jmoli44 Archive

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9	How to deal with competition Be the better man. Improve yourself. If she’s more interested in someone else then accept that and move on. Use that for motivation, but be cautious. It’s not, “I’m going to improve myself to get her, or some other women”, but instead is, “maybe I can make myself more attractive (in line with what I really value and want) to have better chances with women.” Some women are just not going to be attracted to us regardless. Also, action and being vulnerable are key. If you can express how you feel a…	/r/seduction	30/03/21 08:01 PM
1	appear high status This right here ^	/r/seduction	21/03/21 04:46 PM
1	NOT ALL DATING ADVICE FROM ONLINE IS HELPFUL (including from me) Being vulnerable is attractive. At first it will be uncomfortable, but the more open you are about something the more you know that that is who you really are. For example if I had a fetish of liking to wear women’s underwear, sharing that or expressing that side of myself, at first I’d feel uncomfortable, but with time I’d know that this is what I like and others can take it or leave it.	/r/seduction	13/03/21 02:44 AM
2	How do I get out of rock bottom? This ^ I somewhat disagree with the part about porn, but know where you’re coming from. Porn is an okay thing of used for the right reasons. If it’s used to run away from something -especially if it’s shame about your sexuality- the it’s not helpful. I recommend No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover for this topic. An all around great book to get help you get the life you want.	/r/seduction	03/03/21 02:40 AM
1	How do I get out of rock bottom? I relate to you. What’s worked for me is building habits and routine. The important thing is to start small. Sometimes showing up is enough. Think of the life you want, and then think what habits that person would do to be that person. Be gentle and patient with yourself. This is a process. Here’s a link from an author I like that says what I did but better. https://markmanson.net/goals	/r/seduction	03/03/21 02:24 AM
1	The less fucks you give the more fucks you get Boundaries.	/r/seduction	03/01/17 09:43 PM
1	[FR] Tonight, I went out for the first time and got rejected 10+ times. Their loss, they're missing out on your awesomeness!	/r/seduction	31/12/16 03:04 AM
2	Please, don't laugh at me :( I need help Third that, great book!	/r/seduction	27/12/16 05:21 PM