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I agree. I just throttle so hard into “go fuck yourself” territory. I need to learn discipline and control
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:54 AM
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Never cohabitate unless you’re going to get married. Take it from me, I fucked that up and I’m still in court fighting to get my money and property back. It’s a shit show.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:22 PM
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Are you goi g to propose to her in 6-9 months?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 07:47 PM
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Why aren’t you trying to chase your excellence? Do her goals line up with your life goals? It seems like from this, you’re not clear on what your rational self-interest is.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:40 PM
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It’s good to have a lawyer in your circle. If you don’t have a lawyer friend, or family member, ask someone you trust who they use. Keep their number handy. Even if they mostly do contract law, they usually have friends who do criminal law or other types. Never talk to the police, and if it comes down to dealing with contracts, it’s always worth spending the money to have a lawyer review it.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:16 PM
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Nailed it. My youngest bro thinks he’s black, my other brothers are shitlibs. One of them is actually dating a shaved head feminist.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 05:57 PM
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Man that’s perfect
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:03 AM
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No
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:24 AM
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NEXT. Life is too short. You can’t fix her problems, you can only fix your problems. Right now your problem is you want to get laid and she won’t do it. So fix you problem and get another girl.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 03:13 AM
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There is no “one”. Don’t buy into the soulmate myth
/r/askTRP11/12/20 09:09 PM
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Thanks bro. It’s a long road. I am definitely not where I should be in life or mentally and it’s because I didn’t keep this bullshit out of my life
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:57 PM
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It’s 2-3 weeks to find out because. It was a hearing so it can still escalate to trial if either of us aren’t happy with the outcome
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:57 PM
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You’re right. I’ll post back with results and lessons I’ve learned
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:06 AM
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Thank you man. I’m worried she’s gonna try to turn it into an emotional circus
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:05 AM
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Honestly, get a few more plates.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 06:20 PM
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Bro, I’m almost 2 years out from leaving my BPD ex. I still have court cases with her pending. The damage these people do is absolutely fucked. If I could do it again, I would get into therapy sooner. It’s not about red pill stuff, these BPDs break us down in fucked up ways.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 07:54 PM
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I did lock it. She must’ve watched me type my code in
/r/askTRP06/11/20 07:59 PM
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Good point
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:34 AM
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Oh fuck yeah. She went nuts and is still talking shit, calling me from blocked numbers etc
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:31 PM
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100%. It’s bullshit. You know she’d lose her mind if you did the same exact thing.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:30 PM
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I can understand your concern for the timing. What is the reason for the breakup? Is it just not fun anymore? Is there some crazy shit going on?
/r/askTRP19/11/19 03:36 PM
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With out a doubt, HARD NEXT. I lived with a BPD LTR and shit like this is EXACTLY how it started. Give these chicks an inch and they will take 10 years of your life. RUN AND DON'T LOOK BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:05 PM
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good work!
/r/askTRP13/10/19 03:23 PM
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It’s not worth 3-5 years in the state pen, and having a record (which shows up when HR looks you up). Always walk away. Additionally, you don’t know what angles the security cameras actually catch. It might be the angle that makes you look like the aggressor.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:25 AM
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I was 5’11” 160. Skinny fat obviously.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:36 PM
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Oh fuck yeah. One LTR went from 135 lbs to almost 200lbs. What a fucking mistake that was
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:59 PM
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Definitely. Some factors to consider though: Has she changed birth control? Is the wedding planning stressful? These both can impact weight loss/gain. Bottom line: I wouldn’t stand for it personally, but sometimes there are factors out of your control.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 03:46 PM
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Just keep your nose to the grindstone. Stay focused on your mission. The hot girls will show up soon.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 05:37 AM
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The louder of an SJW they are, the more they want to be controlled. From my experience. It’s fascinating, they go on and on about their SJW bullshit, but if you treat them like shit they go wild. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:45 PM
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I’ve been there, and it still happens. Sometimes pulling out with the condom on helps me relieve anxiety. But I wanna see what others have to say.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:52 PM
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You are the product of the 5 people you spend the most time with. Is this someone you want shaping your future? My guess is absolutely not.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 02:55 PM
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5 1/2 years is a long time to know anyone. If it’s this bad my brother, you need to leave. If her family is nearby, notify them. But you need to leave. Addicts only get sober when they are ready to. There’s nothing you can do. More importantly, it’s not your job to fix her problems. I was with a BPD chick for a long time. When I confronted her about her drinking, she would stop for 2-3 days and get back into it. When it got so bad she got us tossed out of a friends wedding she “quit”. She went f…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:52 PM
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NNnNnNnNNEEEeEeEeExXxXxxXTTtTtT!!!
