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20

"Hey, i'm pretty new in town, can you show me around?"
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:32 AM
4

Yeah. He's carrying a 6'2 chip on his shoulder.
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:21 PM
45

5'7 nerd here. Never had a problem getting dates when I wanted it. Married now though
/r/seduction28/08/21 10:46 PM
6

A 19 year old single mom asked you out? That's a whole can of worms (not judging the woman, but there's a lot of baggage in a situation like that).
/r/seduction16/05/21 07:08 PM
1

Must be a monster. My 90lb loaf doesn't do that to my leg
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/21 05:42 AM
1

Put your hand at the top of your head like you're measuring height and say "this tall"
/r/seduction24/04/21 05:26 AM
3

It could also mean her kid.
/r/seduction10/04/21 05:07 PM
1

Guys get rejected a lot. It happens. Props on you for approaching at all though, that's pretty rare. Don't give up :)
/r/seduction22/03/21 02:03 PM
2

If you aren't a natural charmer do some youtubing about why people like Keanu reeves so much.
/r/seduction07/11/19 10:43 PM
1

I would think there's also something about that probably stopped more dates. I've known picky women, but 0.2% of matches ending in dates, she's either looking to marry Brad Pitt or there's a point in time where guys know she's just stringing them along and have given up.
/r/seduction16/07/19 10:15 AM
3

This ^ "I had a fun time too and I wish you the best, but I'm not really looking for friendship right now."
/r/seduction12/07/19 01:59 PM
2

Be straightforward. Trying to hide the fact you're interested in him will end badly (you'll resent him for not being interested or he'll resent you for hiding intentions). I can't guarantee the results will turn out great either way, but you're looking at worse outcomes by hiding it.
/r/seduction03/06/19 12:18 PM
2

How about you don't shit test him and ask him? If I were in the guy's shoes and was interested in you.. If you acted like that I'd drop you
/r/seduction30/05/19 04:32 PM
3

Send a message saying: hey have fun! I'd love to hear about it when you come back. You put no pressure to respond to your texts, and if she's interested she might contact you during the trip. If she's not interested, no harm
/r/seduction27/05/19 04:50 PM
11

I've known flirty girls who have boyfriends. They'll give hugs, occasionally sit on lap (legs closed) and some time nuzzle in for a side cuddle. But the moment anything moves toward sexual, they stop. She isn't flirty. She's a monkey (she won't let go of one branch until she has firm grip on another... And she will do it to you too)
/r/seduction28/04/19 03:19 PM
3

You're wondering what the catch is... Been there.
/r/seduction09/04/19 10:13 AM
1

It's a little bit... Too immaturely expressed, but accurate.
/r/seduction09/04/19 10:12 AM
1

Though our advice is probably still better than what women offer...
/r/seduction09/04/19 10:09 AM
1

Then go nuts.
/r/seduction04/04/19 09:29 PM
1

Don't eat where you shit... Just remember that.
/r/seduction04/04/19 09:17 PM
1

Tap him on a shoulder, walk around the direction he doesn't turn from and keep up chatting the girl. Making a scene gives him power, redirecting and ignoring gives you the power
/r/seduction02/04/19 11:58 AM
5

Pick up artist
/r/seduction06/02/19 08:52 PM
21

Reading is awesome. Also some people have open or poly relationships. Plus some seduction stuff is just good people advise. I don't follow PUA stuff, but there's Charisma and charm to be learned here.
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:47 PM
9

My wife asked me out on a date.
/r/seduction06/02/19 05:33 PM
1

Use your words. "hey do you want to go on a date?" "hey, I think you're good looking, want to get coffee?" It's pretty simple. Just put yourself out there.
/r/seduction17/01/19 06:03 PM
2

Make a move after the class is over.
/r/seduction16/10/18 11:35 AM
1

Nope. Not believable. That's a bad lie. If you weren't interested just say that.
/r/seduction05/09/18 01:22 PM
5

