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Yes, but we also know it's not always in every instance a man that does a bad thing. If "it's always a man" is a good approximation for the bad stuff I feel it should be for the good stuff as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:51 PM
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Always a man also applied to just about every scientific and technological advancement, philosophical idea, monument erected. Just keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:39 PM
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This topic doesn't really warrant any debate. Women have such a massive advantage in the dating market that if they don't land someone great it's entirely their fault, irrespective of whatever men may do. It's like being given a lottery ticket, losing it all in 10 years and then complaining that they didn't financial planning classes in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:29 PM
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They can never concede anything even if it's obvious. I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:52 AM
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Obviously in the real world I'm not a moron, obviously protecting the weak takes precedence over everything else, I'm just saying it's not like that's an objective determination from the universe, it's a judgement call like anything else we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:58 PM
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I agree with those. My point is more philosophical in the sense that while we have a mostly agreed on those being worth fighting for and 'state mandated girlfriends' the opposite, those are purely a matter of opinion. So as a result, in my view, the only two consistent positions is the all or nothing, picking and choosing doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:56 PM
4

God no, I'd say it makes no sense for there to be any kind of obligation towards anyone at any point. Shit let poor kids starve. Why am I paying extra taxes for other people's kids? Or schools? Or healthcare? Elderly too, why have social security?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:21 PM
11

Is this a principle you apply consistently? So free will in all respects? No objective morality? Or you do you pick and choose?|
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:50 PM
1

Thursday is like TimeLeft but with the express purpose of dating I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:53 AM
6

That's not a fix. It's not even permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:29 PM
2

Which can be fixed with a pretty easy surgery that's been performed millions of time worldwide and is pretty well understood. Fixing a bad jawline, which is the equivalent for men, is orders of magnitude harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:15 PM
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Married men do, but what about single men? What benefit do they receive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:05 PM
2

They never take their "nobody owes you anything" to it's logical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:38 PM
0

Anything good is also a dude. It's both sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:31 PM
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You mean for guards, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:10 PM
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Maybe, but if that was true she would just say that. No man is gonna feel emasculated by the sentence "I'd love to have anal sex with you but you're dick is too big, my ex was smaller that's why it worked with him".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:09 PM
8

What's wrong with just wanting sex? Or more accurately, validation from being attractive to the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:20 PM
2

These women are all pretty attractive. Most women of equivalent size wouldn't carry the weight as well as these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:04 PM
1

What does that even mean? Are there any orbs floating around in the universe with these ethics?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:48 PM
1

They're wrong, the don't want just sex obviously. Just like I wouldn't accept playing basketball for a 3rd league team that only pays 1500 euros a month. But like that answer "life isn't fair" is just stupid because in a truly unfair world, guys who can't get laid would just forcibly rape women, why are some unfair things ok and not others? Who gets to decide?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:38 PM
2

Money is not really a good comparison because it doesn't feel like an intrinsic facet of the human experience. So some guy can buy a yacht, whatever. So I can't play in the NBA because I'm not 6'8", whatever, it's not that important. Sex is supposed to be more universal than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:18 PM
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Having sex with hot dudes?? I don't understand the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:54 PM
12

Every time you make a market free, inequality rises. This is inevitable due to people having differing abilities. This is usually not a problem, because freeing up a market makes it grow and while the rich get richer, so do the poor. This is not really the case for the sexual market, sex doesn't get trickled down like money does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:35 PM
2

Her body, her choice, her responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:12 PM
5

Because no one is entitled to anything, yet we have social programs for disadvantaged groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:14 PM
0

With this logic you abolish all laws, governments and taxes. Who do you think would fare better in a lawless society? Men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:31 PM
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The only reason you don't need men is because the government protects you (most of which is paid by men btw). In its absence you'd need to sell your pussy to the first men that offered you protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:53 PM
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Hate is wrong word here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:47 PM
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Women are the ones who treat it as such. Men just adapt to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:07 PM
4

