joelfarris Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Best response to 'I'm busy on X day or, can't this weekend' Why would you continue to pursue someone who's just indicated that they won't clear a night on their schedule for you? They're obviously not interested. Move on.	/r/seduction	01/02/17 06:45 AM
1	Best response to 'I'm busy on X day or, can't this weekend' Start with a Friday night, and you can also ask about Saturday or Sunday night events. If all three are a no-go, then it's best to cut ties and move on.	/r/seduction	01/02/17 06:13 AM
3	Any tips for a hiking first date? On the other hand, there are potentials out there who consider an out of breath, are we there yet condition to be the epitome of the day. More so than an "But I am le tired" condition. It can behoove one to watch for these human-challenging moments as well. Embrace them, and push for them. As long as one doesn't end up hang gliding the Grand Canyon in a windsuit after dark...	/r/seduction	07/06/16 05:07 AM
2	Any tips for a hiking first date? No stumble-and-grab for stability? No I'm-out-can-I-share-your-camelbak-now-we've-kissed? Must. Be. More. Playful. It's a great big world out there.	/r/seduction	07/06/16 05:01 AM
1	Take it from a guy who has nothing What language was this? I've tried Google Translate, Free Translation, and Bing Translator, and they all come out as .... See what I mean?	/r/seduction	05/06/16 06:51 AM
3	Best advice I can give: Take The Damn Shot Nobody ever expects The Deepness.	/r/seduction	07/01/16 03:12 AM
2	I keep realizing too late she was interested Girls will talk with me when I'm randomly out, but I'm so focused on doing something else I'll just give your "canned" response and continue. Think about this for a second: this also happens to women. They are out doing whatever it is they wanted to accomplish, and someone tosses them a line with a hook on the end of it which doesn't register simply because they're not in a receptive mindset at that moment. Thus, they give a canned response and continue. Then later, ...	/r/seduction	27/03/15 02:46 PM
2	What to do when girls generalise you as a "player" Statements like this are not about you, they're about the other person projecting an insecurity towards you. Whenever someone refers to this, I immediately retort with "Why don't you think you're beautiful?".	/r/seduction	01/09/14 11:58 PM
-1	[FR] This girl threw me off my game when she told me her boyfriend died last month. Definitely sounds by her actions like she's craving some companionship. But, why hasn't anybody caught on to the strange fact that her boyfriend died ~30 days ago, and she's now hanging out in a club that they used to frequent together 730 DAYS AGO?	/r/seduction	22/05/14 04:00 PM
1	Got a girl's number, was too drunk to remember her name That can backfire if her name is easily spelled... "What's your name?" "Deeahna" "How do you spell that, so I can put it into my phone and not end up calling you Ethel" "It's spelled 'Diana'. But I pronounce it Deeahna." Don't worry about backfiring. Just get it right the first time. :)	/r/seduction	15/05/13 02:58 AM
3	Got a girl's number, was too drunk to remember her name "I have you in my phone as 'callherbackrightaway', but we should probably make it more definite than last night. How do you spell your name?"	/r/seduction	13/05/13 04:05 AM
0	How should i go about calling a girl out on her texting while with me? "Are you texting me out? How dare you, my eyes are up here!"	/r/seduction	10/05/13 02:00 PM
-4	FRs: Lone Wolf/Hired Guns; No Close Because of Strange End "...to my dismay, find two 6s operating the hostess stand. I thought these places were only supposed to hire babes…" I stopped reading after this line. Since when are 100% of the people hired by an establishment supposed to be stupendous to you? It's a mindset. You need to learn more.	/r/seduction	10/04/13 04:21 AM
1	So now I'm able to approach, get numbers, kino, go for the kiss. But how do I get her to my place? "Come over to my place to watch a movie"...and bring your favorite cuddly blanket. I'll supply popcorn and drinks. If she shows up with a blanket in her arms, well...	/r/seduction	09/04/13 02:28 AM
1	So now I'm able to approach, get numbers, kino, go for the kiss. But how do I get her to my place? Exactly this. People whom you've just met don't want to let you know where they live until you've known them for a while. Thus, your place must become the safe haven. Make sure it's well lit, has clean hair-free sheets, and is serviced by cabs after midnight.	/r/seduction	09/04/13 02:25 AM
3	So now I'm able to approach, get numbers, kino, go for the kiss. But how do I get her to my place? There's a big difference between "Let's go back to my place" and "I'm not done with tonight yet. We should hang out for another hour..." Safe. Secure. Trustworthy. Be those things.	/r/seduction	09/04/13 02:22 AM
1	[FR] College party # and K-close Yeahhhh can you get some Raisin Bran next time you're at the store. Ugh, Ashley ate all the Raisin Bran again? Just great.	/r/seduction	15/10/12 02:17 PM
9	[FR] College party # and K-close I show up to the party basically acting like it's my house. So you're that guy who's always in my house.	/r/seduction	15/10/12 03:39 AM
9	Girls I approach keep asking me this... Is that racist? You have no idea what this word means.	/r/seduction	08/10/12 06:55 AM
10	Girls I approach keep asking me this... "How many girls you have slept with?" Counting you, today, one.	/r/seduction	08/10/12 04:47 AM
1	Girls I approach keep asking me this... "Girl: You are a bold fellow." Are you just now figuring that out? Or did you want to wait until Thursday when we see each other again?	/r/seduction	08/10/12 04:45 AM
1	My go-to line: "I bet you look so much cuter when you smile." Upvote for clear and present honesty. but a correction. "Girls aren't looking for ass kissers, they're looking for men" changes to "Women aren't looking for ass kissers, they're looking for men" Be a man at all times. Don't be a boy looking for girls.	/r/seduction	24/09/12 06:48 AM
9	My go-to line: "I bet you look so much cuter when you smile." Giving away compliments is a bad idea? Dude. The human psyche responds to compliments 100% of the time. We're wired to desire approval. A little bit goes a LONG way too. Just don't talk about beauty right off the bat. That's a "known".	/r/seduction	24/09/12 05:00 AM
0	Eye contact - when to look away? In a conversation with someone I've just met, I usually try at least once to get her to maintain eye contact with me for a few seconds, then I break eye contact with her quickly by looking down with a slightly embarrassed smile, and then I regain eye contact and hold it for a while. It shows that I'm human, approachable, have emotions, like her, and most of all, that I'm not a domineering asshole who won't back down no matter what. Oh, and it really doesn't matter who's talking to whom. Eye cont…	/r/seduction	13/09/12 07:09 PM