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The movie Overboard comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:29 AM
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Contrary to popular belief, different people have different ideas of what is attractive. Some men prefer older women, some prefer bigger women, some prefer pregnant women. I prefer an older man, with glasses and a beard. So, I married an older man with glasses and a beard. My husband prefers a chubby goth girl, so he married a chubby goth girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:00 AM
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My husband is 7 years older than me. My mom's husband is 14 years older than her. I have no issue with age gaps once everyone is in their 20s and beyond.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:43 PM
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I don't have friends, but if I did, I wouldn't share any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:57 PM
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If you say so. I assume if he killed a guy, that'd somehow be a woman's fault also? My fault for arguing with stupidity I guess. I'm sorry sir, you're absolutely right. Everything you said is correct, and I'm just a woman who doesn't understand anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:25 PM
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He's a victim because he was complicit in the abuse of his children? That's a lot of words to say I hate women my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:08 PM
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We lived with my father after the divorce. He let his new girlfriend abuse my sister and I daily. That woman denied us showers as punishment. She wouldn't let us do laundry. She'd call us nasty names right in front of him. She never had a job and spent all my dad's money to the point where he couldn't feed us. We begged him over and over again to protect us from his girlfriend, and his answer was to marry her. Years after we moved out they'd call us and accuse us of stealing something they'd los…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:24 PM
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Yep, that's exactly what happened. You got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:12 PM
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You could be correct for all I know, I was a kid, they obviously didn't tell me that part. The divorce wasn't the reason my sister and I went no contact with him anyway, so no one is punishing the man for wanting to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:26 AM
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Lol, if you can't handle a drop in sex after having kids, then don't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:31 PM
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My mom ended up marrying a widower with older kids. He is an awesome dude, and my kids call him Grandpa. My dad married his AP, who turned out to not be a good person (imagine that), has never seen his grandkids, and most people in our family don't talk to him. You reap what you sow 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:05 AM
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My dad cheated on my mom with a woman who looked exactly like her, but didn't have kids. He was an ass who was jealous of the attention his kids were getting from his wife, who no longer had the time to make everything all about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:01 AM
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My husband gets hit on all the time, even when he's talking to them about me. Especially when he's out with the kids. Something about seeing a dude being a good father and husband, shady ladies want that for themselves. They don't really get the catch 22 of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:19 PM
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Oh shit, not my early 40s. Hear that honey? I got a few good years left in me! Hold off on banging that 20 year old! Save it till I'm more decrepit! That being said, I always knew it was because, in general, younger girls are hotter. Being attracted to a 22 year old in your 40s doesn't make you a pedo, it just makes me side eye you a bit. That goes for either gender. Cougars are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:23 PM
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I hope she finds some peace tbh. I'm glad I've been with my husband for 16 years, I might also be crazy if I had to date currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:35 PM
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You absolutely get to choose though, you just have to find someone who agrees with your choices to be your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:28 PM
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I joke about getting "maternity" tests. He's like, you don't need a test, I saw those people come out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:19 PM
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I tell my husband all the time he can test away if he wants. As far as I know, he hasn't felt the need to. He never asked, but I told him he could if he wanted. He knows damn well all those kids are his though, one even has the same birthmark in the same place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:27 PM
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Being Jeffery Dean Morgan helps imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:20 PM
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I am an autistic woman who really lucked out in terms of dating. I had one boyfriend for less than a year my senior year of highschool. That was it. When I was 21 I moved out of my dad's house and into a place my stepdad was renting to a guy who's roommate had bailed on him. I married that guy. We have three kids and are still together 16 years later. I feel strongly if it wasn't for the fact that the guy I literally already lived with asked if I wanted to go on a date, I'd still be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:44 PM
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As an autistic woman who's married with three kids, people absolutely forgive autistic traits in women more than they do in men. I'm a quirky, manic pixie dream girl, and autistic men are just weirdos. I agree that the double standard is there, especially with the way people treat my son, who's also autistic. I don't know how to fix it, but the feelings are valid in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:13 PM
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It's already offered, you can get one right this second. They aren't going to make it standard when it's expensive and unnecessary. I agree with what others are saying, men just want to be able to accuse a woman of being unfaithful without any backlash. Your inability to pick a partner you trust is not a medical issue. Proving your wife isn't a whore is not the government's responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:16 PM
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You asked why they get defensive, not what was more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:57 PM
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Most women see it as exactly the same as accusing them of cheating, and that's offensive to most people. It's a person they love knocking their moral character. It's hurtful, and that's why a lot of women get defensive. Personally, I wouldn't give a shit if my husband wanted one. Whatever helps you sleep at night my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:39 PM
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Won't happen. You'll just have a bunch of "My husband won't opt out of the paternity test, why does he think I cheated?" and "My wife wants me to sign the Opt Out of Paternity Test Form, but I don't want to. This is causing a huge fight." posts. The same relationship issues will be there, regardless of the "norm". As long as the ability to say no is there, it will be taken as an insult to say yes. And you can't remove the option to say no, that's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:26 PM
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Then they get CPS and the courts involved if they suspect drug abuse. They have to get a court order to override parental consent. Even if they do it out of medical emergency, they'd have to prove the test saved the child's life, and was necessary to perform immediately without parental permission. And even then it's still tricky. Parents deny life saving medical care for their children due to religious reasons all the time. Try proving to a court of law that a paternity test was medically neces…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:54 PM
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I agree with this completely, tbh. Buy an at home kit, run the test, and never bring it up unless the results are not what you hoped for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:13 PM
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And you have to give consent for all of them. They don't run anything without consent. Have you had a partner give birth? Have you been through the process?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:47 PM
