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post pics bro, don’t be shy. can’t help you unless you get uncomfortable. fuck it, if youre too shy dm me. pulled last saturday, and have fucked over 50 girls. been a club promoter and frat boy so got experience
/r/seduction02/05/26 06:24 AM
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thats specifc to OP based on shes acting around him. for general advice, i try not to base my self-worth on whether or not a girl likes me. dont get me wrong, i still get the dopamine spike when a hot girl gives me attention. but i try to decide on whether or not i like her. and even more, i try to focus on what i would do so i liked myself. big mindset shift my friend :)
/r/seduction23/04/26 09:30 AM
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decarlo escalation ladder saved me when i was new. use that homie. and also, remember, she already likes you :) https://wiki.chadnet.org/files/the-dicarlo-escalation-ladder.pdf
/r/seduction23/04/26 05:07 AM
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where are you btw? i live in sf and my church has many young people including once a month young people events
/r/seduction20/04/26 09:49 AM
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decarlo escalation ladder. it should answer a lot of your questions. also, i dont personally do the movie/youtube thing. were listening to music in my car, and just talking. and while we are talking, im moving up the ladder. it will naturally lead to kissing. https://wiki.chadnet.org/files/the-dicarlo-escalation-ladder.pdf
/r/seduction20/04/26 01:51 AM
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parks and car lol. uhhh, i usually just say “you wanna chill in the back?”. and then we start cuddling and then makeout. check out the decarlo escalation ladder. saved me when i was a newbie :)
/r/seduction20/04/26 12:22 AM
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social circle. make friends with the super hot girls and don’t hit on them. instead of dates, create container events where you invite all the girls you meet from cold approach. once you do this, you will have girls hitting on you and you will feel much more attractive. of course this is a rough outline and it goes much deeper than that, but this is the way
/r/seduction19/04/26 05:21 PM
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“the open is accidental, everything else is on purpose” but ive gotten laid just going up and saying hi. youre overthinking it my friend. if youre having success at other places, just keep a canned opener like “i saw you and wanted to say hi” or “youre really pretty, i had to say hi to you”. if youre doing well at other venues, then just make the opener as basic as possible. opener is the least important part of game imo. ive had chaotic openers and terrible openers transition to a great set lol
/r/seduction17/04/26 10:20 PM
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either one, doesnt matter. but make sure you create a container event. a bi monthly or weekly event you can invite the entire class to. it could be yoga in the park or a latin night at a club you like. do this instead of asking out a girl from the class. trust me fam, this will make girls throw themselves at you. and make sure you let the girls hit on you first, dont be the first one to start the flirting. just give friend vibes and let them be the one to make the first move. these are all basic…
/r/seduction17/04/26 09:04 PM
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other hot girls around. get friends who are girls, and other girls will shoot their shot at you. its so fuckin good and its not even close
/r/seduction16/04/26 06:48 PM
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social circle game. ive had girls come up and dance on me, hug me from behind while i talk to another girl, and just text me “i think youre really really cute” while in a fraternity or while being a club promoter. its like being locally famous
/r/seduction15/04/26 11:56 PM
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no dude. but its about making this happen naturally. am i so busy that i forget to look at my phone? or am i just always scrolling so i reply instantly? its not really about waiting to text back. its about having something that im focused on where im not checking my phone. its gotta be natural, never lie when dating
/r/seduction15/04/26 08:07 PM
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yupp, this more than anything else. i can give you the best lines, i can describe the vibe, but you wont really get it unless you have tons of practice. i regularly get compliments on my quick wit and an constantly making people laugh. thats from years of practice. just get into as many social situations as you can, and dont be afraid to embarrass yourself. i’ve humiliated myself so many times during the early days. but thats the reps i needed to know how far i can push the envelope. you need to…
/r/seduction11/04/26 08:44 AM
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damn man. sorry youre going thru that. must be rough. its really hard to tell what the problem is without being in the room with you and seeing your vibe. i think vibe says so much more than the events that happened. i cant really tell from these descriptions, and more than that, having you describe the vibe wont really yield anything because what you describe would be different that what she sees. idk, what have your friends said? but also, hanging out every day with a fling is kinda crazy. are…
/r/seduction11/04/26 12:45 AM
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2 girls have blocked you and one says she doesn’t want to see you anymore? yes brother. there is seriously something wrong. thats crazy my man. please give us more details. your whole focus is wrong in your question. the question should be “why are these girls tired of my shit?”. this is wild. dont worry, i went thru the same thing lol
/r/seduction10/04/26 10:56 PM
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read models, go out 7 days a week, write field reports every night reread models, keep going out, keep writing field reports every night keep rereading models, keep going out, keep writing field reports do this for 6 months, and reread your field reports from the first day. see how much you’ve grown. keep rereading models, keep going out, and keep writing field reports every night do this for another 6 months, and see how youve grown after 2 years, most of your old friends will be jealous of you…
/r/seduction10/04/26 05:58 AM
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i’m pakistani, but look indian. technically i have the “worst” race for cold approach. i’ve slept with over 50 women of all races and aesthetics. goth chicks, preppy blondes, chinese women with a boyfriend on a business trip, rich girls, hood girls, girls with boyfriends/fiances/husbands. it don’t matter homie
/r/seduction09/04/26 09:08 AM
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bro, most humans can feel insecurity. i can feel even a girl is nervous or trying really hard to impress me. it’s not that hard
/r/seduction07/04/26 09:33 PM
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deep and true confidence comes from accepting your flaws, not from achieving greater and greater things (because there will always be someone better or something you can improve upon). have you ever heard this my friend? :)
/r/seduction07/04/26 09:44 AM
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if your parents allow girls to come over, it doesn’t matter at all. if they don’t, it’s a harder. it’s much easier to invite a girl over and fuck her then it is to fuck at her place. but again, if she likes you, she likes you. how much are you actually shooting your shot tho? are you theorizing right now? because this question is so much different than someone asking “i’m running into a problem of inviting girls over and them saying no because i live with my parents. how do i work around this?”.…
/r/seduction06/04/26 09:52 PM
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nah, i think promoter is kind of a catch-22. for reference, i was a club promoter in san francisco after being in a frat at sf state. you have to have girls in order to be a club promoter. you can’t just get girls because you’re a club promoter. don’t get me wrong, there is a snowball effect once you get going. but being a club promoter is for people who already know a good amount of girls to becoming someone who knows a ridiculous amount of girls. just my two cents
/r/seduction06/04/26 07:13 AM
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yeah, if he has this much social proof (if hes not exaggerating), then the problem is hes not making a move. i know for a fact at least some of the girls in his friend group want to fuck him (unless he’s disfigured in the face)
/r/seduction20/03/26 04:40 AM
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this never happens because it never happened to me. shut up and learn bro
/r/seduction06/03/26 06:45 AM
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idk, ive found asking “can i kiss you?” has been an amazing move. after that tho, i just follow the decarlo escalation ladder and dont skip a step. and if resistance, i go back to vibing and moving a few rungs down the ladder
/r/seduction26/02/26 01:28 AM