/r/askTRP23/02/19 04:53 PM
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Sounds like you’ve got a case of ONEitis. Here is an idea: Next her Sidebar Lift Spin plates
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:20 AM
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I have one other plate. She is out of town right now though. I need to get a few more
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:38 PM
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I second this. You might not be able to get decent shoes this way. But if you can get a decent coat, decent pants. Go get new shoes, tie, belt.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 08:21 PM
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You Need To Be Your Mental Point Of Origin. Fuck anything else. If you aren’t working on your mission you will always be miserable. Be a strong, driven man. Women will flock to you. You get to make the pick, rather than the other way.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 06:02 AM
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This man is 100% right
/r/askTRP01/02/19 05:59 AM
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She’s a false rape claim waiting to happen
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:11 PM
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Make yourself, not your parents, your mental point of origin.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 11:30 PM
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Duuude. Let it go. That is seriously nothing to worry about. We’ve all done way way more embarrassing shit
/r/askTRP16/01/19 06:36 AM
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9 year BPD LTR survivor here. Re-connect with friends and family that she cut you off from. Let them know how you are feeling. You feel like a piece of shit because you were manipulated. You need to get back to neutral. Very few people in TRP community are pieces of shit. Think of it like this, we all looked across the internet for a community that would help us with becoming the strongest, most successful form of ourselves. What man that is a piece of shit, actually does that? It’s all a fuckin…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 01:40 PM
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I work with a few females, we get along and we sometimes get together for sporting events (not one on one, but as a crew). Never shit where I eat though. Some of them are actually cool and will introduce you to their hot friends.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 03:25 PM
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Is it 100% your kid? This chick is bad fucking news. Get the fuck out. Move back home with your folks.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:02 AM
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Work on yourself and attract that type of man.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 10:21 PM
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You are almost always going to lose some muscle. The trick is to minimize it by being on point with your diet.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 10:20 PM
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BPD. She was ruining my life. Took everything I had to grab my shit and run out that door.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 07:21 PM
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Is it a live in situation?
/r/askTRP29/12/18 04:21 PM
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She wasn’t out of my league. In fact, as I’ve reconnected with friends they are all saying “we never expected you to be with someone that looked like that”. Hahaha I might have CPTSD. I’ve been suffering from anxiety, second guessing. Hell, even rationalizing. I’ll think to myself “well maybe she had a point, I should have just swept the floor the way she wanted”. But I quickly remind myself that no matter how I swept it, she would have been pissed. I’m gonna go monk mode for bit. Get back to me…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 06:58 AM
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The night I left, I sent my location to everyone I spoke to that day as I traveled to a place where I would be on camera, sent location when I was there and waiting until my family and cops arrived to help me get my stuff. I knew when I made the move I’d need to be able to trace my steps with as many different references as possible
/r/askTRP28/12/18 10:23 PM
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Just reading your comment again The line where you say “BPDs make you feel trapped” made my heart sink. I know that for sure, for at least 8 years I felt that way. The first year and half was great, regular sex, cooking cleaning etc etc. then she became a fucking psycho. It lasted even when I found the red pill, but the red pill gave me a strategy and some light at the end of the tunnel. I knew if I could execute my plan I would be free. Gentleman, I’m here to tell you, all you guys reading this…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:57 PM
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Hell yeah. I was doing a mixed workout of something around 8-12 reps, I got into a car crash so I’ve been doing less workouts. But I’m ready to get back. I’m looking at either 5x5 or 10x10. The jury is still out.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:51 PM
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Thank you so much. It’s forums like this, the red pill, secretly reading the rational male and many others that helped me plan my exit and probably saved my life. Thank you again
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:43 PM
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Is there a chance that English is her second language? Sometimes things like that happen
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:03 PM
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Everything posted already is correct
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:01 PM
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BPD AF fam. Leave right away.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:54 PM
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Cool story bro. I’ve made between 60-90k on gigs alone let alone the lessons I teach on the side. I lift, a lot. I gig, a lot.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 07:06 AM
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Absolutely get tested
/r/askTRP27/11/18 06:47 PM
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Hit it and quit it. Don’t tell your friends. Low level plate
/r/askTRP20/11/18 07:26 AM
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Atlas Shrugged The Fountainhead
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:18 AM
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Honestly, either is great. Just get your foot in the door with the Ayn Rand stuff, check out Atlas Shrugged too.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:19 PM
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Thanks so much!
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:53 PM
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The “does she have a crush on you” question?
/r/askTRP19/10/18 03:38 PM
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I had to read that, and a speech by Achebe. The guy is a racist. He has so much hate in his heart, how can you hate so much and be able to love anything? The guy is a sad, miserable and hateful person. As you read his work, the lesson to learn is what not to be.
/r/MensRights17/10/18 05:58 PM
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I actually dated a girl who did anal to stay a “virgin” lolol.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:23 PM
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If you get caught buying a hooker. That is a quick way to ruin your life.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 09:18 PM
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No. The legal ramifications are fucking insane for starters. You need to realize that you have been conditioned and lied to. Grab control of your emotions, grab control of your mind. Own yourself. You are the prize, she isn’t.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 09:08 PM
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Depends on the situation. If it’s a party, greet the hosts first, shake hands with your boys as you walk by. Find the interesting people and start there. But definitely talk to everyone. Even if they are boring or not part of your plan, it’s still good practice. Make it a game to get a smile or a laugh out of them.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 08:53 PM
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Absolutely not. They might have moments of “less crazy” but that is just luring you in. BPD women are like volcanoes. The longer it takes for them to erupt, the worse it is. I’m in the process of leaving a 9 year LTR, i truly credit the red pill with saving my life. Over the last 6 months I’ve gone through the effort to have a war chest, get my documents, and basically plan an exit strategy. It still is likely to end up very badly. This is because I was blue pill, and thought I could tame her an…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 08:37 PM
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