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Wow, just downloaded and read that book. If It worked for you and changed your life, and then more power to you and the book. That book is pure satirical bullshit! That guy is a joke! The people and relationships he talks about in that book are a fictitious! His generous exaggerations of his ability to be a lover and a man are staggeringly comical. He sounds exactly like one of the "nerdy virgins" You referenced.
/r/seduction06/11/20 02:51 PM
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WTF! That's actually a book? I thought you were just being an asshole. 🤣
/r/seduction06/11/20 12:52 PM
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Well if you jerk off before your date it might relieve some of your anxiety, there has been some studies that if you masturbate before a date it will boost your pheromone levels which I guess could unconsciously peak her interest.
/r/seduction06/11/20 01:11 AM
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I believe most people are somewhere in between. Honestly, everybody can get better but that doesn't mean that they're still not bitter about The cards they've been dealt and their life circumstances.
/r/seduction03/11/20 02:33 AM
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🤣
/r/seduction03/11/20 02:24 AM
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It's an interesting tidbit of information and it's pretty good way to look at minimizing the fear of rejection. The only part I might change would be removing that men want to be cazanova's, cazanova was a narcissist, womanizer and an all-round scumbag so aspiring to be like him probably isn't the What most men want to do.
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:40 PM
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I agree with Rynzler It sounds You're anxiously awaiting and trying too hard to start a relationship. It sounds like you have everything else taken care of It's time for you to just be you and let things unfold naturally. Somebody will take notice of everything that you're doing and when the time is right everything will unfold.
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:34 PM
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That is a gambit that you might have to play. Generally in the bar and club scene women don't get sloppy drunk where they can't give consent. Unless their alcoholics, in my experience women are modest drinkers so they don't get taken advantage of.
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:26 PM
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As the DD You can play Captain Save-A-ho Make sure the women get home safe.
/r/seduction02/11/20 11:54 AM
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You go with friends and you're the designated driver therefore you can't drink.
/r/seduction02/11/20 10:02 AM
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Your assessment of choices is somewhat accurate. The tall will educated and well-paid man will have an abundance of choices. Where is the shorter autistic man with less education and fewer job prospects will equally have few choices in the matters of love. and in between those two archetypes you'll have the middle ground which can go either way depending on charisma, confidence and potential to make something of themselves.
/r/seduction02/11/20 09:59 AM
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It's a pretty self-explanatory answer The woman that gives you the most love is the woman that loves you... And why is that? Because she loves you!
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:08 AM
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Giving someone a compliment to brighten their day is great in concept. I believe a lot of people have anxiety about doing this because they never know what somebody is going to take as a compliment or take offensive to.
/r/seduction01/11/20 09:47 PM
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Okay, If a simple escalation then it doesn't sound so bad and you did mention in your first post that you had backed off once or twice. At one point it sounded like you tried to pull her into your apartment so that was a bit disconcerning.
/r/seduction01/11/20 06:15 AM
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You don't suck, it's just sex with a mutual experience and you stated several times you could visibly see how nervous she was, If that was me and I could see how nervous and uncomfortable she was I personally would have scheduled another date and hope that she wasn't as nervous. There's nothing wrong with trying to move forward but as I said sex is a mutual experience and by mutual decision more or less it's her decision. I'm definitely not one of those may I kiss you, here's a consent form for …
/r/seduction01/11/20 06:10 AM
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Sounds like you pushed hella hard for sex on the first date, I mean Jesus reading this story sounded like the woman's testimony from the metoo movement That testified against Aziz Ansari about how he pressured her into sex.
/r/seduction01/11/20 06:01 AM
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That's not necessarily true at all, if the OP is talking about meeting 18 and 20 year old Those same women will most likely be in the bar when they are 21. It's an incredibly poor assessment to assume that quality women will not be at bars especially at a young age. There are definitely better venues to search for "quality" women than a bar.
/r/seduction01/11/20 05:57 AM
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Are you 100% sure it was her boyfriend that she was bringing around? You can always ask her whatever happened to her spectator and why he doesn't come around anymore and if she does tell you that it was her boyfriend and that they're no long together then I don't see why you couldn't ask her if she would like to go out at some point.
