jlp21617 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	New to RPW and wanting to figure it all out		jlp21617	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/19 04:12 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	My husband is putting me and children at great risk. Which is always good advice. BUT some actions dont deserve respect. And excusing him ("idk if u know,im sure u haven't realized, but this pandemic ia serious") doesnt help either. What this man needs is plain blunt talk and ultimatums regarding this behavior. You can still speak respectfully (which means, imo,not cursing, calling names, etc but still being very firm and letting him know his shit is being called). So the way i would personally approach it is to calmy say "DH, we need to have a se…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/04/20 07:52 PM
2	My husband is putting me and children at great risk. Oh, thats sad. Well imo, it is, since OP had no choice. And imo thats all the more reason for her to say f this and walk. BUT i get other cultures are different than America. and that may not be viable. Also i know that DV and the like are more acceptable in SOME cultures. So that may have been the reason the other commenters urged respectful communication even given her husbands douchebag behavior, so if so that makes sense. In that light, Id advise the same; we dont want OP to put herself in d…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/04/20 07:21 PM
14	My husband is putting me and children at great risk. Yep. I agree with wanting to be feminine and that certain traditional gender roles make sense, which is why i came here- but i DO NOT agree with the idea that men are infallible leaders that we need to guide us through life, which is the attitude i see here at times. Yes respect for your spouse- whether its a hetero or homosexual couple, and whether you're the/a man or woman therin- is WONDERFUL. But respect at the cost of your own or your kids' well being/safety to avoid fracturing a male ego, …	/r/RedPillWomen	05/04/20 07:05 PM
11	My husband is putting me and children at great risk. Ok,but what if after a "serious convo" (and i refuse to believe OP hasn't SERIOUSLY brought this up in other than a "lighthearted" manner b4), he STILL CONTINUES TO RISK HIS OWN CHILDRENS' LIVES for his CONVENIENCE?? THEN should she do whats best for her and the kids?? Vetting isn't foolproof. What if OP wasnt in a great headspace when she 'vetted' OP and took someone who she could 'get' but thought he was WONDERFUL at the time? (No shade, OP; just a hypothetical). Or what about the fact that pe…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/04/20 06:46 PM
1	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. \|Women BEGIN as a YES...and you have to mess that YES up with your personality and behavior being so oft-putting that guys will bail because the juice isn't worth the squeeze Translation: Every woman BEGINS as a possibility for him to get some, but if you have any sort of standard for his behavior or compatibility with regards to you, you will have "messed that YES up" because he will be too lazy/unwilling to meet them, and thus will label you "crazy", "controlling", "too demanding", and "not wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/20 05:32 PM
8	How to stop swearing so much? I have molded many habits by keeping a flesh colored rubber band (like an office supply one, not a hair elastic) on my left wrist. When i catch myself doing the undesirable thing,i snap it hard. It hurts obviously but not too much, and the pain helps train your brain by giving negative a association (physical pain) to the nad habit. Takes about 3 weeks to begin seeing a difference, ime.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/20 10:38 PM
0	Unpopular Opinion: There's no way women hit the wall at 30 Oh good lord,PLENTY of women over 30 get hit on everyday and get into relationships and married. This redpill wall b.s. is just that. Well unless you weren't pretty to start with i guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/20 03:45 PM
14	Rough/degrading sex I am as "blue" as you can be I guess, but I like rough sex. I won't flip on someone who doesn't like it tho. As long as they don't push it onto others, people are welcome to have whatever kinks they like	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/20 10:36 PM
3	[CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the most /They should be all for equality or all for tradition. Um and why is that? I like some aspects of traditional gender roles and feel they make sense (like women doing more hands-on nurturing childcare if the guy isn't into it, because men don't usually relate that way; or men choosing more "manly"chores like mowing the lawn or changing can oil as homemaking isn't their forte usually). But I'll be damnded if I raise a man baby, live with a man who doesn't equally parent and clean (as in, physical …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 10:33 PM
