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johnny__apples/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 03:37 AM
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What’s confronting them gonna accomplish? The only solution is not seeing them anymore
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 04:44 PM
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I’ve tried leaving my comfort zone, it didn’t work. I’m just always gonna be this way
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 04:13 PM
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Right I get the feeling they would mock me regardless but I do feel insecure over not having a girlfriend and they like to make it worse
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 03:38 PM
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I’ve tried making friends for years, nothing works out. My hobbies are private, I don’t believe in god, I don’t meet people through work, I’m not in school. It just never happens
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 03:37 PM
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I mean the alternative is just me being alone
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 03:33 PM
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I don’t see any value in confronting people
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 03:32 PM
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I’m never gonna find anyone
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 03:30 PM
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I mean obviously I’m not gonna find another family
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 03:22 PM
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I just don’t want to be around them anymore
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 07:48 AM
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I haven’t found anything. It’s just been 30 years of pain and rejection and abuse. I don’t want anymore
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 07:11 AM
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I don’t care about my life
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 06:58 AM
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Like what
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 06:41 AM
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I’ve tried, but I don’t like confrontation
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 06:33 AM
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Yeah I just seen them on holidays. I’m just gonna stop going, there’s no point I guess. I’ve tried different therapists I just don’t like therapy
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 06:01 AM
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I don’t want to insult them, I don’t wanna stoop to their level. I just don’t wanna go
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 05:53 AM
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I probably would just stop going I’m in therapy, it doesn’t help
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 05:49 AM
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Yeah
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 05:36 AM
0

I’ve tried they got made at me for not going
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 05:36 AM
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Because I feel like if I react they win
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 05:29 AM
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I guess? It just hurts. I don’t wanna react
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 05:28 AM
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It’s not joking, I can tell but they mean it and intend to be cruel
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 05:28 AM
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People got mad the year I didn’t go to Christmas
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 05:11 AM
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Yeah they do
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 04:55 AM
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I don’t really react I just try to change the subject and not care. They still like abusing me
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 04:49 AM
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That’s good
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 04:48 AM
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Yeah I am. Dating for normal men is over. I mean by all means try and maybe you will get lucky and succeed. But I’m old enough and have been rejected enough to know I won’t, dating is just for hot men these days. It’s harsh but realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:53 AM
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This is absurdly rare and basically never happens. Assuming it will is completely irrational. Giving up is far more logical
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:47 AM
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Not when dating changes so drastically and permanently like it did in the past few years
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:46 AM
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Yup, for sure, women despise most men, especially gay men and love to accuse men of being gay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:43 AM
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Right but none of that is relevant now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:37 AM
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You’re right, I’ve been accused of being gay for not dating women, when the reason is due to me being unattractive. I think most men have already pretty much given up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:30 AM
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Women propose to men sometimes and women are ok with being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:21 AM
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I literally have been shamed in real life by many people, not just men. Women resent men choosing not to date as well, they feel utter disgust when they meet men like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:21 AM
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Nah women and family judge men plenty for not dating. They don’t want men leaving the system even though they have no hope of succeeding in it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:16 AM
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I’ve tried for years, I’m not gonna find anyone. I don’t think most men will, women know they can find better looking men thanks to apps and social media and physical attractiveness in men ain’t subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:16 AM
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I have plenty of money and there aren’t even gold diggers after me. Men don’t get any interest from women if they aren’t attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:09 AM

The reality is men aren’t gonna get women no matter what philosophy they believe because women will just choose men with better genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:08 AM
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It’s worth trying but in general doesn’t work. If a woman won’t date you initially she’s not gonna date you after getting to know you, you’re still unattractive to her she just might exploit you for emotional support or money Edit: I got banned and can’t reply
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:07 AM
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This doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:06 AM
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I don’t have friends Edit I got banned and can’t reply
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:05 AM
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Men don’t have more partners before marriage, women just lie because they know men don’t want a woman with a lot of partners generally Men don’t set the price for anything, only a small percentage of men even have the ability to date these days
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:05 AM
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I don’t have value, I get made fun of my even my own family. I know I’m worthless I got banned so I can’t reply
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:04 AM
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Men are high quality when a large number of women want them, not just one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:03 AM
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Talking about the dating world before Tinder is pointless and irrelevant to modern dating
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:03 AM
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It’s literally both
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:43 AM
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But those women aren’t truly low value because there ARE men who would commit to them, they just don’t want ugly men no matter how many other boxes they check RMV isn’t a thing, women don’t actually separate those men in their minds, they want hot guys to commit to them but hot guys know they don’t need to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:43 AM
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Ok yeah that’s why most women move to major cities even then I got shitty men Describe a “good man” please. I’m sure you literally got hundreds of likes a day. You do realize how few likes men get right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:41 AM
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No, women and family members will still judge you. The want you to simp for a girl or date some highly unattractive woman, they don’t want you able to escape the miserable reality of modern dating as an ugly man. Women don’t want any chance of losing their advantage , if men gave up dating in large numbers would would lose countless free drinks and dinners Edit: I got banned and can’t reply
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:39 AM
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Gross and illegal suggestion, please delete this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:37 AM
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But all women ARE wanted by most men? Like even as a non-white woman in a white area you would still get hundreds of likes a day on dating apps? Edit: I got banned and can’t reply
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:36 AM
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I mean if a man can’t get a woman he is objectively a low value male like I am
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:33 AM
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Poor women aren’t attracted to rich guys, they just want money. I also get three weeks vacation a year, the logistics of dating abroad don’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:31 AM
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You don’t have to. Many of us unattractive men do give up, however that doesn’t get you out of it. You WILL be judged greatly for not dating as a man. Others will see it as a moral failing on your part, family members will mock and belittle you. You can’t escape judgement Edit: I can’t reply because I was banned
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:25 AM
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can 90% of women get a reasonably quality guy to commit to them long-term Definite quality guy. Because if women were willing to date unattractive men or men with issues socializing, they obviously could get a high earning guy who treats them well to commit to them. Most women would rather hookup with hot guys than get an unattractive man with otherwise good qualities to commit Edit: I got banned and can’t reply
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:23 AM
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But objectively you don’t know what it’s like to get nothing but endless rejection because you aren’t a man. How would that make you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:21 AM
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Once I reached 30 without any success with women previously I realized I probably was never going to have any and haven’t
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:20 AM

