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Society has turned them? Are you sure about that? Or have they turned themselves? I think the topic of this post is misleading and irresponsible. One of the main things about manhood is taking responsibility for your own fuck ups. Nobody forced men into becoming beta males. If you want to shift the blame onto feminists and media, then think about it again, because titles like that are making me angry. It really has that similar "because patriarchy" vibe to it (and I'm not questioning the truths …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 06:45 PM
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i think what he meant was the majority of people. i also don't completely agree with stuff over 35 but on the other hand i'm just 27 so it's hard to criticize that part for me. i'll see what other people think about that. although i wouldn't want that kind of life. so it's a good motivation to start as early as you can so you wouldn't be that person.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 10:02 PM
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loved it till the last word. for the most part because I also believe that going your own way is a radical and self destructive approach. you can do whatever the fuck you want but only people with lots of resources and success can allow themselves that. i think mgtow is just man's "cat lady" with 5 liters of wine analogy. i mean they can go their own way if they want but i don't think you must go so radical. everything that is too much is usually not good. the same goes about denial of fundament…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 09:58 PM
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Different people use different kind of shit tests. It is so obvious when you start recognizing them. If you agree that men and women shit test differently why not go even further and differentiate? From my own experience I notice how people started treating me when I embrace the dgaf attitude and abundance mentality. I knew that some would go after my confidence like hungry hiennas. But these people weren't any good friends. They were mostly acquintances of mine. But it is easier to deflect thei…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 02:56 PM
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most probably. by the signs (still active on tinder and hot or not), states in an open relationship and so on. all things lead to this conclusion tbh
/r/askTRP08/01/17 03:14 PM
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True that and I completely agree. I needed to be more aggressive the second time. That was my mistake. Anyways, thanks for the advice!
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:58 AM
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yeah, i guess it's the best answer i've read so far to which i lean the most right now. if i acted too much beta (which I admit by TRP standards I did), she will probably drop our plans next week, but if not, then it's still salvageable. anyways, i'll try to keep you guys posted if you really care :D
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:30 AM
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i text first but only for the logistics, nothing more. i initiate the dates that's all. i don't spend the whole day texting. usualy i text her ask a few question about her day, then suggest the date and if she bails, we reschedule and i go off for a week. i don't clinge on her, but i genuinely want her and that i admit
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:25 AM
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She agreed to meet again and scheduled a time herself (gave a very detail schedule on when she will be available and so on) so i'm not entirely sure. Some people have mentioned before that some girls act weird if they get fuck on the 1st or 2nd date and then kinda try to back off in order not to appear a slut.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:21 AM
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You know, it's too much to take into consideration I think. Don't worry too much. I have read other comments and I think they're pretty right - I messed some things up and now she's unsure/testing/maybe already made the conclusion. The chances are slim but judging from her actions she still has some level of interest but it's not high for sure.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:20 AM
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I agree with the first point - if she stays or she lets me stay, it means she's open for that. If she refuses - she shit tests and I was just confused and lost after a long time of not seeing her. With the second part I don't agree. She still wants to see me and offered a new time to meet up. Don't know how it will go and if it goes like the last time when shit went down the hill, I'll know for sure, but now I don't have anything to lose - I'm focusing more on myself and my hobbies rather than g…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:16 AM
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no, I just kept listening and agreeing 20/80 percent balance. asking her questions but not really talking my relationships or any of that shit that she brought up (hers) and so on.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:11 AM
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i also forgot to mention she NEVER texts me first. never. she even admitted it to me the last time we were together that she never texts first and that if quote: "someone texts me, it means they care about me".
