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When you plant bombs, and burn buildings to the ground, its not just for show you know. There have been many innocent people killed by the suffragette’s actions - but if you’re taking your sources from front page of google (massively left wing) you’re unlikely to find anything on it. The people that died are not famous, and brushed under carpet but you can find their names. In simons books he lists the names of these people. Also, the suffragettes intended to kill David Lloyd George and bombed h…
/r/MensRights28/12/20 04:23 PM
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They did. Simon is a historian and has this well documented. Infact he has a whole book dedicated to it called "The Suffragette Bombers".
/r/MensRights24/12/20 01:44 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XYzUa3AT5m0&t=26s
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/20 06:28 PM
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Looks like none of you actually watched it then
/r/MGTOW227/06/20 11:17 PM
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Another red pill moment by Warren Farrell in my interview with him about how we DON'T live in a male dominated patriachy but a paradigm of survival. And what can be perceived as privilege is also obligation and sacrifice. Such as agency to fight in wars but the obligation to do so and the sacrifice that comes with it.
/r/MensRights27/06/20 06:19 PM
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Another red pill moment by Warren Farrell in my interview with him about how we DON'T live in a male dominated patriachy but a paradigm of survival. And what can be perceived as privilege is also obligation and sacrifice. Such as agency to fight in wars but the obligation to do so and the sacrifice that comes with it. Watch on YouTube
/r/MensRights27/06/20 06:13 PM
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aha! once you know this, you can pull away from the toxic cobweb of society/and pua and start empowering yourself again
/r/seduction22/01/16 02:42 PM
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Taking action with women is great never lose that, but going out to "approach" girls, and get your result is whats so toxic. It should be a going out to have fun and be fulfilled and when we notice women we spill that fulfillment out to them. Whether they click or not, is not a rejection or a loss. Its an opportunity to co-create and its unconditional. This cannot happen in the current system of going out to "get a result". It's a subtle intention shift but it makes the world of difference.
/r/seduction22/01/16 02:23 PM
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Very easily. You should explore tantra. You can have sex without fucking, you can have orgasm without ejactulation. you can truly be with a woman without "picking her up".
/r/seduction22/01/16 02:20 PM
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For someone that doesnt have many friends and social circle. instead of going out to hunt women, which is what you say when you say "lets go gaming", or "lets go do some pick up", develop your social circle, gon on meetup.com and go to 3 new events every week. Get a bar job, volunteer work, join a sports club or gym, Theres so much you can do.
/r/seduction22/01/16 02:19 PM
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Yes, thanks for the comment. I believe even a 21 yr old can channel hus sexual energy away from the need to "fuck", and into a sexual desire which he can carry forth. bloody hard in a lad society promoting "fucking" and "banging" chicks
/r/seduction19/01/16 10:56 AM
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I think you have to look at what sex really means to you. When you hear the word sex - what do you picture? If sex to you is simply fucking, then you will be needy for it. That's society's image of sex that derives from porn. Its not fucking-sex you need, it's a freedom of sexual energy in your body. Unfortunately we are so conditioned from media, friends, tv, porn that we chase porn sex. Its not that you should curb your desires, but you should be focussing that sexual energy in a better way. R…
/r/seduction19/01/16 10:55 AM
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You are right, I have not gone deep into TM. I can only endorse VIP meditation because it's benefited me massively. Thanks for challenging me and I would of course love to explore TM more extensively
/r/seduction27/08/14 04:21 AM
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exactly. self contained in your own self. without needing anything outside yourself to fulfill you.
/r/seduction04/08/14 08:56 AM
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Thanks for your comment. Our worldview, internal map of reality shapes our experience. It governs how we show up in the world and what we get. Our understanding of the world needs to change for us to be free and grow. So as you mention "emptying the cup", it's about evaluating the current worldview we hold especially in regards to women, and questioning it. for e.g success in pick up is getting laid, getting a result, an outcome. Failure in pick up is not getting laid, not getting a result, not …
/r/seduction04/08/14 07:33 AM
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ha know what you mean. I want to make the shadow work info accessible to everyone's ears.
