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Of course. Women have been easily capable of seriously injuring or killing men since the first stone blade was crafted by a hominin millions of years ago.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 02:23 PM
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Yes read their post. I did. Nowhere does he mention women lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:55 AM
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he mentioned that in the past Chad would be taken out in the square and beaten for taking all the women from the men in the village. Then I don't know what the hell that guy was smoking. That certainly wasn't true in most times and places. as he does you’re angry…at the women… Who is? I'm sure as hell not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:35 AM
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see edit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:31 AM
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I think you have the wrong flair buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:26 AM
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Maybe they think it's worth it to attract attention from desirable guys. Who are you to tell them what they should prioritize? Fuck I'm retarded I missed the "in a relationship" part. Yeah that's a fair point but I think getting your GF to not wear revealing clothes is just not possible in this day and age. It's just so normalized that it would seem really weird and insecure for you to try and stop them from doing it. I guess just don't endanger yourself to protect some hoe then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:25 AM
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The reason for this is natural selection. Women invest more in their offspring than men so they are more selective when it comes to who they mate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:20 AM
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There are women who refuse to have sex outside of marriage Realistically, how many young women in the west do you think have conservative, religious, attitudes towards sex? 5%? Maybe 10%? Sleeping around is normal for even right-leaning women. Sorry to cut off your copium supply bro, but religion is in terminal decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:17 AM
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the same way they assume women wouldn’t be honest with their intentions. Are they assuming that? I personally wouldn't accuse women of lying just for taking advantage of men they friendzoned. Just like women who get pumped and dumped, friendzoned men make assumptions and hear what they want to hear. The intent is to get the sex and leave. It doesn't mean he's advocating for lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:16 AM
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Men: “women should have sex with me on the first date to show she finds me attractive.” There's no need to tell women that they should do this. They already do. If women find you attractive they simply won't make you wait for sex for too long. Perhaps it won't happen on the first date, but still. It's the most common way women demonstrate interest in you, as opposed to what you can do for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:55 AM
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Yes, I'm being serious. Lying is not a prerequisite for pumping and dumping, it's not a prerequisite for women to feel hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:52 AM
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Though using a woman under the guise of romance is simply cowardice to me. Why are you assuming that he would lie to a woman about his intentions and what he wants? He never mentioned that. Women get pumped and dumped all the time because they make baseless assumptions that he's interested in more, or they hear what they want to hear when the subject comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:49 AM
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Nice attempt at deflection there. Men pumping and dumping isn't the main reason why dating is harder for men. Women being very selective is the main reason why dating is harder for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:47 AM
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Don't expect women to be logically consistent lol. There's a reason most democracies didn't allow them to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:18 AM
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All is fair in love and war
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:19 PM
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In other words, water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:16 PM
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The model is that we would rather 100 guilty men go free than wrongly convict 1 innocent man. This is not really true when it comes to sex crimes anymore. There has been a lot of pressure from feminist groups to value complainant testimony more and increase convictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:15 PM
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It's true for both really. These things happen in private, the overwhelming majority of the time there is no evidence other than complainant testimony and sometimes physical injury(which could very well be self-inflicted or inflicted in self-defense).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:14 AM
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https://www.canlii.org/en/#search/origin1=%2Fen%2Fca%2Flaws%2Fstat%2Frsc-1985-c-c-46%2Flatest%2Frsc-1985-c-c-46.html&nquery1=Crimin&section1=271 Have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:11 AM
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Men are regularly convicted of rape and domestic violence based on complainant testimony alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:06 AM
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And through around 2014 (which is when the dataset ended), the divorce rate for people who married in the 2000s was only at 15%." The duration of those marriages would have been anywhere from 4-14 years. It doesn't tell us what percentage of them reached 15 years. Are you incapable of doing basic math? And you're throwing out semantic bullshit. "Married men being healthier and living longer isn't necessarily caused by them getting married" is not semantics it's common sense. The causation vs cor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:02 PM
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What "other data"? The distinction between correlation and causation is not semantic, you just don't understand how to interpret data correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:54 PM
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Well not obviously not all, but you're more likely to have a higher quality of life if you are married (if you're a man). Quality of life is subjective and there are factors other than health and longevity that people value in their own subjective determinations of quality of life. Not being nagged by a woman day in and day out would be a big plus for many guys I imagine. And even with regards to health and longevity, the evidence showing that married men may be healthier and live longer doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:02 AM
