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Lol? You can fuck girls without committing to anything more than a casual acquaintanceship... or you can fuck girls off tinder/ bars and never talk to them again. Or pay for it. I see no reason to completely disregard the opposite gender. Actually, the idea of needing to buck up and commit is a pretty bizarre way of getting sex, and certainly one of the least effective.
/r/MGTOW15/07/15 07:42 PM
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Honestly, the biggest real life killer I know has me write his texts/tinders for him.. I really think it's a separate skill, that's worth more and more effort as we go deeper into the 21st century. I definitely hate it too for what it's worth, the little smileys and the awkward pauses and figuring out exactly what dumb little thing to say to sound vaguely interested but not creepy... it's all annoying, but I can't deny it's unique place in modern (2010+) dating.
/r/seduction29/12/14 02:21 PM
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Agreed, but to play devils advocate again, I live in a city of 5 million people... I can't just "talk in person" with some girl who lives down the island 20 miles away.. I need to text/call. Hence, text game. It's just not black/white and you're trying to make it black/white.
/r/seduction27/12/14 06:08 PM
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this is far more applicable a few years ago. These days for younger girls text game is an absolute necessity (tinder/okcupid/pofetc). Of course real life game is 90% of the equation. But I actually find text game very complex at times and definitely worth improving. I know for a fact i've screwed things up a few times just by making basic miscommunications etc.
/r/seduction27/12/14 06:06 PM
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I've been able to fuck some 9+'s basically by not caring on accident. One of them became a long term GF who was arguably the hottest girl in the city I lived in. Turns out I accidentally snubbed her in some way and she found it attractive. If you care about them being hot, you're dead in the water. Full disclosure: I usually bang skinny 7's and don't care much about it.
/r/seduction24/12/14 08:09 PM
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Summary : " I deny 10's sex and brag about wanting something 'more'" Doesn't seem like the whole story. If you are getting 10's through any venue nothing else should matter.
/r/seduction24/12/14 04:12 PM
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Experience matters less than you think. That anxiety never goes away, so it's important to use it to your advantage. So yeah, know that Most "pickups" fail. Probably 99%. Don't be so hard on yourself, try and enjoy screwing around with them a little bit seeing as it doesn't matter anyways. Might help you relax.
/r/seduction24/12/14 04:04 PM
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I honestly hate NYE. It's just the same people in far far more expensive, more crowded bars, paired up far more often than normal. I think Halloween is really the only holiday that increases the value of the night, and even then it's not that different. NYE with a down ass GF or FB is awesome though.
/r/seduction23/12/14 02:08 AM
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Pretty chump way of thinking about it. Always look forward, not back. The second you start looking back (happens to all of us don't worry) just force forward and game new girls. This is definitely a situation where aggression gets you nowhere. You need her to return to you. And Old GF's will return to you only if a) you massively increase in value, or B) they massively decrease in value. It's happened to me all of one time, and only after I stopped trying (and she got fat) Jon Favreau eloquently…
/r/seduction23/12/14 02:03 AM
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To some extent true and I like the post, but the whole "use canned stuff until you can be creative" bit only works as an incredibly basic crutch, people should wean off it as soon as they don't resemble pepe le pew... People who rely purely on canned stuff or get used to it, will have a very difficult time escalating the interaction further. It's almost better just to waste time being bad at "being yourself" in the beginning and improve that way. I personally think my intro to Strauss etc and "c…
/r/seduction23/12/14 01:48 AM
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Very very cool for someone looking for basic advice to start. I just started using tinder and have had some awesome lays from it, i've screwed around with tons of approaches and love text game, it's really fun... My one critique is that I'd avoid the "masturbation" bit. Don't get sexual on tinder unless they start it. Some girls might go for it, there's tons of examples online, and I've fucked one girl this way, but generally these girls could have been closed with flirty game too. You basically…
/r/seduction23/12/14 01:44 AM
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I'm kind of split here. I think an ultimatum should be used only in very particular, last ditch effort circumstances... If you often freak out and send them too soon, I'd remove them entirely from your plan. First of all, realize that if it fails, its the last thing you'll ever be able to send. Attempt everything, wait them out for at least a week, then ask her out several times. If somehow at this point, you want to try an ultimatum, feel free. Just don't expect much from it. For what it's wort…
/r/seduction23/12/14 01:15 AM
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Very good suggestions. Enthusiasm is so neglected, people try to "play it cool" instead of being exciting.
