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Outer Game joelvaldezg/r/seduction15/08/22 01:09 PM
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Whoever is talking shit like “Move on bro she did already” or like “she’s not into you” are clearly dumbass that I think you should not listen. Let me explain why. 1- They probably haven’t been in a situation like this. Bro it’s a girl you connected with and she gave really strong signals since the beginning and everything was so good with her, I know this situation. While a lot of us like to think that these are just numbers and that you can’t get committed with just one girl, no, it isn’t the …
/r/seduction02/11/22 12:55 AM
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I cant with this sub.
/r/seduction01/11/22 11:00 PM
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Whatever you do don’t try giving her reasons or respond logically. If they ask me shit like this, I usually joke with things like “because you have nice nails” or sum like that
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:18 PM
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Bro wtf
/r/seduction24/10/22 08:02 PM
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This usual tension is what makes this dynamic be wonderful. If all of us weren’t afraid to talk to the opposite sex, I think people would need to stay in their houses because of so much approaches. Men are afraid to be rejected, women think that if they approach they would be seen as easy. Someone needs to break the pattern, someone needs to seduce.
/r/seduction09/10/22 06:34 PM
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Go to therapy
/r/seduction04/10/22 07:40 AM
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Transference love it’s a type of love that occurs in a psychoanalytic therapy. And it occurs because the patient, while going back to its childhood, transmits those beautiful memories and the fantasy of a father or a mother to the therapist. What you described it’s normal love.
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:13 PM
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Don’t prioritize the end, prioritize the process. What I mean is, focus on making her feel instead of focusing on what you want.
/r/seduction17/08/22 01:42 PM
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Yup. I think that if you go with some boring shit that every men would think of, she will not be surprised and probably would think you’re as boring as them.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:26 PM
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As every human being.
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:37 AM
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But that isn’t something bad.
/r/seduction13/08/22 02:40 AM
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Seduction is manipulative
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:48 PM
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I fell in love because of her kindness and pureness of soul. She was really empathetic with how I felt in every moment. What made me fall out of love was knowing that she wasn’t that person anymore and that she only could think of her benefits instead of actually caring what others needed.
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:21 PM
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I don’t get women at all and women all the time say I have tons of ladies. Just appear confident and they will assume you are high value.
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:43 AM
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If you see yourself as boring, she will see as you boring too.
/r/seduction26/03/22 04:47 AM
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What about being you? I’m tired of this Reddit and it’s stupid questions. Seduction isn’t about doing certain type of things or being something for getting something in return. That’s why men are so logical and see this as: I do this and then I’ll get this. Seduction is about feeling, is about making someone feel things they didn’t felt before. Why focusing on the archetype you want to follow instead of being the best version of yourself? Focus on seduction, not in production. Seduction is a pro…
/r/seduction26/03/22 03:09 AM
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Ghost?
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:59 AM
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Have you ever been in a club? I used to say clubs aren’t my things but now I go almost weekly to one. I’d say go clubbing, but with your friends, it’s tough to go alone.
/r/seduction13/03/22 05:25 PM
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Bro wtf. You made everything wrong. Why so many attention on just two weeks? People fall in love when they are alone fantasizing about you. If you are always there, you’ll become familiar and predictable. You need to distance yourself a bit. Also, why so much texting? Anyways, flirt and you’ll be good. If there isn’t any sexual interest from you, she will not be so responsive (this supposing she has interest in you romantically). You are basically now acting like her brother or girl bff.
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:54 AM
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How do you approach? Are you sure you’re doing it correctly? Remember women aren’t objects, they feel. Also cold approach almost always ends in rejection, remember girls have their things going on, they probably have feelings for someone else or just got out of a relationship.
