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Thanks for the comment. I hope everyone will have success sooner than I did.
/r/seduction25/09/19 05:02 AM
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It was tough for sure. I had some rough experiences trying to understand that not everyone was going to obey what was taught us in that school. The one that hit me the hardest was I found out that one girl I had a crush on was hooking up with some guy. I thought this girl was going to wait until marriage. The good thing is that my family wasn't part of the church that runs the school and many of my friends were in public school and eventually a state college. So I got to see how the world is slo…
/r/seduction23/09/19 03:09 PM
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This is in the US and they looked like typical Americans.
/r/MGTOW25/08/18 11:52 PM
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The other day I messaged a girl who had posted an online poll about what list of things makes you the most nostalgic. I sent her a message about it and we talked for little bit. We were in a dance competition not too long ago in college. I’m not interested in asking her out but but when I asked her about how post college life is going she completely ignored me. It’s so rude to ignore people yet this isn’t the first time some girl thought I was probably hitting on her when I just wanted to have a…
/r/MGTOW15/06/18 06:29 AM
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I feel you man. I grew up going to a private Christian school which was very conservative. Girls had to wear skirts to the knee or lower and it was constantly repeated to us that being a virgin till marriage is good. Unfortunately many of the girls I was attracted to were turning down many guys then spreading their legs for the first “chad” that came along. Later in life, such as college and beyond, I realized that I lived in a bubble in my teens and it felt like I was lied to my whole life sinc…
/r/MGTOW04/06/18 08:56 PM
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Yeah I believe it. I was also in a fraternity at a large public state college. Some girls that would come to our parties banged multiple guys in my fraternity and that’s one fraternity out of many haha. Who knows how many guys they banged. Also at college it’s so easy for girls to hop on Tinder and Bumble and get laid. So so easy. There’s many potential guys for them to choose from. I got a decent amount of numbers but I’ve been flaked on so many times because if some other guy who she matched w…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 09:07 PM
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I can relate to lots of what you said. I’m not a bad looking guy (I know that I’m not what would be described as “chad”) but throughout high school and college I played sports and and stayed in good shape. The fatties loved me but obviously I wasn’t interested in them. I was way more introverted back then so that probably didn’t help. Girls have always been friendly with me but the girls I really liked always ended up getting upset that chad dumped them or hooked up with them and stopped talking…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/18 08:30 PM
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Yeah that’s exactly what happens. I was in a fraternity when I was in college so I know how these types of girls are. At my school they had a whole week of recruitment. Even though they won’t admit it, sororities basically recruit the most attractive freshman girls as they can to try and keep the attention and get invited to parties of whatever fraternities they like. Even though there were over 30 fraternities on my campus, I would say less than half of the fraternities would be good enough (wh…
/r/MGTOW11/05/18 08:12 PM
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Theta is a sorority. So since she’s a sorority girl, she is the epitome of hypergamous behavior and entitlement. Even more so than the average woman.
/r/MGTOW11/05/18 02:26 PM
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Before Instagram and Snapchat, I had a dream one night where I could go online and search a hot girls name I knew and a bunch of bikini pics and other suggestive pics popped up. It’s pretty weird that this is what Instagram basically is now. Most girls I met in college had instagrams with over 1000 followers. Many are average looking but these delusional guys think they are hot since they post bikini pics with filters. These guys actually think these girls look like that in real life which is sa…
/r/MGTOW04/05/18 01:32 PM
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I grew up going to a private Christian school. Stuff like this happens more than people think. It wasn’t uncommon for some girls to blow or do anal with all the jocks/bad boys then go off to a Christian college and marry some oblivious blue pilled Beta guy. I once had a crush on a girl who I thought was a virgin like myself at the time. I definitely thought she had the same Christian values as me in regards to sexuality. (I’m not the same anymore) We were both 21 and I found out she was hooking …
/r/MGTOW30/04/18 09:18 PM
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I once was contacted by a staffing agency to work there as a technical recruiter. The pay wasn’t bad so I figured why not talk to them and hear them out. This is one of those similar agencies where most of the recruiters are women in their 20s. The girl who contacted me was fresh out of college and was talking to me like I was a recent college graduate with no work experience even though I was 29 and finished my second degree and had over 9 years of prior work experience. Eventually I had an int…
/r/MGTOW27/04/18 08:12 PM
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College is different than many young men in high school realize. It does seem like it could be this haven of parties and wild girls but it isn’t like the movies. In the past, I went to the largest school in my state and joined a fraternity. I dated one girl briefly and hooked up before but it’s pretty damn difficult to have success unless you have social status or good looks/height. The average man in college with have a tough time trying to hook up or date a girl. I’m a decent looking guy but I…
/r/MGTOW04/04/18 07:00 AM
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The JCPenney catalog was my favorite thing haha. Those things were as big as phone books. The women’s underwear section was huge.