1	Men aren’t angry because they realized women want Chad. They’re angry because they realized they aren’t Chad. Well no, i specifically said i was attracted to Danny (the red head) immediately on our first meeting. My actual thoughts were " Aw he's really cute." Truthfully i was MORE attracted to Andrew (Chad) upon 1st meeting. But my point here is so many guys act like attractive girls are never attracted to average dudes JUST based on looks, and also that more intangible (?) traits dont matter to us. And my position is, we are OFTEN attracted to average guys on a looks-only basis, and that intangible tr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/20 03:22 AM
4	Men aren’t angry because they realized women want Chad. They’re angry because they realized they aren’t Chad. I disagree. For me, i did go thru a phase in HIGH SCHOOL where i wanted the hot guy everyone wanted, and i dated him for 5 years while fucking around at will (both of us did,HS ego thing i guess). And he didnt get less hot. But i realized he was tue grossest (burping, farting,"boy" humor), most inconsiderate, pathologically lying,selfish, humorless excuse for a human i have ever met, and even tho he had the body and face of an Abercrombie model,all sexual attraction dried up and i left him for h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/20 01:08 AM
2	Do men overhype muscles? Ugh men-or women- with huge shredded muscles are hideous and look like some sort of unnatural beasts. Of course its hot if any person is FIT, but being "shredded"? Gross. Plus,many of those people have no personality besides "gymrat" which is a huge turnoff. Fitness, as with all things, is best in moderation and balanced with interesting hobbies,a sense of humor, maturity, kindness etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/20 08:17 PM
2	Are most women even attracted to men? Because in almost every case like this, yall didnt become friends naturally and then both have feelings develop. You fucking pretended to be her friend so you could try and get some. Thats why we get pissed. If you had been a great platonic friend for years before asking her out, or even months (but more than just like a few weeks, basically) and then after she said no, you accept it and continue the friendship as an affectionate (not physically affectionate just the affection you'd have for any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 08:57 PM
0	Do you believe that there is "someone out there for everyone"? ---"There are many worthless people out there- mostly men...." Found one!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/20 06:16 PM
4	I got banned from r/breakingmom seconds later after posting in this sub! I got banned from there for posting a reply to Gender Critical about how i think trans people should be allowed to do what they want to their bodies, sure; but that we should def try other things to treat their issues first because its a LITERAL MENTAL ILLNESS. like, better therapy mainly. And that we shldnt push/circlejerk kids into thinking its "cool"/trendy/etc. Etc etc. Fully acknowledging some people have legit issues where sex changes may be indicated as the best treatment,that trans peopl…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/01/20 05:48 AM
1	Imagine how easy dating would be if average/ugly people stopped chasing attractive people. Welcome 🙃 As i said i feel kinda asshole-ish but ill leave it because every single one of these things has happened to me, and i get tired of defending the fact that I DONT OWE YOU SHIT (not OP but randos in general) just because i tried to be a decently nice human being.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/20 01:07 AM
2	Imagine how easy dating would be if average/ugly people stopped chasing attractive people. Sorry didnt mean to comment "K", but since i did i edited it to my thoughts, which are: Fucking THIS!! I feel like kinda an asshole.... But fucking christ, i get so tired of dumbasses who want to hang all over you for "status", buy you shit YOU NEVER ASKED FOR and try to NOT accept, take you places YOU ONLY ACCEPT TO BE POLITE AFTER DECLINING 70 TIMES, comment on all your social media to get a reply of "Haha, aw thanks! You're such a good FRIEND!", pay for everything when we hang out despite our…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/20 12:07 AM
1	Most women hate the idea of men BECOMING successful with women. Any thought of rags to riches success that works is cringe and awful to them. Uh maybe its the attitude? A grudge from teens to middle age is very bitter and speaks of little to no personal growth. Have you addressed the issue of social skills/personality? How do u interact with women and men? You should be confident, not arrogant; kind but not subservient; outgoing but not clingy. Also are you sure women didnt like u when you were young,or were u just an awkward teen who couldn't tell they did? Why do YOU think they didnt? Some people just arent "smooth" at opposite-sex …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/20 03:26 PM
3	Most women hate the idea of men BECOMING successful with women. Any thought of rags to riches success that works is cringe and awful to them. Has anyone ever told you that condescension ia VERY unattractive? And that you sound like a real douche when you speak like that? If we break it down, we are ALL simple creatures driven by biology. But also, we are all very complicated and driven mentally as well. You arent superior due to owning a penis 🙄 This is exactly what women dont want. (The attitude. The "doing what makes you happy" is good advice.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/20 12:01 PM