/r/seduction12/03/22 05:15 AM
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🤦🏻
/r/seduction11/03/22 11:20 PM
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Easy. Just have a little deep conversation with them. If you don’t want her to think you’re a player then have conversations that tell otherwise, women are excited to see these qualities in guys. Take the example of Casanova, everybody knew he was a player, so he took his time for every single girl he wanted to make her think he isn’t a player and that she was actually special for him.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:06 AM
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This one is good if you want to get laid quickly. It surely works. However, I personally don’t like doing it. I like having a more vague and ambiguous way of complimenting and sexualizing, in a way that she comes to me because she doesn’t think I’m fully into her or doesn’t even know what I meant. It’s a way of letting her know that she is special among other women but needs to do more for me. And do not tell me it doesn’t work, because I’ve used it plenty of times, girls have OBSESSED with me f…
/r/seduction08/03/22 07:44 PM
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She wants you to try harder. I hate these type of girls.
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:26 PM
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Women on dating apps are most likely to ghost you and/or be with more men. That’s where we need to control ourselves and not get emotionally attached so quickly. If you never hear from her then move on.
/r/seduction28/02/22 08:27 PM
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Be an asshole. She will like you.
/r/seduction26/02/22 07:27 AM
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Text him.
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:56 AM
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Then you aren’t confident. Being confident means taking nothing and no one serious. That is game.
/r/seduction19/02/22 03:54 AM
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This is our reality bro. I HATE being ghosted. I’ve been ghosted dozens of times and honestly I’m sick of that shit. But it’s almost never your fault. Being ghosted involves a lot of emotional factors that aren’t in our control.
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:32 PM
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Wtf? You are saying you are way out of her league. Remember that your inner thoughts affect deeply how you act. There are a lot of ways you can increase her attraction, hot and cold is one of the best. But if you aren’t the type of person to play these games, try being more unpredictable. Relations get boring because people get too familiar with the other person, be more spontaneous, make her think as much as you can: “why did he did that?”.
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:27 PM
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??? Set up a date.
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:20 PM
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It’s going to happen a lot of times. Some girls will just play with that and just be hot and cold. But most of the times is a no from her.
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:19 PM
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Repeat the whole process again.
/r/seduction02/02/22 04:37 AM
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Love hurts. We are the ones who decide if it hurts like going to the gym or like being sick.
/r/seduction02/02/22 03:46 AM
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It depends on the compliment and how you say it. For example, I’ve been liking this girl for like 3 months, the thing is I really liked her personality and way of thinking and I always complimented it. This was arousing for her but I think in her mind she had insecurities about her looks with me. She dyed her hair black, I loved that, she looked like an angel. At the end of the day, we were walking home and just when she was leaving, I grabbed her arm and got closer to her ear and said: “I reall…
/r/seduction30/01/22 07:47 PM
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Hmmmm. The thing is people here are seeing women as just objects for sexual pleasure and not as individuals with their own emotions. When you are meeting a woman, you should listen carefully to everything that she shares with you and what she doesn’t share with you, since this will reveal what type of person she is. If you let a girl know that you just want her for casual sex or that you are dating other girls she will not feel unique in your eyes. Even though some women don’t care, there are wo…
/r/seduction30/01/22 07:33 PM
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Yes. Always.
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:17 AM
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Completely true. We all have been at that point.
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:56 AM
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I said say something flirty to her, which means showing your intentions. Being explicit with what you want with all of her friends around will make her uncomfortable and most of the times she will reject you, because she doesn’t wanna seem to easy.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:56 PM
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If she looks like a girl that has worked out a lot, maybe joke with that. “You look like you don’t workout, are you new here?” She will obviously know is a joke.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:54 PM
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For example, instead of just going to talk about daily stuff with her, try asking her how did she felt about it, try making some jokes, try teasing her. Be flirty. That’s it.
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:59 AM
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Wtf no. Think like you are making her day more fun and better. Think like she has been looking for a man like you all her life. Then go approach. Obviously if you approach with the same shit she has heard all of her life (“hey sorry to bother you but I thought you was pretty cute and etc etc”) you will get a no almost always. Try being creative.
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:48 AM
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Try working on being playful. You’ll have better results.
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:43 AM
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Text her that shit. Trust me.
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:41 AM
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0 hahaha. Attractive women in dating apps are more selective in looks and status.
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:37 AM
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Idk. If his advice isn’t making the woman feel as desired as a porn actress then I don’t think it’s actually good.
