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Everyone should be subconsciously playing up a certain aspect of themselves depending on who you're interacting with, if you're not then you're not going to achieve in life, it's basic social engineering 101 and it should be innate too to an extent. Be mindful and always read the room, read the person you're interacting with and use it your advantage. Again something I have to repeat on here again, when you read books like that you don't just take them at their word, you experiment and think cri…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 01:00 PM
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You do know that there are nuggets of wisdom in many things, you can't just read things 'exclusively' red pill all the time or else people would never learn new concepts or broaden their paradigms. Professionals will often play devil's advocate for polar opposite theories, beliefs to either strengthen their own or learn something new. Furthermore, when someone reads a book, you do know they're expected to read it critically, test it and not agree with everything the author states but again try p…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 03:57 PM
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How frequent it is probably depends on how attractive you are. There's a number too large for me to count of the amount of guys that tried to be Don Draper and it failed miserably. They were just left out of interactions because people assumed they didn't want to be spoken too or they had never spoke up before (under the false pretence that they're mysterious), so ultimately people judge them as quiet, boring or even stuck up (that applies more to quiet girls though). Your success is personal bu…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:58 PM
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Well ironically you kinda can, there's guys that do onlyfans and webcam porn and get money from repressed gay incels and overweight femcels....but the demand will never be the same as there is for young attractive women, even if you are top tier because women just aren't as horny as men.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 02:58 PM
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High reps low/moderate weight indeed builds mass, hence why beginners get confused when they see aesthetic guys building their "glamour muscles" with dumbbells. Be creative and try what you listed, if you can't find a mind-muscle connection, switch it up and think of something else.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:15 AM
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Did a 13 yr old ask this question....? is it just me wondering why this post has been approved?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/20 10:59 AM
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I wouldn't say that's banter. Other people are ignoring WHY he is saying that to YOU. Yes you said you're new, but does your frame allow him to view you as someone under him in anyway? (apart from being less knowledgeable as you're new). e.g. your appearance, body language, how you present yourself? Because is this has been going on for 2 months then he has already created an impression of you and you have seemingly reinforced it (through no conscious fault of your own). You've already got answe…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 01:09 PM
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The answer should be no but because we live in the real world, I'm sure there's a 6' 230lbs guy out there who gets his ass ate and pegged by some girl in the bedroom but we'll never know.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 03:35 PM
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Was about to ask him the same thing, where I'm from there's nothing but hot, slim black women so no problems here.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 03:30 PM
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I remember seeing a post with tons of upvotes on /fitness once where a gym noob asked why he was one of the few people at the gym that did the Big 3 and why the most aesthetic guys never performed the Big 3: Deadlifts, Squats, Bench Press. So many people in the comments were throwing fits and performing all kinds of mental gymnastics to protect their egos, like the biggest guys must be doing the big 3 at home or when nobody is at the gym *rolls eyes*. I saw about 2 sane comments, one which said …
/r/askTRP23/10/20 03:13 PM
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That's a fair point but you can still choose to emulate those you admire, which is what I did despite not being a manager. You can still do all the things listed and not be a manager and your life would be different. Why? Well because you're not being passive for once but proactive so you're bound to come across more opportunities, people, events, friendships, relationships etc.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 01:34 PM
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/Socialskills
/r/askTRP22/10/20 08:58 AM
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I just don't know how to make conversations. It's like I feel too empty and I'm boring/uninteresting. I'm going to share part of an answer I gave to someone on another sub a while ago, its about charisma which may be far off but it can still be your ultimate goal and it might be helpful as that's the ultimate social skill level you should aspire to have anyway. ................................................................................................... I can count the amount of charismati…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:10 AM
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Jo Malone
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:57 PM
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What's wrong with the people you met at the gym, are they not high value enough? I now have a few guys at my gym that I'm acquaintances with thanks to u/ simptopimp-co-uk's (be the initiator) advice. I don't just mean I nod my head at these guys, no, I shoot the shit with them and we have banter and genuinely laugh at things gym related. We're comfortable with each other now where I could arrange to hang out outside the gym and it wouldn't feel awkward at all. Guys in the gym usually have their …
/r/askTRP08/10/20 09:00 PM
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You're in 2nd year so it's too early to be thinking about joining corporate companies just yet. I'm pretty sure it's also too late for placements (most companies binned theirs cus of corona anyway). If i was you I'd Keep trying for supermarket jobs, they're probably one of your best paid options for part time work. Beat/learn the algorithm, there's resources online for the specific supermarkets that shows you how to answer those situational tests that they do (if that's the real reason you're ge…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:03 PM
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People rarely do things for nothing so they probably don't see as you worth their time anymore. Use this as a cue to improve yourself even more. The main sub exposed me to the realistic selfish harsh truths of friendship dynamics about 2 yrs ago and I've viewed them differently since.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:11 PM
