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2	Building Frame It takes one to know one. This deep fear of acting is terrorizing. And yet the future belongs to those who act. To acting, brave brother.	/r/askMRP	11/09/21 07:28 PM
0	Building Frame I have rarely felt more understood then when reading this. Thanks. I think you’ve done a great analysis and it sounds like you’re on your way. Humans are vulnerable beings. When you trust in yourself and you break yourself against yourself by making huge mistakes it is reasonable to loose faith. Just long enough to understand how you went wrong. And then it’s time to learn your lesson, change and trust again. I feel your fear. Move through it as soon as you can muster the courage (and suffer mor…	/r/askMRP	05/09/21 08:45 PM
2	Quick question about NMMNG and TRP NMMNG does a fine job at getting you to understand that 99% of why you aren’t getting laid is because you aren’t actually yourself- you have become a fake stimulus-response-machine, molded by the “feminine imperative” as Rollo would call it- by society itself If you follow the breaking free activities by the letter you will actually break free from this fake self, that isn’t you. And once you do that women will automatically be attracted to you much more. Because they want male energy. They need…	/r/askTRP	12/10/18 01:49 PM
7	Strong Lifts 5/5: when gyms do not have the power rack but have the squat rack and the other racks with adjustable height for the presses. Still doable? Squat rack is enough. Really just need a bar that you can put on your shoulders + bench for bench press.	/r/askTRP	12/10/18 01:37 PM
1	So is it smarter to not try and get laid if your an incel but just invest in yourself? What about at parties shouldnt you try to get a girl to come home? It is brave of you to make a first step- you have come to the right place. I am sorry to hear that you’ve had a tough time. Here is what you need to do: Start lifting: 3x a week, every week, no exceptions Lose weight, until you enjoy looking at your own body - look good. Intermittent Fasting & Keto worked for me, but if you are committed you will find your own way. Read all posts in the sidebar Read all books suggested in the sidebar If you do all those things, it will become clear to you how to…	/r/askTRP	08/10/18 01:54 PM
1	Clarification: Rollo Tomassi’s Iron Rule #8 Not that I’m a guru or anything, but after all my reading Rollo has the best intellectual grasp on the whole issue. His advice isn’t practical per se. It only helps understand the female sexual strategy and how in theory respond to it best. No more Mr Nice Guy or Married Men Sex primer is more practical. Anyway- regarding your question: I think it comes down to negotiating attraction. A women will fuck a high value men. If she isn’t fucking you your time is best invested in the gym, not talking …	/r/askTRP	08/10/18 01:37 PM
16	Dumped by a 50 year old. What did I do wrong? Don’t worry about her, no matter how hopeless or lonely or ugly or undesirable you fee right now- and may have for the past decades/ years: you can drastically improve within a matter of months and get a great selection of women/relationships you like. Be grateful that you are a men and can do shit about you value. Go lift. Read the sidebar. Read the recommended books. Learn. Grow. Get buff. Get better looking. Get playful. Stop worrying about girls, they will come. They will fuck you good. A cr…	/r/askTRP	04/10/18 10:51 AM
1	I'm lazy. See, you have great opportunity yet you do not move on it. Which clearly shows that you do not want it. Just like with women - „ don’t watch her words, watch her actions“ - that is true for you as well. If I was you I would try to understand what part of you does not want success, money, abundance. My best guess is- you are using procrastination as a buffer against your burden of performance. Compare Rational Male I on buffers vs rejection of girls. If you don’t try you can’t fail (obviously are…	/r/askTRP	24/09/18 05:31 PM
2	Need tips on dread game Increase your SMV. Dread cannot be applied deliberately. It’s a consequence of high SMV. Lift. Eat well. Dress well. Learn game. Figure out what’s gone wrong in your childhood (you shouldn’t attach to anyone like this, other then your mom, and that should end at 4 or 5 years of age). Read the sidebar. Doesn’t matter if you leave her or don’t. Stop embarrassing yourself, if she isn’t hot for you she can’t be with lube. Get sexy. Take action. Leave her or don’t. Doesn’t matter. Increase SMV. Becom…	/r/askTRP	23/09/18 06:25 PM
3	How do I save this? No. Move on.	/r/askTRP	13/09/18 05:09 PM
3	Is there anything one can do about cumming too fast? The sex god method is a good reads, ways of the superior men as well. There is also a book I can recommend that is not in the sidebar: „the multi orgasmic man“ it goes into more detail. Good luck!	/r/askMRP	13/09/18 04:57 PM