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:35 AM
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Hmmm. I think I am experiencing oneitis too with a girl I used to like. Mine is kinda rare I think. Because even though I think she connects with me very good, I am aware of her red flags and the things that I don’t like about her. I’d say go text other girls. I experienced it with this same girl before and I just started texting some other girls I dropped for this one, in less than a week my feelings were gone.
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:32 AM
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I mean if he punched my girl I would get pretty aggressive.
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:26 AM
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Good. Keep going
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:17 AM
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You are overthinking it too much. Follow your instincts. Think about something creative that will make both of you laugh and go there. For example: I once approached a girl in my school after I saw how cute she was, I went there and said: Where’s your hiding spot? She laughed it off and asked what the fuck I was talking about and I answered: “You must be hiding somewhere because if not I would have noticed someone with a smile as beautiful as yours” She laughed it off again and we started talkin…
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:14 AM
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Go there and ask directions for some place while looking at the girl you like, say something flirty to her and shoot your shot. If you want to approach all of them and get all of them in dates, I’m sorry but I don’t think that will work.
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:06 AM
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Idk. I’m always calm but it doesn’t seem like I am. I mean in those two situation I’m chilling but I just think of it like a game, like something to make fun of and play with. If someone approaches your girlfriend, flirt with him, it’ll be fun. Think of all of this like a game, something to have fun, and you’ll be calm and confident in any situation.
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:04 AM
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Bro wtf. Move on or ask her out.
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:09 AM
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Set up a date and kiss her.
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:23 AM
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It’s not your fault. She is maybe dealing with something personal or that crazy ex finally blew up her phone.
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:14 AM
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??? I don’t fully understand what you’re saying. I mean just validate what you think is unique and what you actually like. I only do compliments when it’s something that I really really like, so that the other person knows what I like and how much I like it.
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:03 AM
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What is your niche? For example, I love politics, philosophy, psychology, economics and gym. So my hobbies are mostly reading. If I wanna get better at what I already like, I just read more, that’s my case. When I say get better, is getting better at what already makes you different and better than other men. If you are good at math, then try harder for being the best at math, if you’re good in sports then try to be the best in sports, etc etc. This will not only help you get her, but will help …
/r/seduction13/01/22 08:36 AM
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Yes. Do this. Stop all communication from her. Get better at something else. Then after like 1-2 months talk to her again in a flirty way. If she once saw you as attractive or now does, she will not turn it down. The thing is there is something even more unattractive than not being tall or being fat, and that thing is neediness. When you show a girl that you need her, it’s over for her, she doesn’t see you as attractive in any possible way. Now that you messed up that part, you just need to show…
/r/seduction13/01/22 08:25 AM
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80 % looks and 20 % attitude I’d say. Most men are that way. In my case the women that I have fell in love with do not fall into what I consider the best of the best in looks for me (in some point I have considered them ugly or unattractive to me, but later realized that they are just ok in looks). Somehow these women have more time in my mind than the type of women that I do like physically, it could be the case for him as well.
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:57 AM
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This.
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:41 PM
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Completely true. Being a ’10’ also includes a lot of personality and things that our eyes can’t see. A girl that is a 10 will be a 10 in every area.
/r/seduction06/01/22 03:32 PM
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Wow. Y’all commenting here don’t know shit. They don’t even understand how women are attracted to men. The most recurring mistake men make is thinking that women are attracted to men the same way as we are attracted to them (physical appearance). I stopped caring about if I’m tall enough (5’6 and I’m 16), if I’m good looking enough (women have told me I’m cute but it’s not like I’m being chased by all of them), if I’m in good shape (honestly I’m average, since I have been putting some work on th…
/r/seduction06/01/22 02:52 PM
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Change your attitude towards her. You probably are acting like one of her girlfriends by not showing enough masculinity and building sexual tension. I was once friendzoned by a girl that was attracted to me because she thought I wasn’t attracted to her and then she moved on with another guy. Show your masculinity, show that you like her, be sexual, if she truly sees you as a friend she will turn it down pretty quickly.
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:30 AM
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Broooo should have known this before. I was flirting with this girl I really like in school but now we got to our Christmas break and I cant see her, I didn’t escalate things and now maybe she lost interest.
/r/seduction22/12/21 09:08 PM
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