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:03 AM
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i used the term 'feels' in a way that she was telling her feels to me and I was just noding my head holding my hand on her shoulder trying to talk as little as possible. You know that phase that women have after sex when they want to cuddle and just... talk? Yep the one that seems appropriate to them. I didn't call her baby, jeez I just asked in a normal adult way: what is wrong? sorry if I exaggerated my responses. i guess it matters here^
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:01 AM
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Hahaha cracked me up :D i can see your point. Many guys i know that have relative success among women confirmed that tinder is a mess
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 04:52 PM
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I agree that this is a good approach and I always used to go for the descriptions and supposed interests. From my experience it isn't any more effective than just random questions. What to do if there's literally nothing, but selfies? No instagram, not even a one liner, nothing, just selfies? The last girl I approached actually had one liner that said: my horoscope told me that I will never have a man. Also had an instagram feed with pictures of her reading books. I started the conversation: "We…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 02:47 PM
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Very random things like: what's up? how's the week going? how tinder boys are treating you? or: my radiator is leaking wanna help me out here? or just: would you believe I'm not a pervert and can actually say more than "hey sweetness"?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 02:20 PM
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Yeah, I've been applying the abundance model and it doesn't bother me that much but it's easy to walk away from pretty much anything. It's harder to deal with challenges. So I feel somewhat of a challenge to at least try to make things more my way not her way because frankly I haven't been trying to do that at all. On one hand it's pretty good not to overthink and stress about shitty people but on the other hand I always considered Alpha someone who can actually put someone in their place.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 02:14 PM
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I promise to do that when women will love the betas for what they are :D
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 01:59 PM
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No. It actually does the opposite if you actually read the analysis. Actually.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 03:40 PM
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The movie is based on a true story.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 02:51 PM
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I agree that the ending was rushed. I was a bit lazy, I admit. Hehe. I guess I just didn't want to repeat much of what TRP is already full of. But point taken^ I missed on some good ideas I had simply because the inspiration came unexpectedly. I don't think that in the future I'll ever look at it at all. The past is past. I look at all those things I wrote now not with shame but rather great pride because I survived when I could have easily given up and just chosen the easiest way - to end it al…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 09:06 PM
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Parents sometimes can be abusive without knowing it. They are selfish because we all are like that. We always think about our needs first. But in the end, if they truly love you, the MUST let you go or give you space. thanks for sharing!
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 08:19 PM
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I think you missed some of the point. Especially the end of the post. but I won't go into the details because I honestly don't feel like defending anything or trying to escape the responsibility. if i didn't feel responsible, I wouldn't have written it in the first place. I really envy you finding it out sooner than I did. The thing I don't like is your attitude towards my article. I really feel as if you are a bit disgusted by my history since you also know TRP truth. But I don't really care. T…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 07:55 PM
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well, if you bothered to READ the first sentence then maybe you wouldn't have embarrassed yourself like that.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 04:43 PM
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Be strong and grow. I feel it should be tough if things got better only recently but I'm genuinely glad to know someone is overcoming their demons. good luck to you, brother!
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 03:34 PM
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I still have a lot of shit on my mind. But hopefully by living a free life without overthinking and doubts I'll be able to leave it all behind. There's lots to learn for me. I didn't love myself and now I'm just merely starting. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 02:51 PM
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Well, it's true. I think that in the US it's more public, there's more debate over these problems rather than in Europe, especially, the Eastern part. We still have lots of social stigmas and taboos that we don't wanna talk about publicly and I think it's pretty bad. Postcommunist thinking is probably the worst thinking possible. Because it heavily relies on blaming someone and diverting the responsibility. Basically it is bitching like those radical feminists do. People don't take social and po…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 02:40 PM
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I agree that having both parents doesn't necessarily mean you will grow up sane and won't have masculinity problems. My good friend told me the same when I started sharing my pain about daddy issues. Sometimes single parents manage to grow pretty decent people. I will read a big stack of books. Maybe I'll read them as well.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 02:12 PM
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"world of pain" is a very wide realm ;) but I wouldn't go into detail. Some people don't deserve to die, some - to live. That's true. But don't forget that most often their desire to abuse others comes from the abuse caused to them by others. A vicious circle of hate, pain and abuse.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 11:45 AM
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I'm sorry. It should have been tough for you. I have read several times in here that men are not born as 'men'. They are MADE. A man is like clay. It has no shape until the man himself (or the social environment) shapes him into what he is. I can understand your hate because I feel we might share the same kind of hate. I must admit I still have those people who bullied me in my head. I don't have nightmares or anything but sometimes I really fantasize about getting my hands on them and sending t…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 11:33 AM
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what is "tmj"? is it a jaw disorder?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 07:59 AM
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"I'm not ready for a long term relationship". What she actually said was ""I'm not ready for a long term relationship with YOU. Get lost, I'm not interested in you.".