1	Why are women so depressed all of the time? No, it is because men are more aggressive while women are more depressed. So women feel worse in average then men. They try more often to end their life, but because they are less aggressive then men they succeed less often. However when a men is so depressed that he wants to end his life there is a high chance of him being aggressive enough to achieve his aim. Read: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_differences_in_suicide And also: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5492308/	/r/askTRP	13/09/18 09:53 AM
2	The new set of rules and the importance of frame Thank you.	/r/askMRP	12/09/18 07:17 PM
2	The new set of rules and the importance of frame Point taken. Thank you.	/r/askMRP	12/09/18 07:17 PM
32	Why are women so depressed all of the time? Women score way higher then men in the big five trait of neurocism. Women literally are more often depressed then men. It is a biological truth. Jordan B Peterson argues it mostly via : women have never really existed on their own- they always were a unit together with child and their core purpose of life was to keep the child alive. Feeling negative emotions strongly makes you careful. Careful mothers keep their children alive. Children that live pass on their mothers genes. So women positively…	/r/askTRP	12/09/18 04:42 PM
3	The new set of rules and the importance of frame Which of the books from sidebar help most with A&A, and what was AM again? I’m working my way through the sidebar, currently reading Sexgod Method and Book of Pook, read Superior Men and NMMNG. Any help on priorities would be very appreciated. Frame is hard to develop if you aren’t used to it. Thank you for the post!	/r/askMRP	12/09/18 03:51 PM
-1	Delivering pizzas after day job Write an ebook about something you know something about Create an online course and sell it start a YouTube channel Research some Industrie and find a way to make something more efficient Good read about this would be: Tim Ferris, 4-hour week	/r/askTRP	10/09/18 06:48 PM
2	LTR never initiates sex No, don’t ever bring it up at all - you are observing- Outcome independent! Don’t underestimate how difficult that is.	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 08:47 PM
5	LTR never initiates sex Make sure not to be passive aggressive about it. You are just observing. Behave normally, don’t deflect her when she initiates, she might be clumsy, considering that you used to do all the starting- also, rethink what she is worth to you, if you enjoy her, she enjoys fucking you and is submissive and supportive- it doesn’t have to be bad if she expects you to initiate- just my 2cents.	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 08:43 PM
2	LTR never initiates sex Do not initiate any sexual activity during her next fertil window and see what happens.	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 08:34 PM
3	Long hair shit test? Read the rational male, specifically the section about buffers and how they are used to not get rejected. Story sounds terribly like you are using her to not get with girls with easy/realistic logistics.	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 08:51 AM
5	LTR not happy about my makeover I think this is happening with my LTR as well, what I am confused about is- how can I comfort her, without comforting her. So I will keep improving my SMV, frankly, not hard for a guy in his late 20s who’s never liftet or thought about clothes. I mean do I just act normal, pass shit tests, own my shit and still show up for her to see I’m the rock and she can build on me? Not talking about stuff makes sense, but it makes it more and more intense also, she is lost and I don’t know how to react. Al…	/r/askTRP	07/09/18 06:27 AM
1	How to deal with annoying mother? I feel like she's holding me back. This is a brilliant comment. Well articulated and balanced. Thank you!	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 09:42 PM
0	LTR has super low self-esteem. What's TRP perspective on the matter and does/should it affect me? Ahh. Alright, I see. Sorry- Well from my perspective it’s sort of the same game though- What will happen will depend massively on the actions that you take. See, that’s also part of what Tomassi says “all the time”. A unicorn isn’t found, it’s made. By a men. My LTR has massive mood-swings in her PMS time, so the few days before her Periode. How she feels however has a lot do with who I am and what I do. I can leave her to her own accord, then it goes on, is more intense. See just falls into sel…	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 11:57 AM
