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| 3 | I litterally cannot look pretty girls in the eyesIt’s only staring if you keep looking at them after they look away. Just do it a few times and notice nothing scary happens and you’ll be good | /r/seduction | 15/06/25 07:28 PM |
| 14 | I litterally cannot look pretty girls in the eyesSo looking someone in the eyes is a mirror for the issues you have with yourself. If you were completely comfortable with yourself, you’d be able to make eye contact. So make note of the thoughts that come into your head when u make eye contact, either fix those things about yourself (overweight, hairstyle is wack, etc) or accept them. And yeah like everyone else is saying, exposure therapy is king. I genuinely love looking at pretty girls in the eyes, it’s like looking at a beautiful painting, … | /r/seduction | 15/06/25 02:14 AM |
| 7 | To all the dating gurus How to show a intrest in a girl without looking creepyWork on yourself to the point that you’re completely convinced you would be a good thing for the girl. Then find girls you think look interesting, find out if they are through conversing. Dont be afraid to compliment her if she’s earned it, but a lot of interest can be conveyed through just eye contact, and vibe | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 10:28 AM |
| 5 | To ppl who are in relationships how do u get there ?Good luck bro, every one has been where you are at one point. Go easy on yourself, you’re gonna make it | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 08:49 AM |
| 5 | To ppl who are in relationships how do u get there ?That’s the hard part. Id say it all comes from the base of respecting yourself, being proud of yourself. The frame should be “ i hope this girl, is cool, and fits with what i want, lets have fun and find out” not “ how do i get this girl to like me?” But yeah if i were you. Write down 10 things you want in a woman, really think about it. Then, write down 10 things you love about yourself, what sets you apart from others. Read those often. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 08:31 AM |
| 12 | To ppl who are in relationships how do u get there ?See, there you are saying you are ready to give them the “love and everything” as if any woman would be okay. You have to be in a place where you are selective. You have to attach value to your time, attention, love, don’t just give it out willy nilly. You give it out to women who u feel are special. It could help to make a list of traits that you desire in a women, and subtlety screen for those, compliment her on it | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 08:16 AM |
| 16 | Do you hit on girls that work in service ?i worked as a waiter for three years. they get hit on a looooooot. i wouldnt be up front about it, like i wouldnt game her. but if ur an attractive dude, and u feel something through just shooting the shit, write your number down, if theyre not down they just show it to everybody, laugh, throw it away and move on | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 04:26 AM |
| 1 | I analyzed 120,000+ of your responses to girls’ shit tests, here's one thing you need to know to winThank you chat gpt | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 08:41 PM |
| 5 | I don't know how to woo womenflip your mindset from trying to impress the girl, to trying to figure out if shes a good fit for you, if shes interesting or not. accept your sexuality. look her in the eye. dont be afraid to show intent (better to do it sloppily than friendzone imo), get turned on once the convo has gone on for awhile, you are both comfortable. like coming straight out there and doing things like this can be creepy, but as u get to know her, as she wins you over persay, work these in with gradually increasing … | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 01:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you ask a woman out on a second date?Good even, mine faire lady. I had the most marvellous outing with thee the other day. It would be the greatest honour, to take thy hand once more, and lead thee through an entertaining experience I read online would help me get into thy panties. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Shit test or just blunt womenshit test, either see it as annoying and give up, look for a girl with higher interest, or see it as an engaging challenge, have fun and overcome it | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 04:12 AM |
| 0 | Women think I'm gay?First, congrats on your weight loss dude! I used to get asked this often so i can relate. Im assuming that these girls say this before they’ve engaged with u, if its after, could be a whole different thing. In my case, it was literally all nonverbal. Hard to explain, but it was just a certain….lightness? Or merriment that i gave off. Most of my upbringing was around females so i blamed this. What helped me was focusing on big, slow movements. Take up space, move and react slower (like if someone… | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 09:07 AM |
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