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6	Tinder seems to be useless in big cities I like to flip the script on them, most chicks are nervous about meeting up with a stranger. I jokingly ask them what the chances are that they axe murder me if we meet up. After they respond positively, I say great, text me and we'll set something up. I give them my number instead of asking for theirs, it helps me filter out the ones that are less likely to meet up anyway. And be more decisive, cut out the coffee or beer crap. I say let's X (usually grab drinks because I dislike daytime dates) …	/r/seduction	09/11/17 01:59 PM
7	Tinder seems to be useless in big cities I guarantee you the guys in small towns would kill to be in your situation. You know what sucks? Swiping through all of your options in the first week and having to set your range to 100+ miles. I recently moved to a big city and I've been averaging 1-2 dates a week for the last 5 months, set up exclusively through apps like tinder. And I'm an Asian guy, average height, and while I work out, you can't really tell from my pics. Are you getting matches? If no, then have you gotten feedback on your…	/r/seduction	09/11/17 12:16 PM
1	First date ideas. Coffee/tea during the day. At night I like drinks+darts at a bar or grabbing ice cream and walking about. If the date is going well I sometimes chain those two together by saying loser at darts pays for ice cream. The main things to keep in mind are that first dates should be 1) something that YOU want to do, since you want to be comfortable and 2) nothing that is a serious time commitment in case the chemistry isn't there. Hell, I've had first dates just walking around Whole Foods for groceries…	/r/seduction	01/11/17 01:56 AM
3	I'd want to get in bed with me, but I'd hate dating myself Hey man, I think you are being too hard on yourself. We have similar outlooks on life, trust me there is someone out there for you. On your first point: I don't know about you, but I work out for myself, not for any girl. I like the way it makes me look, the way it makes me feel, and the feeling of trying to become the best version of myself that I can. If you're the same way, know that there are chicks with a similar philosophy. Find a chick that is into fitness, go to the gym together, boom, y…	/r/seduction	29/10/17 11:50 PM
7	How to keep seduction up through text while waiting for our first date? I don't bother texting them anything aside from a quick check-in the day before or day of to make sure we are still on. 1) I'm a busy guy and I don't want to invest too much time/energy into someone I haven't even met yet. 2) Leave some mystery for the date, you don't need to know everything about her before you meet up	/r/seduction	19/10/17 08:59 PM
2	Asking for a girls number by this method (a little long for title)? Please read. Dude, you are overthinking. This isn't chess. Next time you see her, just talk to her like she is any other person. Don't try and plan what to say. If the two of you are vibing, tell her something interesting you're doing within the next week, say you will invite her and hand her your phone. Tell her to put her number in.	/r/seduction	27/04/17 07:04 PM
10	Would more women find me hot and attractive if I go from Very skinny to more lean with muscle? Would I have better luck with women? I'll echo everything AIRSKI said. Also, you might have good confidence now, but when you catch women checking out your ass in the gym, or scoping you out at the pool/beach when you take off your shirt, it is such a massive ego boost.	/r/seduction	22/02/17 03:37 AM

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