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yeah bro. these dudes complaining about being the wrong white. i had to work so hard for girls to see past the color of my skin, because most people just see “indian”. don’t get me wrong, i got laid despite my shortcomings, but its wild to see this dude complaining about being polish
/r/seduction19/02/26 09:25 AM
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lmaooo, just used an absurd example
/r/seduction15/02/26 06:28 PM
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mark manson talks about this. not just with this subject, but any subject. it’s called being vulnerable. letting people hate me for who i am. here i am, you can hate me or love me. the choice is yours. you can apply it to legos, video games, even goddamn hentai. but it’s up to you, what are you seriously into that you don’t care if people hate you or not?
/r/seduction15/02/26 10:46 AM
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michael sairtain. no other person in game is fucking as many hot girls and can prove it. him for outer game, mark manson for inner game
/r/seduction04/02/26 11:11 AM
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you succeed despite your circumstances or fail because of your circumstances. either way, you’re blaming something else. take responsibility that it’s your fault, not the business fault. or just keep being a virgin, the choice is yours
/r/seduction04/02/26 04:15 AM
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take some fucking action! jesus christ, when was the last time you approached a girl??
/r/seduction04/02/26 03:47 AM
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i dont know why people hype the mystery method up so much. if people actually read the book past the first 100 pages, it shows that mystery’s technique arent even that good, and style is doing so much better than he is
/r/seduction31/01/26 01:07 PM
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in this order: 1) how to win friends and influence people -good for not being a social stunted. it really helps. one of my favorite books that changed my life 2) models by mark manson -great for learning inner game. literally nothing beats this. theres a reason everyone loves this book 3) the game by neil strauss -captivating read that i couldn’t put down. this is to show you how far you can go with this thing and the traps to avoid. its awesome
/r/seduction29/01/26 05:12 AM
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michael sairtain, social circle game
/r/seduction21/12/25 12:58 AM
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yeah, this is hard to see the sticking point because he doesnt give much details. op, are you actually shooting your shot? are you asking them to come home? more than anything get a wing. the best advice i ever got was from a noobie wing. he asked me: “why do you leave the set? you have the man to woman down, why do you leave so early?” i never knew i was doing that. the next night, i stayed in a set for two hours and went home with a girl, ending a dry spell. we dont know whats going on with yo…
/r/seduction09/12/25 12:02 AM
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mmmm, more like big bro. i already did improv for 4 years :). not to say im better or anything, but those really do get so much better as we put in the when
/r/seduction31/10/25 05:05 PM
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yes, but also join an improv class. you want to know how i never run out of things to say? because ive practiced it many times, coming up with random funny things to say on the fly. you wanna know how its easy for me to talk to a group of people? because ive practiced it many times where all eyes are on me. most of all, take up something that you actually like! something that you actually want to do that wont really correlate to getting women. something you would love to be proud of whether or n…
/r/seduction31/10/25 07:33 AM
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back in the day, it was cold approach. once i got good at having conversations and being able to talk to anyone (3-4 years later), i moved to social circle. but i needed the reps in cold approach in order to be this good at social circle lol
/r/seduction26/10/25 09:47 AM
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i just tried really hard, watched hella videos, approached hella girls, and read some books. there were some horrifically embarrassing moments but thats the price i had to pay. i was so motivated because i was a virgin and my friends were just constantly slaying. i couldnt stop and i didnt care how stupid i would look
/r/seduction21/10/25 08:44 PM
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6-8 months. i was a virgin all throughout high school and started cold approach summer after i graduated. i was a social retard until it finally clicked
/r/seduction21/10/25 10:50 AM
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it’s a vibe man. almost anything can be a tease, but it just depends on the vibe. its why most women hate “negging”. the guys that do it dont have the right vibe, the words dont actually matter
/r/seduction11/10/25 04:19 AM
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now that youre hot, just start making friends with girls as much possible instead of “gaming” every girl you see. then, youll be invited to a lot more stuff and the first part will start happening to you more and more. that part doesnt happen to ugly guys so youre hot, stop worrying about it. big thing tho, you wont be hot to everybody. some girls think brad pitt and harry styles are chopped even tho they are “objectively” attractive. girls dont work that way even tho guys do. lastly, youre at t…
/r/seduction08/10/25 11:39 PM
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bro, i was a club promoter. i know exactly what clubs you’re talking about
/r/seduction23/09/25 08:15 PM
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you can have a real conversation by leaning in and talking in her ear. how have you never seen people do this at clubs?
/r/seduction23/09/25 11:11 AM
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i had to take a deep hard look at myself and my life trajectory when i realized i enjoyed telling my friends about the sex more than the actual sex with the woman. it was a wild realization
/r/seduction30/08/25 03:27 PM
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but but what if she says no??? my self worth will go down!! if i come up with the right thing she wont see me for the loser i am and i will definitely be able to convince her to like me!!! op, man to man. this isnt about what to say. this is deep inner work of becoming the man you want to be. of liking yourself whether or not someone else likes you. your question was fine, but seeing the write up you put into her is concerning at best. if i ask a girl out and she says no, i just go about my life…
/r/seduction28/08/25 11:23 AM
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you’re also missing a huge thing. become the guy that invited a bunch of people to events/throws events. the story of the salsa dancer in his 50’s that throws meetups for other salsa dancers and slays beautiful women is in the book for a reason. its the social proof part. she sees other people respecting you and in turn becomes receptive. thats how it works brother
/r/seduction29/07/25 07:59 PM
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the things we hate in others are the things we hate in ourselves
/r/seduction19/04/25 09:14 AM
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michael sairtain. follow his instagram. he is around hot girls constantly. he has many threesomes and such with them. his bootcamp is pretty sweeet as well. couldnt recommend it more highly. saw delayed success, but pretty damn good success. check him out!
/r/seduction05/04/25 08:06 PM
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so what do you think youre missing? can you dm me a pic?
/r/seduction14/03/25 11:16 PM
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you’re missing something. Its pretty obvious you’re missing something personality wise. maybe you’re being needy. maybe you’re desperate, you’re not giving women the opportunity to decide if they want you or not. I don’t know, its hard to pinpoint without seeing evidence of how you interact with women. But its not about how hot I am. I’ve been with so many girls where my friends and acquaintances are saying “theyre out of their league”. maybe youre not treating them like people, just like someth…
/r/seduction14/03/25 09:34 PM
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most of game is done before myopener. that line completely changed how i feel about game. Am I well groomed? Am I staying fit and in shape? Have I been working on my posture? Do I have nice fitting clothes and nice accessories on? Do I fill my days with activities and habits that make me feel good about myself so I have confidence when I walk up? Most of game is done before my opener
/r/seduction28/02/25 10:28 AM
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talk to yourself in front of the mirror. but seriously go out lol
/r/seduction19/02/25 10:06 AM
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nooooooo, be the best version of yourself and prioritize that journey over the girl
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:26 PM
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i reread it every few years. Complete game changer my friend
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:26 PM