/r/MGTOW16/03/18 03:56 AM
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I once matched with a girl on Tinder but it was during a time when I was busy studying for an exam in college. Two days later she messages me saying “why haven’t you talked to me yet.” I say that I’ve been really busy that week with school. She replies “Ya but it makes no sense for someone to match with someone but not say anything.” I then tell her that makes no sense and I can say hi to anyone whenever I want. She then unmatched me haha. What a crazy.
/r/MGTOW31/01/18 02:59 PM
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Exactly.
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 07:45 PM
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Haha this reminds me of one time several years ago when I met a girl who was friends of a another coworker. We were all in our young 20s. This girl was decent looking and I was somewhat interested in her. My coworker mentioned that her friend really liked me and wanted to go on a date. Not too long after that we were at a small social gathering we were having drinks and my coworker had a sister who got drunk. Her sister was best friends with this girl and she tells me “ she likes going out to ba…
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 07:44 PM
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Too often I see men being labeled as “nice guys” when in reality they just don’t fit women’s criteria in looks for dating or hooking up. These can be men that don’t behave like beta orbiters and do their own thing. It’s ridiculous. Then again, women probably view all non-chads as “nice guys “
/r/MGTOW21/01/18 06:15 PM
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Yeah when I was a teenager and when I was in college adults would tell me that girls wouldn’t be as picky or flaky with men once they get into their mid to late 20s. From my experience, most millennial women are just the same as they were when they were younger.
/r/MGTOW21/01/18 06:07 PM
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It’s true that women’s perception of the attainability of sex is completely different than men. For the average woman, it is much easier to get sex. For the average man, it is much harder and he may have to have sex with women that are lower in looks than he is. I never realized this until I went to college. All of these average looking girls could easily hook up with guys. The average looking guys had it rough and girls wanted to stay single unless she meets chad. The guys that bragged about ge…
/r/MGTOW18/01/18 06:17 PM
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I’m almost 30 and I thought the women my age were narcissistic and picky with men. Once I saw how high school and college aged girls behave it made me realize that they probably are even worse. Like others have said- it’s probably social media, dating apps, feminism, and having idols such as the Kardashian’s influencing them.
/r/MGTOW14/01/18 09:57 PM
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When I was growing up, I envisioned being married and having a family when I was in my 20s. After going on dates that never really worked out and being rejected by so many women that I thought were a looksmatch it kinda made me wonder if there is anything wrong with me. Im average height and not bad looking at all and it turns out I am just one of many men nowadays that don’t fit many women’s dating requirements anymore. I’ve seen too many young women just chase chads or party well into their la…
/r/MGTOW14/01/18 08:17 PM
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Even for guys that want a relationship/marriage it’s an uphill battle. I’m not interested in marriage but my grandparents still ask me if I’d met any women but they don’t understand that it was different for their generation. Both of my grandfathers were good looking men back in the day. 5’8” fit but not ripped. Plus they had good jobs. Back in the 1950s they had no problem finding a woman willing to marry. They were a great catch. It would totally be different nowadays for them which I don’t kn…
/r/MGTOW09/01/18 08:12 PM
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Nofap is kind of crazy to me, but I don’t deny that abstaining from masturbating for short periods of time can help you focus on other things. Also if you are someone trying to give up porn addiction it can help. For example, if I jerk off every day, then I would be calm and relaxed, but lazy. If I were to wait 3 or 4 days in between, then I feel like I have more energy. The only problem is that once I get over 4 days it can be a pain in the ass since average to below average looking women are s…
/r/MGTOW14/12/17 05:00 AM
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Very true. Long ago when I was 12 years old (6th grade) all of the girls in my class seemed to start making advances towards the guys they liked or suggest wanting a boyfriend. Most the the boys, including myself, weren’t interested in girls our age until later.