/r/seduction04/08/14 02:01 AM
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Hey man thanks for your reply. ha I totally hear what your'e saying. Just being autonomous and hugging a tree up a mountain, isn't going to help a horny guy who can't think about anything other than fucking. - i get that. You've only taken on the understanding of half my equation. I say it's autonomy + ACTION. (or detachment from outcome + Desire) I just happened to give you an example earlier of how to free yourself from attachment to outcome. The autonomy/detachment to outcome is the YIN energ…
/r/seduction04/08/14 01:55 AM
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As i said before, it's a complete emancipation from pick up. A complete paradigm shift. Because the way to move from intentionally getting to giving, cannot be achieved whilst in a system grounded in taking & which champions attachment to outcome. Not to mention the fear based language which holds the system together. As an experiment , spend a day where you are 100% outward orientated. Go around and just put your awareness on other people and helping them. It may be simple things such as pat a …
/r/seduction03/08/14 09:28 PM
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Yeh man, really good add ons here.
/r/seduction02/08/14 07:16 PM
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Look into inner bonding work. Anything that gets you to lay down your armour and feel into your vulnerable core. Throughout our lives we've been building this armour around ourselves as a defence mechanism. But Once we let go and surrender, we are able to remove the mask and feel into our true selves. It may be painful but by bringing the adult awareness into the vulnerable self, we slowly start to heal ourselves.
/r/seduction02/08/14 06:37 PM
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"hung up on terminology" "Terminology is Language and language is the symbolic metaphor with which we construct our reality in the world. The way we speak our world creates our world. “As a man thinketh...” says James Allen. We think semantically. So semantics and the terminology we use constructs our reality. Whether you think the words you’re using are effecting you or not, they are. There’s an unconscious intention associated with every word, and its effecting the way you feel and experience …
/r/seduction02/08/14 12:04 AM
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clearly you haven't watched my talk.
/r/seduction01/08/14 10:40 PM
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hey man, yes I really want to go!
/r/seduction01/08/14 10:36 PM
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It was an ayahuasca retreat. This is not for the prime reason of seducing women. It was to explore my own psychology and do deep spiritual surgical work on myself. By working through our own karmic patters, shadow, ego etc, we can clear the pathway to bring out our authentic selves.
/r/seduction01/08/14 10:35 PM
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The definition of an introvert is someone that recharges their batteries on their own. An extrovert is someone that recharges their batteries in the company of other people. For me this does not make a difference to seduction. If you follow the key seduction principles of Autonomy + Intent (desire) plus add into that, emotional intelligence, pulling the trigger, and being well styled, then you can make a huge leap. To improve the giving, you must remove the outcome attachment, whilst maintaining…
/r/seduction01/08/14 10:32 PM
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quite simply, lose the outcome. remove the expectation of a result and revel in the spontaneity and creativity of the moment. make the fun of the moment, the intrinsic motivation, so that you can come away feeling good, even if the girl walks away. I will be uploading a video soon where I make the most fun out of a rainy day.. stay tuned!
/r/seduction01/08/14 10:26 PM
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I agree that a guy that doesn't know what to say to a girl or how to behave, it can be beneficial to give him a structure, however... If you were getting a beer from behind the bar would you "work around the obstacles, approach the bar, get an indicator of availability, transition into the order, work back around the obstacles and re-approach me"? OR would you just get a beer? Guys that get into “game” end up tying themselves in knots, over intellectualising and mechanising everything, exhaustin…
/r/seduction01/08/14 03:48 PM
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I dont have to be close to be in contact. I have many people on facebook, and generally, they won't go anywhere. I jokingly call getting girls on my facebook, (on the "fishbait") because once theyre on there, theyre staying. But apart form the crude joke, it allows me to spark things up when the times right.
