joelmbear Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
34	[FR] OK Cupid is working... Finally		joelmbear	/r/seduction	05/11/14 07:42 PM

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1	What term do you use ? "hang out", "go out", "date" ..? I say get together, or if I know I like the girl already, I'll say I want to take her out.	/r/seduction	23/09/15 02:32 AM
1	[FR] Just broke up with my girlfriend, but here is a silver lining Just got dumped yesterday, Thanks for the pep talk!	/r/seduction	25/04/15 02:50 AM
2	To stay or not to stay? "Oh perfect timing, I'm going to grab drinks while you do that. See you in a bit."	/r/seduction	05/04/15 04:09 PM
0	What's the best venue for picking up if you're ugly but have a good personality? I would recommend house parties. You generally know the people there better, and can rely a bit more on the solid rapport it appears you have with your friends a lot more than the colder approaches you might have to do out at bars/clubs	/r/seduction	19/03/15 03:02 PM
1	To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. I (24M) made the same painful mistake a few times, and it was something as harmless as holding hands. I would be out with a girl, and whether it was coffee, a movie, or walking around, and rather than just kissing her, would hold hands with her. Whether it was for escalating, gauging the situation, or attempting to show I wasn't like the run of the mill guy, I would make this move. After seeing it fail for me time and again, I realized the error of my ways, and have graduated to simply kissing a…	/r/seduction	07/03/15 07:31 AM
1	Oneitis is about to ruin my date tomorrow. Any quick-ixes? Good luck OP!!	/r/seduction	14/02/15 02:13 PM
1	What to do on a tinder date on valentine's day? I would take her mini golfing, bowling, to play pool, etc. something where you both have an activity to distract you from the awkwardness of the situation, but where you can still have fun and get to know each other more. A little social lubricant (alcohol) never hurt a first date either. Good luck	/r/seduction	10/02/15 03:46 PM
1	20 Question Game Deflect the question by answering jokingly. "I generally go for girls that have no class, so you already dont fit the bill", "Sometimes when we make eye contact i accidentally smile... if you could cut that out, I could see this going a lot better" etc etc	/r/seduction	04/02/15 11:16 PM
1	What are your fun first dates? In my experience, I like to ask out girls who i either already know/have mutual friends with, or have texted with at least. This i feel like mitigates most risk a girl would feel. I have never picked up any weird vibes taking a new date hiking.	/r/seduction	04/02/15 09:31 PM
19	What are your fun first dates? I love taking girls on a hike. It gets us outside, being active, and it almost guarantees future dates when you say "oh wow, this view is gorgeous, it reminds me almost of x, have you been there? No? We should go!"	/r/seduction	04/02/15 05:09 PM
5	I just want to feel accepted, hugged, loved. Go on a run. Do body-weight work outs. You will release positive endorphins, and feel better about yourself. Continue this until you are noticing visible improvements, and voila, you have a hobby, are no longer weak, and hopefully have improved your attitude through hard work.	/r/seduction	02/02/15 10:20 PM
2	[FR] The nice guy doesn't finish last in this post! Oh my gosh i laughed so hard when you said "biggity biggity bitch", but in all honesty. Great job man! Carpe that Diem!	/r/seduction	29/01/15 05:12 PM
1	First date handbook Love the advice. Some isn't practical for who I am as a person, but a lot of it is! thanks for the help friend	/r/seduction	11/12/14 08:42 PM
1	[FR] OK Cupid is working... Finally thanks for the advice!	/r/seduction	06/11/14 03:15 PM
1	[FR] OK Cupid is working... Finally That is my height:) Are we height-siblings?	/r/seduction	06/11/14 04:15 AM
7	[FR] OK Cupid is working... Finally haha like 20 dudes have visited in the last hour. Not worried about it, thanks for the heads up though!	/r/seduction	06/11/14 12:32 AM
3	[FR] OK Cupid is working... Finally www.okcupid.com/profile/JoelBarrett	/r/seduction	05/11/14 11:42 PM
1	[FR] OK Cupid is working... Finally I wouldn't mind at all... i have no idea how to do that though. The url is just www.okcupid.com/profile haha. If you know how I have no problem sharing.	/r/seduction	05/11/14 11:06 PM
6	[FR] OK Cupid is working... Finally Me too! Hence it taking me months to purge it haha. I'll definitely throw in a FR after they finish up next week! FYI my end game is to find a girlfriend, so "success" might look different than what we are used to. Thanks!	/r/seduction	05/11/14 08:48 PM
5	Do you guys use the word "Date" when you ask a girl out or no? "Can i take you out for drinks/coffee?" is the line I usually. Yes, girls will still complain about how they have never been on a "real date" but we all know that's not true haha	/r/seduction	05/11/14 08:46 PM
1	How do you know when to move in for a kiss? Well said!	/r/seduction	28/08/14 04:34 PM
1	[Cautionary Story] Don't call your ex - get over her Wow man, sorry to hear your story. It's actually creepy how closely our stories line up, from first serious gf to breaking up in Oct13 and moving on in Jan14. My advice as someone who was also just crushed would be to avoid her at all costs. In the same way its rational to send her a card or say "hi" to be nice and show her you can be civil, put in the same amount of effort to avoid her. Take the long way home. Delete her friends/family from FB. and Never Talk to Her. Hobbies definitely help, I …	/r/seduction	22/08/14 10:19 PM