and what kind of children will two gay men create? a child without motherly love. the biological/emotional/physical connection ONLY a woman can create? the propaganda would tell us its a-okay!
does age of child not factor into any of this? i can understand a newborn or toddler needing more mother time. but does this extend to teenagers as well? also at some point a person is able to spend time with who they choose. a child can choose to stay with one parent for more than whats 'allowed'. unless the ex is a real bitch about it
sucks man. maybe keep a video diary that your kids can watch later in life to understand why you couldnt be there half the time. as younger adults they will understand your angst