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He does lol. its literally in the book.
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:25 PM
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its not about being yourself. its about being the best version of yourself. Most of all, its about focusing on whether or not this girl likes me, I will still continue living my life the same way and be okay. That is the game changer. I can tell you that my lines used to be much better and I had much more elaborate ways to get girls to come over. however, after reading this book, my game has mellowed out so much. I dont try as hard, but I also slay more. Much more. I turn girls down cause I dont…
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:23 PM
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fucking love Models. one of my favorite books!
/r/seduction16/01/25 07:46 AM
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you shouldve pulled homie
/r/seduction17/11/24 05:51 AM
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i think around $3k
/r/seduction08/10/24 01:40 AM
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this guy gets it. the biggest thing i got was finding what i like in a woman instead of trying to change myself so she likes me. now, im genuinely focused on what i want to like about myself. i’m not perfect, sometimes i change myself a little so a girl likes me, but im so much better than what i once was
/r/seduction22/09/24 09:43 PM
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buy men of action course. fuck all these dudes recommending pickup and go all in social circle game. you get weekly calls where you can ask questions and also you meet other people in your city throwing parties and stuff. this is the best way to leverage wealth
/r/seduction20/09/24 01:27 AM
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yeah, i think this is the biggest one. we don’t know what you look like. help us out here
/r/seduction14/08/24 08:39 AM
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bruh, is it possible to practice football drills every day but still lose every game? yes. but it’s very hard to do. you would have to be so unsocially calibrated, not write field reports every night, and not have any wings that can point out your blind spots. practice will eventually get you good enough to pull. you just need to actually do it. even if it’s not pulling, i was getting many second day dates before i actually started pulling. but biggest, quit mentally masturbating to all the what…
/r/seduction04/07/24 07:17 AM
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i want to judge, but what do i know? how have your results been doing mystery and krauss
/r/seduction07/06/24 07:45 AM
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when i am at a club, immediately walking in, i just introduce myself to people. some people give me weird looks, others want to talk to me, but it works amazingly for momentum :)
/r/seduction31/05/24 11:55 PM
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dance classes, severely underrated imo
/r/seduction26/05/24 08:06 AM
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fair point. got me there
/r/seduction25/05/24 09:06 AM
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if he’s not making money off of it, it doesn’t really matter. if it helps people like me, it’s fine
/r/seduction23/05/24 09:18 PM
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everyone says that until they get their first std scare lol
/r/seduction11/05/24 05:41 PM
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Woah woah. Damn man. Feel free to send me a text: 650-745-5570. Or follow me on isntagram: rameezeyfbaby. I've helped a few dozen men take their dating life to the next level. Mostly; you just need people believing in you. I live in San Francisco, used to be an intern for rsd. Hit me up my dude
/r/seduction29/10/20 07:33 AM
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Okay. I think we should just start with asking better questions. What kind of dating life do you want? It would be easier to help you that way instead of trying to fix things you hate about yourself
/r/seduction07/09/20 11:04 PM
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Keep going lol
/r/seduction07/09/20 12:29 PM
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Its crazy that you describe it as a tightness in your chest; Ive been exactly there. However, now I would describe it as excitment. Bro, you should always talk to the coolest girls. Because when you're talking to other girls, you're still thinking about them. And I think a lot of is you thinking they will change your life. You need to get this girl in order to....? Idk, what is it for you? She is a means to end. Its never gonna workout unless you're also a means for her end. Good news tho, its p…
/r/seduction07/09/20 08:38 AM
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I have to be willing to let her walk away. I catch myself thinking this here and there in the interaction. As a man, I will be the same whether or not she chooses to spend time with me. I want her, yes. But she can also go her own way and I would still be the same. Does that make sense?
/r/seduction07/09/20 08:22 AM
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This is actually kind of funny. You're thinking one of your coolest assets is a weakness. Obviously, girls are flocking to you and looking at you when you have an accent. I think its just honesty that's at play here. You just have to be honest with the girls you're seeing and tell them you're English is not so good. For me, being honest takes a lot of the pressure off. For example, I can tell a girl that she's so cute, she's making me nervous. Or, I could try to hide my nervousness and try to ap…
/r/seduction07/09/20 08:20 AM
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Yeah dude, you're both right. Just be honest and tell her, "Sure, as long as I agree"
/r/seduction07/09/20 08:15 AM
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No one is thinking ur a social outcast becuase you drink. The few that are, hate themselves too. So, dont worry about those people. Most people are just social outcasts because of a number of things related to posture or just bad conversation skills. Not drinking does not make you a social outcast lmaoo
/r/seduction04/09/20 11:22 PM
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Its super easy, and I am in a frat so the pressure is forsure there. Girls will like you with or without the alchohol. Sometimes people are just more honestly themselves once liquor is in their system. Thats what girls are falling in love with. They dont care if ur drunk or not
/r/seduction04/09/20 08:23 PM
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You're welcome dude. I'd recommend reading Models: Attracting women thru Honesty by Mark Manson. This will really help your neediness🥰
/r/seduction13/08/20 06:12 PM
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Dont get numbers at all. Just try to follow everyone on insta. Whenever I'm having a party or something, I know who to invite: girls I'm trying to hookup with, friends who bring girls, and random girl acquaintances
/r/seduction12/08/20 08:46 PM
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I like that you went on a date with her and she is still texting you. That means you were great during the date. Good job fam! Next, its very interesting that you're actually being super needy by trying so hard to not be needy. The more you try to get her to like you by being mysterious (lol, seriously?), the more needy youre becoming. Neediness is when you change yourself to make the girl like you. I think you're doing that. If you're texting her because you like her, that's fine. If you're try…
/r/seduction12/08/20 08:44 PM
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Youre welcome, friend
/r/seduction03/08/20 08:33 AM
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In my honest opinion, cold approach is practice. Social circles are game day. I absolutely recommend you do. But might be hard because of covid
/r/seduction03/08/20 08:33 AM
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Good job on raising income and working out! I think meditation will definitely help that hole inside you. A girlfriend may or may not lol. I would recommend reading autobiographies to your list: the coolest hustler and social circle killer is "When I stop Talking,you'll know im dead" by Jerry Wientraub. "Total recall" by Arnold Schwarzenegger of course is also good. Try to do it different area, but also just start reading self help books. Bring new ideas into your brain. "Tools of Titans" by Tim…
/r/seduction02/08/20 12:42 PM
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Hmm. What other sources would you recommend?
/r/seduction02/08/20 12:32 PM
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Corona virus has actually made me a lot more amazing. Im more ripped than I have been, my assets are reaching $10,000 for the first time, and I have finished 6 self help books. I accepted i was stuck in my house, and i focused on the advantages it offered. I had a lot of free time 😇 What habits can you do every day that will improve your dating life? (That dont involve talking to women)
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:50 AM
