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“It seems like most girls just dont want to be approached these days” This is exactly what I hate about this sub, people always tell you to never approach a woman when she is preoccupied, at the gym, walking in public and pretty much your only option is to meet girls at the bar, all this just makes you overthink more and not act. I feel you bro, sometimes I’m confident that a girl would enjoy me starting a conversation with her yet I hop on this sub and then my confidence just disappears. Like I…
/r/seduction24/04/22 10:53 PM
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Lightweight babayyyyyyy!
/r/seduction22/04/22 03:04 PM
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I wouldn’t confess your feelings yet because you’ve only been on 2 dates so far but do reach out to him. He’ll know you’re interested by reaching out
/r/seduction20/04/22 01:35 PM
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The stigma around mens mental health is crazy lol. I remember girls telling me “you know you can talk to me about anything right?” just for me to open up and afterwards they perceive me as someone completely different. Fuck they’ll even drop you and become your enemy in some cases.
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:03 PM
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I think the problem for men is showing emotion too early in the relationship/friendship. The only time I’ve felt comfortable enough to show emotion was with my childhood best friend, I know she wouldn’t just leave me high and dry. Every other time that I’ve shown emotion with someone I thought I could trust (specifically women) it would end up working against me. Its like they start perceiving me as weak and lose all forms of respect for me. Some girls would legit start calling me a creep and tr…
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:11 PM
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Like I have a group chat with my boys on snap and we just send dumb shit. But I don’t really hold conversations on snap, I’d rather just text. If I get a girls snap from a dating app I’ll snap her a couple times and try to set up a date but I’m not trying to snap people all day that shit is exhausting.
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:18 PM
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Did you ask her what she wants? Is she just looking for a fwb or a relationship? It doesn’t seem like you guys are exclusive so why are you worried that shes on the dating apps? You can’t just expect it to become exclusive by hanging out more often you gotta know what her intentions are with you
/r/seduction07/04/22 02:47 PM
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Brother it sounds like you're putting her on a pedestal after the kiss, take a step back. I usually don't hit them up for at least a week after the first date. Give her some space, make her feel like you are also busy with your life and purpose. Remember your purpose is more important than a girl, never forget that.
/r/seduction07/04/22 01:57 PM
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Read the book of pook
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:44 PM
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Do this an they'll take advantage of you
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:44 PM
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This is what I figured. I replied but I'm not planning on rescheduling, I haven't invested anything into her. 2 strikes is too many.
/r/seduction25/03/22 07:09 PM
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Thanks guys!
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:59 PM
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If she wasn’t on a pedestal you wouldn’t be thinking about her as much. There are lots of girls out there, replace her and you’ll think about her less
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:36 PM
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You put her on a pedestal. Work on yourself and those thoughts will diminish
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:33 PM
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Ya I was going I was dealing with a lot of negative shit at the time too, my confidence went to shit with all the lockdowns during covid. I dropped 30 pounds (mostly muscle) couldn't hit the gym and my job was stressing me out. I was an emotional mess and it was probably the worst time to confess to her lol. Sucks I really liked this girl but I've definitely changed since then and I know I'm way better off without her. Trusting her is definitely a start, if you aren't scared of being friend-zone…
/r/seduction11/03/22 09:56 PM
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Lol I recently did this and she completely cut me off. Here’s what happened; we hung out alone for the first time we had a great time, there was lots of sexual tension I could feel it. I kissed her and we started making out, I figured she would’ve rejected me by now if she wasn’t interested. I tried to bring her in my bedroom but she giggled and said I’m not that kind of girl in a flirty way, at this point I just figured she wanted to take it slow or she didn’t want it to be that easy for me. We…
/r/seduction11/03/22 09:35 PM
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This and eye contact
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:43 PM
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Open with, wanna hear a joke? Its worked for me a couple times when the convo goes dead but if she doesn’t reply after that I’d forget about it
/r/seduction12/02/22 11:12 PM
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Tell her exactly that, you like hanging out with her and you wanna see where this goes, but its too early for you to tell if you have feelings yet.
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:41 PM
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So hes only not socially awkward when talking with a group of people? And no not every man watches porn, most of my close friends have quit watching it and we’re all 22-23. Porn will change the way to look at women and you have no desire to talk to them because its way easier than wank off to 4k videos than to try and get laid with a real women. When I was really hooked to porn I couldn’t even get myself to properly talk to women 1 on 1, nor was I even interested if they threw themselves at me. …
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:02 PM
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A porn addiction can really fuck up a guy. Porn makes you extremely socially awkward with women, especially if you are hooked. Guys also also won’t entertain conversations with women they don’t really know if they are going through some stuff (I’m pretty bad for that). But I would keep trying to talk to him, he should come around unless he really can’t knock that porn addiction.
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:39 PM
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Being you’re 15 I would guess she’s probably confused about her sexuality. You said she has a gf, but I remember most of the girls in my highschool would start dating girls then 2 months later claim they were straight. Honestly you don’t have need closure, you tried to talk to her, she sucks and didn’t wanna keep up a conversation with you. Start talking to other girls at school and she may think she screwed up and may try talking to you, if not you’ll have the other girls to talk to.
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:08 PM
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Abundance mindset is always key, dwelling over rejection just makes it worse for yourself. Once you get rejected go for the next girl you see. There are girls everywhere its stupid to want the one who doesn’t like you back.
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:53 PM
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I think you mean people pleasers. Being polite towards women and having good manners is a good thing to have, you just can't be overly agreeable and be scared to say no because it may create a conflict. Be a man, express your true opinions and speak your mind, it makes you seem more confident in yourself and people will respect you more. When you want someone to do something for you, say it confidently and say it as a command (you don't need to say please, excuse me, etc, it makes it seem like y…
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:27 PM
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Bro she's 18, most 18 year olds only wanna get drunk and party. These girls are inexperienced and don't know what they want, most of them don't even know how to have proper conversation with a guy. She made you waffles and clearly wants to talk to you, at the very least she's giving some sort of attention. With 18 year olds you gotta take control of everything, pull some moves, think a little more with your dick and you'll be inside her in no time. She's your roommate it shouldn't be that hard t…
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