This. I've probably missed a bunch of subtle flirting because I was to lazy to figure out if they were actually doing it or not. It's Not worth the effort if someone can't be blunt about it.
/r/seduction23/08/18 11:57 AM
2

Confidence and faking it til you make it. Also move from being the one making fun of themselves (i.e dressing up, doing stupid things) to making fun with themselves (crack jokes at situations, occasionally yourself, or people's things around them)
/r/seduction03/08/18 04:35 PM
4

or assume guys are there just to entertain her. There's a good subset of attractive women that 100% believe their only job in a relationship is to sit there and look pretty.
/r/seduction26/07/18 02:58 PM
3

"Hot off the forge, that ring will still be toasty when you slide it on, just like your marriage"
/r/seduction25/07/18 05:25 PM
2

Depends on how good of a kisser you are.
/r/seduction20/07/18 07:44 PM
4

Cinder for Christians... now that's interesting
/r/seduction19/07/18 03:21 PM
1

No. Not at all, many guys hate the chase and the game that goes along with it.
/r/seduction25/06/18 08:33 PM
22

Married the last person who did that to me. You tell me.
/r/seduction14/05/18 01:15 PM
0

I'm 31, I remember a couple girls in grade 8 being able to walk into bars without anyone thinking that they're underage. Just seems normal to me :P
/r/seduction02/03/18 12:26 PM
2

If you're being Dom, do it. Tell him you're disappointed and force him to do something about it.
/r/seduction06/05/17 12:15 PM
2

This is why with online dating I always find a way of asking a thought provoking if odd question to open. Works quite well. I ask things like: "if you had to have your life publicly narrated would you prefer Oprah or David Attenborough to narrate?" Or "if you had a magic button that could cause someone to do/feel something, what would it be and who would you direct it at?" Works well with my personality, I'm a good and enjoy random conversation
/r/seduction28/02/17 01:20 PM
2

Chris Hemsworth with glasses.
/r/seduction18/12/16 12:58 PM
2

R/loseit is a very positive place
/r/seduction04/12/16 11:31 PM
20

Core principle 5: always go over the top in your efforts.
/r/seduction03/12/16 02:05 PM
1

IT works when you're in high school, but just straight up ask her.
/r/seduction30/09/16 08:55 AM
19

That they're ugly and stupid and to get back in the kitchen to make you another sandwich before they earn another black eye. Joking. If they were smart, then they wouldn't have had 1 black eye in the first place. I'll see myself to hell now
/r/seduction28/09/16 06:36 PM
20

awesome job man. Though word to the wise, there's an old adage "tell a beautiful girl she's smart, and a smart girl she's beautiful, and they'll be yours forever" She gets complemented EVERY day, multiple times a day on how attractive she is. Complement her somewhere else, choose her shirt and tell her that she's got great taste in fashion, pick her phone and tell her she knows about technology.
/r/seduction28/09/16 12:57 AM
1

Step 2: don't be unattractive
/r/seduction23/09/16 11:14 AM
4

Most dog owners will either consciously or unconsciously see what their dog thinks of a person they've brought over, if the dog doesn't like them, they're less likely to like them as well. It was a smart move.
/r/seduction14/07/16 12:38 PM
1

Oh, I'd definitely be down for trying it... My wife.. Not so much lol. So I'll take the vicarious experiences for now lol
/r/seduction14/07/16 12:08 PM
1

I'm curious about the mechanics, which positions are the most difficult?
/r/seduction14/07/16 12:55 AM
2

Exact same boat for me. I'd definitely be down (or is it up?) to try it.
/r/seduction14/07/16 12:54 AM
4

That's why I suggested it the way I did. The other dude can say what he wants without feeling pressured.
/r/seduction09/07/16 04:55 PM
21