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Yeah dude, finding niche is super cool. But get a few niches, not just one. And for your stories, just pretend your life is a movie and make it as epic as possible. Thats what I do. And a few girls will actually slide into my dms. Its really funny. From time to time, i alsobhit up girls who are always watching my story. Sometimes theyre jjust insta addicts. But a lot of the time, it leads to some awesome fun
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:47 AM
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I'll do you one better. Get a job in a restaurant as a server at a big restaurant. I would just hear people constantly sleeping together, including me lol. And some girls left me a number and took me on a date too
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:42 AM
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You might love rsd luke. He focuses on social circles and having girls fight over him. You'll love that. I've had it happen to me a few times. Its pretty funny. And the craziest part? This dude is ugly as fuck Insta: Lukegkrogh
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:41 AM
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Bro. This book took me from virgin to turning girls down. Yeah, I did all the work. But this book gave me secrets that I didn't know, that I didn't know.
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:37 AM
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100 percent dude. The girls I have overvalued has lead to some stifling moments. Flirting is done best when its carefree and you can let her go. The girls can feel the neediness when he talks to them. I would just recommend to be willing to let the girl walk away. Just being okay with that being a possibility instead of forcing it with the girls he overvalues
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:35 AM
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No lol. Wait it out my friend.
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:31 AM
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Aw man it sucks so bad. Matched with girls on tinder. Barely any responses. One girl was down to get banged out, but she didnt really turn me on so I didnt invite her over. I've just been focusing on working out and reading every single day. We cant control the some things, but we can definitely take advantage on the free time
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:31 AM
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Good content! Keep it up fam! 😇
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:28 AM
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I would recommend not trying to talk to a specific girl, but to groups of girls. Once you're in the group and flowing, the ioi's feel like a hammer to my head. Girl's have grazed their butt on me hella times, dance super sexy rihht in front of you and look at you, and even just grabbing me and dancing with me. Hope this helps mate ;)
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:28 AM
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So, I would recommend viewing cold approach as practice. These girls will never see you again and this where you can just deal with AA and just flowing conversation (just try connecting with her. Thats basis of attractive conversation in my opinion). So now that you have a place to practice, where and when is gameday? Where it actually matters. Where you know there will be girls you're attracted to. Do you do some backstage work for modelling companies and then try there? Or do you go to dance c…
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:25 AM
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Yeah man. Covid is making dating hard atm. I recommend tinder. Put just visiting in your bio, and your original place. Sometimes girls are just feeling a fling with no baggage attached. But whenever this things blows over. Start joining clubs in school. Helped me meet a lot of people. Join a frat too if possible in your area. Dating life will sky rocket
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:15 AM
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One of the best pieces of advice I ever got: As soon as I walk into a venue, maybe even outside of it, I introduce myself to everyone. Short and sweet conversations. Some people will be really engaging and you'll stick around with them. Others, will want you to leave immediately. But pretty soon, as you're walking around, you'll see familiar faces. And if you introduce these familiar faces to each other, magic will start to happen. You might say: "Oh, she goes to raves, too, this is Jessica" "he…
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:09 AM
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Uhm, do you want these girls to leave you alone? Cuz it doesn't sound like you like them. I would recommend reading Models by Mark Manson. It taught me to let go of girls that do annoying things, and instead chase girls who light me up inside
/r/seduction02/08/20 10:58 AM
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Girls either like you or they dont. You don't need to convince her and you definitely don't wanna peel back her emotional layers thru text. That's what dates are for! Hit her up for a date my guy. And be ready to keep living your life if she decides not to text you back. Theres always more girls. And they are never yours, its just your turn to spend time with them 😉
/r/seduction02/08/20 10:57 AM
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I would definitely recommend making friends with girls. And some practical steps, try to join like a group. I would recommend yoga class or dance class. Improv is pretty fun. It might be hard with covid. What city are you going to?
/r/seduction02/08/20 10:54 AM
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Answer me a few questions and I'll help you out: -what's your current living situation? Univesity, Random town, or Living with parents? -are you as good looking as your friends? Dont trust whiney babies on reddit, looks are definitely a skill - how's your past dating life? Are you a first-timer?
/r/seduction02/08/20 10:51 AM
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Well, theres tons of lesbians in the world. Theres tons of men masturbating to pussy shots. Personally, i think my dick looks gross. But girls and guys love it. Sooo, who am i stop them? Lol
/r/seduction02/08/20 10:47 AM
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Ive been in the game for more than 5 years. First and foremost, are you younger? Telling a girl I like her is definitely something I do before I ask her out. Usually when Im meeting a new woman, I'm trying to figure out what I like about her. And when I do, I tell her. So, this is definitely normal. Also, I would stay away from playing games like saying, "no" when you're obviously in to her. If you play games, you will only attract women who play games. The straightforward ones will just not dea…
/r/seduction02/08/20 10:44 AM
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Yeah man, you just gotta meet more women. Girls either like you or they don't. We are not here to convince them otherwise
/r/seduction02/08/20 10:37 AM
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Hahaha, this is actually really interesting to read. I would recommend asking yourself what do you love about yourself? I'm kind of in the same boat, I've been asked if I model. Self-improvement is always good. Not to get anywhere, but instead to just love yourself for the progress. Lastly, I will leave you with a practical habit. Every day when you brush your teeth, tell yourself everything you love about yourself. This will be super awkward at first. You will ask what do I even love about myse…
/r/seduction02/08/20 08:22 AM
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The girl already likes you or doesn'tlike you. Game is conveying yourself honestly and finding women at "good" times. Self improvement is enlarging the circle of girls that like you. However, a small minority will actually hate you for self improvement. Does that make sense, mate?
/r/seduction02/08/20 07:59 AM
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Bro, this isn't helping you get better at dating. You might be focusing on the wrong things.
/r/seduction02/08/20 07:55 AM
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I think you might be mistaken. Its dont try to impress the girl and try to figure our what you love about her. Thats what im trying to say friend
/r/seduction17/06/20 02:29 AM
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Ah. I think its good if you aren't aiming for that. I believe that first dates aren't for impressing girls (its pretty gross and needy), but rather, finding what you love about her
/r/seduction17/06/20 12:02 AM
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Hell yes
/r/seduction09/06/20 11:19 PM
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Are you okay man? Whats this "I've done both and women still treat me like shit cause I'm ugly?" I have rejected girls because they were hella shy, hella boring and a lot of other stuff. Happens a lot when you're in a club or party and I literally have to pick a girl lol. I'm just saying stuff that took me from zero results to rejecting women because I have too many options, then to girls falling in love with me. I followed a few zayn malik fan accounts. Never wore his actual clothing. But stole…
/r/seduction09/06/20 11:17 PM
1