/r/MGTOW14/12/17 04:48 AM
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I can relate to this so much. I’ve known multiple average looking girls that haven’t had a boyfriend in a long time. Sometimes this goes on for years. They reject so many guys but will only accept a 6ft tall guy with big muscles. They become lonely and depressed because of their unreal expectations in men. (They aren’t really lonely compared to many men). One girl I used to know was kinda upset and told my friend that she recently decided not to go on a third date with a guy. I saw a picture of …
/r/MGTOW11/12/17 08:07 PM
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This reminds me back when I just started to break away from being blue pilled. I was 21 years old and a girl who I used to have a crush on in high school was texting me about about how guys suck and more whiny stuff about how her chad bf dumped her. I knew she didn’t like me since she rejected me in the past. I was so confused why she’s saying this at first but then it hit me. She’s just looking for someone to vent to and make her feel better. I just told her that not every man sucks and you’ll …
/r/MGTOW10/12/17 10:53 AM
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Yeah it’s crazy to me too. Not every woman has absurd height preferences, but it is prevalent. I notice it more in the younger women too. I think it’s because they are in their prime and always think they can date or hookup with a guy that meets that criteria. I don’t think that all women may think that an average male is short, but they may see another guy taller than them and be more attracted to the taller guy. I had a big red pill moment in the past. Back in college I was at a party. One of …
/r/MGTOW08/12/17 02:15 PM
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Yeah it’s average height. I’m that same height as well. Most of the guys I know are around 5’8” to 5’11.” I don’t feel short or tall, just average. Women, however, are delusional with their height preferences. They think that someone 6ft or taller is the norm. I definitely felt that my height was the reason I’ve been rejected before. I don’t really care anymore and I don’t associate myself with shallow women. I’ve known of women who are 5’4” or under that only date guys over 6ft. It seems baffli…
/r/MGTOW08/12/17 12:44 PM
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I had a decent amount of matches when I used Tinder in college. Most girls didn’t respond to my messages and I only met 2 girls for a date. Most of them use it for validation unless they match with chad. Then they will meet up with him.
/r/MGTOW29/11/17 05:32 PM
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Maybe I didn’t type it out clearly like I had in mind. What I meant was many young men are bound to become sexually frustrated or depressed at some point. Perhaps if they are told by others who can be role models for them that they shouldn’t try to appease or chase girls all the time and instead focus on themselves and there will be more young men that will be less depressed. I don’t want to see all the young men be a bunch of Beta orbiters.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 09:41 PM
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It always annoys me that some people look down upon others that choose not to have children. It’s their life as they can do what they want. People always ask me why I don’t have a girlfriend or don’t have kids. I’m still in my 20s and if I had a gf or wife I would be in a much worse place than I am now financially.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 08:15 PM
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Online dating is terrible. I don’t know any guy who has had much success with it. The reason is women are even pickier on it than meeting them in person. I’m a decent looking guy. I’ve gotten a good number of matches on Tinder or Bumble and only hooked up with one girl. Most of the time they don’t message back or even if you get their number they won’t respond to text messages. It’s wasn’t uncommon for me to be texting a girl for a bit and then have her ghost me. Not much after that I could see …
/r/MGTOW25/11/17 11:12 PM
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Thank goodness I had red pill experiences back in high school. I’m truly grateful that I saw how women are at that age. I went to a small Christian school but that doesn’t change how women are very much if at all. I had a crush on two girls who were friends. I would say they were maybe 7/10 at the time in looks (back then). I never asked them out since I was more introverted back then and kinda too nervous to do it. Anyways one of them (who I will call girl #1) had a crush on a guy who was a pop…
/r/MGTOW22/11/17 02:28 AM
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At my old job I’ve had multiple older women who were customers hit on me and say that I smell good or that I have beautiful eyes. Just the other day at my current job some married woman who was a customer put her hand on me a couple times and when I looked at her she’s like “oh sorry.” In college at a party a girl slapped my ass and said she did it before to other guys. This same girl constantly messaged me on Facebook and when I ignored her she kept saying I suck. Also at college I was at a bar…
/r/MGTOW20/11/17 11:52 PM
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I feel the same way. I think that for men nowadays (especially teens and early to mid 20s aged) it is much more difficult to get laid. Plenty of guys I know have had limited sexual experiences. This isn’t because that they don’t get out of the house and ask girls out or go to social gatherings. It’s because girls that are their looksmatch reject them so often and would rather be single and chase chads around.