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Um.... In the natty community its established that it takes about 3 yrs at least. I've never heard anyone say decades lol.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:08 PM
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This sub is a cesspool so barely spend much time on here. Majority of time spent on fitness, anime, language learning
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:12 PM
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Mewing
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:24 AM
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Typically yes but interestingly the most attractive girls I know have bf's I'd say aren't their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 09:05 PM
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Yh, girls in that generation think a guy is weird if he has no social media. They're all hooked on a dopamine rush that they get from online content. You don't really need a personality if you get enough likes on social media /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:45 PM
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I feel like the women on that sub are overweight 6's that wear too much makeup and slept with Chad once (even though he can't remember) so they now think they're the shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:40 PM
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Self improvement according to the red pill is more than that, you need a hobby, you need to read, you need to work, mindfulness is also encouraged as that ties into frame, you need to be interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:39 PM
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I agree OP and after you've looked in the mirror go on a self improvement journey and you'll thank yourself for it rather than accept the hand you've been dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:34 PM
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Have you tried the red pill? Focus on everything that is in your control right now and let go of the stuff that isn't. It's easier said than done but once you feel you have a grasp on the things that you can honestly, realistically control then it gets easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 08:34 AM
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Where did you get the idea that RP men harm women? They sleep around but they don't harm women. In the eyes of the red pill someone like Momoa should know better than to settle down in marriage when he has plenty of women he could have sex with, in the eyes of the red pill he would use his status to meet many young women and continue living life to the fullest without being weighed down in joint finances, marriage etc with a woman which could lead to a messy divorce. Hope that explains the red p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 11:07 PM
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Looooooool to answer your question yes they were. I'm a guy so i couldn't speak for the women on this sub but I remember reading once that younger and older women have noticeablely diff tastes. They like younger more effeminate faces (kpop, young Leonardo Dicaprio, tiktok boys) as they get older they then like someone that's obviously masculine (the rock, Jason Mamoa to name a few). Obviously there's exceptions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 10:56 PM
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Oh that's what you meant, I explained here. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/gkwgh7/there_are_many_attractive_alpha_looking_men_who/fquy59i?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share usually body language is supposed to be read in context. When he was saying that RP discipline stuff, find your purpose no excuses shit he was very direct and didn't sweeten his words or anything. Think of someone like Jason Mamoa, you'd think he would qualify as a red pill man but he wouldn't because…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 10:14 PM
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It was a lot of self discipline and how most of the shit going on in your life is your fault and it can be changed with discipline and trying new things and being somebody. Basically find your purpose and become a high value male.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 09:58 PM
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Yh seems to be a common theme from what the guys ON the main redpill sub say https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/gkwgh7/there_are_many_attractive_alpha_looking_men_who/fqumn0m?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 09:48 PM
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At the rate society is going what if they decide to take their anger out on the Stacey's and Chad's? I'd laugh at that thought a few yrs ago but now?....I think they need to be made aware of these things but I have no idea how or who could even begin to address that crowd, it'd have to be behavioural physiologists and not the average redditor lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:59 PM
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Blackpillers do not agree and will refuse to accept exceptions and they are present on this sub. There are things redpill and bluepillers can agree on and as a red piller in most areas of my life this is what I am trying to convey. Is that something we can settle on?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:51 PM
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You're not getting my point... Which is that not all men that look alpha are automatically alpha or red pill. That's the bare bones of it, i really don't get what you're tryna argue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:42 PM
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I'm aware of all this, I've read and incorporated the red pill sidebar. They'll be hit by divorce but won't have a problem meeting other women their age or that's when they'll start reading the red pill. You don't have to look far to find middle aged divorced men on the main sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:35 PM
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My point is those are things a red pill man would not do yet there are attractive (perceived high value) men doing those things... Chad has become a red pill caracature on this subreddit when he was never meant to be. *chubby chaser - guy who'll fuck overweight women on the downlow
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:28 PM
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Look being married is one, closeted guys, gay for pay only fans guys, chubby chasers, bdsm submissive in the bedroom guys, rappers fucking strippers/going to strip clubs in the first place, religious guys (others in the comments gave examples of this one)......What are you disagreeing with me on?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:20 PM
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The last point is only going to get worse, 6/10s will now openly flirt with an 8/10 but and that's on any social media platform. Whether it's on reddit (livestream example I gave) or IG, anonymity doesn't even matter anymore they'll do it with their full name and picture visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:43 PM
