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joforedditin/r/seduction24/07/10 03:06 AM
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I'll tell you like my daddy told me when I was 4-years old and he caught me playing doctor with this ugly, fat, neighbor girl: He sat me down and said, "Son, pussy's pussy. Salt's salt. If you don't get none, it's your own damn fault. But don't let people catch you with her!" Then he spanked my ass with an extension cord.
/r/seduction02/09/10 07:48 PM
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I just tried it on the elevator in my office building. Maybe next time I should pick something better to observe than, "Got Damn! It smells like shit in here!"
/r/seduction02/09/10 07:29 PM
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And when I say "point at your crotch", I mean let your fingers lie naturally according to the cut of your pocket and hand physiology. They'll point in the right direction. Don't purposefully point at your crotch unless you're in a strip club and want a lap dance.
/r/seduction17/08/10 03:38 PM
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Hook your thumbs in your pockets, letting your fingers point at your crotch. When you're talking and want to gesture, do so, then right back to the hooks. I usually only hook one hand when actively talking to someone. But if I'm standing in dance class listening to the instructor or in line somewhere, this is my default hand position. It's a very strong, very sexual position. Sometimes if I want to tone it down, like at my boss' desk, I'll stick my fingers in my pockets with my thumbs hooked out…
/r/seduction17/08/10 03:36 PM
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Cue up Charlie Daniels' "The Devil Went Down to Georgia". Substitute these lyrics (Sorry for the ads...damn lyric sites) I love doing this because it's funny, you don't really have to sing, and it's always a crowd-pleaser. At least in the states...it might not play so well down under. It might also help that I'm a black guy so when the country music starts, people are like, "WTF?"...then it all makes sense.
/r/seduction17/08/10 02:52 PM
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First of all, we're not here to coddle lazy chickenshits. Second of all, I did help him out. He needs to move the fuck on and stop wasting time and brain-cycles over this chick. It's a dead-end.
/r/seduction13/08/10 03:14 PM
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Lately: dropping off/picking up my mutt from doggy daycare.
/r/seduction11/08/10 09:11 PM
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Bah. I think it was Magic Bullets where Savoy says the basic rule of the tab is "don't let it create an awkwardness". I usually just pay when the check comes without saying anything. If they offer to pay (which they almost always do, since I'm good at selecting decent chicks), I decline with "you can pay for drinks/ice cream/whatever the hell else is next on the agenda". If they insist a second time (it happens), then I let them pay. The important thing is that my demeanor the whole time is that…
/r/seduction09/08/10 06:30 PM
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Oh shit. This is a txt. Nevermind the above, although I stand by it for verbal conversation. For txt... just say, "Hustlin" or some shit.
/r/seduction09/08/10 03:40 PM
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Don't give a boring, "Pretty good", or even, "It was awesome!" response. It doesn't lead the conversation anywhere and puts the onus back on her to pull teeth to make convo. You should be in the driver's seat. Tell a story. "It was awesome; I got to be the hero with this big project we're wrapping up...blah blah blah". Even if it wasn't an awesome day, you can still make it into a fun and interesting story, "It was OK but had to lay the smackdown on some sucker in the Kroger parking lot on the w…
/r/seduction09/08/10 03:38 PM
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If you're sure this chick has true contempt for you, you have zero chance. Contempt is one of the most difficult negative emotions to get past. You can be a disgusting slob and make a comeback. You can piss a chick off so bad she wants your balls in a jar and make a comeback. But once she has contempt for you, stick a fork in your ass 'cause you're done. There have been studies (sorry, no citations) where newlyweds were interviewed together and separately. They were monitored for micro-expressio…
/r/seduction05/08/10 09:36 PM
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Have you thought that maybe there's something else those guys have/do/are that is attracting the girls but you can't see it because you're caught up in their bling? And if it truly is the cheesy shit they're attracted to, is that really the kind of chick you're interested in? I mean, if it is, rock on; I ain't gonna hate! I just tend to like chicks with more on the ball than, "Ooh, shiny!"
