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| 27 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend? | johnny__apples | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 03:37 AM |
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| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?What’s confronting them gonna accomplish? The only solution is not seeing them anymore | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I’ve tried leaving my comfort zone, it didn’t work. I’m just always gonna be this way | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?Right I get the feeling they would mock me regardless but I do feel insecure over not having a girlfriend and they like to make it worse | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I’ve tried making friends for years, nothing works out. My hobbies are private, I don’t believe in god, I don’t meet people through work, I’m not in school. It just never happens | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I mean the alternative is just me being alone | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I don’t see any value in confronting people | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I’m never gonna find anyone | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I mean obviously I’m not gonna find another family | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I just don’t want to be around them anymore | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I haven’t found anything. It’s just been 30 years of pain and rejection and abuse. I don’t want anymore | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 07:11 AM |
| 0 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I don’t care about my life | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?Like what | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I’ve tried, but I don’t like confrontation | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?Yeah I just seen them on holidays. I’m just gonna stop going, there’s no point I guess. I’ve tried different therapists I just don’t like therapy | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I don’t want to insult them, I don’t wanna stoop to their level. I just don’t wanna go | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I probably would just stop going I’m in therapy, it doesn’t help | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?Yeah | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 05:36 AM |
| 0 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I’ve tried they got made at me for not going | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?Because I feel like if I react they win | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 05:29 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I guess? It just hurts. I don’t wanna react | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?It’s not joking, I can tell but they mean it and intend to be cruel | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 05:28 AM |
| 7 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?People got mad the year I didn’t go to Christmas | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 05:11 AM |
| 4 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?Yeah they do | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?I don’t really react I just try to change the subject and not care. They still like abusing me | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else’s family make fun of them for never having a girlfriend?That’s good | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/23 04:48 AM |
| 2 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.Yeah I am. Dating for normal men is over. I mean by all means try and maybe you will get lucky and succeed. But I’m old enough and have been rejected enough to know I won’t, dating is just for hot men these days. It’s harsh but realistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:53 AM |
| 19 | Should guys take it personally if they have to wait till their 30s to have success with women?This is absurdly rare and basically never happens. Assuming it will is completely irrational. Giving up is far more logical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:47 AM |
| 1 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.Not when dating changes so drastically and permanently like it did in the past few years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:46 AM |
| 2 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.Yup, for sure, women despise most men, especially gay men and love to accuse men of being gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:43 AM |
| 1 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.Right but none of that is relevant now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:37 AM |
| 2 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.You’re right, I’ve been accused of being gay for not dating women, when the reason is due to me being unattractive. I think most men have already pretty much given up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:30 AM |
| 4 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.Women propose to men sometimes and women are ok with being alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:21 AM |
| 1 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.I literally have been shamed in real life by many people, not just men. Women resent men choosing not to date as well, they feel utter disgust when they meet men like me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:21 AM |
| 6 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.Nah women and family judge men plenty for not dating. They don’t want men leaving the system even though they have no hope of succeeding in it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:16 AM |
| 0 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.I’ve tried for years, I’m not gonna find anyone. I don’t think most men will, women know they can find better looking men thanks to apps and social media and physical attractiveness in men ain’t subjective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:16 AM |
| 8 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.I have plenty of money and there aren’t even gold diggers after me. Men don’t get any interest from women if they aren’t attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:09 AM |
| – | To what extent does the original RP / TRP make sense?The reality is men aren’t gonna get women no matter what philosophy they believe because women will just choose men with better genetics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:08 AM |