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 12:03 AM
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Sadly, even your closest friends secretly, sometimes subconsciously want you to fail. They want the status quo. they don't want things that they like about you to change. They want to be as they like you to be sometimes not in a good way. I think mostly because of their own insecurities about themselves. Because if you shined in the new light as a better, stronger person, they would be afraid that they lost their power over you. The power to look at you and feel good about themselves because of …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 09:27 PM
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After all the experience I have had and all the things that I have read, I completely agree.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 01:32 PM
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Those other screenshots were priceless too. I always thought that for so long my situation with women was hopeless but even I didn't do that shit. Makes me really feel such shame for another person. I understand why they act like that. It's a nuerotic desperate beta trying to unleash years of anger and rejection onto women. And at some point they are right but they are projecting their anger onto the wrong women. Feminism castration is the direction they should direct their anger towards. Their …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 12:43 PM
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if a woman tells you something like this, you can pretty much erase her by all means. it's the emotional attachments that hold you. been there myself. but i think it is very easy to let go if you don't attach yourself in the first place. the hardest trick for someone who is naive and believes in Disney tales of Love and growing old together, is to stop attaching yourself to people you honestly don't have any idea for how long you will stay with. be realistic, make the bitch commit to you if you …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 11:57 AM
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Very simple yet true facts. I always think it that way: what kind of woman you are trying/going to attract is usually a mirror of your own self. It is a very real thing. I remember when I used to be younger, I had lots of problems regarding women. I was insecure, I was the neurotic nice guy thinking he was alpha but had no fucking clue what was going on and that he just had this never ending bad luck with women. A lot has changed since then. But the thing that I have realized was that I was attr…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 11:30 AM
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it is unbelievable how even the most dull women become so creative when it comes to flipping a beta nice guy off. I'd argue they reach the equivalent level of bullshit art as let's say Da Vinchi or Einstein. I haven't heard this one before but throughout my own bad experience I remember so many outstanding lines that should have been recorded into the woman's bullshit excuses hall of fame. I doubt that any self respecting man would tolerate such BS. But if you are not direct about sex and just h…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 10:24 AM
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Fake confidence can be spotted so easily. It is very hard to show you are confident around those people who have known you for a while. They will try to move your frame. They will not like your confidence. Because they are accustomed to your weaknesses and social awkwardness. Ironically the people that know you for a long time and some of them you even consider your friends, will shit test you the most. I heard a good idea on these forums that in order to really change and get your confidence ba…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 08:08 AM
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If you can, just pepper spray them and run. I was attacked once by two totally drunk skanks. Used police force equipment and it was hilarious. That shit was simply HILARIOUS! It was winter and they had to put their faces into the snow but it didn't help. Me and my friend ran away but as I looked back I couldn't stop laughing. Seriously though, it makes me sick watching those assholes putting down that poor guy. Ofc he hit her way too late. I would have knocked the bitch out right away after she …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:26 PM
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i agree. Women suck at that tbh :D
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 03:00 PM
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where I live, the population in my city is 500k. And it's not so popular at all. The idea of approaching a man isn't that attractive it seems in my country. Or the soft just isn't getting enough marketing.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 02:35 PM
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That's what I was saying. Always start with yourself and how YOU are related to the problem ;)
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 01:57 PM
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Feel your pessimism. I also like when my comments get upvoted. For crying out loud, who doesn't like attention at some level? But the attention some women get is ridonculous. I sometimes feel very bad of envying it, to be honest. Because it is true how their posts of some random bullshit get so much attention when you usually post something that is actually clever/important/witty and so on but as a dude even if you are a "social butterfly" you still get significantly less attention. Ofc it would…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 01:29 PM
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sadly, it's the way how it is and you can't change anything about that. men are the ones who have to approach women and women don't really care that much until you make them (but if you are attractive enough some girls actually text you first). there is an alternative app to tinder where women have to actually text the men that they match first. guess what? basically there are no women who are using it. and wanna guess why?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 12:13 PM
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I like your comment because it's more to the actual point than any other comment below this post. I want to emphasize not the writing style but the problem about social media. I agree with many points that you presented, Will. But I don't really believe that high social media value equals high real life social interaction value (sorry for double posting the same opinion twice, but I think more people will be able to see it this way). I want to ask you one question. Do you consider yourself to ha…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 12:06 PM
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English isn't my native language but i think it's defintiely D. because women became waaaaay too confident about themselves when they get tons of attention online. Which is pretty funny because online gratification means nothing in the real world. Many girls look nothing like their pictures online. I am also starting to see the connection between some of their insecurities and their social media habbits more and more. It's a way to fool one self into believing that high social media value equals…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 09:40 AM
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Apparently I did :) but I wouldn't be here if I wasn't lost at some point in my life.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 10:59 PM
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Yep, I agree. I didn't see it then. And it was a waste of my time but it inspired me to grow afterwards. She was a shitty person to begin with. And I am quite happy I didn't end up with her. The shit I heard from her was just waaaay too fucked up when she told me about herself. Ofc back then I was no better but now I honestly believe I've grown and learned a lot about the dynamics. I get hints pretty fast and learn to read the interest level pretty clearly. I'm still very inexperienced when it c…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 10:58 PM
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Hah thanks for the advice I didn't even care for the book. i heard the same criticism before but if I have time, I'll take a look. thanks!