Lmaoo. Get outta her3
/r/seduction09/06/20 11:11 PM
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Every dirty step? I don't know man. Girls drop hints like "I'm free on tuesday 😊" or "So, when are we hooking up?" That last one happened when I had forgot to ask out this girl at work. We had been flirting heavy and I was just busy. Juggling too many lol. But yeah man. I don't know your whole life. You know it better than I do. I reccomend reading Models by Mark Manson. It'll take you from beginner to having good problems. Like girls getting mad at you for not asking them out lol. But yeah dude…
/r/seduction09/06/20 11:09 PM
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Yeah. I'd probably recommend not focusing on this. Its cool to squat such and such weight. But it doesn't actually mean anything in the real world. How your muscles look and feel are much more important. Same goes for dating. I can tell you do this and this, it might work for you or might not. You may or may not label it a shitty strategy or it only works for good looking guys or whatever (I'm not good looking btw). At the end of the day, its much more important to focus on internal game. Blah b…
/r/seduction09/06/20 11:03 PM
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Haha, good to meet you friend. Hello from San Francisco. Last thing, this is your first attempt correct?
/r/seduction07/06/20 01:22 AM
2

Read atomic habits if you want your socks blown off. I had so much trouble consistently working out, but now I have this innate craving for a workout most mornings. It's so awesome. I love it
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:21 AM
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If you're a newbie, I highly recommend googling decarlos escalation ladder. It helped me out tons when I first started
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:20 AM
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This is pretty easy. But can I ask some questions? What country are you gaming in? How experienced are you? Are you trying to do this for the first time? Let me know, and I will help you. I guarantee you that
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:19 AM
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Also, biggest feel good inside habit I can give you: Look into your eyes and tell yourself everything you love about yourself when brushing your teeth. Every single day. Its awkward at first, but the sense of relief you can feel is amazing once the habit has been established. Furthermore, your inner monologue when talking to girls is no longer focused on things she might hate about you. But instead focuses on everything she can love about you. Let me know if you have any questions friend
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:18 AM
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My mentor once gave me this advice and it has stuck with me forever: "If you don't know what to do with a specific girl, you need to talk to more women." And I'm not saying that your problems don't mean anything, because they are real problems. But I would highly advise you to talk to more girls. I see that you're kind of hung up on her. She has to be one of many or else you're gonna start obsessing over her which if I can read in between the lines of this post, I see clearly. Just my opinion ma…
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:15 AM
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I dont understand how you've done your fair share of cold approaches but only hit 3 a year? It should 3 a day haha. But hey, let's deal with the real problem. You don't think you're good enough to talk to these girls. I would highly recommend taking this daily habit: Look into your eyes and tell yourself everything you love about yourself when you brush your teeth. This is a confidence issue 100% in my opinion. And this is the best way to build confidence without faking it. Every day, do this si…
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:11 AM
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You haven't had a good blow job unless a granny has sucked you off with her gums lmaoo Jk jk. I've never tested this lol
/r/seduction05/06/20 09:23 PM
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I have done both my friend. I think the tips of serving (about $100 a night) plus hourly outweighs just the hourly of retail. I would highly reccomend restaurants as the go to college job. I worked less days and made more money. And biggest reason, i got laid by coworkers and customers alike. Also, this all goes out the window if you're in one of those states that takes tips out of the paycheck. All in all, my dating career definitely skyrocketed after coming to restaurant. I was also doing tons…
/r/seduction05/06/20 08:46 PM
3