Online dating has liberalized the market. As with every other market, once liberalized the differences in talent are even more pronounced, which means the winners get even more than they did and the losers get even less. Same thing happened with Spotify, smaller artists got a smaller share of the market than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:05 AM
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It's women who usually talk about that, not men. They do it mostly to assuage men's insecurities regarding their size. You have it backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:00 PM
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But why does he have to get over it? Let's assume he can't, what's wrong about what I proposed, in principle?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:51 PM
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Well obviously, we have bigger fish to fry. I'm just saying that, in principle, is not terribly different than any other welfare program - we take from the ones who have to give to ones who don't have as much. Just feels weird to see so many people in this sub who are obviously left wing (as am I) that want to protect the less fortunate and create all sorts of programs as well as implement socialism, but when it comes to relationships they are weirdly capitalist. I know friendships/romance and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:45 PM
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I mean, it doesn't need to be directly sex, could be all sorts of things that may lead to it. Say a dude has an above average body and face but an awful jawline and as a result no women will touch him with a 10 ft pole. The government obviously can't compel affection from random people, but why can't they tax people and pay 10 grand for the dude to get his jaw fixed so he can have a better chance at getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:37 PM
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But why not apply that thinking to everything? Shit let's abolish the government and make violence perfectly fine again. Wait women are weaker so they'd be massively disadvantaged and would essentially have to sell their bodies for protection? Well tough shit, I guess, that's all you girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:21 PM
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I didn't say the solution is for women to make themselves willing guinea pigs, not advocating for that. But you can't really expect men to be good at it without doing it, everything needs practice. Communication and caring isn't enough, you can still be bad at it even if you make it your life's mission to prioritize her pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:54 AM
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Can't really get good at it without an opportunity to improve. Not sure you can blame men for being bad at sex when women don't let them get reps. Get it through your heads, women are the sexual selectors of the species, which means that, for better or worse, they are entirely responsible, directly or indirectly, for men's behaviour in relation to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:45 AM
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Have had sex in the past year? So have have I, last April. Haven't had anything since. See how deceiving that can be?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:29 PM
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It's not being able to be promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:44 PM
0