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Some argue that people aren’t meant to be monogamous which is why a lot of marriages fail. Humans are socially monogamous most of the time but we don't mate for life and we aren't sexually monogamous. And in the past polygamy wasn't uncommon either, before Christianity and it's associated moral attitudes became dominant. But either way, if there’s nothing that can be done to decrease the failure rate, then is it just due to a flaw in humanity? It's due to natural human behavior, and legal and cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:36 AM
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I didn't say that. I am opposed to the legal rights and obligations associated with formal marriage, not necessarily families and monogamy, what you might call "common-law marriage". Of course in some jurisdictions "common-law marriages" do confer certain rights and obligations and those are similarly problematic. Is the idea of a lifelong partner just something not biologically possible for the vast majority of people? What do you mean "biologically possible"? Some people do have lifelong relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:24 AM
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You're speaking as if only wealthy men marry and are studied. They're not. I didn't say that, are you illiterate? Are you incapable of understanding statistics and data? All I said is that men who are selected for marriage are wealthier than average, wealthier people are healthier and live longer on average, therefore it's plausible that this contributes to the statistic that married men are healthier and live longer. I mean, not all married men are healthy and live long lives either. 50% divorc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:15 AM
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Are you concerned with the rate of failed marriages? No. Just don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:53 AM
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What's your point? The research I'm aware of only demonstrates that married men are healthier and live longer on average, and wealthy men are more likely to get selected for marriage. This isn't causal evidence of marriage resulting in them being healthier and living longer. You'd have to show that in two men that are similarly wealthy, the one who gets married will be healthier and live longer than the one who doesn't. The data also only looks at marriages that haven't ended yet, not all marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:29 AM
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More likely to go to doctor's appointments. Better nutrition. Both of these things are strongly related to wealth. Especially in the US where medical care is rather expensive and not guaranteed by the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:19 AM
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They can but someone who is not currently obese, disabled, or mentally ill will probably be more healthy in the future than someone who currently is. There is a chance that you will develop problems if you don't currently have them, whereas if you currently have these problems then your health is already compromised. The health studies applies to things like men's survival rate for things like prostate cancer. This is related to healthcare quality, which is positively correlated with wealth, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:50 PM
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Can you tell me who this "girl that I like who isn't into me" is? The one which is apparently the reason I oppose marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:31 PM
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The oneitis that you are projecting......
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:26 PM
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I think most of you dudes are pissed off that the girl you like isn’t into you. Projection. Just because you can't get over oneitis doesn't mean others can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:18 PM
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You can tell if they're obese or physically disabled, and can often tell if they're mentally ill. All factors that relate to health.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:13 PM
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Men rarely shame other men for not marrying. It's usually women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:56 AM
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You see: he was a heavy drinker. So a could Christmases he took me with him to his old hangouts and dive bars. and all his friends were drunks (so he couldn’t hang out with them) Alcoholics are miserable. Big whoop. I get you think women are a pain and you’d be better off with our them. We're better off not marrying them. People still date in their 40s and 50s. My only question is: You wiling to bet your whole life on it? You think very much like incels do if you think a wife is a necessity for …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:10 AM
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Women instigate domestic violence at similar or higher rates as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:59 AM
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Those studies show correlation, not causation. Women pick successful and healthy men to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:57 AM
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That includes couples where parents share childcare duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:56 AM
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All of us know it's a woman behind that account, you're not fooling anyone with that profile pic buddy. Men don't need a marriage to be satisfied with our lives, we have have friends and family. Not having close relationships that are unrelated to your spouse is a very bad sign of being overly dependent and isolated. Women are a pain in the ass to deal with and there is a very high chance she will end the marriage and screw you over financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:55 AM
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Men in this sub literally say women have no problems because men want to fuck them. Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:43 AM
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A hyperbolic statement expressing the opinion that women have it easier is not the same as literally claiming that women face no difficulties in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:40 AM
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Tinder makes it easier for women to seek out the most desirable men https://letmegooglethat.com/?q=men+exaggerating+sexual+partners
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:01 AM
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This includes data from older men as well, they didn't have Tinder when they were young. Men also exaggerate the number of sexual partners they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:57 AM
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Not really TBH, he's kinda traditionalist. Thinks guys should pay on dates Thinks guys have a duty to "protect their woman You think A Pimp Named Slickback is a tradcuck? Would he treat a woman to a nice dinner or stick his neck out for her? Hell no, and neither should you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:50 AM
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Which stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:41 AM
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Most men are not desirable enough to be promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:47 AM