6	Most women hate the idea of men BECOMING successful with women. Any thought of rags to riches success that works is cringe and awful to them. What we want is,a man who works out moderately to be healthy and in decent shape (dad bod fine, diabetes due to personal negelct, no), with good hygiene who dresses decently (not a GQ model,just nicely);a man who is in a career that fulfills him and wherein he makes a decent living (i.e. enough to responsibly support him, not asking to be supported myself); a man who has interests, hobbies, activities, etc beyond "picking up women"; a man who is kind, caring,likeable, decent sense of humor, etc.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/20 11:58 AM
1	Study: Men who do more housework have less sex I have a minor aneurysm while reading many things men write/listening to things they say. I've made it through thus far though, despite the fear that my eyes may one day become permanently lodged backward in their sockets from rolling so fucking hard; but thanks for the concern.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/19 05:30 PM
2	Study: Men who do more housework have less sex Thanks! I sound like an asshole but i really get pissed when men act like we took their ass to raise on top of work, school, friends, family, kids, hobbies, activities, church, mental labor, running a household, vehicle maintenence, property maintenence, etc. It is PATHETIC how many posts i read in "mom" or "women" or "relationship" subs about grown man babies using us for sex toys,maids,cooks, nannies, personal assistants, mechanics, and whatever the fuck else and it's just "EXPECTED" because t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/19 05:21 PM
0	Study: Men who do more housework have less sex Yes we do want men to do more housework, because we arent your fucking parents. You live in a place, YOU FUCKING MAINTAIN IT!! Also, we dont "respond by having LESS sex with them" for doing housework. WE DONT FUCKING CORRELATE THE TWO, BECAUSE YOU ARENT OWED SEX AS A REWARD FOR BEING A FUNCTIONAL ADULT, OR FOR ANYTHING ELSE. The incentive? Whats OUR goddamn incentive?? YOUR INCENTIVE IS THAT YOU FUCKING LIVE THERE, YOU ABSOLUTE USELESS SACK!!!!!!! YOU.ARE.AN.ADULT!!!!! Act like it and maintain a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/19 05:40 PM
2	Not wanting to spend a lot on the first date, doesn't indicate a low value man. I have a question for you, and OP, and would also be interested in answers from any other guys commenting on either side of this issue (i.e.- should you spend alot/decent amount on dates or not? Why or why not?), just for my own curiosity mainly but i am thinking of writing a paper on this topic (or sub-topic) for my sociology class. My question, apart from the original "how much to spend and why" question, is 'where do yall live'? In the north,or south? States would be helpful too. Im intereste…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 03:59 PM
11	Are Normal Men Actually Trying to Be Attractive to Women? She never said ANYTHING like women shouldn't communicate needs/wants, or work to be attractive,or have a sexual imagination, or that she needs a man to manage her schedule,etc. Because this addresses the NORM of MEN. Not that some women arent TERRIBLE, needy, ugly,unimaginative, etc. But for the most part,its a GIVEN that we TRY to wear makeup,dress nicely, act nicely, manage 99%of our lives and men's,etc. I hate this "us vs. them" shit though. We ALL should work to be and look the best we can, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/19 01:19 PM
2	Do any of you worry about the future of male and female relationship? "I'm sure women don't want to marry some guy who has been banging nightclub girls for the last 5 years, but has suddenly decided he wants to "settle down" and find a simple woman to bear his kids and clean the house. So guys are not enthusiastic about getting used goods, or being "plan B". " But.... men have ALWAYS done this???? And its a problem now only because women are too, apprently. How about, we ALL- male AND female- have the sexual experiences we want, and then settle down when we are re…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/12/19 02:49 PM
1	Women actually love red-pilled lyrics. Edit- Reading this over, maybe i come off as a bitch. And maybe i misread your intent, OP. If that's the case, i apologize. In other comments you seem pretty respectful and polite. But im going to leave my original comment below in case anyone else interprets this as I perceived it. So, just for myself, music isn't about the lyrics. Its about the beat. Its upbeat, happy (sounding) and fun to dance to. I do not like the Heartless song as its slow and not fun. Some people identify with the lyrics …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/19 01:13 PM
