more widespread after seeing a bunch of people online who share their predicament.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 11:12 PM
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You seem to be implying that woman want commitment from every man they plan to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 11:05 PM
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Some amount of concern is justified. Most men could end a woman’s life with his bare hands, and the same couldn’t be said of the reverse. We cannot treat both concerns as equal, no matter if the stats say it’s 20% more likely for a woman to be the initiator of violence. But I agree with most of your others points. We can also add that many times a woman will stay with a man she knows to be violent, intentionally putting herself at higher risk of danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 10:44 PM
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Sigh. I'll try again. When you enter a relationship with a girl (even a casual relationship), how high is violence on your list of concerns? I will give you my answer as a man: it's almost non-existent. Do you think it's the same for women? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 09:21 PM
1

Name checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 08:51 PM
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We're discussing it here in the context of inter-gender (sexual) dynamics because it is PPD, and because it's also when a woman is most vulnerable to violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 08:37 PM
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Whether or not the FB wants a relationship is irrelevant. If the girl considers him a FB then a FB he is in her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 08:29 PM
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To be more specific... we are talking about inter-gender violence where the aggressor is almost always bigger and stronger and is usually capable of killing the victim with their bare hands, not violence in general. My concern about suffering violence at the hand of a woman is a different kind of concern than what a woman feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 08:12 PM
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Violence at the hands of women? Because that's what we're talking about. Inter-gender violence, not violence in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:42 PM
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It's similar to the AWALT concept. Not all men are violent, but all men are capable of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:40 PM
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Heh. It’s almost as if the two genders have different approaches to sex! /s (And not to quibble, but girls don’t like being judged for being a slut. Most will freely admit to slutting it up.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:34 PM
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Lots of guys in the thread are confusing "player" with "fuckboy." Women would might like commitment from a player but can't get it. Women don't want commitment from a fuckboy. As the name implies, he's only good for a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:36 PM
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Heh. So many dudes in the thread wish so badly that they could be a "fuckboy" they cannot accept that it's not a complimentary term.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:33 PM
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For a while I assumed RP men were generally normal, healthy men that were just missing a little info about how to talk to women and the masculine/feminine dynamic. After reading posts by GLO, RPS, Whisper and other thought leaders for the last few years (as well as RP men on this sub and elsewhere) it’s become obvious that their problems are far deeper. They are betas through and through, insecure, with indications of an inferiority complex... and apparently they always will be. I still think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:45 PM
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They are perfectly aware of ugly and low status men who are charming motherfuckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 01:47 AM
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Too late, women hit the wall at 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:19 PM
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AWALT!! ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:10 PM
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I pay for most everything because I have money and it's just easier that way. Not paying for shit isn't going to hide the fact that I have money, so what's the point. I don't have to worry about attractiveness and the other shit in your post, and I don't sweat the small stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 05:48 PM
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There are two aspects of marriage - the personal relationship, and the financial etc. risk. TRP is especially concerned about the latter, probably more so than the former. This is supported by the fact that TRP thought leaders like GLO and RPS are both in LTRs (last I heard). So it's not the monogamous nature of marriage that concerns them, it's the other shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 04:48 PM
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Noooo... TRP men say you shouldn't marry. But they are weak men, and while they certainly shouldn't marry (unless they get their shit together), it's more a comment on their own predicament than anything else. Not saying marriage is for everyone, or even something to aspire to. But it's always criticized by weak men who shouldn't be considering marriage in the first place. The kind of men who can conduct a successful marriage aren't in TRP. There are some in MRP, but even there, they’re not the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:28 PM
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Two balances that must be vigilantly maintained: Internal vs External validation Short vs Long term goals
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:42 AM
1

For you. The “least” significant thing that would affect your confidence with women, per your top comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:47 AM
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You wouldn’t be neurotic about, say, the size of your right kneecap. Work your way up insignificant things until you arrive at something your could get neurotic about. Then tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:27 AM
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That kinda sucks. If you don’t mind a personal question, what is the least significant thing that would appear on the neurosis radar? Think of any context. I fear the answer will be “nothing is too small” but I had to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:24 AM
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You’re right. Don’t forget, it’s probably more likely for guys around here to be accused of some kind of sexual incorrectness (fairly or not) simply because they’re... ‘off’ in different ways. Yours is a salient reminder, if a little heavy-handed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:19 AM
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You need to understand the context here. Aside from incels and MGTOW, the RP contingent is the most sexually inexperienced group that exists all in one place. Most of what they talk about is theoretical, for them. So when they talk about the wall, they are theorizing about the best case scenario. And the best case scenario for men are younger attractive women, just like if a group of virgin women sat around and talked about their dream man, he would probably be tall, dark and handsome. But in re…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:53 PM
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No man actually slut shames. If a dude cares enough about sluts to comment on them, he wants to fuck them. So he can’t shame them without shaming himself. The men who avoid sluts don’t care enough to comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:34 AM
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He’s no minor troll. He is one of the forces behind the_donald, that sub comprised mostly Russians and the frustrated incel/mgtow/RP crowd. I have to begrudgingly give him props for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 10:26 PM
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Pssst. He's a troll, safe to ignore. Wash hands after handling, if you must.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 07:49 PM
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Yes but it requires a great deal of maturity and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 05:55 PM
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I don’t think that’s a fair assessment. Their chief opponents aren’t “BPers”, it’s themselves. That’s also why their definition of BP differs from what self-described BPers would define themselves as. As an easy example, think of the admonition “be yourself.” That’s anathema for RPers... being themselves is what brought them to their current dilemma. But for a BPer who doesn’t sufffer the particular issues that RP men do, “being themself” works just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 07:49 PM
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I suppose a denial of the masculine/feminine polarity would be a valid contrasting point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 06:40 PM
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Is it just me, or does it seem like what TRP defines as "BP" isn't how self-described BPs would define themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 06:00 PM
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RP men - you can learn something important from this thread if you pay attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:09 AM
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Men with unfulfilling sex lives and/or masculinity issues (Red Pill, MGTOW, Incels, etc.) tend to be fairly unhappy and complain a lot. We tend to weed out the incels who don’t want help but the others are trying to change their situation so it can’t be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:30 AM
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Incel, it’s just the new version of the “geek” or “nerd” stereotype. With murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 03:24 AM
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Yes, sometimes it's only after marriage and the girl moves in and their lives are more intertwined does she find out he's a bit of a loser. Can't blame him though, people are more likely to be on their best behavior while just dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 03:06 AM
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The people with money and class will continue to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 03:42 PM
2

It's not relationship advice, it's methods to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 07:19 PM
1

Unfortunately, they don’t stop there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:35 AM
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Inexperienced men have “theory”, which may or may not reflect reality. Normal, experienced men have this superpower called “discernment”, which actually allows them to learn all kinds of things about women, just by speaking with them! There are theories about judging women on their past, theories about n-count, theories for just about everything a guy could think of while sitting down. It’s a lot of work to keep track of them all, as you can see. Theory is better than nothing, but discernment is…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 11:49 PM
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"Down from the pedestal": Good. "Back to their place": The part where TRP embarrass themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 11:05 AM
2

The same number I would define as "toxic masculinity": zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 10:10 AM
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We could make a concerted push to mainstream “toxic femininity”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 09:33 AM
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Standards will slowly rise as they’ve been doing since the beginning of time, and men juuust on the wrong side of the equation will be found online and in cyber.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 04:45 AM
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TRP have their own "where have all the good women gone", it's called AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 05:42 AM
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I guess I ignore all the sad and fucked up stories. If I paid attention to those I’d be in there all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 05:32 AM
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What’s enjoyable about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 05:19 AM
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Well surely not every single solitary story is a testament to man’s greatness. I don’t read every one, but the cheating variety seem to comprise a small percentage. The scenario where the guy has let himself go, and the wife has let herself go and has turned into a bit of a cunt who may have cheated, and there are kids involved with their own problems, not to mention financial issues and other things. This dude is having a “this is your life” moment, facing all these monumental problems and chao…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 05:14 AM
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C'mon, that's usually pretty obvious...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 04:38 PM
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I think most of the FRs are true but then I've had an adventurous sex life, more 30 minute lays than most guys total N count kind of thing... they can still be cringe though, just knowing what's going on in his little autist mind and how he can't just enjoy the moment, how he feels inferior to the moment. And you know that if she knew how immature he was she would cringe too... ewwww. Way TMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 04:36 PM
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I'm actually not subscribed there, I'll check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 04:07 PM
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Agreed. Sometimes how one dude dealt with failure would be more impressive than how another was successful in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 04:01 PM
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I don't like the stupid ones, I get no joy laughing at hapless men. And there's a big difference between the TRP and MRP OYS threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:32 PM
1

What about the tax cut? I'm sure some of that trickled down. It was more of a loan that our children will have to pay back, but it did help the working class.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:29 PM
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Fair enough. I'm also tired of all the "women don't understand our plight" posts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:23 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:14 PM
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Uhhhhh I was agreeing, not debating. And I quote: Agreed. Get some sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:13 PM
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I should let you know... when so many people are all “leftist” this and “leftist” that... I’m sure ideologues get some tingles, but it’s so played out now that to the rest of us it just makes you sound unserious and intellectually lazy, to be kind. It might help if you used the term with, you know, actual leftists. But probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:07 PM
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Agreed. His incomprehension works in our favor. I feel a little sorry for the news outfits. They have to dutifully repeat all of his lies and disgusting comments which are kinda newsworthy by merit of his office, but kinda not. I’d rather hoped that after that reporter was banned, the major news orgs would grow some balls and just stop reporting on him unless it was something worthy of interest. I’d bet if they went dark, and everyone stopped replying to his twitter pukes, it wouldn’t take more …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 01:59 PM
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You read every word, multiple times, so you know that I offered very little advice. That's because, and I'll say it again, your post was labelled CMV. Not GMA. Maybe you should take a break from posting, you don't seem to be getting the hang of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:23 PM
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Interestingly, you’re the one who is assuming these men deserve to be disliked or hated. You’re voluntarily classifying them as victims. The article was actually sympathetic to their plight. As am I.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 11:57 AM
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You do know what CMV means, yes? If you wanted us to give you sympathy you should have labeled it GMS. Then I would have kissed you on the forehead and tucked you into bed while making soothing sounds. And BP? Me? Jesus, you’re really not paying attention are you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 11:43 AM
1