/r/MGTOW31/10/17 06:56 AM
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Ha. Reminds me of a time in the past when I got a girl’s number off of a dating app. She looked better than most girls I’ve matched with and she loved golf. We texted for a bit and I asked if she wanted to play a round which she said she’d love to. She ghosted me as soon as she found out that I wasn’t paying for her lol. Golf isn’t cheap. There’s no way I’m spending $40 or more on a girl.
/r/MGTOW29/10/17 12:49 AM
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Yeah I believe it. Even a decade ago when I was in high school girls didn't dress as slutty as they do nowadays. I see girls that are probably middle schoolers wearing shorts so short that you can see the bottom of their buttcheeks. The crazy thing is that they are wearing this while walking around town with their parents. Why would any parent be ok with this?
/r/MGTOW19/10/17 11:55 PM
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Yeah I really enjoyed the Atmosphere of Quake 1. The expansions were fun too. Unreal is more of a futuristic Sci-fi atmosphere with various alien species.
/r/MGTOW16/10/17 06:12 AM
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I loved Unreal. The game was longer than I thought and the music is great. The same guy who worked on the soundtrack worked on the original Deus Ex. (Alexander Brandon) I think it can be found as low as $2 during Steam Sales. Btw I liked Quake 1 better than 2 but I enjoyed both.
/r/MGTOW16/10/17 05:31 AM
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I just recently finished Quake 2, Unreal Gold, and I'm now playing Blood. There was something special about gaming before all of this SJW nonsense and microtransactions. The best gaming memories I had were from the mid 90s till the mid 2000s. PC games were great (played a ton of Age of Empires and Battlefield 1942) and I loved N64 and PlayStation 1. Also most of game developers were men working together and taking time to make a great game they were passionate about. (creative freedom without ti…
/r/MGTOW15/10/17 07:18 PM
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When I was in college I heard of girls who were students making close to 80k a year being strippers. They can pay their own way through college (around 13k a school year). It's crazy. If they get some sort of financial aid or scholarships then they even have more money in the bank.
/r/MGTOW12/10/17 02:28 PM
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I’ve been in college for about 10 years total with 2 degrees from different universities. Even in a span of a decade I’ve seen these young women change. I’ve always been around girls who were shallow or picky with men but they seem much more entitled and shallow than the mid 2000s. Instagram and Snapchat are used to gain validation to show off themselves to orbiters. When I visit campus for a football game it seems like all these girls dress even sluttier than before and are always on their phon…
/r/MGTOW09/10/17 10:30 PM
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Heh. I’m 29 and not terrified. It’s really nice to have freedom as a man.
/r/MGTOW08/10/17 10:33 PM
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This reminds me of one of my former roommates back in college. He was a decent looking guy and he would bring over these below average looking chicks all the time from the bars and bang them. My room was right next to his so I couldn’t sleep some nights.
/r/MGTOW05/10/17 11:32 PM
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That doesn’t surprise me. Ya I had the attention of some girls but I always ignored them since they were trying to get married young and immediately have kids. I never knew a Mormon girl but I knew of some huge sluts back when I went to a Baptist high school. They couldn’t hide it since in a smaller school word spreads quickly. Most of those girls went on to marry a beta provider in their young 20s since the churches and the Christian colleges want them to marry young and pump out babies to supp…
/r/MGTOW05/10/17 11:26 PM
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I had a similar experience to you. I went to a private Christian high school and it was definitely an eye opening experience when I enrolled at the largest public university in my state. I was shocked at how easily the girls could get sex or cheat on boyfriends (going to frats all the time or chasing the guys on the sports teams). Many decent guys that once could get girls in high school are now ignored by them since there are a higher number of chads on campus. There are too many stories to fit…
/r/MGTOW05/10/17 04:46 PM
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I’ve used okcupid in the past and I found that most women on there are below average in looks and much more overweight compared to other dating apps. I wonder how other dating apps compare. It could be even a lower percentage of women that find a man above average in looks.