/r/seduction05/08/10 06:48 PM
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I know what you're saying and strong inner game should always be the goal. But you can't just say, "I'm going to BE an alpha!" and walk out the door and do it. Inner game is a skill like any other and needs to be honed like any other and one path that leads to skills development is doing until you become. Think of it like playing the guitar. One day, you see Prince shred a solo and say, "I want to fucking play like Prince!". Well, you don't just buy a guitar and be a badass guitar soloist, no ma…
/r/seduction05/08/10 03:53 PM
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Nice, but I think it's still a long-shot. If she even remembers, she'll probably be embarrassed about it. If she doesn't remember, then she'll really be wondering, "Oh hell, who the hell is this and what the hell did we do?" But I've got nothing better so I say go with this and good luck!
/r/seduction05/08/10 01:46 PM
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I can't ice skate though :o Perfect opportunity for kino.
/r/seduction03/08/10 06:11 PM
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I drive a souped-up '67 Ford Fairlane with no A/C, only the original AM radio, and loud-as-hell 40-series flowmasters on it. All chicks pretty much hate riding in it. I don't care.
/r/seduction02/08/10 03:20 PM
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Aww shit. I thought you meant you were going bowling with a chick! Man, just open some sets and have fun.
/r/seduction31/07/10 09:13 PM
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Some more info on your history with this "friend" might get better tips.
/r/seduction31/07/10 08:26 PM
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Keep reading. Later in the book, he lays out a pretty decent case against lying to women.
/r/seduction31/07/10 08:10 PM
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Same here. I've got a friend who wants, and has tried, to be a pivot for me. She's about an HB8 cute asian chick and she's a pediatrician, so she's high-value. We've gone daygame sarging before at bookstores and coffeeshops and such, but it's just always kinda "off". It's like she somehow makes it seem like I'm desperate or that she's trying to pawn me off onto chicks or something. Basically, she kind of "leaks" that we're out sarging instead of that we're just two friends hanging out. But I don…
/r/seduction31/07/10 03:49 PM
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The first thing that comes to mind for me is your belly-button. My friends made fun of me when I first told them about the BB but when some of them tried playing with it, they were shocked at the results. Basically, pointing your BB at someone builds rapport, pointing it away breaks it. Towards says, "you're important; I like you; I care about what you have to say". Away says, "you're not important to me; I could care less about you; I don't care for what you're saying". (Assuming the rest of yo…
/r/seduction31/07/10 03:10 PM
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Good stuff, man, Congrats! just be careful with the wife, though. If she sees herself as a 6, as you say, she might get real insecure if you're suddenly an 8-9. But still, thanks for the motivation :-) I might have to check out this Blueprint stuff, after all. I think my body language is pretty solid, lately, but we can always find things to improve.
/r/seduction30/07/10 08:55 PM
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Yeah, I know what you meant. Hence my reply. There isn't, at least for me, a definable moment in time where the "give a fuck" switch clicks off and if there is, by definition, you won't notice it when it happens because you won't be giving a fuck about that shit. You'll just be reflecting one night about your sarging and realize, "Wow, I didn't give a fuck!" Also, it's not like you're going to hit a point when you don't care about the outcome. It's a process. You'll have sets where you're in the…
/r/seduction30/07/10 08:07 PM
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It really doesn't matter, dude. Even thinking about that is just a mental block waiting to trip you up. There are a bazillion reasons any given woman might not be interested in you. So what? This is the best advice regarding this you'll ever see: shitmydadsays No matter if you're a short, fat, balding Asian guy with a patch-eye and a wooden leg, you've just got to limp up to every chick like all she's going to see are the good qualities you know you have.