/r/seduction01/11/20 05:31 AM
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I've always had a small tight-knit group of friends. over the years they pursued careers, relationships and we kind of just drifted apart. Of course we more or less maintain some form of communication from time to time. Facebook, steam, texting once in a great while. We all still claim to be friends, but at this point we're more or less acquaintances.
/r/seduction01/11/20 04:45 AM
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If I recall the statistic of people that are affected with HSV-1 is quite high, I believe it's one in four people have it, although as you said a lot of people are probably asymptomatic but that doesn't mean that they can't spread it. Unfortunately I inherited HSV-1 from my parents so I've dealt with the virus my entire life, and it honestly hasn't affected my dating life. When I do have an outbreak I do feel self-conscious about myself but there's really nothing I can do about it. Luckily, I on…
/r/seduction01/11/20 03:56 AM
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If I'm not mistaken I believe I read an article that said that having HSV-1 into the genital region was often the worse than HSV-2. I believe outbreaks were more severe and occurred more often?
/r/seduction01/11/20 03:51 AM
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This is an incredibly overly complicated and long-winded explanation that is not even relevant. What you basically described was a narcissistic man. The only thing that shows That a man is "high value" is his potential. His potential to earn is usually the only requirement that proves a man's value. His potential to be stoic, be able to walk away whenever the situation is not conducive. His potential to live independently, by independently that is in all aspects of his life. If a man can live in…
/r/seduction31/10/20 11:34 PM
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If a girl grabbed your balls and you haven't fucked her yet that's kind of weird. If you were flirting and she's already grabbed your testicles you pretty much should have moved to a private location. If you do end up meeting with her again, ask her if you should pick up where you left off then take her to somewhere private.
/r/seduction29/10/20 07:39 AM
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That's kind of fucked up, worst thing that can happen is they tell you to go fuck yourself.
/r/seduction28/10/20 02:46 AM
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From your initial statement it doesn't really sound like you don't have the area or access to have a high body count. I guess if you lived in a major city and you only have 3 partners That could be seen as a low number. But your technically on track if you are looking to acquire the average number of sexual partners which apparently sits at 7.2. If you're of the mind that you will have a high body count and look back on it only to regret it then it's definitely not something you should seek. Don…
/r/seduction28/10/20 02:00 AM
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Is there a purpose to increasing your body count and to have a high body count, do you think that makes you a better person?
/r/seduction28/10/20 01:39 AM
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I can see that. after you take out the opposite sex, geriatric, partnered, underage, and not physically attracted to. You are left with a fraction of the population, and as previously stated if you remove out who you can actually communicate with. You might be left with a number closely resembling that.
/r/seduction25/10/20 05:33 PM
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There's got to be more than 1 billion dateable women in the world populated with 7.8 billion people. The unfortunate truth is having access and the ability to talk to all of those women.
/r/seduction25/10/20 04:55 PM
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Depends on the age demographic, most mature women would not respond like that.
/r/seduction25/10/20 04:54 PM
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It's fully dependent on the girl, everybody's a little bit different. You can't really show you care a little bit until after the relationship is established, if it's established. If you're just trying to fuck, It's better to have the indifferent attitude.
/r/seduction22/10/20 12:18 AM
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Shit, at this point now and in a few more years you'll be in your sexual prime. Time to take up the challenge again. 🤣
/r/seduction29/09/20 07:02 AM
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Orzhov has is on to something there. 2:1, or 3:1 should be a good ratio. Don't listen to Illimitable, guy sound like an asshate! You already said it, you don't want to come off as clingy But you also don't want to come off as cold and distant. Giving her something she likes if she's having a bad day or sick is always a nice gesture as long as it's not too extravagant.
/r/seduction23/09/20 07:42 PM
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This is a hard one to answer, if you two have been together consistently for over a year and he hasn't said I love you. That seems long overdue for playing it cool, he could honestly have some intimacy issues. Without further insight into his home life and background, I'm at a loss. He could come from a home where words like that were never exchanged. If you have a deep-seated feeling that he may not reciprocate your feelings your best option, I believe would be to have a serious discussion with…
/r/seduction23/09/20 07:33 PM
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I've gone to cuts etc, or great clips. Both are perfectly fine. As long as you know what your hair type and maneuverisms are and have an idea of what you want or a picture any place for the most part will be fine.
