johnzgarcia Archive

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2	How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place? No such thing as stupid questions bro Generally I always pick them up for a first date, this puts them in my car already. A lot of the first dates that lead to quick hookups will be later at night. I always go for a late night cruise, food, outdoor exploring vibe. The most recent one was in a city I hadn’t been to in a while, so I asked if she had any spots she liked to see around sunset. We went, walked around, talked, made jokes, held hands, left to get food after, and everything else that I m…	/r/seduction	20/04/26 02:27 AM
3	How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place? I’d avoid asking anything that has a sexual connotation to it like “hey wanna get in the back?” before any physical or sexual escalation has happened. It’ll just be awkward. Escalation happens naturally, hold her hand, hold eye contact, make something a fun challenge and the winner/loser has to kiss the other, it’s easy if she’s into you. Once you get to kissing, making out is the next part that gets heated. I always do a soft throat grab/hold when kissing and gentle hair pulling from the sectio…	/r/seduction	20/04/26 02:12 AM
3	How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place? You don’t “bring up” the idea. It’s something that’s already in the air when it’s getting physically/sexually escalated. Once you start making out and she starts getting turned on and hands start exploring, my most recent time I asked if she wanted to cuddle in the back after making out for a while and I felt she was soaked through her sweats lol. She hesitated for a second, I said “not even to be freaky or anything I just want to be closer to you” she said yes. I genuinely didn’t care if we did…	/r/seduction	20/04/26 02:06 AM
1	I suck at small talk post match I started recently just teasing and asking questions and not really caring too much what I say, so far it’s better conversations. I will say though the girls I’ve matched with I wouldn’t take out on any dates and not that they’re completely ugly or I wouldn’t touch them, they’re just not my type and I’m using the apps as a form of improvement rather than trying to constantly get laid from every match.	/r/seduction	12/02/26 11:51 PM
4	What's the most women you've had in your roster at any given time? When I had one for a while it was 3. I found 2 to 3 is the sweet spot when you actually want a roster, just depending on how much time you have to spend. Anything over 3 is a massive headache imo.	/r/seduction	09/02/26 07:00 AM
5	is this even possible ? I had a friend who would boast about these types of stories a ton. I thought it was complete BS until one day he showed me a picture of what looked like a selfie of himself using the Snapchat “girl version” filter (what you would look like if you were the opposite gender) I laughed my ass off and teased him about it every second I could because that dude would sleep with anything that breathed. He may have 50+ bodies or 1,000+ bodies but that doesn’t mean anything if all of them are 2/10s imo.	/r/seduction	02/02/26 02:11 AM
1	Online dating is bs I stopped blocking off my day to go out of my for a date, it’s always something I invite them to join me on. If it’s a coffee shop, I always go to one on my off days and work on my laptop either editing videos or pictures so I’m going to be there regardless. Lowers pressure on both sides, if she flakes you’re gonna be there anyway and she’ll feel less like “this is going out of my way”-ish	/r/seduction	20/04/25 03:36 PM
10	How can i "dgaf" about aproaches Switch your thought from, “I really want this girl to like me.” to “I want to have a conversation with this person to see if I like them enough to give them my contact info”	/r/seduction	20/03/25 07:46 PM
224	Best way to find horny, hedonistic women? Underrated #5	/r/seduction	10/03/25 06:50 PM
1	Do you pay on the first date? Always pay for the first date, I always do coffee or something low cost like frozen yogurt, boba tea, etc. I generally visit coffee shops a ton even though I’m not an avid coffee drinker myself (or drinker in general) I know good spots with good atmosphere and proximity for other activities if the date goes well I can easily turn it into an all day date if I wanted to. I know a few magic/card tricks so I can make any setting fun/interesting when I have them on me and play card games too. If she …	/r/seduction	08/01/25 09:29 PM
1	Should I give it a shot? Just shoot your shot, I’ve DM’d a girl and it doesn’t get opened and other times it got read and we continued talking afterwards. Never know if you don’t do it in the first place.	/r/seduction	08/01/25 03:02 AM
5	What are some of your go-to witty remarks? I’m laughing so hard at how funny some of these are	/r/seduction	02/11/24 07:47 PM
1	Quick Tip: Scheduling a Date, How to Tell if She’s Not Interested When I ask any girl out on a date, I generally name a time/date and place. More of a “I’m going to be here if you’d like to join me.” type of thing. I always work it around something that I’m actually going to be doing so it really has 0 impact on my day if they show or not. For example: on Sundays I tend to go a car meet in the morning and visit a coffee shop afterwards to edit pictures I took or plan out my week, so I’ll set the date a few days beforehand “Let’s get coffee I know this really n…	/r/seduction	23/10/24 02:49 AM