/r/seduction01/08/14 03:30 PM
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I missed your question... well, when we see a girl that we desire, and we want to take action with, often the ego/our protection mechanism will kick in, and start throwing up excuses why we shouldn't talk to her, to keep ourselves safe. E.g "she's got headphones on, she's on phone, shes walking into a shop, she's with a guy, she looks moody, she's older/younger than me". Be aware of this monologue, objectify these thoughts and observe them. Once you do this, you can say "ahh thats my programming…
/r/seduction01/08/14 02:48 PM
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Hey man, I have worked with a guy who cleared his stutter. It came down to working on his inner child and working through trauma created from childhood. I'd recommend Inner bondng work. Margaret Paul is a good entry level for this.
/r/seduction01/08/14 02:05 AM
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Yes really good article. I can't help but think he is a former pua though, as some detrimental words slip into his article, such as rejection and approach, (as I've mentioned earlier these are key operational concepts heavily linked to pick up) but other than that great! follow the advice!
/r/seduction01/08/14 01:51 AM
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facebook
/r/seduction01/08/14 12:29 AM
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Well, as much as i want to get my message out there, I speak from the heart and from complete truth and integrity. My motivation is genuinely helping men, and developing them, not making a fast buck. In effect what i teach alienates me from business, because I attack the status quo. The only thing that matters to me, is speaking my truth, even if it pisses people off. My soul can be happy in that
/r/seduction31/07/14 11:26 PM
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As i mentioned before, I do not support PUA's and i'm not a pick up artist. If there was anyone out there I respect, I'd say a guy called John P Morgan, who used to teach seduction but now does more life coaching work. A guy called James Tripp who teaches hypnosis without trance, who can go into more depth about semantics and how we create our realities through the maps we create internally. I also think as more well known guys in industry I'd say closest thing to the truth i've seen came in Mar…
/r/seduction31/07/14 11:21 PM
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well said.
/r/seduction31/07/14 10:29 PM
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yes, and what you're talking about here, about GIVING to women, is subverting the existing pua system. So when i talk about how success occurs outside the community, I bloody mean it. Its a complete paradigm shift. Much the same as I believe in world peace but don't believe in politics. "We don't give, because we fear we will be vulnerable for attack. we have war on the brain and we cannot see the river of love waiting for us on the other side of the battlefield. love is the antidote for the arm…
/r/seduction31/07/14 10:26 PM
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lol
/r/seduction31/07/14 10:21 PM
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being nervous and approach anxiety are two different things.
/r/seduction31/07/14 10:20 PM
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guys i'm pooped! I will slowly answer any residual questions in the next few days. My fingers were going at a rate of knots to keep up with you all. Many thanks to all of you. great questions especially the ones that challenged me. In summary, the main thesis to my work is: learn the key seduction principles NOT the arbitrary techniques. so that you can express from the inside > out. Move from working for a woman to playing with women Projected Desire + Autonomy (Intent + no expectation) Do the …
/r/seduction31/07/14 09:08 PM
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Thanks man. Yeh, and the point I want to hammer home, is there's a massive difference between a community teaching men how to build a cool lifestyle and to express their authentic selves, versus a community teaching lines, techniques and routines to acquire women. That's why I don't believe success can occur within the current pua system. And I apologise if this offends mods, or current members, but i'm speaking my truth and i know what i'm saying can liberate men. if you were baking a cake and …
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:54 PM
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Get on the streets, and in bars and embrace failure, embrace the "rejections". Once you can feel comfortable with the knock backs, you are empowered.
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:50 PM
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Thanks! I did a talk for Saturday Sarge which is still online in 2012, I actually talk about the 3 or 4 defining moments for me in my evolution. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AOiEHCX10xA Here's the summary - emancipation from the community - getting out of forums, stop watching youtube videos and realising that being good with a woman, is not the same as being a pick up artist. learning seduction principles not techniques. Most of the existing techniques are trying to demonstrate artificial "a…
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:43 PM
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Not so much rituals, but its a way of living. There's a great short story you can find on google "learn the cleaning lady's name". It's only a 100 words long or something, and it summarises my way of living. How many of us talk to the old lady at the bus stop for instance? I make this a daily habit - finding the beauty and the story in everyone. That way when the beautiful girl comes along, instead of turning on the charm for her, i extend my charisma which has already become me.