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It's not an insult if you accept female promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:45 AM
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Ah... because the they are sluts too! Sure, is that supposed to be insult? Because if it is, most TRP guys wouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:42 AM
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The manosphere teaches guys that women are simply objects here to cook and clean and have sex with. Who does? MGTOW are either coping incels or men have sworn off relationships with women after bad experiences. The MRA community focuses on social and legal discrimination against men, not sexual relationship dynamics. Terms like "spinning plates" show how women are viewed as just object's to have sex with A "plate" relationship is purely sexual, yes, but that doesn't mean that's the only kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:38 AM
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MRAs are not focused on men's rights issues. They're focused on destroying feminism Because feminist activism is hostile towards men. They consistently and regularly: downplay the prevalence and severity of female-on-male domestic violence and non-consensual sex take the side of female aggressors like Amber Heard even when there is strong evidence of their guilt(the text messages expose Amber as the one instigating fights and Johnny as the one trying to distance himself during altercations) advo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:21 AM
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hence the first rule of red pill — hide your contempt and don’t talk about red pill There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:06 AM
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I enjoy being "hit on" by any woman, even if I don't find them attractive. Even an old lady calling me "handsome" would make my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:06 AM
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Pick better men. How are we supposed to know? I wouldn't say that women are making mistakes. I would say that empirical data demonstrates that women specifically prefer and pick the same low-agreeableness and promiscuous men that you claim to despise. Whose behavior you then use as justification for spewing hate and vitriol towards men as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:38 AM
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Secondly, women (and men) can't read minds. Tell that to the women who think that they can read minds and tell if a guy has posted on incel or TRP forums before LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:35 AM
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How do the first or the second links contradict the conclusion that women find less agreeable men more desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:33 AM
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You forgot one. "He's ugly"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:10 AM
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Even if there were exceptions or deferments that doesn't erase the inequality. Men are generally required to serve, because they are men. Women are not. It literally takes you 10 seconds to do a google search and see which countries have conscription for men only.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 02:06 AM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/education-31751672 https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2144002 You're just being willfully blind. All it takes is a quick google search.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 02:05 AM
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You don't need a college degree to interpret data. If you disagree with the interpretation presented here then explain why. And why are you posting from an alt account?!? This isn't my alt.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:56 PM
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The conclusion is that research consistently indicates that women have a sexual preference for less agreeable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:08 PM
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There you go. Self-improvement > ingesting copium
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:59 AM
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I was surprised to learn that Brad Pitt was 50 in Fury. He really has aged gracefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:37 AM
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It has facial aging rates in proc/ distance/year Yes, and the female rate of aging for ages 40 to 50 are 30-40% higher than the male rate of aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:33 AM
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I got that figure from the graph
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:29 AM
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Jennifer Aniston?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:25 AM
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No it doesn't, the rate of female ageing is 30-40% faster before age 50 according to that chart. It looks like menopause is the big cause of aging, which makes total sense since that's when women can't have kids any more. Female fertility starts declining well before menopause. Most women will have a much harder time conceiving in their late 30s and 40s compared to when they were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:20 AM
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You barely even read it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:39 AM
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Yeah that's true I guess, but in your 30s and 40s when your facial hair fills out and guys start gaining weight and balding it can only go downhill from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:06 AM
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Guys who think they are magically become better looking as they age are delusional. Correct, men generally don't get better looking with age. But men do age better than women do. Men's physical attractiveness declines less compared to women. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/ajpa.23878
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:11 AM
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and noticed that many redpillers mention a study demonstrating the female capacity to pair bond decreases as promiscuity increases. I think people who claim this mistakenly conclude that there is a causal relationship between the two based on the research that does exist, when in fact no causal relationship has been demonstrated. There have been many studies demonstrating a strong correlation between sexual promiscuity, relationship satisfaction, and infidelity. People with more sexual partners …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:34 AM
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My guy I think you responded to the wrong comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:25 AM
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jesse what the fuck are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:09 AM
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FDS, obviously. Very few other systems are as wholly wrong and sexist as what that community pushes. FDS isn't a strategy. It's just a bunch of delusional retards complaining about men and inflating each other's egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:02 AM
