jlake32 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	31/M, 64" black guy living in Toronto. Dating Apps are unusable for me and I need to know where to start The same women make eye contact with his friends though.	/r/seduction	06/09/25 11:14 PM
1	I'd rather be a man finding a girlfriend than a woman finding a boyfriend. Men sleep with women they don’t consider attractive enough to date publicly- that’s not genuine desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 10:35 PM
3	Delaying sex strategy really works well for women. That's why men in this sub hate and despise this strategy so much. Men lose interest when women put out early because those women are not attractive enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 02:06 AM
2	The same instinct and drive that makes men want to sleep with women is the same instinct and drive than makes women be extremely selective Being unattractive limits your options and makes dating harder. So these women are ensuring their future children are able to marry, and marry well. Men do the same thing. Men are very discriminatory about looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/25 08:48 PM
44	If you dated men who expressed they were not attracted to women from their own culture, what red flags did they have? What other problematic behaviors and personalities did these men exhibit? I am also trying to understand the cognitive dissonance that many men, similar to Shake, get into marriages with women from their own culture that they don’t even sexually desire! They either couldn't get the girl that they actually wanted or they want to please their family. The latter is especially true in the Indian community, which is patriarchal. So Indian men have more to lose if they marry someone their family doesn't approve of.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/22 02:01 AM
18	what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partner Women and gay men stay fit because men require them to. Women don't. A lot of women on this sub have talked about dating men for their personality. If a critical mass of women stopped dating or hooking up with unattractive men, they would start prioritizing their appearance.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 09:50 PM
57	Proud of myself that's just going to lead to more men faking relationships with women they're not that interested in. They don't change, they just become more covert.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/21 03:31 PM
14	Women of color do not exist as a commodity to live out a fantasy. How far does someone's head have to be up their own ass to think that fetishizing someone is the same as complimenting them? I think this has been mentioned before, but don't react or call them out on it. Because that only teaches them to be more covert with their fetish, and then the next girl has a harder time figuring out whether he is fetishizing her or not. Just quietly unmatch so they don't know what they did wrong.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 02:36 AM
4	stop dealing with LVMs in bed, stop falling for their excuses No that's him asking you to spoonfeed him information with no guarantee of a return on investment.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/20 05:44 PM