/r/seduction30/07/10 04:26 PM
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When I quit giving a fuck, numbnuts. What the hell kind of question is this? OK, for me, it comes and goes. Sometimes, I'm rolling along like a goddamn steam-roller mowing down sets (in a good way) with reckless abandon and not giving a fuck for weeks at a time. Then something will happen (usually when I start really liking a chick or something) and I start getting all self-conscious again, worrying about silly shit, and not just silly shit with the girl, but even completely unrelated random chi…
/r/seduction30/07/10 04:18 PM
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Also, trying to run together is risky. If you can't keep up, you'll just wind up a funny story for her girlfriends later.
/r/seduction29/07/10 03:51 PM
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This is actually the best way. Most places like this seem to have a few common "starting points", whether they are parking lots, entrances to a trail near condos/apartments, or simply where it might intersect a street. Try to catch them here before/after their run. Once they're in the middle of their workout, you're just going to annoy people if you interrupt them mid-workout. I know I freaking hate it when people interrupt me and I don't care how hot they are.
/r/seduction29/07/10 03:50 PM
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I've been playing with asking as few questions as I can when talking to women, lately. It's something i was focusing on for improv and like many things improv, it carried over. Anyway... Don't ask her, tell her. "I bet if your life was turned into a movie, it would be rated PG. Maybe PG-13, at best!". Now, if she's at all attracted to you, she's going to start asking you questions, "Why do you say that?" and/or she'll start qualifying herself to you, "No way, I'd be rated-R". If she's not attrac…
/r/seduction28/07/10 07:31 PM
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Dude, you're getting beat the fuck down! This shit's painful to read.
/r/seduction28/07/10 07:16 PM
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So let me get this straight...you never bothered to read any PUA material, probably looking down on those who did as lame or immature or whatever. Yet, when you've clearly blown it by failing to observe even very basic principles of PUA, you come running to ol' seddit for help? Fair enough. My advice: hit eject and move on. You're not hittin that anytime soon.
/r/seduction27/07/10 09:54 PM
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I like to yell out, "Oh Shit!" and just run off.
/r/seduction27/07/10 05:30 PM
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I actually think, "I know something you don't know" or "don't you wish you knew?", when I practice my smile.
/r/seduction25/07/10 09:34 PM
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Yeah, I'm actually thinking about going that route! But I'm cautious because the girl is very conservative (a librarian, no doubt...I love the nerdy girls!) and I'm already wary of over-gaming her. I have a pretty strong, dynamic personality and I worry about being "too much" sometimes if you can't tell. I neg'd on her at a dance workshop last weekend (about her "freakishly long ring finger" (or was it her thumb? bah...) and she reacted not playfully but like she was actually worried that her ha…
/r/seduction24/07/10 04:58 AM
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Yeah, drop the whole chick thing for a while, go take an 8wk class in something social like dancing or tennis or improv or cooking or guitar or whatever you're interested in. Just make sure it's social (as opposed to some lecture-type class) and focus on learning and having fun. Don't even think about gaming anyone in the class. Continue your game outside of class or not, but that one night a week is your no-pressure, have-fun, improve-myself oasis, no matter what.
/r/seduction24/07/10 02:45 AM
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As a dancer, that is actually really good damn advice! Except I think of it as "Boom, crack!" instead of "Boom, chick". Otherwise, pretty solid.