I don’t think it’s bitter, I mean I do agree men need to try and enjoy our own company but I don’t see how us being more ok being alone solves collapsing birth rates
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:48 PM
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I’ve tried, people made fun of me. I look like shit with a shaved head. Again, my life is over
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 01:00 AM
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My life is already over
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:43 AM
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I’ve tried. It didn’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:20 PM
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People don’t tend to make many friends after college.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:26 PM
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Because it’s not something that happens in your 30s, it’s pretty much over. There’s so much social development I’ve just missed out on. The vast majority of women my age are in commit relationships. There’s nothing I can do. I’ve tried
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:53 PM
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I’m already 30, I am out of time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:52 PM
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I just see no point in holding out hope. Seems like it’s just causing myself more pain. Giving up was the only logical response. Accepting that my genetics doomed me from the start, my physical appearance and my autism. I’m going to pass away one day anyway, why bother? Life is pointless. Why not just accept the reality of my situation, that I was doomed from the very start? You admit for all your effort you have zero success. What was the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:28 AM
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Dude you’ve literally been using TRT for years and you still can’t date. So literally what is the point in me using it? Stop recommending illegal shit you’re gonna get banned
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:18 AM
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I’ve already lost hope. I know it’s too late
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:17 AM
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Yeah my genetics and my childhood were both pretty bad and I can’t change them unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:16 AM
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I’m afraid of TRT. I mean for one I’ve asked multiple doctors and they told me no. Second, I tried minoxidil for several years and it didn’t stop my hair loss, I KNOW TRT will accelerate hair loss. You can dm if you want but I’ve read about TRT, doesn’t seem safe at all https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35437187/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:12 AM
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Of course I’m pessimistic, I have decades of failure under my belt, who wouldn’t be? People can change somewhat but by the time you’re my age you’re mostly solidified in who you are. I’m not telling you to give up, do what you want. I just realize that the chances are slim to none I’m gonna suddenly make such drastic changes. I won’t, why would I believe it’s possible? When every experience I’ve had in my life has told me it isn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:06 AM
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I feel bad. For a while i did want a girlfriend, I wanted to get married and have kids. But it just never happened and I don’t think it’s gonna change. It’s too late, if my life was gonna change it would have by now. low testosterone get supplements I tried, that didn’t work skinny eat protein and exercise I tried, I just got fat because I lack the testosterone to build muscle balding no one cares This is just plain untrue. You’re not being honest social awkward due to lack of practice I’m 31 du…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:04 AM
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I really think these differences are just economic. Notice how birth rates are far lower in richer countries
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:01 AM
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Exactly. Many of us are just never going to be wanted, why would we? Women can get much better men than us and frankly they should. Yeah the internet opens space for very extreme and dangerous rhetoric. This kind of men’s rights nonsense is certainly a part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:56 AM
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I mean it’s highly unlikely. Years of conditioning and experience make us who we are. We don’t just completely change at 40 or even 30. You can make minor changes, sure, but drastic stuff seems unrealistic. It won’t happen. you are not programmed to stagnate or give up Except I kind of literally am… I’m not being too hard on myself at all. I’m a 30 year old who has never dated or has any friends. It’s over
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:55 AM
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I guess? But it doesn’t matter, there aren’t any women interested in me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:42 AM
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I don’t think I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:27 AM
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You don’t really develop this in your 30s dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:27 AM
1

Ok so you live in Argentina. It’s still a very poor country with less gender equality than the US. Sure YOU are privileged but most women there aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:26 AM
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Latin America is very impoverishsed dude, look it up. It’s not prejudices, women have way higher standards in the US because women have more equality and disposable income. For some men like me, we just aren’t able to date
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:13 AM
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In poor countries women are far more likely to have lower standards in men because it’s much harder to survive on their own. They need men for financial reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:06 AM
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It’s different here in the US. Women my age make a lot more money, they can afford to support themselves unlike in a poor country like Latam. Women can take their time, they can afford to wait an find a much better guy than me so why bother with someone ugly like myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:53 AM
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My hobbies are solo and it’s weird your friends are a decade younger bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:28 AM
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Men don’t tend to make friends at my age, especially when you have zero
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:25 AM
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I can’t do it, any friends I’ve made in the past have stopped wanting to be around me. I’m just very autistic and not fun to be around I think. And again, unattractive. Plus I’m in my 30s now, like 80% of women my age are in relationships or married. It’s not gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:19 AM
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I’m unattractive. Balding, poor jaw structure, low testosterone so very skinny, probably on the autism spectrum somewhat. I don’t have friends either
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:13 AM
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I don’t think a state mandated girlfriend makes sense and I would never wanna be with a woman that doesn’t find me attractive, I know I won’t because I’m ugly, but it’s wrong to subjugate women in any way. Men want girlfriends because of evolution, we have a deep biological drive to want to pair and reproduce. But many of us simply can’t compete in the modern world, we just aren’t as attractive as other men women can date. We also get made fun of for not dating, my own family makes fun of me for…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:47 AM
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I’m sure there’s some small number of super religious but attractive guys that genuinely have no interest in hookups, but for the most part yes men who dislike hookup culture are an example of “sour grapes”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:23 PM
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