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I am very very pro vaccines, but medical procedures cannot be forced on people. You'd still have to give consent to be tested, privacy laws have nothing to do with that. Choosing to see the results or not wouldn't work, as the father, who isn't even technically a patient at the time of birth, would have to give permission. They can't just swab him without him signing something, and the act of signing that document would piss off a partner in the same exact way asking for the test would.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:37 PM
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Let's say for arguments sake we've figured out a way to fund this. You'd still have the exact same issue. A paternity test is a medical procedure. You cannot do one without the father's permission. Father giving permission would create the same problem in the relationship that asking for a test creates now. Making it not optional is the only way your plan would work, and you cannot make a medical procedure compulsory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:15 PM
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Exactly. Then you'd have women pissed if the men don't opt out, so the whole argument would still be there. You can't run the test without the father's permission, and then giving said permission would piss off women as much as asking for the test in the first place. Only making it compulsory would fix anything, and you can't make medical procedures compulsory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:10 PM
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Will the young women not date you, and it's society's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:20 PM
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I think you know the wrong kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:06 PM
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If my husband wasted money on nudes, when porn is free, absolutely. But seriously, yes. Regardless of gender, I wouldn't want to be married to a person like this. They sound miserable and probably make everyone around them miserable too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:23 PM
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My husband is stay at home dad...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:15 PM
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Tbf, I'd pick the man, but only because I assume killing a man would be easier than killing a bear. Not like, morally, but physically. I'd probably feel bad about killing either though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:16 PM
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A large amount of the time, what the man saw as "nice", was actually clingy, and way too much too fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:03 PM
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I'd take my husband to Hooters, we'd both have fun, but he says the food's terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:59 PM
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This. I absolutely do not expect you to find my hairy legs attractive, but if I take a break from shaving them, which I do often, especially in the winter, just like, let it be? Why does it matter to complete strangers? The only people who should care about the hair on my legs is me and the other person who gets to touch them, and we're fine, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:13 AM
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Stuff like this makes me question if the person even likes women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:37 AM
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My husband is a stay at home dad. Although I do like the doing the housework he provides for me, lol. He's also a great cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:23 PM
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My husband prefers a chubbier lady. That being said, he does not prefer an obese one. I think the issue is that people don't realize fatness is a sliding scale. Also, absolutely accept your body for what it is and love yourself, but people are allowed to have preferences for what they find attractive. Fat acceptance should be about loving yourself and people treating you like a human being no matter your size, not forcing people to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:12 PM
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Yep, been this way as long as I can remember. Told him about it up front when we started having sex. I didn't want to fake it like an asshole, but also didn't want him to feel like I wasn't enjoying myself and he was shitty in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:21 PM
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I have trouble orgasming. It's a combination of antidepressants and my anatomy. When my husband and I have sex, 90% of the time I don't "finish". I still enjoy the intimacy, and giving him pleasure. I don't actually need an orgasm to enjoy sex. It's never seemed to be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:09 AM
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I think you're not mature enough for a serious relationship yet. Also, yes, obviously a hypocrite, how was that a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:03 AM
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I sure hope my husband isn't hooking up with other women...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:14 AM
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I've seen videos about that! My kids also look identical to me too. We lucked out, perfect little 50/50 hybrids. Which is good, for the final plan... muahahah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:57 PM
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The amount of removed comments... Anyway, I've been married almost 15 years and I'm currently pregnant with our third child. If my husband wanted a paternity test, I'd say "That's weird, but sure. Knock yourself out." If he needs that for his peace of mind, it honestly doesn't bother me too much. He's never asked for one, and our kids look identical to him, but if he wanted one, sure. I always joke around and ask for a maternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:26 PM
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My husband and I were roomates with benefits before we realized that we liked living with eachother as much as having sex with eachother. 14 years and two kids later, I still enjoy living with and having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:48 AM
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Why sex evil tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:05 PM
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I just stay in my house. I only go out in disguise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:33 PM
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Protip: Don't have friends. Boom. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:03 AM
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My husband and I were roommates before we started dating. We've also been together for over 13 years, have two children, and have sex a few times a week on average. Before kids I think we had sex almost every day, so I guess there was a slight drop off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:48 PM
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Plenty of men are loved unconditionally, without being rich or extremely good looking. Not only by romantic partners, but also by their mothers, brothers, fathers, sisters, children, ect. You make it sound like a sexual relationship is the only one worth having for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:31 AM
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This. Some people don't realize that you don't have to be in a relationship. Therefore, you don't have to take a shitty one just to afford ramen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:09 PM
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You're mad an older/heavier woman turned you down, and now you're trying to make it societies fault so you don't have to realize that your personality is so terrible that all the money and good looks in the world won't get you a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:01 PM
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Fortunately for you, you won't get a chance to be divorced, because that means someone would have to marry you in the first place. Also, if both the man and woman have a job, both working 40+ hours a week, who should be making a nice meal?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:54 PM
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Am I just an idiot? Am I missing a point? All women are sluts, or all women lie? Even saying both are true, how did it answer my question?
/r/MGTOW04/01/18 01:44 AM
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How? Genuinely curious, not trying to be an asshat.
/r/MGTOW01/01/18 08:37 PM
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I don't frequent this subreddit, so you're going to have to spell that out for me.
/r/MGTOW01/01/18 08:35 PM
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Okay, but genuinely, how would you know unless she tells you? Assuming a woman is STD free, are you really going to know if you're her second or 15th?
/r/MGTOW31/12/17 12:43 AM
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