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| 3 | How to get out of the friendzone?Don’t be with a chick who doesn’t see you as a man and has no sexual attraction to you in the beginning.. | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 10:47 PM |
| 11 | how does severely autistic pick up chicks at the clubAlso if you’re going to be friends with women, actually be friends don’t try to use friendship to eventually lead to dating. If she wants you she will be forward about it and won’t want to be just friends.. do not buy them gifts under any circumstance ever, even if it’s their birthday or whatever. Don’t go out for dinner with you and her, and if you do, split the bill. | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 07:37 PM |
| 6 | Why do girls like cookie cutter personalities so much?Op thinks everyone is a NPC except for him. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Why am I getting dumped after one date?Are you good at making friends in general and adding new people to your social circle? | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Friend's ex wife is crazy for meThis is what happens to guys who have never and will never rejected a woman. Value yourself enough to just simply say “I appreciate it but I’m not interested” and leave it at that. The women that you do want will notice this and value you more. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 02:14 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean when she says "I don't want to ruin our friendship"I told a girl that I’m interested in her and no longer interested in being friends and stopped talking to her. (We ended up dating). I wasn’t even playing a game or trying to manipulate her, i actually meant it. I genuinely didn’t want to be her friend, see her with other guys, get treated like a eunuch. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Met a beautiful blond last night - ideas on how to open text?Whatever you say, she’s going to tell her 3 closest friends. Try to say something normal like “hey how’s it going” If she likes you, she’ll just be excited that you messaged her. | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 11:45 PM |
| 17 | How to get girls at college without playing sports?Join a school club. If you’re the type who makes friends easily your chances will go up with the more social interactions you have. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 08:57 PM |
| 2 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?90% of women are attracted to 10% of guys. This community is about putting yourself in that 10% by building confidence, looking better, dressing better, eliminating social awkwardness, and displaying value. Once you’re in that 10% I can guarantee it won’t be hard to get. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:11 PM |
| 2 | How can I learn to talk to women?Get a job or volunteer somewhere that you’ll have lots of interaction with people. Once you get comfortable talking to people you don’t know you won’t care whether chicks are hot or not when it comes to conversation. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?Of course they do! When you have that affect on them you will Slay. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 10:46 PM |
| 0 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?It’s a sign of inferiority. people also tend to get nervous when they’re being insincere or have nefarious intentions. So not only is it unattractive but also a red flag. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | genuine question but how do you personally treat women you’re not attracted to?You can be nice to them and attractive to them even if you’re not interested in them. It’s not leading them on unless you go too far like exchanging numbers and talking dirty etc. plus if you have a lot of women interested in you it’s a really good thing that will help you get noticed. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says she's free a certain day but is sick and will let you know later, is that a no?The ball is in her court now. If she’s interested she’ll reach out to reschedule. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:24 AM |
| 116 | How to tell a girl I've been friends with for years that I like them?Unless she’s making it obvious that she likes you too, it’s a waste of time. Try dating or talking about other girls in front of her and if she gets jealous you can ask her if she likes you. If she’s happy for you then move on, maybe you need a break from your friend if you’re falling into a one sided secret romance aka the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 11:04 AM |
| 1 | So she can ask about my height but I can’t ask about her weight?There’s nothing wrong with having a preferred body type. Weight isn’t a good indicator of body type unless you also know her height. If there aren’t any full body pics on her profile you can just say your only into women with a fit body type. Some women are into fitness and actually happy to talk about it. Some think guys should ONLY be attracted to personality, other women understand reality. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Has it ever worked for you if you asked a girl directly to come over for Sex?Ya if they’re interested. If they say no, it’s not necessarily game over. There’s nothing wrong with stating your intentions. Sometimes they hold off because they’re not interested in casual sex or getting FWB-Zoned. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 12:34 PM |
| 0 | How can an average female date an attractive male? Someone “out of my league”?Career is a big factor that success/goal driven guys consider when looking for a long term partner. A woman with a solid career is more rare than a cute face and a bubble butt because Obviously if both partners are good earners it means a bigger house, car, etc. rather than him having to support a dependant who was once hot. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | is it not possible to pick up women if i don't drink alcohol?Lots of fun people don’t drink. You can still go out. If anyone questions you on it just laugh and say “they say it’s not good for you” | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 08:43 PM |
| 2 | drunken phone numbersRight off the bat your telling her you’re an excessive drinker with no criteria when it comes to women (since you’re essentially cold calling strangers). Your game will be better if you go out and literally have A drink. Everyone thinks they’re the life of the party when they’re drunk but they’re always a little bit annoying and unpredictable in a bad way. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 12:54 PM |