/r/seduction23/07/10 04:50 PM
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Man, women got hit on all the damn time even before PUA hit the scenes. Personally, I'd rather meet tons of women who have been hit on by PUAs than a few chump betas. My reasoning is this: When initially meeting a woman, she initially assigns you about the same value as other guys who have hit on her in the same situation. So if a girl's been hit on by 10 betas in her local sbux in the last year, then when I approach her, she's going to immediately assume, "Oh god, here comes another freaking lo…
/r/seduction23/07/10 01:44 PM
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I thought this was going to be a joke about getting liquored up to overcome AA, which is funny on many levels. But since it's not, I'll play along and see what you've got. I met a chick last weekend at an event. It was a dance workshop so although we chatted quite a bit in class, I couldn't really ask for her number because I didn't have my phone or anything to write with and my memory's not that good. After the workshop, I was changing my shoes when I looked up and saw her leave from across the…
/r/seduction22/07/10 09:01 PM
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The thing with transitions is that they're not needed in normal conversation. They're used to transition from your opener, which usually isn't a good topic for a sustainable, attraction-building conversation, to normal conversation. Sure, once you're in normal conversation, jump around all you want. But to try and jump from most openers to a normal conversation can be awkward and also tip the girl off that you're attracted to her before you've had a chance to get her attracted to you. Your littl…
/r/seduction22/07/10 08:42 PM
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I tried it on a first date, once, and it was a disaster! How it went down was that I'd initiated asking her out by txting her, "How do you feel about nudity on the first date?" which set off a playful exchange then I called and asked her out to a burlesque show that a friend was in. She was down. I pick her up on date-night and everything's going good. We get to the place and get our seats then I turn to her and say, "Now don't go getting all hot and bothered because I don't put out on the first…
/r/seduction21/07/10 03:56 PM
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I concur. Just keep making sure the time she spends with you is Fun Time and it'll all workout. Who cares what she does when she's not with you? Let the other chump she's screwing mess it up by asking about exclusivity. You don't need to worry about it until you're hittin' it raw.
/r/seduction21/07/10 03:44 PM
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No problem! One other thing, Women often go to these in pairs with a friend so you might have to deal with her friend at the bar, as well. If you don't have a wingman going with you, then get to the place a little early and make one! Find a guy who seems pretty high-status and befriend him. (Guys are easy to talk to. Work, cars, gadgets...all the same crap we like!) Just don't pick one of the loserish guys who'll also be there. It's better to be alone than be seen hanging with a dork. Also, the …
/r/seduction20/07/10 02:42 PM
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Biggest advice I can give: Don't leave it up to the girl to choose you. If you like her, you need to get contact info off of her that night. If you like a chick, then when she's getting up to move on, say something like, "Hey, stick around after this is over so we can chat a bit more." If she sticks around, hangout at the bar for one drink and build some attraction. If things are going well after that drink, try for a venue-change. "Hey, let's head to the bar next door because the [music/vibe/dr…
/r/seduction20/07/10 01:27 PM
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Which reminds me, does anyone know why this book isn't available as in ebook in the United States? Amazon page
/r/seduction19/07/10 04:20 PM
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Oh yeah, I forgot to mention the time the class went out for drinks after class. A few of us decided to try talking to women while playing "buzzer". Basically, you approach and another person (one of the women in our group LOVED being the freaking buzzer) listens in and buzzes you whenever that want you to change the last thing you just said. Preferably, the chick can't hear the buzzer. i.e: Her: So what do you do? Me: I'm an engineer (I'd normally never admit that at first but I knew things wer…
/r/seduction19/07/10 02:45 PM
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Dude, you'll love it! I just finished the level-1 class at a theatre here in Atlanta. For our graduation, we opened for that main show on a Friday night. Now that was scary as hell, but the teacher took care of us, only put us in the kinds of scenes/games each of us were good at, and we got big laughs. I'm already signed up for level-2!
/r/seduction19/07/10 02:35 PM
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I was extremely skeptical of NLP until I became friends with a guy who makes his living as a mentalist. He said a huge part of his act is using NLP to force outcomes. I was still skeptical. Then I went to one of his shows. Mind. Blown. That said, I'm still not messing with NLP because I don't want to take the time to devote to learning to apply it correctly. I'd rather go out and have fun.
/r/seduction16/07/10 08:09 PM
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I don't give a crap about votes but how about some constructive criticism on what you disagree with. I'm actually kind of shocked to see so many people agreeing with the "play it like a chick would and tell her about it." To me, that's pure AFC crap that is going to get you sucked into the friend-zone. Hell, you're basically telling the guy to act like one of her girlfriends, which is a sure-fire recipe for disaster.
