jlstitt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	A guy on Quora asks: "What's the best way to impress a girl?"... here's the (short) answer. Did not read. Quora tried to make me login or some shit.	/r/seduction	18/12/15 12:49 AM
-1	So a girl complimented me... Women say stuff like this to me sometimes. I just say 'thank you!' sincerely and carry on. I like to assume they all think it and only a few manage to say it. Heh.	/r/seduction	13/10/15 08:14 PM
10	How can a 36 year- old, Single father learn pickup. I'm 42 and I always see lots of advice for how to pick up women in clubs and bars. Going to a club at 42 is asinine (and frankly, boring). Maybe focus on day game? Hell I don't know either. Where do women in their 30s hang out?	/r/seduction	10/09/15 02:53 PM
-2	A gold mine of pickuo you may have never known: Petsmart Yep known this for a while :) ... Quick, name a girl you know that doesn't own a pet. Go ahead, I'll wait. Dog parks are a gold mine too. Especially if you have a very friendly dog. Also, if you favor a particular breed ... meetups or clubs are decent (although you get the same people every time).	/r/seduction	17/09/12 01:54 AM
1	Hey /r/seduction, IAmA personal stylist for men. I teach men how to look attractive. AMA. Same question but live in a hot climate (Texas / average around 35°C) ... If I went out in that people would think I'm completely mad. Is it even possible to look decent in short sleeves? Incidentally, I bought your book for Kindle. Thanks for doing the IAMA.	/r/seduction	30/05/12 09:03 PM
2	To the women who lurk here and want to be approached You know I used to worry about that a little bit. Then one time at a wine bar two guys started hitting on these girls and getting rejected the entire time. They were persistent and the girls were really laughing at them and not with them. BUT these guys were really entertaining in spite of it. However...cut to the end of the night, they were still sitting with these guys, "putting up with" the come-ons. They all left together. tl;dr - be entertaining	/r/seduction	07/03/12 10:41 PM
3	To the women who lurk here and want to be approached I'm too short to get chatted up in Norway. Last time I went there, I felt like a midget at 175cm...	/r/seduction	07/03/12 10:38 PM
2	I can't stop mental masturbation, but when it comes game time... PUA "pros" invented the 3 second rule for a reason. Try doing this...I've started it recently and noticed that my feet start walking before my brain can reject. Often I fail horrendously (just tonight I actually walked up to a woman and said she had a "nice figure" ... I mean out of nowhere. It seemed a lot less creepy in my head. Even her friend had a WTF look. It was awful. But I survived and someday I might even be able to pull off that line...)	/r/seduction	19/01/12 08:09 AM
8	I can't stop mental masturbation, but when it comes game time... Totally agree with this too! Fail is another word for learn (hopefully).	/r/seduction	19/01/12 08:03 AM
3	I can't stop mental masturbation, but when it comes game time... This is absolute wisdom. Going up to anyone - man or woman - takes guts. But you have to do it to progress. Hell even walking out the front door for me sometimes can be tough. I think "who do you think you are - going out to try to actually pick up women?" I've recently made a commitment to go out every single night (often alone and not drinking...) Most nights suck but at least I'm there. I'm trying. Like they say, don't ask, don't get. I'm a good looking guy and was still 0 for 4 tonight. It r…	/r/seduction	19/01/12 07:58 AM
1	Good response to "You're cute"? A similar one to this is what Mystery says to everything: "respect."	/r/seduction	30/12/11 09:57 PM
2	Good response to "You're cute"? "Bunnies are cute. I'm hot." :P	/r/seduction	30/12/11 03:40 PM
1	[FR] Re-learning game, first approach tonight. Need advice. I think it really depends on what you're trying to do. If you're still working on building attraction, the average boring stuff won't do much to help your cause (you'll be like everyone else who has nothing really to talk about...) However, if you're establishing comfort (at which point you should have already been building attraction and kino) you can move to this kind of thing, as it helps you find commonalities.	/r/seduction	30/12/11 03:35 PM
3	Good response to "You're cute"? I always say "No, I am."	/r/seduction	30/12/11 06:19 AM
2	Just Returned from an intense 7 day conference, learned valuable lessons Oh man I just realized I've been doing that lately. Gah.	/r/seduction	09/11/11 03:40 AM
2	Just Returned from an intense 7 day conference, learned valuable lessons I like the message but the format of it distracts me. I wish it were just written normally...	/r/seduction	09/11/11 03:37 AM