Biology isn't fair, that's what you said, correct? Why can't men just rape women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:36 PM
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Yeah and men are physically stronger than women, but we have outlawed the use of these abilities. Are you advocating for going back to a free for all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:01 PM
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Lol what? Their compensation is being the species' sexual selectors, which makes it that much easier for them to establish social bonds with other people (be it romantic, sexual or friendly bonds), which is ultimately what makes life worth living.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:28 PM
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I never understood the desire for a virgin either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:18 PM
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I mean I wouldn't have a problem with that, the only fear would that due to my inexperience she wouldn't be satisfied and the relationship would suffer. No shit most men would love to have causal sex. The fact that they don't is the cause of most problems they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:04 PM
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Of course I get it. At its core it's just like any other market. Men's disproportionately high libidos make it so women have access to an immensely valuable resource. The source of most men vs women friction is women trying to get the most they can get for it and men trying to pay the leats they can. This is not to say that women don't enjoy sex l, but they have to balance their desire with resource extraction from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:56 PM
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I never said it didn't improve men's lives. Most men think they can get married when they want, what's hard is getting laid on your own terms. Getting something I've always had doesn't feel like a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:49 PM
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That doesn't contradict what I said at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:44 PM
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When are women gonna get through their heads that marriage is not winning for men. The fact that woman thinks I'm good enough for marriage means nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:33 PM
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Coach Henry Sanders of the Bruins in the 50s used to say: "winning isn't the most important thing; it's the only thing". When it comes to attraction: "looks aren't the most important thing, they're the only thing". If a girl genuinelly finds you attractive, having sex with her is trivial.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:44 PM
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Men do most of everything noteworthy (good or bad), why don't women also have a good feeling about men whenever something good happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:30 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:00 PM
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It's a bad faith argument. You're just hiding behind the fact that women don't need to lie to draw a line in the sand that makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:56 PM
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The only reason women don't lie to get laid is because they don't need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:47 PM
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Yeah basically. Approaching women is hard when you do it blind. If you wait for her to give you an IOI, then your odds of conversion are great actually. Problem is most dudes aren't attractive enough to get IOIs consistently enough to recognize them, let alone act on them. As usual, the most important thing is to make yourself as attractive as possible. Everything else flows seamlessly after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:16 PM
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Correct. Gigachad 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:08 PM
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The problem for the vast majority of men is not that they can't get laid. Most men, average ones especially, get laid sometimes - the problem is that they never possess any control over their sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:03 AM
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Yeah, that's the crux of the issue. There's no way to be consistent if you apply survival of the fittest to the dating world but are a Bernie Sanders style socialist that wants to take money away from men (net payers of taxes) and give it to women (net receivers of taxes). In a survival of the fittest world, women would need to barter sexual access for protection from violence from other men. Instead you take money from men to enforce laws that protect you from that violence so you can still fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:35 PM
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Sure there is. You can redistribute money to fix all those other issues, but you can't do that with sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:30 PM
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I disagree with that. If women approached more, men wouldn't need to do it as much. So as long as a man is reasonably well put together (not obvious grooming or hygienic issues) he is better off assuming women in general find him attractive and shooting his shot without worrying about making women uncomfortable. If men sat around waiting for women, nothing would ever get done, be it in relationships or just the general development of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:15 PM
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Not just sex but the ability to have a child as well (which is very important for most people). But other than that, any companionship, friendship, emotional support a SO can offer I can get from my close group of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:13 PM
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No they don't. What you're talking about is akin to a keeping union for labor contracts. If people cross the picket line for money you think they won't do so for pussy? It's a prisoner's dilemma - sure, we'd all be better off if we worked together but it's never gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:09 AM
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This is just obviously true - it logically follows from women being the sexual selectors of the species. Women (read: people) don't like to take personal responsibility so they'll push back against it, but that doesn't make it any less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:03 PM
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People don't like to talk about this because the possible solutions are unpalatable. When someone is hungry you can give them food, when they're homeless you can give them a house, when they're lacking intimacy you can't actually do anything - you can't force someone to be intimate with someone. If all incels wanted was to get laid, you'd just legalize prostitution and give them a stipend to pay for it. But what they actually want is for someone to feel so attracted to them they'd be willing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:27 PM
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It's not that simple, women have an inherent biological advantage (pussy power) that they have retained even while achieving legal parity with men. Men's biological advantage (physical dominance) has been outlawed. You could always enforce monogamy to neuter women's advantage in the same way that men's has been neutered, but that obviously would bring some other undesirable outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:27 AM