| 12 | Why do girls keep going to the toxic guy who ruins their mental health but not the one who is willing to take care of them?It says he cares for her like a queen, drives miles to get her breakfast. This is kind of cringe. If you ask any woman to describe their dream man it doesn’t entail him being a personal assistant and if it did thats a red flag. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 01:51 PM |
| 14 | Why do girls keep going to the toxic guy who ruins their mental health but not the one who is willing to take care of them?She says it herself she wants to love more than she wants to be loved. The UK guy is trying to win her over by showing her how much he loves her when that’s not an attractive feature to her or most other women. You can’t make one specific woman want you by worshipping her. Your best bet is to put that energy into improving yourself and hope she notices. If she doesn’t the. Someone else will and you’ll be just as happy trust me. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 01:48 PM |
| 64 | Why do girls keep going to the toxic guy who ruins their mental health but not the one who is willing to take care of them?Most girls are interested in a fun, attractive guy, has a lot going for himself, good social circle, hobbies, passions and personal goals. They’re not looking for a caregiver/shoulder to cry on/personal servant guy who wants to worship her and make her the center of his universe. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls come back to my place but leave instantly?Shoot one of them a text and just say “hey I’m not looking for anything at this point but I was just looking for some feedback on what made you want to leave since it’s been a recurring thing in my dating life. If she’s willing to be honest and as much as it hurts just say “thanks so much!” and leave it at that. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 12:34 PM |
| 18 | How do you guys deal with womens fuckery?Master the art of not giving a fuck. Just shrug and genuinely say okay cool, smile, and go back to what you were doing. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 10:48 PM |
| 3 | I think I know why *some* women ghost randomly even if it seems like you’re both enjoying yourselves.Or she started getting serious with one guy and severed contact with the rest. Having a great time together doesn’t guarantee future dates. The heart wants what the heart wants. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Fuck buddy acting crazyShe sounds like a normal person. Most women and men have a certain amount of jealousy and insecurity that only their partners see. Fuck buddies doesn’t really work long term and if you haven’t clearly defined your relationship than it’s going to get messy. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | My friend said I should treat women harsher…?Nice is a basic prerequisite not a selling feature. As a general rule All guys who attract women are nice otherwise they’d be alone. Women aren’t looking for guys who are “extra nice” and they’re not looking for servants who say and do everything they want to hear. Just be authentic, interested and interesting. If she’s hot She knows you like her, you don’t have to say it. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold?I got an unexpected message from a chick that said “I Fucking miss you” while I was showing my GF something Else on my phone. I pretty much had to block her lol. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 12:22 PM |
| 0 | There Is NO Such Thing as A Busy WomanIf they’re interested but busy they’ll look forward to reading and replying to your texts when they have a chance. If you don’t get a text back they do not care and you shouldn’t text again ever. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 03:44 AM |
| 6 | The Best Thing to Do for Your Dating Life is Probably Leave This Subreddit (An Oxymoronic Guide)I think money would be better spent on a therapist than a dating coach for guys who believe they need to change themselves in order to attract someone. The truth of the matter is that you probably do have to change yourself but it involves being true to the real you and not playing a character that your not. | /r/seduction | 30/12/20 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Getting a woman pregnantOnce you have a kid you usually really like it. Not defending the chick for lying about the pill at all but to say she wasted his life is a bit harsh. He probably works really hard because he absolutely loves that kid. | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 02:17 AM |
| 4 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongWhen someone breaks up with you it means they don’t want to be with you. If they gave you a reason just look at it as a Yelp review. You can decide whether to work on yourself for future partners or stay the same and find someone who likes those traits. Your wasting your time trying to prove your ex wrong. | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Am I too skinny for 6ft tall male? Get stared down oftenYou’re describing a feeing of inferiority to other men. you need to work on yourself from within. It has nothing to do with your build or the shape of your legs. Work out a bit, dress properly and get some alpha male role models and next thing you know you’ll be making the betas post stupid pictures of themselves in their underwear asking why they feel like pussies. | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Where and how do you meet women after a breakup ?Same here. If your smart and eventually quit drinking it changes all of your relationships, the good ones get better and the bad ones go away. I’ve been in relationships where drinking is the “thing we had in common”. I wouldn’t recommend it. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 11:33 AM |
| 108 | “Woman falls in love with you for everything that you are, she spends the relationship trying to change you into everything that you’re not. If she succeeds she will dump you for a guy who is what you were when she met you.” -Dante NeroSome guys will neglect their hobbies, sports, friends, careers, and even ditch their sense of humour when they fall hard for a woman. Once they essentially become a lap dog it not surprise they lose interest. It’s not necessarily the woman who changed him although toxic partners do exist. | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 06:09 PM |
| 2 | First date coming up and she wants to chill at her place...Decide on a movie before you go. Otherwise it’s going to be a good 45 mins to an hour and a half trying to find something on Netflix | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 11:13 PM |
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