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i’d personally opt for the best ring within your guys’ budget for the engagement ring. pick a more affordable wedding band. you’re likely to lose your wedding ring, and probably don’t want to be walking around with $15,000 on your finger 24/7 365 then you can break out the engagement ring on date nights and anniversaries
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/25 01:04 AM
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he’s stronger than you. even if he were shorter than you he’d likely be stronger than you. he just doesn’t like exerting force against you like that. it just feels really uncomfortable putting your hands on a woman like that
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 12:11 AM
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i'm a guy and when dating working women, i definitely prefer managing the money myself. we both feel most comfortable that way however, now that i'm dating a more traditional woman that would like to stay at home to cook, clean, sew, and study online for school, i'm probably going to delegate the money management to her. i'm quite good with money, but it'd be nice to take it off my plate. she'll have more time to focus on money and shopping too. when i'm single, i often get so slammed for time t…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 09:08 PM
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you're fishing for validation. you've given us nothing to consider. i suspect your relationship isn't so black and white
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 04:32 PM
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How is are his testosterone levels? I’d give BPC-157 a shot for the injuries and joints
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/25 04:38 PM
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they never feel like they’ll fade until they do sure, go ahead
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/25 07:07 PM
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depends on the guy, but generally between a couple weeks and a couple months is normal
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/25 02:45 AM
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he knows what he's doing. "i want to take care of you. I'm happy when you text me, i enjoy spending time together" is diabolical. straight player strats i know it's not what you want to hear, but you need to go no contact for awhile until your feelings fade. if he's meant to be your partner, then he'll chase and give you commitment
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/25 05:05 PM
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i’ve never insulted a partner in my life, and i don’t think i’ve ever heard a friend do so either. this isn’t normal
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 07:52 AM
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i strongly disagree. he’s showing signs of commitment already. there’s no need to set a target together. more serious marriage conversations are likely to start soon anyways i think this is a good idea if things stop progressing, but for now it’s not necessary
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/25 03:09 AM
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how old is the guy? if he has a bit of experience, he should be able to lead the conversation and the date fine on his own just try not to give short responses and don’t be scared to ask questions and bring up topics if you have something in mind maintain a feminine frame, see how the chemistry is, and have fun
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 08:34 AM
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the length of the relationship doesn’t matter too much imo. if it was good it was good the thing that always gives me pause when considering getting back together with an ex that broke up with me is the thought “would my wife discard me like that?” i personally wouldn’t accept him back without an apology and plan to change. if i’m locked in with my future wife and hit a crisis, then we work through it as a team because breaking up isn’t a real option if it’s not that serious, then yeah breaking …
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/25 06:48 PM
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the easiest way to win somebody back is to genuinely work on moving on, don’t bug them at all, stay loyal to make it an easy decision for them not sure if it’s a good idea, but if you want them, this is how you do it
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/25 05:52 PM
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The right guy won’t pressure you to do anything you’re not comfortable with. I wouldn’t disclose that you’re a virgin for awhile. A lot of guys will just get it in their head that you’re a challenge to overcome instead of a just a woman to get to know Guys generally associate waiting with a higher quality woman, so if anything waiting until you’re ready, love them, and see long term commitment is pretty much all upside Just don’t be too stingy with kisses, hugs, nudges too or there’s a good chan…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/25 06:12 AM
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could be. i think being exposed to how some people callously have children can turn some people against the idea altogether. at least personally, it's things like illness and death that gave me pause
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/25 04:27 PM
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a poor upbringing, philosophy- look up anti natalism
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/25 07:15 AM
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i don’t knock the pursuit of love. i think it’s beautiful, and people losing that ability as they get older is sad just going to be honest, he doesn’t really sound like the one if he’s making you move to him instead of him to you. it doesn’t make sense, and it’s to your detriment i remember when my ex begged to quit her PhD and move across the country to live with me, and i denied her because i was looking out for her future and what was best for her, despite how deeply in love i was. it’s conce…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/25 07:57 AM
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it’s hard to say, but I think most guys mature by around 25 because that’s when they feel 30 creeping up which scares us into getting our shit together. some guys have an adult mindset very early, and another portion never grow up giving up so much income early in your career doesn’t sound very good to me. would he have potential to earn more if he moved to the US? kickstarting your investing this young could set you up for life it sounds to me like him moving to the US would make way more sense…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/25 05:30 AM
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his mindset is too immature for you to rely on. you can make your own decisions, but you’ll suffer the consequences if things go wrong. you need to be mature and weigh the risks of the move and research immigration pathways, work options, how much is rent? how much can you make? what’s happens to the lease if things don’t work out? do you have enough saved to move there, cover rent, and enough to move back in case of an emergency? will you be able to go to school in NZ? if the logistics make sen…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/25 03:17 AM
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when did i say it wasn’t a disease? what bias? i dont have an issue with GLPs. you’re the one on it that suggested drug injections immediately while on the medication are you a doctor?