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Yeah that's true, but just being at the optimal body fat % is usually more than enough for 80% of them to be considered attractive. That's not true of men, most of what makes us attractive has to due with bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:39 PM
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It's the exact same thing with dick size. Yeah, if you include 5'5" 70 year old filipino men in the equation I'm guessing the average dick size is around 5 inches. But if you only include the relevant population I'm actually competing with (18-40 year old college educated men living in big coastal cities in the western world) the average is probably closer to 6.5-7 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:21 PM
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Ok so what do you think is the preferred average insertable length when women masturbate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:41 PM
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I'm not forgetting that. Usually unless I'm deliberately going balls deep, I'm never really inserting all I have either. Sometimes it's because of position or I have a bit of flab or she has, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:30 PM
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Dick size is like attractiveness, average is not good enough for average women. A 7inch dick (98th percentile in length) will probably not even be considered big by a good portion of women. The sad truth is that, unlike for women, just existing is not enough to be considered attractive as a man. You need to actively improve yourself to be worth the same as an average woman in the SMP, unless you naturally belong to the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:24 PM
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Why are you asking? Just look at the data on the dildos they buy. I haven't looked in ages but I think I remember it being between 6-7 inches in length and 5+ inches in girth. I think this is an 80th percentile dick. If you have that then great , you have nothing to worry about unless you're with a true size queen. If you don't have a dick that big, just drop your ego and use dildos on her during sex. It doesn't matter if the orgasms are achieved with a dick or a dildo, if she is constantly havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:14 PM
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That's more my experience as well with promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:18 PM
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Sorry, didn't notice it was a CMV. I'll delete.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:14 AM
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I agree, it's a net positive to restrain men's physical advantage over women. I wasn't trying to advocate for getting back to that world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:37 PM
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A random chick you meet at a club or a bar is not gonna follow through with a formal complaint because you made her a little upset trying to pick her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:54 PM
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Sure, all sorts of statements beget all sorts of implications. Doesn't mean I'm gonna start assuming the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:43 PM
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That's true. Women are the sexual selectors so men are the ones who need to approach and take the risk of rejection. As long as you are reasonably put together (nice haircut, not overweight, nice clothes, no awful acne), there's no way to tell, a priori, if a woman finds you attractive or not. Men should just stop worrying that women will find them creepy or not. As long as it is incumbent on you to approach, you're gonna make some women uncomfortable. If women want that to stop, they should sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:41 PM
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Ok, but doesn't that present a different problem? 10000 years ago that was still the case, but today, men's advantage (physical violence) is illegal. So men have essentially been neutered but women still enjoy their pussy/emotional advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:34 PM
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How is that entitled? He just said it's not worth it, that's the opposite of entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:32 PM
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I use baby/babe for both men and women and never had any problem. Probably due to the fact that I use it for everyone and not just women, they don't feel singled out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:34 PM
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People are fickle in general, not really a women thing. Best advice is to just accept it and adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:31 AM
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I think the problem is that people consider themselves average when they're really not. Technically the average man in the US is 5'9'' weighs 200lbs and has a 5 inch dick. In reality if you're in the casual dating market in a decent sized city in the US you're actually competing with men around 5'11'' to 6'0'' tall that are in decent shape (go to the gym 3 times a week) with a bachelor's degree and probably a 6''-6.5'' dick. Are you really average in that context?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:22 PM
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Yeah, that's true, that would be a reason to go for a younger person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:11 PM
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I mean you say that but what's the alternative? I was down so bad one time that I went on Tinder and got a cute obese woman to my house to fuck. What do you think happened? I couldn't get hard at all. She literally blew me for at least an hour in total and I still couldn't get hard. I literally lowered my standards as everyone here recommends and it just didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:37 AM
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What's the point of going after 5s and 6s when it takes 95% of the work that a 9 or a 10 does? At that point just go for the hotties.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:29 AM
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Almost by definition that is the case. But it's not really their fault, is it? They might be so ugly that almost every woman is too attractive for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:27 AM
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This obsession with age on this sub is so weird to me. This is not really all that important past high school and college. I'm 25 and my best friend from work is 40, we're inseparable. We go out all the time, we grab beers after work and tell crazy stories to each other. Before working at this company I did a year playing basketball semi-professionally with about 15 other guys ranging in ages from 17 to 45. We all got along great and did all sorts of crazy shit together. The guy I got along best…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:37 AM
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I assume most men in that situation would give those women a chance but they also would give the 22 year olds a chance. They'd probably just fuck both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:59 PM
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I disagree with that last part. When I know of a guy that is able to sleep around I think highly of him. When I know of a girl that sleeps around I only assume she likes to have sex, it's neither positive nor negative, it's neutral. I already know most women can get laid whenever they want. I don't think less of them but I also don't think better of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:48 PM
