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| 1 | Not able bring girl to my place? Is that a disadvantage?so you would try for car sex in that case? i have before and its terrible lmao | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Not able bring girl to my place? Is that a disadvantage?car sex blows lmao. would you ever get a hotel on the first night? or was it always a 2/3rd date kind of thing? first date seems a bit too soon for that | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Not able bring girl to my place? Is that a disadvantage?would you ever get a hotel on the first night? or was it always a 2/3rd date kind of thing? first date seems a bit too soon for that | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Not able bring girl to my place? Is that a disadvantage?would you ever get a hotel on the first night? or was it always a 2/3rd date kind of thing? first date seems a bit too soon for that | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 05:44 PM |
| 0 | I (28m) have never had a girlfriend, nor had sex in 3 years. Where do I even begin?the problem is online dating back then and now is completely 100% different. its very hard to do well with online dating nowadays | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 03:17 PM |
| 8 | How to get her to come over on the first date (vid proof)nice bro. what city do you live in and how old are you? i think the main issue is that (i speak for most men on this) we dont have the luxury to filter out girls. i get 0 likes/matches so i cant do this lol | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnednice, few questions if you dont mind. How would you rate the attractiveness of these women? Were most 6/10's with only a few 8+/10? Also, is it worth trying to date when you live with your parents? Its very frustrating having no place to close. What are your thoughts on this | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Matched with a woman I’ve seen at my gym for monthswhat app did you guys match on? | /r/seduction | 16/01/26 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Field report Friday (pull)nice. genuinely curious, when it comes to these girls do you only approach girls' you are attracted too? or do you lower your standards to get a lay? are these girls all 7/10's you would say? | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | I get pretty decent likes and matches on dating apps but the thing is how do i proccedlol 21 is a lot man | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Online game is 100x better ROI than walking around cold approachingfacts, although in person does make you stand out more | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone had a "ho phase" as a guy in their early 30s?this blows my mind. your out here screening so many girls for what you wany yet here i am getting 1 match/week that doesnt even respond.... crazy man | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | "How's bumble been treating you?"do you mind sharing your profile? i think i speak for a lot of guys when i say we barely get any matches so i would love to see what photos you use | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 05:59 PM |
| 6 | Stop using Instagram to get womenthats different. i think OP is talking about cold DM without knowing them | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Get your logistics right!what if you live with your parents lol | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 03:46 PM |
| 1 | The easiest way to get women (in my experience) is through being referred by anotherwell with all due respect, most guys who claim to be banging a lot of women usually bang whales or below average women | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | The easiest way to get women (in my experience) is through being referred by anotherquantity is not always better than quality | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 08:17 PM |
| 1 | This is why you are not getting past the kissyeah please do | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 02:33 PM |
| 1 | This is why you are not getting past the kisswhat do you do if you live with parents and dont have a place to bring them back to? its so frustrating to get so close only for them to ghost me after what i thought was a great date. thats why i paused dating for now | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 06:02 PM |
| 3 | First ever cold approachnice, did she text?? | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 10:30 PM |
| 6 | To all the experienced guys here: Does casual sex increase happiness?if the girl is actually attractive then yes. otherwise absolutely not | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys Alreadywell i dont HAVE to but it would be nice to at least have a choice haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys Alreadyfair point but you act like guys have a choice. i get 0 likes/matches so its easier said than done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Quantity vs. Qualityi used to care only about quantity (lay count) but now im all about quality. i wont sleep with a girl anymore unless i actually like her and she meets my standards. I go through long dry spells with this approach but im good with it | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Mistaking my approached an underaged girlthis happens all the time sadly. married, underage... you name it. thats why i like bars and clubs because you know they are 21 (most of the time at least lmaooo) | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | 2024 was a record year for me in multiple ways and I have this sub to thank for it so I wanted to share the 5 most important things I've learned over the years with you guysnice, your posts all always informative and valuable bro. I (and others) would really like a breakdown of your 2024 if possible. aka age of girls, where you met them, how many dates you saw some of them, how hot they were /10, etc... i know you've done it before but a year one would be great bro. thank you | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 07:18 PM |