3	"The Shy Delusion: Yes, it is all in your head." - A great article that all people who think they are shy should read. In the beginning he uses shyness/introversion as an either/or... Then this: I’m not going to dig you out of your introvert hole using introvert if->then logic. I’ll drag you out kicking and screaming if I have to, and >push you into a real-life social situation with no mental preparation, so >you can get used to how us extroverts genuinely do it ourselves	/r/seduction	07/11/11 12:36 AM
3	"The Shy Delusion: Yes, it is all in your head." - A great article that all people who think they are shy should read. Not only that, he makes the assumption that introverts are shy and also that there is something wrong with introversion. It seems to be the nature of extroversion: to assume introverts are "broken". My ex (a huge extrovert) always used to say "you need to step out of your shyness!" but I'm not shy, I just don't require the company of others as often.	/r/seduction	06/11/11 11:34 PM
1	Limiting Beliefs My company would have had all five monkeys contribute to a policy document about 2000 pages big and any new monkey would have had to review this document and keep a record of the knowledge transition and of each page and the other monkeys would have to sign off saying that the KT was correctly done and periodically there would be a monkey document review panel and during the meetings each monkey would act all self-important and stress just how important his section of the monkey manual was, whil…	/r/seduction	30/10/11 02:55 AM
2	I just dumped an HB10 because... She's about a 8 for me. Never been that much of a fan... but I can see why guys would be into her. I never claimed to be into the same chicks as most guys. I go for a "cute" look usually... 10 for me are ones that I literally sigh when I see them (usually on-screen 'cause in-person is a rare breed): Caterina Scorsone, Alison Brie, Natalie Portman, Kristen Bell, Emma Watson.	/r/seduction	29/10/11 12:29 AM
1	sleepynate's guide to unlocking the achievement of confidence I think I've discovered his general problem...	/r/seduction	21/10/11 12:51 PM
3	sleepynate's guide to unlocking the achievement of confidence Horde upvote!	/r/seduction	21/10/11 12:48 PM
12	Brilliant Opener!! I doubt most guys could pull off what you're describing. It might work for Matthew McConaughey in a romantic comedy. The op's version works very well precisely because it's a little edgy. Leaving it just with "hold my drink" really is being kind of a dick. But he uses it more as a clever introduction, demonstrating subconsciously that he doesn't need to win her approval.	/r/seduction	24/09/11 05:29 AM
3	Need help with initiation... (x-post from highseddit) Leave a simple comment on something she says on FB. Later, bring it up in the hall as an opener.	/r/seduction	11/09/11 06:49 PM
9	Girl's game? As a guy myself, I can verify this dude is making serious sense. Be approachable but not cat-lady. I know a girl at my local that sits alone reading a book at the bar and as soon as any guy engages her, she launches into fuax-intellectual-pseudo-babble, trying to appear smart. Maybe she is but mostly she's creepy. But anyway, if you can separate yourself from your horde of womenfolk (generalizing here...) for 10 minutes or so of sitting alone, you're much more likely to attract attention - espec…	/r/seduction	06/09/11 12:26 AM
4	Introverts of seddit, what do you want from a woman? This is an awesome question. I really had to stop and think about it. What I've found in the past, is that I'm always attracted to people who are the center of attention. Bartenders, singers, social butterflies, etc. But I don't think I specifically seek someone who is opposite to me (that is, extroversion). It's probably too much of a cop-out to say sex, too. That's pretty obvious. Who doesn't want sex. So let's see.... What do I want? Off the top of my head and being brutally honest I think it…	/r/seduction	04/09/11 11:34 PM
13	FR[8]: Building an AA Immunity and making bar staff your friends. If I may... One thing I've learned over the years is never to offer my name first. I'll ask theirs and use their interest (or lack thereof) in my name as a bit of an indicator. Another related tip ...always ask "are you single" rather than "do you have a boyfriend" or similar (although it's even better not to even broach the subject at all...let them decide whether you're the new one :P) Also, in sets it's always good to use the old "how do you guys know each other" line. Saves a lot of time and…	/r/seduction	04/09/11 12:03 PM