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:31 PM
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YES! Exactly. Having an attachment to an outcome brings about misery and suffering. This is because we often cannot get what we want, even when we get what we want, we cannot hang onto it forever. The law of nature is impermanent ans we can only embrace the chaos and the impermanence. But we live in a world where we look to possess and control and gain security in this insecure world. We attach happiness and fufilment with external elements such as the acquisition of women, with which to fill us…
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:29 PM
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yup. lets look at it this way - you see the beautiful girl, you get the butterflies in your stomach...now instead of feeling that as a desire and being drawn towards her, someone in the industry has labelled it as "anxiety" and now because of that semantic anchor, we are paralysed and need to do a bootcamp to destroy it!
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:24 PM
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...Approach Anxiety Heres another bastard key operational concept in pickup. I’ve seen some slightly more evolved pickup coaches adapting this concept to “approach excitement”. This at least is a more positive reframe on the sensation in the body that arises, however it is still flawed. Here's why.... Another saying for approach anxiety is “attachment to outcome fixation”, or "fear of failure". Youre looking to take, whether its taking safety, comfort, validation, her number, her beauty, sex, a …
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:16 PM
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Take a moment and lets do this exercise. I want you to feel into the word APPROACH. Feel it in your body as a vibration, let your body fill with that sensation. Let me guide you further, “There’s the hot girl, you have to DO your APPROACH”. Take a moment to let any feelings come up naturally. Now say out loud or write down those feelings that come up. You get the energy for “approach”. What is that energy? It’s a feeling of uncertainty and caution isn’t it. There’s a sense of sensitivity. You ap…
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:09 PM
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Firstly I am anything but beating on men. I'm beating on the command and conquer attitude we have developed in this existing community. I don't agree that women that dress in mini-skirts is masculine, or shit testing is masculine. Often this is a form of flirting and a precursor to sex. I do agree that their needs to be a certain polarisation of masculine and feminine for there to be attraction. A lot of women have made themselves more masculine; I used to coach women and had to take them out to…
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:07 PM
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FILLING THE HOLE OR FEELING WHOLE? This is my key principle of AUTONOMY. Another word for this is self containment, self containment in ones own self. He is full and does not need anything else to fill him. Its is the difference between FEELING WHOLE and FILLING THE HOLE. Pick up is the opposite - it's neediness where we must acquire the woman to fill us and balance us, much like a heroin addict needs a hit of smack to feel balanced. but it's superficial and does not last. There is a simple line…
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:57 PM
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sure! Well, a good little tip is to become a social artist. So what I mean is, instead of being a pick up artist, and only myopically focussing on girls - widen your awareness on the environment and everyone in it. So when I go out and see a crowd of people, I do not think "where's my target", I think "wow there's a huge pool of potential here - possible friends, lovers, business opportunities, collaborations etc" I interact with this intention and give my attention to everyone equally. In Socie…
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:50 PM
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Be hungry for fun and have a desire to connect with as many people as possible. Do a bar job, join a sports club, that will supercharge your social life. Also, in your first year, go out as much as possible. If I could give myself one bit of advice for my first year at college, i'd say "don't pass up any opportunity to go out"
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:42 PM
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If you think i'm a pick up guy, or think i'm teaching anything pick up related, you are very much mistaken. You cannot "transcend" the game, if you still use the existing language. Those words are the glue that holds that system together and that system is grounded in TAKING. It is like trying to get fit running on a treadmill whilst throwing donuts into your mouth. If you want to transcend "game" but say " lets approach that set, working around the obstacle", then you're still operating within …
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:32 PM
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The more self awareness work I do, the more I realise that the need to conquer women/get the bed post numbers up, is NOT a show of masculine strength. It's actually a show of weakness and coming from the damaged masculine. Picking up chicks is just a compensation behaviour for avoiding our inner child/inner wounding. Throughout childhood and adolescence our wounded self - learns various ways to attempt to have control over acquiring pleasures and avoiding the actual pain. Many adolescent boys, a…