5	Do Red Pill Liberals Exist? I mean, women ofc. But THOSE women are whores and arent worthy of snagging these amazing specimens of manhood to be their 'captains', bossing them and controlling their every move for all of eternity. THAT distinct and dubious fucking honor is reserved for those poor women who are downtrodden/brainwashed enough to accept that they NEED a fucking 'captian' to lead them thru life. All the fucking eyerolls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 08:08 PM
6	Do Red Pill Liberals Exist? No no no, you misunderstand- they are anti-casual sex FOR WOMEN. Men are fucking entitled to it, ya know??	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/19 12:29 PM
-2	Men have a hard time accepting that women's preferences evolve with age because they themselves are permanently 12 years old in their desire. False, men NEVER get better. Just more goddamn annoying year after year. 🙄. If it wasnt for women handling absolutely EVERYTHING that men CHOOSE not to(like cooking, cleaning ,childcare ,elderly care, motivating lazy ass men, nurturing relationships with his friends and fam for him, encouraging him, giving affection and sex, etc) then almost no historically "great" men would have accomplished shit. However women never get this reciprocated, never get appreciated or get a break, throughout histor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/19 06:10 PM
0	Q4W: What Has Been Your Experience With Chads? I have only ever dated frat boy types. And in my experience, they are some of the nicest and most well mannered guys ever. Sure you get the occasional asswipe. But usually that behavior is actually discouraged. They dress well,they act confident and well adjusted. And not all of them are hot af. They just maximize what they have, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 10:54 PM
1	Does BP accept or reject the idea of the dual-mating strategy (AFBB) ? You're pretty well right, and i get what you're saying about preferring to be with your wife during "peak" years. But i think some guys who may be "unattractive" despair of getting with someone "attractive" at any point; or maybe even with anyone, ever. So my comments/replies to someone else above sort of break down how i think about that. But yeah, i think AF/BB is just biology; so i recommend "looksmaxxing" or whatever RP calls it, if u want the best chance of getting an attractive wife during…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 07:29 PM
1	Does BP accept or reject the idea of the dual-mating strategy (AFBB) ? Should have clarified more, i meant basically that yes, i have now settled down pretty well according to this formula the RP uses, but it isn't JUST his security that keeps me around. I was drawn to him when i matured past my "fucking around" stage because i was READY for commitment, and he was sweet, strong, and secure. But unattractive. However, his other attributes eventually made me see him as very physically attractive and we have a great relationship. So "typical"guys shouldn't despair;i t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 07:17 PM
2	Does BP accept or reject the idea of the dual-mating strategy (AFBB) ? Sorry it took me a few days, school is kicking my ass lately (summer terms blow!). But yeah, i actually do! Im turned on by him because his personality was what first caught my attention, but as time went on id notice how he looked working hard outside (sweaty,strong, competent) or how sexy it was when he played with his nieces and nephews even tho hes this big strong guy (i mean comparatively my bf isnt huge; but its cool to see a grown man act sweet, playful, and supportive to kids/family) so …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 07:13 PM
2	Does BP accept or reject the idea of the dual-mating strategy (AFBB) ? Oh yeah. I casually dated/fucked my way thru all the sports team guys in HS and frat boys in college. Now im settled down with a guy who is very sweet and steady and wonderful but well "below"me in objective attractiveness; i get asked alot why im with him but idc because i KNOW why i care about him and i can have other guys if i wanted, plus been there done that on fucking a hot douchebag so why continue that 4ever? Part of it is growing up and being more mature, etc but the theory def applies.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/19 05:32 PM
1	What do most women fail to understand about men? God no. It would be a gift from the Gods to be able to "silence my thoughts" , but there is always something to plan, worry about, look forward to, problem solve, or whatever even during sleep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/19 07:21 PM
1	What do most women fail to understand about men? Fucking yes. My SO kills me w/this shit. What the actual fuck, is it even possible for a living breathing human being to have NO thoughts in their head???	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/19 07:16 PM
1	What do most women fail to understand about men? To be fair, i think alot of women hate the seat up cause it just LOOKS gross. Even a clean nice neat toilet looks gross with the seat and lid up. In my house, male or female, u close the seat AND THE LID when done. Its like, a manners thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/19 07:13 PM
2	What do most women fail to understand about men? Whats an LV man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/19 07:04 PM