1	I have alpha qualities but I am still a loser. Sounds to me like you have done all you can do with your mind and body and it’s not yet giving you the results you want. Time to get in touch with emotions. See, there is a ton of stuff going on her- both your parents come from a severely fucked up childhood. Both have given you a bad example- your mother was clearly abusive and physically absent, probably also neglectful towards you and emotionally absent. Your father let your mother be abusive towards him and you. Sounds like he promised himse…	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 11:46 AM
-1	LTR has super low self-esteem. What's TRP perspective on the matter and does/should it affect me? The red pill only describes mechanisms. It’s amoral. So you haven’t specified what it is that you want. So the red pill can’t tell you what to do. What do you want? If you want a always happy ltr- move on. If you want to fuck around- apply plate theory. If you want to help your women through the tough time she is having- be a masculine complement (stability, order) to her femininity (pain, chaos).	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 11:37 AM
1	How to Handle Compliments You should do serious introspection on why complements make you uncomfortable and therefore insecure about how to respond. Here are some random options, only you can figure out which one is true: complements make you feel way to good because you are starved for respect, you are lacking self respect and positive feedback overwhelms you complements make you feel angry, because you realize now that all it takes are a few hours in the gym and a nice hair cut to receive them -> spitting up the red pi…	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 11:32 AM
7	LTR has super low self-esteem. What's TRP perspective on the matter and does/should it affect me? rp says: you do whatever the fuck you want. So decide you must. Decide what you want- Do you want a drama free relationship, no pain, no hurt, no drama- then end it, improve you vetting skills. This women is not a point to provide that for you. Did you get yourself into this relationship because you need the drama and pain? Are you secretly addicted to the pain and suffering of helplessness, possibly because that was how your mother made you feel? If that is the case or only 1% true, do serious …	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 11:15 AM
1	I have alpha qualities but I am still a loser. Tell me more about how your mother dealt with your father? How violent was your father? What did your mother do to protect you? Did you have to protect your mother? Do you talk to your mother about your childhood abuse? How does she deal with it now? We model our relationships according to how our parents treated us/what we observed about them. The stuff that happened to you is way outside the norm. That’s why you struggle. Best find a therapist to work stuff out with you- over the course of yea…	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 11:05 AM
2	I have alpha qualities but I am still a loser. Accept that you need to put in 500 hours before you will see any kind of results. You have massive personal insecurities. The only way to fix that is to do deep introspection, work out your fears, confront all of it. You have to fix yourself up, after 20 years going into the wrong direction. Read the sidebar 3x - all of the books on there. Lift 3x a week, religiously. Check back in 3 months with questions you may have. I’m sorry you had a rough childhood. Alcoholic father must be terrible. Good …	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 10:28 AM
39	How do I (18M) deal with an emotional and controlling mother? It’s a question of frame. All of it is. You believe that you cannot move out. You accept a frame that has been given to you. You at this point, do not possess the personal power and the creativity to think up your own frame. That is understandable, after what sounds like a crazy family, in a crazy country in a crazy time and considering that you are only 18. It still is a fact. You are living in the frame of your mother, your town, your society. There are many ways to improve your situation acco…	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 10:23 AM
1	struggling with quitting porn. Have you read nmmmg? I just did exercise #9 (?)- Write down a list of things you can do to be good to yourself. If you struggle to write anything beyond “watch porn” - you’ll have a hard time to let go of “the only thing that makes you feel good”. Go and learn what it is you really want from life. Keep watching porn as long as you have to. But build a life that is too awesome to waste hours on watching random people fucking. Your urges will go away, once your life is awesome enough. Sidebar help…	/r/askTRP	04/09/18 09:36 PM
2	Swallowed the Red Pill, dumped my LTR, Moving to Salt Lake City, I need advice. With this as well- outcome independence. It is what it is. You give what you have. The rest is not yours to decide. May the dice fall where they may.	/r/askTRP	04/09/18 09:07 PM
