jmcneese Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	looking for advice for a very convoluted situation		jmcneese	/r/MensRights	06/09/10 08:01 AM

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2	A friendly reminder: do not use your real name as your user name, and do not use the same user name across sites. hear hear. i, too, think that anonymity is unnecessary as long as you are responsible about what you post. my name is Joshua and this upvote is coming to you from Boulder, CO. ;)	/r/MensRights	05/11/10 03:40 PM
1	looking for advice for a very convoluted situation haha. there's nothing wrong with having kids, just having kids with crazy people :) but yeah, i've got my quota. getting the old snip here soon.	/r/MensRights	07/09/10 04:47 AM
1	looking for advice for a very convoluted situation bitter much? what exactly does this have to do with my post? what is your suggestion that i do to help remedy my situation, other than get mad as hell? been there, done that, got the wrinkles. next suggestion? hire an assassin? nope, not interested in revenge or hurting anyone. the kids, remember? that's what this is about, not some crusade to reaffirm my testicles or feel empowered.	/r/MensRights	06/09/10 06:25 PM
1	looking for advice for a very convoluted situation also worth clarifying is that she never was violent against the children when i was around, and hasn't either with the limited information i have access to. the only negative thing is that the children that are mine (or that she claims are mine) she claims are "autistic" to varying degrees. both of the boys she claims are "very" autistic, although they go to school and speak normally, etc. all of her other children with her husband are "perfectly normal", which i find highly suspect. but that's …	/r/MensRights	06/09/10 04:06 PM
2	looking for advice for a very convoluted situation what was i thinking? possibly something like "life goes on"? what should i have done? sat in my one-room apartment and expect that love will never find me, or avoid all possibility of romance because i had previously been married or had kids from the previous marriage? :\| it is probably worth mentioning that my wife is very cool and went into a relationship with me with eyes wide open. she had seen the extreme craziness of my ex with her own eyes, and has supported me in the whole thing, never h…	/r/MensRights	06/09/10 04:02 PM
1	looking for advice for a very convoluted situation thanks! :) i think i am going to like it here.	/r/MensRights	06/09/10 03:59 PM
1	looking for advice for a very convoluted situation this country is part of the Hague treaty, which includes this expedition of family law in both countries. it's not entirely true that the courts cannot "estrange" me from my children. case in point, since i have been back in the US, my ex filed and was granted several judgements against me. first and foremost is the decision to strip me of all parental rights. she kept my location secret from the courts (although she knew exactly where i was and how to reach me) and in the absence of my rebuttal…	/r/MensRights	06/09/10 03:58 PM
–	looking for advice for a very convoluted situation was too long, here's the rest: so, after all that rambly/venty diatribe... what i want to know is this: if i have no money to hire a lawyer in the US (who has experience with international child support/family law), much less any money to hire a foreign lawyer, how can i prevent myself from being further screwed? i know for a fact (and can prove) that my ex doesn't use the money that gets garnished off my paycheck every month for the children, but rather for paying off debt. so i am stuck in a p…	/r/MensRights	06/09/10 08:01 AM