joe_average1 Archive

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1	Hey guys so i was texting this girl for a few days and i was trying to set up a date so the thing she never responded after that kind of ghosted me am i being too straight forward or too early for setting a date?I am not particularly upset about this just wanted to learn what am i doing wrong !! I need more context. Have you been out together before? Where/how did you meet? For me I rarely ask women what their availability is because IMO it's a poor way to measure their buying intent. I likely would have said, "Hey chick, I know this great coffee shot in X location, let's grab one tomorrow morning". If she says she has to work then you can reply with "Coffee's not just for the morning, I'm pretty sure they have caffeine free ice cold water if later in the day works best for you" If …	/r/seduction	23/08/18 12:00 PM
2	15+ rejections last night, heres what i learned. Good job. some feedback is that if you're talking to that many women, even if it's a more friendly and non-flirtatious thing, make sure to venue change. Often single women and undesirable friends tend to be pretty observant so even if you think you're not being creepy that's the vibe some women have after seeing you talk to what is in their mind anything with legs and a vagina. Nightclubs and bars can be tough because of the volume. I can't dance for shit but my usual thing is that once we make …	/r/seduction	29/04/18 12:34 PM
1	15+ rejections last night, heres what i learned. I agree that 15 sounds high but for all we know he did 30+ approaches that night. Also, I don't know who you are but 4-5 approaches getting you laid means that you're either very good with women or you're highly calibrated, especially at night. For all we know his goal might not have even been to get laid. If you're consistently getting laid in 4-5 approaches at night, please share why you think you're successful. A long time ago the one of us who got laid the most at night probably had 1 in 7. …	/r/seduction	29/04/18 12:27 PM
1	If She's Vague About Her Availability, Tread Softly I agree. Reality is that there's no point playing games with maybe girls. If you have any level of abundance it doesn't matter if she says no because you'll do something else or take someone else out. Your time should be way too valuable to jump through hoops for some chick who might be busy	/r/seduction	25/04/18 03:19 PM
1	The people that I know that have girlfriends didn't do anything special to get their girlfriends Gotcha so you're looking for a quick fling or a fuck buddy and physical attraction is only a small part of the equation. Again I'd say to flirt with fat chicks, especially those who work retail and fast food jobs. Many are legitimately nice people and in some cases are lonely. If you're willing to take a trip and it's not too far try NYC. A lot of dive bars close very late and in my experience women alone at the bar past 230 are willing to drop their standards and looking to go home with a guy. …	/r/seduction	25/04/18 11:07 AM
3	The people that I know that have girlfriends didn't do anything special to get their girlfriends To be blunt what they're doing is settling. Either the girl is or the guy is. Depending on how old you are, there are tons of people who just don't want to be alone and want some sense of safety. For the guy that's having a girlfriend and for the girl that's often a guy who won't leave and won't challenge them too much. In regards to the whole Jon has a girlfriend and I can't find anyone thing, where are you looking. When I was younger and was one of the few people who didn't have a girl the tru…	/r/seduction	24/04/18 02:48 PM
2	The people that I know that have girlfriends didn't do anything special to get their girlfriends Not much. The reality is that often when people make find one girlfriend hard it's because they're being lazy or want the quick and easy route (ie banging hookers). If you want one girlfriend I'd say do the following: 1. join online dating sites that are geared towards you 2. join some meetups 3. don't shy away from women society deems unattractive 4. Flirt with marginally attractive women who work retail and fast food jobs 5. look for single moms who want a real relationship My guess is that yo…	/r/seduction	24/04/18 02:39 PM
2	How not to be ''that guy'' in the club? If you don't want to be that guy then don't be that guy. I don't really do clubs but I've noticed that when that kind of behavior is rampant although many of the girls protest, if they are there then that is what they are there for. So if you're not that guy then you might be in the wrong place, unless you're having a good time anyway. I live in the south and once in an attempt to meet black women I went to what turned out to be a thug club. I've done some shitty things to women but the behavior…	/r/seduction	27/03/18 09:04 AM
1	Success rate with women skyrocketed as soon as I moved up north. Does location have that much to do with it? You can't really compare NYC to other cities. More than anywhere else, I've found NYC has a large concentration of single women of varying ages who don't have a lot of friends. That independence IMO leads many to embrace dating in a way that women constrained by social circles don't. Regarding Atlanta, I've visited but never lived there. I got a strong impression that dating would probably improve for a lot of guys once they got out of their 20s. When I was there most women under 30 who were sin…	/r/seduction	04/03/18 09:47 PM
1	Talk to Everyone Sounds cheesey but use their name as often as possible when you first met them	/r/seduction	29/11/17 07:02 AM