44	"Why Do Girls Dump Their Boyfriends?" An introduction to Generation-Z and whats to come God is dead, we have become our own gods. Alpha men, taking self-improvement serious, becoming the best version of yourself - is like becoming your own god. You are, voluntarily, not because “god above is watching” are doing the work, you are doing it because you want. Because you are conscience of the consequences. And you like them. I agree, red pill, or better, what it stands for: be the best you can imagine- is getting more and more important. Nice post!	/r/TheRedPill	04/09/18 04:12 PM
2	Swallowed the Red Pill, dumped my LTR, Moving to Salt Lake City, I need advice. If he decided to mentor you because he cares and sees potential in you he doesn’t expect anything but that you give it your all. Don’t be stupid, use the opportunities he provides, be prepared for meetings, don’t waste his time, don’t make him look bad for trusting you and your success will be plenty of payment for him. If he only offered to help you because he pities you, nothing you do will compensate the disgust he feels towards himself. In that case- abort and do your own thing. You don’t ne…	/r/askTRP	03/09/18 07:06 AM
13	Selling a tv to a young single mum. Can i playfully convince her to have sex with me instead of paying? If you have good game you let her pay and fuck her afterwards. You only need to charge her for the tv, not the sex. Good luck! If you can’t make it happen: read some more sidebar and lift.	/r/askTRP	31/08/18 12:30 PM
2	Money and dating That’s great, I would think that would be a big part of the issue that you are having. There are several possibilities why you’d have trouble standing up for yourself. Maybe you are very compassionate to the point that what others want seems more important to you then what you want. Or you are extremely high in negative emotion (neuroticism) and avoid confrontation out of fear of negative results. Or you very low in assertiveness and just don’t want to oppose yourself on situations. Or you are e…	/r/askTRP	10/08/18 07:41 PM
2	Women will only fuck me, I cannot turn them into girlfriends. A few thoughts that come to my mind reading your post: where do you pick up girls? Try day game, and meeting girls not in bars where they usually are looking to get laid do you have a heavy feel to yourself? are you sure you do not have neediness issues?	/r/askTRP	10/08/18 06:56 PM
9	Women will only fuck me, I cannot turn them into girlfriends. I think that’s bullshit. There are upsides to ltrs and the post wasn’t asking about wether or not to get in relationships - he asked why he couldn’t get girls to see him over extended periods of times. That’s a legitimate question.	/r/askTRP	10/08/18 06:53 PM
3	Money and dating It seems like you have trouble standing up to people- is that an issue for you in all areas of life (family, friends, work) or only girls? You need to learn to say no. I believe there are some decent books in the sidebar to learn this. I’m still myself working my way through them tho.	/r/askTRP	10/08/18 06:49 PM
3	Money and dating Good news, you at least feel that what you are doing is not what you should be doing. From what you wrote: move out, find a different place to live, cut the girl out- things cannot turn out with her as you’ve been an orbiter for a long time. Work 40h every week for the next three months, keep up the lifting, keep up the reading. After three months you will be a new men. Also I don’t see a reason not to date. Obviously this girl is not good for you, but there is no reason not to date. You don’t e…	/r/askTRP	10/08/18 06:46 PM
1	How do you "have fun"? I would recommend taking Peterson’s personality test, based on the big five personality model. You can find it at understandmyself.com - it helped me understand what things are just innate about me and what things are conditioned. Extroversion is low? You will just not want to go out as much. You can learn it- but it isn’t you. I realized I was way more disagreeable then I thought, helped me understand why I had a really hard time getting along with people- now I can correct for that more.	/r/askTRP	10/08/18 06:39 PM
1	Swallowed TRP, losing interest in wife Thank you, I have looked into his videos. Great to have an Independent source recommend him with rp background.	/r/askMRP	31/07/18 11:38 AM
2	Swallowed TRP, losing interest in wife You need to have at least some respect for a women to share a life with. Work harder on yourself. Much much harder. Go 80% of the way and then decide what to do. But go.	/r/askMRP	31/07/18 07:21 AM
1	Swallowed TRP, losing interest in wife That’s great to hear- just started with strong lift. Never lifted before. Don’t really know what to do. So I thought, just start somewhere...	/r/askMRP	31/07/18 07:18 AM
7	FR Motivation in the mirror Good for you men! Keep it up!	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/07/18 07:42 AM