Groom well and workout. Follow an Instagram account of celebrity whos style you like, preferably a couple of fan pages. We got it easy as guys. Girls literally have to become 10/10 makeup artists. Super into fitness. Shave their entire fucking body and countless other things. Guys just need grooming and fitness. Style if you wanna go above and beyond
/r/seduction05/06/20 07:18 PM
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It won't get you fired. Mostly you'll get talked to. And lmao bro. Cashier jobs are a dime a dozen. But i would highly recommend switching over to something in the restaurant business (preferably a huge one). They have giant turnover with some of the hottest and flirtiest girls. Also, restaurants are notorious for coworkers hooking up
/r/seduction05/06/20 07:16 PM
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Lol. People say you can't go up to girls and talk to them. And this whole subreddit is based around the idea that you can lmaooo
/r/seduction05/06/20 07:13 PM
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I get hella numbers from working as a waiter. Sometimes i see a number on the reciept and im like what? I wasn't even talking to her? But then again, I was pretty bad at first. Definitely have some stories where i was a weirdo. But hey man, its a skill. You can't become a crazy good basketball player without playing basketball and sucking at first. And you won't be that wiater that gets all the girls mumbers unless you're ready to be creepy while you figure things out
/r/seduction05/06/20 07:12 PM
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Do what I did. Follow some celebrities on instagram whose style you like. I followed a couple zayn malik fanpages (fanpages post more pics) and its really easy to see stuff that would look good on me
/r/seduction03/06/20 09:58 AM
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What was the sub like before? And what do you miss?
/r/seduction26/05/20 11:43 PM
1