/r/seduction23/09/20 06:59 PM
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Your advice will always hold true, Even if you are in your mid-forties with significant wealth and status and your playing around with women in their late teens and early twenties they're only looking to you for your money. so, you will always lose money chasing women. To add insult to injury if you're messing around with women in late teens and early twenties they've already popped out a few undesirables because they were fucking around with undesirables. You should be looking for career orient…
/r/seduction22/09/20 11:39 PM
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Bars and clubs would still be a viable options provided covid wasn't so prevalent right now. Of course to pull from bars and clubs and you have to have the ability of the gift of gab, and to be a decent dancer this would exponentially increase your chances of pulling from one of these venues.
/r/seduction19/09/20 06:44 AM
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Statistically speaking, women mature and develop faster now than they did in the '80s and '90s whether or not that equates to having better features, That's a bit more difficult to answer. Having better features comes down more to genetics. There's certainly a lot more readily available information that women can utilize to work out to enhance their assets than there were in the 80s and 90s.
/r/seduction19/09/20 06:41 AM
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It's a slippery slope, if you are interested in her in a romantic manner most people would probably advise to not initiate conversation with her, remain aloof and busy if she reaches out to you. If she doesn't initiate conversation then it's probably safe to assume that she does just want to remain friends at which point you have to make the decision whether or not you want to be her friend.
/r/seduction16/09/20 11:09 PM
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If you tried and she advised she doesn't have sex on the first date, that does pose a problem. Escalation, doesn't necessarily equate to sex a little more aggression and some heavy petting could have been acceptable. If she saying that the distance of roughly of an hour apart is a problem, you can reassure her that that's not a problem for you, provided it is not a problem. It sounds like you've got two options, pursue her or forget about her.
/r/seduction16/09/20 10:51 PM
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It's hard to really determine what could have happened, strong possibility is that when you were together in bed and kissing you didn't take the initiative and escalate the situation so she lost interest but wants to remain friends.
/r/seduction16/09/20 10:30 PM
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Okay, continue to be social. It's difficult but it's not impossible. Women are craving social interaction just as much as you are and women are still going out to restaurants, coffee shops, parks, beaches. Of course they may be a little more standoffish, so cold approaches may not be very easy. If you were previously social on dating apps or social media those would be your best outlet for right now. In regards to hiring a professional once a week I'm not sure where you're from, where I'm at an …
/r/seduction16/09/20 07:49 PM
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Hiring a "professional" sounds expensive opposed to your porn option. Although sex does seem to be a recession proof job, I imagine they're still plenty of professionals that will see you. But I assume even a lot of them would be hesitant to take clients during covid. In all honesty your best option is to continue to socialize with women. If you have had past engagements and you're still in good standing with any of your previous women conquest talk to them. Despite covered, I've been on a few d…
/r/seduction16/09/20 07:24 PM
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Somebody had just posted a video with a direct approach that may not be for everybody but it could work. When you approach whoever, start up your conversation by introduce yourself, you say something like I noticed you from: ________ (fill in the blank) school, work, bar, wherever I think you're really cute, or I find you very attractive. Then you ask if they are you single, or are you seeing anybody? This way it both shows that you're interested in them and you're finding out ahead of time if t…
/r/seduction16/09/20 07:13 PM
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So are you saying that your actual opener is "hey, I really like you!" That could definitely be messing up your "game" You don't really want to start with I really like you as your initial greeting. That's something reserved for once you've established an ongoing relationship. By ongoing I at least mean a week or two.
/r/seduction16/09/20 05:28 PM
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If she was genuinely apologetic for potentially standing you up of course she would offer to pay for the drink, you, should have at least offered to split the bill with her. Send your first text, and then you should have a decent indicator of how well the date went and whether or not you should ask for a second.
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:27 PM
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Stating your intentions in the beginning in no uncertain terms, should weed out most of them. If you were looking for just promiscuous sex, and they try to stick around to convince you otherwise that's on them.
/r/seduction14/09/20 12:19 PM
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Jesus man, at least you match with them first. My inner monologue tells me I'm not good enough for them from the very start. I go on to tender and I know that if I do match with women there have far better options out there than me, I swipe anyway. When and if we match the conversation goes as well as possible but then, inevitability sets in and they stop responding and/or unmatch. The sad unfortunate fact is women will always have more options. There will always be somebody out there for women …
/r/seduction11/09/20 03:36 AM
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Depends on how far in advance you set the date. Definitely check The day or night before the date to confirm you're still on.