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She's lying through her teeth about her standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:20 PM
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Male victims of women don't fully understand and internalize what happened because they're taught that rape overwhelmingly involves male perpetrators despite empirical research contradicting this. Male victims of other men are afraid of being emasculated and having their sexual orientation questioned. Men, generally, are more resilient than women, and aren't as badly affected by negative experiences such as rape.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 11:54 AM
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Step 1: Don't get married Step 2: Don't get married Step 3: Don't get married Marriage is a horrible deal for men in the west. Just don't do it, period.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 11:48 AM
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Maybe this is an unpopular opinion but I think everyone here telling you to dump her is overreacting. Lots of couples have political disagreements, at least initially. And most young women are socially progressive and sympathetic to feminism so you'll severe limit your dating options if you rule all of them out. Women are more impressionable than men, so if you're assertive and don't back down from your beliefs then her views will probably become closer to your own with time. Some guys here are …
/r/MensRights01/08/22 11:45 AM
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Also men who want to share/exploit women are not “the best men” and the fact that men I think you meant to say "men that are shared by women". And men don't necessarily think that being like this makes you "the best man". But women do, as evidenced by how being highly desirable to women is a prerequisite to being shared by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:49 PM
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All that expression means is that things will end, don't try too hard to stop it from happening, and you need to be able to move on. You're getting too hung up over the wording.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:22 AM
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It is if their cheating destroys the relationship and causes their partner to leave That will only happen if the cheating is discovered, so no, it's not necessarily the same. And even if the outcome is the same that doesn't mean they're the same thing. If you are married, yes, you have some obligation to not treat them like a disposable rag because you actually vowed that you wouldn’t do that Marriage vows are meaningless now, thanks to women's efforts to institute no fault divorce. Half of marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:21 AM
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Rich and famous men cheat on their beautiful wives and girlfriends with sometimes much uglier women. Cheating is more plausible, men evolved to desire sex with a variety of women. But cheating on your partner isn't the same as leaving them for someone else. If you’re in a committed relationship and you trash your commitment to “trade up” you’re a trashy, treacherous person. So you feel that if someone gets in a relationship with someone, he has an obligation to stay so long as he's not being abu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:58 PM
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I said I wouldn’t want to be treated like a go-kart. That's an accusation of objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:18 PM
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So not wanting to be in a relationship where the other partner loses interest, or not wanting to get married, are "objectifying"? Recognizing that the relationship will eventually end if "objectifying"? I didn't double down on shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:15 PM
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Date who you want, I don't give a shit. I'm just disputing your claim that it's objectifying women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:03 PM
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Yeah well very short men are far more undesirable than women 30s-50s. The average age disparity between couples isn't that big, like a few years. Middle aged are mostly with women around their age or somewhat younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:01 PM
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Can you link the data? and sex with someone whose less attracted to you every year you’re together sounds…awful Maybe to you. Others can enjoy relationships for as long as they last. Men 10, 20, 30 years older would still choose a 20 year old to pursue a relationship with. Preferring younger more attractive women doesn't mean they don't care about their partners. What kind of leap in logic is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:00 PM
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"I love short guys, it's so awkward dating my 6'4" boyfriend I have to get on my tiptoes to kiss him. I only because of his awesome personality teehee" meme gender
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:57 PM
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"i'm totally involuntarily celibate teehee"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:48 PM
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The thing is, nobody knows a womans body count but her unless its all like recorded or something. Exactly, so guys should just stop worrying about it and realize that she's not yours, it's just your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:25 PM
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I don’t want to date a man who thinks it is “his turn” with me like I am a go-kart or something The saying is just a recognization of the fact that in all likelihood she will either lose interest or push for marriage eventually, both of which undesirable for TRP guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:18 PM
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wrong: some would cheat and leave you for someone worse You only say that because you think you're better than them, but what you think doesn't matter. If he thought you were better than them he wouldn't leave you for them. It’s a weird way to view dating though, like they view dumping their girlfriend to fuck another chick If you find someone you like more what's wrong with ending things? Women do this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:01 PM
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What makes you think you're so unique and special that a very desirable man would choose you over all his other options?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:59 PM
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Low class and low income men aren't magically better than high class and high income men. OP was talking about "high value" as in good-looking men. Poor and low class can still be physically attractive. I love how this sub acts and pretends like average men can't, won't, and have never treated their romantic partners like trash. Maybe in some respects they aren't any different, but less desirable men have fewer options which means they're more likely and more willing to commit to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:55 PM