| 5 | Should I stop focusing on "my type" and just date other women who are attractive but I'm not super enthusiastic about?most guys in the dating scene would say yes to get experience and practice your dating skills but im against it personally. at the end of the day if you know your not going to date her your wasting yours and her time. at this point in my life, i only date girls im excited about. if that means i'll go long stretches without going on a date (and i absolutely have) then so be it | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 12:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?ok but what happens if a first date went great but there is no second date??? how would you feel then? I would feel pretty stupid passing up an easy lay (with a hot girl at least). im speaking from experience. waiting is the worst thing you can do | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?totally disagree with this. what if the first date went extremely well and then there is no second date???? how would you feel then? i know i would feel pretty fucking stupid passing up an easy lay, im speaking from experience | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How to go beastmode and change your dating lifegood message but i dont think its feasable. im a busy person and i literally dont have time to approach 30 girls in one day. also, the fact remains that a high value man has standards. i wont bang a girl just for sake of banging a girl. she has to be attractive and have a good personality. so while i agree to an extent, a lot of things you are saying arent doable for a successful man | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 07:00 PM |
| 1 | It’s likely that I can sleep with three women next week. Should I?what about that is not clear lmaoo. if you sleep with a girl who isnt attractive you'll regret it later. at least i did | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 06:02 PM |
| 15 | [LR] 26 yo Doctor Closed in 6 Daysnice, was she in your league you'd say? ive found that girls who come straight to your apartment are typically have an SMV lower than yours | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | It’s likely that I can sleep with three women next week. Should I?are they hot girls? if theyre not attractive you may regret it later.... speaking from experience | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 05:45 PM |
| 5 | 3 flirting principles that consistently get me laid on datesliterally this lmaoo, either dude is really attractive or whales are coming over | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Complete fizzle after amazing first date - anyone else ever had this happen?who knows, this has happened to me before and i'd bet it will happen again. it stings man ill tell you | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 11:03 PM |
| 3 | How We Picked Up Two Girls at the Barnice, just for reference do you plan on seeing her again? or are situations like this usually one night stands only? and was this girl a white girl? in my experience foreign girls are more prude in situations like this | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 04:10 PM |
| – | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.i wish this were true but asking to split the bill on a first date nowadays will get you on a tik tok video of the girl making fun of you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Should I have taken the number from the girl or play slowly?dont hate what you did. if your going to see her again then do it next time | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 10:09 PM |
| 12 | Women’s Seduction Subreddit?theres no point because girls dont need dating advice at all. all they have to do is show up and look good, anyone can do that. the man has to take initiative, planning, be charismatic, etc.... | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Getting laidyou just message random girls? do they usually respond lmao, if so whats your opener? | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Sex on the first dateare the girls usually attractive? from what i understand the hotter ones don't really smash on the first date like the 5's and 6's do but what's your experience been like? | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 05:29 PM |
| 2 | I feel like this "always stay persistent, it’s your fault if she’s not interested" mentality is messing up my headwhy dont you just focus on women who are responsive?? thats what we all want anyways. nobody wants to bug someone to hang out with you.... | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 06:54 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men waste time on women who don't really appreciate them.this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 06:05 PM |
| 22 | A lot of men waste time on women who don't really appreciate them.you're acting as if i have a choice here... i have to go through a million rejections to get to one fucking talking stage... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 03:23 PM |
| 5 | If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after himthis is so unbelievably wrong in every way imaginable. the girl HAS to like you more than you like her, otherwise she'll think your "needy" and "insecure". she prefers to win you over than the other way around. unlike you im actually speaking from experience. this is why nobody takes dating advice from women its completely useless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 09:37 PM |
| 0 | If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after himnot compared to the effort/work men do.... absoluetly they dont lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Men should not commit to women until they close all their optionsthis advice is good in theory but not applicable to most guys out there. i have to go through 100 rejections (literally 100) to even get to the talking stage. do you know much time, effort, and headache to keep going through this only to get ghosted?? the only men out there who have a roster and multiple options are the top 10%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Reasons for women to still be on a dating app a year later?they use it for attention, not to date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 05:58 PM |