/r/MGTOW30/09/17 04:50 PM
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Plus women can stream on Twitch and make thousands of dollars off of thirsty men giving them donations. If they show cleavage they will make even more money.
/r/MGTOW22/09/17 08:42 PM
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Height is also the thing that surprised me. I’m 5’9 which is about average for a man. Never in my life has another man made fun of my height or judge me as a person because of it. I don’t even think about it since being average is fine. It has never hindered me much in sports unless I wanted to be a forward or a center in basketball. When I was younger I was well aware that women like muscular men or the bad boys but I never knew until much later that one of the main reasons a woman won’t date a…
/r/MGTOW22/09/17 08:35 PM
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I still live near a college campus and I enjoy taking a walk through it during summer. There is a nice trail by a river and a garden that I frequently pass and one day I saw a group of girls doing nothing but posing with one another and taking pictures for Instagram. Most people enjoy walking around and looking at the gardens or relaxing the river but I see more and more girls just completely engrossed in things like this.
/r/MGTOW26/07/17 09:30 PM
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Yeah I'm excited to come back and visit the house as an alumni. It's definitely grown a lot. I agree that there are certain reputations that last a few years, but sometimes it changes. For example, the new house is going to be in a house that a big fraternity had before they got kicked off. Lots of sororities loved to party at that house and I heard that they are already contacting my fraternity and wanting to come over. When I talked to some of the current guys they are like "oh now these girls…
/r/MGTOW26/07/17 07:35 PM
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I just got a new set of irons and I can't wait to start playing some more.
/r/MGTOW26/07/17 06:04 AM
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Yeah I understand people can have standards or they simply aren't attracted to someone, which is perfectly reasonable, but I see so many girls nowadays reject multiple guys that are not unattractive at all. It's puzzling to me but I may just have to sit back and watch the chaos.
/r/MGTOW26/07/17 06:03 AM
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Yeah same with my school. I was at a Big Ten school with about 40,000 undergraduates. We had about 35 fraternities and 15 sororities at the time. To be honest most of the sororities had lots of attractive girls but many only partied with the "top" houses. This was probably like less than 10 of those 35 fraternities. We just invited girls who were GDIs to parties and still had a good time. The funny thing is that I just found out my fraternity is going to get a new, bigger house soon. This will i…
/r/MGTOW26/07/17 05:54 AM
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At first I was really frustrated, but as the years go on I feel like I dodged a bullet. Just as you said, I bet I will be even more grateful in the future.
/r/MGTOW26/07/17 05:13 AM
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That sounds great tbh. I always loved walking on trails by myself to enjoy the serenity. Gotta try the music festival sometime.
/r/MGTOW26/07/17 04:49 AM
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Ya thankfully I wasn't too drunk at the time and was able to make a good decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 09:27 PM
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In the past I was in a smaller fraternity too. One year I was president and this girl I met at a party wasn't really interested in me until someone mentioned to her that I was the president. She came to the next party we had, got super drunk and told me to take her to my room. I wasn't really interested in her and she was obviously too wasted. I found someone sober to drive her home lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 11:50 PM
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Really depends on the area. I go to the largest college in my state and there are over 50,000 students. About half are girls. That means about 25,000 girls attend the school and that doesn't count the locals or the recent college grads that work in the area
/r/seduction01/03/17 03:56 PM
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Thanks. I used to have lots of social anxiety when I was younger and was bad at seeing flirty cues from girls and I never approached. I wonder what I may have missed out on in the past.
/r/seduction01/03/17 01:36 PM
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I'm not asking anyone to judge me. I'm not trying to get laid all the time either. The examples I gave were situations where I was not looking to get laid. While I would love to meet a great girl to have a relationship with I would also like to get laid too. After all, most women I meet are not going to be virgins and are going to have much more sexual experiences than I will.
/r/seduction01/03/17 01:34 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction27/01/17 08:35 PM
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