| 60 | Should men try to be friends with women first?It’s worth trying but in general doesn’t work. If a woman won’t date you initially she’s not gonna date you after getting to know you, you’re still unattractive to her she just might exploit you for emotional support or money Edit: I got banned and can’t reply | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:07 AM |
| 1 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.This doesn’t make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:06 AM |
| 6 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.I don’t have friends Edit I got banned and can’t reply | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:05 AM |
| 2 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.Men don’t have more partners before marriage, women just lie because they know men don’t want a woman with a lot of partners generally Men don’t set the price for anything, only a small percentage of men even have the ability to date these days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:05 AM |
| 3 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.I don’t have value, I get made fun of my even my own family. I know I’m worthless I got banned so I can’t reply | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:04 AM |
| 11 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.Men are high quality when a large number of women want them, not just one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:03 AM |
| -1 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.Talking about the dating world before Tinder is pointless and irrelevant to modern dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:03 AM |
| 3 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.It’s literally both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:43 AM |
| -1 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.But those women aren’t truly low value because there ARE men who would commit to them, they just don’t want ugly men no matter how many other boxes they check RMV isn’t a thing, women don’t actually separate those men in their minds, they want hot guys to commit to them but hot guys know they don’t need to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:43 AM |
| 6 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.Ok yeah that’s why most women move to major cities even then I got shitty men Describe a “good man” please. I’m sure you literally got hundreds of likes a day. You do realize how few likes men get right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:41 AM |
| 10 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.No, women and family members will still judge you. The want you to simp for a girl or date some highly unattractive woman, they don’t want you able to escape the miserable reality of modern dating as an ugly man. Women don’t want any chance of losing their advantage , if men gave up dating in large numbers would would lose countless free drinks and dinners Edit: I got banned and can’t reply | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:39 AM |
| 2 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.Gross and illegal suggestion, please delete this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:37 AM |
| 6 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.But all women ARE wanted by most men? Like even as a non-white woman in a white area you would still get hundreds of likes a day on dating apps? Edit: I got banned and can’t reply | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.I mean if a man can’t get a woman he is objectively a low value male like I am | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:33 AM |
| 3 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.Poor women aren’t attracted to rich guys, they just want money. I also get three weeks vacation a year, the logistics of dating abroad don’t work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:31 AM |
| 21 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.You don’t have to. Many of us unattractive men do give up, however that doesn’t get you out of it. You WILL be judged greatly for not dating as a man. Others will see it as a moral failing on your part, family members will mock and belittle you. You can’t escape judgement Edit: I can’t reply because I was banned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:25 AM |
| 29 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.can 90% of women get a reasonably quality guy to commit to them long-term Definite quality guy. Because if women were willing to date unattractive men or men with issues socializing, they obviously could get a high earning guy who treats them well to commit to them. Most women would rather hookup with hot guys than get an unattractive man with otherwise good qualities to commit Edit: I got banned and can’t reply | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:23 AM |
| 34 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.But objectively you don’t know what it’s like to get nothing but endless rejection because you aren’t a man. How would that make you feel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:21 AM |
| 24 | Should guys take it personally if they have to wait till their 30s to have success with women?Once I reached 30 without any success with women previously I realized I probably was never going to have any and haven’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:20 AM |
| – | The “male loneliness epidemic” is a non issueI don’t think it’s bitter, I mean I do agree men need to try and enjoy our own company but I don’t see how us being more ok being alone solves collapsing birth rates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?I’ve tried, people made fun of me. I look like shit with a shaved head. Again, my life is over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?My life is already over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?I’ve tried. It didn’t work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?People don’t tend to make many friends after college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?Because it’s not something that happens in your 30s, it’s pretty much over. There’s so much social development I’ve just missed out on. The vast majority of women my age are in commit relationships. There’s nothing I can do. I’ve tried | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?I’m already 30, I am out of time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?I just see no point in holding out hope. Seems like it’s just causing myself more pain. Giving up was the only logical response. Accepting that my genetics doomed me from the start, my physical appearance and my autism. I’m going to pass away one day anyway, why bother? Life is pointless. Why not just accept the reality of my situation, that I was doomed from the very start? You admit for all your effort you have zero success. What was the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:28 AM |