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Yeah, but that there are still those who are in good shape that have a good social circle and go out frequently, most people like them and they have good rapport with everyone, but at the end of the night they still go home alone. Or you don't believe these people exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:37 PM
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Something? Sure. Even most guys who call themselves virgins probably had some sexual interaction with a girl at some point, but what is the value of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:31 PM
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Yeah, they have bad facial aesthetics. Stop with this just world fallacy bullshit. The difference between LeBron James making it to the NBA and me not making it isn't just hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:18 PM
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Yeah, but if you have the perfect fat distribution even with a flat chest and a small butt you're still no worse than a 7/10 for 90% of men out there. There is really no equivalent way to improve for men. If you have a below average face, the most you can be for 90% of women is a 7/10, provided you have a great body and aren't a manlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:14 PM
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This is so obviously wrong. Almost everything that makes a woman desirable has to with fat distribution and what makes a men desirable has to do with bone structure. Sure, most men want a big titted blonde that weights 100lbs, but they are mostly ideals. There are no shortage of women that are considered 10/10 with A cups, small asses and are 5'1". There is a path for every woman on earth to become at least a 8/10 of you are not deformed in the face. That's no true for men, most of what makes a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:36 PM
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I agree with OPs point, I was just trying to explain why men feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:25 PM
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That's all true and makes perfect sense. In a world without laws, women still have their pussy power and men have their physical strength. In such a world, women would need to trade access to sex for protection for them and their families. Not perfect, but it'd be fair. In the world we live however, women still get to use their pussy power to make men do things they want but the reverse isn't true - men can't just threaten physical violence to get women to fuck. Couple this we the fact that the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:23 PM
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Men ad a whole are net payers of tax money and women are receivers. I don't need to know more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:12 PM
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It's true that now you are getting the same privileges men have always had (the ability to get a bank account, access to higher education, legally being treated a normal member of society, etc) but you also keep the privileges women have always had over men (the pussy power inherent to being a women) while men for the most part have lost the power they had over women (their physical strength). I'm not saying it was better before, but that's how it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:10 PM
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Women's intuition is myth that only serves to perpetuate the just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:13 PM
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That's because you're comparing by age when you should be comparing by sexual development.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:12 PM
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Triple digit number of hours? You make it sound insane but that's not even a full week.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:19 PM
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Yeah, but that's like saying if men all banded together and withheld and resources they'd be able to get better terms on the sex. Someone always crosses the picket line.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:18 PM
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Why aren't you helping your nephew?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:21 PM
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No dude, women don't want guys who had to learn, they only want the ones who were always naturally great at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:24 AM
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Chemistry is just attraction in another word. Like comparing verbal Intelligence to the g-factor. It's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:39 AM
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This is my experience as well. I never have any trouble going out and making friends and people laugh and all that. Actually translating that into fucking at the end of the night has never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:38 AM
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You're 20 and 18 year olds are "annoying and impressionable"? Tell me you're not one of those virtue signaling fucks that pretends they don't have anything in common with anyone even 1 year younger than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:51 PM
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Yeah, he was awesome in The Good Wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:18 PM
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Yeah, of course, completely agreed. You're gonna (unintentionally I hope) make some women uncomfortable. You're never gonna make your sex life worse by going down on her as often as possible, that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:11 PM
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It's more the fact that everything that makes a woman attractive has to do with fat distribution (which you can change, even if it takes a lot of effort) and everything (almost) to do with man's attractiveness is about bone structure, which you can't really change. I've seen plenty of attractive women with weak chins but not a single man with the same problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:08 PM
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The problem is that what they want is someone who can read their mind. They want someone who know when to be gentle vs rough, attentive vs selfish, etc. They also want someone that can tell when they say "No" they could mean yes or no. Of course, if you guess wrong you're just raping someone and that's no good. In essence they want someone who just "gets it" without having to be told, which is just a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:03 PM
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Yeah, but you can't just make a living being an attractive men, but you can do so as an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:20 PM
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Kobe is my favorite player all time but this is definitely true and has been for a while. At his peak Curry had about as much offensive impact as Jordan and LeBron. Whatever gap exists in individual defense can't overcome this, team defense is way more important anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:52 PM
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Despite what they say, women can't really tell if you have those beliefs. They aren't psychic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:37 PM
3

