jmaman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Are these some bad red flags? Okay, so a guy she claims to be narcissistic and abusive dumped her. Translation: he saw she was a slut, made some emotional promises to have sex with her, fucked her for a while, then left. Why do you think he left?	/r/seduction	12/09/22 01:34 AM
2	Are these some bad red flags? Why did their relationship end after a few months?	/r/seduction	12/09/22 01:13 AM
2	Are these some bad red flags? If you truly believe these things, perhaps you should just suck it up and date her. You’ll learn, one way or the other, about the validity of your beliefs.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 12:54 AM
-2	Are these some bad red flags? Yes, I am. The ‘red flags’ (although I object to the term) you mentioned in your post all relate to her being a slut/feminist. You asked if you should date her or not. I gave you the realistic pros and cons. If you believe that assessment suggests she is somehow shameful, it says more than enough about what you think of her.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 12:44 AM
1	Are these some bad red flags? She is a slut. Meaning reduced likelihood of pair bonding, increased likelihood of cheating, increased likelihood of crazy/jealous shit. Also implies certain general personality traits, dispositions, and political views. On the flip side, probably great sex and is a fun person. I personally would never date a woman like that, nor touch her with a ten foot pole. However, plenty of men do, and many seem to be satisfied. The mistake would be going into the relationship believing she will ever truly…	/r/seduction	12/09/22 12:37 AM
1	How much of our own toxicity should we embrace? Toxic works for getting laid. Used to be common knowledge. Probably not in vogue here anymore. Just control yourself, do it with a plan, and understand you’re gonna piss a lot of people off. Obviously if you try to pursue an ltr with any of those women it’ll come back to bite you later.	/r/seduction	22/06/22 12:12 AM
1	How would I know if I’m in the 20% or the 80% of men It doesn’t really matter what percentile you’re in- best to just believe you’re in the 20%.	/r/seduction	09/06/22 01:29 AM
2	Mastering my Persona Read Jung’s work on the Persona. Whenever you interact with other people you’re basically creating a fake self anyway, so you might as well optimize it.	/r/seduction	05/02/22 09:00 AM
1	[deleted by user] I don’t have anything that can answer your questions. I will only say, having dated several eastern women, that there are often psychological and cultural factors at play which are counterintuitive to those with a western perception of sex and romance. Rather than trying to understand consciously, I have found it easier to do whatever feels right in the moment.	/r/seduction	30/01/22 08:36 PM
2	[deleted by user] She’s young enough that telling her she looks older isn’t an insult	/r/seduction	26/10/21 10:46 PM
3	Is it possible for man to ask his girlfriend or wife what type of underwear she is wearing? I think it’s totally fine in a sexual relationship where you guys knew each other pretty well. All my girlfriends ever would have been cool with it- I think most would have liked it. If there’s something specific you want to see her in, buy it for her. The only time where it could be bad is if you guys hadn’t had much sex yet or were still awkward around each other. Then it might be seen as creepy or make her uncomfortable or whatever.	/r/seduction	26/07/21 05:52 PM
7	Are any of you teetotal? Make ambiguous joke. E.g. “I haven’t drank since the war” or “I get too much attention from women when I’m drunk; tonight I’m focused on you.”	/r/seduction	04/07/21 09:37 PM
37	I'd appreciate some feedback on that topic. I'm getting the result that I want but I don't like the way I'm getting it. It’s the type of women you’re going after.	/r/seduction	30/05/21 09:30 AM
1	If she is fine with me smacking her ass is she into me? You don’t have a romantic chance, right now at least, but you probably have a sex chance. Think about it though. Would you really want to date a girl who lets other guys smack her ass?	/r/seduction	30/04/21 03:19 AM
1	Blind leading the blind Blind leading the blind is the best way to put it. The PUA stuff only works for a certain type of guy on a certain type of woman. I thought it was cool when I was like 15. The best advice I’ve gotten on here is to read The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. It’s long, and it’s not perfect, but it’s the closest thing I’ve ever read to a universal theory of seduction that actually tries to address the specificity of interactions between different personality types. I don’t think it helped me get w…	/r/seduction	01/11/20 05:53 AM