Do you read TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 11:25 AM
1

Thank god the mainstream press leans a little left. For whatever reason, they are able to maintain their just-off bearings, over years and years, making it easy to correct and contextualize. Fox News is a perfect example of what happens when conservatives get a chance to do the same. Can you imagine what it would be like if things were reversed, and the mainstream news leaned to the right? They wouldn't be just "leaning" very long. It would be abject chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 11:22 AM
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Do you read TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 11:14 AM
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Dude. How many times do I have to say it. The article got it right. We know the article got it right because we sat here and watched as one of the internet's largest collection of weak men went apeshit over this little orange grifter. The article doesn't claim they were the majority, and I would disagree if it did for the simple fact that RP-type guys make up a small percentage of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 11:13 AM
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Women don't treat me that way. Women don't treat my friends that way. Must be you, chief. You're probably not very lovable, or interesting, or talented, or mature, or exciting, or confident. You probably whine to women about shit too, just like you're doing here. You probably offend easily and wallow in self-pity when you get the chance, like you're doing now. And the RP guys who said all those things that you're trying to regurgitate here? Yeah, they have the same problems as you, and they try …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 10:47 AM
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It’s too bad, really. Rarely is there a window of opportunity for a non-politician, “regular” citizen to have a shot. But the clouds parted, Clinton and identity politics fatigue set in, and gave us the chance to elect someone not beholden to the establishment, who could approach the challenges of the office with common sense and integrity. Instead we got this... thing, incapable of rising to a single occasion. And yes he did “win over” some people. They still go to his rallies. I guess neither …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 06:52 AM
1

Someone is grumpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:14 AM
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I'm pretty sure they didn't make any claims about EVERY male who voted for Trump. They basically said that he carried the RP vote, which he did. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:13 AM
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Verbal intelligence, eh? Well I suppose one must start somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:06 AM
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It's frivolous, but true. Or at least they're on the right scent. I don't think it's right to label low amounts of masculinity as "fragile", but you can see what they're getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 03:21 AM
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Jesus. It's a tiny data point, not a summary of the entire election, and has fuck-all to do with the working class or Democrats or forgetfulness or simplicity or "leftists" or shaming. Focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:58 AM
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This isn't a political issue, the post mentioned no politics, nor did the article. Try and stay focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:56 AM
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lol such projection. You mistyped the colon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:50 AM
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He talks like a woman, too. I don't know why this doesn't immediately jump out at everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:48 AM
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Perhaps it's impolite to point it out, but that doesn't change the fact that it's true. RPers have masculinity issues, and as a group were pretty big on Trump, many exuberantly so. It's just a data point, one of many.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 01:45 AM
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Settle down. It's no different than observing that the more educated the voter, the more likely they voted for Clinton, or any other data point. There's nothing to "accept" -- we watched it happen in TRP in real time during the election. It's not a big deal that it was called out by the media, just interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 01:35 AM
1

Do you read TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 01:24 AM
1

Ah.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 11:36 PM
1

Do you read TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 11:33 PM
1

It never did, it was always an internet thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 08:45 PM
2

I think in these situations you’re supposed to do that “imagine I’m naked” trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 12:51 PM
2

When's your autobiography coming out? Oh, you haven't started it? Now you have something to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 10:28 PM
1

I think it was Peterson who gave the best answer. “Can men and women work together successfully? We don’t know yet.” I wonder—would feminism be for or against having the sexes separated at work?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 05:57 PM
1

Of course. It was just the phrasing, saying you want to see him knocked down. You don't want to see him knocked down, but when it happens you do want to help him get back up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 01:23 PM
2

It's pretty easy. You deal with each case of sexual abuse as you find it. You also get all women to stop fucking their work peers and superiors. If tomorrow every woman was magically able to keep her legs closed at work, #metoo would be triumphant. If women stopped voluntarily fucking men at work, then every incident of sex would be rape and easy to identify and prosecute. Easy peasy. Good luck, you have your work cut out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 01:12 PM
6

I think we've all had moments of jealousy over our pet's blissfully unaware existence lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 11:48 AM
2

You have it backwards. The most natural state of affairs is wanton orgies 24/7. I decided at around 13 that I wanted to fuck every woman in the world. (I also once tried to dig a hole through the earth to China. Dream big lol). It wasn’t until far later that I even considered the alternative as being sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 10:54 AM
1

So she’s better at everything except, you know, actually doing the job?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 10:37 AM
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Stop. Comparing. Yourself. To. Women. Like what the fuck?? When did this become okay? Judging from your posts you don’t even know what actually goes on in women’s minds, so you’re being envious of a creature you know little about. You may as well be jealous of your cat. Focus a little more on your own shit and you won’t have time for such frivolous day-dreaming. Repeat after me: “I will not become upset about things out of my control.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 10:34 AM
1

Do you want to phrase that differently? Sounds like when he’s doing well you are sitting there wanting him to fail, imagining it happening, waiting for it... instead of the more reasonable, “I look forward to being there for him if/when he fails.” Because the former isn’t really a good look...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 10:23 AM
2

They want to see you handling your feelings like a man. They want to see you deal with adversity squared up like a man. They don’t want to see you knocked down, they want to see you stand back up. They want to see you overcome with emotion and then smile it off. They want to see you handle your shit. All your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 06:18 AM
1

I doubt they would see him as a violent killer, more likely he’s just a bit “off”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 03:21 PM
2

He didn't kill people because he couldn't get laid; he couldn't get laid because he was the type of dude that kills innocent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 07:01 PM
1

That post and every comment should be burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 06:58 PM
5

The Last March of the Incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 06:54 AM
1

Usually people throwing around accusations like "insecure" don't understand the dominant/submissive dynamic. Since they do not understand it, they do not know how to interpret different aspects. No frame of reference. They'll see dominant or submissive behavior and interpret in terms of power and control and coercion, like the D and S are at odds with each other or something (instead of working naturally and seamlessly together). Dude maintains he wants a submissive wife. Again, lacking context,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 09:51 PM
1

I had noticed that almost all (vocal) TRPers had validation issues, where they don't have sufficient internal validation, and require too much external validation than is healthy. It's the internal validation that builds character and confidence. Thing is, I don't think they're really even aware of their situation. Certainly not the ones in PPD. Most of their posts are about external validation of one type or another, which they also don't realize. How do you assess yourself for such a thing, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 12:10 PM
1

Nice. Which users?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 02:41 AM
1

“Limerence.” Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 02:31 AM
4

I know. Now if you would only stop complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 11:23 PM
5

I don't know. Why the sudden change of subject?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 11:13 PM
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You actually have it exactly backwards. The better the man the more options he’ll have, so he’ll be in no hurry. Other women will be jumping on his cock in the interim, another reason he can afford to be patient when he discerns a quality girl. I swear there must be a paper on The Life of a Quality Man that’s circulated around RP and everyone quotes from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 10:09 PM
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Poor system. You’ll end up dating promiscuous women and writing more woe is me FRs. (The royal you, not you you.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 10:03 PM
3

Then this is not a normal scenario. It's a story about a man who regrets his decisions and is the type to blame his shit on other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 06:17 PM
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the lack of attraction to her is simply because he can't/isn't sleeping with other women. Huh? Perhaps if he resents his wife for his decision to be monogamous. Otherwise it smells like a pile of rationalization. "See, hon? I had to sleep with that chick in order to sleep with you again. I fucked her for you, babe!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 05:34 PM
2

I imagine it thusly: there are a lot of guys right on the border of being datable (or fuckable). But at least in most developed countries, standards are slowly rising. They have always been and always will be. So every generation or whatever, there are those guys who were borderline, but are now out of luck. Women not needing providers as much also plays a role, as do some of the other things TRP points out. But overall, this process, it's always been processing. It's just that now the guys who …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 06:22 AM
1

From friends growing up, but mostly you just learn as you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 12:39 PM
4

These are things the lower class/SMV men have to worry about. The rest of us are doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 08:06 PM
2

How much advice do people need?? You could pick one of many posts there that lay out everything a boy needs to do to become a man. You could pick one of many that lay out everything you need to know and do to become more attractive to women. TRP could shut down right now and there would still be a shit ton of good information. So yes, it’s still a good resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 02:47 AM
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Do you think anyone would want to listen to you more or less after reading posts like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 06:26 PM
3

This one has partially moved on from the anger phase to the revenge fantasy phase. I forget — what phase is next?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 10:18 AM
2

“Friend zone” is a deceptive label. They are not friends, cannot be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 07:59 AM
1

And they're not taking laying down sitting down, are they? That is to say, they're not going quietly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 10:17 AM
1

Could a Black Piller help me out? Question: Have Black Pills given up in some way? That's my impression, that the black pills are resigned to some romantic fate. Is this correct? (Spelling edit)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 03:17 AM
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This is just a wild guess, but you should probably be more concerned with what you bring to the table, as it's you who is having relationship issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 08:06 PM
1

You have it backwards. The diggers are the plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 10:49 AM
1

Their biggest problem is not society, it’s themselves. Logically, if they harm anyone it should be themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 02:08 AM
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Odd thing to say. You have a whole sub of dudes right there who don’t think they’re in the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 06:15 PM
1

The people who are actually dating didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 06:08 PM
1

Zero social media. She’s going to have to work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 01:19 AM
1

Retracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 07:52 AM
1

It’s against type. Men are strong and fearless, go the other way, make jokes. Women are proper and demure, go the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 03:01 AM
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It's not impossible to feel. Just because you've never felt something, or had someone feel something for you, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. There are more people than you on the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 03:33 PM
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I've never seen a nature show mention the % of males that mate, you're just inserting 80/20 arbitrarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 02:53 PM
1

It's like harmless and subversive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 08:28 AM
1