| 1 | It doesn’t matter how interested a girl is, they can and will lose interest at the drop of a hat over the most minor thing or sometimes nothing at all. This is the biggest problem in dating that doesn’t receive nearly enough attention.100%, love this post bro. to be fair men do this too, but i dont feel half as bad when it happens to a girl because she can find another guy at the snap of her fingers.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 04:00 PM |
| 2 | "You'll find someone when you least expect it" is only true for women and boomersso true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Why is the sub have at least some men telling women what they are attracted to?because nobody takes dating advice form women seriously.... they say they want a sweet and nice guy but then go and fuck an asshole who doesnt care about them. sorry but its just the truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Why is the sub have at least some men telling women what they are attracted to?because nobody takes dating advice from women seriously.... they say they want a sweet and nice guy but then go and fuck an asshole who doesnt care about them. sorry but its just the truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Discussion : Have you ever been caught by an unexplainable long dry spell despite not changing or doing anything different?i feel that, im the same way. but are you using online dating, cold approach, or social circle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Discussion : Have you ever been caught by an unexplainable long dry spell despite not changing or doing anything different?are you exclusively doing online dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Discussion : Have you ever been caught by an unexplainable long dry spell despite not changing or doing anything different?in the past were you exclusively using online dating to get these dates? are you doing anything different now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 05:49 PM |
| 30 | Do you guys rack up bodies with girls you aren’t extremely interested in?i dont personally. i dont even see the fun in that, i have in the past and felt disgusting about it | /r/seduction | 13/07/23 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?lol, wish it was that easy.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:16 PM |
| 10 | Men should use every dating app to leverage their online dating market.0 x 3 still equals 0 lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuitypreach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 11:59 PM |
| – | 2 years of online dating. Here are the things I've learned about womendo you still get ghosted? and have you ever had a girl ever reach back out to you after she ghosted you?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Do you really think "sex just happens"?it "just happens" from her side of things, but the guy is the one who has to initiate, seduce, close, etc.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not?true, but generally thats the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not?yes, i know its a shitty thing to say but its the truth. not to say that I automatically elimate women > 25 but younger women are simply more youthful/attractive and have less baggage/been with less guys. its a no brainer really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 04:00 PM |
| 2 | How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high?because men and women are different..... men have to improve themselves to be desirable whereas a women just has to pick a guy. this argument has been done a million times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 07:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men greatly over-complicate dating.maybe, but its nothing compared to what men have to do and thats just facts. go through every male response on this thread and see for yourself.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 12:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men greatly over-complicate dating.im sorry but its not just "human interaction". your a girl so therefore you will never understand how seduction is for a guy. we are the ones to have to initiate, escalate, and close. from your perspective its human interaction, but from the guys view these are all skills we have to learn. this is exactly why nobody takes dating advice from women, you have no idea the work a guy has to do to get laid.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Men don’t see unattractive women as humanto be fair, even an "unattractive" women gets more attention online than a 7/10 guy..... your argument is simply not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 07:37 PM |
| – | Im a passport bro. Ask me anythingdo you meet them online or in person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Q4M - How many average women have you had serious crushes on?around 7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 06:23 PM |
| 1 | This one thing will get you more matches on dating apps instantlycan i dm you my pictures? none of mine are depressing, sad, etc.... but i still get no matches/likes | /r/seduction | 31/05/23 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Women will not make you happy and you should not make them your sole source of happinessobviously not lmfaoo, is that really all you got from that??? im saying that you DO have to make women a priority at some point because like i said its a skill that has to be learned. you just proved my point hahah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Women will not make you happy and you should not make them your sole source of happinesshonestly i disagree with you, its good in theory but simply not applicable. i've been single my whole life, literally my whole life. I used to be proud of it because like you said, everything else around me was awesome. literally everything; career, looks, travel, friendships, you name it. but you want to know something funny??? no women found me attractive during this time, none. at a certain point i stopped believing the "women come to you " bs because its not true. dating is a skill like anyt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 09:09 PM |
| 736 | Figure Out What Kind Of Person You Are And Then Look For Women In Places That Find Your Type Attractive.good in theory but not practical. a lot of guys' hobbies are male dominated and the few girls who attend are taken..... | /r/seduction | 11/04/23 05:52 PM |
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