Don't ask him. That would imply you are desiring that. I would suggest saying something like "hey dude, your exy McExerson is trying to date me, what do?" and let him tell you what he thinks. If he's cool with it, he'll say something like "go dick punch her right in the pussy" and if he's not, he'll say something like "if you date her, I'll punch you in the pussy, dick ." then go out for some nachos and beer and maybe some whale watching.
/r/seduction09/07/16 03:20 PM
2

rule 34 man, if it exists, there's a porn made of it, and it's probably linked somewhere on fetlife.
/r/seduction08/07/16 05:55 PM
2

fetlife.com check it out, it's a fetish and sexual interest website, i'm 29, and currently being chased after by a 37 year old and a 52 year old, both of which i met off that site.
/r/seduction08/07/16 05:20 PM
1

Not everyone has their phone on their hips. Remember, the older generations are much less technology dependant as us.
/r/seduction13/06/16 12:03 PM
3

My wife isn't classically beautiful. Not saying she's ugly. But I appreciate her for who she is, what she brings to our relationship and everything she does for me. I've dated some very attractive women in the past, so I learned that while physical beauty is nice to show off, people honestly are much more likely to get jealous over what she can bring to the relationship. Value the women you are with based on actions, and you'll find you'll make much stronger connections to them.
/r/seduction03/06/16 12:43 PM
2

I laughed. I cried. I laughed so hard I cried. GET THIS MAN AN OSCAR
/r/seduction27/04/16 04:30 AM
3

1) Tourist attractions, if you've got a few hours to kill every day, you could go to places like the smithsonian, or other major museums and galleries. You obviously won't be able to see it all, but you can take in a bit. 2) Go to a local bar and meet some locals, chat up a new person every night, make friends across the country. 3) Buy a stuffed animal, or garden gnome or something, and take pictures of the item in scenic locations. 4) Eat out at a different restaurant every time, NEVER go to b…
/r/seduction22/04/16 01:05 PM
17

Now you know how tons of guys feel.
/r/seduction01/04/16 11:12 AM
1

I'm a straight male. A few years ago I went clubbing with 4 of my best male friends. Now none of us are self conscious people.. So we did some slutty grinding on each other and generally having a good ol' time. About an hour into this, 3 drunk and attractive women pulled me away and I danced with them for the rest of the night. My advice is go to just have fun and see what happens, don't try to force the issue
/r/seduction25/02/16 01:09 PM
3

Depends very much on the mormon girl, if she's away from her community, there's a good chance that she'll sit on anything that pops up.
/r/seduction25/01/16 12:13 PM
1

5/7 it is!
/r/seduction26/12/15 01:25 PM
9

I argue against this method. Hit the hottest, and then scatter shot. Girls will realize he's going after the girls based on most attractive down, and then the ones who haven't been gone after will be upset, and the ones that have will feel devalued. Scattershot if the hottest rejects you, keep the field open.
/r/seduction18/12/15 04:07 AM
2

Honestly, I don't think you will complain, you are for a fact, stunningly beautiful. Right there that probably offputs 50% of guys. They see you and are like (she's a 9.5, she probably only goes after 10+s). Then with your resting bitch face, that'll offput even more guys, so you're probably down to 25% of the dating pool. Then add into the fact that you are black, and there's a lot of bad reaction when a white guy talks to a black girl (Even myself, in a very liberal city have noticed this, as …
/r/seduction13/10/15 06:04 PM
5

There are more things to getting a man than being physically attractive, if your personality is offsetting, most guys will just ignore you, except the occasional one and done crowd.
/r/seduction13/10/15 05:46 PM
5

Just one thing of note, cerebral palsy (at least to my knowledge, my brother has it) is a condition that starts from birth.
/r/seduction13/10/15 02:26 PM
1

lol, that's many levels worse than mine... many.
/r/seduction20/09/15 09:29 PM
5

allahu sauerkraut?
/r/seduction20/09/15 09:01 PM
8

Fuck that man, they're the most fun women. I want a woman that can challenge me, go toe to toe with my comments and force me to be on my a+++ game.
/r/seduction20/09/15 09:01 PM
2