Men shape the world, women populate it. Seems fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 01:21 AM
1

Someone give her some more places she can post her number so more 4chan er incels see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 01:20 AM
1

I don’t get the “cope”. It’s cool because it’s projecting? The incels are the ones having to cope, so they tell everyone else to cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 12:35 AM
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Be single if you want to be single, shouldn’t need to look for excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 08:43 PM
5

And you’re bitching about them bitching. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 11:08 AM
1

Be patient, it’s a new thing, having a conspiracy-minded judge on the Supreme Court. Should at least be entertaining. And no, he can’t hurt me. But he certainly won’t help you, either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 11:04 AM
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Hint: I’m quite sure she prefers it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 09:46 AM
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I don’t think it was the emotions I think it was the lying and partisan drivel and conspiracy theories that turned off the intelligent people I know, regardless of party.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 08:12 AM
3

Well what are you waiting for??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:36 AM
1

Even if everything you said is true and in the worst possible way, it wouldn't make her wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:03 AM
1

With?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:52 AM
1

How can you think of someone who oozes self pity as arrogant??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:51 AM
1

Would someone with photoshop skills put these guys into a pic of a guy having fun with other people and see how it changes people's perception?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:33 AM
1

Lewis is all right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 10:29 PM
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Your confusion arises from a lack of understanding of women's attraction. Your OP barely even makes sense. You imagined how you would act if you were a woman, and now just can't figure out why women-as-women do not behave like your man-imagining-woman does. Women cannot fully assess what they find physically attractive about a man until they've established their level of sexual attraction. It's almost a kind of Schrodinger's Attraction paradox. She might be attracted to his large nose. She might…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 11:10 AM
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False. I see a wide and disparate variety of men who have women. You should be able to duplicate this experience by walking around different parts of town on nice days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:51 AM
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Yes, real RP women like real alpha men. Sounds like she found one. Good for her, and thanks for letting us know the good news.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:29 PM
1

Right? Why do we have to get the timid, beat-down sad sacks in PPD? I know it’s a pill sub so we need bodies to make the appropriate TRP noises at the appropriate times, but eventually their sense of helplessness kinda brings down the mood of the place. Oh, but the worst is when one bravely decides to color outside the lines and opine on what actually goes on in an actual woman’s mind in actual real life. Sometimes I literally cringe when I start reading a post and notice them beginning to put t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:39 AM
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Already unsubscribed, see you next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:17 PM
2

Mods - There are still daily posting limits though, right? Please say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 07:33 PM
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If you’re someone who can get away with it, then you’ll know that you’re someone who can get away with it, because it was used in your family and social circles since forever, and you’ve used it your whole life without issue, and you’re probably of a certain age and from one of a number of distinct localities. Some dude using a term of endearment apropos of nothing will likely have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 10:05 AM
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In the early stages. They should all but fade as time goes by, and I’m talking LTR not fling. If everywhere they look they see someone with their shit together, they won’t need to test you, barring the occasional little freak-out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 10:00 AM
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Soooo don't over comfort. And don't be "best friends" or whatever other non-romantic rubbish is recommended these days. (Haha nice flair)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 11:28 PM
1

Not sure where that leaves us. That very same ground is also claimed by countless TRPers. But if you are actively pursuing sexual relationships and wish to discuss ideas and tactics, those posts would be welcome at PPD. But the posts I’ve seen from black pills are usually complaints about their lack of success, with a healthy dose of defeatism. These kinds of posts contribute nothing to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 09:47 PM
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Atlas should join the mod team. She's more RP than most of them combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 05:04 AM
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A good number of guys you see on TRP eschew LTRs because they cannot attract LTR quality women. And the whole ‘high quality men don’t do LTRs’ is just a cop out. Theory, at best, by weak men imagining what it must be like to be a strong man in full. There are lots of good arguments for LTRs that align with TRP theory. Have you not found any?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 04:56 AM
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This is based on experience, not logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 05:58 PM
1

It feels as if you're intentionally missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 05:04 AM
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I think promiscuous/non-monogamous women are rarely good candidates for LTRs, and the same goes for women with low self control. Look, do your thing, I'm just pointing out another path to additional women if LTRs are an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 07:39 AM
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“Men”? Sorry champ, you’re on your own on this one. Lots of men love intelligent, accomplished women. Lots of men find that such things can add to a woman’s attractiveness. In fact, lots of men have standards that all but require such things. Maybe try a little harder to stick with the more accurate "I" instead of the tempting but over-reaching "men". "TRP Men" would be an acceptable middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 05:48 AM
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It’s natural to be concerned about sustaining attraction, especially if that’s been a problem in the past, but allowing it to keep one from a whole class of women isn’t the best approach. (Assuming one is willing and able to conduct an LTR. If not then disregard.)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 04:32 AM
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It’s your imagination, who knows what happens. Why don’t you tell us. Do you play an actual role in this one or is it vicariously through Chad as usual?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 10:11 PM
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Stick to visualizing Chad fucking chicks, it’s healthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 10:06 PM
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Uhh they were telling you the truth, that looks matter less to women than men. And when they told you to "just be yourself", they didn't mean your pathetic self, they meant to be the "yourself" that they see you be when you're in your element - confident, funny, bold, etc. If you don't stop blaming women for your short-comings you'll never be able to resist the urge to write these little self-pitying posts. You don't want that, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 09:43 PM
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If you've been paying attention, a lot of posts over the last year or so have had no purpose other than to attempt to normalize the way incels et al experience life. They are easy to spot. Look for a sense of resignation with clouds of self-pity, all pointing to some (usually) female trait that has doomed some part of their life to ruin. They will stand out because they are missing any sense that the poster is interested in improving their lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 09:27 PM
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"Boys teaching other boys how to be men" sums it up well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 12:51 AM
2

He does have irrational self-confidence, but that's about all the 'alpha' there is, unfortunately. If this didn't give TRPers the tingles they might notice he's decidedly feminine in speaking style, emotional control... he's pretty much AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 12:46 AM
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The only men we know for sure are BP are, ironically, RP Men. They then set to work on becoming less BP, with varying degrees of success. But unless there's data indicating otherwise, I assume all RP Men still behave in a BP manner. Certainly the behavior of the TRPers we see in PPD does not dissuade me of this opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 05:26 PM
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Ping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 02:04 AM
2

Nobody is at fault. Men can get by without doing hardly any physically taxing labor, without being challenged to think and problem-solve, and without ever really working hard in pursuit of something over a period of time requiring tenacity, leadership, creativity, and a whole lot of elbow grease. It's those activities which used to be present in more boys' youth that gave them the skills and courage to do things like approach women, explore their passions/hobbies, etc. They not only learn skills…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 12:42 AM
2

They’re not angry at the sluts, they’re angry that they can’t even fuck sluts. But it’s important to remember that just having the opinion that promiscuity is unhealthy does not count as slut-shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 06:50 PM
2

You win.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 03:25 PM
1

Stop splitting hairs. He said they know about TRP, therefore she could identify TRP methods when used.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 03:18 PM
4

‘Autismo’, nice. Think that up yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 03:12 PM
1

Why don't you review that first paragraph. Certainly you didn't mean to imply that all normal people have an obligation to help PUA/RP types and be 'on their side.' Because I reject that claim on my time. And stop with the black knighting, it's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 04:45 PM
1

Maybe that's why he's not responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 04:29 PM
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Care to back up that claim? What is the number of real-life women that you know for a fact: Understand RP ideas Reject some RP ideas Had the rejected ideas performed on her Liked it Pardon the challenge. I see these kinds of claims thrown around all the time and I’m just curious what exactly you mean here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 06:35 AM
2

Yeah, I had always assumed LDRs started out physical lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 01:57 AM
2

Doesn’t recognize attraction from a girl when they see it, and/or doesn’t even believe it when explicitly told. First witnessed this back in HS. Sure, I saw the classic ‘chick does everything to indicate her interest short of pulling his dick out right there and he has no clue’ a few times. Who hasn’t. It gets worse. I’ve gotten a lot of my friends laid, and yep, a couple times dudes just couldn’t believe I was handing them a girl to go fuck. But this guy. This guy took it to another level. He w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 09:21 AM
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The answer is in the first paragraph of your link to the dread post: “Dread” is putting the fear or ‘dread’ in your wife that you have other opportunities and other options rather than being chained to her whims. They HATE it- or at least they will TELL you they hate it- but women are irresistibly attracted to men who have options. This is well known as "Secondary Selection" or "Pre-selection Bias." So that’s the premise. Steps 1-5 is the guy working to make himself more attractive, then 6-12 se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 08:44 AM
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What makes a girl you marry higher quality than a girlfriend? Girls looking for an LTR are higher quality than promiscuous girls. They just are. Why can't you get companionship without marriage? Why can't you have kids unless you marry? It’s a different kind of companionship. Don’t necessarily have to marry for kids but it’s more convenient. I've never seen someone judge someone's competency by whether or not they were married. What if I tell people I'm divorced, does that bring me higher on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 07:07 PM
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Higher quality women. Companionship. Raise family. Business & business/social necessity. E: I would recommend marriage only if a) you are already financially set, and b) you’re high on dominance spectrum & your shit is on point. All of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 10:51 AM
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It’s an emergency measure, not meant for healthy relationships, although minor cases of ‘dread’ occur naturally. Normal people call it by it’s more colloquial names, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 01:19 AM
2

100 dicks is an odd time to start getting concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 08:53 AM
2

This is correct. For example, Trump is UC financially but lower class socially. Or no-class. Everyone avoids him socially. Or did.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 05:21 AM
1

It’s hard for some men to be sexually successful. But for most men it doesn’t take any extra work—just the work to live a full, self-possessed life. Women will marvel at the expanse of his experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 05:10 AM
6

Triple digits? The fuck? Kid, have you even had sex yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 04:59 AM
1

You’ll find a lot of sexism in a sub that discusses sex, but it’s the good kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 03:23 AM
1

If you're already whining about sexism 6 minutes in you're going to have a long night. Did you mean sexist in a bad way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 01:05 AM
3