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 09:11 AM
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literally none of this contradicts what i said. you just said i don’t know what im talking about and then ranted about stuff everyone knows about GLPs
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 09:02 AM
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drug injections don’t supersede lifestyle and healthy diet habits you can easily lose a lot of weight when you’re that fat on your own before even considering drugs. also, without healthy diet skills, you’re very likely to regain the weight, or be hooked on the drugs for life (which are quite expensive, and have their own side effects)
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 08:23 AM
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i’m down 65lbs i’d encourage building an environment without easily accessible palatable foods. he shouldn’t grocery shop alone he needs to calorie count and cook at home. you can build an arsenal of filling and good macro foods with some effort skip breakfast, delay lunch until later in the day i find 0% fat greek yogurt mixed with 0 calorie drink packets is a very filling, high protein, low calorie snack. it’s my go to he should get an apple watch and set a daily calorie and step goal. it’s re…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 08:15 AM
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it’s worth it to get bloodwork done before ending your marriage. check: free and total t E2 a thyroid panel LH and FSH prolactin cortisol is he on finasteride? does he avoid eating fats? you said he did get his T checked. what are his stats?
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/25 07:50 AM
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personally, I’ve never been ok with serious partners blowing me. It’s always struck me as particularly disrespectful and not in a hot way i know i’m a minority among men, but when ive talked about it with my friends, most of them get it
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 11:58 PM
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make eye contact with guys you’re interested in, do what you can to pretty up, and ideally do this away from an all girls friend group. younger guys will be nervous about seeming like a creep or getting rejected and then laughed at by your friends ultimately it’s on the guy to approach after you give him an opening
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 10:32 PM
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the most girlfriend coded outfits are things like cozy sweater and long skirt sundress(classic) jeans(not tight ones), converse, top that isn’t a crop top and doesn’t show off cleavage here’s a small pinterest board for inspiration: https://pin.it/25d7ArdQC
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/25 01:38 AM
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man here. i think dropping the alternative style and going for more of a “girlfriend/wifey” aesthetic is an easy and effective way to select for the kind of guy you’re looking for guys definitely extrapolate things like fashion and makeup to make assumptions about the kind of girl you are if a girl is dressed like wifey, is sweet like wifey, and i approach her, it’s because i want wifey i wouldn’t sweat over not being curvy enough and focus on a feminine persona instead
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/25 11:04 PM
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I also feel a bit insecure—his business school classmates are wealthy, successful women, and while he says he prefers a softer, supportive partner, I worry he might change his mind down the line. He’s a 32 year old guy. He knows what he wants by now, and guys don’t tend to be fickle and drop girls on a dime from what I’ve seen. I wouldn’t sweat it
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/25 12:07 AM
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Number 1 isn’t very useful imo. 500 cases is plenty if it’s a representative sample. You don’t need x percentage of y population to have a useful study. You just need to make sure outliers don’t easily throw off your results, and your cases aren’t biased towards specific groups. For example, 250 cases of ages, races, and geographies, matching those of the US population is probably enough. However, a study with 2000 cases of largely asian, white, and hispanic men from San Francisco is probably pr…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 07:42 PM
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Can we get a source on the claim that women are more likely to leave their partner if he has cancer than he would be if she were to have cancer?
/r/MensRights27/08/23 07:42 AM
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