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I don’t know why you claimed I was wrong then linked the Incel wiki. They've done a pretty job at collecting research. And all available research indicates that women are more attracted to less agreeable men which is basically what TRP can be simplified down to. I've never seen a single study demonstrate that women prefer more agreeable men. He claimed men are better drivers than women Depends on what you mean by "better". "Better" as in more skilled or more cautious and better at following the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:32 PM
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Then why does this sub complain about men performing poorly in schools Yeah well this sub isn't a hivemind. And a big part of the reason boys perform worse in school is because teachers discriminating against us when they're grading. That's a BIG problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:21 PM
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Lol the fact that you think some women don't come into their own, get more fit, and can be pretty in their 30s (even 40s and 50s et all) They can, but women overwhelmingly due to social and biological factors women tend to gain fat as they age, not lose it. Also plenty of people who are 30s, 40s, and older do not want commitment or a provider or kids. Mostly men. Women benefit massively from marriage and aren't going to stop seeking it anytime soon, married men outearn married women by 20-30k on…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:09 PM
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Yes internet ideologies exist on the internet. We live in the digital age. Everyone uses the internet. How old are you, 70? We agree, though I don’t believe it’s getting anyone laid. I would assume quite the opposite. You're wrong He just banking off a market of disenfranchised feeling young men. He is, that doesn't mean the things he's saying are factually incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:06 PM
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and “human” by nature of having human DNA It's an individual human just like you or I. It's not just human(adjective), it's a human(noun). It's fundamentally different from a mere human body part and pro-choicers make themselves look like fools when they make that comparison. That's like comparing a chicken drumstick you buy at the grocery store to a living, individual, chicken. but it isn’t a person That's completely subjective. Declaring something to be a person or not a person is simply a sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:39 AM
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how will they be a Beta Bucks if women are out preforming them in education and job growth? Having a piece of paper doesn't always translate to higher income. I think it's hilarious when women think so highly of themselves just because they have a degree. Women are overrepresented in majors with poorer job prospects like social work and psychology, men are overrepresented in majors with better job prospects like engineering and finance. And men dominate skilled trades which pay quite well withou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:47 AM
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Why would they be screwed? They can earn about the same as men in their class Married women earn 20-30k less than same age married men, depending on age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:43 AM
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Your avatar isn't fooling anyone. We all know a woman wrote this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:42 AM
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Lmao 😂 go outside cabrón if anything the growth of RP and internet weirdos is just turning women off of men entirely. Keep coping dude, TRP ideas are pretty mainstream among guys. After all, it's just frat boy folk wisdom repackaged for guys that aren't chads. It's just not something that polite mainstream media covers. "Nice guys finish last" is a popular saying. Andrew Tate has many RP ideas and he's all over social media RN. There's also this popular youtuber Jack Denmo who does videos in Can…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:40 AM
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or excel at parenting by yourself. That's why I said "if I get rich" and could afford lots of hired help. Which is probably not going to happen. It's nice to think about but realistically I'm too lazy to raise a kid normally, even with the help of a partner. According to this website, only 62% of newborns are adopted within their first month. Not surprising considering the paperwork involved. I have no doubt that they will be adopted eventually though, considering that couples usually have to wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:54 AM
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I am not deliberately advocating for "blue pill" Yeah of course, and don't take it too far. If you're rubbing a "player" attitude in their face, and they end up thinking they're literally just a hole to you, it could backfire. I think what women want is to lock down the "player", to be chosen over all others, and if you completely crush their hopes of that they might not bother with you anymore. It's kind of like how many guys want a girl whose a prude to everyone else but a slut for him. It's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:20 AM
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I get the impression of associated, sexual suspicion more than unrestrained admiration for a "high value male". Of course they would shame men for being players, it's not in their interests. They want to lock men down. But they're still attracted to them. I mean, just citing basic biology (and I'm way out of my league here, so feel free to correct me) males who don't stick around and provide for the potential offspring are more risky to reproduce with. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strategic_plu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:59 AM
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I'm not worried about anything, I'm just making an observation about how women become higher maintenance with age while their desirability simultaneously declines. Seems a bit of a paradox, I guess they might have to be more willing to settle in the looks department to get the kind of relationship they want as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:19 PM
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which is that you're willing to date someone who doesn't meet them if you're desperate. What are you smoking? I never said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:16 PM
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And how was I incorrect in saying that? It matters and it's important to realize whether you can attract someone that meets your standards. That doesn't mean it's unreasonable for you to have standards so high where you can't attract someone that meets those standards? >Most intelligent woman on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:55 PM
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any standard a person wants to have is reasonable Great, we agree. What were you disputing when you responded to my first comment then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:45 PM
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Yes, and? If you can then great. If you can't then you'll be celibate. What makes a standard unreasonable then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:33 PM
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you can have a standard that you can't attract In which case you will be celibate. How does this contradict anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:03 PM