| 11 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?Dude you’ve literally been using TRT for years and you still can’t date. So literally what is the point in me using it? Stop recommending illegal shit you’re gonna get banned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?I’ve already lost hope. I know it’s too late | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:17 AM |
| 3 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?Yeah my genetics and my childhood were both pretty bad and I can’t change them unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:16 AM |
| 3 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?I’m afraid of TRT. I mean for one I’ve asked multiple doctors and they told me no. Second, I tried minoxidil for several years and it didn’t stop my hair loss, I KNOW TRT will accelerate hair loss. You can dm if you want but I’ve read about TRT, doesn’t seem safe at all https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35437187/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?Of course I’m pessimistic, I have decades of failure under my belt, who wouldn’t be? People can change somewhat but by the time you’re my age you’re mostly solidified in who you are. I’m not telling you to give up, do what you want. I just realize that the chances are slim to none I’m gonna suddenly make such drastic changes. I won’t, why would I believe it’s possible? When every experience I’ve had in my life has told me it isn’t? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?I feel bad. For a while i did want a girlfriend, I wanted to get married and have kids. But it just never happened and I don’t think it’s gonna change. It’s too late, if my life was gonna change it would have by now. low testosterone get supplements I tried, that didn’t work skinny eat protein and exercise I tried, I just got fat because I lack the testosterone to build muscle balding no one cares This is just plain untrue. You’re not being honest social awkward due to lack of practice I’m 31 du… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?I really think these differences are just economic. Notice how birth rates are far lower in richer countries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:01 AM |
| 8 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?Exactly. Many of us are just never going to be wanted, why would we? Women can get much better men than us and frankly they should. Yeah the internet opens space for very extreme and dangerous rhetoric. This kind of men’s rights nonsense is certainly a part of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?I mean it’s highly unlikely. Years of conditioning and experience make us who we are. We don’t just completely change at 40 or even 30. You can make minor changes, sure, but drastic stuff seems unrealistic. It won’t happen. you are not programmed to stagnate or give up Except I kind of literally am… I’m not being too hard on myself at all. I’m a 30 year old who has never dated or has any friends. It’s over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?I guess? But it doesn’t matter, there aren’t any women interested in me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:42 AM |
| 8 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?I don’t think I can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?You don’t really develop this in your 30s dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?Ok so you live in Argentina. It’s still a very poor country with less gender equality than the US. Sure YOU are privileged but most women there aren’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:26 AM |
| 7 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?Latin America is very impoverishsed dude, look it up. It’s not prejudices, women have way higher standards in the US because women have more equality and disposable income. For some men like me, we just aren’t able to date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:13 AM |
| 6 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?In poor countries women are far more likely to have lower standards in men because it’s much harder to survive on their own. They need men for financial reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:06 AM |
| 9 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?It’s different here in the US. Women my age make a lot more money, they can afford to support themselves unlike in a poor country like Latam. Women can take their time, they can afford to wait an find a much better guy than me so why bother with someone ugly like myself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?My hobbies are solo and it’s weird your friends are a decade younger bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 05:28 AM |
| 7 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?Men don’t tend to make friends at my age, especially when you have zero | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 05:25 AM |
| 10 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?I can’t do it, any friends I’ve made in the past have stopped wanting to be around me. I’m just very autistic and not fun to be around I think. And again, unattractive. Plus I’m in my 30s now, like 80% of women my age are in relationships or married. It’s not gonna happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 05:19 AM |
| 16 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?I’m unattractive. Balding, poor jaw structure, low testosterone so very skinny, probably on the autism spectrum somewhat. I don’t have friends either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 05:13 AM |
| 36 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?I don’t think a state mandated girlfriend makes sense and I would never wanna be with a woman that doesn’t find me attractive, I know I won’t because I’m ugly, but it’s wrong to subjugate women in any way. Men want girlfriends because of evolution, we have a deep biological drive to want to pair and reproduce. But many of us simply can’t compete in the modern world, we just aren’t as attractive as other men women can date. We also get made fun of for not dating, my own family makes fun of me for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 04:47 AM |
| 1 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itI’m sure there’s some small number of super religious but attractive guys that genuinely have no interest in hookups, but for the most part yes men who dislike hookup culture are an example of “sour grapes”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 05:23 PM |
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