That's a bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:16 PM
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Being polite and respectful doesn't lead you anywhere, if I had told the truth I'd still be a virgin. My life has gotten exponentially better since clearing that bar (you can't really relate since you've had the ability to clear it from the age of 13). Whenever men whine on this sub about it being harder for them to get laid they're always told it's not women's job to offer them sympathy. I'll say the same thing, it's not my job to worry about her experience. Shit it was literally her first day …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:48 PM
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I lost my virginity by pretending to be way more experienced than I was and she was visibly disappointed afterwards. After the 3rd or 4th time lying about it, they could no longer tell I was that inexperienced. They wouldn't have given me the time of day if I had told the truth (I was 24 at the time).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:02 PM
6

Yeah it's pointless. This sub is basically just for venting, which is fine as long as you don't let it contaminate the rest of your life. Just accept dating isn't fair and that you can't argue people out of their feelings. Maximize what you can and go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:00 PM
10

I don't know what to tell you man, I go a whole day without texting women I'm dating back. It has made them way more needy but it's completely accidental.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:57 AM
15

It's not about the time, it about always having some task to finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:54 AM
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I used to think this too but then I started working and figured out sometimes you really are just busy. Edit: I feel like people are misunderstanding what I'm saying. I obviously have enough time to just answer a text with "Lol", "Ok", "That's neat", etc, that takes 10 secs, but that leads nowhere. If I actually want to engage with what's being said by the other person then I need to spend a bit of uninterrupted time to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:51 AM
6

I don't find women all that variable in personality, at least to the same extent as men. As cool and unique as they seem at first, they all end up showing their neuroticism and need for validation. All this to say, the more homely women aren't materially different from hot women in terms of personality, so it's not at all a consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:25 AM
2

Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:15 PM
2

I am. Lost 10 kgs in the past 3 months, but Rome wasn't built in a day. I'm still gonna try and get laid even just for practicing those social skills for when I'm actually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:12 PM
1

Unfortunately I'm a 5 at best so I go through some extended dry spells. Totally worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:09 PM
4

She was just nasty I know, it was the worst pussy I have ever tasted. I'm not the biggest prize myself, but I thought she looked nice on Tinder, she deceived me with her pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:07 PM
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I thought I didn't have standards until I was about to hookup with a chubby chick and just couldn't get hard. Her pussy also smelled like acid so I couldn't even get her off without almost vomiting twice. Learned i'd rather be single then ever try to fuck someone I'm not attracted to, the only problem is I'm only attracted to hot women (crazy, I know). Oh well 🤷.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:49 PM
1

If Nick isn't that guy then either you're weird or I have no idea what is attractive to a woman, dude is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:25 PM
1

Summer is back baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:08 PM
1

Didn't know that was a rule, could have made a couple of changes and kept the same points. Oh well, thanks for letting me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:48 PM
1

This thread is full of cope. First of all, whatever multiple intelligences you can come up with, be it math, music or language, they all correlate with each other, they all come from the same thing, the g-factor. This g factor, of course, correlates well with social skills. This makes perfect sense, intelligence is nothing more than the ability to solve problems (the more intelligence you have, the faster you can solve those problems and the more complex they can be). It stands to reason that fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:43 PM
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I mean yeah dude, no shit, it's easy when those moments happen because they are nothing more than the girl being attracted to you and giving permission to escalate. Most guys don't get get those IOIs as often, to the point where they might not even recognize them when they (rarely) happen. There's nothing you are doing that's materially different from what the guys complaining are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:10 PM
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I agree with OP overall. The disconnect happens because both are true, dating is both super easy and super hard at different times. Before you know what you're doing, dating and getting laid is almost impossible, it feels like nothing you ever do works, then one lucky experience gives the perspective you were missing and suddenly getting laid is so easy, to the point where you're actually turning down 7+ level women, which you never imagined you would ever do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:51 AM
1