Sure, all the time. Low class, low intelligence, low maturity, low athleticism, low personality...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:10 PM
2

I can get them never witnessing it, but to muse whether it's an impossibility is... Hold on. God fucking dsmmit I missed it again. This is another self-pity post. They use the exaggeration (doesn't exist) to draw comparison with their own plight. Anything to explain away that it's their personality that is unattractive, which we know because they're here making these posts trying to normalize their shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 05:35 AM
1

It is so commonplace in women for attraction to form over time that this threads existence is just peculiar. But it does support a thought that's slowly been forming: RP men are unlike normal men in one specific way. The way that they are different is fundamental enough to affect every decision and subtle enough that the outcome is often the same no matter the lessor or bettor be chosen, but specific enough to encumber its owners the same challenges and shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 12:04 AM
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TRP skews MC to LMC. RP* and PPD skew UMC because those are the women who have time to sit around and chat about this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 12:21 PM
1

I was always curious why a high number of RP men, including many ECs, were still having to “hold frame” to appear strong or possessing emotional maturity, etc. even years after beginning their self-improvement journey. Why, I wondered, were they still stuck on process instead of just experiencing the principle. If someones dial is set too far for external validation, they may never develop that core confidence that a self-possessed life generates. Even one of their thought leaders, GLO, still ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 05:45 AM
1

Frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 07:08 AM
1

It's not bullying if you have to go out of your way to find it lol. Repeat after me: I am not a victim...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:10 AM
1

Nice try, but normal, healthy men do not feel ashamed for being hurt by women. Whatever shame you are feeling, its source is elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:37 PM
1

I'm beginning to think that the balance between seeking internal and external validation plays a huge role for men in who turns out to be the beta RP type, and who turns out normal and healthy. And it does seem to be hard-wired to a certain extent. How would one even change such a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:18 PM
1

How does this sound: Especially for me, having women want to sleep with me is a signal that I'm doing ok in life. Women are valuable to me just because they are women. I am by default useless and disposable, I only have value if I create it somehow. Having women want to sleep with me is a sign that I am not useless and have some value. Without that, I am as disposable as a piece of trash. Normal people will never comprehend this style of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:06 PM
1

You're absolutely correct, women lack empathy for male strangers. If women were more empathetic we would see them over-represented in "helping" professions such as social worker, nursing, caregivers, and 'cause' related jobs - such as for non-profits or charitable organizations. Oh, wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 10:20 PM
1

Really? How many partners have you had since you were married? Who are all these women telling you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:14 PM
0

Yes, women became more competitive, and men became LESS competitive. And lazier, and fatter, and weaker. Witness TRP. And it's probably just a drop in the bucket when it comes to the number of weak men in countries developed enough that they don't have any excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 10:38 PM
1

Those complaints imply that the complainer also sucks. In fact he might just suck more than the average suck. At least I don’t hear them whining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 06:59 PM
1

Some betas don't seem to mind it, but others such as the beta RPers do seem to mind. I wonder what the difference is. Amount of sex, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:15 PM
1

Strike the last. I knew that didn’t sound right. I am not disposable, but the relationship is. Nothing changes for me if we stop. You’re making it personal. Bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 10:20 AM
2

Simple. AWALT is true, just incomplete. It should read “All Women I Attract Are Like That.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 01:30 AM
1

From what multi-gender workplace study did you decide what was optimal?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 09:50 PM
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Would you guys please make up your goddam minds? Either feel outraged about how much easier women can get sex, OR feel outraged that a small number cheat. I know a double-dose feeling of outrage sounds really attractive for your outragers, but you can’t have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 10:35 PM
2

Is that why you don't want any women astronauts? So they don't out-earn you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 06:25 PM
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When one reaches adulthood they begin the process of examining who they ended up and deciding what to keep and what to throw away. This process can take a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 06:37 PM
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I'm all for keeping a journal of whatever the mind wishes to put to paper. I do, and it will provide answers to many people's questions that I didn't have the time or maybe the ability to answer along the way. A journal is honest. There's nobody to impress by regurgitating other people's ideas, or repeating your own too often. There's nobody to BS. If you lie in your journal you have serious issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 12:54 PM
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Eh. There’s a type of man who is indiscriminate in who they share personal details, and a different type who is selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 05:13 AM
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Sure, I don’t disagree. But remember the question here is what can annoy people about TRP, not whether it’s useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 05:10 AM
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Lighten up, it was joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:27 AM
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You can’t fault a dude for doing research.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 02:10 AM
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TRP dishes it out. They will take some The self-pity Strong men of value never sit around talking about being strong men of value
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 03:34 AM
2