Good luck bro. Hope it helps you out!
/r/seduction23/03/20 07:06 PM
1

Im glad things are working out for you man
/r/seduction23/03/20 09:27 AM
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Yeah. If you watch the video, I agree and say everyones skin is different, it might not work for you. But i also say to please try it before you comment anything disputing it. Does this method not work for you? :/
/r/seduction23/03/20 06:26 AM
1

Yee. You know what I'm talking about bro!
/r/seduction23/03/20 06:09 AM
1

Lol, what does that mean?
/r/seduction23/03/20 05:09 AM
1

Thank you sir. I hope the new post is better? Let me know if there's anything else i can do
/r/seduction23/03/20 01:05 AM
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What? Why?
/r/PussyPassDenied16/03/20 08:17 AM
6

Just see them different days. And good job man! These are good problems to have
/r/seduction13/08/19 11:12 AM
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Why aren't you going out everyday? 😘
/r/seduction21/07/18 06:40 AM
4

Try and Try again. Till Lambs become loins
/r/seduction06/06/15 05:22 AM
1

Stop jacking off!!! After i stopped, i had so much more sexual desire for the women around me. Just go two days, and tell me how much your life changes.
/r/seduction04/05/15 08:26 AM
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I'm gonna go to a rave. Hella fun and amazing vibes. Then rent out a motel, and fuck her brains out. I'm also a dude in college, so to each their own
/r/seduction12/02/15 09:42 PM
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It's really easy to land a date on Valentines day so ask some of the women you already know. If you don't want to ask any women, know that going out on V-Day is one of the best experiences in the world. Setup either a bar crawl or club run and literally hit on every single girl you see. If youre like me, fuck a girl in the bathroom, move onto the next bar, fuck another girl, move on, and then go over to a girls house. Girls are hella desperate because nobody (guy or girl) wants to say that they …
/r/seduction09/02/15 07:02 PM
2

Girls literally don't have the balls to set up dates
/r/seduction21/10/14 02:37 AM
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I don't think you ever really move past it. It's gonna keep coming up, but it's on you to be brave enough to overcome it. You basically do it every time you approach a girl, but it just gets easier as time moves on. You have less and less resistance each time until you eventually desensitize yourself to it. There's no short cuts man, you just gotta keep soldiering through. Good luck mate.
/r/seduction21/07/14 08:49 PM
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At least yoy tried. I give you a B- for effort
/r/seduction16/02/14 01:17 AM
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Yeah, he went over that. Werent you paying attention? It only takes minutes to do that. Minutes. Not four or five interactions. Just go up and talk to her for a bit then ask her out. Girls literally have this sixth sense when it comes to guys lingering. She definitely noticed, but now you have a choice. You can keep being a pussy or you can actually go talk to her. You have to either open up both or you Just ask her to come talk to you. Its a lot easier said then done but you gotta just do it. O…
/r/seduction13/11/13 07:47 PM
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I like this
/r/seduction02/11/13 05:13 AM
2

just sit next to them and start talking to them. Its really not that hard. Or, just catch up to them after class and say, "Hey, aren't you in my....class?" And go from there. Simple stuff, mate
/r/seduction31/10/13 10:52 PM
2

Bullshit dude. You have time and if it's too loud, you go in close and talk in her ear. Parties are the easiest place to get girls and a lot of them are looking to get laid. All girls are human and they have human instincts. They want to get laid and its your job to convey that you're the most attractive, confident, and comfortable guy that ever lived.
/r/seduction27/10/13 08:22 PM
3