Hone your craft anyways, never hurts to get a few softball tosses before you go for a fastball
/r/seduction14/08/15 09:25 PM
2

first thing I can recommend is not reading /r/short... it's the opposite of a self-help group. I'm 5'8 and fairly fat and I still have some game.
/r/seduction13/08/15 02:12 AM
1

There's nothing wrong with occasionally chatting up a storm. Just enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction25/06/15 09:39 PM
1

Comment on things you've noticed that seem out of place. Watch comedians with deadpan routines. What kind of tone of voice do you take? are you loud and rambunctious, or soft? or very stern with your words? Do you talk a lot? Only comment when necessary? Going from personal experience here, I'm a fairly quiet guy for the most part, though I do come out of my shell with my close friends and can talk up a storm. But in a social situation, a lot of my friends will be involved in a conversation and …
/r/seduction25/06/15 09:31 AM
1

Girls will like what they like, some like brooding and serious, some like witty and funny... you may just be going in a rut of a certain type of women. Also, if you're looking to bulk up, hit hard with proteins, and go for low weight high rep lifting. You'll fill out and get stronger. I'm assuming from the stats you listed you're a fairly lean individual (i'm jealous), so just work with what you have. Lean and muscular is also very popular with the ladies.
/r/seduction25/06/15 09:26 AM
4

I have met many people who have issues in their life that are completely unrelated to whom they're with now. There is at least an equal chance, if not a greater chance the guy really had nothing to do with it
/r/MensRights27/05/15 04:51 PM
0

This.
/r/seduction12/05/15 08:07 PM
2

What was your first date? Build upon it with a general theme. Did you do something calm and relaxing? Go to an art exhibit, or museum? Little more high octane? Go Karting or Rock climbing More competitive? Arcade or Pool Hall Throw in a nice meal (afterwards) at a relaxed and casual restaurant, and maybe a drink or two, and call it a 2nd date.
/r/seduction20/04/15 05:40 PM
5

Be careful. The first girl I made out with at a club is now my wife. It could happen to you. Follow this 30 step complicated and confusing guide and it can happen to you too!. In all seriousness good job! You had exactly what you needed.. confidence.
/r/seduction19/04/15 11:06 AM
3

/r/deadbedrooms friend, and keep yourself realistic. If she's lost her sex drive (be it just for you, or completely in general) there could be many other issues at hand. Keep all your shit in order and be careful as you might decide its worth it to just leave.
/r/seduction16/04/15 12:16 PM
1

The easiest thing you can do is start off by having a drink, and watching people dance for a song or two, then just copy them out on the floor... don't try anything too crazy, and just enjoy yourself. Most women don't care if men are horrible dancers, only that if they try. Now if the girl you like is a bit goofy, you can always start doing some of the more horrible dance moves that come to mind like "the shopping cart" or "running man" and play with that. But I would recommend being a little bi…
/r/seduction10/04/15 05:07 PM
3

One caveat to that... make sure the girl doesn't give a fuck either.. because if she does, she'll give you a strange look then walk away.
/r/seduction10/04/15 05:05 PM
4

Now I'm picturing some fool licking the condom like a stamp and then slapping it on various parts of his body (the most hilarious one to me is right below the nipple). Thank you for that laugh.
/r/seduction25/03/15 03:49 PM
1

Don't wear it on the fingers
/r/seduction25/03/15 03:44 PM
4

Just sayin, I'd be fine with Marisa Tomei.
/r/seduction08/01/15 02:39 PM
2

We were talking about a co-worker's 56 chevy (she's a car person, loves classic cars) and she said "oh my god his car is so pretty, and it sounds like it'd be a beast in bed" (but when she said the beast in bed part, she started talking like a 2 year old)
/r/seduction21/12/14 11:24 AM
1