We’re learning something here but not about the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:17 PM
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That is an honest answer. There will always be women like that. Are you always going to get emotionally involved in their lives, for the rest of your life? I’m hoping that is a rhetorical question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:56 AM
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Thanks, so noted. Now put that picture of George Clooney away and finish your homework.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 05:29 PM
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Yeah, I was looking for Heather Locklear's twin back in the 90s, too. Lots of women have difficulty finding a partner, I just don't think it's any harder for the career-focused ones than it's ever been. I hope you're not speculating about women's difficulty finding partners based on what you as a man would do if you were a woman. That never ends well. We also can't forget about the "crisis of masculinity". I don't buy it, TRP notwithstanding... but if true and there are fewer good men, that's mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 04:51 PM
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Sounds like you're listening to what women say instead of what they do. I expect the percentage of lists that include "6'2" with strong shoulders dreamy eyes" is pretty high too. We're talking about describing their optimum partner. Of course they will aim high... and usually end up with something not quite as good. Or did you think that women stick to their dream guy list forever, never even considering lesser men? C'mon. Reality bitch-slaps everyone in the face at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 04:10 PM
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I'm referring only to career-focused women. Women are writing about this, huh? That's pretty convincing. How many women have you seen write about this? Anyways, the article you posted was full of holes but it's just a summary, hopefully I'll run across the full study. I mean, this conclusion isn't exactly brimming with confidence: “At a minimum, our results reinforce the view that highly educated women may face increasingly difficult marriage trade-offs when the likelihood of a suitable match is…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 03:27 PM
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I agree, there do exist women who become cynical about all men after experiencing misbehavior from one man. What I don’t understand is, why do you care what these women think or do? And of all the women to compare yourself to, why these? And why compare yourself to women at all? What good can come of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 01:13 PM
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Yeah I’m calling bullshit. UC and UMC women don’t appear to have any difficulties finding men. Surely there must have been some change as women became able to have higher standards, but it’s not as if corporate America is so awash with top tier women that they’re having man auctions or something. In fact I haven’t noticed a particular shortage of datable women either, a la the TRP man’s lament. Maybe the two are related, with the respectable women’s standards leaving some pockets of men behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 01:06 PM
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Oh I don’t know, I doubt any girl worth being in the same room with thinks like that. It’s not a sentiment I’ve heard in actual life. A little awkwardness can be cute. Make sure you aren’t misinterpreting a discussion of maturity. Because nothing turns off a good girl more than an immature, irresponsible dude. It infuriates me when I’m forced to deal with stupid shit so I can relate. Because that IS something I’ve heard more than once. ‘Guy was cool’ but he just didn’t own his shit, like a man s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 12:04 AM
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So not quite “most.” I think TRP is a bad example because they’re betas, so of course they’re going to be a turnoff. I don’t think women have an issue with a normal dude getting dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 03:50 PM
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Are you the jacked, well-dressed charismatic ugly? Or the reddit ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 03:10 PM
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Can you provide a single example of a woman saying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 03:02 PM
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People are by nature sympathetic to those who can’t get laid. If someone doesn’t like you it’s probably for reasons other than your lack of sexual success. I mean seriously, how does your lack of sex impact anyone? There’s no cause for anger. But I suppose inceldom can be a useful foil for going around saying stupid shit, so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 09:13 AM
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You don't seem to have figured it out yet, so I'll just tell you: one goal in making men wait is to weed out dudes like you. As long as you the way you are now, you'll keep having this happen to you. So you can either change, get used to it, or aim for lower quality women. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:04 AM
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"CMV As SoloBecomesMe there is no reason to date, have sex, or get married." FYP. And stop with the grand pronouncements based on your experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 04:51 AM
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Engage in self-pity. Be irresponsible, don’t take care of your shit. Both are attraction killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:30 PM
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The fuck? Your kids need to know what a man is so they can either become one or marry one. Your wife should already know. If becoming more agreeable and less dominant sounds great to you then sure, go beta it up. That’s assuming it’s even possible. I’m not sure it is. Even if I could act more beta it would be just that, an act. And I wouldn’t enjoy it, so why would I even attempt it? The more I think about it, I don’t think it is possible. It just goes against nature itself. If beta qualities we…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:13 PM
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His logic is unassailable. For the record, I also incorporated into my reply the reason OP isn't getting laid. I tried to meet him on all levels. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 11:22 PM
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Rather, the point is incorporated into my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 10:48 PM
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I’d go one further. If a dude hasn’t been laid by say 18, he will always have problems with women. Same goes for if he doesn’t have some tight friendships and basic social skills by that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 09:03 PM
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Because. They. Have. Fun. I don’t know how to use smaller or fewer words for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 08:55 PM
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The main reason is that both frat boys and preppy boys alike like to have fun, and keep things fun. Reading TRP, do you get the feeling that these guys are fun in real life? Or sometimes even enjoyable to be around at all? And not fun in an intellectual, clever way, but fun as in out on a beach with a bonfire and playing frisbee.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 08:32 PM
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You forgot the important one: TRPers are betas. Dudes just learning how to be men aren't ready for relationships. Most seem aware of this and eschew LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 06:25 PM
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The idea of comparing yourself to women to the point of envy is ridiculous. We are different sexes. Remember, that whole "women are from venus" thing? No use being jealous of them, because that problem will never resolve. You will not be a female. Plus you have no clue about the female existence, so there's that, too. I don't know if you should feel shame for such a farce. Embarrassment should suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 03:17 PM
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I re-read the OP. How is my post an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 05:04 AM
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Irrelevant and any attention past a cursory look is a waste of time and you should examine your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 11:51 PM
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Wow. You guys are really emotionally invested in this 'disposable' angle, aren't you? What's up with that? What does it do for you? -- Duh, it's the self-pity thing, and this is a serviceable premise... after all, it is not the thing's fault that it is disposable. And your argument against self improvement felt so awkward lol, but I didn't have time to consider why. This whole post was just a troll by some incels in a constant search for self pity. And if I'm wrong I'm not far off. I'm sympathet…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:06 AM
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Well. I guess I see where you're coming from now. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:45 AM
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I suppose I am, but what an odd way to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 02:55 AM
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Yeah I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this idea of disposability. Or more properly put, indispensability. Apart from saving his woman from a fire or a gang of biker rapists, no man is really indispensable when you get down to it. And do we really want to be? I'd rather women be with me by choice, not because they were forced to due to my being indispensable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 02:26 AM
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Settle down kid, I'm not trolling you. If we are not to judge a man by his value, what do we use instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:34 AM
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I said, "Valuable men aren't disposable. Become valuable." You said, "If the object loses value then it is disposed of." Those look pretty similar, apart from your poor grammar. You have an oddly combative style of agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:02 AM
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Humanity? Thought we were discussing disposability. Look, why don't you succinctly summarize your views in this area so we're speaking the same language.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:42 AM
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So men become more disposable the more valuable they are? Are you sure that's what you believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:13 AM
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Valuable men aren't disposable. Become valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:06 AM
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Nice trick, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:07 AM
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How were you able to read a deleted post?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:32 AM
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Fine, discuss it. Then forget about it. Feeling envious of the opposite sex is a bad place to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:20 AM
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Stop comparing yourself to women. They're a different sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:36 PM
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Out of curiosity, why were you telling so many people about your virginity?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 05:35 AM
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Being envious of the opposite sex is, to put it kindly, irrational. But I didn’t ask about women, I asked about you. Who told you, or implied, that society owes you something? That it’s supposed to care about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 04:57 PM
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Who told you society was supposed to dry your tears in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:58 PM
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Flip the genders in your post and you have word for word an argument against AWALT which is roundly rejected by TRP. If jammerly could form an unreasonable AMALT view of men based on the ones she has known, could you explain why it’s unimaginable that TRP is largely a collection of guys who have done the same [with girls]?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:43 AM
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I could pat you on the head and say “There, there.” Would that make you feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 02:47 PM
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It’s kind of a closed loop. If you’re an adult male who for whatever reason never figured out what it means to a man, TRP will certainly improve your life and sexual options. If you are a normal, healthy man who learned it at a young age, as well as a bunch of other social skills like talking to and flirting with girls, then you have the real thing and don’t need TRP. The only guys who talk about masculinity are guys with masculinity issues. I’ve yet to see a group of strong, masculine men discu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 02:42 PM
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You worked so hard on that insult and she didn’t even notice. I think you need some new material, champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 02:30 PM
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How you think about it will affect how women think about it, if it ever comes up. They will partly take their cue from you. So get your own mind straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 10:23 PM
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In the world? Maybe. In a room? Almost always.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 08:35 AM
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Weak men who continually fail "shit tests" are intimately familiar with them. Men who don't fail, or rarely get tested at all, are largely unaware of what's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 04:18 AM
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Not the best place to ask this. It’s women higher on dominance spectrum that can slut it up and not have mental problems, and these women go for high-d (or at least deeply masculine) men, which TRP isn’t exactly teeming with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:14 PM
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I know lawyers, have two on retainer. It was an innocent question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 05:33 PM
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Maybe social media isn't that social after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 05:25 PM
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Could you still over-generalize? Because that's what the post is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 05:18 PM
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C'mon. Read it again. I'm talking about over-generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 05:14 PM
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A paranoid lawyer?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 05:11 PM
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Nice. What kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 04:37 PM
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Wow, it sounds like this talk with your friends at the wedding ended up having a profound effect on basically the rest of your entire life. Pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:59 AM
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Well put. That would be an example of erring on the side of clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:05 AM
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Sure but I wasn't talking truth and falsity, I was talking about preciseness of speech so that definitions don't blur and one does not begin mischaractizing and mislabeling things and people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:02 AM
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I accept your point that undue emphasis on semantics is a distraction. Yet there is safety there because it is precise. When you go the other direction from clarity you get blur, lines run together, and it's very easy to over-generalize, conveniently and self-servingly so at times. Being less precise gives you more wiggle room, which you'll need in order to make the adjustments that are necessary precisely because everything is less organized. And further down that Blur Road is self-pity. It pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:52 AM
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TRP has an uneasy relationship with the concept of outliers. Not quite horse shit, but no thoroughbred either. Ultimately TRP doesn't have enough experience with women that they should feel optimistic about writing an exhaustive treatise. That said, they've done pretty well. The stickler is maturity. I'll try to choose my words carefully here. Immaturity in one or more areas is what ails virtually every man who has taken the 'RP journey.' I mean that in the simplest meaning of the word. Underdev…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:01 AM
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I didn't know Atlas was a practicing lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 09:07 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 09:03 PM
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Good stuff. What year of TRP did you learn that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 05:51 PM
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He's trying to frame men as victims, in this case of false claims of misogyny or whatever. Best to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:05 AM
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Go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:14 AM
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And /r/MRPW?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:42 PM
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TRP (the dudes not the praxeology) would explain you as 'outliers'. We must both live in weird pockets of high density outlier particles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 06:12 AM
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My man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 11:26 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 05:33 PM
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Those are ramifications of what I'm discussing, which happened in the 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:24 AM
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Yep. Funny how the pious predicted gay marriage would do in traditional marriage when marriage was half in the shitter already.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:23 AM
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Here's a tissue. Yes, TRP is doing good work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:17 AM
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They had it as good as it could be at the time. Lock-down marriages with severe stigma attached for leaving cavalierly. Real world repercussions. As for weak men in general, I wouldn't mind if they died out. It's a waste of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 12:06 AM
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Indirectly, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 09:58 PM
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Let's backtrack, because I didn't actually answer your question. Q: How is TRP responsible? A: It isn't. I didn't say TRP was responsible, I said the kind of weak men who adopt TRP were responsible. I explained how, but there are better explanations ITT.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 09:51 PM
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Women tired of these men, fought to give themselves more control in order to avoid them, and these same men acquiesced and gave them power.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 09:20 PM
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You're concerned with women getting what is fair, by your standards, which means you're comparing yourself to them unfavorably, which to you means you're a victim. Victimhood and self-pity are pretty inseparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 09:14 PM
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Weak men acquiesced to women, gave them what they wanted. Because the weak men... well who knows. Perhaps they saw potential for more sex or power. And this whole blame the feminists trope is nonsense. It's pure self-pity. That shit don't fly anywhere else. "Why did you do this?" "Someone told me it was a good idea." "And?" Manager: Bob, why didn't you do this the way I told you? Bob: Someone said I should do it a different way. Manager: Bob, if someone told you to jump off a bridge... Men did t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 09:04 PM
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No it doesn't. Your comment reeks of self-pity though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:53 PM
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Society? Men had the power. Men fucked things up for men. And which men were these?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:50 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:47 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:10 PM
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Cohort wrong word. I think you're being obtuse. They were the same kind of men they have complained helped ruin things. Ruined things... for men like themselves. Double irony?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 03:19 PM
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Right. It was the betas who listened to feminism that yadda yadda. I think that's the flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 03:14 PM
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TRP has often spoke of the betas that helped ruin things. Just pointing out who those were.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 03:12 PM
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Trying to use RP terms. I've always used "weak" but that seemed unnecessarily antagonistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 03:08 PM
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RPM were part of the cohort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 03:07 PM
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Perhaps. His 'message' is to men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 10:05 AM
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A FR that's believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 02:29 AM
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What, do you think RP is some holy book of rights and wrongs? As a general rule denying everything and always blaming someone else isn't a horrible tactic if you can pull it off. Especially as it pertains to sexual strategy--which TRP just happens to be--where it can help you look more confident and successful. And blameless I suppose. Anyways, the proper way to judge something in TRP is by the sex standard: does this help me sex more and better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 09:45 AM
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Not always. With the caveat that I'm not here recommending opposite sex friends, this is how you do it, from elsewhere in the comments: 1) Decide that this will not be a romantic relationship. She is more important to you as a friend. 2) Abide. When romantic thoughts occur--and it's likely at some point that some will--they are dismissed out of hand. It has already been decided, no further consideration necessary. The more you practice this discipline the more automatic it becomes. Does that see…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:38 AM
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Sure, but it's different. Part of friendship is knowing someone really well, or at least an important part of them. Men and women are different in enough respects that they will never really understand the other to the same degree they will someone of the same sex. As for the argument that sexual attraction will be a barrier, sure, it would be better if it wasn't there, but it's not terribly difficult to deal with. This is how you do it: 1) Decide that this will not be a romantic relationship. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:21 AM
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Here's a tip: they are angry at themselves, not women. As glib as that sounds, it helps explain what we see from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 10:55 PM
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Knowing what you know now, do you think you could have saved the first relationship? I wonder if explaining to a woman why her attraction is waning would help. Depends on the woman of course, but let's say she has a basic understanding of the masculine/feminine dynamic and how attraction works. If nothing else it could encourage her to be patient, to ride it out as long as possible in the hopes the feels would return.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:54 PM
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In hindsight, how do you think you handled the injury, as a man? What would you do different if you found yourself in a similar situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:15 PM
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In what areas do women compare themselves to men, in your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:32 PM
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Word.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:38 PM
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No it is not. I fear it will get worse before it gets worser. I wonder why incels don’t contentedly turn to pros. There’s no shame in that whatsoever, it’s a time honored tradition that emerged shortly after marriage did. I wonder too, is it the unfulfilled physical need for sex that’s most frustrating, or some kind of shame for being undesirable that grinds them the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:33 PM
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You have correctly identified the joke in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:18 PM
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Alright that’s fine but a few minutes ago you said you feel isolated and were looking to attach yourself to a man, as a friend or mentor I assume, so you sounded in a bad way. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:13 PM
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You really painted a picture but it's not of me. I was simply indifferent to feminism. What little I knew was boring and I had no interest in learning more or discussing what I knew. The loudest proponents were also the weirdest looking, which didn't help. It never came up in conversation because it wasn't a part of polite conversation. But right now I'm starting to feel dislike for feminism, seeing as how I'm wasting time writing some bullshit post about it. So you were exposed to it just in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:01 PM
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Right, I get that. It's not what I'm referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:17 AM
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I edited the comment a couple back. Does it make more sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:14 AM
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I've managed to go 35+ years without ever seriously considering what feminists think about anything. I'm barely aware of their existence. Yet you sound besieged on all sides by feminists and their ilk. Were you just exposed to a high dose of feminist culture at some point, or did you seek out their opinions? E: Thinking more, I realize there were more feminists around at certain points than I initially thought. They just didn't make it onto my radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:54 AM
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I'm rather struck by how the men were so pathetic, and the women so strong and virtuous, that you were mildly traumatized by it all. You looked at these men and regretted not being a women. That is a very pronounced reaction. Thought men were more dominant in the ME. The ones I know sure fucking are. I'll let you in on a little secret: life is a solitary experience, kid. There will never be anyone else in there with you. You don't need someone backing you up. You're not isolated, you're free and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:45 AM
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Careful, you're close to begging the question for me. :) I'm talking about when the gimp keeps finding ways to mention this (uh, fictional) state of affairs over and over again. First time is "Look what I learned." Last time is just "Look at me."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 06:56 AM
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Ah, that's a good distinction. I misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 06:44 AM
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Solipsism. Believe it or not, women function differently than men imagining what it’s like being a woman do. For one thing, women don’t behave like they’re being controlled by a dude who is acting like a dude with a woman’s body. Nor do they get all wet at the thought of all the men they aren’t attracted to that want to sleep with them. Like a man might. Because men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:20 AM
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Looks like I may have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:23 AM
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Bad sentencing. TM was an example of men being treated poorly as stated in previous sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:07 AM
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I suppose, but nobody ever screams shit at me. Of course neither do I provide the ability for any stranger with an uplink to speak to me. If a dude just minds his own business and does his own thing shouldn’t he be able to avoid most of the unpleasant people?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 09:13 PM
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Do you know of any books or the like that cover the internal life of women with any success?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 08:51 PM
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Maybe it's just me. I can't think of a good reason to compare myself to another man. I suppose when I size up a stranger I might make a comparison or two, but I'm comparing him to me, and it's over quickly. The idea of being envious of the opposite sex is such an alien thought that I just have to smile when I think about it. It's so marvelously irrational there's almost a naïveté charm to the whole affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 08:47 PM
5