/r/seduction22/12/14 07:48 PM
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Agreed, but I think that doing something actually creative and imaginative is really the ticket to start fucking far more girls. Personally, I think routines etc. are bad. They hinder confidence and "improvisational" technique. Some of "superpoop(lol)'s" more basic questions are good starter suggestions though. The convo is going to be 99% in "uncanned' territory for most of the date, so might as well get used to it.
/r/seduction22/12/14 07:45 PM
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Eww, no games. The "cube" is so 2005. On a date, your goal is this. Be a normal person, with an exciting life. Don't fear awkward silences, but try to keep a flowing conversation. Talk about what you did this week, something crazy that happened. Make jokes, be edgy, be facially and emotionally expressive, and talk to her like you would a close friend. As far as questions, try and ask things that lead to other lines of conversation "Did you grow up here? Oh you're from Phoenix, my family is from …
/r/seduction22/12/14 07:16 PM
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You're in a very tough situation. You aren't really independent (not saying you can't be eventually or soon) but girls can really sense this stuff. I'd say long term, become a better, more successful person. Not the most popular advice understandably. Save and budget $, assuming you have $500 a month in student loans which is usually average, you dont need 44k or a great job to get to "that level" of dateability/bangability. You literally need a studio apartment and your own box of fruit loops. …
/r/seduction22/12/14 07:07 PM
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Pretty good basic advice, I wish I had all this stuff down when I was 18 like a lot of reddit kids will. Also, saying "stay frosty" is easily the most underrated farewell, well done.
/r/seduction22/12/14 06:56 PM
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That thread about patience was legit... The guy stupidly texted her on saturday and sunday for no reason, but I think his unrelated point about patience being very attractive was great advice.
/r/seduction22/12/14 06:52 PM
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I'm ten years older than you, self described very good looking, rich, with good game and tons of experience/confidence. I still get shot down constantly. It honestly has nothing to do with you most of the time. Girls will whig out for various reasons beyond your control. I've had situations where a 9+ 21 year old chick was a step away from getting in my car when her sorority saw her and off she went. On to the next one. My point being, that it made me realize how stupid it was ever worrying abou…
/r/seduction22/12/14 04:31 PM
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Probably myself in terms of physical attractiveness. I'd probably rate myself an 8.5, 9 in a suit with a fresh cut. It helps massively with women of course, but you still have to deal with chick shit, and being attractive comes with it's own set of hurdles. I've actually had to develop some very complex game to deal with some attractive-specific issues (chicks assume you're a player/get laid all the time, GF's constantly suspecting you of cheating even if you aren't, being used for sex only whic…
/r/seduction22/12/14 02:28 AM
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Well sure, that's ideal. But often by necessity that won't happen. her: (unsolicited) "hey blah blah" me "yeah blah blah.... so, what are you up to this week?" "nothing :), and you?" "same blah blah, we should kick it thursday" *crickets so while leading a girl on text wise is great, as the guy you are going to have to make plans for the most part. It really does suck giving up your "power" but I've found these times to be annoyingly stressful. Maybe not much of a solution other than to care les…
/r/seduction07/12/14 10:51 PM
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Women pursue a dual strategy The quicker you can accept this, the better. I wouldn't call the world necessarily "ruined" though, as long as you can live within the context of this reality (that is to say, don't take any relationship too seriously)
/r/seduction06/12/14 07:35 PM
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