All this can be summed up by: "nobody owes you anything, you're worth what you can leverage". Stop complaining, get leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:46 PM
12

Yeah, obviously. Minefield with light at the end of the tunnel still trumps desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:24 PM
1

I have the same problem, but it's exclusively my fault. If I''m not the active one in sex then my mind just wanders around and I can never nut, be it oral or just being in the bottom position, I need to be the one actually fucking to be able to get off. It's a bit frustrating, like I can't just lose myself and enjoy it. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:05 PM
2

If men had less risk taking behaviors nothing would ever get done in the world, we'd still be living in the middle ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:07 PM
1

Mate how old are you, most people today can look great well into their 50s if the work hard for it. And I don't mean they look great for the age, they just look great period.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:45 AM
2

Yes but learning how to overcome inhibition is also something that comes naturally to some people and is extremely hard for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:46 PM
9

Yep, but they are not more turned on, they just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:15 PM
3

Nah, men's attractiveness is almost entirely dependent on bone structure (height, width, facial features) which is entirely unchangeable. Women's attractiveness is almost entirely weight based, which you can always change. A fit women without any facial deformities is almost always at least an 8 and almost never less than a 7. A men doesn't have access to an equivalent vehicle for self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:59 PM
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I've been on this sub for 3 weeks and I'm already tired of all the n count talk, jfc. She could have fucked 100 guys for all I care, as long as the sex is great I'm content.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:13 PM
2

Took the words out of my mouth. She is better looking, but he could improve further.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:51 PM
2

He looks proportionally taller than 6'. She is a bit prettier, but not much. Both would look great with some work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:50 PM
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Most men are growers, you get no info from a flacid outline.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:37 PM
4

In my experience that's not the case, but if you are correct then those BBs have the right to be frustrated, that's some bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:20 PM
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Nothing wrong with venting but why don't you guys just admit that what you actually want is for them to fuck you out of pity? There's nothing wrong with that, I know several guys, including myself that have done it, but you'll never convince women to reciprocate, it's just not who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:47 PM
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I agree, it's an irrational fear. If she had trains ran on her in college she's not suddenly gonna deny you BJs when she settles in her 30s. Same things about getting the prime years, this ain't the 50s. With modern medicine, nutrition and skin care, most women can look great well into their 40s and even 50s (I don't mean great for their age, I mean actually great).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:44 PM
13

This is the biggest problem men have with AF/BB, they don't want to be treated like second class citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:35 PM
3

Mate if you're under 21 you have you whole life ahead of you, you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:56 AM
1

You'd think that, but I never got laid at a party. I don't try as much today, but back then I used to approach a lot and it never got anywhere, regardless of l how social I was being. Women were just put off by how I look and would have have that look of disgust when I tried to escalate, even if they'd previously been very friendly in platonic conversation. I only basically got laid on tinder, by having a very explicit bio that generated conversation allowing me to showcase my personality. I got…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:14 PM
3

That's what I meant. I got lucky in that regard, I was a very good looking child until puberty and only then got ugly, but that confidence stuck with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:46 PM
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Yeah, but the reason people develop good social skills is by getting many chances, which is easier for good looking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:11 PM
1

I don't understand these posts. The reason is always the same: women can easily find someone else, so they don't value what they have, men can't so they hold on for dear life. It's always supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:58 PM
1

I didn't, went straight to the PurplePill. I enjoy the debates here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:44 PM
1

Don't leave, voices like yours give it counterbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:57 AM
0

I mean they are. There's nothing worse than being a rapist in society's view.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:26 PM
0