The fuck do you mean there isn't enough room?
/r/seduction27/10/13 07:14 AM
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First of all, working towards a number is the worst idea possible. Its nothing, and means nothing. What you wanna do is form a connection with a girl. That's how you get them to go home with you. Think about it for a second. You're just a random that started hitting on her. Sure, she'll give you a number, as most girls will, but they won't really go much further unless you make a connection. You have to 'hit it off' with the girl. Just make her entirely comfortable, be outcome independent, and c…
/r/seduction26/10/13 09:52 PM
1

I want to know the short story too
/r/seduction11/10/13 01:26 AM
1

Dude, Just mess with them when they ask if there was homework. "Yeah, we had to type up that three page report." But honestly, you should be the one approaching and shit. Just be a man and do it.
/r/seduction24/09/13 07:16 AM
1

Good, now try doing this a hundred times over and you'll start to see some amazing progress.
/r/seduction20/09/13 01:56 AM
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Use your eyes. Tell girls I want to fuck you with your eyes. Clearly, it takes time to get good at this, and judging by your question, you're a long ways away. So, I recommend just lightly tapping on the arm or shoulder when talking, give her high fives (trust me), and give her hugs. Other than that, you can't really do much unless she followed you to a private location, but if she's done that, then she's already into you and you're golden.
/r/seduction20/09/13 01:55 AM
1

"hey jaimie, stay sexy- that handsome guy you just met"
/r/seduction02/09/13 06:17 PM
10

i really hope you're kidding....
/r/seduction18/08/13 08:34 PM
1

Shut up dude. If you're around these guys and you're confident, no girl will give a fuck. And if they do something socially retarded, Just laugh and shake your head. The girl will Must likely laugh with you. Simple as that
/r/seduction17/08/13 10:04 AM
1

I say you don't ask her again for a couple of days. Be yourself around her, and then ask again after a couple of days have past. If you're not acting afc around her, this should definitely work
/r/seduction16/08/13 09:36 PM
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Have you tried not giving a fuck? If they are what you say they are, they can actually help your game by making you look amazing by comparison. There will be times when they do something completely stupid and make a girl walk away from you, but all you can do is not really give a fuck, and be confident when you introduce them. "These are my friends, and I'm proud that I met them."
/r/seduction16/08/13 06:56 PM
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Just be emotionally open and vulnerable. I just read this in Models, but you need to just about your life and she will do the same. Do that enough, and attraction will build.
/r/seduction16/08/13 06:53 PM
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uhm no, fuck that we can only k-close. If you think that what's gonna happen, then you trapped yourself right there. Here, try this my friend. http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Escalation%20Ladder%20-%20vindicarlo.com.pdf
/r/seduction16/08/13 06:52 PM
1

I had no idea. My bad
/r/seduction06/08/13 04:52 AM
2

Dude, what the hell are you doing?? You need standards my friend. Don't go on fuckin CL. You are a man that can easily fuck any girl that he wants. The girl gets you, you allow a girl thay meets your criteria to be a part of uour life. Fuck that CL bullshit!!
/r/seduction30/07/13 02:47 AM
1

Alright, then think of the bright side. Say, you're going to the beach? You take the bus, just talk or whatever. Act like its no big deal, and she'll be fine with it, too. It actually works in your favor as well. You're sitting right next to her, and with nothing to do, but talk. Just make good eye contact, and sit a bit as your facing her, get some light touch on the forearm kino early in the date. On the ride home, you can have your arm around her. Hell, have a makeout sesh when you're waiting…
/r/seduction23/07/13 09:49 AM
1

do you have something like bart or subway where you live? Everyone takes that and think of an activity to do in the city and you're golden.
/r/seduction22/07/13 11:59 PM
5

how to initiate it, how to practice, the do's and don'ts, the simple tips, the myths, the unknown tips, and anything else you can think of. I just need like a beginners guide please!
/r/seduction04/07/13 10:35 PM
1

maybe the type of country you live in has really shy and slow-moving girls??
/r/seduction04/07/13 06:56 PM
2

Assume Attraction and escalate! Best advice I can give you my friend
/r/seduction01/07/13 08:01 AM
1

probably embarrassed since they turn red right after my opener. even if the opener is situational
/r/seduction21/06/13 10:20 PM
2

first thing i say, and bam! red as a tomato.........but a cute tomato
/r/seduction21/06/13 10:18 PM
28

definitely person, every important conversation needs to be in person because seeing their face and tone is way more important than what they actually say.
/r/seduction11/06/13 06:15 AM
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so, a girl i work with stood me up, but when next day at work she acts like everything is fine. Its not like im being afc around her, she's practically eating out of my hands whenever im at work with her. Always smiling whenever i talk to her, staring at me when she thinks i dont notice, and laughing at all my stupid jokes. So how do i state that i won't tolerate being flaked on without sounding like a needy bitch??
/r/seduction10/06/13 10:46 PM
2

it did happen. boy scout's honor!
/r/seduction15/04/13 09:33 AM
0

yeah dude, some people just fuck everything up....
/r/seduction15/04/13 07:38 AM
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