8	Mrs. Midwest I just went and checked it out- subscribed! I love the blog :) but, does anyone know of any similiar blogs for Southern mamas, that sort of espouse our culture and values? (You know, canning and sewing;picking poke salad, cressy greens, blackberries, raspberries, dryland fish and so on from the woods; cultivating that "help thy neighbor" ,"family is life", hard working but wholly feminine, polite and respectful, Sundays- on-Papaws- farm lifestyle. If you're not southern this probably sounds craz…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/19 07:35 PM
7	Woman kills husband with hammer. First she denies it, then she claimed abuse. She was sentenced to 4 years of prison for the murder. Now she could probably get charges dropped altogether She didnt get 4 yrs. She got 22 yrs and then the sentance was lowered BY 4 yrs. Not TO 4 yrs . So that means she got 18 years. Then her sons fought for retrial. That trial's outcome was to sqaush the murder conviction. THEN, if o understand correctly, the court said "No wait retrial again! Psych!" (May be wrong abt that last sentence tho)	/r/PussyPass	01/03/19 02:32 AM
5	Help getting out of head & into my body What do you mean exactly by "in your head"?	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/19 04:42 PM
1	What are the most useful / beneficial things to spend money on or take out a loan for in the beauty/ health category? Btw, i can afford these things, but the amounts arent insignificant to my budget, if that makes sense. but feel like i should maybe spend my money on other practical stuff? On the other hand, i feel investing in yourself IS a good investment. So im torn lol thanks for any help!	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/19 04:07 PM
1	What are the most useful / beneficial things to spend money on or take out a loan for in the beauty/ health category? This may be a bit off OPs topic, but ivw been dying to ask someone that invests in more "expensive" beauty treatments some questions, if you wouldnt mind. :) *Im not sure if this matters or changes any potential answers, but i am a 29 yr old woman, ive always been pretty conventionally attractive (good bone structure, long healthy hair, pretty eyes and features, 5"5 and about 130lbs, athletic and in good shape). Ive never had issues with confidence or with getting almost any man i was attracted …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/19 04:05 PM
15	Beauty on a dime I know it was mentioned in OPs post that she loves baby oil as a cheap beauty aid but she didnt say for what so i came here to say, yall should definitely try shaving your legs with babyoil in place of shave cream. You will have the sexiest silkiest legs ever! Lol	/r/RedPillWomen	11/02/19 03:55 PM
1	New to RPW and wanting to figure it all out Sorry to be unclear or convoluted,i suppose i was looking for a basic sort of overview to clear up points about which i was confused,mainly some of the terms used, and i esp wanted more info on the relationship dynamics of RP couples, and to know the reasons behind that structuring. It sounds like the sidebar etc would help me answer quite a few of those, but i still cant see it. Ill log in on my laptop and see if its visible once off mobile. As for the goals i stated, i thought it was pretty de…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/19 07:40 PM
3	Is my marriage to a point of no return? Thank u for the thoughtful and nice reply! I agree with your take on it. I initially looked thru the sub and liked what i saw mostly, but other people have talked negatively about RP in other places, making out like RP means a woman is her mans slave, so i was worried about adopting the philosophy without understanding it all and gettinf some POV frm people living it. So far, it seems that RP focuses on both spouses being attentive, taking initiative to make the other happy, each giving more tha…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/19 06:52 AM
1	New to RPW and wanting to figure it all out Sorry this got a bit long 😔 Tl;dr- i did want to participate and will try to locate the sources u listed but im fairly new to Reddit and on mobile so maybe thats why i didnt see them. Im sorry if i was unclear in my post, but i AM interested in participating, which is why i wanted to become familiar with the "background" of the whole RP philosophy, i guess you could say? Im pretty new to Reddit as a whole, and i didnt see a sidebar, or anything except basically a list of posts when i enter the s…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/19 06:27 AM
3	Is my marriage to a point of no return? Just curious, im new to all this, when you say "But to have a relationship with another person means giving, and for your husband that means anything within your power that he wants," does this work both ways in your mind/philosophy? Is if hubbys job to give his wife any thing in his power she wants? I agree that having a relationship means giving on both sides. Im just trying to figure out this whole RP mindset lol i made a post earlier asking about it. I like alot of what i hear, mainly the fo…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/19 05:39 AM