I'm gonna take a bit of a left turn here and say that being groped often, raped sometimes and rarely killed is just part of the deal if you're an attractive women. Men historically aren't able to reproduce like women are. The bottom 70% don't get near the sexual satisfaction they crave. Are their feelings taken into consideration? No, they are told to move on, get more attractive or settle for land whales. The reason given is that life ain't fair. I agree with that. One the other hand, if you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:11 PM
1

He doesn't, but it'd interesting to see at what threshold most people would be willing to eat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:58 PM
1

It's basically what kills action for the bottom 80% of guys, if you believe those stats. Casual sex is a mid experience for most women and has the added risk of rape and STIs, making it a net negative in their eyes. If the sex was awesome they'd engage with it more frequently and with more partners and their requirements for how hot you'd have to be would be lower. As it stands, even if they just want release, their choice is basically to attract the top males in the hopes that their status has …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:40 PM
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I should have been more precise. It's not really about getting laid, it's about knowing someone is lusting after you. I would forego sex the rest of my life if it meant a decent amount of women got wet when they saw me walk by on the street, that validation is what men crave and don't get (most women get an endless supply of this, so they can just skip that step and worry strictly about finding a long term partner). The problem is that attraction can't be manufactured, either you're hot or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:59 AM
1

We don't choose to value it above everything else. We're just so horny we can't see straight until that is addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:07 AM
0

I understand what you mean, but I don't think that's equivalent. Women's efforts are fairly straightforward and easy to execute, it's just a to do list, there's no thinking involved. Getting attractive as a male requires you to be able to socially calibrate your actions, you can't just follow a recipe for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:57 AM
1

This is what men fail to understand. You can be the most boring person ever, but if you consistently fuck 9/10s, then you're a 9/10. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:38 AM
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It's hard for me to be friends with women. I'm always talking about about sex, edgy jokes and other degen shit. I'm also very flirty, even with men, but since there's no underlying attraction is much easier to be playfully flirty with them (if I'd do the same thing to women they'd always think I'm hitting on them). Some women say they're fine with it, but I can see them cringe and wince when I say some things. I always end up having to walk on eggshells, which is exhausting. This is only a probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:20 PM
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Ding ding ding. If a dude has his pick of the litter, he can befriend an attractive women without being super horny around due to the simple fact his sexual needs are already addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:46 PM
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What he means is probably his attraction is quite polarized, meaning he finds most women attractive but the ones he doesn't find attractive he finds extremely unattractive. No one like to be in the presence of someone who is not pleasant to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:44 PM
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I didn't take that conclusion from this, I just highlighted it as an example. It's just my experience when going out that there aren't enough chads to fulfill all the sexual demand from the attractive women when I go clubbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:54 PM
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This thread is a good example of why I don't believe the existence of Chads is such a bid deal for average men. There aren't enough chads to satisfy all the hot women, even when accounting for multiple women sleeping with same Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:14 AM
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That's good, looking at those numbers gives a bit more hope, thank you. I guess things are mostly fine for both genders. I was always surprised why we were using numbers from 3 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:22 PM
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I'm starting to get a little pissed at all the whining on this sub. Life is not about fairness, it's about leverage. Deshaun Watson has 22 civil suits pending against him on accusations of sexual assault, he also recently just signed for the most guaranteed money in NFL history. Get yourself some leverage and the pussy will roll in. No one is lees attractive than a whiner fishing for sympathy through self pity, people smell that shit a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:00 AM
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Lol, confidence definitely helps non attractive guys (like myself). It makes us push through the rejection so that at some point after the 150th rejection you'll get some chick to fuck you. Confidence definitely doesn't help you pull Chad numbers, but you were never gonna get that anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:56 AM
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You don't even need to go the famous route, just take all the same men and give them a 9/10 face and suddenly their average game, income, status, conversational skills and other less than pleasant idiosyncrasies won't matter, the guy will get laid. But then again, this is obvious, this only serves to illustrate that men aren't doing anything wrong necessarily, but also aren't doing anything terribly well. Because of women's sexual liberation they all have access to much better options, so you ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:47 PM
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