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when women are denied abortions, they basically always choose to keep the baby Which statistic are you referring to? Right, you can only surrender your baby if both parents consent. That's true for men and women. It's gender neutral. Legal parental surrender would allow either parent to unilaterally give up their parental rights and responsibilities. The other parent would choose between giving it up for adoption or raising it themselves. Yeah you'll have to quit your job or pay $35k a year in d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:57 PM
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No one wants to let men off the hook. Babies need to be paid for Can you read? Of course that's true, no one gives a shit about men. My point was that people want to let women off the hook and it would be hard to justify, and unconstitutional, to not give men the same option. And plenty of families want to adopt babies, demand far exceeds supply. They will "pay for" them. "Legal parental surrender" already exists and the laws are written to be gender neutral. Baby surrender sites do not always a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:30 PM
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I don't think increasing child support is mutually exclusive with legal parental surrender. And there will be demand for that once women are no longer allowed to obtain abortions. The Dobbs decision was only a month ago. Give it time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:05 PM
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yes. do women talk about "sexually undesireable men" as an immovable category? not really. No? Don't put words in my mouth. Women shit on men they find sexually undesirable and there is a lot of overlap in terms of what women find sexually undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:07 PM
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If a person can provide excellent financial support, has enough time to spend with their children, and has sufficient help in raising them (like family members, particularly small and attentive day care centers, nannies, etc.) then I think it is okay for people to choose single parenthood. There are no legal restrictions though. Anyone can become a single parent through a sperm donor or surrogate I probably would if I got rich. Having a kid would be cool, the problem is having to deal with the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:06 PM
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What? Do women not consider some men far more sexually desirable than others?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:58 PM
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Or maybe women are just disgusted by sexually undesirable men.....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:52 PM
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I made a specific claim about how they relate to bodily autonomy. A lot of things relate to bodily autonomy. As for contraception, if you don’t think being banned from strapping up during sex is an infringement on your bodily autonomy we’ll have to agree to disagree I guess Restrictions on contraception generally don't come in the form of restrictions on individual behavior. They come in the form of laws restricting the sale and distribution of contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:51 PM
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You don’t think women can get pregnant without choosing to have sex? Rape(and contraception deception) can happen to either sex. You can surrender parental responsibilities and leave your child fatherless, but you have to at least financially support the human you created. What makes you feel so strongly that children have a right to be supported by two people? Single people can adopt children and have children through sperm donors/surrogates. The best course of action would be to give the infan…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:48 PM
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Okay? Parental rights to the child have nothing to do with what's being discussed here, which is the right to opt out of parenthood after conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:43 PM
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A couple can have a discussion and decide together whether they want to be pregnant or not. It's still her decision. It's completely up to her whether she wants to consider his opinion on abortion. While it's true that ultimately she makes the decision, he can and he should put in his opinion Why would you describe this as "men's reproductive rights"? He can give his opinion but he has no "right" to anything. Hopefully that will change soon in red states where abortion is banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:41 PM
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Men have no say in whether to use plan B or to get an abortion. It's the woman's choice. Permitting abortion absolutely cannot be described as a "right" for men. Men are forced to pay child support for kids they didn't want all the time because the mother wanted to keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:37 PM
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Oh and I'm pointing out sterilization because lots of women who no longer have access to abortion are going ahead and getting sterilized instead so they're not going to become unwilling parents. Good for them......
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:36 PM
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Sterilization is another means or option to prevent unwanted parenthood that you're not taking into consideration. How is that relevant to my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:34 PM
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Access to contraception is no more relevant to bodily autonomy than access to alcohol or narcotics. The last two are things that facilitate the exercise of bodily autonomy. You're stretching the definition of bodily autonomy. They are not exercises of bodily autonomy. They are not examples of "control over your own reproductive system and it's functions", as you put it. You framed it as a negative right and these are positive rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:33 PM
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Actually, reproduction occurs at conception. So then abortion has nothing to do with reproductive rights either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:27 PM
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Women's reproductive rights may include some or all of the following: abortion-rights movements; birth control; freedom from coerced sterilization and contraception; the right to access good-quality reproductive healthcare; and the right to education and access in order to make free and informed reproductive choices. Two of these tenets have to do with bodily autonomy, three do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:26 PM
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If abortion rights advocates thought reproductive rights weren't important they wouldn't advocate for legal abortion on the basis of that. If you think "reproductive rights" includes the ability to decide whether or not to raise a child after conception, as abortion rights advocates do, that would include men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:25 PM
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How on earth is women shaming men for sexual undesirability "toxic masculinity"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:22 PM