Whoa, you went big. This doesn't even qualify as a take-down of TRP because my issue isn't with TRP principles, just the behavior of some of its adherents. I didn't want to quote anyone because it seemed too personal, but I might have to. I really thought this would be an obvious one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 08:18 PM
1

I understand your point, but I can tell the difference between a salient comparison and grumbling and it’s the latter that concerns me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 08:13 PM
1

Fair points, but I meant TM as an example of how men might feel put-upon by society, in keeping with my point, not as root cause for anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 08:12 PM
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Ah, so some guys are feeling abandoned by society at large in some measure. Man's very nature, masculinity, is labelled as "toxic." We are the violent brutes trying not to accidentally squish the fragile innocent girls. Didn't consider that angle before but it doesn't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:59 PM
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They call themselves RP, I can’t sort them beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:54 PM
4

So dude thinks we were equal, turns out women appear to have advantage in SMP and he gets pissed he has to work harder? Makes sense but not a good enough reason and indicates an immature mind
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:52 PM
3

Yes it is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:44 PM
1

That works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:42 PM
6

Not sure if serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:37 PM
2

C’mon, you must notice it too. It’s not the outliers, it’s common. In PPD and TRP. Down that path lies self-pity and misplaced anger. It’s also not healthy, so don’t be cramping my style while I’m giving out healthy love treats.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:07 PM
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Thoughtful response. I’m not saying the realization of, or pondering over, the disparity in SMPs is itself wrong, but the way it’s wielded here, as a complaint against what, reality I suppose, and then insisting that women acknowledge it (hint: they know, and it’s irrelevant—both them knowing and the disparity itself). It’s a self-harming observation because it will never be resolved and let’s not focus on our shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:02 PM
4

The.......RP dudes who say those things I listed, that you just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:52 PM
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I think that they think that an understanding of the RP tenets allows them to understand how women experience life, and since they know what it's like to be a woman they feel qualified to analyze the experience and even suggest improvements, all while being taken seriously instead of the blank stares like before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:46 PM
2

Heh...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:58 PM
2

A woman's attraction to a man is more complex. In looking for a mate she has to consider his qualities as a father to a child, not only his physical characteristics but the ability to provide for and protect her and the family. So strength, aggression, leadership qualities, etc. all come into play. A man basically has two check-boxes for women: Is she hot enough to fuck, and not too annoying. It's much easier for a woman's check-list to be missing some items than a man's. Due to simple probabili…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 08:06 PM
1

Nice. Sounds like this journey is about to get interesting. Remember, don't wait until you think everything is perfect, just get out there, have fun. It's all about fun at this point. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 12:33 AM
1

What are you waiting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 11:23 PM
1

Just don't talk about failure. And why would you want to anways?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 10:32 PM
1

Thanks! Haven't had a gold star since 1st grade. I think I remember how to make a crown out of cardboard paper, and still have some glitter from the rave days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 10:23 PM
2

That's what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 10:17 PM
1

Really? Nobody knows there are, like, vows in the wedding?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 08:28 PM
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This this this. When women say they want you to "open up", they are not visualizing you telling them about all the areas where you are unsuccessful and losing... losing the battle with depression, losing some conflict at work, losing to extra weight, losing emotional control, etc. etc. If you want to share those things, do it after the fact, when you have won. That way you kill two birds with one stone. They see that you are human, which could be a bonding thing, and they see you winning at some…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 08:07 PM
1

Just occurred to me, we have a case of dueling principles, very much at odds with each other—Briffault’s Law and Atlas’s Coins. Come to think of it, they behave more like categories than laws, both being true for different groups of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 10:01 AM
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What a gross word, “vulnerable.” Even sounds a little evil. In this context it’s about a weakness (bad), and worse, someone learning about the it (badder). There is no part of that word that means anything good. Is there any context where a vulnerability is a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 08:40 AM
1

I should have asked, how much of it might had occurred before your illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:46 AM
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How young were you for the therapy sessions? Is it normal in therapy to have children witness their parents issues? Did losing the match have a bad affect on your mood or behavior, or was it just losing period that did it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:39 AM
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I knew a woman who basically did the same thing. Looked pretty shitty. Found out later she was already unhappy, had lost attraction and knew “being there” how a wife should be there while not in love like a wife should be in love would not be a pleasant existence. Addressing the cause(s) of her leaving, in your mind how much of it [if any] occurred before your diagnosis?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:31 AM
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There’s probably other factors at play as well. Outside of the ass sniffing period women don’t test for weakness unless they already see some.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:22 AM
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Is that common? Still, there's got to be a personal line for private things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 04:02 AM
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I suppose I assumed he would do something like that for his own reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 03:34 AM
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That mothering instinct can magically transformed you into a child lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 03:25 AM
0

He said that’s what he was encouraged to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 03:19 AM
1

Do you think it was just the admission itself, or did you perhaps have other minor short-comings (reasonably just due to inexperience) that looked worse now that she knew you lacked confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:33 AM
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Link? Can’t find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 10:30 PM
2

How long had you two been dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 10:28 PM
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Doesn't quite fit the scenario I asked about, but fuck that's some pretty gangster shit right there. Just zero respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 10:13 PM
2

When was this question asked previously?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 10:11 PM
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What was your objective in telling your partners about these things? Part of general sharing about life? Looking for emotional or verbal support, or sympathy? To explain the reason for some of your behavior or moods?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 10:09 PM
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I was describing the branch swing as something athletic and impressive instead of the shit move to you that it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 09:58 PM
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True dat. But they (usually) don’t end the friendship after one bad mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 09:56 PM
1

Many if not most of the stories I've seen specifically mention that the guy noticed an immediate change of attitude in the moment, even if minor, the clock started ticking from there. I agree with the Atlas coin theory, but if there are no coins...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 09:51 PM
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The classic branch swing. Such timing. Such grace. /sarcasm How was your condition affecting your behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 09:16 PM
2

Ouch. Just to be clear, she knew about the mental aspect, it was the financial issue that was new?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 09:10 PM
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What makes you think the two things are related?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 09:06 PM
1

I'm not sure what you mean. What part my post is like "The game", and how is it used for pick-up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 04:20 AM
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The pair bonding thing is directly related to where she is on the dominance spectrum. Give a high-d woman an authentically masculine and high-d man and it won't matter how many cocks she's had. All high-d women need is a strong high-d man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 09:11 PM
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Whoa, think I lost you there for second. TRP is lucky to have your staunch defense. Did you want to comment on my post? I am aware TRP does not exactly endorse the victim mentality, it does the opposite. It rails against it. Like me. TRP agrees with me. And I’m telling you, if that gets cleaned up you’ll see more worthwhile users. The kind of users it needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:22 PM
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Just test the links, they all work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:42 PM
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Some day I'll tell you about that time in Vegas in '78 when I was doing lines of condescension off Donna Summer's left ass-cheeck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:39 PM
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Ah, got it. I’m perfectly aware that self-pity is the antithesis of what TRP preaches at every turn: OYS. I’m similarly aware of the many men dissuaded by TRP of their use of self-pity and a victim mentality. I’m aware of all that and more because we share the desire for men to be self-possessed and strong, not suffering the self-inflicted slow death of denial and escapism. It’s likely my victimhood detector is top of the line and best-in-class in sensitivity and detection. Some weeks on TRP are…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:24 PM
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You’re probably right. Come to think of it, the last time I recall anyone noticing I had potential was in 2nd grade. I am so screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:58 PM
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I’ll need citations and a summary if you expect me to pay any more attention to what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:19 PM
2