Not quite an appearance thing, but definitely a turnoff... when a girl talks like a little child. There's this one lady I work with (i'm in my mid 20s) that's 45ish, amazing toned body, petite, great skin, looks like she could be 25, hotter than a person deserves to be, and then she baby talks like every 3rd sentence... My penis goes from erect to stabbing me in the prostate in 1 second flat.
/r/seduction21/12/14 11:14 AM
1

Then rely on things you could possibly know more about, complementary colours, matching patterns. You could say something like "your eyeshadow really emphasizes how sparkling your eyes are"
/r/seduction08/12/14 01:03 AM
1

It's more about style, it's the difference between "Your haircut makes you look hot" and " The way the bangs come down really complement your cheek bones." It goes from being something simply about how she looks to something she has much more input in and gets to choose. The difference is subtle, but I've found most women appreciate it.
/r/seduction06/12/14 11:32 PM
1

You only have the physical to work on, but you can comment on things like style, or haircut, or something that's not directly about her looks
/r/seduction06/12/14 11:25 PM
1

Usually I'll comment on something else, like what they're drinking, or something that their wearing. Or I'll talk about an event currently happening (i.e. we're at the bar and they have a sports game on, and if she's interested, I'll ask her if she's a fan of one of the teams or something)
/r/seduction06/12/14 11:23 PM
1

It also makes you seem interested only in the way a woman looks... Most women find that a turn off.
/r/seduction06/12/14 10:34 AM
1

I used to go clubbing with a group of 4-5 girls as the only guy and I would act as a cock-block for any time a girl needed it. They appreciated it and invited me out to the clubs with them for several months. I ended up marrying one of the girls I cock-blocked for... So i guess you can say that I showed some value.
/r/seduction18/10/14 11:52 AM
32

Congrats! I just got married yesterday and feel the same way :)
/r/seduction13/09/14 03:47 PM
1

I don't know about as a PHD student, but even a year or 2 after my bachelors, when i went on campus, i could get a number or two from reasonably attractive women without really trying.
/r/seduction07/09/14 08:31 PM
3

Aw come on, Lenin ride on for a little bit
/r/seduction05/09/14 09:05 AM
1

we're both engaged to other people. We've known each other when we were single and in relationships. In fact i spent the night at her place and in her bed after a bad breakup she had a few years ago, I was single at the time too. There's never been any romantic interests or sparks between us.
/r/seduction08/05/14 11:50 PM
1

I say yes, because i've done it. One of my best friends is a woman, and despite all the time we spent together, neither of us even hinted at any sort of sexual feeling towards each other. We are still great friends (she now lives 2000+km away), and will continue to be so.
/r/seduction08/05/14 08:48 PM
3

yeah, pretty much do that lol. Be straightfoward, direct, and in control of the situation.
/r/seduction29/07/12 03:41 AM
8

in a wheelchair?
/r/seduction06/06/12 05:33 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/seduction21/05/12 02:13 AM
5

olivia wilde.
/r/seduction25/04/12 04:01 AM
3

cougars will totally go for it, they want a young pretty thing to make em feel special. Source: last two hookups were with a 42 year old and a 32 year old. I'm 25, but when i shave i look 20.
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:45 PM
1

The thing though is most women who tend to go to bars tend to be more socially confident in order to do that, they believe that they can do whatever they want, get whomever they want. So if you give them a challenge, their confidence in their abilities generally will lead them to fight for it.
/r/seduction06/04/12 06:10 AM
3

Be honest.
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:58 AM
2

I had an ex like that, she cheated on me, i forgave her, and then she said that she felt like she was going to cheat on me again, so i dumped her. I stayed in touch at first, and tried to be friends, but it was horrible, dragging me down, and made me feel like shit. After a while, i said to her that at some point i was just going to stop talking to her, and she flipped out, then i made it happen on feb 14 of last year, and she tried for months to keep talking to me. I ignored her, didn't reply, …
/r/seduction14/03/12 11:33 PM
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