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No they are not...... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reproductive_rights Most aspects of bodily autonomy have nothing to do with reproduction or pregnancy. Some aspects of reproductive rights have nothing to do with bodily autonomy. Such as laws restricting the sale of contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:19 PM
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Women already do this. Safe surrender laws? It is(or at least it was) uncommon for women to surrender their infants like this. Because if they didn't want to be parents they would have gotten an abortion. There's also the fact that a lot of the time the father isn't told about the pregnancy, or the father is unknown. Men hardly want to be a parent 50% of the time, so there are way fewer men who want to be a parent 100% of the time. I would rather be the sole parental figure and get child support…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:16 PM
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Allowing people to have abortions or surrender parental responsibilities give greater ability to decide if and when to be a parent, thus greater reproductive rights. By your logic I could claim that abortion has nothing to do with reproductive rights because women could just choose not to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:14 PM
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Abortion-rights advocates defend abortion on the basis of both bodily autonomy(control over what you do or don't do with your body) and reproductive rights(the ability to decide when to start a family). The reproductive rights argument played a more significant role in deciding Roe and Casey than the bodily autonomy argument. Likely because judges realized that there are plenty of laws restricting bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:08 PM
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Abortion bans are good for men's reproductive rights. If abortion is banned, women will still want a way to unilaterally opt of parenthood because they've grown accustomed to that privilege. And there will be pressure on lawmakers to give them an option to do so. The only other option would be allowing unwilling parents to unilaterally and completely surrender parental rights and responsibilities to infants. This is actually viable because there is a lot of unmet demand for infants to adopt, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:04 PM
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There's no point in asking if a standard is "reasonable". You can set whatever standards you want. The only thing that matters is whether you're able to attract someone that meets those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:55 PM
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JFL literal NPC-tier response. Sure, women never do anything bad. Keep living in your retarded fantasy land. Men aren't the ones who always take jabs at dick sizes. Men aren't the ones who always accuse people they disagree with of being incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:51 PM
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What do you do and how many hours a week do you work?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:37 PM
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You might be a math genius JFL no one thinks being a math genius will help guys get laid, what are you smoking? The opposite is true, smart guys should dumb themselves down when talking to women or they'll be labelled as nerds. Dating requires a lot of socialization and/or enormous amount of luck. Not for women. Literally just hop on Tinder or go to a bar/nightclub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:35 PM
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It jumped up between 2018 and 2021. I think it's pandemic-related.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:32 PM
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It's hard not to when sexually undesirable men are subject to ridicule and ostracization.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:30 PM
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Nope. Speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:40 AM
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Women love being treated like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:42 AM
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Most of those 25% were probably false.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 03:12 AM
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Hey you do you man, but most guys think differently is all I'm saying. Even if they would never admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:29 AM
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I hope you are in your 20’s. Not yet. Anyone who is 30+ saying a woman’s peak is 18-22 comes off reallllyyyy creepy. I mean it's a fact, the vast majority of men prefer younger women. And large age gaps may be frowned upon in modern western society but it was normal and common in most places, for most of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:22 AM
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There's no such thing as casual sex for normal people "Normal people"? Most people have casual sex these days. since that is the single most intimate thing you can do with another person. The fact that it's physically intimate doesn't mean that it's a big deal. If hooking up is easy for someone, then they've damaged themselves I can't speak for women, but men evolved to desire and seek intercourse with a variety of women because doing so improves reproductive success. It's perfectly normal and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:19 AM
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The fuck you talking about? I'm not even in my 20s yet and women like me fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:15 AM
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Wew, didn't see that. u/Starter91 WTF that's cringe bro. Don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:00 AM
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And your evidence for this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:56 PM
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Homosexuals are more similar psychologically to members of the opposite sex. Brain scans indicate that gay men have feminized brains and lesbian women have masculinized brains compared to heterosexual individuals of their own sex. I'm not sure this sends the message that you think it does. but it’s clear to anyone with two brain cells that looks are an absolute driver for men Men value looks and prefer hotter women, but we have a low bar. I would put it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:47 PM
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Men be honest here: would you advocate against causal sex How many men here advocate against it? Women are the ones bitching about it. Look at the top comment in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:44 PM
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Not being an open book doesn't make you disingenuous. In the absence of affirmation of commitment, there is no commitment. To assume otherwise is entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:42 PM
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We don’t desire random sex like that You should speak for yourself. So if he wants “non committed” sex when he wants it, he has to maintain interest from a gaggle of women who all probably think they have a chance of locking him down. Just because women want to lock him down doesn't mean he lied to them. If he were honest and told them straight up “yeah… I only want to fuck you, you’re not someone I see as wifey” I PROMISE her pussy would dry up so quickly and she would not fuck him. 1. Not disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:35 PM
