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Sometimes if I'm feeling solid I will get into a conversation on emotional dynamics with a girl. Going as far as playfully narrating what I'm doing - If I don't want to answer a question, I might say "I have to be mysterious so you'll be able to wonder about me." I think it can be pretty effective in the right context, with the right delivery. But I'm not bringing up terms like "red pill," or trying to impress her, or even really telling her anything she doesn't already know. Just having fun. I …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 07:48 PM
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Agreed - but amongst the boys how do we discuss it, how do we learn from one another? Do you think there's any need for analysis, for defining things like "smv" and the archetypal alpha, for the sake of discussion between 'magicians?'
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 07:28 PM
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Definitely text her. Some kind of congratulations is great, very smooth. I wouldn't bring up ghosting or any of that - because I think it communicates insecurity with the relationship - but do whatever comes from a place of strength for you. I'd bet she's dying to see you again, based on what you're saying here. And sounds to me like you've been behaving well - not acting desperate/ needy, walking away casually when she brought it up, etc. Good job, keep it up
/r/seduction16/05/19 08:22 PM
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Can't tell you how happy that makes me. Glad I could help.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/18 05:35 AM
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Make sure you aren't getting too caught up in what YOU are feeling. A good lover should be primarily focused on what their partner is feeling - physically and emotionally. Just focusing on him by listening to him and caring for him more might be helpful. Food for thought, hard to say if that's your case but I know it's important. And I can see how, even if you know this already, it might fall to the back of your mind when YOUR body is undergoing all these dramatic changes and you feel like YOU a…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 06:57 PM
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Teasing is fantastic
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 06:41 PM
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I don't see why this is bad. This girl was hot, smart, and thirsty for you, but you were wise enpugh to see the empirical evidence against her. You CHOSE being a father with a faithful wife over the immediate gratification of a girl you were more attracted to in the moment, but who was a risky bet. You had the power to do what you wanted, and the self-control to do what makes sense. That's pretty alpha in my book. Emotions aren't "blue-pill," being a slave to your emotions is.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 05:29 PM
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"Nothing is wrong as long as you hide your mistakes" Am I reading this wrong? Sounds like he's saying "it's not cheating if you don't get caught." Seems like a huge red flag to me. P.S. I'm a guy. Here for the enlightenment.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/18 05:46 PM
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You're the man
/r/seduction04/06/18 06:48 PM
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Agreed. I don't want to advocate venting emotions to a romantic interest. I think, ideally, you have a good enough relationship with yourself to not have anything that needs venting. And close friends for the unavoidable few exceptions.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 07:01 PM
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Consider maybe the situation is a little more complex than you're allowing. You didn't just open up, you opened up at a time when she was looking to you for emotional support. "To try to downgrade her troubles," in your words. I understand why you'd think that's a good idea, but in my experience that kind of emotional support isn't generally well received. She might look at it like this: -She's having a bad day (for whatever reason. Doesn't matter if you think it's a dumb one) -she opens up to y…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 05:36 PM
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Like what? I'm just trying to help some people out, and hear some decent arguments on how to attract quality women. And I'm having some fun. Don't take it so personally.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 02:40 AM
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I said something about lying. Because that's my point. If you're acting like somebody else, you're lying. If you aren't good enough you need to BE somebody else. Fuck acting.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:35 PM
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What is it that you need to lie about in order to convince a girl to sleep with you? You should at least give that question some serious thought, for your own benefit.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:52 AM
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Yeah I wasn't crazy about the game. It touched on some tactical strategies, but didn't go into depth on any. Good to hear Mystery Method is better. You might see some success copying somebody else, but you're going to be limited. You'll be better off if you can understand the fundamentals well enough to develop your own strategy from scratch, designed around your personality. That's exactly what Mystery did, and that's why it works for him. Some of his book will be useful to you, and some of it …
/r/askTRP27/03/18 02:41 PM
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You didn't like Models? I haven't read Mystery Method, but if it's anything like "The Game" it takes a completely different approach to dating than Models. Like inner vs outer game. If you want to really be successful, you can't just copy somebody else's strategy. You have to deeply, innately understand the fundamentals, so that you can implement them in your own way. I think "Models" does a good job of explaining how to get girls while still being honest with yourself. Of course you need to cha…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:14 AM
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Happy to help. Just don't quit, and don't die. Can't praise that book enough. I know it's helped me a lot. The writing style is a bit dry, but being a software engineer hopefully you won't get too hung up on that. Some of these other comments, along the lines of "man up and make it work"... Obviously you have to admit to yourself when you're being a pussy, and you should always be challenging yourself to improve. But you don't want to be disingenuous, or an intentional asshole. And life isn't ab…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:50 AM
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You said it yourself. The issue is that you're insecure. You need to focus on understanding the root of that issue in yourself, and addressing it. Until you do, there's a high likelihood that what you're really seeking from these women is validation, and not intimacy and sex - which would explain why you have a hard time signaling those desires. In my opinion, "Models" is one of the best books out there on pickup, because of it's focus on "inner game." Another good one is "The Six Pillars of Sel…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 03:49 PM
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...Maybe you should have more requirements for the females you're into? Or would you settle for any girl who isn't a "landwhale?"
/r/MGTOW25/03/18 03:48 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/seduction15/06/17 02:24 PM
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I still do
/r/seduction15/06/17 01:43 PM
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Props on the awareness edit
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 09:08 PM
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Wish I could upvote this more
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 08:53 PM
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Make it clear in person. Be honest with your behavior and body language. You shouldn't need to say it explicitly, but in some cases you need to clear up her doubt, or pull away from a conflict of interest. Side note, in my experience excessive texting tends to give off the "friend" vibe, regardless of content. I know times are changing, but I'd try to move through the text flirting phase (when it's necessary) and into the physical presence phase pretty quickly.
/r/seduction09/05/17 06:31 PM
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Great stuff man, Keep it up!
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 06:12 PM
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I don't really disagree with this, but I think it needs a caveat. Intentionally being an asshole isn't a great move. Maybe you'll get girls with serious issues, but you'll chase off the psychologically secure ones. The point is to not focus on being nice; to focus instead on being honest and projecting yourself as a person. If you're being "nice," you're hiding. Acting dishonestly. Where a lot of people get confused is when they start to identify as "nice." Being nice is being subservient. By pr…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 07:12 PM
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Congrats man, and I agree with everything you're saying. But like she's saying, don't put her on a pedestal. Feeling a little of the "she's a troubled soul and I'm going to save her" vibe.
/r/seduction01/03/17 06:02 PM
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