Jesus Christ, man! Is this how it starts? A comment about racism out of nowhere, apropos of nothing. Now this is where the trolls start to cycle through, patiently keeping the race topic alive and subtly expanding its thread count until anyone stopping by would assume it’s a subject we enjoy discussing. I won’t even cover the phase where misleading and contextless quotes are distributed widely on social media, somehow multiplying rapidly despite nobody being familiar with the author. And then th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:12 PM
1

Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 01:35 PM
1

And now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 10:54 AM
1

Your conclusions are faulty but you’re free to try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 10:52 AM
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I wish you hadn’t taken the time to write all that out. I have a good command of what are called around here TRP principles, but I see the lot as beginner skills. Not trying to poop on them too much, but frankly if the deepest core of those ideas aren’t already infused into ones being by the time one is approaching a year or two into adulthood, well, he won’t be firing on all cylinders for a long time to come. I hope this observation adds the appropriate context: if you are thinking about frame,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 10:45 AM
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I’ve been mulling over that question since the day I encountered TRP. Big fan of fundamentals and primacies, so I naturally go deep and look for That One Thing, that core principal that when firmly in place will influence all the things. The only thing I’ve identified so far is a man’s mission. A real fucking mission. I mean an unceasing drive, an obsession, a thirst that’s always there nagging at you. It seems to me that in the pursuit of his mission, he will necessarily learn masculine skills.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 10:22 AM
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I put in a bit on how to test whether her behavior can be attributed primarily to her feminine nature. For example: Girl finds out her new BF raped and killed a family less than a year ago. She breaks it off and ghosts him. Is that AWALT? Hypergamy? AF/BB? Of course, it’s none of the above. We can tell because she would have the same reaction if a new platonic friend told her the same thing. It would be erroneous to conclude her actions were due primarily to her feminine nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 08:51 AM
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Yes, I forgot to compliment you on your post. That is a well constructed summary and analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 12:31 AM
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I think we can believe it when an opinion of Trump purports to be outside of the usual left/right paradigm. I’ve taken my measure of the man and find him severely lacking. Nothing to do with politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 09:28 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 09:17 PM
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Do they? My admittedly limited impression was that they supported RP principles but just weren’t converting. I’ll change it if need be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 09:12 PM
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Seems an odd persona to adopt as president, the intelligence and temperament of a child. What’s his end-game, after embarrassing himself repeatedly on the largest stage?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 10:16 PM
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Trump can be charming, Trump is aggressive and Trump can lie really really well, but Trump is not funny. What gave you that idea? Good funny takes intelligence and wit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 10:21 AM
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That's not what I or others in the thread have noticed. Why is it true for you? Dunno. Luck. Class of women. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:31 AM
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It sucks you were bullied, but you should look into therapy. Posting revenge fantasies isn't the way to heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 09:53 PM
1

Not status. Hers will always benefit more than mine. But accomplishments and intelligence and any mastery, fuck yeah. Whether TRP is correct that such things don’t generate attraction, they can at least increase or mute it. They can make a maybe a yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 10:37 AM
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This makes as much sense as me asking you what it feels like to start a war or empire, or be a CEO or movie star. "But I'm none of those things," you say. "Sure, but just imagine how it feels." You couldn't do this for another man, yet you're asking women to accurately imagine what the opposite sex is experiencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:27 PM
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Maybe a little. It's more likely we're just under-represented on places like reddit and social media -- all the places that yell the loudest and get the most attention. And the betas/low value men are over-represented. I think there's close to the same percentage of weak men as there ever were. If you had a RP equivalent in 1980 you'd have about the same numbers as there are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 08:32 PM
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Yes, RPers are betas. Why point this out? They're like everyone else, doing the best they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 08:13 PM
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What does it matter what women in general claim? Either the one in front of you will or will not sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:16 AM
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Sounds like a class issue. People with a good upbringing know complaining is poor form.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 08:03 PM
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It’s high standards by another name.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 08:27 AM
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It’s just sexual strategy. The sub functions as a support group for men with masculinity issues. They learn an array of self-help and coping mechanisms, and the ones further along on their journey help the noobs. It seems to work really well, I’ve seen some great success stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 01:31 PM
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I think I would take the advice “be yourself” as a compliment. She’s assuming “myself” is confident and interesting enough to be attractive. Women will assume men can be, you know, men. It’s when this advice is given to a man who is not yet a man where it fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 04:01 AM
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You guys are both full of fact-based awesomeness, keep up the edifying work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:04 PM
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Irrelevant. Sure it’s a valid way to describe relationships but useless except in theoretical discussions. Real (normal healthy) people don’t think or act in those terms. It’s about as useful as pointing out math. “Hey, did you know that math is everywhere? Everything can be reduced to numbers, and algorithms can mimic biological functions!” “That’s crazy! Hey, did you know that every relationship and interaction is a transaction where you are trading one thing for something else?”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 08:58 AM
2

You're right, he didn't post in PPD much. Maybe a RPer will know something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 04:15 PM
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Thanks. If you knew him you would know it was impossible for him not to post. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 03:01 PM
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Strong, dominant men find weak men inscrutable, at best. But usually gross, because they're a waste of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 05:04 AM
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The current of victimhood that underpins a lot of the principles and posts is kind of gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 03:43 AM
2

Huh? RP men are weak and have masculinity issues, at minimum. That's fine, everyone is finding their way through life. But there's no "RP" men in TRP. The men they are trying to emulate don't visit TRP, and would be a little grossed out if they did. It's like a men's homeless shelter calling itself "The Millionaires Club." It's good to be optimistic, but don't get ahead of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 05:20 AM
2

Such a defeatist attitude. Why don't you be her best and most attractive lover?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 06:48 AM
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The full, accurate version is "All Women I Can Attract Are Like That" but that pill is too hard to swallow for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 12:13 PM
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In my experience, women may react more emotionally initially, but after a little time to collect themselves are can be just as rational as anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 02:47 AM
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Oh it's been absolutely amazing. It's like a bomb went off and everyone is stumbling around getting their bearings, too shocked to even think about normalcy yet. Nobody could have been prepared for Trump. Even the people who knew what he was had no idea how far gone he was. I wonder if he'll get a second term.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 05:42 PM
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Men are also drawn to alpha-seeming traits. Especially weak men. Lots of guys around here lost their minds over Trump. This was before they discovered he's just a bloviating fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 04:17 AM
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All he left out was, "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it people like me."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 08:42 AM
1

Troll post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 05:39 AM
1

The irony is that the only people we know for sure are betas/BP are the TRPers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 07:31 PM
1

No, Lewis. You're not getting quality women. That's why TRP named them after an imaginary animal. It's why guys join TRP in the first place, to fix their masculinity issues so that they are able to attract women at all. So work on your shit but go easy on the grand pronouncements about things outside your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 03:55 AM
2

Paging Lewis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 10:18 AM
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AWALT doesn't describe all women, it describes the class of women that weak men/TRP are able to attract. The sad truth is, many men will never be able to attract or sustain the attraction of quality women, so for them AWALT is literally true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 06:50 PM
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I used to think they were over-paranoid, and that false allegations were rare, overall. Not so sure any more. Even if the two below reports are outliers, 40% is a big number. I'll put here what I put into a previous AutoMod thread: In the new book False Allegations: Investigative and Forensic Issues in Fraudulent Reports of Crime [Amazon], co-author and retired NYPD Special Victim Squad detective John Savino states that their false report rate was always double digits, as high as 40%. From Natio…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 06:56 PM
3

Know a couple objectively butt-ugly but cool dudes. They both married ugly but cool women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 06:12 AM
1

Hahaha... yes, it can be startling. Keep at it, you'll understand her eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 10:18 AM
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Teach? Maybe not. But she offers an inside look into the mind of a woman high on the dominance spectrum, a perspective the TRP crowd would otherwise never be exposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 09:57 AM
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Yeah. I don't think people realize just how much we learn about them as they describe their interactions with women and the other people in their lives. If they did, I suspect they would share a lot less. But then we wouldn't get to see poor Lewis be wrong about everything, so there's that. I swear, that man owes Atlas some serious back fees for the mentoring she's provided. (Love you, Lewis. Your thoughtful contributions have been enjoyed by me and everyone else here, I'm sure. Merry Christmas.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 07:12 AM
2

To have a deep emotional connection with a woman or anyone requires a certain level of emotional maturity. This arises from a certain mastery of life in general. For weak men, TRP men, these masteries don't exist. Their emotional lives are fairly chaotic, and their lives generally are undergoing a wide range of self-improvement work. And that's ok. But they're not ready for these kinds of connections. They might be in time, but not now. For these men, women are just for sex. And that's ok, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 08:30 AM
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There are different classes. Fiscal and social. Often they are in synch but not always. For example, Trump is UC fiscally, but lower class socially. TRPers seem to be LC socially as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 08:31 PM
1

I generally ignore solipsism, saves time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 12:24 AM
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Hmm do ya think this has anything to do with the reason women "betray" you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 02:09 AM
2

That sucks. Any idea why you attract that type of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 02:04 AM
1

In the new book False Allegations: Investigative and Forensic Issues in Fraudulent Reports of Crime [Amazon], co-author and retired NYPD Special Victim Squad detective John Savino states that their false report rate was always double digits, as high as 40%. From National Review: Published research has documented false rape and sexual-assault rates ranging from 8 percent to 41 percent. Savino notes that in his NYPD’s Manhattan Special Victim Squad, “our false report rate was in the double digits …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 11:02 AM
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I don't know man. There's something, some bit they all (the ones who never master shit) have flipped. Longer I read TRP the more aware I am of the deep sense of victimization that's behind so many posts and sentiments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 03:50 AM
1

Maybe a helpful way to view TRP is as a support group for men with masculinity issues. They have their own lingo, coping mechanisms and life (sex) principles. The noobs are noobs, and the ones further along (ECs) help out the noobs. It's a good system.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 11:57 PM
4