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Agreed, even if he did do that stuff women would make exceptions for him which they wouldn't do for regular Joe, as in their eyes the reason he hasn't texted back is because he's probably at work or the gym or god forbid with another woman, whereas if this was regular Joe she'd probably forget they were even having a conversation as she has many regular joes in her DMs, new ones popping up every so often (if she's on IG).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:31 PM
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Is this for or against what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:10 PM
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Yh of course that happens too. I know plenty of girls my age who can't stand being single. They enjoy showing off their boyfriends. I think it can work with the cock carousel because many red pill men believe that bluepill guys have cheating gfs half the time, I mean half the guys probably have plates that have bfs which would technically be cheating. So she can still be riding the carousel and in relationships which she'll show off on IG
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:07 PM
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I don't see MRP lasting long in all honesty or that it was still considered much of a thing... But spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:50 PM
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Can't remember the exact livestream but remember it was this guy https://www.reddit.com/r/TheArtistStudio/comments/gjrm05/making_leather_bags_pt4/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:42 PM
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Exactly what I was initially trying to say just through the use of some observations I made. Your comment was a lot clearer and to the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:34 PM
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No, all this based on him being married. Red pill men don't necessarily want to commit only a few do but it's debated a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:16 PM
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You know what...you're right the guy is basically married red pill. I'm aware of those guys... Rollo Tomassi is married but I thought it was a fringe thing to be red pill and married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:15 PM
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I agree with you 100% when it comes to relationships, however there's leeway when it's just for a fuck as the woman won't have known the guy long enough. At least you understand that you can look like a stereotypical alpha and not be alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:07 PM
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You can't tell when someone is genuinely showing affection or likes someone? It was probably like an hour and no I just like reading up on social engineering stuff time to time and would say I'm good at reading others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:34 PM
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I understand all that, I even think Rollo Tomassi is married and that's saying something but it's not endorsed on the main sub. I would think that there's more nuance to your second point but would agree that yes that does happen when it comes to very attractive women who have many attractive men who want them rather than just average joes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:29 PM
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You got me there... I should have said purple tbh but the redpill sub doesn't really regard purple pill as a thing. If it's not redpill it's usually bluepill which is why I worded it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:26 PM
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Idk what pill you subscribe yourself to but the red pill is what helped me and so I see evidence of it all the time. My POINT is that if you were a very attractive man would you need to utilise the strategies from the redpill to talk to women or to get them to sleep with you? Not really because their guards would be low enough for their to not be much that can go wrong all because you're very attractive. I'm not sure what you're disagreeing on but even black pill youtube accounts have done exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:24 PM
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Agreed, I was just posting my observations and reminding people to not be so linear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:21 PM
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Thank you! Somebody here gets what it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:16 PM
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I never did everyone else was wrong and I didn't misjudge anything. The part you quoted agrees with the red pill, women will flock to men they like. Offline they stand in close proximity and online they'll feugn interest in what you do as a way to get close to you and try establish rapport. Even guys do the same I got loads of friends who pretend to be interested in some shit the girl they wanna fuck likes just so they can get close and fuck her. People even do this even if they realistically wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:15 PM
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I actually agree with you in part which Is why I judge by their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:08 PM
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Of course, I agree with you but my point is there are attractive men who go from relationship to relationship, rather than one night stand to one night stand, who want to get married and have kids. They aren't naive about women.... but.... they want to marry a certain type of woman, live a white picket middle class lifestyle too. I think a little in terms of red pill when it comes to disciplining and finding a purpose for areas of my life as I subscribe to a lot of it however even I realise that…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:03 PM
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I agree with you, i was just stating that point. Chad will always be a product of his environment just like everyone else agreed. My problem is after lurking here it's as if some people have never been outside and realised things aren't so "cookie cutter"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:54 PM
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You have to remember that there are guys that never needed to enforce red pill teachings into their life because their face and physique was enough. There are those that are 'aware' such as Leonardo and that jerk you knew in high school who all the girls wanted but people on here need to realise that there's just as many attractive men that have no idea. It is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:49 PM
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Marriage does not align with the majority red pill view.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:45 PM
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