-3	Don't make another person the primary focus of your life. I don't think most people who implement the No Contact Rule are Machiavellian. Rather, I think most people who use it are legitimately looking for a way to get over an ex and are immediately shuttled into the Ex No Contact communities prevalent on reddit and elsewhere, then indoctrinated into the hivemind that it is the 'right' and 'best' way to do things. The truly Machiavellian people, or perhaps just weak-minded amoral people, are the ones who promote and contribute to said communities. I ima…	/r/seduction	13/10/20 05:48 PM
11	The Downside To Being Good-Looking And "Not Needing" Game That’s kind of bs, if we’re being honest. You don’t need “game” to keep a relationship going. You need to know the skills for being in a relationship. Following the advice on this sub would destroy a ltr.	/r/seduction	17/05/20 11:37 PM
24	What if a girl reachs out but then doesn't actively partecipate to the convo? You answered your own question in the comments. Not all women are bitches. If you're experienced, and your gut is telling you she's just a bad texter, trust yourself. Being a dick will backfire if she's not doing it on purpose.	/r/seduction	15/05/20 03:15 PM
1	Discussion: What Value Does A Woman Really Have To A Man Aside From Sex? No lmao. And the state of American 21st century women is appalling. It literally makes me sick when I think about it. But good women exist nowadays, and I know this because I've sought them out my entire life. They existed in the past too, but were much more common. It's tempting to view all women as sex objects, because frankly almost all of them act like it. Ironically, that's the result of third-wave feminism. Understand that this does not speak to the nature of women as a whole, but to the w…	/r/seduction	04/05/20 10:36 PM
1	Discussion: What Value Does A Woman Really Have To A Man Aside From Sex? Friendship, trust, someone who you can build a life and start a family with, someone who will be there at the end of the day no matter what. All those things are very tangible if they're actually realized, and we're biologically wired to pair-bond with a member of the opposite sex. The problem is you just can't do that shit with 95% of women nowadays. To some extent I'm sure it was always like that, but now women are actively encouraged to have values completely antithetical to all that, and if …	/r/seduction	04/05/20 09:15 PM
1	The Power Of Rejection - Getting Beautiful Women To NOT Take You For Granted Depends on the girl. For sluts, yeah. But some types of women are completely enchanted by a high value man devoted to winning them over. The key is making it as close as possible to their prince charming fantasy. If you can do that, no matter how many beta orbiters there are she'll only want you (short term obv).	/r/seduction	23/04/20 11:56 PM
13	The Power Of Rejection - Getting Beautiful Women To NOT Take You For Granted Idk what to say man. If you're a 6/10 and manage to get a date with a hot girl, she obviously sees something in you. Letting her disrespect you is the quickest way to show her you're not actually high value.	/r/seduction	21/04/20 06:55 PM
27	The Power Of Rejection - Getting Beautiful Women To NOT Take You For Granted This is a losing mentality. The only way you will ever succeed with any woman is by being someone she can't replace in a few swipes.	/r/seduction	21/04/20 06:25 PM
3	To improve yourself It means any of the following: Get in shape if you’re not already. Put more effort into your appearance Develop a new talent/skill, or become better at your current talents Learn how to be funnier, flirtier, and more seductive. This is the hardest one. Basically, he’s saying to improve your dating value. The higher your value is, the more women are willing to date you, and the more confident you become	/r/seduction	04/04/20 10:34 PM
2	Really confused about a girl and my weight loss progress It sounds like she’s interested, at least remotely. You can try pushing things in that direction without putting too much effort into it, and see what happens. On a different note, I wouldn’t be so worried about the ‘condescending’ remarks you mentioned about your weight. Being fat is a part of your past, and what matters is what they think about you now. If someone says something slightly mean about how you’ve lost weight, you can turn it into a joke/flirt by saying “yeah, I’m pretty sexy now t…	/r/seduction	04/04/20 10:28 PM