/r/seduction16/07/10 03:45 PM
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I do it sometimes to be goofy, like I'll grab her hand and start skipping through a parking lot or down the sidewalk. Or sometimes, if it's a "romantic" moment but someplace you can't really makeout, I'll hold her hand for a bit, but not so long the shit gets all sweaty and crap. Gross.
/r/seduction16/07/10 02:44 PM
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Seems like a lame game to me now, but it's one I used to play. Mainly, don't give him any value: don't laugh at his jokes, don't spek to him unless spoken to first and then, keep it short and act like whatever he has to say is beneath you and boring. Physically cut him off from the girl every chance you get. i.e.: If the three of you are at the bar, stand between them and slightly turn your back to him and act like it's just the two of you. When you leave and come back (don't stand next to her A…
/r/seduction15/07/10 05:45 PM
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I'm down, give me the details.
/r/seduction15/07/10 01:31 PM
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As my body language and room-presence has improved, I sometimes feel sorry for AFCs around me when I feel them being submissive to my alpha treatment, remembering how I used to feel. I often think about toning it down, and then realize that's a bitch move. They've got access to the same resources I do and if the choose to not avail themselves of it, that's not my freakin problem.
/r/seduction15/07/10 01:25 PM
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Check out the Love Systems routines manual. Don't try to memorize all that shit or you'll go blind. Just pick a couple of openers and transitions that work well with them and use them on every set you talk to. You'll probably still get blown out often at first, but don't worry. The good thing is you'll be on the way to fixing the real part of your game. Because what you say really isn't as important as how you present it. By using canned routines that is known good material, you can focus on the…
/r/seduction06/06/10 05:13 PM
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Hah, I just decided to try out "fishgirl" on a chick in my social circle I've been flirting with. She's been out of town two of the last three weeks and I've been worried about letting the line go slack, as well. She's out of town right now and I just txted her: "Hey fishgirl, when are you getting back in town" "What the hell? Fishgirl?" "Oh, you didn't know we called you that? Oops, my bad. Anyway, you still going to XYZ on Sunday?" "Who calls me fishgirl? I'm still planning on it." "Cool, see …
/r/seduction29/05/10 01:16 AM
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Dude, does it matter? People get into PUA stuff because they are not having the success they want with women. If, directly or indirectly, they begin to achieve success with women due to learning these techniques, then mission a-freakin-complished. It really doesn't matter whether the success is because the technique is absolutely foolproof and works every time on every chick (which is obviously BS) or whether the techniques are completely worthless and the guy just has more confidence because he…
/r/seduction26/05/10 08:12 PM
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That's cool, I'm not the jealous type.
/r/seduction16/05/10 07:31 PM
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According to the popular literature, and as has been my experience, if you just met her in a bar and have only been in that one bar with her, fat chance unless she is really hot for you and very forward. In rough sketch form: You need to do a venue change, first of all. "Hey, I'm going to the bar next door for XYZ reason. Come check it out with me." Now later when you make the move to get back to her place, you're no longer some random guy from a bar. You're a guy she's hung out with before; You…
/r/seduction14/05/10 01:57 PM
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If she's by herself, I can tell you how she looks. That's about it. If she's in a group, after a few seconds, I can tell you her status within the group and possibly who she attracted to or allied with. But even that doesn't tell me much about HER as pertains to ME. She could be signaling low status because she's with her boss but normally she's a raging, stuck-up b*tch, for example. I generally don't put much stock into interpreting a person's body language until I can baseline them talking to …
/r/seduction14/05/10 01:33 PM
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"So what's new and good?" I only use this type of question with people I've talked to before and I usually bust it out after the initial "Hey, what's up?" crap that seems to go down at the beginning of each conversation. It's a great way to get launched into a conversation because most people will come up with something, even if it's trivial like, "I finally finished this book I've been reading for forever!" (Actually gotten that one before) Whatever they say can be used to springboard into a th…
/r/seduction14/05/10 01:20 PM
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