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What exactly do women in their 30s have to offer over women in their 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:18 PM
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Generically, many (not all) people believes a woman is valued for her looks and a man is valued for his wealth. "Women aren't visual teehee". Bullshit. Men are valued for both looks and wealth. Your value will keep going up Physically? Definitely not. "Men age like fine wine" is gigacope. Men don't age as badly and drastically as women do, but we definitely do become less physically attractive with age, especially after our 30s. Balding, fat gain, ageing skin, etc. Financially? How exactly is be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:16 PM
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For sure, but we only have so much time that we can devote to dating so if a guy thinks older women aren't worth pursuing then he shouldn't. If they pursue you and you like them then that's a different story, but women rarely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:15 PM
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Yeah some women in their 30s are definitely still physically attractive and low maintenance but on average they're less so. It's definitely a bit silly to rule out dating a woman based on her age alone, but the things that accompany aging are a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:09 PM
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If you like a woman Yeah that's what this post is disputing. Women in their 30s are not only less physically attractive on average, they're higher maintenance. They're looking for commitment, they're looking for a provider, they're more likely to want kids. They're less desirable but at the same time they expect more from you. Why give them the time of the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:58 PM
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But the truth is, if you aren’t desirable in your 20s good chances are you won’t have better luck in your 30s. I think men can become more significantly more desirable in their 30s in a couple ways. Firstly, for many guys face looks manlier and more mature compared to how it looked in early/mid 20s. Secondly, male facial hair gets longer and thicker with age so if you have a bad lower face you might be able to conceal that by growing a beard. Lastly, you become more established in your career wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:56 PM
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Stop simping. Just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:52 PM
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Stop trying to be captain save-a-hoe. It will only hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:48 PM
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"As long as he's not shorter than me it's fine teehee". JFL. Do you actually believe them when they say shit like this? Dawg if it wasn't a big deal then you would be more successful with women than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:45 PM
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how can you save any woman lmao or even one. You don't. What some random whore chooses to do with her life is not your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:27 PM
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yet I have the feeling they're so relaxed because they're already boxed me in the "funny and cool but asexual asian guy" box Only one way to find out bucko
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:24 PM
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My guy you are shorter than like 90% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:23 PM
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The reality is that the public education system doubles as childcare. The disruption to parents caused by school closures during the pandemic makes that very obvious. If possible it's best to have your parents (kids grandparents) live nearby and do the childcare if they are retired, they usually enjoy it anyway. Based.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 06:45 PM
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Most men are clean shaven, that's not why you get no attention. Unless you have a bad lower face and a beard could cover that up. Short+Asian is a death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:23 PM
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How is casual sex "damaging"? How is it "damaging" for women and how is it "damaging" for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:08 PM
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pregnancy Using multiple forms of contraception, such as a copper IUD + pills for instance, will make the risk of pregnancy incredibly low. Most people aren't paranoid of dying in a car accident every time they get in a car. and violence Domestic violence tends to happen more in committed relationships. People don't beat their one night stands. They beat their girlfriend, boyfriend, or spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:07 PM
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Who here complains about that? Can you give a single example?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:53 PM
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This is a very good point actually. Many married women feel that their financial contribution is equal just because they're working a "full-time" job, which can mean as little as 30 hours a week all the way up to 50 or more hours. That is their basis for demanding that their husbands contribute equally to domestic labor. But the fact is, not only do husbands work more hours than wives, but they work harder jobs, and most importantly they bring in way more money. The 20-30k difference in earnings…
/r/MensRights27/07/22 04:45 PM
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Worse than clowns.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 04:29 AM
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Clearly off-topic. This has literally nothing to do with men's rights..... If her story is true(we are only hearing from one side) then it is very unfortunate. And perhaps there are legitimate grievances with transsexualism. But this is not the place to discuss any of that.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 03:38 AM
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Every year since 1989, in about 25 percent of the sexual assault cases referred to the FBI where results could be obtained (primarily by State and local law enforcement), the primary suspect has been excluded by forensic DNA testing. Specifically, FBI officials report that out of roughly 10,000 sexual assault cases since 1989, about 2,000 tests have been inconclusive (usually insufficient high molecular weight DNA to do testing), about 2,000 tests have excluded the primary suspect, and about 6,0…
/r/MensRights27/07/22 03:27 AM
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"wOmEn DoN't LiE aBoUt RaPe" "FaLsE rApE aCcUsAtIoNs ArE rArE" 🤡🤡🤡
/r/MensRights27/07/22 02:50 AM
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The judge dismissed the charge and laid into the crown prosecutor for going forward with this case. Canada? I swear, Anglo countries are the whole fucking circus.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 02:07 AM
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