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:14 PM
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That's something you'll need to overcome for your sanity. If the women are giving you the signals, I don't understand why you'd even care what others think. I'd only care what the women thinks.
/r/seduction09/09/20 03:50 AM
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From the sounds of it you only have two options. Option one: Tell her how you feel. Obviously not the obsession part. Ask her out and see if a relationship develops. Option number two: keep leering at her and obsess about her and push those feelings down deep until it grows into resentment and depression. If you go for option one, whether you get a yes or no answer at least you have an answer.
/r/seduction09/09/20 02:41 AM
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I see, I assumed it was something like fugly Asian. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction08/09/20 10:30 AM
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I believe the OP was saying he visibly receives signals or cues for an approach, I understand a lot of men approach regardless of signals or not. I personally am not ballsy enough to cold approach if I receive no sort of invitation unless of course I know the person in some fashion.
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:27 AM
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If you are receiving signals from the woman that she wants you to approach and talk to her, at that point everybody else in the vicinity should just be dead to you It should be nothing more than just you and her. I understand what you have is a legitimate fear, but if you can picture it, at that point no one exists except for you and the woman that you're about to talk to.
/r/seduction08/09/20 06:43 AM
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Pardon my ignorance, what is FA?
/r/seduction08/09/20 06:31 AM
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Can't really clear it up for you, you hit the nail on the head. Of course you want her to say yes, of course you want to stick your dick in her. However, if she says no and you don't get to stick your dick in her then you have to be of the mindset that is not the end of the world. I believe that's what outcome independent means. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction07/09/20 06:41 AM
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It's all dependent on the girl. Some girls don't use emojis, and some girls are emoji heavy. I'm not saying it's not possible, I'm just recommending obtain a little more evidence.
/r/seduction07/09/20 03:33 AM
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Just because she texted with a smile emoji doesn't mean she like you, you'll need a bit more evidence before you should proceed. I have a coworker that draws a smiley face on everybody's lable, she's been propositioned twice once by I got her age, and once by a man that was 30 years her senior. She draws a smiley face on everybody's label.
/r/seduction07/09/20 01:20 AM
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That's an interesting question, I feel most men avoid women with kids like the plague. First and foremost, she probably figure out if the baby's daddy still in the picture. After that if you're at all decent at cold approach of women without children I don't see the difference of going after a woman with a child. of course you introduce yourself to the woman and to her children if they're old enough to respond.
/r/seduction04/09/20 04:27 AM
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You sound pathetic when you say you want to be alpha, ignoring women is not alpha. Playing it cool when you think you have feelings for the women is alpha. Having control of yourself is alpha. Think of it like this, It's like the saying: courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the perseverance to push forward despite that fear. When you feel the urge to check your phone... Don't! And if these women don't snap you or message you don't take that the hard either. If you find yourself thinkin…
/r/seduction04/09/20 03:25 AM
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Keno is just body contact, the common belief is that if you can break the ice and make physical contact with the girl i.e. touching the hands, arm, back, legs you increase you chance of taking the girl to bed.
/r/seduction03/09/20 11:57 AM
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Well if you have a good looking face that means you have no. 1 & 2 covered and because you have 1 and 2 covered you probably have no. 3 covered, number 4 comes naturally. You can technically get away with not having number 5, number 6 generally follows 1,2,3 & 4
/r/seduction03/09/20 11:54 AM
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Well that's precisely what I said, height is not an issue as long as you have all of the other qualities on lock.
/r/seduction03/09/20 11:46 AM
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Unfortunately if you read enough of tender Reddit you'll see that height apparently is an issue. At least he listed 5'9 and up. From what I understand if you're underneath 6 ft you're pretty much a no-go. Unless you have all of the other points fully locked down.
/r/seduction03/09/20 07:29 AM
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Other than confronting her about it I don't see there's much you can do. sounds like your girlfriend's kind of a piece of shit! I know that comes off as very crass, but I'm not trying to say it to be rude. It sounds like she's looking for the BBD (bigger better deal) had that man or any one of the other guys that she unconsciously follows, spoke to her you may no longer be in a relationship with her.
/r/seduction01/09/20 10:06 PM
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