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:25 PM
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Thanks man! My message is about reaching a place of inner-autonomy, non-objectification of women, and unconditional giving, through creation not manipulation. But it's funny how many people's backs I get up by saying this. So appreciate your nice feedback. I would say in the past, I was pushed to the periphery as the high energy, dancefloor guy. A lot of what I said, was not-integrated, as I'm questioning the status quo and of course people's existing paradigms. I see no problem with Tinder so l…
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:18 PM
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How we show up in the world is largely dictated by the experience we are creating for ourselves, through our primary understandings of things. We walk around, carrying our world view with us. The way we make sense of things, will subtly shape experience, change our energy and how we show up. The words we choose to use are conceptual anchors, they connect us to concepts. Each concept has a certain energy to it and works in a particular way. We feel it in our bodies as an energy/vibration. It eith…
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:08 PM
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Actually I disagree. This is where the community have it wrong. As I said in my opening blurb... In Pick up the core motivation is the acquisition of women - it's hard-coded into the DNA of pickup. Whether you choose a mechanical methodology using routines & scripts or follow natural game principles, you are still operating from this core motivation of 'taking'. The problem with this, is that if you go out with the sole intention to TAKE, and you are unsuccessful in taking, you face all the pick…
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:04 PM
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someone asked how many girls i'd slept with... i think it got deleted but here's my answer ha! A lot of people ask "what's your number John?" As if this is the barometer to how good someone is with women. When someone tells you they've slept with 100's of women, ask them this question "how many of those women are you still in contact with?" And then see what that golden number that is. That's a true test of how good they are with women. Slept with 150 women but none would answer your call and ch…
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:00 PM
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This is because there is no "intent" in your conversations, or "desire". Once I have manifested an intent/desire, I can shut the hell up and be silent, and it's the most powerful part of the conversation. Often Seduction happens between the words not during the words. Conversely, if there is no intent, and the mechanics of the words, is the only thing keeping the conversation going, then it doesn't fall back on the resonance of desire. it falls back into nothingness, which can be awkward, and so…
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:53 PM
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Someone who is empty TAKES, and someone that is full GIVES. Giving doesnt mean buying a girl a drink in a bar, or buying her flowers. That is actually TAKING, as your desired outcome is to wear her down, by stacking credits so she will give you a pity fuck at the end of the night. I can still mechanically TAKE a girl by the hand, but my intention is on her and her experience, and it's a creation WITH her. This then is intentionally GIVING. To foster the giving energy, let it be unconditional, go…
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:50 PM
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When i say goddess, I'm not referring to a woman sitting on a cloud firing thunderbolts at me. And I'm also not saying she is in anyway "above me". I'm talking about seeing the significance of them as autonomous yet sharing beings capable of, healing, nurturing and facilitating the planet. As opposed to objectifying them as some empty vessel we must pump, which is how they are being seen in existing paradigms. Also, if we see ourselves as beggars, then calling a woman a goddess would be putting …
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:45 PM
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i'm a REDDIT virgin!
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:42 PM
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1.The videos are not deleted, they are on private, because I am in the process of becoming an autonomous brand. I will re-upload the best ones to my channel https://www.youtube.com/user/johnnycoops. so SUBSCRIBE! ;) 2.Approach anxiety is not real, it is a meme which has emerged through the pick up industry that falsely holds men down into a certain emotional, physical, psychological and mental state, and then only the pick up companies products can magically resolve this, thus creating a cash-fl…
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:37 PM
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Ok guys, I've been told I can start answering questions straight away. I'm new to AMA and reddit, and didn't realise I can start answering the moment i posted the thread! So off we go....
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:32 PM
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I was told i was starting at 12pm PST? which is in 45 mins...