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 09:09 PM
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Probably both then. Since it is hard to be someone you're not and drag along the social and gender responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 08:39 PM
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I feel you. And get your point as well. For LTR material average women have to give amazing BJ's and lick alpha's anuses to get them to commit and still it's a slimshot. But the mentality is still there. That they are entitled to such,
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 08:03 PM
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Indeed it is. Progress and all those qualities that women lack or don't have at all.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 07:38 PM
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and that's why we are on trp, aren't we? :D and it feels GOOD knowing the truth about how women are and how THEY would feel in the shoes of a man. Everybody wants to be a leader but few can actually lead and take responsibility. I don't think many of them lasted a month being constantly rejected while high social expectations would have been put on their shoulders simultaneously e.g. shit tests by coworkers, bosses, and so on if they are weak. Testosterone would probably kill them faster than br…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 07:27 PM
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Hearing those words it felt like 27 years of pain, shame and absolute confusion were swept away with some hope.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 07:13 PM
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And she also mentioned she had severe depression after she took back her former identity. Hmm I wonder why...
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 07:11 PM
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Women KNOW that there will always be sugar daddys. A girl who rejected me in most gruesome way possible and whom I wanted to still stay friends with, told me how there was a small rich fat guy who bought her drinks and basically fed her money. She admitted how pathetic and unattractive to her that guy was. She said she could have exploited that shit till absurdity. Then she gave him some average sex out of pitty once. When I heard it I almost puked. But then again I was still trying to be a nice…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 05:59 PM
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Hey, Grass! What I meant was that average women usually don't consider themselves average and have more chances to score an alpha buck rather than an average man without any real investment in themselves. I believe that for many it is only a question of spreading her legs at the right time and the right places. WOmen have always been master manipulators. It's not that hard for her to put on some makeup (which we can't do) to get drunk together with some physically attractive guy and fuck. Of cou…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 05:44 PM
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I have already seen a video on this same reddit how a woman felt after briefly becoming a man and trying to strike a conversation with a random woman in the coffee shop and all other things men have to endure. The whole video is worth watching. Basically explains how easy is to be a man in today's woman driven society.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 03:51 PM
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And since they usually have orbiters, almost any shit they pull becomes acceptable :)
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 01:45 PM
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But you probably lack one thing Chad has. Wanna guess what it is? FUCK IT. I won't tell you. Come closer and ask me, (bitch) :)
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 01:40 PM
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I've been reading a lot of TRP lately. One thing I realized about women is that they're the best when it comes to double standards. There is no fucking competition there. Friendzone, for instance. I remember, there was a girl once that I really liked. We both were after messy break ups and she told me that it should take some time like 6 months or so for us to heal to actually engage in any relationship. And I didn't make any sudden moves out of respect for her idea because I honestly believed t…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 01:23 PM
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Well, as I've already read in this reddit before, the problem is that women usually want both in a man at the same time which in reality is impossible. I strongly believe that there is always one (the strongest) character side which usually dominates our behavior. Given that we are the sum of our "alpha" and "beta" traits, it is most probably that one stack is higher than the other. Of course, we as people can't be reduced to black and white (no racisim intended) but I DO believe that it all com…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 08:31 AM
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