Must be rough down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 12:20 AM
3

Yes, men should mostly date within their class. I think this would solve a lot of their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 09:25 PM
1

Meh. A percentage of those also want an LTR but realize (at least implicitly) they are not attracting viable candidates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 05:29 AM
2

You'll have a good start at the definition by just including all the shitty behavior they describe in their posts. It didn't take much sleuthing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 03:26 AM
2

If TRP can only attract low quality women, why are they even worth discussing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 01:49 AM
1

Four questions weren't enough? You slept on it, thought about it some more, and came up with four more? Jesus man. Saying "charisma trumps all" is a bit of a tautology, since it literally means attractiveness. But yes, you can be ugly and poor as fuck, but if you are as put together as can be expected and know how to talk to anyone, then you know how to charm women. There are like 6 different ways to impress women. If all you got it talk then use it. Guys usually discover whether they have "it" …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:32 AM
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I meant that one usually learns that one can be charming at a young age, and then by trial and error has refined the art by adulthood. I agree that "it" can be developed later but I've never seen full charisma develop from even a medium adult talent. Obviously YMMV. But I'm even a little connected to the acting scene, where they have ways to quantify the stuff, and even then, as adults, we all seem to have a certain fixed amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:20 AM
2

They are probably concerned because you don't look like you know what you're doing. If you had game they'd be impressed, not concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 08:37 PM
1

Charisma trumps all and it's usually developed fairly young.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 02:55 AM
1

Lower class men get to deal with all the lower class women. They don't know any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 03:18 AM
1

The "Unicorn" concept is disappointing. One motivation for an RP man to do all his self-improvement should be to eventually get top tier women, not shove them in the category of mythology to save his ego. I get it, and it must be a tough pill to swallow, but calling them "Unicorns" is too much of a cop out for a sub that prides itself on keepin' it real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 05:32 AM
1

It's 2017, most men can get laid if they put their mind to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 11:07 PM
1

I think you're supposed to start thinking for yourself when you hit adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 12:51 PM
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Relationships and love is outside the purview of TRP, which is concerned with sex and how to get more of it. In this context monogamy in dismissed almost on principle alone. With no monogamy it's more difficult for relationships to flourish with love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 06:38 AM
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It's like the conclusion he drew as a child was never dislodged by all the other evidence he saw to the contrary when he grew a little older. Probably just a result of wishful thinking and general human optimism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 03:13 AM
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Eh, are you so sure? We're accelerating evolution. We have the technology to create entirely new species. Human based, eventually. I'm not even a sci-fi or futurist type, but it's obvious things are moving quickly. If scientists were free to experiment we'd be a lot further along.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 01:16 AM
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Because evolution. What I mean is, we're still evolving, right this minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 09:39 AM
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This is how quality usually works - there is less of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 12:39 AM
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I agree with your view. If you're with a woman with the maturity of a child and you treat her as an adult, you would better off treating her as a child. But I shouldn't have to mention that your best approach would probably be to be with mature women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 08:59 PM
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"Hi."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 08:34 AM
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I thought we were done with incel posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 02:47 PM
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Yes, sluts are built into the vetting process many profess to follow, which is to plate sluts until you find one worth committing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 02:53 PM
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Ironically the only people I know for sure are BP/beta are TRPers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 01:56 PM
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I suspect it's not a lot of people that hold that view, they're just loud and now thanks to the internet are more visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 01:43 AM
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It would less confusing and more accurate if you would replace the "women" in your posts to "the women I know/can attract." In general, go easy on the grand pronouncements.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 06:03 AM
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Could the automod be configured to autopost the phrase, "It's not your fault, Lewis" on every post that meets a certain subject criteria?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:24 AM
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A weak, pathetic man can be nice. So can a strong, masterful man. Is it the same "nice"? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 04:20 PM
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He's an idiot and they can fire whomever the please so who cares. As an individual employee, he didn't have the luxury of dealing with generalities. He's stuck dealing with individuals, and of course all bets are off when it comes to individuals, no matter what is generally true. He forgot his place is all. His company had to decided if he was able to treat individuals fairly, regardless of what may be generally true of their sex/race/etc, and they decided probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 11:49 PM
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In fewer numbers, significantly I would imagine. Going from lower class to upper class different from uc to elite uc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 01:57 AM
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Hypergamy is great for men. Just not lower tier men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 11:11 PM
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You're really able to trick guys with fake orgasms? Small ones, right? There's just too much going on with a big one to fake. Maybe in the dark. And drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 06:47 AM
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Don't dissuade poor Lewis of that giant chip on his shoulder. What will he do with all that extra time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 09:15 PM
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Because their progeny are our future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 01:59 AM
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Equal parts lust and respect/admiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 02:29 PM
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Beautiful, feminine, accomplished, athletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 07:05 AM
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Serious question: can a script be attached to the Create Post button that first searches the sub against the title and gives submitter a chance to review for similar topics before creating the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 06:53 AM
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They are literally the most important thing in life, behind staying alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:42 PM
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Right, which could be an argument that women's love is stronger as it's all-consuming. Whatever, it's a silly fucking question in the first place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 09:41 AM
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What? No. Their lives were not destroyed by women. They "destroyed" their own lives through stupidity and poor decisions. Their anger is directed at themselves (though few seem to realize it) and their self-pity is pathetic. Self-pity is always pathetic, is easily mocked, and rarely engenders sympathy. I doubt any woman, feminist or not would fault any man for realizing he was stuck with low quality women because he was a low quality man, and make strides to change that situation. But any man bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 08:42 AM
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I'd say women love deeper. They're naturally more emotional, and love is certainly that. Plus their love is more complex, they are attracted to more of a man than men are to women. Men's love is simplistic by comparison. Be hot and not annoying. I'm not saying it's easy to earn it, but it flows deep. YMMV. Think of it this way. A women enraptured with a man doesn't even see other men, while a man similarly transfixed will still want to fuck everything he sees. So whose "love" is deeper?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 02:47 AM
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Didn't she pursue and seduce him? Not that it matters but not sure there was a power thing -- except if she was attracted to powerful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 02:40 AM
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One of my first thoughts on reading the first article was, why not own it? Have TRPs ideas matured enough to be thrust onto a general public? Knew it wouldn't happen but it sure would have been cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 02:34 AM
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Does pk = RPS?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 01:45 AM
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Hence the "in a sense." I should have said she's higher than average on the dominance spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:40 PM
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I believe "attracts women" is part of the definition of a Chad so you may need to re-frame your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 08:08 AM
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The fact that she is more alpha (in a sense) than 90% of TRP always throws people off lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:30 AM
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Once a beta, always a beta. At least that's what I've noticed, here and elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 03:15 PM
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He basically told his business associates that she was a slut, then went ape shit when they treated her like one. If it even happened. Lots of alarms bells went off while reading that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 10:26 PM
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I haven't detected much misogyny in TRP, just lots of frustration. TRP doesn't like low-class women, but that's who they're fucking so that's who they talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 02:49 PM
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Quit sulking. So far I've read about listing all the times he saw her in the same breath as kidnap and rape, and a dude who thought to start escalating with a neck bite. I don't think these are examples of just losing frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 11:36 PM
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Masculinity is humorless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 07:35 PM
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I care about partners psychological health, and if there were issues there I wouldn't be with her, so there's a context. Some girls didn't know any better, or learn and mature, etc. Certainly a subreddit full of men who had to be told to take daily showers and comb their hair should be able to relate to others missing obvious things and making youthful mistakes. Or maybe I'm just giving you too much credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 04:03 AM
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Confident, masculine men are attracted to confident, feminine women. Men high on the dominance spectrum prefer dominant women vs wallflowers. Confidence and strength and dominance are not automatically at odds with femininity. Opinions here will be skewed, as TRP specifically attracts men low in confidence, masculinity, dominance, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 03:59 PM
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No. Weak, lower tier men are infatuated with Trump for reasons too pathetic to mention. They will learn that Trump does not offer them any solace or benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 03:07 AM
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This is a vicious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 06:56 PM
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Solipsism at its most brave. Look how he tells us about the quality of women he attracts without a whit of self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 05:31 AM
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TRP is sexual strategy. Period, full stop. That should answer your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 01:16 AM
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The reason there's a RP epidemic now is because men aren't men any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 03:40 AM
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Guess we'll find out, Dagny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 10:53 PM
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Your post, for one. Attractiveness is subjective so let's not debate it. But yeah, with clothes off, most people are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 05:58 AM
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Most men are unattractive. Most women are unattractive. Welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 02:41 AM
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They don't feel empathy for weak men because they are not weak men. They can't relate any more than we can with them. In some areas, empathy is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 03:55 AM
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One argument against is that you'll get shit women. Look around you. TRP employs all kinds of methods and yet they invariably seem to end up with AWALT-class women. If you employ shallow methods you will likely end up with shallow women. If that's fine with you then go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 02:29 AM
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The thing is, "unicorns" are far more common than TRP seems to think, and it's solipsistic to assume that just because you can only find or attract inferior women that they are pretty much the only kind of women who exist. Think of the quality of the man who is convinced that all people are cheaters and liars and are trying to exploit him at every turn. He may very well be correct, but what does that say about him and the class of people he is surrounded by? Think of the homeless toothless meth …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 04:23 PM
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"Do you even lift?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 03:41 PM
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Using bar/club chicks as a baseline for anything is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 06:07 PM
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RP exists because 1) men in the US have it too easy and forgot what it means to be masculine, and 2) men weren't paying attention (or never had the opportunity) to women and their sexual desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 03:43 PM
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You haven't been around TRP very long have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 07:53 PM
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Naw. Women can spin plates too. Guys hope for something more but she just wants sex and momentary fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 01:41 AM
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Why do you give a shit about what idiots think? None of that stuff has affected my life one iota because I don't pay attention to any of it. Ok maybe it's affected my business since with more women in the workforce I have more candidates to pick from. But in a personal sense? Nothing. Who cares who blames you for stupid shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 10:34 PM
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