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:16 PM
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hey guys
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:15 PM
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i'm all for improvement of men, however improvement cannot be made whilst in pick up. I don't see whats contradictory about my post. Theres a difference between being good with women and being pick up artist. At first i thought it was the same thing. But it really isn't.
/r/seduction31/07/14 12:12 PM
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im shocked at these messages!!! "he could've done better, not effective, not genuine"... its a viral video, a prank, a goof, a bit of fun, taking the piss...
/r/seduction28/07/14 04:15 AM
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Talking to a woman shouldnt be seen as a hobby. It should be integrated into your daily life. If your logic was correct about using these words to simply abbreviate a normal action, then do you say "I opened my mum in the kitchen" ? Of course you don't.
/r/seduction27/07/14 09:20 PM
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it's meant to be a bit of light-hearted fun, not serious pick up! sometimes we forget to just play and be free.
/r/seduction27/07/14 02:50 PM
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Thanks for your feedback. I have no problem with "taking" action with a woman, ie "taking" her by the hand, "taking" her up to the bedroom, "taking" her face and pulling her into a kiss BUT, you miss the point - this is just the mechanical action, the INTENTION is giving. Giving means, putting your consciousness on her, creating, sharing, building together. this cannot happen in pick up because the emphasis is on acquisition of women.
/r/seduction27/07/14 02:51 AM
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Thanks for your feedback. I am posting, because I am liberating men from the pick up illusion. you may not see it now, but pick up is not the same as being good with women. We are tricked into thinking it's the same thing. But it’s not. A woman isn't a ‘Target’, nor is a group of girls a ‘Set’. Just because we interact with a woman, does NOT mean it's an ‘Approach’, If we swap numbers, it's not a ‘Number close’. This is just the language of “The Game". We've been playing this ‘game’ for so long …
/r/seduction27/07/14 02:48 AM
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Thanks for your feedback. i dont hate nerds, neither do I hate little boy strategy games, but I do hate it when it applies to the acquisition of women.
/r/seduction27/07/14 02:46 AM
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well Omarm, what youre talking about is give and receive. you may take a girl by tha hand and lead her to the bedroom, but youre consciousness is on her and her experience which is the intention of giving. In pick up the consciousness is that of taking.
/r/seduction26/07/14 03:11 AM
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If your "game" was so tight you wouldnt be on a seduction forum on a friday night
/r/seduction26/07/14 03:07 AM
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In Pick up the core motivation is the acquisition of women - it's hard-coded into the DNA of pickup. Whether you choose a mechanical methodology using routines & scripts or follow natural game principles, you are still operating from this core motivation of 'taking'. The problem with this, is that if you go out with the sole intention to TAKE, and you are unsuccessful in taking, you face all the pickup symptoms such as Rejection, Blow outs, Approach Anxiety and so on. Solutions are formed to des…
/r/seduction26/07/14 02:57 AM
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use kisses sparingly. but its totally fine to use them. deliebrately not using kisses when you want to is actually you trying to demonstrate non-neediness, but its a paradox because that very action of worrying what she'll think is needy
/r/seduction09/07/14 12:54 PM
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fear is low vibrations. love is high vibrations.
/r/seduction06/01/14 05:36 PM
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i wanna help you. i'll offer you a free 15 min skype as a present if you like? email me [email protected]
/r/seduction26/11/13 06:13 AM
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im new!! i fucked up the titling didn't i!
/r/seduction26/08/13 10:48 PM
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I used to wonder why it was that I would get more female attention when I had girlfriends, despite not disclosing this information. I used to consider this an unexplained phenomenon. The very nature of “game” and the language that supports it heaps all expectation on the result with the girl. But this is what we are meant to do, right? We want the girl, after all, and that should be the only outcome we desire. WRONG! This is what is destroying guys, in no uncertain terms. By putting all your egg…
/r/seduction26/08/13 09:56 PM
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thats the only type of pick up that works
/r/seduction21/08/13 09:28 PM
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